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Purge Discussion!SowClips/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:30 PM
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DiscussionSowClips/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 11:17 PM
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Stop it. There were guys not just saying I can fix it, but talking about hot she was and posting memes about liking psycho pussy. They are lusting after her and not once did any of them say they were doing it make fun of women. No you had comments explicitly saying they want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:00 PM
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No they are not, read the comments. They are obviously lusting after her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:32 AM
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There was a case in Japan where a woman who nearly stabbed her guy friend to death was almost bailed out if of jail by adoring online male fans who found her hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 02:31 AM
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You realize women who have gone to prison are more likely to be mothers too? Is it because they are attractive or people who end up in prison are more likely to be reckless with birth control thus end up pregnant or impregnating someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:07 AM
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Are the ‘I can fix her’ ‘she’s so hot’ also just jokes too? Would you feel the same way if women were posting such comments about a male serial killer that was just arrested for stabbing a woman in cold blood?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:32 AM
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So some guys on here don’t use the fact that some women write love letters to serial killers to generalize all of womankind? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:29 AM
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Straw man? I’m asking a question and pointing out a likely scenario, if someone posted the same story here but genders reversed, no one would be just dismissing the comments as jokes. In fact we would be getting several screeds by now about how this is all proof women love psycho baby murdering monsters as long as they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:53 AM
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If there were thousands of ‘joke’ comments left by women on a post of about a male serial killer who stabbed a woman in cold blood about how hot he was and wanting to save him, how would the redpillers or the men on here react to such comments even if they were made in jest?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:44 AM
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Most toxic men I’ve come across are Western men, living in a Western country for most of my life, surrounded by Western people and interacting mostly with Western people tends to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:00 PM
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If every single western women you came across is toxic then that says more about you then any western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:41 AM
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Your awful human being btw, I feel bad for any women in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:10 AM
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The hatred some incels have for black women is very bizarre. I also notice they love to hate on Indian/Asian men too, but will claim its just them joking when called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:14 PM
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Every time I see comment by you, it’s you writing some long ass essays that nobody wants to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:24 PM
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You made this story up. Stop caping.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:08 AM
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The surveys I’m talking about are yearly or annual surveys, and those surveys have observed a statistical decline over large period of time. Ex: less high school students report having had sex today then on the 90s. The National Youth Risk Behavior Survey report released by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) on Thursday showed a drop in both the number of high school-age students who said they had ever had sex, and those who had four or more sexual partners. Researchers analyze…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:25 AM
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It’s gone down. Every study on this has shown this, but I don’t feel like spamming studies at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:14 AM
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The average is not going up for the average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:37 AM
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Whoever creates the demand creates the disease as you call it. There are 90 million onlyfans subscribers vs 1 million content creators (of which only 30% have ever posted any content or are active.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:26 AM
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Getting paid to have sex on camera makes someone a pornstar. If someone is doing that, regardless of how they look, they are not delusional for calling themselves pornstars because that’s exactly what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:22 AM
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This is a good explanation, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:14 AM
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If someone is paying these women to see them nude, what makes them delusional exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:34 AM
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The comic you posted doesn’t show that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:56 AM
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I don’t get this comic. Guy is being racist and the women are crying about how racism is awful. Is there something I missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:52 AM
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Ok…..and they still found your racist comments gross, something you claimed they don’t care about or find acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:26 PM
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Ok and? How is any of this relevant. You said feminist don’t care if men are racist towards each other. I showed a feminist subreddit where feminists found your racist comments against Chinese men gross. Now you are just bringing up irrelevant stuff that has nothing to do with the original point being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:22 PM
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Well we are talking about that thread since it’s the only thing public. For we all we know you can be making up this private conversation up and it has nothing to do with the original point being made either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:15 PM
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The only time anyone brought up the US military in that thread was to point out they have raped women in places they occupied or liberated. How you feel about the subreddit or mod is irrelevant, it’s a feminist sub that found your racist comments against Chinese men gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:09 PM
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How are they anti American for pointing out US soldiers raped women in places they occupied or even liberated? That’s a documented fact. Doesn’t matter if you are banned or not, people saw your comments and didn’t take too kindly to your racism towards the Chinese men. So it looks like feminist don’t accept men being racist towards each other like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:04 PM
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There is no need for all that. Somebody already posted your comments in the past and everybody uniformly agreed you are a moron. I guess we got our answer. https://www.reddit.com/r/BlatantMisogyny/comments/q177if/just_an_example_of_the_type_of_quality/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:59 PM
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Ok how about you go to a predominantly feminist forum and repeat those same racist comments you have made and see how they are received by everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:50 PM
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There are literally comments of you bashing asian men for having small dicks imao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:37 PM
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Wow she is gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:01 PM
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A lot of East Asian men date down when they stay within race. I wouldn’t say a lot. It’s not common at all for me to see an Asian couple where the man is the better looking one(same with Hispanics tbh). I’ll acknowledge that looks are subjective though in this regard, so debating this would be dumb or futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:44 PM
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Great comment. I must add Kitty Genovese as another example. Dozens of people saw her get raped and murdered and nobody helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:08 PM
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Not really. If anything white and black guys (Hispanic sometimes too) are more likely to date down. I haven’t seen a lot Indian women with white men tbh and I live in California. I have seen decent looking with black, white guys with average looking Asian or white women. With East Asian men, they are a lot more picky and almost always date women better looking then them. Other men are like this too, but they definitely take the cake in being the most picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:52 PM
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Umm women aren’t any different? Most women would choose a handsome MOC over an average white guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:39 AM
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Do you realize out of wedlock birth does not equal single mother? Most children born out of wedlock are born to cohabitating couples. The share of births to cohabiting mothers has more than quadrupled from 6% to 26% between 1980 and 2014. The majority of unmarried births have been to cohabiting rather than single mothers since the late 1990s. Recently, three out of five children born to unmarried mothers were born into a cohabiting union. ** Recent estimates suggest that 62 percent of births to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:31 AM
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The marriage rate has also fallen over the last several decades. But Cohen calculates the divorce rate as a ratio of divorces to the total number of married women. So, the divorce rate’s decline isn’t a reflection of a decline in marriages. Rather, it’s evidence that marriages today have a greater chance of lasting than marriages did ten years ago. ** Measured that way, approximately 65% of marriages that began in the 1970s and 1980s reached their 15th anniversary, according to data from Univers…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:55 AM
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Hmmm I would be very curious to hear u/sublimemongrel take on this. She is a practicing attorney and has had educational post on prenups before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:42 AM
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Where are you getting your numbers? The most recent sources I found don’t show your numbers. https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/wendyfigure3-w640.png
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:01 AM
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This is extremely hard to believe and is basically proving the other poster right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:00 PM
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So another decades old study. Btw the study showed black and Hispanic women both rank white men below Hispanic/black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:59 PM
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The terms sexual liberation or sexual revolution where not coined by feminist. Anarchist Freud scholars Otto Gross and Wilhelm Reich (who famously coined the phrase "Sexual Revolution") developed a sociology of sex in the 1910s to 1930s in which the animal-like competitive reproductive behavior was seen as a legacy of ancestral human evolution reflecting in every social relation, as per the Freudian interpretation, and hence the liberation of sexual behavior a mean to social revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:07 PM
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I’m not interested in debating whether you think abortion is murder or not as I can see that’s where you want to steer the conversation. I am just pointing out the the US is the only developed country where abortion remains a highly debated issue. Everybody else has moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 10:02 PM
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Ask any Western European and East Asian and they will tell you from outside perspective the US obsession with restricting/banning abortion is bizarre since in their respective countries it is not even an issue that comes up or is debated anymore. Abortion is legal and it’s a non issue for most. The US looks regressive on this in their perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:59 PM
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Interesting but again how is related to ops points regarding the sexual revolution. The sexual revolution was about changing sexual norms on a society wide scale not about sexual behavior limited to certain classes. Gay relationships are not new, this is like claiming spartan men started the male sexual revolution because they had sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:53 PM
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Abortion is not a highly debated topic anymore in Europe or East Asia. And increasingly more countries every year are legalizing. The US needs to get with the program.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:49 PM
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Any time I see women's marches it's always about the freedom to kill their unborn children (high they could soon lose) You mean in the US. Most of the developed world abortion is legal. Almost two-thirds of the world's women currently[as of?] reside in countries where abortion may be obtained on request for a broad range of social, economic, or personal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:42 PM
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The New Woman was a feminist ideal that emerged in the late 19th century and had a profound influence well into the 20th century. In 1894, Irish writer Sarah Grand (1854–1943) used the term "new woman" in an influential article, to refer to independent women seeking radical change, and in response the English writer Ouida (Maria Louisa Rame) used the term as the title of a follow-up article.[1][2] The term was further popularized by British-American writer Henry James, who used it to describe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:27 PM
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The introduction of the pill had nothing to do with feminist activism.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:16 PM
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Do you agree that middle eastern men are the most desired? Because that’s what the study found. The 2014 study also showed Asian women rated Asian men the highest out of all racial groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:28 PM
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The persecution complex some people have on this subreddit is really incredible. It needs to be studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:26 PM
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Unless you have recent data that replicates those findings, this is just you guessing. Btw, that same study claimed Middle eastern men were the most desired by women according to their data.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:17 PM
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By OLD ‘studies’ I assume you mean the over decade old OKcupid study?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:09 PM
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I am not sure why there is so much concern about falling birth rates. The world’s population is nearing 8 billion people, we are not running out of humans anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:02 PM
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Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:53 PM
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Those features are not Eurocentric if other races have them in abundance too. I am noticing this phenomenon where people claim any attractive minority must have Eurocentric features. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:52 PM
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Feminism is thriving in Korea. Just google it and you will see countless videos/articles about the feminist movement in Korea. You have no idea what you are talking about. Fertility rates and marriage rates are actually lower in Korea then the US. Source: I am half Korean on my mothers side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:44 PM
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Ethnicity doesn’t matter much when it comes to attraction nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:39 PM
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You realize that Europe and South Korea both have lower marriage rates and fertility rates then the US right? People are not more likely to be a long term relationship either in those countries then the US. https://ourworldindata.org/marriages-and-divorces https://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/culture/2021/12/135_316067.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:35 PM
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They think the growing sexlessness epidemic among the youth in Japan is reflective of some type of conservative conviction not a result of the economy, online entertainment causing young people to be less social, etc. What’s interesting is they don’t apply that same logic as to why sexlessness is growing in Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:54 PM
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I believe you. Waiting until marriage to have sex is not a widespread thing in East Asia, I’ve told the op this before in another conversation. His ex is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 05:15 AM
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The tradition was introduced to them by Turks from Central Asia not Alexander the Great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:45 PM
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These types always have to exaggerate to justify their insane positions. ‘If women aren’t being locked up they are out having gang bangs at age 13 in public!!!’ You see this type of hyperbole written on this subreddit everyday, it’s used to demonize female sexuality and historically been used to justify limiting women’s rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:42 AM
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I remember reading about this issue of bacha bazi in Afghanistan and one the guys they were interviewing said that having sex with young boys was seen as less scandalous then seducing a woman their own age. This is what the extreme obsession with female purity does to a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:12 PM
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Whether or not I think your standards are hypocritical should not really matter since they are your standards at the end of the day. But since you seem believe casual sex is wrong for both genders and try to hold yourself to your own moral beliefs when judging others, I would say no. Some might disagree with me, others would agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:32 AM
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top comments are all saying her standards are fine and I don't feel like reading the whole thread for the lesser voted comments. So some people disagreed with you, what a tragedy. I think her standards are fine so it doesn't apply to me or this conversation anyway. The whole thread was started in the first place because many men took issue with her standards in another thread. A guy literally said her standards are the reason so many women will die alone. Whereas you on the other hand seem to ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:22 AM
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not wanting to date someone is not the same as criticising their behaviour. I can say I only date blondes even though I have dark hair, would that make me a hypocrite? You are comparing a behavior to characteristic. The definition of hypocrisy is in regards to your belief/behavior on moral issues. Whether you decide to date somebody is your business, but if your justification is coming up for why you don’t want to date them stems from your moral beliefs, then it’s fair for people point out your …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:02 AM
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There's a difference between saying "your standards may to be too tight and might be the reason you don't have the relationship you're looking for", That’s not the only time people criticize women’s standards and you know it. Even in the thread I linked, you had Narnia repeatedly saying she was able to marry a man who matched her standards, you still had guys having meltdowns and writing quasi essays about why her standards were bad. Even when women say they are able to get/find someone easily t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:44 AM
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I always see women saying "I shouldn't lower my standards!" and they're right, they shouldn't. Neither should men. And people have the right to be critical of their standards especially on a subreddit dedicated to discussing relationship dynamics. People are critical of woman’s standards all the damn time, nearly everyday we get a post a long the lines of ‘women's standards are too high!’ Heck even if a woman’s standards are reasonable they will be criticized and ruthlessly picked apart like in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:28 AM
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Women on women n count doesn’t register for me. Why? I wonder if a lot other men who obsess over n counts on here would feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:19 AM
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No one is expecting anyone to do anything. You are on a subreddit that’s dedicated to discussing relationship dynamics, as it stands that allows people to be critical of your dating standards. We get posts everyday critical of women’s standards no matter if they are ‘hypocritical’ or not. On side note, studies actually show people with similar sexual experience end up with each other. So if you are a high n count men, it’s more likely then not you end up with a high n count women. https://old.re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:11 AM
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Most of the men were in relationships when I was watching the show. A lot of the women were in abusive relationships whos partners reacted negatively to their weight changes. No surprise the relationships didn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:03 AM
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So are the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 01:20 AM
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That’s really odd. Most threesomes I know are FMF by far, bisexual men don’t seem to be nearly as common as bisexual women. I think statistics even show this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:37 AM
