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| 42 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.? | Question For Women | SolidTunnelSnake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 12:10 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Rejecting someone for things like height or cup size is not morally equivalent to rejecting them for things like weight or personality | CMV | SolidTunnelSnake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | P*rn, h***tai, and unrealistic expectations | Discussion | SolidTunnelSnake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:31 AM |
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| 2 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?There should be benefits and compensation for such a role. You’re putting in the effort to raise another man’s kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Unconditionally, most men give single moms a bad rep. For me, it depends on the circumstances. A single mother widow is much better than a single mother who doesn’t even know who the father of her child is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?The book can be successful but that doesn’t mean the advice in it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?Are you saying you’re going to fight a dragon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?Yeah, I know him. His content seems to be geared towards older women finding out that their age impacts their ability to get with guys that look like and have the status of him. Like most female-oriented dating coaches, I do see a lot more sugarcoating when compared to a male-oriented dating coach who says “you’re a fat bitch and you need to life weights and put more effort.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?I know. Rest In Peace. Amen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?If a woman acts that way to a guy in a bar, she’s either drunk af, or she thinks she has a big guy who’s going to protect her at all times. No woman in her right mind would antagonize some random bloke even if she thought ill of him. She’d be more likely to give the standard “boyfriend” rejection of anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?Sure, if by cheat codes, you mean working out and dieting to the point where you have a healthy amount of body fat and visible abs whilst simultaneously forgoing cheap pleasures of drugs and pornography. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?Yeah, and that’s self help for male validation. Self help to get female validation would include improving one’s looks, wealth, status, confidence as a man. But where do I get the long term why? Why work to get a man or woman. Why be responsible for yourself and for others? I want to see a woman that talks about the more spiritual matters of existence. What it means to be a woman and how to find purpose in life? Not just earthly matters such as how to be more seductive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?I would argue against the career aspect, since most men are attracted to looks and personality over the career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Do women have an equivalent self improvement coach like Jordan Peterson, Hamza, Kevin Samuels, etc.?I put in Kevin Samuels because he’s prominent, but I’m not talking about dating. More about personal self improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesLol, what the fuck is that picture? You have a full plate and you go for your guy’s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How would you go about de-radicalizing a redpilled man who's now benefiting from said beliefs?Government enforced vasectomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Scenerio: One of your close friends "My Husband is leaving! How could he do this?"With that kind of women, their “friends” are probably like You’re beautiful the way you are You deserve a 10, don’t settle for anything less No keep eating. Become uglier so that I have less competition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | What speaks to you about the situation of modern society when it comes to Kevin Samuels Death?Normal humans acting human. When someone you hate dies, you rejoice and make holidays over it. When someone you like dies, you get sad and maybe make a holiday out of it. The internet just gives us, the group that likes or is apathetic to Kevin Samuels, access to the people who hate him. Nothing out of the ordinary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.fat woman: men are shallow for not wanting me short, fit man: breathes fat woman: omg, how dare you breathe the same air as me, untermenschen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:13 AM |
| 1 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.Because no woman wants to be the bearer of bad news and risk getting a black eye over this. Even in complete anonymity, this fear is conditioned into their very psyche. Then you have literal NPCs that are just programmed to say feel good shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date.I’d rather die than be absolutely ripped and in an LTR or hookup with any girl that has a BFP over 30%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:07 AM |
| 5 | The “Limp D-ck” male wall counter argumentIt’s better to be alone than with a toxic person. This is true for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?A handsome man with money is a goal. An ugly man with money is a target. I like money for other reasons but I wouldn’t advertise it if I became a billionaire, ugly or handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 11:43 PM |
