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Hmm. Never heard this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:54 PM
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All the fellas know the gayest thing a man can do is love a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:48 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:46 PM
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I see your point. Evolutionary biology and all that. Still doesn't excuse using people. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:42 AM
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I understand that. Sex is different for different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:35 AM
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These dudes all sound like massive narcissistic assholes, why the fuck would you want to be like that? Jesus fucking christ
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:05 AM
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Having no strings attached sex with countless women sounds great, if you're lacking sex and wanting it. Having emotionally empty sex with strangers you don't care about sounds exhausting and depressing if you're looking to invest yourself in a relationship and form a meaningful connection with someone who will truly care for you, for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:02 AM
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Jesus fuck, red pill content can be so destructive. You realize half of these manosphere fucks are just tearing down your self esteem so they can sell you bullshit supplements, self improvement courses and boot camp masculinity retreats? They are capitalizing on men at their most vulnerable. I almost tripped into the manosphere redpill rabbithole in the first couple of years after my divorce. Thank God I have a sister with her head on straight to keep me from getting brainwashed by this shit. By…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:16 PM
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Aww. Sorry for your shitty high school experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:59 AM
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Hmm. Let me put it this way. If I was single and lonely, and dating, and was offered intimacy from a woman I was attracted to, I would probably oblige, if only just to see how it was and to enjoy the moment. But if I was emotionally invested at all, I would probably hold off, at least for the first date, even if we both wanted it. I've done this. It was actually super hot, lol. The problem for most guys I think is, the longer we go without sex, the more desperate for that physical connection and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:07 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:36 PM
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40m here. Did the casual sex thing, it was massively underwhelming. Nothing beats making love with someone who is making love with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 07:28 PM
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Should've known half of this thread would be an incredible waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:52 AM
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Crazy. I've had very little success with apps but all of my relationships have been through mutual friends, school and work, and have all started as flirty friendships first
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:05 PM
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How many of these women are potential candidates for a relationship? Having meaningless sex with a bunch of forgettable randos isn't every single guy's dream
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:58 PM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:31 PM
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All I'm saying is, desperation is far more reasonable on the part of a starving man, as opposed to a glutton. But yes, they are both misguided
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 10:42 AM
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..........fuck. feeling more than a little called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:22 AM
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I don't think this is a fair comparison. The sexless man is starving for affection and validation, and love. The obese person is already living a life of overconsumption. The parallel is they are using an external object to try and meet an internal need. The metaphor would make more sense if the obese person was starving and dumpster diving, or if the man chasing women was already drowning in pussy but can never get enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:16 AM
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I mean....the point of chasing women is either to get a lot of sex or find a partner and hopefully build a life together. I think one of those endeavors is a lot emptier and more unfulfilling than the other one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:12 AM
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The brain chemistry of being in love literally dampens activity in the executive functioning centers of the brain related to risk assessment. We have to be stupidly optimistic to make babies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:50 AM
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You can disagree with someone without being an asshole. There's a middle ground and that's where the good man is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:14 PM
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I think this is the right idea. Just send out your good time vibes to the universe and see who nibbles
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:21 AM
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Bjngo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:19 AM
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You're practically both saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:36 AM
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Sorry you got abused and cheated on. We 5'5 and under dudes do not claim him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:41 AM
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Advice like this sells books and self improvement courses and retreats. Check out HealthyGamerGG on YouTube. Look at who are the married dudes you see at grocery stores, the malls, the parks. Average dudes, married with kids. Be emotionally available. Connect emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:39 AM
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I watched a bunch of healthygamerGG videos on this earlier today. He said basically this, and not to treat women's preferences as a monolith, and to take time to emotionally process, and question your assumptions so that you don't give up before you even start
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:19 AM
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Lovely 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:16 AM
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Why on earth would you want someone to be with you just because you conform to their idea of who you should be? They're not even wanting you, but some image
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:19 PM
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I had a brief fling recently thanks to this. Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine she would ever reciprocate my feelings but after a while she did
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:20 AM
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I love this. So insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:15 AM
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Emotional avoidance, or maybe fear of intimacy. I was the avoidant man in a long term relationship. I felt trapped, I felt like I had to agree with everything my ex wanted or she would leave, I felt like nothing I ever did was enough. I asked what she wanted and when I did it she wasn't happy because she felt like it was forced. I went along with all her plans and agreed with everything she wanted even if it wasn't what I wanted, even if I knew it was a bad idea, or just wrong for me. After I be…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:17 PM
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Reading your comment, I just now realized I incorrectly assumed OP was specifically talking about online dating. I agree with everything you said. Also funny you should say you're sure there's FWB situations where the man wants a relationship but the woman isn't ready cuz I'm living that right now 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:19 AM
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Of course people act in their own self interest. We are talking about online dating, and OP is saying it sucks because men are thirsty. The simplest conclusion to me here is that she is saying, if more men exerted some self control and stopped using apps to try and lock down their next booty call, it would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:09 AM
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I think the point being made is that average men are ruining their chances and turning women off of OLD by trying to turn conversations sexual too quickly and in an awkward way. When a woman repeatedly experiences unwanted or ungrateful sexual advances it is very understandable that she would lose patience
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:23 PM
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Let's have some accountability here. How many women do you see complaining about men making online convos sexual within the 1st or 2nd time talking, and what a turnoff it is? If I am a rich dude trying to weed out the gold diggers, every single time a woman asks me my job or my income level or mentions that she's high maintenance, wants to build an empire or go on adventures, my detector is gonna ping and I'm gonna lose interest. I don't understand why we blame women for wanting sex from attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:19 PM
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What kind of satisfaction do you get being an absolute knob, entering into bad faith arguments with strangers online who absolutely don't care about you? Like dude, the culture is fucked for sure and guys have it rough, okay. But hating women is not gonna get any of them to like you, if you can imagine Every single post I see on this sub is the same. Even posts with genuine questions worthy of earnest debate get dogpiles of woman hating vitriole. It's exhausting. There is absolutely a problem in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:46 PM