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You realize having a child out of wedlock doesn’t make someone a single mother, right? Cohabitation rates are also higher today then in the past, and studies show a lot couples go onto marry after having children together. The percentage of children living in a two-parent household has hit its highest point in nearly 30 years, according to a report by the Institute for Family Studies. In an analysis of 2020 United States Census data, the conservative think tank released a report earlier this mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 05:49 AM
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There are male domestic violence shelters though. https://www.npr.org/2017/07/15/537381161/more-domestic-violence-shelters-for-men-opening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:49 AM
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The women first thing is myth btw. https://owlcation.com/humanities/The-Myth-of-Women-and-Children-First
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:48 AM
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Single motherhood/divorce rate are statistically down. The marriage rate has also fallen over the last several decades. But Cohen calculates the divorce rate as a ratio of divorces to the total number of married women. So, the divorce rate’s decline isn’t a reflection of a decline in marriages. Rather, it’s evidence that marriages today have a greater chance of lasting than marriages did ten years ago. The percentage of children living in a two-parent household has hit its highest point in nearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:35 AM
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You mind sharing a link to this conversation you just had for context?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:16 PM
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Just because there is no strong hookup culture doesn’t mean most people want to or waiting until marriage to have sex. Numerous studies have shown in the West younger people are having less sex, losing their virginities later, and are on track to have less sexual partners then their parents did at the same age. This isn’t unique to Japan. People are becoming less social.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:56 PM
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Interesting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:52 PM
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Some people don’t believe 10s exist or their idea of a ten is subjective. A 10 is supposed to be someone who you find flawless in every way, which to many doesn’t exist as every person has their flaws, hence why the person you are talking about said they would have to be like Obama.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:51 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:48 PM
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Virginity is rising in Japan for the same reason it’s rising in the West. It has nothing to do with any type conservative revival and more have to do with people becoming less social due prevalence of online entertainment, a stagnated economy and being overworked. Hence the phenomenon herbivores which mirrors the incel phenomenon in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:47 PM
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A society where the sexes can freely mingle and where both genders don’t even get married until their late twenties or well into their thirties, most people are definitely not waiting until marriage to have sex. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:35 PM
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She told you it is the norm for people wait until marriage before having sex in Japan/East Asia? I thought she told you she waited to wait until marriage to have sex with you. Obviously one woman doesn’t represent the norm for one country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:24 PM
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There have been survey conducted literally showing most people don’t wait until marriage. I have enough friends from these countries and have spent time in living there to know waiting until marriage is not the norm. If you want a society where being a virgin is still the norm at marriage, you are better of going to an Islamic society where strict gender segregation is put in place to prevent men and women from fraternizing with each other. Any society where men and women are free to mingle with…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:15 PM
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Most people in East Asia do not wait until marriage before having sex, I know that for a fact. Also noticed how I said judge men who go to developing countries for sex tourism or to get mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:04 PM
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Everyone holds racist views, this should not be surprising. But to be honest as someone who is half Asian, I definitely judge western men who developing countries in Asia for sex tourism and to get wives. My first hand experience is these men are usually very creepy and unpleasant people to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:45 PM
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My big point was why do you care about racists ‘seething?’ They shouldn’t be on your radar unless you they are actively making threats of violence against you. Alt right seethe about interracial relationships all the time, but I am certainly not going to let their opinion affect me in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:51 PM
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The op is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:49 PM
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Lots of alt rightist don’t like interracial couples period (especially white women with non white men) but who cares what they think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:12 PM
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Prostitution is illegal in most countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:35 AM
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What studies? Most studies I’ve seen say single women are happier then single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:39 AM
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Ok, but I’ve been to Wall Street myself to see the average guy there aren’t exactly Adonis either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:21 AM
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According to recent cdc stats, obesity is higher then men then in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:19 AM
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No even just regular airports I’ve been to in regular cities. I saw loads upon loads of families at the airport when I went traveling over Thanksgiving break and I didn’t see this phenomenon of all these attractive middle aged dads with fat/ugly wives. Couples were either equally yoked in the looks department or the woman was the more attractive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:13 AM
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Guess depends on where you are. When I go to public places like ex: the airport and look at families, I see way more hot moms then hot dads by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:03 AM
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The other poster has a point, people from developing countries are far from being free from environmental/food toxins that could negatively affect their appearance. One thing that’s really a mystery of our time is the fact that testosterone levels in men are dropping and have been dropping for decades. That may play the biggest role in why some people think men are ‘less masculine’ looking today then in the past, as there is a correlation between having high T, and a more masculine face. Some pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:13 PM
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It wasn’t taken down, I just couldn’t find it. Somebody else did though and posted it here. https://mobile.twitter.com/t0nit0ne/status/980401431281917952
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:55 PM
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Somebody posted the original twitter thread that my link was talking about. I just couldn’t find it at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:41 PM
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Then why are men who are in relationships consistently report being healthier and happier then women in relationships/single men if women bring nothing to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:40 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:38 PM
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Alimony hardly exists in the US either, please read actual stats before making sweeping statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:36 PM
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There was a large twitter thread of men admitting to ‘settling’ for their partners because they were getting old and couldn’t get the women they really want. That is what my first link is talking about, I’ll try to see if I can find the original thread though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:20 AM
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Buddy it’s usually men on here who say that men are the more easily pleased gender and are less shallow about looks etc. Not women. And yes many men in that original thread apparently did admit to pining over past gfs or flat out said their wives weren’t the real loves of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:13 AM
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I did. There wasn’t a single study posted showing women cheat more then men. There was an opinion by one podcaster, and dubious paternity studies that have been debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:08 AM
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That’s not a study but one persons opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:59 AM
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It seems to contradict the notion that men aren’t hypergamous and are easily pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:56 AM
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Older women young men relationships are statistically the least common combination, women by and large have no interest in dating men significantly older then them and younger. Data from dating sites confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:15 AM
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Poppy isn’t wrong. What you are describing sounds like a lower class environment. Nothing wrong with that but that’s just the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:43 AM
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No but you seem to think that about men. It’s mostly guys on here that push that narrative. When the 2018 GSS sexlessness study was published on this subreddit, guys completely took that validation of the 80/20 rule, and that young men were increasingly becoming sexless because of Chad, tinder and picky women. The notion that some of young men could be opting out voluntarily or for personal reasons was completely dismissed by this crew to push this narrative ‘hypergamy’ was causing young men to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:46 AM
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It’s ridiculously easy to get a date on a dating app as a woman, just make a profile with an average or even below average looking woman to see this. It’s just the quality of men is so bad, that after a while you give up especially since COVID has made dating harder outside of using apps. At least this is what my single gfs tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:40 AM
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Hey Op I read some of your post history and I just wanted to send my regard to you because it really sounds you are struggling hard with depression. Please try to take anything you read on ppd with a grain of salt, this subreddit is filled with people clouded by ideology and bias. Life happens and you are not a loser/failure just because life is not going the way you intended. Unfortunately, we live in a rigid capitalist society where are worth as human beings is often tied to our economic outpu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:46 AM
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The op is not from the US, read his other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 12:11 AM
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The link you added shows up as a blank page. But according to this article and other sources I could find this graph the most popular dating site in 2017 was tinder not POF. As for your other point, keep in my mind the study allowed couples to check multiple boxes on how they meet, which points to many meeting through third party or other avenues: According to the study you linked the plurality of couples do meet online, about 39% of couples said they meet online, 20% said through friends and 27…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:11 PM
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They largely don’t. The most popular dating sites(by number of users) by far are tinder and bumble. Match and Okcupid put together still don’t have as many users as tinder or bumble, yet you think it’s somehow the most popular way for people to meet their spouse? Truth is we don’t know what platform couple who report to have meet online meet on, as the study doesn’t explicitly say which ones. We can only guess, but based on the data they have supplied, we know it’s not dating apps like tinder or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:04 PM
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Legacy dating sites like match.com or okcupid are rarely used by younger people, which is who this study is examining. Most young people who meet online dating are using phone based apps like tinder, bumble, or hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:02 PM
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This is a direct quote from the source you posted, mind you the one I posted is more recent then your and lines up with this quote from your source I’m sorry but you are not reading the source correctly. It does not say that college educated women are more likely to have children out of wedlock then non college educated women, but that it has increase amongst them the most. Literally the same source you cited also says: Among women who have a first birth outside of marriage, women with at least …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:55 PM
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The graph is from a legit source, it’s based on data from the government, read the bottom. https://www.childtrends.org/publications/dramatic-increase-in-percentage-of-births-outside-marriage-among-whites-hispanics-and-women-with-higher-education-levels Also not a single source you posted said college educated women are more likely to have a child out of wedlock then non college educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:03 PM
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College educated women are absolutely not more likely to have a child out of wedlock. Where are you getting your stats from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:29 PM
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The Stanford study had a graph showing the percentage of people who meet online vs on dating apps. As you can see most people who meet online are not meeting on dating apps. Source btw: https://web.stanford.edu/%7Emrosenfe/Rosenfeld_et_al_disintermediating_appendices.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:56 PM
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The first link says they only define someone as being in a relationship if they are married or cohabitating with a partner. The second link is a UK study which I have to read through, as some the data seems weird to me. The same study claims 40% of young men have never watched porn which seems widely high to me. No US data I have seen has like the recent GSS data shows 66% of men being sexually inactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:25 PM
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Source for your statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:07 PM
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You are not reading the data carefully, the sexlessness rate was rising for women before COVID and falling for men. In fact 2018 was the pivot point. Regardless it thoroughly destroys the theory that women are sleeping with few men is causing young men to be sexless. But social scientists who have analyzed the data have always said that theory was not credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:36 PM
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Literally every study points to this. Post those studies then. Nearly every study in my op has data that contradicts this. Marriage is later, male sexlessness is on the rise, especially for men at their sexual peak, and divorce rates are increasing. Sexlessness is on the rise for women and higher among them then men. Divorce rates are not increasing either and are in fact at record lows. Divorce in America has been falling fast in recent years, and it just hit a record low in 2019. For every 1,0…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:04 PM
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Are they? Studies actually show the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:41 PM
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Then you are seeing video people are cherry picking. There are over a billion users on TikTok alone, you can find anything to support whatever narrative you are pushing. I can find videos of men crying about being ghosted or missing their ex etc. I also like you haven’t responded to my other comments even though I presented data/studies to you which destroy a lot of your arguments,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:27 PM
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I can’t find it but here is forum that has links to tweets talking about that viral thread. https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/remember-that-time-men-admitted-that-they-dont-love-the-women-they-marry.4664923/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:00 AM
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Are taking about the GSS study? Then yeah I agree it has flawed methodology, I linked an old post that pointed that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:59 AM
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If the stuff was obvious it would bare out in data which you have provided nothing of. Interestingly there was a viral twitter thread of men saying they settled in their relationships because they couldn’t find the girls they wanted or desired. What do you make of that since you say it’s common for women in their 30s to say they have to ‘settle’?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:54 AM
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Assuming that's true, it doesn't explain why others studies have come to similar conclusions. In this study, straight women rated men's attractiveness even more harshly than they did on OkCupid. The study you linked also said the results were scattered for women because they had less agreement on what is attractive as a group. We first examined the level of consensus in revealed prefer- ences by correlating an individual’s attraction to the targets with the mean ratings of the target’s attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:25 AM
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Because legalizing prostitution doesn’t fix the black market issue, and it fact makes it worse in some regard. Hence why studies show sex trafficking actually increases in countries with legal prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:21 AM
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I think you missed my point, I support legalizing prostitution, but studies do show sex trafficking does increase in countries with legal prostitution due to supply and demand issues. Far more people are willing to pay for sex then be sex workers, so sex trafficking fills the void to keep up with the demand. This was a huge issue talked about Germany when I went there. I am just pointing out there are drawbacks to legal prostitution we should keep in mind and it doesn’t solve every issue, it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:56 AM
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The rate was rising before COVID.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:51 AM
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You think the problem is “sexless men”. Huh? Can you point to where I said sexless men are the ‘problem.’ I said the common narrative pushed on here surrounding the issue of sexlessness is not true. I think that’s just a symptom - the real problem is an unequal distribution of pairing up among the sexes. And this happens because women, in general, chase the top men out of their league By pairing to do you mean dating/relationships because unless someone is lying/cheating on their spouse for ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:48 AM
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People are actually pretty accurate and honest when recounting their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:35 AM
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I support legalizing prostitution but I think it’s actually fair to point out that sex trafficking is actually higher in countries with legal prostitution due to supply/demand issues. https://orgs.law.harvard.edu/lids/2014/06/12/does-legalized-prostitution-increase-human-trafficking/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:25 AM
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COVID probably accelerated the trend but it was rising before COVID.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:21 AM
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Highly doubt it. Post a source. A lot of old school OkCupid users have said this use to be predominant feature on okcupid like this guy. Did you read the passage you quoted? It says that the least attractive women were less likely to respond to messages from the best-looking men. Very ugly women know perfectly well that Chad doesn't want them and would be suspicious if he gave them attention. But that doesn't mean they aren't looking to date men who are more attractive than themselves. This cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:18 AM
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The article explains that fewer men are going to college which means the sex ratios are in favor of men their like, 60/40. Which means college educated women have a hard time finding other college educated men to lockdown and date but will eventually settle as they get older. Possibly even been sleeping around until then. Again how is this related to my original question? It seems logical college educated women will try to date college educated men because that is why they are surrounded by in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:56 PM
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What do you think I’m wrong about and what is flawed about the data I presented? I want to have a productive conversation here, but so far your only points of retort are I am wrong and your lived experience is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:31 PM
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So hilarious how her whole post is basically just trying to tear the theory down, when thousands of men’s lived experiences say otherwise. Nor does she even attempt to offer an alternative theory, probably because she knows it would be annihilated. I am just working with data we have. Thousands of people have lived experiences that contradicts each other, which is why anecdotal evidence isn’t the best. P.S I linked several studies in my op that offer alternatively explanations to this trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:23 PM
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Again I am not sure what the article you linked has to do with my original question which was asking for evidence that women on an aggregate level are sleeping with few men or refusing to ‘settle down’ which is causing young men to be sexless. The article you linked basically talks about marriage crisis happening because more women are going to college then men but still want to date men as educated as them. It’s operating under the outdated assumption that women would not date men less educated…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:21 PM
