| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Tinder and validation | SomeDay342 | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 01:57 AM | |
| 2 | Cannot find topics | SomeDay342 | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 07:27 PM | |
| 1 | Not sure where I'm going wrong with online game | SomeDay342 | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 01:01 AM | |
| 1 | Always trying to impress, end up not saying anything | SomeDay342 | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 04:17 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”?I wouldn't say that's even a test, can't win them all. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | My vicious cycleIt's like kinda scary though. College is supposed to be the easiest time to do this stuff, after it's over I'm not sure what you're supposed to do if you're having trouble now | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How can i hold a conversation? Im also desperate and very bland.To be fair his pics and profile are top notch | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 12:34 AM |
| – | How to pull off the 'lonely boy' schtick?Idunno, you were the one who was there. Did he look good? Was he a regular? Eye contact? Those are the questions I'd be asking | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 07:52 PM |
| – | How to pull off the 'lonely boy' schtick?Well I guess seddit would have you believe that it's the latter, and I agree. I feel like if you have a good and confident personality you would be exposed to more women hence have more success. Plus it seems in current cultural norms it's the guy that needs to chase, and the girl will make it easy for him if she likes him. So if you are attractive but don't have the confidence to approach or socialize with women, how are you supposed to take advantage of the perks of being attractive? Women def… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 07:37 PM |
| – | How to pull off the 'lonely boy' schtick?I don't think you do, unless you're a model or go for low hanging fruit | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Not sure where I'm going wrong with online gameDon't have a solid social circle, can't make myself cold approach. Guess it's just excuses | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 03:40 AM |
| – | Not sure where I'm going wrong with online gameDon't have other options at the moment, gotta start somewhere | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 01:38 AM |
| – | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️Hey thanks for the write-up I'll try to implement it | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 11:37 PM |
| – | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️Insecure, self conscious, serious, timid. Often worry if my contributions are good enough, end up not really enjoying myself and being quiet. I feel like feel like I am "the man". Timid is escalation, online I am fine and can be direct in real person I am not sure. Would not say I am a pushover though. Serious is just looks, need to express myself more. Insecure I do not really show so it's more internal, but it's hard to even start game if you are wondering if you can show the girl a good time … | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 09:39 PM |
| – | ☠️7 Deadly Sins Of Picking Up Women☠️How do you fix these? I would say I am at least 4 or 5 of these, I can't really game since I am self aware of these so it brings me down but I don't know how to fix it | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How to pickup girls: A short guideHow much did you do it before you noticed results whatever they may be? | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 12:42 AM |
| – | Cannot find topicsWhat do you suggest as good topics? | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 06:43 AM |
| – | Conversation skillsHow do you develop it? It's usually mostly negative | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:21 AM |
| 15 | The Power of Social ProofHell yeah it is. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Had to turn down her invite home on first data, how to fix it without seeming needyBalls in her court, and she was chasing you. Keep it that way by not saying anything else and wait for her, what's done is done | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Going in for the number, possible tips?Don't ask, tell. "Hey, let's go for drinks at x on y time". Get the number if the date goes well | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Success Story: My first weekend on TinderWould you say it still works if you take pics in interesting places doing things you like, but they are still selfies? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:39 PM |
| – | 19 yo dude here in university , help me out on what I should do here ?How to frat parties? | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:38 PM |
| – | Success Story: My first weekend on TinderAny tips for pics? My bio is alright I think, only really have selfies for pics and after a while I only have 11 matches, none of which I have met. I'm hoping it's just my profile and I'm not actually ugly, it's killing my self confidence though | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 02:46 AM |
| – | 23 years old, desperate for girlsThe second statement makes sense, but how are you supposed to feel like you have an abundance of choices when you don't? Trying to get over that first hump(pun intended) | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 11:11 PM |
| 2 | How do I learn to have fun and be outcome independent?Just walk around, smile and high five people. Doesn't even have to be chicks, you can build off other people's energy. The point is to add value, and have fun while doing it. Talk about the band or other music when they aren't playing, and just dance and enjoy yourself once they are. Good time for Kino too if you are feeling bold or built up rapport earlier | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 06:27 AM |