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You're wasting your energy. These guys just wanna be butthurt and have a circle jerk over it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 06:30 PM
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Well until men can become pregnant and bear children, or agree to be stay at home dads and let their women be the breadwinner, this discrepancy will persist
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:50 PM
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Glad to hear this being acknowledged. I've often wondered if being raised by a single mom socialized me in a way that repels women lol. I dunno. Probably not, maybe it helped. But I definitely am not a super masculine guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:15 AM
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This thread is fucking depressing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:18 PM
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I think you must be a Casanova in disguise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:03 PM
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This is a great point. I hardly ever hear volunteering or community events
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:02 PM
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A lot of the threads in this sub quickly degenerate into each side throwing vitriol at the other. I'm saying, following with what each of the two replies above mine said, that it is the culture in north America that is the problem, and it is getting worse thanks to social media
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:02 PM
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It's almost like it's the culture that's the problem and not one single gender? I wish we could all see that and stop hating the other side. Why is every single issue in North American culture now some battle line drawn in the sand? Everything is so contentious and divisive. It really makes you wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:02 AM
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The sexism and hate towards women in here is almost comical. I don't even know why I engage with this sub at all I will say, while the toxic engagement bait content for both genders is silly AF, I find it very problematic that this stuff is out there at all because people who are exposed to it will get influenced by it, even ever so slightly - especially if they are repeatedly exposed over time, and engage with others who feel the same. It's almost like extremist radicalization. Each side is bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:59 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:53 AM
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Thank you. I think I am a kind person. But I am also conflict avoidant. I probably have low self esteem and am very hard on myself. I do nice things because it feels good, and I feel good about myself when other people are nice to me, and also when someone I care about is facing hardship I want to help. If I have been disrespected I withdraw my kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:14 PM
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Mmm, yes. I feel pretty confident in my ability to do that. Had pretty good success so far. I'm more passive, submissive and conflict avoidant than a lot of other people. People pleaser. Dunno how much that has to do with my mom hating men though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:30 PM
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Ahhh, that would be nice 😅 Well, I'm not so worried about being rejected, more anxious about being seen as a creep or having a woman think I'm only interested in her for sex. Mostly done okay so far in that regard, I think. But I definitely suppress the sexual part of myself in some sense because of that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:17 PM
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I was raised by a single mom who complained to me about how pushy men were with sex and how they were so violent and stupid. So take a big fat guess as to what kind of man I thought I should become 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:51 PM
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Nice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:57 PM
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Hey, thanks man. Is your username in reference to the DBZ by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:56 AM
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I hate approaching women in bars because it doesn't feel natural. What is there to talk about to break the ice? "Oh, you're here to meet new people too?" I fucking hate socializing in bars. It's so forced. And 90% of the people there are people I'm not interested in talking to anyway Approaching in public seems so much more natural, there's so much more to observe and comment on. I literally made a connection with a woman when my kid and hers started playing together at the pool. She's like, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:02 AM
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well, people have different motivations for getting into relationships. their level of desire and perceived range of options will dictate where their standards lie in terms of what they will accept as far as appearance and treatment go. and then we can get into attachment types and behavior patterns learned from childhood. people usually go for a partner who reminds them of their opposite sex parent, usually. but yes you are right, it would be crushing to me to discover that my partner wasn't ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:57 AM
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I think the thing is, most guys (and every guy struggling to find a partner) secretly wants to be that guy that all the women want to immediately drop their panties for. it's very validating. not getting any sexual attention at all can make someone feel practically invisible. A lot of guys have never experienced unwanted sexual attention. It's not fun. So when you're not getting any love, or any sex, or even any attention, and even worse, all you ARE getting is rejection, it is very difficult. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:12 AM
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dude here. very well said. if dudes understood that the majority of sexual attention women receive is usually unwanted, it might help them to understand why a guy gushing over how hot she is isn't very flattering in her eyes, unless he already knows and appreciates her in other ways, and is emotionally invested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:56 AM
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Both things are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:54 AM
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Very well said. I will just add, if we're going to generalize, basically all each gender really wants is someone who is attractive and charming, funny and fun to be around, helpful and supportive, dependable, genuine and sincere, has integrity, cares about them and themselves, has a good family, is generally well liked, and more or less has their shit together. Nice guys tend to be lower status in a group, because they are people pleasing to compensate for their lack of self-worth/confidence. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:44 AM
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Is this just a woman hating sub now? Or am I only getting suggested these threads because they get the most engagement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:22 AM
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The lesbian/straight/gay DV study was already discussed somewhere on this sub. There was no specification about whether the DV was occurring in that specific relationship, or had been experienced prior to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:13 AM
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What even is the point of this entire thread? "Nobody is allowed to flippantly state that 'husbands being lazy about the housework is probably the reason why more divorces are initiated by women!'" ....kay?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:10 AM
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I read somewhere "boys don't want love unless it's complicated" or smth along those lines. Sadly I might fall into this category
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:23 PM
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Brilliant. Very well said 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:18 PM
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right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:10 AM
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A friend of mine was a bartender. She told me about a time when one of her coworkers was hit on by a very well known male celebrity actor. He said, "Hey baby, wanna spend the day with (referred to himself in 3rd person)?" She told him to kick rocks. Have high status and be a celebrity all you want, for some women who care about that it will work, for those who don't it won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:58 AM
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hmm. i wonder if both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:50 AM
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what's the acronym for GOALS again? Gradual, Achievable, Over time, Length, Stick to it? lol I think realistic is supposed to be in there somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:44 AM
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Women aren't a monolith. The ones putting on the song and dance about looking for a good and kind man aren't the ones going to the VIP section after a rap concert, they're the average decent people looking for the same in their counterpart. I try to be a good and kind man, too - I am not interested in investing in the women who go backstage after rap concerts, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:39 AM
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"Most of those things are unknown for men until you're doing them." Fuck that line hit hard lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:40 AM
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Do you also feel bad for the women from poorer countries who marry westerners? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:12 AM