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The rate was rising even before COVID, in fact 2018 was the pivot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:19 PM
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Are you telling me that ugly and average looking women don't respond well to the advances of good looking men? I am not making a general claim one way or the other. I’m just pointing out the okcupid study which is treated like gospel around here says that less attractive women are less likely to respond to messages from attractive men. This contradicts the hypergamy claims some on here use that okcupid study as proof of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:36 PM
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I have not heard of the sub r/Diabla so I can’t really comment on them. With vindicta, I get the sense that most women there just genuinely just trying to improve their appearance and only want to use their beauty to improve their position life. Not by weaponizing it in a manipulative manner, but making themselves so desirable that people treat them better due to the halo effect. For me, I just have a general interest in beauty theory and find all this stuff fascinating which is why I’m subbed o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:31 PM
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Comments on online forums is not good evidence. Anyone can cherry pick comments on the internet to suit their narrative. By evidence I mean statistics or data that show this to be a documented social phenomenon or common social behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:20 PM
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Out of curiosity what do you mean by dating up? When I see people say this, that women date up it could be anything from traditional sociological definition of hypergamy which means dating above your class. Or the redpill/black pill definition which I’ve seen some users from that sphere describe women dating a man taller then them as ‘dating up’ or ‘hypergamy.’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:11 PM
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It doesn't at all. Umm yes it does, the original okcupid study literally says when the most attractive men message the least attractive women, their reply rate takes a hit. Which means the women did not respond to their messages. One interesting thing seems to be going on here: when the best-looking men write the worst-looking women, their message success rate takes a big hit. The knee-jerk response would be to somehow chalk it up to hunky spammers, but we very carefully control for that in thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:53 PM
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So comments on Reddit are proof that women in aggregate are sleeping with few men causing young men to be sexless/dateless?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:43 PM
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Sexlessness among young men is absolutely not going down. And that is confirmed by the GSS data among other sources. Recent GSS data shows there was decline in sexlessness among men under 35. More than half of all relationships are started digitally so saying this is because women aren't dating online is also false. Tinder isn't the only dating website. My guess you are basing this statistic off of the Stanford study that you are misinterpreting because it didn’t not over half of relationships a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:40 PM
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Poor social skills is not only reason why a relationship would not work out. Poor social skills plays a huge part on why someone struggles to interact with the opposite sex at all or make friends. I am again confused why you think these two things are equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:50 PM
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Lol I’ve stayed at plenty of shitty hotels in Asia. People are right you didn’t do you research and now you are throwing tantrum instead acknowledging that you didn’t do your research.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:30 PM
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They are complaining about quality, not that they can’t find anyone, do you not know the difference? Guys here complain they can’t find anyone and then tell us they only use dating apps to find women or don’t have any friends/social circles. Then act surprised when people advice them to go out and interact with people more if you to want to meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:13 PM
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Women are not the ones complaining about being sexless or friendless on a mass scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:07 PM
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Well surveys show men are less likely to have friends or strong social support net, so that may play a role in the stereotype. Women seem to also use dating apps far less and prefer meeting people the old fashion way. Even then I haven’t seen anyone say social awkwardness is male only issue. In fact issues with anxiety and shyness seem to be thought of as a female issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:51 PM
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What makes you think most women are pursuing or ‘chasing’ men out their leagues? Tinder stats? The same tinder stats that show men outnumber women on the platform 9-1? Men outnumber women on Tinder by almost nine to one, while even “female-friendly” apps like Bumble have fewer than 20% of Bumble users, according to new research. A recent study by Mobile Journey Marketing cloud provider Ogury reveals a massive gender imbalance amongst dating app users in various countries. This imbalance was grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:42 PM
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Why does the issue of social skills have to with ‘gynocentrism’?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:27 PM
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Interesting. I’ve seen studies which show young men are actually more likely to be single then young women (it wasn’t like that 30 years ago), why do you think that is? https://time.com/6104105/more-single-men-than-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:25 PM
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Ok….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:56 PM
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I don’t understand what you mean by women want good ol’ times back?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:10 AM
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GSS sample size is kinda small, and people have pointed out their limitations before. I think another person pointed out the spike seems to start in 2019 not 2018 based on previous GSS findings. But you have brought up good points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 01:05 AM
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I think a lot people need to keep in mind, many people are voluntarily not having sex especially in the wake of COVID, and not everyone who reports being sexless is involuntarily doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 12:56 AM
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Complaining about not being able to get laid? I doubt that, getting sex as a woman is easy as hell. Complaining about dating and bad sex in general? Yes. But so do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:07 PM
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Most women thankfully don’t base their self worth on how much sex they are having unlike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:40 PM
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The research is based off of data from the GSS, ifs just created their own graphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:39 PM
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Though that's not really surprising. I simply CANNOT get behind this incel/redpill rage I see. I feel if a man can't get laid in 2021 then he's completely fucking clueless. Interesting you believe it’s easier then ever to get laid as a man in 2021. This begs the question, why are so many young people not having sex then if it’s easier then ever? The rate of sexlessness according to stat, nearly tripled between 2008-2021, another study posted on here showed that the number of unattached young peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:28 PM
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But stats have shown that a small % of either sex have had most of the sex, things haven’t really changed in that regard. In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time. Measuring the number of partners instead of sexual frequency, the top 20% most promiscuous men account for about 60% of male sexual partnerings, and the trend is, again, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:02 PM
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I don’t think you are going to find any women hyperbolically proclaiming that the world is going to end because more women are (voluntarily it seems) not having sex like we did on here for nearly two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:48 PM
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Why would hookup culture cause young people to have less sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 07:36 PM
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You realize tinder is 80% men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:38 PM
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TikTok algorithm is set up in such a way that the videos you see on your for you page are based on who you follow or past videos you have liked. For example my grandmas TikTok for you page is filled with kitten and baby videos. If all you are seeing on TikTok is videos of women complaining about being ghosted, it’s because you keep liking videos like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:36 PM
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men can carry weight better than women Huh? This isn’t true at all. Women naturally have higher body fat in their body and more likely to gain weight in their hips, butt and breast area rather then stomachs area then men. Hence why you will find a lot more men who like chubby or thick girls then women who like chubby or thick men. Plus latest cdc statistics on obesity show more obese men then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:26 PM
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Actually bmi miss measures happen the most to pregnant women not muscular men, who are too few in number to effect state like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:23 PM
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Doesn’t matter how obese, there are more obese men according to stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:22 PM
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Maybe so, that doesn't mean he coerced her into it or that she was forcefully penetrated. By law he did, as it says people under a certain age can’t give consent. You're literally contradicting your own source right now. How I am contradicting my own source? In nearly half the births (49%) to mothers ages 15-17, the father is 20 or older; My source literally says in half of teen pregnancy the mother is 15-17 years old while the father is at least 20 years old or older. But you have no reason to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:47 AM
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I don’t think you understand, a 20 year old man impregnating a 15-16 year old girl could be considered statuary rape in many states. The fact that the in half of teen pregnancy the father is at least 20 years old, means many of those fathers could be even older in some cases. Those are not their peers at school like you were trying to say earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:45 PM
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3 plus older. We don’t know the average age, we just know most are at least three years older, some can be 20 years older or four years older. Which means many of these relationships could be the result of statuary rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:30 PM
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In nearly half the births (49%) to mothers ages 15-17, the father is 20 or older; fewer than one in five of these births involve fathers under age 18. For the youngest mothers, under age 15, there are few births, but more than half of fathers are over 18 and more than one-fourth are 20 and older.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:26 PM
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The majority of teachers caught sleeping with students are male. The media focuses more on women because it generates more clicks. Most pedophiles are male too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:14 PM
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You haven’t been to Italy then. If anything Mediterranean/Arab men are the most likely to go bald at a younger age in my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:54 PM
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Based on your comments you probably be one of those creepy old men who will hit on younger women when you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:53 PM
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A lot Italian men are bald though, I’ve been Italy before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:10 AM
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Leave us alone too, we find you older men gross and laugh about you behind your backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:48 AM
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Either equally matched or the women is more attractive. I’m curious to know where people live though where they constantly see attractive men with average/ugly women or where men are the better looking ones in the relationships. I rarely see these type of couplings, maybe it’s location but i’ve looked at enough people watching type videos in places from like a fair located in the Midwest or tourist walking through Disney world to observe couples and still did not see this phenomenon of prettier …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:29 PM
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What if those actions indirectly protected your freedom? They absolutely have not and as whole made the world a worse place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:21 PM
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But those activities make up large part of it. People bash the military for committing war crimes even then they focus on the leaders calling the shots not individual soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:02 PM
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Less older women want to date then men. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 10:07 AM
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That's why I laugh my ass off every time I hear an american feminist bashing US soldiers. Girl... They are consting your freedom, rights and salary with their lives. Drone striking children and bombing middle eastern countries is not securing or ensuring my freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:48 AM
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Over 30% of lesbian named male only perpetrators in the same study.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:22 PM
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The survey literally just says the wife is more attractive then the husband or vice versa, being the more attractive one in a relationship doesn’t make the less attractive partner unattractive. It seems you guys are equating the wife being deemed more attractive then husband with supermodels dating ogres. When it could be the case both the partners are attractive or average but one is just slightly more attractive then the other(he’s a 6 she’s 7 etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:08 PM
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The algorithm on dating apps like Tinder are set up in way that they are most likely to show you profiles of people who are the most likely to swipe right on you or match with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:30 AM
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I live San Francisco and I hardly see any fat or obese young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 05:17 AM
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People only tell others to lower their standards if they are constantly complaining they can't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 09:55 PM
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I really fail to see how that contradicts anything I cited or said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:15 AM
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Parents killing their children is a rare event, I'm not sure what you are on about. Most children are murdered by their fathers despite father's being less likely then mothers to be the primary caregiver of children. Fathers are more likely to kill. Men killed six out 10 children, most often beating or shooting them. Fathers were at fault in 75% of cases when children were shot to death by a parent and in 64% of cases when a child was beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:11 AM
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You using a statistically rare event (a parent murdering their child) to try prove anything about gender relations was dumb and you kinda set yourself up to be proven wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:49 AM
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Since u/IHaveSalesQuestions has no statistics to support his argument and cherry pick stories to make his point, I will list some new stories of men doing the same. Man kills his gf and her daughter. https://www.nypost.com/2021/08/27/police-hunt-for-man-accused-of-killing-girlfriend-her-daughter/amp/ Man kills his five children to hurt their mother. https://www.theitem.com/stories/prosecutor-sc-father-charged-with-killing-5-children-is-evil-man-who-wanted-revenge,328350 Man beats his three kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:18 AM
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Don’t statistics show Indian men actually out marry more then their women? I live in a city with large Indian population and have not noticed a strong gender difference among them regarding interracial dating or ‘white worship.’ The majority of people in the West are white, it’s not shocking the racial group that makes the majority of ones dating pool is sought after the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:13 AM
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???? I have never heard any of my white female friends say they think Indian or Asian men are subhuman or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:44 AM
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Since you seemed to have deleted your comment before I could respond, I don’t know any women who ‘hates’ short men u/antonio_aurelio.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:11 PM
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That case is bunkers. This guy sexually assaulted his 80 year old mother who has dementia. Just yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:06 PM
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Christina Hendricks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:36 AM
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Not everyone meets their partner on dating apps, most people don’t in fact even today…..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:04 AM
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If you feel like you can’t be open and communicate with her, that’s not a good sign for your relationship. I’m keeping it real, if I found out my bf was posting stuff like this about me on an anonymous reddit forum I would be pretty devastated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:32 AM
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I’m half Korean. It’s pretty rare for East Asians to get really fat when they are young even in America, studies show we are genetically less predisposed to weight gain. Maybe she has thyroid issue she could get checked out idk. I still think it’s probably not right to continue dating her if you aren’t really that attracted to her. Seems unfair to her, but do what you think is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:19 AM
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Interesting. I remember seeing some comments from saying you really like East Asian looking women, is your gf at least East Asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:13 AM
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What about your gf do not find attractive compared to the women you do find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:57 AM
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Why are you dating a woman you feel no attraction for though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:55 AM
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These couples are young still in college, who is ‘settling’ at that age?
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:18 AM
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Nah I could show you a bunch of pictures of such couples and you will probably dismiss them.
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:03 AM
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I see way many average height men in relationships in my city and university for that to be true. I really don’t know what to tell you.
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:57 AM
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It’s pretty clear for this conversation you think your height plays a role, and the fact you shorter then most of the men around you in why you are having no dating success.
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:34 AM
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You obviously aren’t happy with your current location. But if your happy were you are, then ignore my suggestions. I just thought of you lived in area where the average height was lower you wouldn’t feel intimidated apparently by all the tall men around you and focus less on your height as the cause as to why you don’t have a gf.
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:12 AM
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Don't guess the university, but it is in one of the tallest and whitest states in the country and has a lot of Chads. Well then maybe you should think about moving to a more diverse area. I go to university in California where there a lot Asians/Hispanics who tend to be of average height. Heck most white men here aren’t that tall either outside of upper class areas. Most whites in America in general aren’t unless you are in one of those super white areas in the upper Midwest or mountain west wer…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:57 AM
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If the average height is 5’11-6 ft then it should not be a surprise most men you see in relationships are around that height, as it’s the statistically the most common. The men at my university are average height, tall ones are an outlier. I see more normal height men in relationships as a result. There are plenty of guys shorter than me, though, and you'd think I would have seen more than one couple with a boyfriend shorter than 6ft by now. I think you have but you weren’t paying attention. Aga…
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:45 AM
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What university do you go to? Are tall men the norm? Then it’s not unusual that most men you see in relationships are tall. At my university normal height men are the norm, thus most men in relationships are of normal height.
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:37 AM
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Even that’s hard to believe. I could show thousands of couples I personally know that’s not the case at the university I go to, but what’s the point you’ll probably discount them. Either you go to a weird school or you are only paying attention to couples them at confirm your confirmation bias.
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:30 AM
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Do you not go to a university where there is a lot ethnic minorities like Asians or Hispanics because it’s pretty unbelievable to me you don’t see single guy under 5’11 in a relationship.
