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Activism/SupportSoulofEquality/r/MensRights01/12/17 02:33 PM
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For a lot of guys, the hate/anger subsides over time and we resign ourselves to the fact that for the most part women have no control over their biological programming. What do you consider to be inherent biological programming versus learned from one's environment though? I think there are very few aspects of ourselves that the majority of men and women cannot be expected to control. To shrug off someone's bad behavior as unavoidable seems to be saying that they shouldn't be held responsible fo…
/r/MGTOW207/02/18 01:43 PM
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Exactly. While we still have horrible crimes like rape and human trafficking, they seem to affect males and females pretty equally. However, I would definitely be supportive of a Feminist organization that works to dismantle sex rings and bring children back to their families... Don't know of any though.
/r/MensRights28/01/18 04:04 PM
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Where do you see a strawman here? Nobody is saying that "tearing down women's issues" is in any way equitable to men's rights. The post is pointing out that Feminism in the Western world has become little more than a platform for complaints regarding things that mildly inconvenience some women.
/r/MensRights28/01/18 04:01 PM
2

This reads like some MGTOW opinions I've read, except directed at males. Sexism is evil, whether it's misandric or misogynistic.
/r/MensRights24/01/18 07:39 PM
1

Most harassment doesn't escalate to anything resembling a street fight, however. Usually it's verbally aggressive assholes talking down to people to feed their already over inflated egos.
/r/MensRights14/01/18 12:30 AM
2

Yes, because every heavyset male in existence is old enough to be my father according to you. 🙄
/r/MensRights12/01/18 11:12 AM
1

Who is this "she"? Why keep talking about just women, when the point I was making in my initial comment is that it's sexist to only ask men to put themselves at risk.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 05:11 AM
1

Didn't realize it was white knighting to stand up for men and children. Regardless, you should do what you are most comfortable with.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 04:59 AM
1

If you say so.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 04:56 AM
1

Why do you say a gun is required?
/r/MensRights12/01/18 04:21 AM
1

Better to make sure you are safe first. Nobody should have to be a "hero", but I believe everyone should watch out for one another.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 04:20 AM
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I am very sympathetic to the fact you went through that. She was obviously a complete psycho. Unfortunately I already know that some people are insane.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 04:19 AM
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Lol. Nah, it's definitely my fault. I'm really bad with being able to understand sarcasm/jokes online...eh, and sometimes irl too. Sorry about that. 😅
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:44 AM
1

Not a problem. I wish you luck on your interview!
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:39 AM
2

As you wish, mwo. I'm not getting into this with you again. I'm attracted to the type of men I'm attracted to, and your attempts to shame both me and said men is acknowledged but not appreciated.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:38 AM
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You might surprise yourself. I'm not normally a confrontational woman, I find it much easier to just shrug and walk away from those who are bothering or arguing with me. Life's too short for me to care, y'know? But when I see other people being hit or screamed at? It's like a fire I never usually have gets lit under me. I have to intervene, even if it just means being a distraction until cops show up or trying to get the aggressor to calm down. I've been slapped, gotten shoved into a wall, pushe…
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:36 AM
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And that's up to you. I've been hit on as a cashier, and as a customer. Neither was appreciated, and each instance was extremely uncomfortable. I just don't like letting such people walk over me, I always will stand up for myself first. We each have to do what we think is best, and if you think it'd be best for you to never shop in a place where you were hit on again, then that's obviously what you've determined is best for you. I'm just saying I'd make a different decision.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:25 AM
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Thank you, but I don't see it as being great. I see it as just what you should do. Helping others if they're in need is the baseline, helping others if they are just mildly inconvenienced or helping your community as a whole is "great". There's been times I was being harassed or threatened, and nobody helped me... I don't want other men and women to experience the same.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:19 AM
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Go ahead, be a hero, but realize that in a community larger than Dunbar's number, no one will give a shit. The people I've helped did. That's all that matters. I wouldn't even intervene if I felt I could possibly get hurt and then not be there for my kids or miss work and not be able to make money for my family. That's fair. Though I'd be upset about missing work or getting injured, I am single and childfree. Yes, my fwb, mother, and siblings would be worried about me if I was hurt, but nobody d…
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:14 AM
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???
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:08 AM
1

I've just never heard a woman use it, only men. But hey, you learn something new everyday.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:07 AM
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If I saw the weapon before confronting them, I'd hang back, look for a better opportunity to help, and try to keep others away. Possibly try to get someone further back to dial 911. If I don't see the weapon prior to getting involved, then obviously I'll have to deal with that as it happens.
/r/MensRights12/01/18 01:05 AM
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Well, the majority of people are apathetic towards a stranger's problems, so no. Society in general is not going to help you, and is (from my experience) just barely more willing to help me. Like, 10% vs 15%. I watch ABC's What Would You Do hidden camera show quite often, and yeah... people are more willing to help women than men but that's if they help at all. Normally, men and women alike just go on with their lives, which is just sad imo.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 07:04 PM
1

The weird thing about the elite (I'm guessing you mean male models and/or bodybuilders) is that they aren't all that attractive. They don't look "real", more like someone you'd see on a photoshopped magazine cover than a honest to goodness man. I tend to like the look of guys who are heavyset, somewhere between "dadbod" and "chunky". Edit: Huh. Downvoted for liking men that don't look like Ken dolls? Interesting...
/r/MensRights11/01/18 06:58 PM
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What do you guys think about men posting dick pics? Unsolicited: I've gotten sent about a dozen surprise dick pics, all of them either from guys I'd been speaking to as potential dates on dating websites, or random people who PM'd me on Facebook. One was done purely for shock value, from an arrogant Chadbro I'd been arguing with. A few where sent to try and guilt me into sending pussy pics a la I already showed you mine even though you didn't ask...now you're obliged to send nudes back, which I …
/r/MensRights11/01/18 06:46 PM
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Good point. I'll leave a comment then.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 06:24 PM
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That's what I was always taught. You help anyone who needs it, male and female alike, so long as it doesn't put you in significant danger. And if it does, you accept that if you feel it's a good thing to stand up for. Maybe most women aren't taught this, however.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 06:21 PM
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Huh. I've never heard it used in a demeaning or shameful way before. Typically I hear guys using it themselves, when talking about a male friendship that's particularly dear to them.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 06:19 PM
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I think everyone would benefit from having more adventuring in their lives. The girl scouts is a joke compared to the boy scouts, least from the ones my mom tried to get me to join vs the boy scout meetings my neighbor invited me to. It'd be preferable if our scouting groups were created to be open to both sexes, like they are in the UK. https://members.scouts.org.uk/cms.php?pageid=1828
/r/MensRights11/01/18 12:07 PM
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I have a fear of touch so it's difficult to be physically close to most of my friends, but will absolutely admit that my friendships with men have always been far stronger than the ones I've had with women. For one thing, they don't mind that I have a male gender, whereas every girl/woman has treated me like a sexist or I'm mentally broken. Men don't usually backstab you with secrets you told them in confidentiality, use moments of vulnerability against you, or mock your views instead of discuss…
/r/MensRights11/01/18 12:00 PM
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Bromance is a shaming term nowadays?
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:46 AM
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OP, there's no evidence of her assaulting the officer in this video, although she does seem to be resisting arrest. While I agree that this event is probably getting more attention than if it was a male teacher, I don't see everything happening that your post title says. Did another source clarify that?
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:44 AM
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I took a 2 year break from Facebook, because I was involved with some MRA/egalitarian groups and various "friends" (aka customers or remote acquaintances who'd pestered me into friending them) kept private messaging me, calling me out for having "internalized misogyny". I recently started posting/commenting again, and although I'm mostly sticking to sharing nerdy memes or Marvel movie quotes, I have been seeing a lot more openness in discussing men's issues. Sure, they're still uncommon, but I s…
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:36 AM
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What the heck? She thinks that she can't go back just because she got hot on? While it was unprofessional to hit on a customer (just as it's unprofessional to hit on a cashier), the solution to her "problem" is simple. Continue shopping there, and if you see him again say thanks for the offer but I'm not interested. There's zero reason to tell his manager he was being "harassing", just as there's no reason to stop going there for gas, coffee, whatever.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:28 AM
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I'm a female MRA who has received both solicited and unsolicited dick pics. Am I allowed to give my thoughts regarding this topic, or do you only want answers from men? Wasn't sure.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:22 AM
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I firmly believe (and have practiced) that if I see a man, woman, or child being harmed, I have a moral responsibility to do something about it. Sometimes this means calling the cops, other times it means stepping in to help the victim. So where's the poster telling women to stand up for men?
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:19 AM
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No downvote, but what does this have to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:15 AM
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Good. People like her should be kept from society, she contributes nothing but drama and false testimony.
/r/MensRights11/01/18 11:12 AM
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Lol. That is very true. Unfortunately, I'm unemployed at the moment so I'd actually take that job though. Just about any work is preferable to no work.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 11:44 PM
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Exactly. Reminds me of a dog chasing it's tail...the excuses just go 'round and 'round.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 10:34 PM
1