| 3 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.For women, it’s more accurate to call them ego drives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 0 | What do small penis guys do?If there’s nothing you can do to improve your sexual quality to a point that meets the standards of the women/men your interested in, then give up and embrace celibacy. Nothing in this life is guaranteed. Your mistake was being born the wrong way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 09:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Rejecting someone for things like height or cup size is not morally equivalent to rejecting them for things like weight or personalityIf the individual was working to fix that issue, then I would have no problem with them complaining. If they’re not doing any work and are going “woe is me” while simultaneously bullying people for their immutable traits, then I have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejecting someone for things like height or cup size is not morally equivalent to rejecting them for things like weight or personalityThen there are people who have these desirable genetics but are fat (because of laziness) and/or I’ll-mannered. I make a distinction between lazy-fat and gene-fat. Even so, you can’t tell me you fall into the latter if you don’t exercise and diet properly and have a doctor’s note proving your illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 12:20 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Rejecting someone for things like height or cup size is not morally equivalent to rejecting them for things like weight or personalityFrom: u/Hoopy223 Rejection is not moral. You are either attracted or you are not attracted. If a girl doesn’t want to date a short guy or a guy loses attraction to his girlfriend because she’s fattened up its not morality. Its just something that happens. “Though it is your right to reject or accept someone for any reason, rejecting someone for something they can’t control is not equivalent to rejecting them for things they can.” Onto the second point, I’m not stating it’s outwardly immoral. Com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejecting someone for things like height or cup size is not morally equivalent to rejecting them for things like weight or personalityI’m going to get to these, but I need to work on something first. Expect replies within 5-6 hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers?A loser is what people call you when you do or say things they don’t like. Doesn’t matter what you accomplish in life. If you fall out of line, people will call you whatever label they think will get under your skin and make you fall back in line. Some people are consistent and say that a man with little money is a loser while a guy with lots of money is a winner. Still, there are “losers” who get better treatment than “winners”, so that’s a subjective assessment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.That, in and of itself, proves the abundance. If woman were just as desperate as men, they would be going for the first guy they matched with, discounting both looks and personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 8 | What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ?They call it golden penis syndrome, and it’s something they say men are experiencing in universities. Because women there shortened their options to only guys in universities, laws of supply and demand took over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Prostitution and mainstream datingThe difference between prostitution and any other form of male/female interaction is time and desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 0 | If you find it uncomfortable and feel threatened when men come up to you to strike conversation, it’s your own issueThere’s no way guys can really start a relationship without approaching, so I get OP’s frustration. Usually, the anxiety women have over cold approach is the anticipation on how the guy will handle the rejection, which is most guys that approach her. The “I have a boyfriend” line is the go-to for most, irregardless on its truth. I don’t think OP is fully right. Being fearful for your life and thinking the guy/girl/child coming your way is going to murder you is illogical. But it is logical to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Polarising views on men or women is a waste of time if you’re seeking a meaningful relationship.Agree. Analysis is better for explaining the past and inferring the future. Not explaining the future. There will be situations that don’t fit neatly into any pill paradigm, and trying to cram it in isn’t going to achieve anything of value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Polarising views on men or women is a waste of time if you’re seeking a meaningful relationship.I’d rather have polarizing views against just a few dickheads and consider the rest of humanity to be fairly decent if I can help it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:51 AM |
| 10 | If you want to attract a woman, you need to have income.No matter how attractive a bad boy is, starvation and homelessness aren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:26 AM |
| 3 | If you want to attract a woman, you need to have income.Can confirm. Got my wife this way. She’s very social with other people. She’s really good friends with the pool boy. Every time I come home from work, there always chatting with one another. Haven’t hit first base with her yet, but I’m sure after I get this promotion, she’ll definitely let me touch her without cringing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 04:25 AM |
| -1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerWhich is why it’s important to lie if you want a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | (Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.?About as important as a woman would care her boyfriend showers and keeps himself fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Does the act of 'puppying' by a guy actually makes you consider seeing him as a boyfriend?I don’t think men and women should lives their lives copying anime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?This is what lawful men have been saying any time a woman goes into a neighborhood alone or some seedy nightclub and ends up getting assaulted. But then they get labeled as victim blamers. Glad you came to the same conclusion, victim blamer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women?.0000000000000001% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Despite popular rhetoric, it is women not men who have extremely inflated self imagesAs a guy with an extremely deflated self-image, I did start out with an inflated ego. The years beat me up in the locker room, though. I do believe that there