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:27 AM
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Because I've had black friends in China (English teachers) that were actually assaulted there (I did not see the actual assault, but I personally witnessed the aftermath). Your flippant posts seem to suggest that it's not a big deal if black people come to live and date in China and that simply isn't the case. Probably because my original point was not about racism black people experience but disputing the notion relations between Chinese and black peoples don’t happen which you seemed to imply …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:42 PM
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You are perpetuating a myth. This is not a common occurrence. I'd be willing to bet that your "Chinese friends" don't actually know anyone who slept with black guys over there. For all we know, it could just be propaganda in an attempt to spread more hatred against blacks among older Chinese men. Lol my Chinese friends in this case, two girls, told me it was a controversy for a while on social media as people kept sharing viral stories/videos of girls usually university students getting pregnant…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:20 PM
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I’m not perpetuating a myth, I’ve had Chinese friends tell me the same thing. Never said it was widespread but it was common enough that it sparked a huge controversy on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:00 PM
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I didn’t say it’s widespread but it’s common enough that every year at least a couple girls would drop out of university after getting pregnant by foreign exchange students particularly African ones. This was widely talked about on Chinese social media at one point. This of course only applies to areas in China that have a large black population or universities that have black foreign exchange students which the vast majority do not and black people in China are practically nonexistent in large …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:48 PM
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I can’t find the original source but the problem is common enough that you can articles and videos like below being shared about it on Chinese social media. https://3g.163.com/dy/article/GES4E62605488SX8.html?spss=adap_pc https://m.bilibili.com/video/BV1A54y167dp https://m.bilibili.com/video/BV1t5411j7ks https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.xuehua.us/a/5ec1f0220f90e752ae768432%3flang=zh-cn&amp=1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:39 PM
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I have friends from China, they all confirm that what I read is a major controversy on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:05 PM
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I remember reading somewhere that a lot of people on Chinese social media were talking about the problem of African students impregnating Chinese girls. Apparently at least once a year a couple of girls would drop out of university because of this and there was a lot controversy surrounding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:51 PM
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You didn’t present shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:56 PM
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You haven’t cited shit. I’m the only who actually cited any data while you just keep repeating it’s wrong like a three year old child because you say it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:28 PM
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I’m right your wrong!!! A three years old oops I mean redpill guide to debating on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:25 PM
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He’s wrong mommmy!!!! I’m right!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:22 PM
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The loser keeps taking in tongues because he has no response or clear rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:20 PM
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It doesn't matter of there aren't clear cut class differences, I literally said college attendance doesn't guarantee UMC habits, ontop of that cities don't have more because more people in it, it's because of instant dating look at NYC where women out number men but can't find partners easily. Ok and? The majority of people who attend college graduate. The data doesn’t just look at college educated vs non college educated but income irrespective of educational status, and people who attend commu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:19 PM
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I really don’t know how anything you say changes the fact the data shows single motherhood is significantly lower among the college educated and upper classes. Single motherhood is not a 50 year high either. The decline of single motherhood is a direct result of more unmarried parents deciding to live together, according to the report. Pew says 35% of unmarried parents live with a partner. https://time.com/5255654/single-mothers-unmarried-parents-cohabit/?amp=true For the first time in years, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:11 PM
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The data doesn’t really bare out what you are saying. There are clear class differences in the rate of single motherhood. Geographic location doesn’t make much of a difference, income bracket matters more. Having a college-educated mother is associated with a much higher chance that children live with two married parents. For children whose mother is college educated, 86% live with two married parents in 2018, down slightly from 2007 when it was 88%.2 In contrast, 60% of children with high-schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:58 PM
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Mrs Drgree, is right, if you are running into a lot single mothers you probably live in a poorer area. Only 9% of births to college educated women are out of wedlock and the age of which women give birth is rising to the point that women in their 30s have a higher fertility rate then women in their 20s. More people are child free today too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:39 PM
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Not true. There are some naturally ugly motherfuckers out there. How does this discount my original point that anyone from any race can be attractive? Did I say ugly people don’t exist? No. I said people don’t care about race much anymore and if you are objectively attractive(and attractive people exist in every race/ethnic group) then you will get hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:05 PM
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You know what I find strange? On predominantly non white incel spaces who guys claiming ‘their women’ only like white men. On predominantly white incel spaces who have guys complaining about how their women only like black men and immigrants, so much so they created a doxxing of list of them. It’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:22 PM
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Colorism and the association with darker skin tones is strong in Asia, but from what my Chinese friends tell black men expats are equally likely as their white male expats counterparts to have Chinese gfs. In North America, black men Filipino women couples are pretty common among the younger generation. Black and Asian people are just significant less likely to live in areas where they are in close proximity. Tbh I’m not even sure why you keep bringing up Asian women when the original point was …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:19 PM
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Money absolutely plays a role though. It’s well known in Asia especially south east Asia that women get with western white men for money and a chance of a green card.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:09 PM
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Yes, the percentage of Asian women marrying outside their race is actually going down. More Asians are marrying each other as they make up a bigger percentage of the population. There was a nytimes article about this. Younger Asian women are also more likely to not intermarry compared to middle aged ones. Likely due to differences in dating pool and culture. I know when my grands parents immigrated to the USA they pushed my mother to marry a white man. A lot asian women especially those who come…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:00 PM
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Dude the majority of people are white in most western countries, that’s the majority of their dating pool. Regardless you can find a lot women not into white men and like other men. Most incels wouldn’t be white if being white itself was desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:57 AM
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Nope, the studies op linked showed women rate black male faces as more attractive then white male faces. In every study that compared black male faces to white male ones, black ones were rated more attractive. And the black male faces they used were from non mixed African exchange students. Women don’t only find white men attractive and have never only found them attractive. Stop listening to blackpillers pushing that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:36 AM
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The studies op linked show African features on men are the most attractive not European.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:46 AM
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I said race doesn’t play a role in who is seen attractive. If you are hot you will get hype on social media regardless of your race from a wide range of people. People care more features, aesthetic and how you present yourself then your race. You are going off on a completely different tangent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:43 AM
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What countries? Western countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:35 AM
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Maybe cause whites are still the majority in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:29 AM
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The last one looks the most mature actually, she has a nice womanly body. The fifth looks like a child which is creepy since I know she is not actually one, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:12 AM
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Really because more children with a white parent and non white parent have white mothers then white fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:36 AM
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Mines is also more recent( yours is from 2015) so I win.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:26 AM
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Not according to this chart: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/q0333s/whos_lying_here/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:11 AM
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Do what you want, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:43 AM
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I’m talking about in general. People associate incels with far right wingers and alt right types since they are both seen as undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:39 AM
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Nope just don’t like losers putting others down to feel better about themselves, which is a lot white incels do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:34 AM
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Only 52% of gen z (ages range of 9-24) are white, so they are overrepresented as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:32 AM
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I don’t think op needs to add anything else. As I’ve said before most incels are white as the data shows and incel subculture in the West is largely associated far right while men, not Indian or Asian men like some on here like to push. I guess white men are not as desirable as they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:22 AM
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Milla Jovovich was very pretty in that movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:27 AM
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So are you going to claim having a strong jaw is a Eurocentric trait even though tons of non whites have strong jaws? I’m half Korean, Koreans are known for our square faces, those guys in the second video have the classic Korean square face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:21 AM
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Is whether or not white people fuck your measure of someone’s attractiveness? Also the fetishization of Asian men by non Asian women is something that’s problem among Gen z though. https://www.insider.com/asian-american-model-goes-viral-tiktok-about-racism-and-dating-2020-2?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:18 AM
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Sure. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRTAh5ex/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRTAjPKF/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRTSwVXy/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:15 AM
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The indian/asian men you see on tiktok all got eurocentric features. No they don’t. They clearly look Asian/Indian. I’ve noticed people claim any attractive minority has Eurocentric traits which is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:02 AM
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Which variables do you think they failed to control for? Age for one. I think results will vary by generation. Point is, it’s dumb to treat old studies like this like they are law and apply them to younger people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:57 PM
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Any race can be attractive" has been around since like the 70's. Not entirely, beauty standards tend to be Eurocentric even today and it was certainly worse in the past. But that’s changing thanks to the advent of social media. Indian and Asians still make a small percentage of the population though and I mostly see non Asians trolling/putting them down rather then themselves. I live in area where there’s a lot of them and just went to a farmers market today and saw a lot attractive ones. Most d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:53 PM
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More race conscious probably because race issues have become more widely talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:45 PM
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Unless you have a more recent study or dataset That’s my point, most of these studies are a six plus sometimes decades old. They also don’t control for certain variables, which could skew the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:44 PM
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All the resources available? US still doesn’t have universal healthcare, paid paternity or maternity leave, many states still don’t teach proper sex education etc. The abortion rate is already dropping every year, but the situation is far from prefect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:35 PM
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Lack of education causes abortions. You think the women in China, Vietnam, and Russia (all who have an abortion rate higher then the US) are getting abortions because they want to sleep around and are lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:25 PM
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It’s funny because demographic studies show most incels online are white and people in the general public generally associate incels with white men particularly with far right racist groups like the alt right. It’s like they are trying push this narrative that most incels are Indian/Asian to save face when no research bars that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:21 PM
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Ok well you should know in the US a lot politicians don’t, in places like Alabama abstinence only sex education is the law of the land. This causes young people to be less educated on sexual matters leading to a higher abortion rate. Most women getting abortions are poor/working class, the more educated a woman is the less likely she is ever to get an abortion. So the picture you are painting of lazy sluts who want rise cock coursel getting abortions in abundance is false. It’s poor less educate…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:18 PM
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Nah, I’ve seen them say some pretty derogatory stuff about them. You can say it’s in an ironic 4chan humor way but it still strikes me as odd. Most of the men making post putting them down are not Asian/Indian either, it’s like they get off on feeling superior to another group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:10 PM
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No, most of the guy putting them down are not Asian/Indian, it’s like they get off on putting another race of men down. ‘We may be undesirable but always we are not subhuman like Indian/Asian men’ is a sentiment I commonly see from this group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:06 PM
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Abortion is largely driven by poverty, it’s one of the reason why places like China, Russia and Vietnam (both have the highest abortion rate in the world) have a high abortion rate. https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/abortion-rates-by-country The percentage and number of abortions in the US has actually fallen since the 70s since the widespread availability of birth control and sex education has become accessible. When you make birth control available and teach young people safe …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:46 PM
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The percentage of children being raised by both parents is actually rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:34 PM
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My mothers family is from Asia and have family members there too. Most women and men aren’t virgins till marriage either. I think Latin America is the same based on what my Latino friends tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:04 PM
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They probably get away with more things because they are poorly supervised. Bullying at my school only happened when the teachers were not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:20 AM
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When comes to bullying, the opposite genders opinion on someone doesn’t influence same gender bullying dynamics according to research: And in elementary school, which this study focused on, kids are only interested in what their same-gender peers think. So boys will target classmates who are not well-liked by other boys, regardless of what the girls think. https://www.livescience.com/amp/8155-bullies-pick-unpopular-kids-study-finds.html I remember there was a very feminine boy at my school when …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:03 AM
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Several in real life, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:55 AM
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Most sex workers I know hate men with a passion lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:40 AM
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I’m pretty sure she is white. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/n41l5m/comment/gwtfprg/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:39 AM
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level 4D4sthian · 11mOooh older men are clients of prostitutes then. Yeah that would explain a lot of things. Dead bedrooms tend to be a plague in older marriages. Should I feel bad for those women who are not fucking their men? Because I don’t. Wanna keep your man close? Fuck him often and fuck him well. Clients of prostitute are more likely to be older, doesn't mean they are all old, and what a shitty way to excuse cheating on your spouse. Having this conversation its clear you are coming from…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:38 PM
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Looksmaxxing forums are not new, were definitely not invented by incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:29 PM
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From the same article you’ve cited. Plus a simple google search will prove you wrong. The same article said: Before you react, there are some questions about this largely self-reported data. Such as: Do the numbers regarding who gets caught cheating align with the numbers of people actually cheating? Do respondents to the surveys used by social scientists lie? According Dr. Tammy Nelson, a couples therapist and author of When You’re The One Who Cheats, there’s reason to suspect that women may be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:00 PM
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Latest studies say men and women cheat basically the same, with women cheating 1% more. Source? Latest study I could find did not say that. Twenty percent of men cheat compared to 13 percent of women, according to the U.S. General Social Survey. https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/do-men-cheat-more-than-women-infidelity-data/ And you don’t know that women “just like to do the paperwork”. Until that is proven, 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women, which basically proves monkeybranching, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:25 PM
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Most of the members of vindicta are not looksmaxxing because they want to get access to hotter men or something like that. They mainly doing it because they want improve this lives substantially, whether professionally, socially, or mentally, and studies show being attractive as a woman is the best way to improve your life prospects, hence the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:53 PM
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More women are married in those age ranges too, is also because they are sharing the same husband, or maybe perhaps the fact that men tend be a little older in relationships could explain things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 06:42 PM
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How many men remarry AFTER a divorce is meaningless when women initiate 70-80% of divorces. Who files the divorce doesn't really tell us who ended the marriage, filing is just paperwork. Especially considering the fact that studies show that adultery, is one the top reasons for divorce, it could be the case many of those women are filing for divorce because their husbands cheated on them. As for your article, we don’t need something similar to Ashley Madison to confirm women’s hypergamy. We alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:09 PM
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The only thing is, that trope doesn’t happen even a quarter of the times the other trope does happen. You know this how? Divorced men are more likely to remarry quicker after their divorce then divorce women. Men are also more likely to get into a new relationship or rebound quicker after the termination of an old relationship. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/n3img4/study_finds_men_are_more_likely_to_rebound_after/ Yes and ashley madison debacle uncovered about 32 million user…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:08 PM
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Women have been doing this for as long as they existed, there’s a reason why the “wife leaves her man for some other, hotter, richer dude” trope is so fucking famous and so extended that basically even kids have heard about this. Huh? The trope of men leaving their wives for younger hotter women is far more famous. This trope is so immortalized in pop culture you have popular sayings (trading her in for a younger model) and movies about it (first wives club). Turns out men are always on the look…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:49 PM
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She’s obviously the betabux in the relationship since her bf admitted he settled for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:49 AM