And that may be true, idk. The longest I've ever used a sledgehammer for is 2 hours, and that was 3 summers ago. But if I wanted the opportunity to work at that particular job, it'd be up to me to hit the gym and make sure my muscles were up to the task. Otherwise, there'd be little point in hiring me if I'm incapable of doing the job.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 09:23 PM
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From the article: "Nowhere on earth do women have as many opportunities as men. Nowhere. But for girls and women in the poorest countries, that inequality is amplified," the ONE Campaign's website reads. We won't end extreme poverty until we break down the barriers holding girls and women back. I have never been to a third world country, and cannot remark about them in any way remotely close to those who have lived/currently live in those areas. But it would be nice if one of these activists wou…
/r/MensRights08/01/18 12:08 PM
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Unfortunately, it is not being set up to work like that. If it were a matter of male and female gender roles simply making a full reversal, you'd have a point. But this is not what we see happening. Yes, women are getting rid of some of our traditional roles, but it's not being done fairly, as men are still expected to keep theirs. Heck, there are women who want men to take on both.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 12:00 PM
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I've seen this before as well. The type of cognitive dissonance required for the same person to say "my ideology helps both men and women" and "it's not the duty of my ideology to help men, they should learn to help themselves" is extreme. Unfortunately, there are many Feminists who say exactly this. I personally have met more than a dozen IRL, and know of many more online.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 11:57 AM
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It's sad to realize just how often some of these charges are used. For example, entire books have been written about "Code Green", most notably Guyland and Angry White Men by Michael Kimmel.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 11:51 AM
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I'd like to see those, plus the stats for purposefully single men and women. I have a feeling that those of us who are MGTOW/WGTOW are better off mentally than men and women who are hitched.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 12:55 AM
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This was inappropriate. Not because of the age of the students, but because if you really want to teach children about equality, it'd behoove teachers to not make the "privileged" kids feel badly for being born or give the "unprivileged" kids a victim complex.
/r/MensRights08/01/18 12:35 AM
2

Precisely my point. Glad to see others agree. We aren't children, and thus have a personal responsibility to speak up if we're uncomfortable with a situation, especially when directly asked if we're okay with it.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 05:45 PM
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I know... it's so damn confusing.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 04:52 PM
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He doesn't look like the type who's ever been to a gym/in a situation where he needed to be taught that. Honestly, it's something they should teach to boys and girls while we're still in high school. Never know when you'll need to defend yourself.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 12:16 PM
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Ah, okay. My confusion was due to thinking you were still talking about the OP's post, not DV. Those are two very different situations! I was wondering why it mattered if you had your kids with you and a random belligerent woman started arguing with you in public. You should still just walk away from that, don't stay and put up with it or let them be around your offspring. Didn't realize you'd changed the scenario...😅
/r/MensRights04/01/18 12:14 PM
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I'd agree with that, and note how ironic it is that C.K. has always called himself a feminist. 😅
/r/MensRights03/01/18 08:01 PM
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I wish you the same, brother MRA. 😎🍻🖖
/r/MensRights03/01/18 08:00 PM
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Guess we'll just have to agree to disagree, then.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 07:00 PM
1

What of other examples?
/r/MensRights03/01/18 06:55 PM
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I can agree with the last paragraph but everything else you said I can’t accept because I know it’s wrong. I'm the same regarding your assertions. Another thing if you ever truly want to get rid of the homosexual disorder What do you mean? I'm bisexual, I have no "homosexual disorder". I'm sexually attracted to both men and women despite having a male gender/female sex. If I was to "cure" myself of my sexuality, which sex should I no longer feel attraction towards? try to go Celibate for a year;…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 06:54 PM
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I also wanted to point out that "how people dealt with" transgender men and women in the past varies considerably according to what culture we're talking about. In ancient Greece, there existed some temples run by MtF citizens who'd undergone not only a type of castration to prevent becoming masculinized but also other body modifications. The Middle East had MtF people known as "mukhannathun". Only those who'd been made into eunuchs were allowed into woman's spaces/treated as women, but they wer…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 05:21 PM
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Yes, co-workers at best. The fact that he was a guest star and she was a producer/performer to the TV show he was invited to, puts her status above his own. He wasn't her supervisor or superior at any time.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 05:00 PM
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I hate to go the NAXALT route, but I think it's necessary for our discussion. Yes, I will acknowledge that much... maybe even a majority...of the LBGTQ community has been hijacked by Feminists and SJWs. It's disgusting, how they use us as mere platforms for their causes instead of treating us as individuals. I'm 31 now, and let me tell you...it was not fun growing up with gender dysphoria, but at least nobody was trying to force words or traits onto me like I see happening to transgender kids no…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 04:44 PM
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Sometimes it is, if it's related to the job itself. I experienced this myself very often in my first two jobs, where I'd be consistently asked to work 10+ hours more a week while gaining nothing financially since I was salaried. But asking a fellow comedian if she wants to watch you wank off is not at all job related. And as far as I've been able to tell from my research into the C.K. cases, he was never a supervisor/employer to any of them. At best, he was just a worker in the same field, albei…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 04:21 PM
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If he actually used his status as a threat (if you don't watch me masturbate, you won't get hired) I'd absolutely agree with you. But unless any of his accusers come out to say that, which none have so far, then there is little reason they couldn't have said no.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 03:46 PM
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Just use normal, gender neutral pronouns then. They/Them/Their, same as you would for anyone you don't know the sex of, like babies or androgynous looking people. There's no need to talk about a human being as though they are a chair or lamp.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 03:44 PM
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Is this real? How can you ban someone from having sex? Is this something on the lawbooks in the UK (I'm from the US)?
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:31 PM
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Creating numerous local men's rights groups should be done first. Get the numbers growing at the smaller levels, then use MHRAconnect to get a multi-group march together.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:30 PM
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Stars above, that's absolutely horrible. I sympathize with you, OP. Please contact the courts before she can, worry about getting the lawyer afterwards.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:27 PM
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I agree with you that his kids and mother didn't deserve to be treated like that, and the transgender person was very much in the wrong as abusive. But do you have to call them an "it"? They/he is still a human being, albeit a horrible one, not an object.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:26 PM
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It's like these people don't view it as a horror/psychological film.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:21 PM
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Maybe it's just me, but since all the women C.K. masturbated in front of admitted that he asked if it was okay with them first...and apparently none said no... I find it really difficult to place much blame on him.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:18 PM
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Good idea, OP. Even though fliers are only a minor step towards getting the word out, I think that if properly placed in public area, it could lead to more discussions.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 12:15 PM
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Then...what?
/r/MensRights03/01/18 04:04 AM
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Some do, but honestly? Online multiplayer is essentially the internet. If you're going to get that upset by a random guy on your shared server calling you a "useless cunt" because you missed a shot, or mocking you for the crime of being born with a vagina... Maybe the internet isn't for you. It has good people on it, don't get me wrong, but it has a lot of trolls and idiots too. You either accept it and give insults back, ignore those who insult you, or refrain from going online.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 11:47 AM
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Hence the wisdom in removing yourself from the proximity of those who'd weaken your restraint.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 11:42 AM
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I suppose, though I might argue that 18 and 19 year olds aren't usually considered children anymore. My father's type of anger management issues do seem to only affect a portion of the population, thankfully. Why would you hit someone just for words though? Unless the person in question is literally inciting violence, I can't think of anything someone could say to me that would make me mad enough to inflict physical harm on them. I mean, I've had people irl insult me, threaten me, or tell me tha…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 09:52 AM
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Women are trained to believe (and are usually correct) that no man will hit them, so they don't have that kind of restraint. That sounds true for the most part, but it's very different to be told "males won't hit you because vagina" vs learning early on that this is a lie. I've been punched, kicked, tripped down stairs, shoved, and generally picked on by male peers from 5th-12th grade. Maybe cis females have different experiences. I was always "informed" by my bullies that since I dressed like a…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 08:26 AM
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That's where you're wrong. Research has proven that women think about sex just as much as men, sometimes more so. And of course they do. Do you have sources? I'd actually be interested to read about this, since most other women I've spoken to have said otherwise, and indeed were some of the people who said my desire for sex is for "male attention" rather than physical relief. The only thing is that attraction works differently in a woman's mind, leading to the common scenario of women giving sig…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 08:06 AM
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If it’s a “rule” that women select a mate based on income, that would mean that a majority, perhaps even a vast majority, of women select a mate based on the man having a higher income. If all men were to just date/marry a woman who is an exception to the rule, a vast majority of men wouldn’t be able to find a mate and would die alone- that is not a feasible solution. I agree. Never said it was a feasible solution for all men, just that perhaps the guy in question had found one of us rule breake…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 12:54 AM
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Sad, but true.
/r/MensRights28/12/17 12:51 AM
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Exactly. But they don't want to be a normal person, they want everyone to remember at all times that they're a female person.
/r/MensRights28/12/17 12:50 AM
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Thanks. 😁
/r/MensRights28/12/17 12:49 AM
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Depends on where you do it and who the audience is. I've had guys defend a position I took online (I was talking to a supposed MGTOW** who said he was "pro-rape"...I said that even if someone is pro-rape they shouldn't say that on a MGTOW channel because it gives the movement a bad name), and they were called my "white knights" simply because I'm a woman. **Honestly think he was a troll, not a real MGTOW.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:46 AM
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Feminists are simply upset we've neglected to pay our Sisterhood Membership fees. 😏 Seriously though, they are just pissed when fellow women are welcomed into predominantly male spaces with smiles and acceptance for being "chill" (aka normal human beings). Why? Because they aren't welcomed since they act like everything is a source of frickin misogyny, so they force their way in and proceed to ignore the fact that this is shitty, rude behavior akin to demanding entrance to a clubhouse instead of…
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:34 AM
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Just be careful you don't accidentally let their wives or girlfriends overhear. That causes a shit ton of trouble, even if you only say something like "hey man, that shirt looks good on you" or "nice haircut".
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:21 AM
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I've been told women ask for it so they "don't waste their time and get disappointed when the time comes." Wow. 😲 How mature of them. Body shaming, much?
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:18 AM
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I posted this on my Facebook last week, and added my own thoughts to it, basically saying that maybe 2018 is the year we can finally get to the point where males receive compliments (real ones, not fake "catcalling" by drunk women) as much as females for their bodies/physical features. Got a bunch of upvotes from my male friends/acquaintances. And a long ass comment from a dude I barely know who wanted to flaunt the fact he got compliments everyday when he used to work out and went on to say tha…
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:16 AM
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I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:02 AM
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I don't understand what goes through people's minds when they take an argument from Words to Assault. The only times I've ever laid a hand on anyone was to protect someone else who was in danger/already being hit, and both times it was a male victim, too. Even then, I got punched but got back up to keep helping. (Why do these quick-to-attack types always go down after a single hit?) Seriously, there was no reason for this woman to come after that guy. She is completely at fault in this situation…
/r/MensRights27/12/17 10:01 AM
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I don't use public transportation often, but the times I have, I've never seen men sitting with their legs any further apart than myself (open for better comfort/balance, but not sprawled out). Where are all these guys supposedly taking up "two or more seats" with their gigantic legs and massive balls?
/r/MensRights27/12/17 09:43 AM
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I agree, it's two halves of the same coin, Misandry: Misogyny. One can't exist without the other because of the biases needed to "back up" each kind of sexist behavior. Men = strong, women = weak? Must patronizingly rush over like an asshole to hold a door open for an unencumbered woman but fuck holding one for a man struggling to carry a box through. Woman = caregiver, man = unnurturing? Incorrectly assume that all women adore children and that there's something "wrong" with those of us who enj…
/r/MensRights27/12/17 09:37 AM
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Or help everyone. That works too.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 09:05 AM
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Why?
/r/MensRights27/12/17 08:58 AM
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True, but I thought it would be more of a "check various sources" type of thing. Like you'd have to include your Facebook page, and would be declined if it had a lack of posts/was created only days before joining. I wonder if the prevalence of fake profiles will make it more difficult to meet men now... I'm supposing not, since it looks like I can send a message to prove I'm not a bot.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 08:57 AM
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...you never would have gotten married in the first place. Why? Because as a rule, women are hypergamous. Then wouldn't he have just married/dated a woman who's an exception to the rule instead?
/r/MensRights26/12/17 11:47 PM
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Could be wrong, but it seems like this only takes into account multi-person households, where the woman can actually spend her income AND her spouse's/partner's income too. Otherwise it's saying that women typically live via massive amounts of credit card debt. I know that I, as a single woman with only my income to rely on, simply could not ever afford to somehow spend "90% more" than what I bring home after taxes.
/r/MensRights26/12/17 11:44 PM
1

