SonsofOcelot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Should I take this as a signal or not?	Conversation	SonsofOcelot	/r/seduction	21/10/20 01:18 PM

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3	What does being vulnerable mean ? Just finished this section. What I got out of it was, don't be afraid of putting yourself out there. If you fear what others think of you then the people that would be truly attracted to you will never see that side of you, hence you will never know that they were attracted to you. I highly suggest rereading that part like 2 or 3 times because Mark is very clear that being weak is not what he means.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 09:56 PM
4	A Rant On Boundaries & Why Having Them Is KEY To Attracting Women Started reading "Models" the other day (about halfway through) and this sounds like one of the points Mark Manson makes. It does make a LOT of sense once you stop to actually think about and process it. Having said that there are a number of other points that Mark makes in his book that are also equally important as this. I highly recommend people read it Side note if you can't afford to buy the book you can get a 30 day free trial on Scribd right now and read the ebook through them.	/r/seduction	24/10/20 02:33 PM
3	Any IT guy having trouble with girls here? Biggest issues I've had are approach anxiety and feeling like I'm not as good as others. The second issue is easy to tackle, find out why you feel that way and do something about it (I didn't feel like I looked good so I started working out). As far as approaching and being generally sociable this is harder. Depending on the guy it can be crippling, even if it's not a woman they're trying to talk to. I found myself being too analytical about every interaction. As long as you don't act super cree…	/r/seduction	21/10/20 06:03 PM
1	Should I take this as a signal or not? I never said I had intentions of pursuing her while she was still attached even though it may have come across like that. I just kinda found it odd that she would tell me about all of the problems she has with her bf instead of someone else ¯_(ツ)_/¯	/r/seduction	21/10/20 03:54 PM
2	Should I take this as a signal or not? Nah no intentions of being a homewrecker. I'm just gonna go about my business as usual.	/r/seduction	21/10/20 03:50 PM
2	Should I take this as a signal or not? Lol not a bad idea actually	/r/seduction	21/10/20 02:23 PM
3	Should I take this as a signal or not? This is also very true. I've no intention of being the one that breaks them up. I figure if anything is gonna happen it will be her choice and I'll just keep demonstrating value. No point in making things hard for myself	/r/seduction	21/10/20 02:01 PM
2	Should I take this as a signal or not? Yeah that's solid. Even if we end up just friends is be cool with that	/r/seduction	21/10/20 01:57 PM
1	Should I take this as a signal or not? Never hurts to ask others opinion though	/r/seduction	21/10/20 01:38 PM
2	What are usefull daily habits when it comes to seduction? Of course if there is a reason you can't do something like go to the gym find a similar alternative. As an example due to covid my gym has limited hours that I can't make due to work. So I converted a corner of my den into a workout area and got some weights with the money I saved from cancelling at the gym.	/r/seduction	18/10/20 04:42 PM
1	Read the book Yes Man Agreed. I got out of an unhappy marriage 2 months ago and after the first month I realized that I was just coasting by the last 4 years. Now I've been focused on me and getting in better shape and eating better and I feel good for the first time in a long while. I hit a rough spot I text John and he helps me out of it. Having a good support system, confidence, and goals are key to success in many things.	/r/seduction	17/10/20 06:26 PM
5	Read the book Yes Man A buddy of mine one told me "I can't add time to the day, but I can make time for what's important to me." What I got out of that was you need to make time for yourself and your goals. He was working 16 hours a day and made time to make it to the gym and get in shape so that he could become a full time pro wrestler. He lost 60 pounds in 5 months and is in great shape to this day and he now tours the east coast and was given a title run in his promotion as the top guy. He's been my inspiration fo…	/r/seduction	17/10/20 05:07 PM
1	Expectations versus Reality This is actually solid sounding advice. It's very hard to predict what will happen, and if you try to more than likely you'll be wrong. Life isn't a matter of one outcome or the other. Life is unpredictable so the best we can do is to, 95% of the time, go with the flow. Obviously there are things we can change or influence or predict, but there is a good deal more that we can't. There are a ton of outside influences and factors that we all don't take into account from time to time so it's best n…	/r/seduction	09/10/20 02:34 AM