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I mean, I was in a relationship for 12yrs, got married and had a kid, so I'm not completely lost, but the 7yrs since my divorce have been rough in different ways and for different reasons. My last hookup was 4yrs ago and it left me feeling so empty I decided I needed to figure out my shit and get right with myself before asking anyone else to share in my life. So...that hasn't been going so great lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:26 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:23 AM
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I gave up almost 4yrs ago but I'm slowly dying inside lol yaayyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:19 AM
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Everything you said is correct. I'm curious as to why you feel it's difficult to lie to people, and what connection this has to your autism? I also hate lying. And I've wondered for years if I have ADHD in some form. And I've also heard apparently ADHD can almost be like an "autism lite".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:17 AM
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Plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:32 AM
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Ditto. Never really been approached by anyone I fancied myself, maybe twice in my entire life. Them's the breaks I guess. Speaking to women approaching specifically, I think many of them don't already do it, but the question is whether this is due to the cultural norm or whether they are more fearful of rejection than men are (trying to not sound sexist, just asking questions). Speaking as a man who hates rejection, I throw my hail marys at the ones who, if I got lucky with the 1/100 chance they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:17 AM
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Dude here, same. I don't date for its own sake but for the person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:17 AM
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Well said. Also, divorce rates can be due to differing causes in different cultures/regions/groups
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:16 PM
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Believe it or not there's a middle ground between being platonic and objectifying womens' sexuality, it involves signaling your romantic interest in subtle ways that respect her person and allow her opportunities to respond in kind WHILE acknowledging that she is a unique human being with a beautiful mind that is also worthy of your attention. Jesus fucking christ bro it's really not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:01 AM
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The entire concept of alpha is stupid. Looking at relationships as transactional is a guaranteed path to unhappiness. Everyone wants to feel special and be appreciated for who they are on some level. People should be able to get their needs met safely and consensually and legally. Unfortunately a person's sexual attractiveness and ability to attract a mate are still huge contributors to how we evaluate each other, and if someone pays for it the implication is they needed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:51 PM
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Lol? Cuz it's true? I'm 40m divorced 7yrs ago, I fell down the redpill hatehole for about a year. It has some interesting ideas in the academic/sociological sense, but on its own it doesn't capture the entire truth of anything and it is essentially a very cynical and utilitarian view of human relationships that can quickly lead hurt people to become bitter. It's poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:14 PM
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A lot of redpill ideology is thinly veiled hatred against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:43 AM
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Whew
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 08:01 AM
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Man, I am on a fucking ROLL unsubbing tonight, this one's like number 7
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:37 AM
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Fair point for sure
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:04 AM
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I wonder if "how do you like my melons?" would fare any better. Probably not.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:03 AM
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Honestly 99% of bar convo is entirely kissable anyway
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:01 AM
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I've stated before that chatting up women at grocery stores can totally work. Honestly I doubt it lol
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:00 AM
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Honestly I'm not sure it's such a big deal necessarily, I think for some people it can work. But I don't think it's for me, at least not for a serious relationship.
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:10 AM
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I'm 37 and I had a 21yo chick ask for my socials. I never took her up on it though, I was in the early days of a pretty big rut I'm still digging my way out of. But the age difference made me feel a little strange.
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:47 PM
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Fr she sounds like a real loser
/r/seduction14/03/22 10:18 PM
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You made your point well and it's valid, that other one was being purposely obtuse. Is it still "purge week" or wtv the fuck nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:18 AM
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You don't need to be attractive to almost everyone. You only need to be attractive to some. I think what you said was very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:26 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:42 PM
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Ooo...I like that. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:36 PM
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I agree I think they're both slightly above average
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:35 PM
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That's cool and all, but at the end of the day demonizing women isn't gonna get you anywhere, accept "female nature" for what it is and carry on with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:01 PM
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There's a middle path, it involves recognizing women have their own motivations and expectations and their reasons behind them are legitimate, and also not worshipping them. You can advocate for men's rights without demonizing women, and the same goes for women. There are toxic shitty people in both genders, and toxic aspects of modern feminism and mgtow type stuff. But there's valuable ideas there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:42 PM
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No, I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:46 PM
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The post insulting women had dudes telling a woman who got pissed off about it telling her to learn how to take a joke. This post, insulting men, has dudes getting salty about it. I do agree with you, the salty hypocrisy of red pilled mentality is undeniable when you see two posts like that one after the other. While the basic beliefs of that mentality may or may not be toxic (I think it has some truth to it but it is fundamentally toxic and harmful) a lot of bitter angry guys latch onto red pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:45 PM
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You see how fucking quick that flipped. LOL. POINTLESS. I just finished with another post someone put about roast beef pussy lips and dudes were all up in arms like "why can't women take a joke" or some equally garbage take. Then you have this, literally identical content but flipped. "Unless you're top 10% all women see you this way" bruh stfu. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:34 AM
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Dude... I sincerely hope you get better. You really sound miserable. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:02 AM
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Your opinion is completely worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:02 AM
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I just wanna know what the top right pic is, on the beach? Like...I can't figure the scale based on the waves, it looks fucking monstrous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:47 AM
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Your point is lost on these types. Your effort is commendable but you're fighting an impossible battle. I've got a burn scar on my chest and I've never heard any complaints about it. But if a woman ever showed any kind of negative reaction to it during an intimate encounter she would be ruling herself out immediately. It wouldn't necessarily create insecurity in me. This type of behavior could certainly create insecurity in many women, understandably so, you are absolutely correct. I would sugge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:44 AM
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You are literally wasting your breath. There is nothing to be gained from engaging with people with this garbage mentality. I only got about 4 comments deep before I just couldn't take it anymore lol. Really close to dropping this whole sub because the shit is so fucking toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:30 AM
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I mean I'm a simple man Worship maybe is going too far but hey if they wanna I'm not gonna stop them and I could probably get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:44 PM
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Passing on your genes is pretty important to some people. If you don't want a relationship what are you complaining about? Stay alone and jerk off the rest of your life or hire prostitutes, like who cares dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:21 PM
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It was a lost cause from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:16 PM