are guys with overly inflated egos, but it’s really difficult to maintain as time goes by because of the differences in male and female psychology. You can tell me I’m great and handsome and cute or whatever, and it’ll go into one ear and out the other because I look at how people act around me over what they say. And the lack of active va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Guys that get mad because a girl 'makes them wait' while being 'fast' with other guys are acting entitled to sex.Anyone will get angry over inequality, especially if it’s something they can’t overcome. If you’re the boyfriend material in a relationship, you should treat a girl like she’s girlfriend material and make her wait years for a proposal or whatever it is she wants from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Maybe it's a modern thing, but I always thought of relationships and sex as a product of attraction. Not something you do for the sake of it.It’d be a lot easier if people didn’t rag on every man for not having a GF or a wife or whatever. You’re born with 2/10 looks genetics and yet people expect you to have romantic experience by 18. Might as well expect a parapalegic to win a race against a Kenyan Olympic athlete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketI’m not mad about the market. I’m mad about the people lying to us about this and gaslighting us into thinking otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food?As a man, yes. If I were to be reincarnated as a woman with a crippling drug addiction, then no and I’d expect everyone in the restaurant to clap as I walk in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Question for BluePill - do you genuinely deny that women have a significant advantage, that men are regularly forced to settle below their SMV, and that women’s dual mating strategy and “the wall” exist?They probably do but they’ll deny it till the bitter end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it truly possible for a woman to desire you when you don't have the right body type?Liking and desiring are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Is it truly possible for a woman to desire you when you don't have the right body type?Nah. To be desired, you have to be desirable. Women desire the very best, and if you don’t fit the bill, tough luck, pal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 06:03 PM |
| 5 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerAfter I do enough squats, I’ll be 6’5”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 04:25 AM |
| 2 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerWould you rather be alone or with someone who is insufferable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 6 | The so called "simping" crisis is a result of tolerated polygyny making available female partners scarcerI’ll go ahead and self-improve my face and height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Would you say the same things towards romantically unsuccessful men towards economically unsuccessful people?Money brings you up in society’s hierarchy. Good looks bring you up in nature’s hierarchy. No one is entitled to either. Most people have to do morally questionable things if they want to rise up the ranks. Luck decides who fails and who succeeds. No, single mothers are not entitled to my wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to alsoI think women can do stupid things when they’re younger, but as they get older, they become more strict. Some will not engage in casual sex even if the guy is 10/10, while others will still indulge if the guy looks good enough. The latter are the real problem and should be avoided. For the former, I wouldn’t say something like “the past is the past.” If you want to engage in an LTR, then your partner shouldn’t outright reject you for your past, but there definitely needs to be some work put into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | P*rn, h***tai, and unrealistic expectationsI don’t understand how my post differs from the other ranty posts I see getting upvoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 01:55 AM |
| – | P*rn, h***tai, and unrealistic expectationsI suppose getting into it will distort your view on beauty. I was talking more about things like most of the girls having big breasts even though that’s rarely the case IRL. Yeah, IRL anime people would look freaky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 01:46 AM |
| 10 | Quantity for men, quality for womenDude, if you wanna brag, just make a post. This comment doesn't even disagree with anything OP said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | A lot of guys here mistake chubby women for being unattractive and being in the same league as chubby men.Blokes are really easy to get sex from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:43 AM |
| 2 | The fact that women are so repulsed by dick pics or photos of naked men is proof that they are not anywhere near as horny as menWomen want to see face more than anything. They are visual and horny, but they're not going to make a value assessment just by looking at what's beneath a guy's legs. Furthermore, most women like to view themselves as sexually conservative, even if they have body counts in the double digits, so showing her your cock is like telling her, "I think you're easy, so I'm just going to show you my penis because that's all your worth." Of course, they would take offense to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentally believing grown women biologically think like teenagers is sexistSexist, yes? False, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).For just a quick fling and nothing else, a 10/10 male would smash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).And you’d fuck up any pair bonding abilities you have because frequent sex with 10s is going to make it impossible to accept anything less. This is doubly true for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Knowing what I know now about sexual freedom and how it’s messed up so many people, I’d definitely take quality over quantity if I could find it. But as a 14 year old shit with no understanding of the world and 10/10 looks, I’d definitely engage in