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| 1 | Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold ApproachesWing man, going to parties and blindly meeting women from my friends hyping me up. Has happened a couple times. Wasn’t really a cold approach but unexpected and game was still tight | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 02:53 PM |
| 5 | my ex accidentally gave me free game. And showed me what I was doing wrong when I meet new women.Take notes yall 🖊️ 📄 | /r/seduction | 21/07/26 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Can you express your emotions, needs, and sexual desires with a woman?My needs and desires are always changing, depends on the girl as well. Some girls are naturals in areas and I’m gonna enjoy what they do and find new desires according to how they move. I have basic desires but nothing outlandish that I couldn’t just go for without asking. If there’s resistance it may add to me wanting to do it more or not and in that case I’ll bring it up but if we’re having fun then I don’t think to much about it I get lost in the moment and have fun | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Picked up & hooked up with a woman sitting behind me at restaurant.Flow state and feeling yourself will have you fuckin no matter who ya are | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Getting Pussy is too hardWhatchu gotta do to make it easy? | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 09:02 PM |
| -1 | i just had sex with someone that i met on dating apps and now i can’t leave him alone ( i was thinking i can do casual) but it turns out i want him real badI’m honestly hoping she understands without me explaining why though | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 01:03 PM |
| -1 | i just had sex with someone that i met on dating apps and now i can’t leave him alone ( i was thinking i can do casual) but it turns out i want him real badI am going to be talking to this girl soon. I want to be considerate as I’ve been hooking with this girl consistently for months. I’d like to keep doing it the way we are but I can see her changing up. I don’t want to hurt her more than my decision so what could have the guy did to make you feel better if outcome is the same you think? Just curious to see the females point of few | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 01:01 PM |
| 3 | What about men appeals to women the way a woman’s body appeals to a man?For my standard of good women (natural beauty, intelligent, non manipulative and materialistic) it would have to be… How men carry themselves around other people… Humor/quick thinking with calm energy.. Last would be status and looks and what the guy has going his personal life. Extreme genetics anyway (an exotic human we can call them lol) is usually niche attractive for people so I think too short and too tall or anything like that can definitely throw people off but again my top 2 picks trump… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How often do women approach you?Depends on how I’m feeling. If I’m chilling and having fun, fully engaged with the world without stress girls will usually approach me. This isn’t super direct approaches they seem to want to get to know me post his is more day game like grocery stores and gyms. It’s very easy to turn this into whatever I want. If I’m approached it signals in my head I already won no matter how direct someone is about wanting me or being attracted to me. I think we all can have this effect when we feel good. Whe… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 01:06 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop being an incel nice guy piece of shit 💩Lose the desire and love what you got going on now. Find the lesson. Opportunities will come and if you’re feeling good about yourself you will probably land something | /r/seduction | 02/07/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What is ur most effective opener you've usedMy dawg said you ain’t no freak so you got to prove my man wrong 🎶 Or any song that goes with the moment but this one has been 100% to close on if I just wanted to hit lmao | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 5 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyI think having a presence about you is the main thing. What is presence? That is for you to figure out. Example for me the other day. I’m in the gym working out later and see a chick I don’t normally see but I’ve seen her before. This time I got caught slipping looking at her for a sec and slightly bit my lip lmao. I quickly caught myself and looked away and kept talking to my boys about form on deadlifts. She didn’t give me a nasty look and I played it off pretty well but I feel the energy was … | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Would you drop side cheeks to be more motivated to approach?I like my gig with this chick right now. Not that I wanna be with her but she’s being a s tier side chick and I have no reason to not enjoy it right now. It’s easy and we both have a good time so I have no motivation to get other girls. But if they approach me then I’ll run with it and party a bit if it calls. I’m 35 and want to relax a little more these past couple years. I like to party but I’m in chill mode right now | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone recommend a solid and practical program?Start with girls slightly undervalued from where you were. Learn how to kill that and throw some Hail Marys at some higher valued while you’re feeling yourself. Get some good wingmen, start partying and learn how people move. Learn when to take a step back and reflect and know you don’t owe anyone shit if you need some time. Live it up dude, you need to find your own style and quirks and find the girls that will go for it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Guys need help in analyzing the situation and what is up with this girlNot necessarily | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Guys need help in analyzing the situation and what is up with this girlI think you already gave her the wrong vibe so Idk ya made the impression that you guys aren’t compatible off rip. For future reference casual can turn into something more. | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 11:39 PM |