Wow. Alright then, not even as technologically advanced as I would have thought...
/r/MensRights26/12/17 11:37 PM
1

Pretty much same. Maybe we would get along. Maybe we would. It sounds difficult to find people who think like us, least from what I've read in my years involving the manosphere. I don't know either of you, obviously, but as a random uninformed asshole on the internet that "exposure therapy" plan doesn't sound like the best idea. Or even a good one. But it might be, depending how severely you react to being touched. Eh, I don't think it's a good idea either, but I'm willing to try for him if it m…
/r/MensRights26/12/17 11:36 PM
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How do they verify a profile? Link it to an existing Facebook account or something?
/r/MensRights25/12/17 12:32 PM
1

Fwiw, I don't know how I am with light/casual either. Don't think I could do it, honestly. My fwb is the only person I've had consensual sex with, and we've been doing so for the last 9 years. I don't give a damn about commitment or exclusivity, but can't imagine sharing sex with someone I don't care about. Hence why he thinks I need to try and get over my haphephobia through dating other men and women. Guess he's thinking it's a form of exposure therapy or something. I'd prefer not to. Sounds l…
/r/MensRights25/12/17 12:31 PM
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Nah, I was just thinking of joining a local atheist group or something. I'm not intent on looking for a partner, I already have a fwb. He just thinks I should get out more and raise my N a bit.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 10:19 PM
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Lol. That is almost exactly one of the messages I got.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 10:17 PM
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When I say women are lazy, its because the effort in conversation or dating, not women asking guys out. Sorry, I haven't gone on more than a handful of dates since college. Could you expand on this? You were punching way above your weight class. A ratio that bad makes me think that you're a 4~5 when you think you're an 8. I don't think I'm an 8, though. Further down I said I was a 7, and that's what I'm normally told by my FWB, friends, and what I was rated on one of those "hot or not" sites las…
/r/MensRights24/12/17 05:40 PM
1

It was very weird. There's also at least 3 profiles on PoF I'd found that were men talking about MGTOW instead of what they were like/looking for.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 04:17 PM
1

I was actually thinking of using Bumble precisely because women message first. Is it really filled with dead ends? Or only on the female side?
/r/MensRights24/12/17 11:37 AM
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Ironically, when we do the work, it doesn't lead to anything. However, the article said this: Led by Jennie Zhang from Oxford University, it found when women message first, men only reply 42 per cent of the time. ... which makes me feel a bit better, because I thought I was doing something wrong. I've heard again and again from subs like this one, Purple Pill Debate, TRP, etc that women are all "lazy" because we don't ask out guys. So the last time I used an online dating site, I spent 3 hours r…
/r/MensRights24/12/17 11:33 AM
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Glad to see so many people speaking out.
/r/MensRights24/12/17 12:57 AM
2

Which game is this?
/r/MensRights24/12/17 12:56 AM
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Well done!
/r/MensRights24/12/17 12:55 AM
2

Then I found this article saying that yes, it is all men on everyday feminism... But I thought feminism isn't about hating men I have this really nice bridge to sell you.
/r/MensRights23/12/17 11:51 PM
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”Then, for any number of reasons that are too vast to specify, the woman says no. There’s little to no warning. There’s little to no reason. She just starts saying no. Under the emerging concept of consent, as espoused by the very vocal wings of third-wave feminism, that man is now a rapist.” If your partner says “no”, you should stop whatever it is you’re doing. I’d say that if you kept going while they ask you to stop…yeah, now you’re a rapist. That goes for men and women alike. But if you sto…
/r/MensRights23/12/17 11:50 PM
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You're ageing right along with her though...If she's able to stay loyal to you as you get wrinkled, lose libido, lose muscles, gain weight, etc shouldn't you be able to do the same? Don't get me wrong, I actually think that it's unnatural for our species (both sexes) to engage in lifelong monogamy. But if a man finds a woman who is loyal to him for years and brings actual happiness and ease to his life, it should stand to reason that yeah time goes by for both of you.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 11:32 PM
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And when the day comes that she cheats, you just smile, feel the emotional pinch but stay calm, say to yourself "of course" like the master in the glass story, and simply implement your exit strategy. What do you do when that day never comes?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 11:22 PM
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Personally I love when the man I'm with has more orgasms during an intercourse, but they are always surprise when I keep going, so I ended up thinking that other girls teach men they should make them come before, even if, with a bit of effort, they could just keep going after the man came once or twice. How do you make a guy cum more than once per session? Unfortunately I've only been with my one fwb so my experiences are limited to just the way his body works, but he says that a man his age (mi…
/r/MensRights17/12/17 04:09 PM
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It likely has to do with the fact that most women have trouble reaching orgasm, so getting to have one quickly or easily is a very good thing. However, once the male orgasms it's usually seen as the "end" to that sex session, either because now he wants to just sleep, eat, or lay there relaxing regardless of whether the woman got off or not. Not saying this is how it always is, but it's how I've heard it explained.
/r/MensRights17/12/17 03:58 PM
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Any rational man or woman would not. Unfortunately, common sense appears to be a superpower for how rare it is.
/r/MensRights17/12/17 11:51 AM
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Ah, but here's a terrifying thought: you probably wouldn't. Much as the attitude of cut-guys-in-denial frustrates me, I can't help but understand it. To accept that this was wrong, you have to accept that your family knowingly subjected you to ritual child abuse. Your family. I agree, for those with otherwise normal childhoods with loving, caring parents who in every other aspect of your life want you to be healthy and successful...well. It must cause at least some cognitive dissonance. But I th…
/r/MensRights17/12/17 11:44 AM
2

Out to lunch? Dude, I've met people who own the frickin restaurant, lol.
/r/MensRights17/12/17 11:00 AM
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Thank you. Obviously I wasn't talking about statutory rape laws in my comment, not all of which I agree with anyway.
/r/MensRights17/12/17 10:58 AM
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No, and I'm 31 and live in the US. The article made it sound like something commonly said though...Perhaps it's because I've always worked in male-dominated fields, so when someone is out sick it's not necessary to call it something sex-specific or to make fun. When over 80% of the employees and clients are male, why bother calling it a "man-flu"?
/r/MensRights16/12/17 03:27 PM
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I have a Business Management degree and a Philosophy degree, but it was probably a requirement moreso because of how Liberal the college was. In order to graduate I had to take either Black Studies or Women's Studies and unfortunately they are only offered on a rotating semester...so WS it was. Interesting that I'm getting downvoted. Seems like we might have some Women's Studies majors hanging around, lol.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 03:23 PM
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Thousands of texts sent from her to the real victim asking for and describing casual, violent sex and fucked up rape fantasies, yet the detective handling the case thought they were "too personal" to share with the defendant's lawyer?! Damn straight they're personal... Personal testimony that the faux victim wasn't raped. Nobody calls or texts their rapist asking for more!
/r/MensRights16/12/17 11:34 AM
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Try taking a Woman's Studies course in college. I had to in order to get my degree, and I constantly was getting reprimanded by the professor for having "internalized misogyny" for bringing up pro-male points, despite the fact that I always made sure they were relevant to what was being discussed.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 11:25 AM
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How can you argue that you're severely oppressed when you get away with this kind of behavior? It boggles the mind. This is why I tell people that while I've encountered individual misogynistic assholes, it's almost nothing compared to the system of widely accepted misandry we have in society at large. For all the "patriarchy" supposedly flourishing around us, it's certainly very hard to find examples of it.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 11:20 AM
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It's hard to get people to understand that, nothing seems wrong because you have no basis for comparison. There's literally no way for you or me to know what natural sex feels like. It seems weird to me that guys wouldn't be irked by that. The way my fwb has explained it to me is that since he's already very sensitive and has no problem reaching orgasm or getting hard, there's "obviously" nothing wrong with losing some skin. He said he also knew a few guys in high school sports who would complai…
/r/MensRights16/12/17 11:09 AM
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Female virgins can get it too, via the same methods of genital rubbing or mutual masturbation without cleaning fluids off. I read one study where 70% of sexually active women (the average number of sex partners they'd had was 6) had HPV and 10% of virgins had it. This is why you can't be too careful with a new partner, regardless of whether you are hetero, homo, or bi. Even if your partner is a sexually inexperienced man/woman, there could be dangerous STDs in bed with you.
/r/MensRights16/12/17 10:50 AM
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Are they truly idiots, though? Or just ignorant to the dangers? Is a woman who is pro-marriage misandric? Or is she simply following the script laid out as the "best path"? I'm anti-marriage myself because I think it's an unnecessary inclusion of the state into a private relationship, and because it currently has misandric undertones, not to mention the loss of personal freedom for both partners you spoke of above. Yet I'm unsure if enough men and women actually take time to really consider thes…
/r/MensRights16/12/17 10:33 AM
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Whenever I see someone post an opinion like "I'll always believe a woman who's said she's been raped/harassed/groped", I get so frustrated. What happened to the cornerstone of our judicial system, Innocent Til Proven Guilty? The burden of proof, at least in the US, is on the person making the claim not on the defendant. Is this just going to be washed away now?
/r/MensRights16/12/17 10:23 AM
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Weird. I've never heard of "man-flu"...the flu is the flu, a cold is a cold. I have noticed my friends and lover get worse symptoms than I do and take longer to recuperate, but never chalked it up to something sex-specific. Figured it had to do with the fact they all have allergies to the dust/pollen in our area and I don't. Maybe this has links to testosterone too? Sounds like we need to take care of the men in our lives more to ensure they don't overwork their immune systems and actually have …
/r/MensRights16/12/17 10:18 AM
1