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Jesus christ reading that was painful. shudders I'm realizing more and more that these "pill" discussions around these issues are mostly a waste of time and poisoning my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:12 PM
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You're getting the relationship and hopefully a decent mother to your children. Guys do the same thing, we fuck women all the time that we would never consider a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:53 PM
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Hallelujer praise the lawd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:37 PM
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I want to have a beautiful doting stay at home wife to manage my household and raise my children while I support them. I also would love to have a harem of the 200 most beautiful women in the world to have my pick of every night. But I'll never say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:10 PM
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We're all scrambling around clucking about sex, when all we really want is love from someone that feels special. Also sex. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:59 AM
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While I can really strongly relate to a lot of what you are saying, there is an important difference. The women you were lusted after in college were presumably friends first, therefore you had an established friendship of sorts, and you had time to invest emotionally in that desire. Did you just want to bang their brains out? Or were you hoping for that and to be together? As we grow into adulthood our social circles typically get smaller and the probability of becoming isolated increases. With…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:57 AM
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They are abusing themselves with the incel mentality to begin with. If you don't love yourself, any relationship you get into is doomed to failure. If you don't have a healthy relationship with yourself, you won't know how to receive and give love to your partner. That whole chain of comments above was so unbearably toxic, my god. It's kinda tragic really
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:44 AM
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Sounds like you've got your head in the right place. It appeals to people who want the prize partner. If my partner is desired by many others, they are high value and so, very appealing. Hot and cold games are manipulations that ensnare the less aware, and we are all susceptible to subtly changing in order to try and influence others to like us. I'm not saying it's right, but this is how it seems to work for many. This is my best guess anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:37 AM
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I would love to hear how you turned that around, if you don't mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:29 AM
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It's definitely a trait type thing. But you may find once you lose your virginity you feel differently. And that's okay too. No worries about the divorce man, as they say no good marriage ends in divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:11 AM
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I am 37, 4 years divorced, and I think I'm coming to this realization about myself as well. Casual sex is boring. When you've had mind blowing lovemaking with someone you are deeply in love with, casual sex feels like fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:24 AM
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People don't like to think about this because they love to blame others for their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 01:23 AM
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Open and honest communication, giving the benefit of the doubt, and taking a risk. Just be honest with her, and yourself, about why you have this preference and how much it matters to you. And just make smart choices about where you meet women. Avoid places where people go seeking casual sex (apps, bars, sex clubs?) and stick to places where people are gonna value personal connection and commitment over strings-free carnal enjoyment (religious groups? book clubs? Christianmingle.com? Idfk)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:57 PM
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You say the man gets nothing while the wife is raising his children but that was the happiest time of my life. She walked out on our marriage when our daughter was 3.5yo, I'm now divorced 4yrs ago and have nothing to show for all my sacrifice except a beautiful daughter who I love more than anything in the world, my weeknights free to do what I want and a much greater freedom of choice in terms of how I wanna live my life, and not to mention the potential to start a new family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:19 AM
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Yes definitely more relaxed and at ease. Maybe not confident exactly, just less nervous. But honestly after you do it, nothing really changes. It's easy to make it a bigger deal in your mind than it is in real life. Sometimes I wish I could go back to then, when it was so important and seemed so great.
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:59 AM
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I knew the best answers were gonna be esoteric like this
/r/seduction21/09/21 11:52 PM
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......no? If you say something subtler like "I was thinking of going to this movie tomorrow do you wanna come" she could be like nah I'm busy or wtv. But then there's still guessing room as to whether she's interested or not. But less pressure for her to reject
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:21 AM
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Whenever the woman feels awkward about turning me down I try real hard to smile and laugh and wave it off to reassure them I'm not taking it personally and it's no big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:28 PM
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Ok...well I was trying to accept rejection gracefully, and i am a person who goes out of their way to be caring and considerate to others. I've been on the rejecting side before, it's uncomfortable. Most of the time I meet women they are at work or I am at work so minimizing the awkwardness and keeping everything cool is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:32 PM
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I'm talking about someone I had already had some friendly exchanges with. Typically my routine is to ask for socials. That usually works. But in this case it felt a little roundabout and I just said fuck it just ask for the number. Didn't work this time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:19 PM
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If she didnt give a fuck she would be rude. The person I asked was trying to say no without being mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:17 PM
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I always feel bad when I ask a woman for her number and she gets that long groan like "nnnnnnnn....no?" I hate putting them in that uncomfortable position. Maybe I need to figure out subtler ways of asking out rather than just "give me your number"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:03 PM
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Yeah I agree. The weaponization bit is more referring to the type of accusations this kind of question ends up devolving to, credit to the replies more than the original question. I phrased that poorly, saying it was a bad place to start. But yeah, the matches guys get certainly do not have a higher quality, not by any stretch of the imagination. I suppose if we're just talking numbers, then statistically speaking yes, someone with 1000 matches stands a better chance of winning the OLD lottery t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:46 AM
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Women and men both on the whole have a lot more in common than it would appear based on discussions like these and where they go. Most men and women are looking for fulfilling long term committed relationships with similarly (or slightly higher) attractive/wealthy/charismatic/capable partners. Women and men use and abuse partners alike, this thread alone is full of replies that show this. It's only the shitty ones that capitalize on their attention from the opposite sex. The recourse for being u…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:48 AM
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Damn dude, she was foaming at the mouth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:48 AM
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Boom
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:45 AM
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It's so fucken polarizing. Each side bitching about how unfair it is for them compared to the other. For a partnership to happen, both people have to choose. For someone to pull some bullshit and have it pay off, someone else has to put up with it. If a supermodel came onto me at a bar and told me she had just ended a 12yr marriage 2 weeks ago, I would still bone, and still stick around if she wanted, but fuck if I wouldn't have part of my brain screaming to gtfo. And when it all goes to shit I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:29 AM
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So once they get the sex they're after, they drop the long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:19 AM
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Oh you're a dude? And your inability to express yourself emotionally is entirely your own doing? I'm not for playing the victim either but it's a pretty well accepted view that we're essentially socialized to have pretty strict control over our emotional expression, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:17 AM
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I agree with this. Having many men pursuing you only gives you more choice, not all the choice, and women are still subject to the power of choice of the men they do want choosing them or not. I've repeatedly experienced having women attracted to me that I'm not interested in. I beat myself up over it sometimes like, dude, aren't you a man? Aren't you supposed to hop in the sack just for the fuck of it? But I've done it. And it's a complete waste of time and leads to nothing but hurt feelings. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:13 AM