| 3 | For those who aren’t looking for relationshipsI give em the old let’s just enjoy our time now and not put titles or anything. Or something along that lines. If they press it then I won’t continue talking to them unless I decide to date them. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 05:30 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle finishing too fast without making things awkwardYea depends lmao. Try to make a joke. Most girls will be okay with it as long as you make up for it next time. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:00 PM |
| 2 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingYour upbringing yes but not your dna homie. You could look nice and get more opportunity but still again doesn’t mean charm is based off genetics. It’s just a variable of many. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Woman approached me, got my snap, now after only a couple texts I’m left on delivered. Any way to comeback?Sounds like she wanted something spontaneous not typical. I would test it and go all in at this point if it were me. Smoothly of course. | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 11:56 PM |
| 2 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingCharming is not genetic… | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Is sexual tension something that can be built? Or is it something that already happens between people who like eachother?There has to be attraction to start building tension. It can be a very small amount but there has to be potential there. If there is you build tension for however long you can hold it for | /r/seduction | 14/06/26 01:59 PM |
| 1 | So seduction isn’t real it’s a numbers game?Who cares ya know. Each person has a different experience depending on an infinite amount of things. I’ve seen virgin dudes in college get turned out once and completely changed their demeanor, that’s one girl he closed on. It depends on where your head and energy is. In theory the numbers game would still only give you an average in the end and it wouldn’t make you better if you’re not getting quality reps if that’s all you focused on. I will say momentum is a real thing so if you can get a flo… | /r/seduction | 10/06/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Guys That Get Women Over For First DateIf you’re having a good time then you don’t want to stop hanging out. That’s all there is to it really. | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | I blew it today (cold approach story)I gotcha and I agree now, there are a few girls that had some weird resistance to them that end up being super cool once you get past that awkward phase. I still lean towards not hyping them up too much though still lol | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 5 | I blew it today (cold approach story)Bro you killed it for the most part. For the last paragraph I feel like seduction and flirting is at its best when it’s more improvised and not as direct at first. Keep things mysterious open and fun. I would say maybe take a step back and let them flow with you rather than pushing things too fast. I personally won’t walk up to a girl if she hasn’t noticed me and gave me some kind of sign to invite me in. If she has something going on with her style or there’s something goofy around us I can bri… | /r/seduction | 07/06/26 01:21 AM |
| -3 | FR: Turned my high school mate's 42-year-old mom into my regular fuckbuddy (18M)lol be safe out there bro. Getting caught is a whole new experience as well. At this rate you’ll get that during your senior year too. Fuckin legend 😂 | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 01:31 AM |
| 9 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?Use those senses lol | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | I did everything I was supposed to do as a man to improve my looks... I'm still ugly; was it all pointless?God gave you that dick, be proud of that dick. Live and learn and restart again til you get it. It’s already in you, you just need to find your direction and stride. That would be praying and listening to your heart more often then using your mind and everything you’re trying to chase. Much love cuz ❤️ | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if this life is for meYea I bounce around a lot from what I want. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 03:58 PM |
| -1 | anyone ever been to an orgy?I think it would be weird. I’ve been invited to a few and talked about it in party and bar situation multiple times. Never happened but I usually get ol girl by the end of the night even though we were talking about it. I will say a lot of these are 2 mans but I had a solid potential 3 way with some 9s that were rich and I only ended up fuckin one of them because I was way to excited like you are. I needed to warm up first. But even then I still think it would be weird unless your fuckin fuckin.… | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Should texting lean more towards friendly or chill/casual?You got it bro! | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Should texting lean more towards friendly or chill/casual?It really depends. The 2pm suggested time is out of my style personally. I would have seen what was up first. Just seeing what the move was and how to play it. You can have more fun with making plans to gauge where the vibe is rather than being so alpha about it if that makes sense. Some girls will respond well to your input though and as long as your fun in person it really don’t matter | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 11:59 PM |
| 7 | How to get quick easy hookups with girls I like and not just the ones I canParty scene. Whatever that is. Some homies that got some game too you can find some baddies easily. Solo shit would probably be strip clubs for quickest. Tinder or whatever the newest cool one in your area is. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I think I am over fucking and gameyea i usually go through this to date a girl that doesnt meet my expectation, i leave and repeat the process lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 09:19 AM |