Awesome! 😆
/r/MensRights15/12/17 06:20 PM
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It doesn't really matter if it's a good thing for women or not. Much of human history hasn't been good for the average man... this is simply more equality.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 02:41 PM
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I'm done playing your games and putting words in my mouth. I'm here to give my support to men, not butt heads with someone who endorses Feminism and the misandric beliefs they uphold. Nor do I appreciate your rather desperate insistence that my fwb, who I've been a close friend and lover to for almost 9 years and known for over 10, is a sexual predator simply due to our age difference. It is not up to you to determine who is a good person or not, and I find it disturbing that you are on a MRA su…
/r/MensRights15/12/17 02:39 PM
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Yes, I certainly can. I do not agree that sex and relationships are inherently combative, and would in fact argue that this is a cornerstone to having a poor relationship. Having mutually satisfying sex and companionship requires empathy and understanding of the needs and desires of your partner... how can you have that if you're trying to one-up them all the time? It's ludicrous, selfish, and juvenile. Yes, power dynamic exists between people. But there's a PD between bosses and their employees…
/r/MensRights15/12/17 01:40 PM
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Not on me. Let me put it this way: I got my first menses at age 9, and most of the females I'm related to also start having periods before age 13. It's just how my family's genetics are, I guess. But just because I was able to be successfully impregnated at age 9 doesn't mean it wouldn't have almost certainly resulted in both my death and the death of the fetus. Why do you think one of the reasons for high mortality in childbirth was in past times? Because people got married in their teenage yea…
/r/MensRights15/12/17 01:27 PM
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Power Dynamic is situational, and needs to take into account how the couple acts towards one another. If a 40 year old woman is dating a 23 year old man and paying for everything he owns while he lives at her home...yes, there is a potential for her to use her finances to coerce him into doing things he wouldn't normally. That doesn't mean it will necessarily happen, it's just something to be aware of. Likewise, you keep bringing up my own fwb relationship where I'm 31 and he's 46 so yes, he doe…
/r/MensRights15/12/17 01:12 PM
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Ah ha! You see the issue.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 01:04 PM
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Because at younger ages, breeding is biologically and psychologically detrimental to the minor partner, whether male or female. But once this danger is past (which is definitely by age 18-19), you are an adult able to make your own decisions. Now, one could argue that there are even 25 year old men and women who are mentally capable yet immature...but how long do you want society to mollycoddle people?
/r/MensRights15/12/17 01:04 PM
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Doesn't mean they are correct.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 12:59 PM
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Again...you are on a Men's Rights sub. Why the fuck should any of us care about Feminist ideology? It is a poison, not something to uphold.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 12:18 PM
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Power Dynamic is based on Feminist doctrine gained from Marxism which states that all interpersonal relationships are Power Games. Yes, and we all know how incredibly fair, unbiased, and popular both of those ideologies are here...Why are you bringing up shitty Feminist beliefs on a Men's Rights sub? Therefore Power Dynamics and Power Games theory reframes sexual and romantic relationships not as cooperative events but "I'm going to fight to get the best deal from this, and you get to fight to g…
/r/MensRights15/12/17 12:16 PM
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They are all hetero. Also, I was agreeing with you. You really need to bring up a discussion where we disagree? What's the point?
/r/MensRights15/12/17 11:53 AM
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True story: I unfortunately went to a very Liberal college and there were Feminists everywhere. Imagine my surprise when a new group was started called "The Equality Club"...I thought, hey maybe we're finally getting some other egalitarians around here. Nope. The very first discussion we had was "Defining Sexual Equality". The speaker said that equality was defined as "the progressive work towards creating a society where girls women are considered equal". I pointed out that this only takes care…
/r/MensRights15/12/17 11:52 AM
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I agree with this. The undertones of the interaction are very important. I've had some of my friends (all men) playfully slap my ass or grab my tits, but it's not sexual harassment or even bothersome because they do it to each other as well when they pretend to be gay...or on a football team, lol. But I've had strange, random men and women aggressively flirt with me and while the base action is the same, the intent behind the touching is entirely unwelcome, unexpected, and creepy.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 11:40 AM
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Wow. That's uh... that's pretty damn morbid.
/r/MensRights15/12/17 11:33 AM
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I answered No to first two questions, and Yes to the second two. Does that make me half a pervert?
/r/MensRights15/12/17 11:32 AM
1

Only overweight women initiate towards you?
/r/MensRights15/12/17 10:52 AM
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Of course. We live in a gynocentric society, remember?
/r/MensRights15/12/17 10:48 AM
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Yeah, the nature vs nurture debate is definitely a controversial one. I lean a lot more towards nature myself, particularly because I've participated in transgender/gender dysphoria studies involving measurements of brain activity and it was shown that for the control group of cis women their brains reacted one way whereas the females in my group had reactions much closer to that of men. Also remember the book As Nature Made Him, the true story of a boy who had a horribly botched circumcision th…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:32 PM
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Ha! Horticultural sadist... I like it. This is going to be my next username.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:50 PM
1

Ah. So too many poo-flingers for your taste?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:49 PM
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I'm intrigued by your comment here. I've often wondered exactly what is Masculinity and what is Femininity, and have never come up with anything not rooted in traditional Western norms and gender roles. So I'm comfortable saying I'm a masculine woman, because I don't like/am not good at the overwhelming majority of stereotypically feminine traits, hobbies, interests, or ways of thinking and am better at stereotypically masculine ones...but is there more to it? Is masculinity inherently linked to…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:47 PM
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I don't know why anyone would voluntarily read it.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:36 PM
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I was thinking of a San Pedro variety.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 09:35 PM
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From the article: "Some women may claim that chiselled abs and giant biceps are not what they are seeking in a man. But a scientific study suggests that if your female partner tells you this, she is probably just being kind,” begins the Guardian’s own article. Well, fuck you Guardian. How nice that you're going to go around telling men to not believe their partner when they say they love their bodies as they are, and instead prefer some disturbing living monument to unrealistic Ken dolls and He-…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 08:23 PM
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I honestly think it depends on how "tough" or masculine the woman is. Opposites attract, after all, and while it's good to share some aspects of your personality with your partner/lover/spouse, I still think it works best if one has a masculine-esque personality and one is feminine-esque. For example, I like being the "provider" on dates, I hate having guys pay for me and am not even a big fan of splitting the dinner bill. I like being the one to kill the spiders, drive the car, give the gifts, …
/r/MensRights14/12/17 08:16 PM
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Yes, much like your example of the woman who lost her job and apartment and is living according to what her boyfriend gives her...that is a potentially bad PD. It's not necessarily, but it could be. Same for if the sexes were reversed. If one person actively uses their status to float the other along, it may turn bad...or it may not. It's something to be cautious of. But as for passive statuses that don't affect one's interactions, because each partner has their own home, car, job, income, etc. …
/r/MensRights14/12/17 07:33 PM
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I will agree that people of my sex are expected to be a certain way, and men are expected to be a different way. But do you recognize that there are far fewer expectations for us every year...and men have not yet gotten to this point? I'm a very masculine female. I have incredibly short hair, typically wear male or gender neutral clothing, have entirely male friends, work in a male-dominated field, and enjoy stereotypically male hobbies. Yes, I've been shunned and mocked by peers, family, past f…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 07:23 PM
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Why on earth would you care what people you've never met think about your relationship? What's the point? I didn't say you're definitely a troll, just that there's a probability you are. It's not like I can say for certain based on a single conversation on a Reddit sub. But no, I'm not going to address any more of these lists because, unlike you (again assuming you actually were dating that chick) my field of fucks I give is barren. I don't care if every single redditor here suddenly descended o…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 07:09 PM
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Idk where you live, but when I do a Google search for "Men's Shelter NY" there are 8 that come up, mostly in NYC. Six of them even have 3-4 star reviews. But yeah, they are homeless shelters not DV shelters.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 07:01 PM
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That's a possibility too. There's been a bunch lately.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 06:58 PM
1

That's a possibility too, there's been a bunch lately.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 06:58 PM
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Yeah, I just barely know the slang terms for drugs that are in use nowadays, I don't know what would have been said back then.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 06:57 PM
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Lol. So I take it you called up your girlfriend and told her that a bunch of people on the internet, who don't know any of the specifics of your relationship (if it exists) informed you that it was better for both of you to dump her? 😂😂😂 As for going through posts, I've tried to limit my interactions with trolls as they are a fucking waste of time. So yeah, if someone is saying something weird or deliberately controversial to a sub, I always go see how much karma they have and how old their acco…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 06:55 PM
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When you personally have made 3 different posts on other subs claiming to be a 50 year old man who's currently dating a 20 year old woman, and reacting against the same exact "power dynamics" you are trying to accuse my fwb of having over me? When you are trying so desperately here, on this thread, to convince me that my best friend and lover is a predator simply because he's 15 years older than me when you say you're involved with a woman thirty years younger? Uh, yeah dude. That's trolling. Wh…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 04:21 PM
1