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https://mobile.twitter.com/BreastMilkEnjyr/status/1442720783537618944 Is this a perfect example of a betabux relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:07 AM
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Stable overtime means stable over generations. Not just in the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 08:38 PM
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In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:33 PM
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The researcher is using the same GSS data to reach conclusions like this: In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:05 PM
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The change in sexlessness does not change the overall distribution which is what the researcher is showing. Which means the narrative that Chad is hoarding all the women is false. The number of sexlessness men is literally only 4% higher in 2019 then it was in 2004 according to GSS data: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kvrnh7/comment/gj12ma5/ There also seems to be contradictory data on the supposed rise of sexlessness as similar studies to the GSS have not found a rise in sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:28 PM
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the last statistic I saw was 82% of women had casual sex. 42% continued after 2 occurrences. Let me guess your source for this is a non scientific online poll conducted by the popculture magazine because that’s the only source people use who throw around that 80% number. Recent data on this topic published this year: The study, published in the journal Socius, found that between 2007 and 2017 the percentage of 18-to 23-year-old men who had casual sex in the past month dropped from 38 percent to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:16 PM
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Saaying "its always been that way" is kind of a cop out because not only is the gap growing pretty fast, This is not a cop out but what researcher who looked at actual data has said: In reality, according to the GSS, the top 20% of the most sexually active never-married young men have about 50-60% of the sex. It’s about the same for women, and these shares are basically stable over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:03 PM
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The same study shows the distribution is the same among women, people keep ignoring this for some reason. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m2e1ts/does_the_8020_rule_apply_to_women_too/ It’s always been the case that a minority of men and women have most of the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/or2o49/comment/h6fywmp/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ps6qjz/comment/hdojw8n/ I really don’t get it, is this belief that casual sexual activity among women is higher then ever or hasn’t declined really this important? Because the amount of back and forth I have had on this topic that involved an insane amount of bad faith arguments even in the face of contradictory evidence has been incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:21 PM
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Yeah I know, that's why I made that post to address what they didn't do. No you didn’t because the post you made was before the study was posted on here, and doesn’t contradict their results. You keep insisting the number of women having casual sex is not declining because they are having sex with one guy, the study empirically shows that the number of women reporting have ever had casual sex is declining contradicting your assertions. The study, published in the journal Socius, found that betwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:05 PM
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I am not sure what paternity fraud has anything to do this conversation which is talking about the prevalence of casual sex but anyways, widespread paternity fraud is a myth. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mhcdz8/comment/gtol0xu/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:54 PM
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Ah yes, you are that poster, and I repeatedly pointed out to in our last conversation that study we are talking about is not measuring the number of casual sexual partners or sexual frequency but if one has ever had casual sex within a given time period. The number of men and women answering yes to this question has declined within past decade which points to a decline in casual sexual activity. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/or2o49/comment/h6fywmp/ because women are having l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:52 AM
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Just because there have post made multiple times that doesn’t make them factual or true. In fact any empirical data we have on this topic shows the 80/20 rule applies to women (a small % have most of the female heterosexual sexual encounters) and the number of young people of both genders reporting have had casual sex is declining. Again these are based on research by experienced sociologist or studies not anecdotal evidence or feelz which is the only thing guys on this topic ever offer to suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:25 AM
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The article also says the ratio is the same for women and has been stable for decades. Why did you leave that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:10 AM
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Then provide evidence that’s not what’s happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:08 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 05:19 PM
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A lot young men are gross for sure, I’m a young women (19) I see it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 02:20 AM
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That hasn’t been my experience, the cliche of mothers coddling their loser sons exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:30 PM
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Yeah that's “tinder” were talking about online dating in general. The most popular way people are meeting is through OLD so to say it's declining doesn't even make any sense. Your not clever. Except OLD is not the most popular way for people are meeting, you are probably basing this assertion off of a misinterpretation of that Stanford study by equating meeting online with OLD. Someone broke this down in another post: According to the study you linked the plurality of couples do meet online, abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 05:31 AM
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New people join dating apps all the time, it's not a static count like your trying to make it out to be. Whether it's dumb or not is subjective to your own opinion, considering these men are not looking for relationships. Activity on tinder is declining, as a link I showed you earlier said. And we can’t trust the numbers coming out of tinder or related dating apps since bot accounts are counted in their statistics, match.com who owns tinder is in fact being sued for using bot accounts to lure cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:32 AM
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Because unlike you, I have statistics to back up my argument, you have nothing. Less women are on tinder because less sign up in the first place, expecting the majority of men to find partners on a site where they greatly outnumber women is dumb. They're not trying to, they're trying to find a partner to fuck which is why they stay on their. Women are less likely then men to use OLD with the intention for hookups according to statistics, its men who largely are using it to find casual sex which …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:17 AM
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the number is not static it fluctuates. Fluctuates are not significant and consistently showing men making up over 70% up to 80% users based on tinders own stats (the numbers maybe higher as third party sources show the numbers being higher then official data published by tinder). Regardless how do you expect most men to find a partner on a site that’s a sausage party?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:50 AM
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Most couples start out as friends there was a study on this. Friendship is usually based mutual interest or compatibility. So for most romantic relationships personality does matter. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/jul/12/two-thirds-of-couples-start-out-as-friends-research-finds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:43 AM
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There are 8 million tinder users in the United States, according to statistics 20-30% are women ( some even studies peg that number even lower), 30% of 8 million is 2.4 million. 2.4 million women out of the total female population of the United States which is 166.7 million, is absolutely nothing. That’s a far cry from tens of millions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:36 AM
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The original argument was whether or not tens of millions of women in droves are signing up for tinder, that’s obviously not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:27 AM
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The simpler explanation is less women sign up tinder in the first which explains why the studies have consistently found men greatly outnumber women on dating apps. Anyone who works in that field would tell you that men greatly outnumber women on dating apps, in fact this a common concern among dating sites which is why some have been caught buying female bot accounts to artificially inflate the number of women who use their site, so their official numbers regarding this don’t look too bad. Ashl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:24 AM
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Millions is not a lot if it’s insignificant number out of a total population. There are 8 million tinder users in the United States, according to statistics 20-30% are women ( some even studies peg that number even lower), 30% of 8 million is 2.4 million. 2.4 million women out of the total female population of the United States which is 166.7 million, is absolutely nothing. He was saying tens of million of women were signing up for tinder in drove, that’s absolutely not true no matter how you sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:15 AM
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Yes we do know that, since it’s been well established that men greatly outnumber women on most OLD sites. Men outnumber women on Tinder by almost nine to one, while even “female-friendly” apps like Bumble have fewer than 20% of Bumble users, according to new research. A recent study by Mobile Journey Marketing cloud provider Ogury reveals a massive gender imbalance amongst dating app users in various countries. This imbalance was greatest in Italy – where 91% of dating app users are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:09 AM
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Tinder usage is actually declining, and men outnumber women on the site 9-1. It’s pretty obvious men are the ones keeping tinder in business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:07 AM
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How are men not contributing to the problem? You realize the gender imbalance on OLD means even every women gave one guy on there a chance the majority of men would still be left with nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:02 AM
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He said women were signing up for tinder in droves, that’s obviously not true and it is fact men who are since all statistics on the gender demographics on tinder show men greatly outnumber women on the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:56 AM
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There’s a correlation between attractiveness and intelligence, especially among men, there was a thread on this. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/lvhir1/are_attractive_men_more_intelligent/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:53 AM
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What does JBW stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:37 PM
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Out of curiosity, how would you guys rate the most swiped man on tinder in the UK on a scale of 1-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:19 PM
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A woman alleged he put his hands down her pants without her consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:22 PM
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That’s not true, a woman alleged he put his hands down her pants without her consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:22 PM
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He's the top percentile not just in terms of matches but swipes/likes as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:47 PM
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The studies I cited were all done by men. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 05:49 PM
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She’s not changing her numbers, the official source from Tinder says the ratio is 78/22 while third party sources say the ratio on tinder is closer to 9-1. Either way men outnumber women on the site heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:44 AM
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Of course you have nothing to say, you guys love studies and statistics until they go against your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:41 AM
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I work with teens, very few look that old, you must live in a weird area or exaggerating heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:30 AM
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Mass shooting is defined as any shooting where more than two people. The recent incel shooter in the UK killed five people including a three year old child. It has been far from being the only related incel attack, there was the Elliot Rodgers shooting in 2014, and the Toronto van attack in 2018 and more: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/p4rbvp/comment/h981prt/ Considering how many men are killed by their intimate partners (women) every year in domestic related incidents, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:47 PM
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She posted more then one screenshot of guys threatening her, and she was being harassed for days. All over a cute picture she posted of her and her bf. Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:15 PM
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Check out statistics for women leaving men after she starts making more money that her husband. Can we also check out the statistics on men being more likely to cheat on their wives, if their wives make more then them? There are other ways in which an income gap can lead to marital stress. Christin Munsch, then a doctoral candidate at Cornell University, analyzed data on 18- to 28-year-old couples (some were married and some were cohabiting) from the U.S. National Longitudinal Survey of Youth. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:53 PM
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I mentioned in my op, the women who posted that picture of her and her bf on Twitter talks about being harassed for days and screenshots the death/rape threats she has gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:50 PM
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Again, that's false, Rollo is still married haha. Read this thread, somebody said they find out his wife filed for divorce. There was a video made about this apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:29 AM
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I think I’ve mainly seen single women get bitter at happy dappy couples. To the point that they are sending death and rape threats to somebody who just posted a picture? Because a large group of men just did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:28 AM
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Nah, but how are you since incelswithouthate got shutdown? I imagine incel spaces are probably awkward to go on now that you are dealing with the bad press that yet another one of your members committed a mass shooting just recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:53 AM
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Most men on here and redpillers are not what I would call dating experts. You are definitely projecting because you are assuming a lot about this couple based on nothing, oh and btw somebody in this thread said that another redpiller showed proof that rollo’s wife filed for divorced, so much for happy marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:45 AM
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The guy who was friend-zoned is an idiot. He hung around while she banged some guys Her bf who is bisexual literally said he dated other men and women before they got together. Again like I have repeated throughout this post, you are projecting hard onto this couple likely based on your personal experience so they can fit whatever ideology you have in your head. You don’t know this couple or what they were doing before they got together, your just assuming a lot based on a picture which is a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 09:33 AM
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Yes very scary that men think it’s ok to harass women for days, insult a stranger and send death/rape threats to them because they don’t like how they started their relationship. Very scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:11 AM
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Umm there is, this is a popular romcom trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:43 AM
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How do you know it was him pining after her? It could have been her who started to developing feelings first. Women develop crushes/feelings for friends all the time. Like I said you are projecting a lot onto this couple likely based on personal experiences and assuming your experience is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:11 AM
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No, like I said you are assuming that (she was banging dudes and then settled for her bf because her ‘options’ dried up) likely because you are projecting. Her own bf, who is bisexual said he slept with/dated different men and women before he and is gf got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:08 AM
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Well.. thats exactly why. She literally kept him on a leash while she messed around only to finally give him some after her best years are behind her. You know this how? Her bf who is bisexual has said he dated other men and women before got together so he was also messing around by your logic. The fact that you assume he wasn’t is like I said in my op, just projection likely based on your own personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:55 PM
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Honestly after looking through your post history this is a little rich coming from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:46 PM
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Lol several studies have actually showed women rating men of other races as more attractive then white men. So no women just don’t find white men attractive, stop pushing that myth. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/222811389_Who_is_the_fairest_of_them_all_Race_attractiveness_and_skin_color_sexual_dimorphism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:34 PM
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However, the way it’s probably looked at is that the guy was an orbiter of hers for 8 yrs. To do that you’d need extremely low self-confidence, low self-respect, and essentially be a “simp.” Everything TRP tells you not to have so it goes against that narrative. If he was waiting around for her that’s a shitty way to go about things. Yeah you get the girl, but at what expense. And how high up on a pedestal is she once you are with her? And again they only think that because they are projecting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:46 PM
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Her bf is bisexual and has said he dated different men and women before he and his gf got together. The question is why are you assuming it was he was the one who had feelings and wanted to get together after they meet but she didn’t? Not every friendship to couple dynamic plays out like that, anyone with experience knows that, the fact that you assume it did in this case is because you are likely projecting based on your own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:38 PM
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Studies have shown most the accounts on onlyfans are inactive, as in the users have never posted any pictures. About the tinder thing, it’s not only that there are less female users, but they are also far less active as well. Men outnumber women dramatically on dating apps; this is a fact. A 2016 literature review also found that men are more active users of these apps—both in the amount of time they spend on them and the number of interactions they attempt. Their experience of not getting as ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:00 PM
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I’ve been thinking a lot about the ‘godfathers of redpill’ so to speak and it’s interesting when people have these discussions Tom Leykis’ name never pops up anymore. People always bring up Rollo, Kevin Samuels, Patrice O’Neal when they talk about men who were instrumental in spreading redpill ideas/talking points to the mainstream masses but never Tom. It’s weird because back in his heyday, Tom had a fairly popular radio show with a devoted audience where he would regularly give his (mostly mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:45 PM
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Several recent demographic surveys show men outnumber women greatly on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:23 PM
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Pierce Brosnan’s wife was not fat when he married her and she suffers from a medical condition that causes her to gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:49 PM
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No one said there weren’t exceptions but data actually finds a lot actors in Hollywood are short. Shorter actors are in fact favored because it’s easier for camera men to film them. Film producer Brian Hennessey sums up a common explanation: “The dynamic of ‘shorter’ actors is mostly a result of practicality. There is more of an abundance of actors and actresses of average height so they are easier to cast. They are also by and large easier to shoot. It is somewhat challenging to frame an actor …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:20 PM
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Because I would go through post history I see them posting in defunct incel subs or when we were arguing they would link me stuff to incel adjacent websites/forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:14 PM
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Someone a while back posted a study proving the 80/20 rule(a small number of men have most of the heterosexual sexual encounters or opposite sex partners) not only exists but applies to women too(a small number of women have most of the sexual partners/encounters as well) and appears to be nothing new under the sun. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m2e1ts/does_the_8020_rule_apply_to_women_too/ Not only that but someone also linked several other studies showing the GSS sexlessne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 07:12 PM
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It’s unclear to me how being masculine prevents you from developing close friendships with other men, this makes me wonder what is that users definition of what it means to be a masculine man is because their logic/conclusions make no sense to me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:11 AM
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Well yeah, because a lot less people get married, so people that do are more sure of it. The total ratio of divorces have declined so the fall in marriage is not related to the decline in divorce. The marriage rate has also fallen over the last several decades. But Cohen calculates the divorce rate as a ratio of divorces to the total number of married women. So, the divorce rate’s decline isn’t a reflection of a decline in marriages. Rather, it’s evidence that marriages today have a greater chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 12:38 AM
