SoryuBDD Archive

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3	I need help understanding this I'm gonna be honest. I'm having a bad depressive episode which causes me to be triggered into this mindstate. That doesn't really mean it's okay for me to go around preaching blackpill shit online, but that's basically what you're arguing against (mental illness) I'm going to bring this up in therapy tomorrow. I feel ashamed that I got into incel mentality again, I'm sorry. You're right though, life is more nuanced than that and the blackpill is toxic. Plenty of people get into relationships wit…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 04:53 PM
1	What's some media to help recover from red pill? Ugh, Xanderhal is an idiot who lives in the HasanAbi sphere of politics. The amount of women who adore Xanderhal or Hasan is kind of proof that behavior is irrelevant when it comes to dating or attraction. They're only popular because of their bone structure. OP, I would recommend looking into studies about lookism, the halo effect, and reading about plastic surgery. It will open your eyes as to how life is pretty much determined by your physical appearance. If you can, I would recommend looksma…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 04:41 PM
–	I need help understanding this I don't understand what's funny about the harsh truth that men are seen as subhuman unless they have the looks of a model, but go off I guess.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 04:34 PM
–	I need help understanding this I'm not the one gaslighting. You're gaslighting men by trying to convince us that our choices matter. The reality is we don't really have a choice. Self-deception is a human trait and we're good at rationalizing our base instincts away, I don't see why this wouldn't apply to you as well.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:59 PM
–	I need help understanding this Because, I think people like to convince themselves of a just-world. Plus, there seems to be some incentive (not sure what it is) to fight against the blackpill. I've been seeing it ever since I stumbled across these communities and my BDD started developing. People always try to encourage optimism when it's just delusional to do so. So they do that by making up fiction of men who aren't male models that get into happy relationships. They also like to push this feel-good story that if you improv…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:58 PM
–	I need help understanding this Even in what women consider physically attractive, there's huge variation. There isn't. There is an objective standard of beauty that has been dictated by human evolution. If you don't meet that standard then there is simply no hope. Among me and my three closest female friends, we have completely different types. Chad with glasses, Chad with turtleneck, and Chad with football jersey. Leaving aside looks entirely, the only problem that men have control over is their own behavior And behavior doe…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:51 PM
-1	I need help understanding this I dated a guy who was 5'2". His mentality was trash because he always focused on his height. Pissed me off. What likely pissed you off was his height, not his realistic and honest attitude towards it. The thing holding you back is you. Correct, but more specifically it's the attributes you can't control that hold you back.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:41 PM
0	I need help understanding this It is either a joke or they basically see you as a pet they can string along. OP please do not listen to these women, they are lying to themselves in order to lie to you. It's unfortunate but they'll virtue signal to avoid the uncomfortable truth that unless you're chad you are doomed to a meaningless and loveless life. Unfortunately love is a gift that women only extend to the creme of the crop. It's just how human sexuality works.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:40 PM
-1	I need help understanding this You're forgetting the one thing that matters more than anything else, and that's face. If someone has the requirements to be seen as biologically fit for reproduction, then hair, skin, how they dress, etc, will be rationalized and seen as attractive. (I.e a male model dressing like a homeless person, if that model was 3/10 they would be seen as homeless. Otherwise they look attractive.) Dating and female sexuality especially is black and white, all or nothing. You're either deemed as human or se…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:39 PM
0	I need help understanding this Women have different parameters for what they consider attractive They don't. All that matters is having positive canthal tilt, hunter eyes, a developed maxilla and mandible, facial symmetry and good teeth. If you fit that criteria you will never be rejected. Some do just base it on physical features. EVERY human does it based on physical features. This is basic biology. After all, women face more danger from potential partners, so they have greater reason to consider someone's vibe. "Vibe" is b…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:36 PM
-2	I need help understanding this By having other positive traits that you exhibit and work on. The only positive traits that matter when it comes to dating are your bone structure, height is secondary. I don't know why you have to mislead OP and think that behavior or personality has anything to do with it. I also highly doubt the story of your "mate" it seems like everyone has this fake person in their lives that have gotten married despite not looking like a male model. It just doesn't happen anymore. Women are only attracted…	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:30 PM
0	I need help understanding this I feel like this isn't true. It's a universal truth that people are willing to put up with anything if the other is attractive enough. If you date someone who's genetically fit then you would feel feel human and loved by the sheer fact that you are worthy enough for someone who has a superhuman bone structure. It's basic biology.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/24 03:29 PM