So you don't think more of us can learn to appreciate male beauty in addition to success? And that more men can't learn to appreciate female success in addition to beauty?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 04:06 PM
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I agree, but still wonder if there's a way to make it typical. Not force people to give up traditional gender roles if that's what they prefer, I don't want to be a Feminist, but maybe make additions?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 03:41 PM
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I will agree that this crying is a natural reaction to various emotional states and that completely suppressing one's feelings is not healthy in every situation. However, what I find fault with is labeling this as "toxic masculinity" instead of simply "toxic expectations" or something similarly neutral, because it is a trait that both men and women use to control other males. To refer to it as toxic masculinity allows women (NAWALT) to hide the fact they condone and expect these behaviors just a…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 03:38 PM
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Okay, I'll bite: How is this an example of toxic masculinity, assuming such a thing exists for the purposes of a discussion?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 03:12 PM
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Also, why are you being such a troll?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 03:11 PM
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You're in the same boat. I'm sure he has a lot more social status because he has the opportunity to build up value via money and work. And you're 'just a student' so you're very low in status compared to him. Yes, there were differences in our social statuses but since they didn't affect our friendship they basically faded into the background. You're right, they didn't completely disappear, but they weren't important either. If he did things like buy me food, clothing, expensive gifts, etc or in…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 02:39 PM
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I do not agree with deeming him "abusive", first of all. In my honest opinion that's bullshit...but I don't make any laws, nor am I involved in any occupation that does. And secondly, in my situation nobody lied about their age and there was no inherent power difference based on our social statuses. Regardless of whether she was 15 or 19, she was still a student at the school he worked at. That is a power differential that wouldn't be equalized until she graduated or he stopped working there. Wh…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 02:01 PM
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You are allowed to believe what you want.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 01:35 PM
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There's a person who's weaker and the older person, smelling this weakness on them, takes advantage of it for their own personal sexual pleasure. Yes, some men and women are like that. Not all. My stepfather was, my friend is not. He met you and wanted to have sex with you probably right away. You are probably correct as I'm told I'm physically attractive. But how is this different than the boys I attempted to go on dates with in high school and college, who also wanted to have sex with me right…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 01:23 PM
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He's 15 years older than me, but I've always had more in common with/shared more life experiences of people of previous generation than my fellow millennials. Idk if you consider that "cross age" or not. What is "sick and wrong" about two differently aged adults being close friends who also have consensual sex sometimes? So long as both people are over the age of consent, there's no abuse going on, and they are mutually happy and satisfied with the friendship/relationship as it is... what's the …
/r/MensRights14/12/17 12:32 PM
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It sounds like you're conflating the phrase "man up" with "be a responsible adult"... which I agree that more people need to do, especially in the special snowflake subculture. But telling someone to "man up" is not the same, unfortunately, because we don't tell anyone to "woman up" or "grow some ovaries". This is the issue at play. Not that men shouldn't take control of their own lives, but that most women aren't expected to and worse, many are given help that men don't ever receive. Double sta…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 12:26 PM
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I agree. It's about time they stop showing men as bumbling fools who can't cook dinner for their own children, and women as pristine housekeepers without outside lives. Make commercials where people are people, damnit.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 12:19 PM
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I'm not saying you have to find this body type attractive, I'm just saying I do. Actually, that pic looks very similar to my fwb (lacking in hair though) and I absolutely love that he's warm, soft, and so very nice to hold vs having a hard, muscular body instead. And I'm 31, actually. My parents got divorced when I was 1 year old, but he came back when I was 6. I stopped seeing him when I was 14 because he was physically abusive and I didn't deserve to spend my weekends getting furniture thrown …
/r/MensRights14/12/17 12:07 PM
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She's not saying "I wonder if there's a roofie in my cup" she's trying to blame her reluctance to leave/desire to stay on the fact that maybe there's some alcohol in it. The entire song is about a man and woman who both really want to spend the night together but she realizes that unless she comes up with a good excuse for not going home, rumors will fly. So he keeps telling her it's too cold, the snow's building up, etc and she's thinking maybe she can tell people tomorrow that she'd been drink…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:47 AM
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This is why we need more MRA groups and men's shelters.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:41 AM
1

Lol, they did the same thing in Ocarina of Time.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:39 AM
3

When I worked at a pharmacy/grocery as a young teen, I had a much older guy who'd stare at me from outside but never came in or said anything. My managers didn't do anything about it, and although it did put me on edge to be looked at for hours at a time (you know, the weird feeling you get when your neck hairs raise up when you're being watched) he eventually stopped 2 weeks later and we never saw him again. It was strange, but didn't result in any physical harm to me or my coworkers so it's ju…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:35 AM
1

These are the types of things I wish we covered in Modern History or Social Studies courses in college or high school. Seems like more could be done about these issues if more people actually knew about them.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:25 AM
1

Maybe it has to do with your presentation of said honesty...😏
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:22 AM
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From the article: It would help if we assumed the best of each other instead of the worst. Let men love a woman’s beauty, and let a woman delight in a man’s competence and success. This is part of the dance between the masculine and the feminine, and we’d be miserable if we stopped it. I wonder if we'd be miserable if more people could have a mix of the two? Sure, let men love female beauty...but also let women love male beauty. Let women delight in male success...but also let men delight in fem…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:20 AM
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Do whatever YOU are most comfortable with. If you think you can go through the entire speech and spread some education to the listeners, then you will be doing a service to them. If you decline because you don't think you can due to the trauma you've been through, then you will be doing a service for yourself. Both are valid paths, and neither is better or worse.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:07 AM
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Agree completely. They've become caricatures of their platforms, with opinions that sound like satire instead of anything one could have a honest conversation about.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 11:02 AM
1

That's so disturbing. I read so many cases of boys and girls being tortured, wedded off, killed, and raped in such parts. Are children really considered such a burden that they are rendered inhuman by even their own families?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:59 AM
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Yeah...as someone with PTSD and Dissociative Identity Disorder, I'm really not wanting to be turned into a medically induced vegetable at the whim of such a cruel, morally bankrupt monster as her. Most men and women with mental issues or atypical ways of dealing with shitty pasts/abuse don't harm others, and only a percentage of us harm ourselves...we don't deserve to be treated like objects.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:55 AM
1

Because without her victim status she has nothing.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:49 AM
1

I hoped it was illegal but wasn't sure. Good to hear it is, but how much does law enforcement care?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:47 AM
1

The majority of Feminists I've spoken to IRL actually do believe it is a zero sum game, unfortunately. That's what happens when you lose empathy for anyone who happens to be born as the opposite sex and henceforth see them as Other instead of Brother. They prefer to believe in some impossible standard of "sisterhood" where all people born with a vagina are oppressed by all people born with penises, and so women can rally under these assumed shared experiences...but when you say to them "yeah, I'…
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:46 AM
1

Okay...? Why? Because I don't find anything attractive about guys who look like living Ken dolls, and prefer men with realistic, comfortable body proportions?
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:37 AM
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I'd run away.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:36 AM
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Thought it was pretty self-explanatory, lol.
/r/MensRights14/12/17 10:35 AM
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There's a lot more people who were disgusted by Moore's opinions on homosexuals and transgender citizens than the possibility he tried to get with a 14 year old, at least in my area.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 04:03 PM
1

While I agree we only approach men we find attractive, it's also true that beauty... including male beauty...is in the eye of the beholder. I would never approach a guy who looks like a model because that's unattractive to me, but I've tried asking out men with "dadbods" because that's the best/hottest body type imo. Money, social status, cars, etc don't affect one's physical attractiveness at all...you can't change what you look like by having a lot of money or high ranking friends.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 03:53 PM
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I'm proud of you for speaking out, and for understanding that she was completely wrong to do those things to you. Don't let that bitch keep you from wearing what you want and expressing yourself!
/r/MensRights13/12/17 03:44 PM
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This is disgusting. Forced marriage of children may as well be pedophilia...is this legal in India?
/r/MensRights13/12/17 03:39 PM
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/u/buckeejoe has already given an amazing response, but I'd also like to point out that NAMALT...not all men are like that. For every man that is a murderer, rapist, or warmongering politician there's multitudes more who are not. To say that just because some men do X doesn't mean all men do X, similar to how I can say some women do Y, but not all women do. We are all individuals, you cannot honestly take the actions of a few and place them on the shoulders of the many.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 03:31 PM
2

Exactly. The pendulum swings from one side to the other, and then those particular extremists get to rear their ugly heads and be much louder than normal. Why? Because now the moderates have made their views "acceptable".
/r/MensRights13/12/17 02:49 PM
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It can be both annoying and disturbing when Feminists do it, but hardly limited to them. For example, I'm in my 30s and very deliberately childfree but I've met complete strangers who get angry...like red-faced, teeth baringly upset... when I tell them I don't think offspring are a requirement for a fulfilling life, woman or not. Same with the Christians in my family who take it as a personal affront that I'm an atheist, or TERFs who think I'm a misogynist and traitor just because I identify wit…
/r/MensRights13/12/17 02:20 PM
5

Well, of course. It's the unfortunate reality of identity politics.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 01:46 PM
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Yeah, you gotta love the No True Scottsman fallacy, lol.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 01:41 PM
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I agree with everything you have written. OP is apparently new or very skeptical about the need for Men's Rights, whereas both you and I are already advocating for them, so I hope he reads it.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 01:37 PM
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I can't say anything regarding the tech industry because I've no first hand knowledge of it, but would like to know why you think women are excluded, ignored, and treated like second class citizens in gaming? I'm not being snarky, I'd love to have an honest discussion about this if you're willing, because I am a female gamer (not just console videogames, but also boardgames, card games, and paintball from time to time) and it is incredibly rare that I encounter what you're describing. Now, I am …
/r/MensRights13/12/17 01:32 PM
1

