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12

Really goes to show you how all this shit is really just mental.
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:01 PM
2

Starting slow is key. Success in whatever you want in life isn't going to come overnight. Small daily improvements add up to larger monthly and even greater yearly improvements. Keep after it, even if there are setbacks.
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:31 PM
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Well for one thing, you've only asked out 3 chicks. That is a extremely small percentage of women. While playing the game stinks at times and trust me I'm right there with you, you aren't going to win by not playing either. Keep on going, make adjustments along the way as long as they'll at least seem to provide a tangible benefit and not for the sake of it.
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:02 PM
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I'm the same way. I admit it has taken me about 6 years to start getting things right. Part of the time was spent learning even more bad habits and then unlearning those too. Your post a bit further down about letting my ego reject a lot of good advice applied to myself as well. Oh well, at least I'm in a better place now.
/r/seduction16/05/17 11:47 PM
2

Could had saved $5000 by letting her go to the club.
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:26 PM
2

I really love the direction the community has taken as of late. Its not just about holding yourself to high standards, but holding the people in your life to those standards as well. Regarding the OP, I believe that with anything in life, the option to walk away should always be on the table. That and you are enough and people should have to work for your attention and interest only because you worked so hard to get to the point you are at now. The best part about that is the work will never be …
/r/seduction06/01/17 12:46 AM
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I don't know what that crap said, but there is hope for you and everyone else. Keep working at it. Accept there will be spells that will feel rough, but know that you will persevere through it. Im in the same place having struggled most of this year. Since October things have been going a lot better. Just keep at and remember, you are enough. Don't let anyone tell you different.
/r/seduction16/12/16 03:04 PM
1

Meh, Id be like I rather have 6 so I can have Sunday off to watch football.
/r/seduction13/12/16 04:18 PM
28

Become more social with everybody Lose weight 3.Actually approach instead of just reading book after book.
/r/seduction29/11/16 02:24 PM
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No it doesn't. She already liked you. You could had done the same thing to a chick who wasn't feeling you and you'd be one here saying how push and pull doesn't work instead. Game is all about keep girls who are interested in you, interested. It's not to convert chicks who have no interest.
/r/seduction28/11/16 06:25 PM
1

If your first name has only one syllable and she still can't pronounce it right.
/r/seduction17/11/16 04:28 PM
1

Day before Thanksgiving is when everyone home to see families and often don't have work the next day with it being Thanksgiving.
/r/seduction03/11/16 06:31 PM
1

I agree. This night and the day before Thanksgiving are the two best nights to go out of the year.
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:20 AM
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This is why confidence needs to come from within. You place confidence in something else, then you lose that, you lose confidence. Confidence isn't an assured feeling when things are going well. It's when things aren't going as well or not as planned and you remain assured of your belief in you to get the job done. Whatever it be women, career, or life in general.
/r/seduction22/10/16 02:08 PM
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What worked for me was actually listening to myself talk. Then I made adjustements with how pace and really trying to speak clearly as well as using pause and making them sound nature instead of saying uh all the time. I found also that becoming a better listener made me a better speaker. It took about a solid month for the changes to really take effect. It helps with my job as a manager as being well spoken gives you credibility.
/r/seduction13/07/16 01:32 AM
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Article honestly was a game changer for me. Was a lot more profound and really got me thinking about how I was doing things. I need to do more shit for my sake. Thank you for writing it!
/r/seduction16/05/16 06:39 PM
1

With the average attention span of the youth nowadays it would be next week at the latest that this is forgotten.
/r/seduction03/05/16 10:23 PM
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I'm in the same position brah. Just gotta keep going, we ain't going to get to where we want to be by stop trying.
/r/seduction04/03/16 06:08 PM
2

Any girl who is reasonably attractive is going to match with every other dude on there, if they swipe right.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:19 PM
1

Some chicks are just on there for attention. Literally one I work went to me the other day "You've actually met people off that?" I laughed and said what's the big deal and she didn't have an answer.
/r/seduction27/02/16 11:14 PM
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Closing is the biggest flaw in my game as well. Not the same night necessarily, but after meeting up with the girl again. When it's one or two times that's one thing. But when it's literally every time you can't get past the 1st date it gets to you at times. This is after changing up things on more than one occasion. I just have to keep going as that's the only way to get to where I want to be.
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:16 PM
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Why does stuff like this get upvoted to the top of Seddit?
/r/seduction14/02/16 07:13 PM
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Good post. This advice can be applied for anything in life. However, I think it's far from too late for the those of us who started later. A quote in relation to this is as follows “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” It helped myself put things in perspective. Just start on that journey now no matter how difficult it proves to be.
/r/seduction09/02/16 12:48 AM
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Keep on going man. Nothing has of note has ever came overnight.
/r/seduction03/02/16 01:39 AM
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I think it would be best to establish a point of no return where you move on regardless of your investment. Given that you have made every reasonable attempt to meet up, its their onus from that point to message you, invest, and show some willingness in wanting to see you. It's that simple. Instead of giving girls up to three chances make it circumstantial. Example being if a girl can't make it but gives another time when she would be free, then proceed. If she says she can't make it and doesn't…
/r/seduction15/01/16 04:59 AM
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I'm in for the whatsapp group.
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:25 AM
1

