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Typical TRP viewpoint here: One women did something = all women are like that One Redditor said something = all Redditors are like that Source : TRP subscriber.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 03:07 PM
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What exactly makes this guy 'alpha' and the other 'beta'? The fact that one is getting laid and the other isn't?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:00 PM
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And yet millions of guys without position are still getting together with chicks.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 08:38 AM
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Yep
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:58 PM
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Be warned, this subreddit is full of guys who think all women are the same, and that they are automatons who will bend to your will if you can only exhibit the 'right' behaviours. I'm not saying it's all wrong, some of it is interesting. But if you are going to strive to be something you're not by trying to emulate the 'alpha male', be aware it might make you even less comfortable with yourself than you are already. most of the stuff on this subreddit is totally fantasy It could well be. Keep an…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 04:14 PM
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They love you for the things you can provide them, as long as you can provide them. As soon as you stop providing, or if they think you'll stop providing in the near future, they will immediately stop "loving" you., and have no compunction about it whatsoever. I don't think women can love men the same way men love women. That's why I don't associate with them in any way past acquaintances. Nah, that's not true. Women can be totally loving to men. If they drop you that easily, that's not love. If…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 04:08 PM
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Because he entered into a monogamous relationship and cheated?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:14 PM
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I think you're wrong...theres no excuse, and yes the person in a relationship is going to have to bear more of the brunt of responsibility, but she is just as culpable in this instance. How so? If she's not in the relationship, it's none of her business. The guy is the one who cheated. I would bet my bottom dollar she tailored this story to make her seem more innocent.She knew he was taken. And what are you basing that on? Do you know her personally? Seriously, people cheat, that's nothing new. …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 04:54 PM
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Well yeah... she's hamstering. That's what all women do. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 04:50 PM
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She doesn't even acknowledge him with a "thank you". First off she DID thank him. He says in his second post down. She doesn't answer her phone even though he keeps calling it. Finally "30-45" minutes later she comes out I totally agree this is asshole behaviour. with another GUY This is only a problem because the guy was trying to fuck the girl. If he's just doing a favour for a friend, what's the problem? It is obvious that the guy in question is jealous and thinks the girl owes him something.…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 09:38 PM
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Sounds like you don't have any motivation. Reccomend reading 'think and grow rich' by Napoleon Hill. It tells you how to instill motivation an desire in yourself. I would suggest: 1) Write some motivating statements like 'every day I do nothing I am wasting my life' (or a more positive one), put them on your wall, leave them on cards in your room. You need to constantly remind yourself that you have important goals.Write yourself out a mission statement and read it every morning when you get up …
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:11 AM
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Try making a statement. 'You look like a creative type' 'I bet you're a student' 'You seem like the kind of person that reads a lot' Why is this good? 1) You dont set off the normal 'douchebag alarms' that come with saying shit like 'what do you do?' 2)It doesnt matter when you get it wrong - they usually just correct you, the process is fun 3)When you get it right, they love it - I guessed (got lucky) this girl was from New Jersey tonight, and she freaked the fuck out (Im in london, UK)
/r/seduction12/10/13 02:14 AM
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Check out Eric Disco's stuff - he gives some great practical advice (he actually did an AMA on here, which led me to buy his book). His method is something like this: Ask non personal question -> develop conversation by making statements and asking surface-level questions -> move into more personal conversation The 'non personal questions' are things like 'do you know if there is a zoo in central park?' (I have some friends visiting from out of town etc) or 'do you know how to spell connosseur?'…
/r/seduction10/10/13 10:18 PM
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I randomly met Mystery a couple of nights ago. Really nice guy.
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:41 PM
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Ok, what did you say?
/r/seduction24/09/13 09:10 AM
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Other patrons depends on the shop. Clothing shop? Ask her which tie/shirt/jeans she thinks look better. Tell her something like "You have good style, which of these do you think works best?" Bust on her if she picks something ratty looking. Only problem there is that mens and womens clothes are usually in separate sections. The only women that are in the mens sections are there with their boyfriends. So basically you're saying use situational openers. In a supermarket that translates to asking h…
/r/seduction23/09/13 10:04 PM
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This is why I asked for 'tried and tested'.