pornographic fantasies if no one goes out of their way to stop me. People are products of their environment and genetics. It’s understandable that they’d act in such a way, but it doesn’t make it right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Is there really a decline in masculinity?Testosterone levels do decrease with consumption of certain foods as well as a sedentary lifestyle. Then you have to take into consideration genetic components that influence how good a male is at being the ideal man. As an American, I can say we’re lagging behind on both fronts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop?I could probably open a business selling makeup to men. I just have to advertise it as “man-up”, make sure my product has masculine colors like red and black, and ensure that it’ll stay on no matter how sweaty the guy gets. Also add a bit of promise that it’ll raise your t-levels or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop?Makeup is good for hiding skin flaws, but a lot of a man’s attractiveness hinges on the shape, size, and angles of his bones. Besides, you can consider beards to be natural makeup, because they can make unaesthetic lower faces less prominent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 4 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?And yet majority of men are none the wiser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | There’s really no reason to ever show weaknessIt really depends on what rewards and punishments you get for doing that. If you’re in an environment where showing anything remotely considered weak is heavily punished (e.g., prison, military, etc.), then I understand your argument. If, however, you get no reward or punishment no matter what, then I see no problem in just taking the easiest route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 03:43 PM |
| 7 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Should’ve chosen better parents 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I really think that most women are attracted to strength and fighting ability and turned off by a lack of either.If the stronger guy is like a 4 in looks, and the guy who loses the fight is at least an 8, I think that’s where the exception lies for most women. Strength is desirable, but not as much as an attractive appearance. Whereas if the guys are more equal in looks, then other things like strength, socioeconomic status, etc. become more apparent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 38 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Have you tried being physically attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to love someone and cheat on them?Love is bullshit. If they cheat, it’s because they put their own pleasure and gratification above maintaining the illusion of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think it's stigmatized for men to be insecure?Because the only men that have value are the ones without any flaws. Insecurity is an indicator of flaw, so such men are made to suffer until they remove themselves from the gene pool or remove the flaw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Men getting vasectomies at a young age, yes or no?Someone has to. And I don’t really think western well-off women are worth it either. You can’t have hypergamy and abundance working together. I’d consider going after women from more scarce backgrounds who have the best possible genes if you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Thousands of men lusting after a female serial killerHibristophiliacs exist all over. Is this supposed to make it okay that people like Ted Bundy and Jeremy Meeks get the same treatment, with the latter getting his bail posted by thirsty rich housewives? No, it’s shite in all cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Men getting vasectomies at a young age, yes or no?If you’ve got good genetics and you’d rather have inconsequential condomless sex then bring a child into this world, yeah, that’s peak selfishness, bro. I had the same attitude in my 20s, except I have shite genes, so I don’t want to make a kid who’s going to suffer. I still wouldn’t get a vasectomy, though. The desire to be a father is very strong later in life. Stronger than sex. You can be getting lots of sex now, but eventually, you’ll get desensitized and want something more. Adopting is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?Tell them it’s none of their business unless they’re someone who will make me regret saying that. Then just tell them whatever they want to here to get them off my ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How would you react if the guy you were seeing told you he was a virgin?As a guy, I would never tell anyone about my sex-having status. If a someone asked me, I’d try to change the conversation, or if they were pushy and I needed to keep them around, I’d give some half truth or lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | The “privilege” of experience and confidenceWe’re you getting lays when dating apps were a thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 3 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANThe boundary seems to be when an undesirable male is getting sex and actual relationships. OnlyFans and porn are okay because there’s no touching involved but the moment an old and/or unattractive man gets more than that, it becomes a huge issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 2 | There are 3 types of “Nice Guys”:An attractive nice guy: A guy who won the genetic lottery so he can be nice or a dick and still win. He just chose to be the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Men should validate/lift up other men to combat the epidemic of loneliness and desperationWhat’s the point of a compliment if it doesn’t align with reality? I can tell a guy he’s good-looking all I want, but if the rest of the world treats him like crap, then that’s just me lying to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Body count, more or less, is a heuristic for those sorts of things. But it’s not absolute. You can have a woman who is crazy but a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think a lot of things are enjoyable if it’s coming from an attractive guy. Some women don’t like dick pics no matter what, whereas others will be more forgiving if the guy looks like a young Leonardo Dicaprio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 4 | How do you think relationships and dating will change when women out earn men?It’s about perception. Ignorant white-collar women with degrees view blue collar men with no college like they’re peasants even if the latter out earns them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers?Suicide is a choice. Doesn’t mean I’d be okay with my children doing it. There’s a limit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers?