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Was it a lot of bleeding or just a little spotting? I have had spotting before from sex. If you like this guy and want to continue, just tell him you need some extra lube bc he has a big one. If he’s a decent guy he should want you to be comfortable plus that will be a boost to his ego since men like to hear about that kind of thing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/24 10:51 AM
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I always contribute more to the relationship
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/24 12:14 AM
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I am 1000% not for the idea of having an open marriage. I have been faithful to him for 20+ years. He has promised to not continue to have any contact with the woman. He’s keeps his word for a little while and then goes back on it. I feel like every time I think things are getting better he reaches back out to her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/24 12:13 AM
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If you give him head, don’t let him finish. Get him going then do what you want to make it pleasurable for yourself. Safe bet he will go along with whatever you do. And tell him! “I want to ride you because it makes me come” or whatever it is you are planning.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 12:20 PM
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Now we are having some reverse issues where my libido is higher than his. I guess we all go through seasons.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:12 AM
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When I went through something similar, introducing a good vibrator really helped. It really helped to get me back on track. Not all vb are created equal so going a store and asking some questions may help. I mean I know it won’t fix everything but knowing I had something to help me took away some of the stress I was feeling which had made everything worse. My husband also used to be irritated that I was struggling until I said, what if I was unkind to you because you had erection problems?? That…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 01:11 AM
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I’ve been married for almost 22 years so we’ve been out of the honeymoon phase for awhile. I also watch a lot of murdery type stuff…. anyway… by going off the deep end I mean drinking to being blackout drunk, cussing me and the kids up one side and down the other, talking to other women, and more
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 04:44 PM
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We had it checked about a year ago.. it was on the lower end so they doctor didn’t want to give him anything. I’m wondering if there is anything on the more natural end he could take.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 04:40 PM
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He doesn’t get up that early but he just seems exhausted all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 04:38 PM
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I should do this. I suppose if he doesn’t want to, I can go do whatever it is by myself. We live rurally so I’ll have to think of where we could walk around, but I do like that idea.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 05:26 PM
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He is not very healthy. He does have an active job but other than that he likes to eat and watch tv.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/23 05:17 PM
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Just really anything. Since that’s the LD catch phrase to acknowledge your husband without overstepping or jumping in with “helpful” comments. I want to say something else besides “I hear you”. It could be work related or something he’s upset about.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 02:39 AM
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Interesting C never works for me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 05:18 PM
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Men are so much different than women and act and react very different. Can you give some examples of how he is being unkind? Also, have you read the Empowered Wife which is kind of like the”Bible” of this group. I think if you read this and it doesn’t inspire you for yourself and current relationship, it may be time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 05:10 PM
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I need to do this. I usually just stand there and take it and maybe calmly try to speak up for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/23 12:34 PM
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Yes, he can be very verbally abusive. Mostly when he’s drinking. This didn’t start til a couple years ago. Also we were separated for awhile and are back together now bc of these episodes. I used to try and “help” and make suggestions etc when he was sober and only defended myself when he was drunk and out of control. I need to just say “ ouch” and walk away.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/23 12:33 PM
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AFTER he went off on me, I heard the LD podcast on not accepting an invitation to an argument. I didn’t argue, but I did try to defend myself by pointing out what things I have been doing to help etc. I should have just gone to bed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 03:32 PM
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I’ve come back from a lot… I’m hoping if I can stay positive and do what I can do, things will change. I realize I can only change myself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 03:30 PM
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And a lot of other things. I know it’s about him really, but I don’t know how to stay positive.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 03:29 PM
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He definitely is, and I am trying to do as much as I possibly can. I know that… it’s just hard to not take it to heart. 💔
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 03:20 PM
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He loves camping 🤷‍♀️ He wanted to get the firewood and the food but was snappy about both things. I did pack some sexy underwear and toys, but I feel like he may reject me or just do it to get it over with which is what it felt like last time. I know a lot of what’s going on has to just do with him personally, but he takes it out on me so not sure how to act on this trip.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 02:36 PM
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