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Well I’m a woman and the nasty messages I have gotten have been from men, mostly incels. A lot other female posters on here have talked about getting incredibly hostile and nasty dms. I believe smurfefergson talked about getting a message from someone making fun of her fathers death and Narniafox got messages wishing death on her pet cat. That’s kinda what I was saying when I said there seems to be trend of people getting hostile/insulting dms on here because a lot posters have shared screenshot…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:57 PM
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Can you give an example of what curious comments you’ve posted that have caused people to blow up your dms insulting you ( I hope you reported them)? Everyone seems to get hostile dms/messages on here, I have written completely innocuous comments before and have gotten nasty dms still.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:47 PM
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I personally hold the view that there's only a few valid reasons to leave a marriage. Infidelity, infertility, and things that involve the police. So no matter the whole story if it didn't involve police, infertility, or infidelity its not valid. Maybe there's something else I'm forgetting but I don't think so. A significant number of marriages end in divorce because of those things you listed At any rate the divorce rate is declining and has been declining for decades and has the rate of single…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:15 PM
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Because women don't pay to go out. They get men to pay for them to go out. If you get a good ratio you'll have a lot of suckers buying drinks for ladies. Sure, it’s also a way to attract female customers because they get less of them, this has already been confirmed by bar and nightclub owners when asked why they do ladies night. While it might not be a thing at the clubs/bars you go to (a lot of bars/clubs have moved away from doing too many ladies night out events/free entry for women because …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:30 PM
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What? Unless they write their names, numbers, address or the specific name of the company they work then they are not doxxing them. Posting a conversation most which happen on anonymous social media sites is not doxxing. And from what I’ve seen even when they post things from sites like Instagram and Facebook they always blur out the names/pictures. It’s pretty telling you are comparing posting an online conversation in which a lot times the men have threatened or insulted the women to taking pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:23 PM
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Well I am just going by what I’ve read online by puas and people familiar with bar and club scene. I can believe it’s not the same in all cities or countries. It’s makes sense though, I mean why do you think so many bars/clubs have things like ladies night out or free entry for women? It’s to attract female customers because they get less of them. I remember when a guy sued Las Vegas nightclubs for gender discrimination for having ladies night out events and the owner defended himself by saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:07 PM
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Most of the examples of I am seeing involve screenshots of conversations not uploading pictures of strangers to doxx them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:04 PM
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Most of these puas lived in cities where women out number men already like DC, Atlanta, NYC etc. Maybe the area you live is unusual but most people familiar with the bar/club scene all say something similar, that people aren’t going out as much as they use to (this includes preCOVID) and bars/clubs tend to be majority men (hence the popularity of term ‘sausagefest’).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:54 PM
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You didn’t explain why both were fucked up at all because you didn’t provide an example of women doing something similar. Op provided an example of an entire subreddit of men taking innocent women’s photos off the internet for the sole purpose to mock them for aging or not being fuckable on the internet to strangers, doxxing those same women in the process. Instead of coming up with a specific example similar to ops, you tried to use a broad vague action while providing no specific example of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:50 PM
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Only for you deflect by and not come up with a similar specific example of women doing something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:39 PM
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She’s talking about something that was exclusively done by men on reddit, you are bringing up a broad action that can be committed by either gender as a way to deflect. Can you just admit what those guys did was shitty? I remember stumbling across their subreddit and seeing them bash an elderly lady on her 60s who had cancer for not being fuckable. I promise you don’t have to play on team men 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:34 PM
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Bars and nightclubs tend to be sausagefest, anyone who is familiar with that scene will tell you the same thing. I remember puas talking complaining about how bars/clubs were dying as hotspot to pick up women because they are filled with so many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:30 PM
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I wasn’t aware that only women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 08:08 PM
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Most men casted on tv/movies are not six foot tall nor have six packs. It’s actually been said that studios prefer shorter actor because they are easier to shoot. You are actually more likely to see overweight men staring as a lead role in a movie then an overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:18 PM
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I thought I was the only who noticed this. In a lot blackpill/incel circles ‘chad’ has basically become synonymous with tall white guy, and there is this weird insistence that women only find white men attractive. You are starting to see that attitude spilling into this subreddit, it’s bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:13 PM
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I am not sure how the point on porn is relevant since most mainstream porn is aimed at heterosexual men and most of the porn consumed by women is lesbian. Male pornstars are actually pretty diverse in their looks ranging from looking like middle aged soccer dads with pot bellies to male models. The only thing they have in common is being above average in dick size but that depends on the genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:59 PM
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Divorces tend to increase during bad economic times because of money issues. There is no need for the insults, the decade long decrease in divorce was before the Recession and COVID, which shows it’s not a recent trend but a decade long trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:58 PM
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White skin? Studies show men with darker skin are rated as more attractive. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/222811389_Who_is_the_fairest_of_them_all_Race_attractiveness_and_skin_color_sexual_dimorphism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:34 PM
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Ideal female body is big boobs, slim waist with round butt which are not easy to obtain. Have you ever taken a look the majority of Instagram models/playboy models before?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:11 AM
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The trend of declining divorce is not recent, but a decade long trend so what you are saying makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:09 AM
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If you believe this then you should have a look at any decent looking women’s dms. There is not a week that goes by that some of my friends don’t get multiple comments or dms from men from countries like India or the Middle East offering to spend money on them, ask them out, etc. Incels and sexually frustrated men probably exist more in highly conservative societies especially Islamic ones where sex selective abortion exists(thus skewing natural make to female birth rates) and polygamy which mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:58 AM
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Even if countries where it’s been legal for years like Germany it’s still not normalized. Partly because of the association with prostitution with trafficking and crime, when I was in Germany a lot of people said the women working at the brothels were mostly poor women from Eastern Europe some who were being trafficked by gangs which is why there was such a strong stigma despite it being perfectly legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:52 AM
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I am not sure what your point is. You claimed that a woman only had to be slim to have a hot body, I pointed out based on Instagram models that’s not true. Big boobs (while still being slim), wider hips, rounder butt etc, are not naturally attainable for most women unless they go under the knife hence the popularity of plastic surgery procedures such as boob jobs, Brazilian butt lifts, hip implants etc. With height most of its genetic but about 20-40% of it is based on nutrients and environment.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:40 AM
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Most Instagram models/sexy models aimed at men I see aren’t just slim but have round to large bubble butts, hourglasss bodies and medium sized to large boobs. No working out is going to make your boobs bigger and hips wider or change your body shape. Even changing your butt size usually requires at least one to two years of hard lifting at the gym and sometimes that won’t work because of genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 03:18 AM
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You still haven’t explained why subreddits like whereallthegoodmen (who’s mode is a pedo) and pussypassdenied should exist but fds should be banned. The mass shooting and terrorist argument is important because an ideology is only dangerous if it has the capacity to radicalize people to commit violence against innocent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:56 AM
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As far as I know, a lot of femcels migrated to and post on FDS and stats have shown this, Ok and? Incels have also migrated to to other subs after there was banned including this one. I guess we should ban purplepilldebate too? Point is FDS members don’t commit violence nor radicalize them into violence which why they aren’t banned or seen as a threat. I use to browse the femcel subreddit and most of the post were centered around coping about being an ugly women or trauma they’ve endured includi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:50 AM
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The only majority female looksmaxxing subreddit that existed was vindicta and now splendida. Femcel subreddit was already banned after the Toronto van attacker was sentenced to jail along with all the other incel related subs. So your point about FDS doesn’t make any sense, until they show capacity to radicalize their members to commit horrific crimes multiple times like mgtow and incels have done then there is no need to ban them. It’s not like subs where men bitch about women like wherealltheg…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 01:40 AM
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Do people still not understand that reddit does not care about social justice or being fair but what will give them bad press? Manosphere subreddits like incels, mgtow etc were only banned because they gave reddit bad press after their members commmitted or attempted to commit terrorist attacks. All incel related subs (including femcel) were only banned after the incel Toronto van attacker was sentenced to jail recently and several other incel related mass shootings took place. Mgtow was only qu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:33 AM
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As far as I know, the only incel-based attacks were by Elliot Roger and Alek Minassian. Those are not the only incel based attacks though, there has been a lot more: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/p4rbvp/comment/h981prt/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/21 11:35 PM
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Except there have been far more then just two cases. Just last month an incel in Ohio was arrested for planning to murder 3,000 women and looking sorority houses in his area to commit the attack. https://www.npr.org/2021/07/22/1019089834/police-foiled-an-ohio-incels-plot-to-kill-women-in-a-mass-shooting-prosecutors-s There was a mass shooting in Germany committed by a self professed incel. https://www.insider.com/hanau-terrorist-manifesto-shows-non-white-hatred-incel-trump-theft-2020-2%3famp The…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/21 11:34 PM
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Well the difference in the rate of alcohol consumption between young women and men are pretty minuscule to begin with according to the source you linked. It’s also easier for women to get drunk then men as well. ER visits and alcohol related deaths (ex: drunk driving) are important because those are typically symptoms of excessive alcohol usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:45 PM
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Studies on young people still show men are more likely to be hospitalized for alcoholism and die from alcohol related incidents, which indicates that men still suffer from severe alcoholism more. Young adults aged 18 to 20 accounted for 65.1 percent of all alcohol-only ED visits made by underage patients, and they accounted for 59.5 percent of drug and alcohol combination visits. The majority of alcohol-only visits (55.9 percent) and drug and alcohol combination visits (62.1 percent) involving u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:36 PM
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Men are still much likely to die from alcoholism and suffer from alcoholism according to latest study and straight women have more stds because they are biologically more vulnerable to std infections. This post here breaks this down. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/itd164/discussionchlamydia_and_gonorrhea_positivity/g5dqjsd/ Finally men are much more likely to have problematic and taboo fetishes then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:43 PM
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Men are still much likely to die from alcoholism and suffer from alcoholism according to latest study and straight women have more stds because they are biologically more vulnerable to std infections. This post here breaks this down. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/itd164/discussionchlamydia_and_gonorrhea_positivity/g5dqjsd/ Finally men are much more likely to have problematic and taboo fetishes then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:42 PM
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She’s also not wearing any makeup, I have feeling you are comparing her to heavily made up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 05:50 PM
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Yummm!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:07 PM
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Most chadfish experiments I’ve seen always use incredibly attractive male models never normal everyday attractive men. Men who look like male models are incredibly rare, maybe only 1-3% of the male population, it’s not surprising that get a lot attention on dating apps as they are considered a hot commodity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 10:02 PM
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Oh my gosh now I feel bad reposting her picture because there are several forums like this or post on here I’ve seen where people post her picture as an example of an average looking women. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:51 PM
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6.5 is above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:39 PM
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I’m not the one who is referring to it as lowering their standards, that’s what the guys in that thread were saying or calling it dumpster diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:15 PM
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This was posted in a thread about Chads dumpster diving or banging average/ugly chicks rather then hot chicks that are on his ‘level’ because they are easier. The user posted this women as an example of an average looking 5/10 he sees Chads banging to get easy sex rather then hot women who are harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:52 PM
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Exactly. I’m starting to think maybe u/lillthofbabylon is on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:37 PM
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Someone in another post posted this picture as an example of a typical 5/10 average looking woman they regularly see ‘Chads’ lowering their standards to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:25 PM
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No it is you who has not understanding the study. You are equating meeting online with meeting on an online dating site. The graph in the study makes it clear most couples who meet online are not meeting on dating apps which constitute the majority of online dating platforms. Here is another poster who broke it down: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpw4m7/comment/gi0qenp/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:24 PM
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The study you cited is already the one I addressed in the post above and focuses on dating/relationships not casual sex which what we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:20 PM
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Ummm yes it is. Alcohol is considered a anaesthetic No it is not, alcohol is considered a depressant. Here is a wiki source that list all the major anaesthetics, alcohol is nowhere to be found: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anesthetic asleep or is mentally or physically incapacitated either through the effect of drugs or alcohol or for any other reason, Umm that pretty much matches up with Oklahoma’s state law rape that I linked. Do you understand what what incapacitated means? It means you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:13 PM
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Dude are you dumb? The link you gave me is the policy and sex education guide at a UNIVERSITY not state law. You claimed legally it is considered rape automatically to have sex with someone who is drunk and can go to jail for it. Also this is true: This includes someone who is passed out. People who are passed out can’t give consent whether they are drunk or not. That seems to be what their policy is centered around. Anyways here is Oklahoma’s actual state law on the issue: https://law.justia.co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:40 PM
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I give zero fucks what you personally believe rape is. The LAW says it’s rape and it does land people in jail. No it doesn’t. Courts recognize you can consent to sex while drunk, it is not automatically treated as rape that is a myth. Does this language in California’s rape law mean that every person who has consumed any alcohol (or used any drug) cannot legally consent to sex? The answer to that question is no. The law states that the victim must have been “prevented from resisting” the sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:10 PM
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US courts recognize you can consume alcohol and consent to sex. Does this language in California’s rape law mean that every person who has consumed any alcohol (or used any drug) cannot legally consent to sex? The answer to that question is no. The law states that the victim must have been “prevented from resisting” the sexual activity or is “unconscious of the nature of the act.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:00 PM
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Nobody is telling you to rape anyone. The fact that you are equating somebody quoting studies which show an established link between alcohol consumption and casual sex with telling you to go rape women is pretty telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:12 PM
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IFS study is based on the GSS research is not comparable to the research in the op. The GSS sample includes participants that were both either partnered or unpartnered. While the op’s study only looks at young people who are unpartnered or not in any type of romantic relationship. Op study also only looks at casual sex or sex outside of a relationship specifically not any type of sex. The study also indicates the difference in sexual frequency between men and women is not that large: In reality,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:59 AM
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So basically, women will only give good men who are 7/10 level a chance or whatever is there level when they are being raped (by the modern definition) Really don’t how you came to that conclusion based on me quoting a bunch of studies showing alcohol consumption greatly increases one’s likelihood of engaging in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:29 AM
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The research I found shows most people are fairly honest/accurate when reporting their sexual history: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/okq7a4/research_shows_people_are_truthful_when_self/ Maybe some people lied but it doesn’t somehow discredit the study which shows a general trend of less young people reporting to have had casual sex. This finding has also been found in other studies giving weight to the researchers findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:50 AM
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Then that makes it even less credible if they are just asking yes/no questions then there are plenty of studies that say both men and women lie about their sexual partners or the amount of sex they are having for multiple reasons. So that's just another reason why we should take it as a grain of salt. Again the study is not asking the participants how many sexual partners they had or how often they had sex. But if they have recently had casual sex. According to researchers a lower percentage of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:22 AM
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That’s very nice :). It was really nice talking to you, I very much enjoyed this conversation. I’m always in the look out for other hapas to talk to so it’s nice to see that PPD has another one here and I am not alone :).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:59 AM
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Most OLD sites are dating apps like tinder or bumble. We have no idea where most people who are meeting online are meeting exactly but the studies graph makes it clear most are not meeting on dating/hookup apps like tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:35 AM
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The article is based on a study which the op forgot to link. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854#
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:16 AM
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No the study specifically shows the rate of alcohol consumption among young women has dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:14 AM
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OLD is by far the most common way heterosexual couples meet. It’s not. Another user broke this down, people are equating meeting online with meeting on dating apps. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpw4m7/comment/gi0qenp/ Most sexual encounters nowadays are made via OLD which is pretty much cut and dry about handsome hunks "seducing" women though having nice photos and being born attractive. It would be interesting to find a study what platform is most casual sexual encounter f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:07 AM