“A fool and his money are easily parted.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Are women worried about the growing number of women who are sugar babies, "Instagram models", Escorts, and/or OnlyFans performers?I think a better question would be, “How would you feel about your potential daughter having an OnlyFans or something equivalent?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialBoyfriend/husband material (also known as “betabux” in red/black pill communities) is a euphemism for a man who may not be attractive enough to entice lust in a woman but offers a stable home life for when the woman is ready to settle down. A guy can be a 10/10 and be husband material if his personality is traditional, but as long as the physical qualities that make him 10/10 remain, he always has the capacity to turn into an f-boy or the like at any moment. And yeah, it is pretty insulting, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Grimes is proof that women don’t have personal politics. They believe whatever politics their alpha supports.I’d say that politics end where personal comfort and survival begins for most. Men tend to get more invested in politics than women overall, but even they sell out. I think what OP is trying to say is not to fall for the Trad or Commie archetypes, as these are usually just political cosplays to garner simps. For a female example, look at Neekolul. For a male one, see Hasan Piker. Generally, the ones who make their money on looks don’t really give a shit about politics, as they tend to live a she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics?If women still get pregnant, then their selectivity will remain the same. They’d also have to overcome instinctual traits of agreeableness and preferring social work to technical work to use their strength properly. If such is done, some societies would become more matriarchal, with women forcing the men they like into harems while using the rest as slave labor. Phantom Paradise is something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketYeah, but I do agree. Sperm quality decreases with age too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | If everyone has insecurities , then why don’t women like men with insecurities?Because women and children don’t want to see their protectors showing fear. They want to be comforted under the certainty of a strong masculine figure, even if it’s complete BS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:29 AM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketYeah. To a slightly lesser extent, though. Body fat percentage can also influence the health of a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:26 AM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating market44 is pretty old to be having kids as a woman. The chances of a kid having physical and/or mental disabilities at that age skyrockets compared to in your 20s to 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 12:00 AM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketIt’s not just about appearance. Age influences the health of your child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families?What do you expect to hear? “Yeah, not having kids is great!” It’s not like these people can go back in time and prevent the life choices that led to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 11:33 PM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketAfter you hit a certain age as a woman, that ship sails. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 11:13 PM |
| 9 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?A high-value man is someone who gives me his money. You want to be a high-value man, right? Give me your money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 10:37 PM |
| – | When the Redpill becomes a self limiting belief because you realise that you're not at all the type of man that women are attracted to. What do you do?Depending on your goals, that one stat could be an absolute detriment or a nothing burger. If you have high ambitions, look into hard-looksmaxing procedures such as surgery if you have or are working towards the wealth to afford it. In the meanwhile, continue hardening yourself both physically and mentally. Life doesn’t get easier as you grow. Men just become tougher or die out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 06:55 PM |
| – | When the Redpill becomes a self limiting belief because you realise that you're not at all the type of man that women are attracted to. What do you do?By that, do you mean that you’re stats are low in things you can control. Or are they low in things you can’t? Or both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?Think about how much rejection that dude had to go through before he struck gold. And even then, you have to consider the guidelines of their relationship. I wouldn’t call it quality if she picked him because of his wealth and she’s looking to open up the relationship later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:33 PM |
| – | Why hook up with guys at the bar/club when you can hook up with hotter guys off of Tinder?There are some women who think like this. I find this to be the equivalent of a man who asks, “Why bother going out to meet women in real life when you can get your fill from online pornography instead?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?Really begging the question here just assuming any man who doesn’t like prostitution is simultaneously buying prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 07:16 PM |
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