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:26 PM
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GodDAMN that is good advice, thanks man. I'm sure I will struggle for a while to not use the 7 questions (that is exactly what I did on my approach today by the way), but I'll do my best to drop them and do the above instead.
/r/seduction15/08/13 08:08 PM
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That's fucking awesome dude, thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction15/08/13 08:06 PM
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Try to get emotionally engaged with her, WHY do you study "...", WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT "..."?, What was it like to be in that situation. Girls more so than guys are stimulated by emotion dialogue. Yeah I can see how it could work. But I can also see it being a bit like 'why is this complete stranger trying to get into my head?'. That's the feeling I get a bit during these interactions.
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:06 PM
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Where's there free course? That one costs $49. I'm trying to improve my day game though, so maybe Ill spend the money if it's that good.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:48 PM
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This is exactly true. Basically with very direct openers you are going to get your foot in the door less, but the ones who are down with it will love you.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:39 PM
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I picked up a hot girl at sweden rock this year and took her back to my tent. She was LOUD, which was kinda funny the next day. I also managed to sweet talk security into letting her into into our campsite which she didn't have a wristband for, which was pretty smooth if I say so myself. I just treated it as a numbers game. I probably approached about 8 different girls throughout the day, 2 were interested and one of those I ended up fucking. I didn't have to 'game her' either, she was just into…
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:36 PM
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Well if we are making a comparison to the animal kingdom, the 'alpha male' is usually the pack leader.'alpha' means 'first'. I thought that was where the idea came from.
/r/seduction14/08/13 06:13 PM
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It might just be the 'aplha/beta' mentality that is hurting you though. Your ideas for self improvement are solid. If you feel your mental health and confidence needs improving, a therapist will probably help you more than any thing posted by 'PUAS' on the internet will.
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:18 PM
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We're not necessarily solitary.But we don't live in packs the way animals do. Sure we have leaders, but in human relationships, the leader role is fluid, it can change in a second. I might be a leader at work, then I go to my basketball game I am not the leader. Then I go back to my family and I am leader again. You think animal packs are like this? Human leadership is mostly just a product of cirumstance, in the animal kingdom it's who is the biggest/strongest. If you really think we have the s…
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:13 PM
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Yes. There is no such thing as 'alpha' and 'beta'. We are not wolves and we don't live in packs.
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:55 PM
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Why isnt this huge in the news? This should be everywhere.
/r/MensRights20/12/11 12:15 PM
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Agreed.It doesnt state exactly what hypothesis was being tested, it sounds like the test was done with the end picture they wanted to test in mind.
/r/MensRights12/12/11 03:54 PM
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Then when you get back to your place, keep it fun and lighthearted, keep teasing her.I usually say when I bring a girl to my place for the first time "now I know where everything is, so dont try and steal anything".You can also give her a silly "tour" of the place while you're leading her to the bedroom "these are the stairs...not many people know this, but George Washington invented the staircase" just keep making her laugh, it will make her feel comfortable and more attracted to you.
/r/seduction26/09/11 07:22 AM
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She wanted it.She just didnt want to feel like a slut. You should have made out in some way that you didnt want to sleep with her, but given her some other excuse to go back to your place. Anyway she sounds like a kinda messed up chick so dont beat yourself up.
/r/seduction25/09/11 11:11 PM
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Best thing is just to give them an 'excuse' to come back to your place.Even if you both know you're going to fuck, some girls want plausible deniability, they want to feel it 'just happened'.So just go for some drinks with a girl, then when the bar closes you invite her back to yours for more drinking (buy some booze in advance).If she's into you, you've been flirting and being a littly physical, it should come pretty naturally.If it doesnt feel natural then maybe work on the earlier stages a bi…
/r/seduction25/09/11 11:09 PM
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