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God that train took so fkin long to stop rolling after it derailed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:01 AM
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It's a cold cold world out there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:53 AM
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Bam
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:52 AM
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Lol, then it's divorce time. Yaayyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:50 AM
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Rofl truth. So men have no power at all? I mean...women are selecting for the best man, and who the best man is depends on their environment doesn't it? Can you blame them really? I suppose if they are playing the victim then yeah. Which is what OP is saying. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:49 AM
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I haven't heard of those FtM testimonials except in MGTOW/red pill type circles so it isn't easy to tease apart the actual truth from the sensationalist vitriol. I'd be really interested to hear those accounts in a more neutral environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:42 AM
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Worthy point, for sure. Who's to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:34 AM
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Well...this tendency is not exclusive to women by any means. But the current climate of our culture certainly encourages it to a degree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:27 AM
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I sure hope not, cuz the prospect is terrifying. I've been 4yrs single post divorce and I've had a couple of opportunities but mostly let them slide, whether they were just missed connections or if I had more of a hand to play in letting the opportunity slip is tricky to say. But while I've personally witnessed people be in a relationship just to be in one, I've never ever understood it myself. Dude here btw
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:16 AM
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Everybody wants to have what everybody else wants, this is not exclusive to women by any stretch. The difference I suppose would be that men are more likely to have sex just for the sake of it if it's available, whereas women are more likely to hold out for the prize buck so to speak. Doesn't this just boil down to mate selection strategies based on biology? Man spread seed far and wide to see what catch cuz he can, woman wait for perfect seed cuz she have to? It's all very reductionistic but fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:13 AM
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Good stuff
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:06 PM
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Well feel free to elaborate on that whole "what women truly want" thing Profit???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:33 PM
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"Simple masculine men who are easy to understand" "Simple masculine men who are easy to manipulate" there FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:49 PM
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Composite image. Perfect response. The literal definition of average, without posting a picture of any particular individual. Love it. Smart, and science!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:36 PM
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Just saw a post in r/sex last night about a guy who had his penis removed from cancer surgery. Maybe your friend could draw some inspiration from his story
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:47 PM
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"ShE sHoUlDn'T tAkE pEoPlE's StUfF bRo" I literally fucking can't, why the fuck did I even look at this post, jesus fucking christ
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/20 01:22 AM
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Is there a chance that the woke dialogue is being dominated by a vocal few who are rather forceful in their convictions while the vast majority are more reasonable and balanced in their approach but keep to themselves more?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/20 05:09 AM
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She looked like she was preparing her final move if he hit her again lol
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/20 03:55 AM
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Everyone answering this thread astounded that he made $15 off one bullshit pic needs to do a little research on cam girls, fetish girls etc These women be making entire salaries doing any kind of sex stuff online, and more, it's retarded, just the sheer volume of men willing to send money to who they think are attractive women just for some attention or wtv its freaking bananas Not to come off condescending at all and I probably don't know shit, just saying 15 bucks off one post is literally the…
/r/seduction22/12/19 05:44 AM
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Lol poor OP, getting his hopes up
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:29 AM
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Preach
/r/seduction30/11/19 09:21 PM
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The hero we needed Thank you sir
/r/seduction29/11/19 06:04 PM
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Fuck. You just blew my mind cuz I can remember my own shit too. Dang
/r/seduction24/11/19 04:45 AM
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Yeah, that's insecurity and it's apparently a huge turn off to most women (and probably people in general). I'm learning a bit about transactional analysis where all interactions between people are essentially a transaction, where each person is expressing a need they are trying to meet, and offering up to meet someone else's need in exchange. Not to go too in depth but something I frequently find myself doing is asking others for their advice/input/opinion even if I don't really want it, or car…
/r/seduction23/11/19 09:37 PM
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Feeling this HARD. Growing up I used to believe the entire world was one giant love triangle where everybody was always attracted to someone who was attracted to someone else, etc etc. Turns out it's easier to be your natural self around people you're not attracted to because you're not as preoccupied with their opinion of you, and this makes you more attractive to them. And vice versa, when you're around people you want desperately to like you, you act in securely, which is less attractive.
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:25 PM
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Super powerful insight, thanks for sharing. Everybody struggling with relationships of any kind ought to give therapy some serious consideration
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:22 PM
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Holy duck
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:20 PM
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Having no real comparison I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say things have perhaps not changed as much as it seems. I doubt the fundamental principles of male-female attraction have really changed, more like the social context and cultural trappings have.
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:19 PM
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Maybe this is the difference between the guys who "get loads of girls" and the guys who don't. The guys who don't worry about making women uncomfortable are the ones getting all the positive attention because they're putting themselves out there and going after what they want. They don't second guess what they're doing and hesitate or hold back. Who the fuck knows. Lol
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:16 PM
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Some guys have it and some don't? Also consider if you are perhaps sabotaging yourself or subconsciously rejecting girls without realizing it. If you deep down believe you're not worthy of a woman's attention, or you feel she isn't worth yours, it's gonna come across in your subtle or not so subtle body language. It has to do with something as simple as how you direct your attention. Also, how do you handle those tiny windows of opportunity for action (to initiate conversation, to move closer, t…
/r/seduction23/11/19 03:11 PM
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Yeah you're right
/r/seduction19/11/19 06:23 PM
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Those poor poor beautiful women that are wildly desired by most men
/r/seduction19/11/19 06:01 PM
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If anything he should consider that it could have been worse. The point here is not to enjoy abuse. The point is to reframe a disappointing experience into something less painful. Besides we know literally nothing of the situation lol
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:08 AM
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Amen. I slept with someone I had longstanding attraction for about 8 months ago but only then had the chance to act on. It was pretty intense. Then I got ghosted. Hurt more than I thought, just left me kinda confused and wondering if I did something wrong, although I do think I contributed through my actions and words to bring things to that conclusion, even though it was likely a situational thing. We communicated briefly a couple months ago on and off, I held out some small hope, but it's obvi…
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:33 AM
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He's got a point tho. Yes it sucks, yes it hurts, but take the fairytale romance out of it for a second and look at it practically: would he really be better off continuing to invest emotionally in someone who's still hung up on an ex? And he's asking for advice to help get over it. So...
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:26 AM
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lol it's like....wait a second....hold on here.....am I...winning??? ....Huh. Well ok
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:24 AM
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Beautiful way of seeing it. Thank you
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:23 AM
2