This. Staying in as well cause I'm working on big things and plus I have work early. Plenty of other nights to go out and do work without overpaying at the same venues you usually go to cause its New Years. More ideal to find a house party tonight if possible.
/r/seduction01/01/16 02:25 AM
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Or better yet, just keep on the path of improvement no matter the occasion.
/r/seduction30/12/15 06:58 PM
1

Don't know about Georgia, but I was in Tuscaloosa a few weeks ago and man the chicks there are so much easier to talk to than Jersey it's crazy. I thought people were just saying that but it's true. Even the chicks and people in general from Ole Miss who were in town were chill and easy to talk to.
/r/seduction10/10/15 01:05 AM
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The 1st part of your post is something I've always said. The community has a bad habit of assuming all girls are masters of socialness when very often there are just as many of them in the same boat as guys are. Id have to agree that the girl in the op is just not interested. Remember game is not for making girls who aren't interested all of a sudden interested, it's for getting the girls who are interested already and not making those ones not interested.
/r/seduction27/07/15 01:15 AM
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Unless it ends up being a party where it was 2 guys watching Avatar who were about to turn on the hot tub. Quick backstory: Friend of mine heard about a party. Was still early enough in the night so if it was a bust we can just go somewhere else. Get there and the 1st thing I noticed was that no one was there. Walked in and saw the two aforementioned dudes just there watching Avatar. Said they were gonna turn on the hot tub. 4 dudes in a hot tub= major no-no. Friend and I bounced and while we we…
/r/seduction27/04/15 05:26 PM
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I don't think you would come across as a wuss necessarily, but at the same time youre not doing yourself any favors by asking.
/r/seduction06/03/15 03:32 PM
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Agreed. Would you go to a car dealership and ask the salesman if the car you're looking at is sold already? Probably not.
/r/seduction06/03/15 03:31 PM
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If they have one and are happy with them, they will causally drop them into the conversation. No need to ask.
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:13 AM
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I'm right there with you lol if it makes you feel better. Usually Spring time is where things pickup. Yes, we both have some work to do for sure, so let's get at it!
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:22 PM
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My biggest issue about going to the movies on a 1st date isnt that it's unoriginal. Most of the places and things you want to do with a girl are technically very unoriginal. The problem with movie dates is the fact that you're not in an environments where you'll be able to interact with them, get to know them. You are going to be just as unacquainted with at the end of the date as your were in the beginning.
/r/seduction05/02/15 12:24 AM
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Agreed in a way. Confident people don't base their confidence off a list, but when you have none to begin with and are looking for a place to begin, this is great. I rather people start with this first than to start reading redpill material. Once you get to the point where you need to be, you don't need to remember anything. You will exude it.
/r/seduction04/02/15 09:10 AM
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Its amazing that the sense of humor I now have, started as purely a defense mechanism when I was younger. I used it as a way to cope with being picked on or not getting any girls. It kept me sane before I completely changed myself only a few years ago.
/r/seduction14/12/14 11:43 AM
1

You shouldn't be aiming to get rejected on a regular basis. Success starts with the mind. You should be aiming to embrace when rejection happens as it's a byproduct of success. Rejection IMO is just the cost of doing business when it comes to game. Now if you're just trying to mess around then that's another storty.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:17 PM
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This goes to show you that not every women is a social expert that is often assumed in the community.
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:16 PM
2

Its threads like that make people believe this section is falling off and I agree. Playing patty cake and high fiving her before she goes to the bathroom, wtf?
/r/seduction12/12/14 12:38 PM
1

Agreed. Especially the last 5 years or so.
/r/seduction08/12/14 10:34 PM
1

This is why confirmation texts are the pits. If y'all have a day, time and location set, why do you need to confirm anything? Does your boss call you an hour before you are scheduled to work reminding you that you need to be there? If she is so interested in seeing you, you shouldn't need to remind her. If a girl is interested she is gonna show. No convincing or reminding will change an uninterested girls mind.
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:50 PM
1

1 and that's it. You save a ton of money and you have complete composure.
/r/seduction28/11/14 12:09 AM
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Site was just fine on my phone.
/r/seduction21/11/14 01:16 PM
6

Great response.
/r/seduction14/11/14 02:18 PM
0

True. Have to be authentic. An act only works for so long.
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:08 PM
0

This is what happens when you don't work on yourself as a person socially 1st.
/r/seduction26/10/14 07:14 PM
1

Two of my buds fit #1 to a tee. Sometimes it's so bad its not even funny to watch.
/r/seduction10/10/14 03:03 PM
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Agreed. If you're gonna do something like that at somewhere you get your income from you better be damn sure and we all know from our experiences that you can never be too sure when it comes to stuff like that
/r/seduction10/10/14 02:40 PM
1

Op, you'd really think if he had his fat version picture of him he would've met any of these women, yes or no?
/r/seduction25/09/14 12:11 PM
2

All of anything can't be at a high level. At lot of women are also awkward or misread social cues. After all, they're human just like us. I've seen it said before and I say it again, why does the community in general believe that every woman is a social guru?
/r/seduction25/09/14 12:07 PM
13

"I view her as mother nature itself." I'm sorry, but I busted out laughing at this line.
/r/seduction25/09/14 03:11 AM
1

Clicked that and the "She asked me if I was into butt plugs and nipple clamps" part stood like a sore thumb.
/r/seduction25/09/14 02:40 AM
1

Monmouth county right here
/r/seduction27/07/14 01:03 AM
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