| 1 | My most vulnerable post here so farI go back and forth with it. I’m not obsessed with game but definitely a dopamine head and usually want to have a good time. At this point in time in my life I think it’s about riding the wave. For me, too much time in monk mode wouldn’t fulfill me at this time. But it’s good for a reset and to come in back to the game with a slightly fresher perspective. If you find peace and want to change or try change then go for it. It’s your life dawg | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?I was blessed, I had a big brother, he wasn’t good at getting girls he was anti seductive. His best friends were always getting girls and they would take me under their wing lol | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 08:55 AM |
| 2 | How to not get playedNot enough context bro | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What are the best types of Game?Organic game has always been my go | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | No Stories about myself?Yea it could be anywhere you want. | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 2 | No Stories about myself?Usually people you know/friends | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 06:12 PM |
| 2 | No Stories about myself?Telling stories is usually good for the boys. For women they generally don’t give a fuck. Now telling the stories in front of a crowd and making everyone laugh in your circle while a girl notices how people react to your stories that’s usually a big win for how attractive you are. That being said degeneracy, war stories of life, any kind of life experience is worth it and I would 100 percent start living outside of your norm | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over oneitis?i think its smart to go for slightly lower value then youre approaching just to get someone you can feel on top of the value system. just make sure she chill cool and clean. just a girl to hang out with til somethin pops off. Keep it extra casual with that girl and dont lead her on cause the end game is to get a better chick | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Textinglol bro you mide as well let us all see if you'll take advice from anyone. That way you know at least who feels strongly about what to say and can make your decision then. Let the people help and play it out slowly. | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 11:31 PM |
| 33 | Where is the best place to approach a lot of women in the same place during the day for (Daygame)?Just doing your daily life. Grocery store, random errands. Walks in public areas. I wouldn’t look for anything I’d just have motion and spark convo when you want | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up.Come over we got 15 minutes til work or appt. Let’s get it done quick | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 12:46 PM |
| 8 | When to stop textingI leave them on read if they don’t give you something to say back. I’m not a conversation generator ya know. Girls I’ve already hit I’ll act flirty even if they’re short because I know them if that makes since. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 09:34 AM |
| 0 | For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you?Healthy and happy is radiant. You can be fat and sometimes a little ugly and still get girls if you are radiant and confident. Life surprises you in the dating game and sure you’re right in probably most cases but i wouldn’t bother even thinking about it this way because it puts people in a false hierarchy… including yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 04:10 PM |
| 39 | game is dropped boysI stare her into her soul and tell her prop them feet up on the dash and let me smell dem toes. | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Instagram or Phone Number?i feel like serious dating is for text. anything casual stays on socials, theres no expectations to get back to each other right away | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 11:05 AM |
| 4 | From fuckboy to actual relationshipAlso want to point out I weirdly have no beef with any of the women I’ve been with. I’ve hurt some and some have hurt me but I always keep it cool at the end. If and when I see them it’s all love | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 06:59 PM |
| 7 | From fuckboy to actual relationshipI want kids and have faith I’ll be able to have them while being healthy until I’m 40 maybe older. So the next 5 years it’s about finding someone that meets the criteria. Or one that surprises me that I’m just hanging out with, who knows. Either way i definitely want kids and a relationship with the kid and mom but don’t want to be held down by it by marriage. I’ll have to sacrifice something in the end lol and that’s what I’m holding out for probably the most | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 06:46 PM |
| 26 | From fuckboy to actual relationshipThe million dollar question, at some point a sacrifice will need to be made that will ultimately change the direction of your life and you’ll have no idea if it’s the right move. I’m 35 and lived a good life. I’m still scared to fully settle down. I’ve been with a lot of women and some long term relationships with one engagement in a 7 year. Settling down is cool for a year or two but things change so that’s what I mean by sacrifice. We’ll see for me. To each their own but I don’t think it’s sma… | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 06:29 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I wasted my youthOwn them insecurities or they wont go away. The second you take ownership and accept your situation youll get what you want. The envy for others isn't going to help you much either, it usually doesnt ever help me. If i were you I would give your mind a short hiatus from dating and just accept shit for what it is and climb from that foundation. Learn to love yourself and your life trajectory. Believe brother | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Every time I try to make eye contact with a girl/woman she looks away before I am able to smile (6’4”/190lbs/I very rarely go to the gym)You gotta get some healthy muscle weight going. That’s eating nutrient dense foods, not calorie counting for a bit, and just getting some stored energy so you feel safe in your own skin. Stop trying to make eye contact with anyone that you don’t have a reason. It’s reaching. I’m not trying to be harsh but you’ll have to switch some things up for a bit. There will be another time to go back to a more restrictive regime | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me the right number, told me it’s the wrong numberI like the theory of she was with someone and used that as a lie | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerI’m 35 I go for slightly easier women just to get the feel back in the beginning. Knock the dust off the old hips lmao | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Men with high bodycount. Your experience?I’m actually trying to go back to one I split things off with. I’m scared af of commitment now that I’m older😂 of all the girls I was with she was wifey material tho. For the whole soul thing I think you mature and find happiness in yourself and you can share it with whoever you choose once you reach that point. The girl I was most in love with wasn’t worth building a future with, I enjoyed my time with her but was toxic and would have kept some generational curses going. If this don’t work out,… | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I give up?For some maybe but not for all of em. You just gotta own your current situation I promise you’ll be good | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | How do I give up?You got some inner work to do. You’re very negative about yourself and no girl is gonna get wet over a Debby downer. Embrace your tall dumb stupid self more. Get friends, lower your standards on women, get some experience in life and let it surprise you a bit. There’s someone that will fuck you no matter what you look like. A lot of virgins want their first to be special, It most likely won’t be special for anyone but you cause you’re gonna blow your load after sticking it in. Just go have fun a… | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Bachelorette partiesI wouldn’t enroach on anything. Just go out and have fun. If it leads you to their group then cool | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Unintentionally an asshole, how to address it ?I would just slow down and know not everyone thinks like you. Try not to put your judgments out there to quickly. Try to learn why they do the dumb shit they do. This one chick (cool mom situationship)puts a lot on her plate, and she says sorry for it when her house is a mess or there is general chaos in her life. She could and should do a lot of things to lower her single mom work load. I know this and she knows this, I don’t gotta put it down her throat ya know. It’s hard for people in certain… | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Any good cold openers for sharing?Something a little retarded that she thinks would be cute | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 06:29 PM |
| 35 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?Best answer. Do it cause you’re mad horny not cause you’re bored. | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 01:19 PM |
| 3 | How do you talk to women in nightclubs and busy bars?It’s more talking without speaking. Feeling the energy out. You can spark something with eye contact across the room. Progress from that to smiles to a dance or a simple touch exchange. Maybe some laughs. This can go on throughout the night and shouldn’t be rushed | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateits okay to mess up just reel it back in somehow | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:05 AM |
| 2 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?Basing reputation off just a number and the past is pretty goofy in my eyes but yea feel sorry for me big dawg | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 10:39 AM |
| 19 | How many bodies are considered as high bodycount for you personally?I personally don’t care about the number. It goes for who she fucks. How she fucks. Just how she is in general. | /r/seduction | 03/04/26 09:53 AM |
| 3 | How to control paranoia that a girl might post me on social media or compliant to police?fix that inner world brother. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl gave me her #, I know she likes me, how to proceedSet something up. Mess up the plans and cancel a day or two before. After she says it’s okay hit her with a surprise come over on the night tip one night she’s free. Or anything spontaneous. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Struggling to keep conversations going in clubs.Just go have fun, get in that mode. Every situation for me has been different. I like saying whats up however i say it (the energy exchange is important for me, im good at reading that) and keep it short after that, usually its by the 3rd or 4th interaction with them that i start landing something. At least 9/10 times its been like this for me. Find a way to schlide in lmao. A wingman makes first impressions easier to get in there quickly imo but if you go solo just plant seeds brother. Try talk… | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:51 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand whyThe more natural care free the easier. If your trying hard in anything social and fun then you’re just reaching and people don’t fuck with it. So leave all the information you know buried and don’t even think about that shit. Practice and the game are not the same thing and should be treated differently | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 01:14 PM |
| 10 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexOne did this 3 nights in a row. I left 😂 I was being a spoiled brat though. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:42 AM |
| 0 | Is saying something along the lines of "i like you" always a bad idea?i like you is too formal and pushy. I would just say i like how you do "this" or "that" when you catch yourself in a moment that way your directing it towards a action and not her as a whole which is way too validating. you dont know someone til you experience a lot with them. Dynamics get crazy, keep shit fun and simple. Stop rushing | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 11:41 AM |