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I know there are multiple studies citing the same thing in one study, said that living at home with your parents was the biggest factor contributing to the problem then it says that decline in drinking was also a major factor in this one, it doesn't make any sense The study I cited to you did not say living at home was the biggest factor but that it was identified as a major factor that correlates with higher rates of sexlessness. The op study basically found the same thing, living at home was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:54 AM
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Am talking about PPD too. A recent demographic study on here showed most men are single: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/omf2q3/july_2021_ppd_demographic_survery_results/ Scroll down to the link that says Male Relationship Status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:27 AM
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According to the recent ppd demographic study most men on here are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:04 AM
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That’s largely how many men on here describe and believe how the casual sex scene operates. Which is that mostly average looking women are opening their legs for the first ‘chad’ that looks their way. Everyone else who doesn’t fit that description is sexless. Why do you think we have so many threads by guys whining about how their hypothetical gf would immediately have sex with them only under the circumstance if they looked like some celebrity hunk and would only make them wait if they were ‘un…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:35 AM
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From the study as well: One of the strongest predictors of the likelihood of engaging in casual sex is alcohol consumption (Armstrong, England, and Fogarty 2012; Johnson 2013; Vander Ven and Beck 2009). The disinhibiting qualities of alcohol are of course well known. And young adults’ alcohol consumption, including binge drinking, has been dropping over the past few decades (NIDA 2018). Because there is some evidence that alcohol consumption increases young women’s more than young men’s odds of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:21 AM
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You are the one who made the affirmative claim that 82% of women have had one night stands, you should back up that claim with some credible research not a survey conducted by an online celebrity magazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:50 AM
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Really? You are a using a survey conducted by SELF and TrèsSugar's popculture website to prove 82% of women have had casual sex? This is not how a proper scientific study works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:02 AM
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Did we watch the same show? The bully Todd is not some ‘strong confident masculine’ guy at all. He’s a typical anti social obnoxious immature dipshit, almost every school had one of these and they were rarely popular with anyone. Same with Rex, he even was humiliated in front of all the superheroes by getting badly beaten by a little girl because he couldn’t stop running his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:25 PM
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That’s sounds very interesting, your post has gotten me more interested in Buddhism. I love how spiritual and connected to nature it seems to be. Reminds me of some pagan religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:17 PM
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I just don’t know what he is talking about when he says women don’t want to be in monogamous relationships which is why men are having trouble. Like what? Monogamous relationships are still the expected cultural norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:49 PM
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Whose fault is it that men are desperate and therefore inflate women's egos? Men’s obviously. No one is putting guns to their heads forcing them to inflate the egos of women. Take some responsibility. We had a solution to this problem, monogamy. Women didn't like it. What are you talking about. Monogamous relationships are still the norm. So to answer your question of you wanted to blame someone blame the women who demanded freedom from the social expectations as monogamy. Again what are you tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:19 PM
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Who’s fault is it that women have more options? Are women putting guns to men’s head forcing them to chase them? Forcing them to make online dating apps a sausage fest? Like take some responsibility please.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:39 PM
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What's wrong with caffeine? I have no idea lol. It’s just one of those weird rules where you can’t drink caffeine as a Mormon. Most don’t follow it though. I think it’s an outdated rule based on the false belief that coffee was too dangerous to drink because of how hot it was. At least that is what I’ve heard. I've watched some videos about money donations that aren't necessary, but if you don't make them, you can't attend into some special church and you can't get into Mormons' heaven or someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:00 PM
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I've been watching some ex-Mormons channels for a bit and it seems that it's a rather restrictive community. It depends on what branch. The The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS) is the largest branch and most varied. Some communities are very chill, others are on the more conservative side. I lived half my life in Utah which is Mormon central and most of my Mormon friends were like anybody else. They dressed in modern clothes, dated, had iPhones etc. They had to follow some weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:50 AM
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Are you Mormon? Not exactly. My grandfather was born and raised Mormon, my grandmother converted to marry him. My grandmother stopped attending the Mormon church after my grandpa died, and my dad identifies as secular despite being raised Mormon. The rest of dads side of family like my aunts, uncle, cousins etc still follow the faith but they aren’t really strong believers though. I had no idea there was a Buddhist community in Russia, that’s really cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:21 AM
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Can you speak Korean? Only a little bit, like basic stuff. I am nowhere near being fluent unfortunately. I was raised by my mother and her side of the family and older generation speaks our native language, but not anyone from younger ones. That’s really cool. Since I was raised in the states and half of my mothers family still lives in Korea I am a lot closer to Mormon/white side then Asian. But I’ve gotten more interested in my asian as I’ve gotten older. I always knew Russia had a fair amount…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 05:50 AM
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I’m Korean American on my mothers side and Anglo American on my dad’s side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:49 AM
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The first women was being an asshole but I fail to see how her comment was misandrist. She just seemed skeptical of your stories. Also what is misandrist about the second comment seems like they are supporting you? If someone yells at you for not wanting sex, your not wanting sex isn’t the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:14 PM
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I don’t know how to link them but I had one saying it’s my fault they reacted that way. Just click on the comment then copy and paste the url link to the comment like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/opdc0l/comment/h65p124/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:57 PM
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Do you mind linking the misandrist comments in your thread? From what I remember most people were pretty polite with their answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:49 PM
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So how can you say the gender hate on here is equal? It’s pretty obvious we have more members and posts that say inflammatory things about women otherwise the purge week wouldn’t be incel central lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:42 PM
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Wait until it’s purge week and let me know if you still think the hate directed any gender is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 06:36 PM
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The most common racial mix in terms of children being born is black/white which indicates it’s the most common interracial couple. http://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/m3d8q6/the_growing_biracialhapa_population_in_the_us/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:45 PM
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Wow you are a hapa too? I thought you were full White Russian. Where is your Asian side from if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:43 PM
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Isn’t your gf a westerner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:12 AM
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Unless the year by year trend changes over a extended period of time (decade or more), it doesn’t show anything of value here. You seemed to have missed or purposely skipped over the second study I posted. Because that’s exactly what it did. It compared the divorce rate to 50 different years and found it has gradually declined. Divorce in America has been falling fast in recent years, and it just hit a record low in 2019. For every 1,000 marriages in the last year, only 14.9 ended in divorce, ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:08 PM
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How it is looking at short term trends when it’s comparing the numbers from years prior? The second article I quoted literally said that the divorce rate was at a 50 year low which implies it compared the rate to fifty different years to reach that conclusion. The first article is comparing divorce filings from one year to another to see if there has been a decline. Neither is looking at anything short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:28 PM
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Fine you don’t like that evidence here is another article talking about how divorce filings have declined. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/onqos5/comment/h5tyz3l/ And the cdc showing divorce ratio has declined: Divorce in America has been falling fast in recent years, and it just hit a record low in 2019. For every 1,000 marriages in the last year, only 14.9 ended in divorce, according to the newly released American Community Survey data from the Census Bureau. This is the low…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:21 PM
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The movie was high grossing, but did it sell more than 50 Shades like you said, especially considering context and adjusting for a movie in the 80s’ sales to a book from last decade? I just looked this up, apparently the film fatal attraction grossed 320 million worldwide in the 1980s which adjusted for inflation today equals over 1 billion dollars today... that’s much more then what any of the fifty shades films grossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 10:51 PM
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Do you understand what statistics are? But in practice, this does not mean more people are living happily ever after. This does not equate more people are unhappy in their marriages, the researchers is just making a generalized statement about being careful about equating more families being intake with happy families. But nowhere is any evidence provided more people are sticking to unhappy marriages. Millennials making their marital vows stick far more often. It’s clear by ‘stick’ he means they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:36 AM
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Op is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:26 AM
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I know this why I changed it I was paraphrasing what the article said did you net read your own source? Nothing in the source said anything about people are sticking together despite being unhappy. And the researcher clearly said the ratio of divorces have declined, so the decline of marriage is not the source of the declining divorce rates. Less people who get married today are getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:15 AM
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I’m starting to think you are playing dumb on purpose. The researcher literally said the marriage decline is not the reason for the divorce decline, as the ratio of divorces have declined overall, yet you keep insisting otherwise. There is also no evidence that people today are more unhappy in their marriages compare to those in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:03 AM
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The marriage rate has also fallen over the last several decades. But Cohen calculates the divorce rate as a ratio of divorces to the total number of married women. So, the divorce rate’s decline isn’t a reflection of a decline in marriages. Rather, it’s evidence that marriages today have a greater chance of lasting than marriages did ten years ago. https://time.com/5434949/divorce-rate-children-marriage-benefits/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 04:30 AM
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Your sources are old. At the beginning of the pandemic there was a spike in divorces since then they have declined and ended up actually being lower overall then the divorce rate preCOVID. Though New York State keeps its divorce records sealed, the Superior Court of California tracks family law data in each of its 58 counties, including Los Angeles, where divorce filings are down 17.3 percent from the previous rolling year, as 12,750 people filed for divorce from March 2, 2020, to Feb. 26, 2021,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 03:00 AM
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Since 1990, there has been a steady increase in the percentage of FTM such that it is now equivalent to MTF. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33644314/ According to anecdotal reports from clinicians and a handful of small studies of transgender youth, trans youth clinics in North America and Europe have seen a shift from a majority of transfeminine patients (assigned male at birth) to a majority of transmasculine patients (assigned female) now. In contrast, studies of adult trans patients thus fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:54 AM
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Among the younger generation there are more FtM trans then MtF trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:14 AM
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Not to mention studies actually show the divorce rate is declining not increasing. Measured that way, approximately 65% of marriages that began in the 1970s and 1980s reached their 15th anniversary, according to data from University of Michigan economist Justin Wolfers provided to the New York Times, making for a divorce rate of about 35% for those generations. Based on that same data, about 70% of marriages from the 1990s reached 15 years, for a divorce rate of about 30%. And through around 201…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:31 AM
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Interesting study.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:46 PM
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The op is a middle aged British guy who is angry because only fat women like him online. Just read his post history, he’s made similar accounts and countless post complaining about the same topic over and over again despite people giving him advice numerous times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:57 PM
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This is funny because I feel the same way about some of the male users here. I’ve even gotten some unhinged messages from some calling me every name in the book because I hurt their feelings by disagreeing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:22 PM
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Isn’t the point of this sub to be a debate sub? Do you think women cannot have a genuine interest debating topics related to gender dynamics without wanting attention from men? No offense most of the men on here don’t sound like prizes which is why I’m skeptical of the idea any women would post on here because they wanted male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:03 AM
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If that were the case then how come most female members don’t post their pictures or flirt with any of the male members here? If they wanted attention from men they would be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:59 AM
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Ah that makes more sense. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:20 AM
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How do you know who most women are hooking up with whether they are American or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:54 PM
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Well statistically they are not much fatter if you mean by weigh more. There are more healthy weight women then there are healthy weight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:15 PM
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The recent cdc study shows obesity is higher in men then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:08 PM
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Most of the older female posters here are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:00 PM
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I personally haven’t heard any but I’ve heard of central Asian women joining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:50 AM
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Well anyone who would join ISIS in the first place probably isn’t right in the head to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:03 AM
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Lol, I just found who posted this, now everything about their post yesterday is starting to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:59 PM
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lol, where is this coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:16 PM
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I think he was. Was your typical blackpill poster but even more bitter then unusual. He would pretty regularly write some very unhinged comments like the one above.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:29 PM
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I genuinely wonder how this poster is doing right now. This was their last comment on this subreddit and they haven’t posted in a while since
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:23 PM
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Unlike child support, which is common when divorcing couple has kids, alimony awards have always been very rare, going from about 25% of cases in the 1960s to about 10% today, said Judith McMullen, a professor of law at Marquette University. In one study of Wisconsin cases, she found it was only 8.6%. https://www.nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/24231-alimony-awards-growing-less-common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:28 PM
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So why bother responding? Btw in most countries including North America custody arrangements is decided by both parents outside of court. Very few child custody cases ever go to court in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:35 PM
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It seems you didn’t read the link at all because that’s not the picture the guy is painting at all nor or European based MRAs. So it appears there is some major disagreement otherwise the volume and nature of these post wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:32 PM
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Most of what everything said on here is an exaggeration by people who have never been through the system. I’ve also read MRAs based in the UK and European countries that paint things as a horror story in their respective countries too. https://www.reddit.com/r/UKPersonalFinance/comments/7ui0lx/the_financial_effects_of_marriage_and_divorce_in/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=post_body
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:20 PM
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I’m not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:07 PM
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It’s based on statistics. Also talk to some divorce lawyers and they will tell you the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:06 PM
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Child support is dealt with outside of divorce too, and women can be compelled to pay it too. Everything else can be dealt with through prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:39 PM
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Alimony is already rarely given out anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:30 PM
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The number of high school students whether they are male or female who are regularly having sex outside a relationship is minuscule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:35 AM
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https://imgur.com/hAeS8ZI Nope. Nice try I’m clearly talking about earlier comment when you said: The men who use online dating who are really attractive don't have this problem. You clearly said it doesn’t affect attractive men at all. But whatever, I am not even sure how we got into this point when it’s irrelevant to the topic at hand. Because correlation does not equal causation. Sure but when sexless men themselves are self reporting living at home at higher rates then their non sexless coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:57 AM
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I think you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:57 AM
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For the 5th time, I never said that it didn't I said that it doesn't affect their dating lives to a degree. What part of that do you not understand? Were talking about attractive men. You didn’t say to a degree, you said it doesn’t affect them at all: The men who use online dating who are really attractive don't have this problem. But whatever, you don’t think it’s to same degree, how does that refute the idea that it appears to be a major factor that contribute sexlessness? Everything is not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:52 AM
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I genuinely do not understand people who make CMV post but get angry and downvote people for attempting to do that. Like what is the point in making a cmv post if you are not interested in having your mind changed and will angrily downvote anyone who doesn’t agree with your point of view?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:17 AM
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So you're telling me I need to provide evidence that attractive people will have a better time dating? Just let me know and I will pull out the stats,s, you probably won't get any while your out. No you need to provide evidence that living at home doesn’t effect the sex lives of attractive men at all. That is what you originally claimed and what this entire conversation is about. I already cited the study by NGSF which showed there was a correlation between living at home and higher rates of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:40 AM