This guy fucks But he's doing it the right way https://youtu.be/-DSVDcw6iW8
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:17 AM
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If you're not an asshole Why the fuck Would you even want A girl who likes them Jesus fuck
/r/seduction27/10/19 01:15 AM
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Had a chick I work with flirt with me constantly, sexual innuendos, compliments on my looks, pet names, showed me pictures of herself in lingerie on her phone, etc etc - I was attracted to her and had I not known her through work, I'd have jumped on the chance. But work flirting is so potentially dangerous that if you come on too strong, that alone can be enough signal to a guy that he's better off playing it safe. I would be hard pressed to risk my job for a woman. I got a mortgage and child su…
/r/seduction24/10/19 05:44 PM
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99% of people are impressed when I remember their name, details about them etc. In 10 years I've had one girl get creeped out. It's like relax, you're not that big of a deal, I remember everyone, get over yourself lol
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:34 PM
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Hear hear
/r/seduction23/10/19 09:31 PM
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Mr. Watts I presume
/r/seduction23/10/19 10:57 AM
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You never go full retard
/r/seduction21/10/19 04:01 PM
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That's why you don't ask, you grab the universe by the short and curlies and demand.
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:58 PM
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Lmao how dare you suggest he take care of his own problem himself
/r/seduction21/10/19 03:48 PM
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Now pith
/r/seduction18/10/19 10:28 PM
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Do, or do not. There is no try.
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:31 PM
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You'll never hear about acceptance in PUA because teaching acceptance is a shitty way of selling a product. But kudos to just about everything else you said. Cheers
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:10 AM
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The world is full of millions of men who think they know what women want better than the women themselves (or at least that the women don't actually say what they want, if they do actually know). Personally I agree, honestly and compassion have done me well, but every guy wants to be a casanova
/r/seduction11/10/19 04:16 PM
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Lmao fair point, didn't even notice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:48 PM
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Genie: "Just bee yourself!" Aladdin: "Soo...rape everybody?" Jesus fucking christ reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:47 PM
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I am by no means implying that my experience in any way could be construed as advice for OP. I'm simply providing it as a small counter example to the previous poster's studies. The only reason I suggested she might want to reconsider waiting for marriage to have sex (which she never mentioned in her post at all) was due to the possibility of sexual incompatibility. Edit: just remembered which sub this was in. surrender hands
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 12:34 PM
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Well I'm fairly ignorant on the subject, not really making an assertion one way or the other, merely pointing out a possibility. I imagine sexual compatibility is pretty high up on the priority list for keeping a relationship/marriage happy and healthy. It would also be worth considering other factors surrounding the success of this style of marriage, namely pre-existing values regarding divorce in the family and societal context in these particular marriages (social support and encouragement to…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 11:56 AM
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Just gonna chime in that waiting for marriage to have sex could be a huge disaster lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 04:24 AM
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Fucking a guy to try to get him to commit is less respectable than fucking a guy just cuz you wanna fuck him tbh Its manipulative
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 03:59 AM
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Holy fuck my friend You're not wrong tho Also thanks for pointing out the risks men take to undertake relationships as well- narrowly avoided being divorce-raped myself, at least so far, fingers crossed. Nothing personal toward OP and not trying to be mean but I hadn't picked up on the subconscious entitlement at all until it was pointed out. It's a valuable exercise, I think, to excavate our beliefs once in a while and closely examine what unconscious expectations/needs may lie at the very foun…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 03:51 AM
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Regardless of anything if you hate your life, guess what, that energy is gonna bleed out of you like an open sore and its gonna drive people away, not just women. Not judging you dude, I'm in a rough spot currently myself. Get therapy, talk to a friend, listen to some music, take a walk, I don't fucking know but do something because if you don't make some changes you're not gonna feel any better and you're just losing time. Lol I should take my own advice
/r/seduction08/10/19 01:40 AM
1

