So I am pretty miserable when it comes to girls. Or at least, I think I am. And it seems whatever you think is what happens. I do not get too many matches on tinder, so when I do I try to make the most of it. This means agonizing over lines and things to say, wondering if it's good enough. That leads to a lot of self doubt. Am I ugly? Even if I open, will I have things to keep her interest? It seems like putting in extra effort by default makes you more invested. I'm not really sure if I'm a fun person. I don't feel fun usually, but people say I am funny so I got that going for me. My goals now are to talk more in general and approach more, find some new hobbies I can socialize over. Also looking friendlier since everyone says I look always look high/serious. Today I complimented a girl on her outfit, was super anxious but got over it. Need to follow through when I get better. Need