| 5 | Spending the night at FWB’s house .. focusing on the friendship!Side chics are fun but you better keep throwing that reminder out there that you are not there for a relationship. Standards are so funny, we’ll hang and enjoy our time with any girl if she’s healthy and clean. But when it comes to commitment it’s a strong no cause she doesn’t live up to the expectations we have for ourselves. Makes me think of shallow Hal in a way. | /r/seduction | 12/03/26 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Feeling horny all the timeLearn to hold some tension, when it gets too be too much where it effects how you interact with everything then release. You gotta figure this shit like it’s a circadian rhythm. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Kissing and making out on date is rookie moveIt’s how you make out with her, of course they’re all different, they all have different tempos with this type of stuff. Some girls you can go for the kill shot and you guys are going nuts while making out, some girls you make out with them then start shrugging them off when they are resistant. As humans everyone has unique turn ons and some aren’t as desperate as others. Don’t be desperate for sex, I say this from experience 😂. Take the experience for the ride and dont worry about closing until… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 09:34 AM |
| 1 | How to pull to her place in NYCFuck the hotel (have money for a room if need be) Use money for transportation Keep dates simple and cheap How you wrote it also sounds like you want to date them but then it sounds like you just want to get laid. This is two totally different games So less premeditation and control Go out there and have fun and don’t think so hard about getting laid. If you’re having fun and she is you’ll then get certain queues from her to move in. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 04:26 PM |
| 2 | How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexualitysmart man rightchere | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Not making dates feel like friends meetingI ran into this with this bomb cleveland chick. Looking back she was looking at more of a partner in life with me so testing me big time. I went from feeling like a friend to a husband every hour. She was teasing and massaging me with shirt off and kissing but no cheeks. It ended up confusing me after 1st night so i started getting salty about it. We had fun the next two days, I stayed the night and after the 3rd night I told her I was good after not letting me hit and leading it on. I feel like… | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 10:04 AM |
| 2 | How Do I Turn Workplace Flirting Into a FWB Situation Without Screwing It Up?If youre flirting you should be trying to start making physical contact or leave it open for her to, more when youre alone i would think to protect your job. Keep building tension | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Approach to girls who say they don't kiss on the first dateYou would have to be able to read her it could 1 or 2 or could be something off the wall. I’m pretty good at reading signals and know when a play isn’t going anywhere so if she’s stand offish then I’ll leave her be. This isn’t shy this body communication that she has her eyes on someone else or just isn’t interested in me like that. For the girls that give you the signals that don’t want to kiss or even have sex at first it’s usually a safe guard for their reputation. They usually like you enoug… | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Does any of you have experience with oversize girls? How was it?Quick and to the point 😂 on my end that is | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Am I a bitch?You’re good man that’s cool you’re aware of it. I personally stopped doing it and if was very straight forward about it in the future. Which sometimes still backfires but at least you let em know up front and they agreed. Trust is beautiful with side chicks | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 12:46 AM |
| 12 | Girl from tinder wants to fuckShe is real or not charging you right? | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Weak closing gamehe should bring a bitch back and cause tension if he's about that life | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Got my groove backmy guy! | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I start dating.ask mid-grade girls out, learn to deal with women. Get some confidence and get rid of that "what should i do?" mentality. Don't worry about getting lookers right away. When you start to learn how to finish drywall the boss puts the worker in the closet to learn the skill. So don't discriminate, know your value, have fun, be aware of strengths and weaknesses, learn to listen to them, to set boundaries, and all the other small things. Just go learn, if you're a rookie then go be one and fail and t… | /r/seduction | 20/02/26 10:26 AM |
| -1 | What would make a girl want to see you again even after sex was bad on first time?Some girls just want the validation of sex. They may not enjoy it ever or have specific things going on. I knew a few girls like this | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Went clubbing, pushed myself, didn’t pull — now I feel angry, jealous and confused. Need perspective.i would go to have fun not try to get girls. Of course be open to it but they can read a thirsty man from a mile away, can't hide intentions | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 10:36 PM |
| 3 | I'm losing my mindas a man thinketh | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend (21F) calls me (21M) lustful for asking for sexhard to say without more context. Are their religious beliefs? Does she lie about small stuff or do you trust her? Some girls have pain down there and a general fear so maybe thats it? who knows you gotta get vulnerable or move on cause the middle ground dont seem to be working | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | what is your best gambit/routine to make her turn on?I love when they play hard to get, and you got this subtle chess game of seduction. At one point she's winning (im trying to get what I want and get denied) to accepting her denial and backing off to her wanting it and me remembering she denied me and keep bouncing back and forth til tension is too much. Extra credit if you can relax into that tension and last, that's how you get yourself a clinger for a bit. For non-prospects we do our business, clean up, and go home... | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 11:25 AM |