You can see value in the masculine label without believing people need to conform to it based on biology. I'm female-bodied but have always thought of myself as male gendered, and I am far more comfortable and capable in traditionally masculine roles, hobbies, clothing, and groups than traditionally feminine ones. However, I recognize that this doesn't mean any cis male or transsexual FtM people must also take on these roles. It's absolutely fine for them to enjoy traditionally feminine things a…
/r/MensRights13/12/17 01:22 PM
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Feminists are constantly telling me that my rights as a woman and person with gender dysphoria are being infringed upon... maybe you can tell me which rights men have that I don't, and I'll tell you which ones I have that you don't.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 01:11 PM
1

Awwwwwwww.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 12:22 PM
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If I was wearing chaps, I would have def been asking for it. No. You could be walking around in nothing but a thong, and no man or woman has the right to touch you without your permission. To say you "would have been asking for it" by wearing chaps is wrong. Sure, you'll probably get oogled by various people due to your clothing choices, that's to be expected, but nobody should be so driven by sexual instinct that they are forced to hump your leg like a dog...
/r/MensRights13/12/17 12:20 PM
1

What kind of workplace do you have, where there are no dress codes...?
/r/MensRights13/12/17 12:15 PM
2

We need to remember that if a male walking down the street and can not help but stare or comment on a female projecting her sexual desire, that is sexual harassment of males. This male would have not had any reaction had he not been provoked, and now misogyny crime legislation will ensure legal consequences if the outfit achieves its derived results. I can accept someone not being able to help stare (I catch myself taking long looks at attractive/less clothed men and women too) but sexual commen…
/r/MensRights13/12/17 12:13 PM
1

Why? I say put both of them down.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 11:59 AM
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Frickin TERFs. I have nothing to say to people like this, but find it hilarious that mainstream Feminists will refuse to acknowledge that these types of people are a part of their movement.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 11:58 AM
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I'm surprised they let him in the rally. After all, he has a penis which may as well be a weapon of mass destruction.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 11:54 AM
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That original article is so messed up. It's like she believes suicide due to depression/mental illness should be considered exactly the same as the voluntary euthanasia some people want to have as an option for those slowly and painfully dying from cancer. Newsflash: They are not at all the same.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 11:50 AM
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But is he? If you are against the notion of personally chosen pronouns, against the invention of new pronouns out of thin air, and really against the state mandating the usage of pronouns under threat of a fine or worse ... does that make you anti-trans? While I agree with him that there are only 2 genders (female and male) and don't see any reason for using any pronouns other than He, She or They (like these made up ones such as Xir or Ze) I'm very much against the fact he has used the opposite…
/r/MensRights10/12/17 01:39 PM
3

Now that I'll definitely agree with.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 04:59 PM
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I agree that females need to raise our voices because males cannot, and take this duty seriously. And yes, I'm saying it is a duty to stand up for men and concepts of true equality between the sexes, because to remain silent about misandry is just the same as condoning it. That's why apathy is so dangerous. But damnit all... I wish that Peterson wasn't anti-transgender or anti-childfree females or anti-unmarried females. He pushes far too many traditionalist norms as "the way things ought to be"…
/r/MensRights09/12/17 01:07 PM
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I can only hope that this sex-specific wording is just an oversight, or a copy/paste from an outdated FAQ. Probably not, but...
/r/MensRights09/12/17 12:25 PM
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Well, I'm sure that if this rabid human isn't sent to jail her behavior will only get worse because she'll have learned that actions, including incredibly racist and disturbing ones, don't lead to negative consequences.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 12:22 PM
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I mean, it's a possibility. I very fortunately haven't had to visit my own father since I was 14 precisely because mine was a physically and emotionally abusive bipolar narcissist with a higher love for alcohol than his children. But it's already incredibly difficult for men to get full custody, so I'm gonna say that OP is almost certainly a great dad.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 12:17 PM
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Honest question being an ignorant American: Do you have the right to bear arms in your country, to allow individual citizens to prevent a tyrannical government?
/r/MensRights08/12/17 10:20 PM
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Holy shit dude. That's epic boss level right there!
/r/MensRights08/12/17 10:19 PM
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Ugh...SJWs belong behind keyboards, not real life.
/r/MensRights08/12/17 03:00 PM
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Ah, Armoured Skeptic...he and ShoeOnHead are fantastic examples of the skeptic community and I love their ability to discuss the ridiculousness of modern Feminism without going completely Red Pill. This is one of his best videos, imo.
/r/MensRights08/12/17 02:39 PM
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Congratulations, OP. I'm glad your daughter has a great father and that you were able to make the courts see it too.
/r/MensRights08/12/17 02:35 PM
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The issue is that when tests for hormonal male bc have been performed, the volunteers/subjects had negative reactions including acne, increased libido, depression, mood swings, migraines, various aches and pains, etc. Researchers actually terminated the testing early due to health concerns. You can read about it here: http://www.cnn.com/2016/10/30/health/male-birth-control/index.html Fwiw, I don't think that we're going to be able to make a Pill for men, but there's other options that the Parsem…
/r/MensRights08/12/17 02:33 PM
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I agree that we should have 50/50 in the workplace. 50/50 oilriggers. 50/50 sanitation engineers. 50/50 factory workers. 50/50 plumbers. The list goes on, but the difference is my list doesn't only include white collar jobs...
/r/MensRights08/12/17 02:25 PM
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What the actual fuck? What kind of judicial system would allow for such sensitive information to be handled by DV shelters, especially if not enough evidence was found to support the accusations by police investigators?
/r/MensRights08/12/17 02:17 PM
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Yeah, it gets confusing sometimes. The way I see it, all of these "groups" are equally relevant and we don't need to engage in the Oppression Olympics to determine who is worst off. In the end, nobody would win and everyone would lose. I have decided to just be egalitarian since it covers everything and everyone. I'm biologically female, so while I disagree with modern Feminism I also have a deep respect for the first wave Feminists who actually did fight for my right to vote and have reproducti…
/r/MensRights08/12/17 12:04 PM
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Of course there are exceptions. I worked at a comic book/gaming store for 11 years and put in the most hours (55+) out of anyone there including the owner of the company, and I'm a female. I wasn't even the highest paid employee either, since I was the assistant manager and was salaried so no overtime pay. But the lies about the supposed "wage gap" say that when men and women perform the exact same job with similar hours, experience, workload, attendence, etc males will get paid more. Numerous s…
/r/MensRights08/12/17 11:51 AM
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This is the real reason behind the "wage gap".
/r/MensRights05/12/17 12:39 AM
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Are you new here? To this subreddit? Yes, I only joined a few weeks ago. To the MRM? No, I've been doing online and real life advocacy for about 7 years. I don't see a lot of these so-called "regret parents" who were misinformed correcting their mistakes. How is this a correctable mistake? Unless they pay for their son to get a foreskin stretching product? I don't hear about many of them even admitting their mistakes to their mutilated children, let alone regularly contributing to Foregen, Blood…
/r/MensRights05/12/17 12:28 AM
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I'll definitely agree with that!
/r/MensRights04/12/17 08:06 PM
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Okay...?
/r/MensRights04/12/17 07:55 PM
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I can agree with that.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 07:54 PM
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You're right. I should have looked at his posting history, and more the fool am I for not doing so. I especially like how it's pretty darn obvious he's an inflammatory troll yet attempted to scold me for calling him one earlier. It's people like this that make me angriest, trying to pass themselves off as legitimate proponents of the MRM and causing us to look like unethical keyboard misogynists. Thanks for taking the time to speak with me and remind me that everyone has a breaking point. I appr…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 05:19 PM
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Lol
/r/MensRights04/12/17 05:14 PM
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True, to an extent. I'm just saying (yes...here comes the cliché) not all of us are like that and likewise I know men who have cut off male friendships because of a lack of reciprocation or communication. Friendships are the same as relationships, it takes two people, and if one of those people is only around for fair weather times or never helps you out but expects things in return? Well, doesn't matter what their sex is...they have proven themselves to be a shitty "friend".
/r/MensRights04/12/17 05:12 PM
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Oh, cool. I don't think I've ever had the chance to speak with someone from your country before. Pleasure to "meet" you! 😀 Yes, you got it now. As unfortunate as it is, so long as Feminism holds the belief that men always have it better than women in any given situation, it will only be about attaining equality for women.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 04:28 PM
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You kinda have to find a woman who acts more like a man. I'm the only one I know, the last one I was friends with moved away in 9th grade. Probably has to do with heightened testosterone or something.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 04:23 PM
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Just sayin', I watched 20 minutes of it and have yet to hear anything like what your title claims. And I'm a woman, so I guess I'm a female too lazy to do my own work, lol.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 04:21 PM
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I agree, this guy isn't the best example, but alienated parents are a bell curve like everything else in humanity. I agree, but also have some hesitations when these kinds of articles get posted. First, I worry about what our detractors will say about support shown for situations specifically like this one. There's numerous examples we can find involving parental alienation where the injured parent didn't resort to violence towards his children or ex, and it's easier to get people to realize it'…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 04:19 PM
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Now I'm 100% convinced you are a troll. Maybe you could stop trying to discredit the MRM with comments like this, and actually work towards removing the gynocentrism in our society like most of us do instead. I have never and will never blame other men for the actions of my father and stepfather, because like any rational adult I'm capable of understanding that individuals are responsible for their own actions. Hence why I'm an egalitarian and MRA.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 01:47 PM
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Of course! Just because we disagree or have different opinions doesn't mean we can't be civil towards each other. I appreciate your attitude as well, it's pretty refreshing for those of us who engage in online discussions, lol. It sounds like you are living in the UK, is that correct? I actually agree that we can empower both sexes without showing favoritism for one or the other, but would still say this is because of humanitarian or egalitarian beliefs, not Feminist ones. Fwiw, I'm an egalitari…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 01:29 PM
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I was going to answer your comment in a civil conversation until I read this: What did you say to yiu dad to make him hit you in retaliation? If you are really of the opinion that there's any words a child can say that would warrant a full-grown adult causing them physical harm or throwing furniture at them, you're already showing a kind of morality that is completely foreign to me. For what it's worth, I was never a "moody bitch" when I was younger because I was taught to always be submissive, …
/r/MensRights04/12/17 12:53 PM
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It does make sense, but at this point in time I am unsure if modern Feminism can be extricated from the cult of misandry. Even the moderate Feminists I've met and had civil discussions with have proven to be unwilling to question their ideologies regarding rape culture, the patriarchy, and toxic masculinity. Every single Feminist I've spoken to who says they are pro-men's rights still asserts that men in general are to blame for the problems of men as individuals, instead of acknowledging that t…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 12:39 PM
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Damn. And here I thought they were used for pleasure and waste removal! What other biological truths are you hiding?! 😂
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:54 AM
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He could have killed the very child he was attempting to see with this reckless and dangerous behavior. I'm all for exposing the evils of parental alienation and the pain it causes to men affected by it, but this guy and guys like him are not good poster children for it. My father also tried to bring my mother up on "parental alienation" charges 3 times, and none of them were legitimate reasons other than the fact he didn't get his way. First time, I was 8 and he was furious that my mom wouldn't…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:50 AM
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Damn it. When are people going to finally learn that equal opportunity doesn't mean equal outcomes?
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:29 AM
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This is a terrible and horrific thing to do to a child...but what does it have to do with men's rights?
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:24 AM
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From the article: If men decided that there would be consequences for sexual assault and harassment, if men decided that public misogyny meant professional repercussions, if men made it clear that other men who harass and assault women would lose the support of their industry, it would end tomorrow. You know where I've heard this same exact argument before? From black people who say I'm "necessarily racist" because I'm white, from new MGTOW/Red Pillers who say I'm "necessarily misandric" because…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 11:16 AM
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If they actually get off the ground, this could be a huge step forward for men's rights.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:59 AM
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I think there is some anger expressed toward women as a group on this sub. I've only been reading this sub for 5 months, and only subscribed a week ago, but I've yet to see any posts or comments that could be called misogynistic.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:57 AM
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In the end, I believe that feminism, at its core, is an admirable movement, and we as men's rights activists should, while safeguarding our own rights, seek to work with them. Thankfully, other people have brought up the fact that Women =/= Feminism just like Men =/= the MRM, so I hope you take some time to think about that aspect of it. I do have an honest question though; What do you see in modern Feminism that is admirable that fits solely under their umbrella? You say it's current form is a …
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:55 AM
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Listen, I also don't understand the mentality of adult victims who stay with their abuser instead of reaching out to friends and family for help, but what I do understand is that they need our emotional and/or financial support. Calling an abused man "pussy whipped" or an abused woman "weak" is putting more blame and negativity on someone who is already at their lowest point, when instead you should be concentrating on raising them up.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:43 AM
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Wow.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:36 AM
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Keep in mind, their are some circumcised dudes out their who don't believe their genitals are mutilated. When people call circumcised penises mutilated, they do feel shamed. Precisely this. My fwb is circumcised and he doesn't think of his penis as being mutilated even though I do. In conversations we've had about this topic, he honestly believes that his life was easier and healthier for the fact his parents got him circumcised as a baby and has said that if they hadn't he's confident he'd have…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:30 AM
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For the same reason that moronic anti-vaxxers and uber-religious idiots who don't allow blood transfusions or organ replacements get to spend time with their children. We (or at least I, not sure where you're from) live in a country filled with ignorance and miseducation. There are still many people in the US, including some doctors, who think that MGM will help prevent the spread of certain STDs or have been convinced by relatives that little boys are incapable of cleaning their foreskins and w…
/r/MensRights04/12/17 10:08 AM
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It's a 53 min video...where does the supposed "misogyny" take place?
/r/MensRights04/12/17 03:18 AM
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Wouldn't work. It's not a real legal document, and would basically mean fuck-all if taken to court.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 03:08 AM
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The majority of MRAs already have a very clear understanding that Women =/= Feminism, and thus are not misogynistic at all. Or we're females ourselves and don't hate our entire sex. There's no "middle ground" needed, because anyone who spends more than 10 minutes talking to a typical Men's Rights advocate should be able to see that we aren't anti-woman, but rather anti-modern day Feminism.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 03:06 AM
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I haven't heard about this outside of amateur porn made by couples. This is a thing now? Ugh. How disturbing and harassing can they get?
/r/MensRights04/12/17 03:01 AM
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I guess we're just going to have to agree to disagree.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 02:59 AM
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I don't mind the shock part, I mind the disruption of family memories part. Some parents work almost all year round, and the holidays are the only times they get to spend quality time with their spouses and kids. There's a time and place for everything. Imo, we'd be much better off creating planned protests on the steps of public offices, leaving posters or pamphlets in maternity wards, talking about it in pediatrician waiting rooms, and marching across the street from hospitals.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 06:39 PM
2

