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SouthernProcess/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:33 PM
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I've noticed I start to lose my charm once I drink too much.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:34 AM
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It's complicated but I will try to give you a synopsis. In general, you want to be wide and relaxed. You don't want to get into a fight, but you're not afraid of one either. Just think confident and relaxed and you will be good.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:31 AM
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Dm'd
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:58 AM
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It's so true. Guys forget this. Literally just be the man you truly are and girls will start to dig it. Better than manipulating them.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 05:16 AM
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You can do better. The problem I have with hardcore PUA stuff is the underlying assumption that no one seems to talk about is that "I am not satisfactory to a woman in my current state, so I will use a bevy of tactics to convince her that I am, indeed, the shit" You need to understand, before PUA, before the internet, there were naturally very charismatic guys who would talk to lots of girls with great success. It is NATURAL for a man to talk to girls. We seem to have forgotten this. You, as a m…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:18 AM
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Approaching chicks from the front = cool Approaching chicks from behind = thirsty as FUCK Got it
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:47 AM
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You're awesome man. Thank you
/r/askTRP24/06/20 12:44 AM
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Say "some other time then" and set up another date in a week-2 weeks
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:44 PM
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Can really relate the avoiding self development thing that Dante said. Lifting is not enough. Thanks
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:28 PM
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Consider it a shit test.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:30 PM
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As somebody who was somewhat in the same boat, one thing is to seek out people that you naturally fuck with. Better if they have social proof. If the conversations with them go well, other people will notice and when you are quiet with them they will think it's more likely their issue. Then you can be the guy to get to know on an individual basis
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:50 AM
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Shit's not gonna fly in the real world. Take that edgy energy and find a way to monetize it. Music, YouTube, comedy, something. But doing it at school is gonna get you invited to some parties, maybe, and get fucked up in every other way. It ain't worth it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:05 AM
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Why not just whip my dick out
/r/askTRP19/09/19 08:32 PM
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Helped me see rejection as not something bad but as something you have to experience to get tougher.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:17 PM
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Ok. I was really not thinking of approaching the right way. This will give me something to think about. I thought it was corny or something only PUA's did. Didn't really even think of it being an actual self-improvement thing in itself. The one time I did 5 approaches in a day sober, I felt like I was on cloud 9. I'll get back to that. Appreciate the perspective.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 05:42 PM
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I have approached and had nights at the bar/club where girls would approach me and grind on me without me saying a word. But I get what you're saying, that's the exception, not the rule. It seems like a pain in the ass but if it's what I have to do, I'll do it. Thanks for the hard advice.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:59 PM
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I get that and to an extent I probably am in denial. Do you think there's any merit to bunkering down and getting my value up for ~6 months or should I just be approaching regardless?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:43 PM
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Never laugh nervously. If something is funny, laugh. Don't self-police to the point of hurting your own enjoyment.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:08 PM
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MGTOW seems extreme
/r/askTRP12/09/19 03:06 PM
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When you say one end of the spectrum, what do you mean?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:17 PM
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Heard them calling me creepy later that night. One of the girls, I had her number beforehand, hard rejected me when I asked her out.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:03 AM
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To be like hey I'm cool accept my beta offering as my personality has very low odds of making this work
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:00 AM
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It was on offering. Didn't want to go empty handed.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 04:40 AM
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Come hither on top or press 2 fingers down firm and slow on bottom.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:41 PM
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Sounds simple when you put it like that. Fuck the old friends. Thanks
/r/askTRP31/08/19 04:53 AM
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Without a ludicrous amount of government intervention, no. It goes against nature
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:49 PM
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I'd be interested in that
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:30 PM
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For me, I just got so sick walking by every girl like an opportunity that I was unwilling to capitalize on. Either start approaching now, or have it be a monkey on your back for years until it bugs you enough that you have to do it. As others have said your physique is ridiculous. If you go the club, make strong eye contact with a girl and present your hand, twirl her, they will grind on you purely for your boy toy status
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:13 PM
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It gives you a certain grace in your conversations where you no longer feel the pressure to have the perfect response. And I've had people say things like: "your chariot is ready" when my car is fixed and bowing presenting their hand up when letting me in somewhere. Randos.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 02:00 PM
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Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane. Audiobook's on youtube
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:54 PM
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As a good looking poor dude, game is more important. Good looks or money can not fix awkwardness and a lack of initiative/balls.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:24 AM
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Men love sexy women. Slutty or no. The fantasy will always be there. However, if you are a sexy girl, or at least take care of your appearance, you will be rewarded with a better marriage in the long run. If you're not a slut. That's basically what you get.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:33 AM
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Personally, I think RSD is trash. Find what it is that makes you unique and own that shit. Think of it like this: 95% of guys do nothing to improve their smv and are going to spend their lives watching porn and eating fast food. We've all been out-alpha'd before and it will happen again. Starting a business, going to the gym, and improving your mind are all great things, but like another commenter said, its gonna take time.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:28 AM
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Read The Charisma Myth. Once you read that and start putting it into practice, people will start treating you like a god for no reason
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:20 AM
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Approach. Realize that not a lot people have your best interests at heart. Increase your value, social skills, and let the people come to you.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 05:16 AM
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Why is it bullshit that they spend a ton of money trying to look sexy for us
/r/askTRP12/08/19 10:24 PM
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I believe you that you look good and have a good presentation. If these are the type of reactions you commonly get, I would first work on being relaxed. Don't even try to impress anyone or say anything cool, just have try to have a relaxed conversation even if its about nothing. More than likely you are coming off too intense. Also, don't buy women drinks.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:20 AM
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The same things that make any dude alpha. They are just comedians. Plus, a camera and an audience doesn't hurt. Bill Burr, while not straight up red pill, has a lot of red pill knowledge that he drops.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:12 AM
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Depends on the comedian. Are you making jokes because you personally find them funny and want to share or are you using humor to mask a deficit in personality? Are people laughing at you or with you?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:11 AM
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Point is, you have no idea because you didn't escalate. Sure, she wasn't grabbing your dick through your pants but girls can be very reserved with these things. It's not a club. You just have to go for it.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:49 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:45 AM
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I'll do that. I'm very unfocused atm. Thank you.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:43 AM
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Always be escalating. Strong eye contact is an ioi, and her sitting next to you is probably one too. However, you should just ask her number or ask her out because its pretty hard to tell otherwise.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:21 AM
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Sounds like you are asking permission a lot from her. Probably not showing enough outcome independence/options. Do not respond after getting curved. I would soft next.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:06 AM
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Great advice. Thank you
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:30 PM
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That's the idea
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:43 PM
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Fair. Felt strange coming out, maybe an insecurity about getting friendzoned coming out.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:52 PM
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I disagree, a fatty will still get me out practicing with girls. I don't learn anything by jacking off.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 03:10 AM
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She's quite fat, but her face is okay
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:58 AM
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Basically fuck her because I want to, but don't flaunt it and its about how you do it. Interesting, I saw an AMS video a long time ago where he essentially said being seen with low SMV women makes higher SMV women not want to have anything to do with you, but I didn't really think about the aspect that she wouldn't be seen with me. That's funny. Cheers.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:55 AM
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Sounds good man, thanks.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:25 AM
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