| 2 | to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself.I had a girl that we got touchy and grabby in high school (serious sexual tension), always talked on the phone back in the day so we were goofy too. When I came home from college and broke up with my the one girl I ended up getting with that girl from highschool, same thing as youre saying except when we did it we fell for each other and I almost married her. I ultimatley backed out. | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 11:33 AM |
| 2 | to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself.lol very nice brother! | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 08:57 AM |
| 2 | to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself.Lol great comment, was it worth it or over hyped when you finally got it? Are you with her still? I kinda want to hear the story now | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 10:42 AM |
| 5 | to the pros here, You go to a house party you barely know anyone and in the distance in kitchen there's a girl all by herself.Man, when i was in my hay day all it took was a look. You gotta read energy. I never want to encroach on someone's girl. Say you are at party for 3 hours,I'll start small, be open, but not give away myself or give them validation right away. Literally act like they are just a human in my line of view. Keeping things breif and small and not caring even though i already want it if that makes since. Being patient lets you escalate slowly, let her judge how you handle situations with the boys and ar… | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?Smartest guys I know marry a mid chick, we just want to bang a 10 not deal with them. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Being seen as boyfriend material but not hookup potentialYou said it at the end. One dude says on YouTube to act like you just ate a big ol pizza and your already satisfied so your not overthinking. I thought it was funny. Casey Zander talks about it | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Resources for upping texting game on dating apps?Tons of hook up and dating videos for free and I don’t think logistics is your best friend in this category | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Resources for upping texting game on dating apps?I think it comes down to the girl and reading her with the profile she gave. Hook up girls are more flirty and you can’t give them too much, like let them fill in the blanks at times while still being really playful. Girls you want to actually date thar advice goes with it but it’s more calculated and dialed. If you copy anyone it won’t get ya what you want, so start failing and trying I think. Learn what does and doesn’t work and find your uniqueness. | /r/seduction | 30/12/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | The emptiness of sleeping with unattractive womenAs I get older i want a traditional relationship and no longer want to sleep around. I personally never bagged a 10. I’ve got a few 9s in their prime. But I’ll be honest I liked the uglier fatter girls for sex. This old BBW was th easiest freak ever to fulfill the flesh. Cause that’s all it was and I agree it did feel bad. It sounds like you maybe battling with knowing you want a wife and you’re not patient and disciplined enough to get a nice traditional wife you actually want to spend the rest… | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Could new years eve be the greatest night of my life?That’s what’s up bro I could never lmao. Just not my style. Only thing i can say is make sure to keep that aura after the 5th to 20th rejection in a row. Or you could have a massive blender with one, hopefully that doesn’t happen but we have to weigh the possibilities here. If you got homies it really is the easiest with a good wingman. Get the boys on the same page, tell them you’re going for it and let’s go have fun with it, you ain’t scared, get em hype. Make sure you laugh a lot and have fun… | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 05:06 AM |
| 1 | am I at the advanced stage of burnout? Am I the only one that feels this way?I’m not a fan of cold approach, I like using the situation and whatever feels natural. As long as I’m getting the girl I want I don’t care how I get her. Usually I’ll play tiny seeds and can tell if she waters them. Or switch it around if she wants to make the first move. It’s an unspoken energy that’s way more friendly and overall organic. What I’m trying to say is I don’t think cold approach does anything but speed things up but comes with higher risk of messing up. Appropriate social foreplay… | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Trying to set up a dateGet your boys and go out together and have a good time. It’s easier cause you will make her feel like she has to give an answer and if it’s a maybe the it would be a no. Ask her with already going out with your boys in mind and just see if she wants to tag along or meet you out. Then there’s your chance. If you want to know if she likes you then hit her up and play the game | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 01:12 AM |
| 6 | Seductive ways to initiate sexThis will make em fall in love lmao | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.Yea I’ve always had to lead them on, I actually I haven’t been so far away from love then ever before. I keep manipulating a potential relationship to a girl I just want to use for a good time. It’s morally wrong and I’m convinced that if I keep doing it I’m gonna get into some serious problems. I guess I’m getting old and don’t want to put my desires before someone’s else’s feelings, or at least someone that I’m pretending to care about | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 02:25 PM |
| 2 | It's all smoke and dust until she's in your bed. Don't get excited early.A lot of girls want to chase, what guy is gonna make her play all her cards and still be in a frame of mind that’s beneficial for him. I’m probably the worst cause when they want to fuck I’m always game but I’m learning if I can hold off on that then it makes her want it more. That sweet spot where you’re not ignoring her and fully present with her but not giving her the satisfaction of you cumming cause at that point she’s validated. So long term relationship is kind of what I’ve been researchi… | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 02:20 PM |
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