Jesus christ just hate fuck each other already
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 01:31 AM
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Also let's not forget, guys are busy jackin it to porn so they also have no interest in pursuing women anyway.... so we're all getting what we need from our phones, is it any wonder dating and relationships are falling apart?
/r/seduction06/10/19 04:54 PM
2

Holy fuck Holy fuck
/r/seduction05/10/19 08:57 PM
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I developed my conversational skills by chatting up cashiers, barmaids, waitresses, people in the grocery store, at the clinic, etc. No agenda, no ulterior motive, you're just feeling good in your own skin, enjoying being alive, enjoying the moment, and sharing that positive, upbeat energy with the people around you. I once had a nice 10-15 minute talk with an old lady reading a book while we waited for our cars to get fixed at the dealership (lots of other people around) just because I commente…
/r/seduction05/10/19 11:21 AM
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Round of medals applauding
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:00 PM
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Sounds like some fucking bullshit. Idk man, I'm gonna throw it out there that if a woman rules you out on basis of height alone, she's not worth your attention anyway Edit: not what you're saying is bullshit, but bullshit that a woman would rule a guy out flat just because of height. Then again, fat or skinny girls could get mad at me for my preference for shapely figures. Ahhhhhh, can't win
/r/seduction02/10/19 02:58 AM
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Sounds good. If you're ever up this way you should check out Toronto, you'll be drowning in Asian girls, it's bananas
/r/seduction02/10/19 02:54 AM
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Nah, white girls and black girls. Got an Asian waitress's number a while ago but it didn't pan out. I am white but I will be very happy to bone an Asian girl
/r/seduction02/10/19 02:41 AM
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Lmfao yes montreal, but I've only had one french canadian gf and it was, well, forgettable. She was hot tho lol
/r/seduction02/10/19 01:55 AM
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Eastern Canada and I am white Edit: I imagine height could be more of an issue in the US
/r/seduction02/10/19 12:29 AM
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I'm 5'4 and if my height has ever been an issue with women I've been blissfully unaware of it I'm 35 and I had a girlfriend and wife the same height as me and we had a kid together Come to think of it just about every girl I've dated has been my height and the issue of height never came up, not once, in 20 years of dating
/r/seduction02/10/19 12:25 AM
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Thanks man Honestly I used to never know what to say to girls. What helped me get better was my job, doing deliveries, and just talking to people while running errands (cashiers, waiters, customer service people, etc)
/r/seduction30/09/19 02:25 AM
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I generally comment on the situation. In the elevator, have you lived/worked here long? How do you like it? At a store, find what you're looking for? Can you help me find something? Or joke about how you forgot your grocery list. Or you forgot to get a cart before going in and now you're walking around with your arms full like a doofus. Or she is. Or comment on the weather, like how it's so unpredictable, or you forgot your umbrella, or your sunscreen, or it would be a great day to go to the bea…
/r/seduction30/09/19 01:50 AM
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I deliver for work and I said to this one woman, I'm sorry but I just had to tell you, you are GORGEOUS, like I really emphasized how blown away I was, and she was really pleased, and said I made her day. I said, you must have a boyfriend, and she said yes I do, and I said well good for you and him, I wish you both happiness, and I went on with my day. Felt great
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:21 AM
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Fuck. Read this after I posted mine and just feel like I wasted all that time and effort lol
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:15 AM
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This. I lost my virginity at 21 and ended up marrying her. We were together 12 years all tolled and now I have a 6 yr old daughter so not bad. It wasn't my first opportunity either. I had a couple gfs before her but they were people I didn't really see any kind of future with so I didn't seize the opportunity. That being said, my relationship/marriage wasn't super healthy and I made many of the "1st relationship mistakes" that perhaps, had I more relationship experience/a stronger sense of self,…
/r/seduction20/09/19 02:13 AM
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HOW THE FOCK IS THIS TRENDING THERE'S THREE FOCKING COMMENTS MATE
/r/seduction16/09/19 01:57 PM
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Username checks out
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:54 PM
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WOW, WHO KNEW
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 05:04 PM
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That guy might've looked weird dancing to his music at the gym. But he had the confidence to enjoy himself and his music in a public place and not give a fuck what anyone thought of him, including you who judged him. Who would you rather be?
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:18 PM
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Yes but so am I after breaking my back for 12 hours to keep a roof over our head and food on our plates
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 09:55 PM
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Raised our daughter, did some housework and cooking, managed our finances
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 10:21 AM
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One of the turning points for me when I shut down in my marriage was sitting on the bathroom floor, still in my dirty, sweaty work clothes, after working a 12hr shift so my exwife could stay home and raise our daughter, while she soaked in the tub and told me all about how exhausting her day was. Then she went to bed, and I went downstairs to change out of my work clothes, put them in the wash, make my lunch for the next day, shower, then sit on the sofa and try not to pass out while I ate my re…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/19 05:14 AM
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Agreed. I don't think what we are saying is mutually exclusive My point is that it's the assumption that's the problem. You came over to fuck and we're not fucking? You're a bitch! You invited me over just to fuck? You're an asshole! Fuck that shit. Communicate. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:08 AM
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The fuck is the deal? Twice now, on a first date, I made out and felt up a chick, one said I can't fuck on the first date and I said cool, no pressure, and the other one I said we better not rush things and we didn't. I ended up fucking both of them. The one I said to wait, we fucked each other's brains out for a week, it was ridiculous. The fuck is this "coming over=sex or the woman leaves" bullshit. How about hey, you're here, wanna fuck? No? Cool. I enjoy your company all the same, that's why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:47 AM
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Honestly couldn't have said it better myself. Thank you. If a chick is telling me no sex and then dropping hints or whatever....I'm sorry no. I'm not risking going to jail because you wanna play some retarded game. I feel like every time I hear about alpha this and beta that I know the bullshit train is pulling into the station
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:31 AM
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Almost lost my virginity to my then 17yo gf (I was 19) until moments before I stuck it in she chose to inform me she had slept with 18 guys. My penis said bro if you don't have a condom there is no fucking way I am going in there. I didn't so he went to sleep and I lost my virginity the next year to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:19 AM
1