Thank goodness. I'm glad you weren't bothered again.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 06:33 PM
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Depends on the woman, honestly. I keep my hair really short (think a more masculine version of a "pixie cut") and prefer using my local barber shop over a salon precisely because they always fuck up my hair. I go to a salon, tell them exactly what I want done right down to what setting to use on the clippers, and they STILL don't follow directions. They always smile and say "oh, but this way it's short but looks feminine!" Bitch, if I wanted the style you gave me, I'd have asked for it. Whereas …
/r/MensRights03/12/17 06:31 PM
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Ironically, r/MensRights is way less misogynistic than any of the subs dedicated to RP women, Feminism, or even Purple Pill Debate. It's literally the only sub I've found where your fellow commenters don't look down on you or claim you have "internalized sexism" for being a female who supports male advocacy and MGTOW.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 06:11 PM
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I absolutely, totally, 100% agree that male circumcision is child abuse just as much as female circumcision is. But I don't agree that using bullhorns to proclaim shocking statements during Santa parades or tree lighting ceremonies is the way to go about protesting. It'll just upset the families and young boys and girls who are present. It'll make people far less likely to listen to facts about this cruelty, and more likely to brush you off as an obnoxious disruption.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 06:03 PM
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So what? They can rant all they want about unsupported "facts" like Teh Patriarchy, but boys and men deserve to have their voices heard too. Screw anyone who says otherwise.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 05:55 PM
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Holy crap, dude. 10 and 13, that's nowhere close to being able to consent. I had similar things happen to me weekly between the ages of 10-17, and yeah... I was definitely a child. I'm so sympathetic to what happened to you, and very glad you and your bro didn't go in. Did you ever tell anyone? Or just skip that route altogether?
/r/MensRights03/12/17 05:53 PM
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I have yet to encounter a feminist in real life that is able to go to the extremely ridiculous lengths you see them go to on YT. Heh. You definitely would've seen some shit if you went to my unfortunately very liberal college. Don’t worry about not being taken seriously by some. I guess you can’t help it, but you are not there to convince people that you are genuine. The issues you talk about are genuine on their own and anyone who is not brainwashed by too much angry-type content will see that.…
/r/MensRights03/12/17 11:34 AM
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Of course it is worth. I think you would be surprised. Announce the meeting and the topic(s) to be discussed. As soon as people see it is not “men’s issues through the feminist lense” they will not give a damn about what your genitals are. For lack of a better summary: they are not feminists. I suppose I'm just very cautious since when I comment on YouTube channels and blogs regarding my pro-MGTOW and pro-MRA beliefs (not "hey lookit me, I'mma woman with an opinion" but "hey, this is a great mes…
/r/MensRights03/12/17 10:33 AM
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As a matter of fact, I think that women can be the strongest MRAs, because they are taken more seriously on gender issues. For example, if a man talks about how it's unfair that he has to sign up for the draft, people will say he's just whining, he needs to "man up" and serve his country, and so on. If a woman says the same thing, people will listen more closely and think she has a point. Hmm. Maybe that's true. Using this example, I can point out that I signed up for the Draft alongside my male…
/r/MensRights03/12/17 10:21 AM
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I don't have any. The last time I had any female friends was back in junior high. I've tried to become friends with coworkers, members of groups I join, even the wives and girlfriends of my male friends... hasn't worked in years.
/r/MensRights02/12/17 11:16 AM
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I am incredibly tempted, believe me. I've even looked at different public venues for semi-private meeting spaces to help ensure that members aren't harassed and we can talk freely. For example, my local library has 2 "board rooms" with clouded windows and a door that you can use for free up to 1.5 hours if you reserve the block of time. This would be perfect, imo. But I run into the fact that I'm a woman. How many MRAs and "soft" MGTOWs are going to join, or even trust, a group discussing men's …
/r/MensRights02/12/17 11:13 AM
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I agree that they are helping men...for example, gay and bisexual males are still harassed/harmed at a greater rate than lesbians and bisexual women in the US. That there are Meetups devoted to ensuring non-heterosexual men have a safe place to be themselves is indeed important. But since I am not a man, I cannot join and lend my assistance. This is what I'm looking for, a group to join and actually help raise awareness of issues.
/r/MensRights02/12/17 11:05 AM
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Too many times, honestly. It's like they don't comprehend that sex takes two to tango. Makes me wonder if they just starfish each session and don't actually do anything during sex. Or maybe they somehow don't even enjoy it... Likewise, women in general seem to slut shame more than almost anyone else, other than a few male Red Pillers I've spoken to online. They look down their noses at people like myself who desire our partners sexually instead of financially, like we should be "selling" physica…
/r/MensRights01/12/17 04:22 PM
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Thanks for the link, that is a really amazing resource. I've begun my membership and will pass this on to any fellow MRAs I meet online.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 02:50 PM
1