| 2 | What to do if you don't drink in college?10$ g's, living in Cali must be nice | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 11:47 PM |
| – | What to do if you don't drink in college?Might work, but how do you know if you are actually doing well if the positive feedback is just due to having access to drugs? Might help you get comfortable around women, arguable about actually learning game | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 09:08 PM |
| – | What to do if you don't drink in college?To an extent, don't become everybody's free weed bitch | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I missed my chance to learnPretty much, still have plenty of time and lots of people are in the same position. Just gotta keep yourself open and receptive to opportunities and experiences, even if they don't necessarily include girls | /r/seduction | 17/11/17 05:13 AM |
| – | Always trying to impress, end up not saying anythingMore of a day game context | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Need some tips on where to meet girls in collegeDoesn't sound that creepy, as long as you don't pressure then. Must be how you are carrying yourself | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Need some tips on where to meet girls in collegeHonestly you kind of have to notice something about them, most likely what material they are studying. If it's the same class you are taking, be like "oh get I noticed you are taking that class, so am I, how are you liking it?" Or whatever. Would go for anything academics wise over compliments of looks or whatever, get her taking about her reasons or passions. Make assumptions to tease(you struck me as more of a psychology type of girl ;)) or some shit. If it's a whole group studying and you wan… | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 01:01 AM |
| – | How can I be more open around girls, what mindset should I adopt?Can you elaborate on the last statement? It seems to implement lifestyle changes like holding eye contact and smiling at girls you have not meet before, you need to be mindful of that situation. But if I start being mindful I begin to overthink, ei) am I even good looking/interesting enough, why to say. Is the key just to do it right away? Or did you mean something else | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Does she think poorly of my appearance and looks?Oh ya I remember him now | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl hates my personalityGuess I just gotta find the girl to stare at blank walls with then | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 06:42 PM |
| – | Girl hates my personalityHow do you know if it's incompatibility, rather then me having no personality? | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 06:10 PM |
| – | The One Basic Rule To Chatting To Women In BarsWhat is fun? I can do humor, but not by itself, I need some topics or something to bounce off of. I'm not sure why topics are fun, maybe that's just not in my personality | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 06:07 PM |
| – | I've been telling myself for four weeks now that I'm gonna approach women on my lunchbreaks, but can never bring myself to do it.....Shouldn't the guy be the one talking about interesting places and things, leading the conversation? | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 10:06 PM |
| – | I've been telling myself for four weeks now that I'm gonna approach women on my lunchbreaks, but can never bring myself to do it.....What do you talk about? | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Four girls left after talking to them in one night, adviceMight be you are not displaying interest/intentions enough, causing them to think you are not interested. Kino and being more direct and forward could fix it. Or you just had bad luck and they all happened to have other things to do and had to leave | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What are the most important beliefs/rules/habits that have helped you to improve your success with women?Do you think it is enough to offer only character traits like being laid back, open to new things, and being fun? Or is there a certain threshold requirement for how interesting you have to be in terms of experience? | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | How to get over doing things by yourself?I don't know any answer besides just doing it, and picking things to do that you actually enjoy. I was at a concert once, there was a guy there that wad kind of overweight and didn't dress well, but he just had a really good attitude and walked around just interacting positively with people. I think you just need to start with something like that in order to make yourself comfortable in that situation, and then the rest of your time there should be good since you are in the zone. Don't be outcom… | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I [20M] get a girlfriend or lose my virginity?Ok, I have been in the gym for about a year now, I would say I look the best I have ever looked right now(not super buff but besides the point). So how do you change your self view and mindset to reflect that? | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 06:37 PM |
| – | Any of you approach at your college campus?So its fine to just approach just based on looks? I always feel like I need some pragmatic reason or something. To be fair, if someone I thought was attractive said hi to me for no reason I would be flattered, so maybe it will be the same if I approach | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 06:18 PM |
| – | Any of you approach at your college campus?How do you get over the feeling that girls will sense you are trying to sleep with them? Cant even approach without thinking I will be super creepy | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 04:16 AM |
| – | How do I [20M] get a girlfriend or lose my virginity?How can you be fun and attractive if you don't think so of yourself? | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 04:13 AM |
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