How is this not getting gold
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:18 AM
6

Lol just never shut up How to talk forever. Imagine. Nonstop talking. Panties must be getting airdropped on this guy lmfao
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:17 AM
1

Yeap. cue Enjoy The Silence by Depeche Mode
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:34 PM
5

Good opportunity for meaningful eye contact 😳 lol
/r/seduction11/08/19 10:24 PM
0

Pretty sure it's called deconstructionism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:52 PM
2

This is honestly perfect. Why has it never been put this way before? And also, if this is indeed an accurate depiction of the situation, what do we do, if anything, to address it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:47 PM
1

It's so weird I feel so much more confident approaching girls literally anywhere other than a bar. Talking to random strangers in bars feels so fucking awkward, also you're all in a closed space so a chick turns you down and you gotta see her in your peripheral vision for the rest of the night? I feel approaching people during the day allows for so much more context to draw from for conversation, and so much easier to move on confidently if she's not feeling you.
/r/seduction06/08/19 11:18 AM
2

Seduction master over here dropping sex wisdom bombs lol
/r/seduction06/08/19 11:07 AM
1

Ayyo girl, check this blue! Wanna smash? Lol (I agree with your statement)
/r/seduction06/08/19 11:06 AM
1

Fist bump bro. Dying over here and it's only been months. I'm getting so thirsty it's like I'm trapped in the middle of the fucking Sahara and I just don't know what to do about it
/r/seduction06/08/19 11:05 AM
1

Correct me if I'm wrong but couldn't a healthy woman have a child every 9 months? Say from 18 to 35. So that's like 9/12×17=12.75. Ok fuck. My great grandma had 16 kids tho... and I was born when my mom was 47. So 18 to 40, we're talking like yeah, 16. Ok, dang.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:14 PM
1

Great explanation, online dating struggles for the average guy isn't just a "girls only like hot guys, bleh", there's a whole whack of subtle factors
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 01:10 PM
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This entire thread talking about the sexual revolution and the birth control pill. Were these changes that took place across the entire world simultaneously? Or only in North America/Western Europe? Cuz I would make a wild guess that the population explosion over the last 50 years probably had more to do with increasing development in Asia and India, and across other developing countries. WILD GUESS, don't tar and feather me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:57 PM
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Once you've been coming across this same bullshit for 2 years you start to recognize it. We'll help you fix everything! Just click the link to be instantly transported to our magical fairy land where your life is amazing!
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:35 PM
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No fucking shit. "Started dating women I only dreamed of before" Stfu bruh, gtfoh Also it was the format that tipped me off. Bet you'll find the same post in r/getdisciplined
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:29 PM
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But I'm not a short Asian guy
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:13 PM
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AAAAAAAGGGGGHHHHHHHH BUT I WANT TO BELIEVE
/r/seduction25/07/19 05:39 PM
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Sex is always better after the woman orgasms. I think I've mistakenly put pressure on some women I've been with because of the intensity of my focus on this, but still had a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:20 AM
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If my partner said she was tired or not feeling it I wouldn't ask for maintenance or pity sex. Fuck that shit. If we're fucking and you're not into it, guess what, neither am I. Either WE FUCKIN, or if you're tired it's cool cuz I'll BE JERKIN if I'm that fucking desperate, jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:14 AM
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A true savage
/r/PussyPassDenied16/07/19 05:25 PM
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It seems all comments favoring the woman are being downvoted here, and given the title of the sub alone, it's fair to expect that (all judgements of its participants and their values/beliefs aside). What gets me here is her hands were down. She basically yelled at him "give me your best shot" or something along those lines, then he hit her. Body size and weight ratios alone here is sufficient to say knocking her the fuck out wasn't all that hard for him, open handed or not. Yes, she had a shoe i…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/19 04:18 PM
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