Ugh, what a terrible way to view sexual intimacy. Who teaches women that sex is something we "give" instead of share? It's certainly not innate... Is this the reason why I constantly hear women saying that they can't understand being happy in FWB relationships, because they feel like they are being "used" for sex? And why some men look down on women who have FWB because we are "low class"/can't "obtain commitment"?
/r/MensRights01/12/17 02:44 PM
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Pretty sure this is the stupidest thing I've read in the past week. How heartless does someone have to be to fine a homeless person? Even if they managed to scrounge up £100 from jobs or begging that day, you're really gonna take it from them instead of letting them use it for food, a shower, a new jacket? Fuck off.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:31 PM
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I've found this for the US: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/1635092/
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:27 PM
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Yeah, seriously. Damn...wonder if she ate lead paint chips instead of cereal as a kid.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:21 PM
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Sorry it made you cringe for whatever reason, but my point of it still stands. If every one of those upvotes is from a different person, and each one of those people wrote to their government leaders regarding misandric laws or started/joined Men's Rights groups in their areas (in other words, doing real life actions) then we could create real changes.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:19 PM
1

Well, thank you for the information you gave. It was helpful and I've begun to research it more myself.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:14 PM
1

Ha! You got it in one...
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:13 PM
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Lol, thank you for agreeing! If only there was enough men who actually wanted to start petitions and Meetups for increased equality in the real world...just look at the number now. 1143. If we could get even half that number of men and women to protest misandric laws away from our computer screens, we could actually start making a difference.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:12 PM
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It was a simple thank you and a comment regarding my amazement that other subs that are supposedly for speaking out about male oppression apparently either aren't as well trafficked or for equality as they claim. It doesn't seem to have anything to do with the time of commenting however... I was first here, yes, but I've been first over on the redpill, MGTOW, and PPD subs with similar comments that barely get 10 upvotes. Instead, the comments that reach such proportions on those subs tend to eit…
/r/MensRights26/11/17 01:07 PM
1

The problem with giving women freedom to make choices is they frequently choose incorrectly. This is because we live in a gynocentric society (or at least the US is, I'm not sure where you're from) and a lot of us are raised to actually expect benevolent sexism/chivalry. You have to have a strong sense of equality, fairness, and independence as a woman in order to see how the flip side of chivalry is male sacrifice, which is misandric. Even then, I've met other women who do realize this, but sti…
/r/MensRights26/11/17 12:43 PM
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It definitely is. I try to help one random person a day, and you'd be surprised how many men are confused that a stranger would offer to assist them with what they're doing.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 12:31 PM
1

I'm actually a female, but have gender dysphoria...so your comment did more to brighten up my day than you probably intended. Thank you for inadvertently making me smile. 🙂
/r/MensRights26/11/17 12:29 PM
2

If they refuse to show or talk about what was actually said, how would anyone in the future be able to recognize this so-called hate speech?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:30 PM
1

Interesting. I'll have to do more research on this concept, I'd not heard of it previously. What would happen to the children of adults who refuse to work but end up using that money on drugs, alcohol, gambling, etc?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:27 PM
1

You mean giving everyone the same pay, regardless of the occupation they hold? Wouldn't that be unfair to people who have to spend a lot of time and money to receive their degrees?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:23 PM
27

I absolutely adore it when other women try to tell me what I'm sexually attracted to... Okay, yes. Many women are quite sexy. But many more men are sexy in my opinion, because, y'know heterosexuality and bisexuality are still very valid orientations despite how unpopular it's seemingly become to like men.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:20 PM
16

Men...invented... penises? 🤨 All penises, like from voles and dogs and zebras too? Or just human male penises?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:16 PM
1

Ha! You may be right there.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:13 PM
-5

Oh?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 11:12 PM
1

Unfortunately that seems to actually be what Femidiots believe...🙄 Must be weird going through life hating and fearing the penile-endowed half of the population.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:49 PM
1

Hahahaha! 😂 I like you, you've got a good sense of humor. Wouldn't want to bed you though, you be scary...
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:47 PM
3

It's pretty damn hard to respect others who do not respect you. I'm not the person you were originally speaking to, but I'd question why you'd attempt to have respect for someone who doesn't respect you in turn? Imo, respect is very different than common courtesy. The former must be earned through words and actions whereas the latter is the default treatment of fellow men and women who aren't assholes.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:42 PM
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Well...they suck. Or rather, don't. 😉 But seriously, if you're not willing to give then you should never expect to receive. That goes for many things in life, sex included. To steer this in a more serious direction, I'd be interested in your thoughts as to why so many modern women tend to expect good dick from their partners when they aren't willing to give good pussy. Personally, I think it's because the mainstream media has conditioned most people to believe that sex is just inherently great f…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:31 PM
1

UBI?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:26 PM
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Which is exactly why I believe it's of the utmost importance for egalitarian women like myself to speak up, loudly and clearly, for the men who cannot. It's not necessarily a "duty", persay, but I do think it's what's right.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:26 PM
1

That is a very good point.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:18 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/MensRights24/11/17 10:17 PM
1

Spell my name...no, but that's not something I particularly need to do for better survival or cleanliness. Piss into small objects... I've only had to do that once while stuck in traffic on 287 for over 3 hours. It wasn't easy, but yes, I was able to do it.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 05:14 PM
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Exactly. While I agree that she was a minor and should not have been involved in prostitution whatsoever, the fact that she murdered a guy she could have just left the vicinity of is just so many levels of horrible.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:36 PM
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Her attorney, James F. Gust, said the sentence was a suitable punishment for the crime. "Never in dealing with her, never did she appear to be someone who is a threat to society," he said. What. The. Fuck. She tried to blackmail a guy (who had a sex tape she made) by forcing him to have oral and vaginal sex with her (which she recorded on her phone), after she stabbed him in the arm. And then she threatened him and carved up his car's seats with the same knife. How exactly is this person not a t…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:33 PM
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Stars above, I loathe double standards. Why is it that we live in the year 2017, but people still endorse grossly antiquated concepts of chivalry and benevolent sexism (because women are somehow still oppressed in first world countries), yet are unable to see that misandry is rampant?
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:21 PM
5

True, getting married is not an accomplishment for some. For others it might be, like men and women who desperately want that kind of partnership but suffer from severe anxiety, mental issues, physical deformities, etc. I personally have never wanted to find a husband or procreate. It's just not for me, I greatly enjoy my lifestyle of freedom instead. I've met a lot of men from the MGTOW movement who are on the same page, and a handful of other women who are as well. For us, marriage is somethin…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:16 PM
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The more information comes out regarding this case, the less sympathy I have for the woman in question. Don't misunderstand my comment, I know that sex trafficking of men and women alike is a disgusting evil that occurs everyday. The victims of involuntary prostitution need as much help as they can get. But this particular case doesn't look reminiscent of such things. Yes, she was a minor who was prostituting for her boyfriend-pimp...but there was absolutely no need for her to shoot a sleeping m…
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:10 PM
8

Yes, exactly! Although #6 and 8 should really be gender neutral...
/r/MensRights24/11/17 04:02 PM
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Nor should you be. People are responsible for their own decisions, it's insanity to blame others for your life choices. I have chosen to have a career over a family...but that's because I want freedom and the ability to save up money to hopefully travel one day instead of using it to raise children I'd be beholden to.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 03:55 PM
3

It works out much better for everyone if you're partially responsible for your partner's pleasure. They have a responsibility to tell you what they enjoy, you have a responsibility to try and give that to them (within reason, of course...there are some truly extreme fetishes out there, lol).
/r/MensRights24/11/17 02:28 PM
2

penises are laughably inadequate and too small & soft to give any kind of sexual stimulation whatsoever. The only women who say/believe this are either lesbians (which is fine, not every female needs to want dick) or they are size-queens who think that if a man's penis is under 8" long and 3" thick that he's "not enough" since he's not ramming into her poor, bruised cervix. Thankfully, not everyone wants dicks that have borderline frightening pornographic proportions.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 02:25 PM
4

Wow. An article shaming not only men for sometimes having awkward (human!) sexual interactions/habits, but also shaming women who obtain pleasure from things like dirty talk or performing fellatio. Nice going, thetab. You managed to offend both sexes by interviewing overly-picky females.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 02:13 PM
2

Feminists think that every bad thing a make can possibly do is because of "toxic masculinity". By now, the concept has gotten so broad that I'd argue it's lost nearly all meaning, other than to give angry women a way to get away with talking badly about men.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:54 PM
4

As in, they recommend having your son circumcised to prevent it? I certainly hope not!
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:50 PM
1

Women can actually pee standing up as well, without the need for crouching or using one of those disgusting devices. It's actually pretty damn easy, and a neat ability for when we're camping. Seriously, all you do is tilt your pelvis forward and spread your labia apart...super efficient and no gross "wee-wee" thing to clean afterwards.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:47 PM
1

It's absolutely fine to admire the traits you see in your male relatives. More people should do so. However, as you have pointed out yourself, it's almost as though you've been conditioned to think that "man = clever, resourceful, creative, resilient". This is true in some cases but not in others, and you run the very real risk of assuming men are inherently clever/resourceful/etc but women are not. So if you meet a woman with all these qualities you may make the mistake of downplaying her very …
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:40 PM
2

Those weren't false tears, they were entirely genuine...She was legitimately upset that she got caught being a bitch and had to pay for it with her job.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:29 PM
2

Seems she already has more job offers though...WTF.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:27 PM
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Because unfortunately too many women see that it works. I'm just glad the driver didn't back down and remarked that the video really does speak for itself.
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:26 PM
1150

How nice that she's willing to "pay" a price that involves the lives of people other than herself. Edit to add: Holy Spaghetti Monster...870 upvotes?! I am humbled and amazed that my one comment has gotten almost 900 upvotes when I've posted similar stuff on the purple pill debate and redpill subs that barely got 10. 😅 Geez, just imagine what we could do with this much agreement irl...
/r/MensRights24/11/17 01:19 PM
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