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It depends on who were talking about im talking about average men in my post because average men are mainly sexless people. For above-average men to a degree. Well if you care about average men here is a study showing living at home hurts their sex lives. You constantly saying ‘but Chad!’ Makes it seem like you have other motivations for this topic because everything you have said to me has been pure speculation on your part with no evidence to back it up. No I didnt. You said: To a degree, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:39 PM
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So? You can buy sex without anybody ever knowing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:22 PM
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Also isn’t prostitution perfectly legal in the UK? I thought guys on here said legalizing prostitution would fix the sexlessness problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:56 PM
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I never said it didnt, I said to a degree. Whether or not you believe it’s to the same degree or not, do you agree it is a major factor? We don't need to use data we can easily just use logic, we shouldn't have to argue that attractive people will have more leeway when it comes to sex and relationships than average people. Like you said below this is generally common sense. You didn’t say leeway you’re said it wouldn’t effect them at all. I don't know I don't speak for those people, this is subj…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:47 PM
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You need data to prove that attractive people have a better time dating and getting sex than average people??? No I what data showing living at home doesn’t effect the sex lives of ‘attractive’ men like you are insisting. In order for what you are saying to be true attractive men living at home would be less likely to be sexless then ‘average’ men not living at home. But there is no data to suggest that is true. Anecdotal Not anecdotal, generally common sense. Do you think you are going to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:11 PM
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You need to go to NSFG and fill out a request for their files to get it. The researcher who is analyzing the study is an established social scientists which is why he was able to get it and link several graphs from the study. https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/6-living-with-parents-w640.png
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:52 PM
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To a degree, you forget im talking about AVERAGE men. The men who use online dating who are really attractive don't have this problem. Do you have any data on this? It really doesn’t matter if there are outliers, every statistic will have outliers, but it doesn’t change the broader trend of their being a correlation between still living at home and being sexless. These people are adults. Yes but generally when you are living under someone else’s house you have to abide by their rules and will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:43 PM
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Living with your parents is going to effect your social life. It hard to bring somebody home if mom and dad are right next door and can hear everything. When you add on top of that more young people (including 18 years olds) live at home compared to past years AND that we have study showing direct correlation between living at home and being sexless it appears to be major factor. You wanting to dismiss it doesn’t change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:21 PM
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Living at home past a certain age is not normal for young adults and the percentage young people living at home especially men is higher then it was in the past. Reality is we have a study showing that virginity and sexlessness is higher in men living with their parents vs those who are not. It appears to be a major factor whether you want to admit it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:09 PM
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The study was not conducted by IFS but by NSFG, they are just quoting and analyzing the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:08 PM
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Living with parents- This is a ridiculous reason because I know many guys who live with their parents who still get laid on a consistent basis especially while I was in high school, nothing changed when these guys graduated. For most young adults living at home with your parents is NORMAL. Except a study that specifically looked at the reasons for sexlessness found living at home to be a major factor. You shouldn’t just dismiss data that you don’t agree with. The NSFG also shows that virginity, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:49 PM
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66% of 18-29 men are not sexually active and the trend is rising. Source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:00 AM
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Men make even more then women as they age, read my link above.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:56 PM
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Nope I’m a woman. This is first time I am hearing in my life that I can ask random men for money and they will give it to me. I have never seen that happen nor has it happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:55 PM
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I am young woman, this is all news to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:32 PM
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The data I cited which is government data shows men ages 16-19 earn more, how many people that age are married with children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:24 PM
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The data cited shows ( which is government data) shows men ages 16-19 make more, how many people those ages are married with children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:23 PM
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Why does it need to be normalized? You can use prostitutes without anybody knowing about it. Society will never condone prostitution because trafficking issues associated with it. yeah I don't really have time to pour through studies and decide which one is more valid, regardless I think most would say more young men are sexlessness then ever and it increases every year Then your assertion is wrong because two larger studies contradicted this narrative. Sorry but data has more weight then feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:33 PM
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The data I cited is recent yours is based on a 11 years old study.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:30 PM
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How many young women do those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:29 PM
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You lack basic reading skills as well as I did not in fact compare two studies. Uk pegged incel rate at over 50% while the commonly accepted one had it at 30% if we take that lower number as true then it is probably higher then that who had sex once but still struggle. The commonly accepted number comes from the GSS study which is flawed and results were contradicted by two other studies, that I quoted above. social "scientists", regardless one study doesn't disprove the others and most would ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:12 PM
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They don’t though. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mftks2/comment/gspj7t2/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:07 PM
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Uk study pegged it at over 50%, basic thinking will tell us if 30% are virgins then more then that probably struggle with consistent sex. Basic thinking does not tell us that if you are comparing two different studies with two different populations (us vs uk) with different sample sizes done at different time periods (pre COVID vs during COVID). nice evidence btw "it could be" isn't exactly hard data The social scientists is making that assumption based on hard data he has reviewed from several …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:56 PM
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Half the young male population is not sexless though. Why do you guys keep twisting the stats to push an agenda? However, two other large surveys, the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFfG), and the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES), also ask about sexual behavior. Their results do not confirm the trends seen in the GSS. However, they also have slightly different questions and slightly different survey populations, so they may not be directly comparable.The NSFG, for ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:43 PM
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The ratios would flocculate dramatically if that were the case but they’ve been relatively the same for the last couple of years. Less women seem to use OLD then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:31 AM
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How can most women use it if 80% of users are men? In real life the gender ratio is close to 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:26 AM
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Most people already don’t use tinder and 80% of tinder users are men according to statistics. So what would be the point in banning it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:18 AM
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‘Scrotes’ is honestly such odd thing to get mad about especially when it’s the norm on social media to call women ‘roasties’ ‘holes’ ‘thots’ and other derogatory names. Not to mention we have actually seen men from those movements (incels) attack women offline. Fds is basically the female version of redpill, both were created to maximize their genders dating strategy not be fair minded and equalitarian in their approach. Your standards for dating seem fair enough, but if you really wanted to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:20 AM
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Yeah, my bfs in is incredibly shape with a six pack and random women aren’t certainly always going up to touch him all the time. Maybe you live in a very obese area where fit people are extremely rare perhaps. As for your hate for fds that’s your right, but I’m curious if you keep the same energy regarding redpill, mgtow, or incels and whether or not they have had a toxic influence on men. Fds after all largely started on a black female forum called lipstick alley and was made for their needs in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:59 AM
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Hmmm, you know to be honest after going through your post history which seems to be you ranting about how much you hate Fds users I’m actually doubting anything you are saying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:45 AM
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Lesbian porn is the most popular among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:59 PM
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I’m not denying your experience but I’ve never really seen women lusting solely after a guys body parts before. Meanwhile there are large subreddits on reddit dedicated to only posting woman’s butts, boobs, legs etc. So I think that’s what she means by it being a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:57 PM
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http://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/oicf7q/when_high_value_men_date_women_less_attractive/h4vl52b/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:10 PM
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I listed a bunch of examples to another commenter below.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:39 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being insecure, we all have our insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:51 AM
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Not according to the sources I’ve found.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:52 AM
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Men don’t care about women’s money. Then why do male gold diggers exist? Oh, and she looks like shit. She is above average looking for her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:51 AM
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Marc Kalman is 5’10 according to google, that is not above average for Europeans and white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:48 AM
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Jeff Bezos ex wife looks great for her age and was with her ex before he became rich. Given her wealth she could have had any guy she wanted, but she chose an average looking school teacher to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:40 AM
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Never heard of the other two so lol So because you haven’t heard of them that makes them irrelevant? Josephine Skriver and Martha Hunt are pretty famous Victoria secrets models both who have millions of followers on Instagram, not only are with men who are less attractive then them but who also have a lower net worth so you can’t use the money excuse. Erin Heatheron is another Victoria secret model who used to date the Australian musician Felix Bloxsom who made much less then her. Several famous…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:13 AM
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How is it off topic when it’s relevant to the discussion we are having? I’ve browsed redpill subreddits and forums for a while now, every time they use the term alpha widow they are referring to Rollo Tomassi’s definition, which is defined as a woman still pining or hung up over her ex ‘alpha’ bf. Your definition, which seems to define alpha widow as a woman who is incapable of finding other men attractive if she ever had sex with an attractive man is not how I’ve seen the term alpha widowed act…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:13 AM
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Do you have any sources to support that idea that this concept of ‘alpha widowed’ as you defined it existed before Rollo Tomassi came up with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah well one guys definition isn't really relevant. That one guy is Rollo Tomassi who is literally The Godfather of redpill and is the one who coined the term lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:00 AM
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The definition of alpha widow according to The Godfather himself of redpill: One of these maligned concepts is the phenomenon of the Alpha Widow. I’ve written extensively on this idea for well over a decade now. I’m fairly certain I even coined the term back in my SoSuave days. Back then Alpha Widow was a designation we used to describe a woman’s tendency to become fixated on an Alpha lover she had in her Party Years and still pined for him into her 30s or 40s after marriage. We didn’t just pull…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:55 AM
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Studies actually show men are more likely to be hung up over an ex or past fling then women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:36 AM
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It pisses men off because it never happens in reverse. You never see supermodels dating average looking men who aren’t billionaires. Except it does. Ex: Emily Ratajkowski and her husband, Christina Hendricks and her ex husband, Ariana Cooper and her husband, Beyoncé and Jay z(she starting dating him before he became rich) Lily Aldridge and her husband, Josephine Skriver and her bf, Martha Hunt and her fiancé etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:22 AM
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I think we need to make a distinction here between casual sex that is intentional and done with a clear mind and casual sex that happens spontaneously at a party That’s my point, most casual sex is not done with a clear mind, every study on this topic has shown most people male or female were under the influence when they engaged in casual sex. People having casual sex completely sober is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:27 AM
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A lot of people get drunk when they're on Tinder dates due to the lack of natural chemistry and inhibitions inherent to hooking up with a random stranger. The man in the situation is often consuming more alcohol because he needs to put on his "beer goggles". Source? Again studies show very few people are actually hooking up on dating apps. But, the same dynamic applies at bars, clubs, and parties where the gender ratio is very much male skewed. Not college parties which are the epicenter of hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:53 AM
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If a man who some people think is lower than them gets an attractive partner, astronomical levels of butthurt. I really haven’t noticed this tbh unless there is a large age gap between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:27 AM
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I thought the debate was not about your partner finding someone else attractive but previously being with someone you perceive as more attractive then you. Which to me, yes it’s pretty immature to get upset over this unless they give you a reason that they might cheat. Them previously being with someone you view as more attractive then you is no reason alone to think they will leave/cheat on you unless you think looks are the only quality that makes a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:16 AM
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It’s unattractive because it strikes people as an immature thing to worry about, I don’t think gender matters much in this regard. Anyone with dating experience knows attractiveness is not the primary thing that makes a relationship great.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:05 AM
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Ok so you are making a broad generalization based a non scientific poll? Another thing I find weird is you seem to be ignoring the link between alcohol/drug consumption and the likelihood of having casual sex and seem to think tinder is the only place where people go to hookup when studies show that actually isn’t the case. Alcohol consumption has long been identified as a predictor of casual sexual behaviors in young adults (Stappenbeck et al., 2013;Ven & Beck, 2009). Intoxicated individuals re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:02 AM
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People only clowned them after he was caught cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:46 PM
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This whole discussion about not being the the hottest person your spouse has been with is fascinating to me because before coming to this subreddit I didn’t realize this was something a lot men were insecure about. In real life I’ve noticed only low self esteemed teenage girls obsessing over stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:39 PM
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Since around 82% of unattached single women have had casual sex, you can pretty safely assume that most women have had the experience of hooking up with a guy out of her league who would never commit to her or didn't want to deal with the reputation of dating a "slut". Where did you get this statistic from u/PerceptionTasty1495?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:27 PM
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I actually haven’t noticed people hating on the opposite, unless there is a large age gap between the two to the point where they look more like father and daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:37 PM
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I’ve noticed that to be true in real life but not online, especially in redpill spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:37 PM
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Kpop effect. Although, I think babyfaced men like a young Leonardo DiCaprio have always been popular with teen girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:21 PM
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I’ll try to find the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:31 PM
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Ok so why is the statistic the same for women in this cohort? Is it because they are less dateable too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:30 PM
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The research I am taking about shows many men do, especially of the criminal variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:29 PM
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The author in your op seems to measuring dating options by through sex/virginity statistics and is making a lot assumptions to fit his hypothesis: I will have to use virginity statistics as a proxy for the harder-to-measure romancelessness statistics, but these are bad enough. In high school each extra IQ point above average increases chances of male virginity by about 3%. 35% of MIT grad students have never had sex, compared to only 20% of average nineteen year old men. Compared with virgins, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:25 PM
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Criminal men are more likely to have paid for sex and committed sexual assault/rape which plays a role in why they may have higher number of sexual partners. I remember when someone in other post linked me a study about gang members having more sexual partners then non gang members as proof women love bad/sociopathic men. The same studies researchers said they had no idea how much of the sex the gang members were having was a result of rape or prostitution, and cited another study showing a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:01 PM
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I think there is a strong correlation, one study which looked specifically at sexlessness found a strong correlation between living at home and not being sexually active: The NSFG also shows that virginity, both voluntary and involuntary, is higher among men living with their parents, as shown in the figure below. About 8% of never-married young men living with their parents are involuntarily sexless, and another 7% are voluntarily so. Among men not living with their parents, it’s just 4% involu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:42 PM
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Why bother u/Canyadiigit making this post if you are not even going to respond?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:27 PM
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Date women from communities where the average male height is similar to mine like Hispanics or certain Asian communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:05 PM
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This gender difference has not changed. In fact, a 2014 Pew Research survey reported that 78 percent of unmarried women placed a high premium on finding a spouse with a steady job. His hypothesis is women aren’t marrying because less men are making more money then them not that less men have steady jobs. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:11 PM
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The study you linked is one man’s hypothesis based on his interpretation of the data and definition of marriageable. Nothing more. There was no survey with women explicitly saying they aren’t marrying because they can’t find marriageable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 02:09 PM
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Who says? Young women are now outearning young men No they are not. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mftks2/comment/gspj7t2/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:46 PM
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Take it up with the man who wrote the ‘study’ he’s the one making those claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:45 AM
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What are you talking about? I just posted a study which followed married couples and found that for married women their partners attractiveness played no role in how likely they were to rate their marriage as happy, (opposite for men) like did you even bother to read the study? It has nothing to do with about choosing a spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:31 AM
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There is literally multiple studies showing a woman’s happiness with her relationship is not related to how attractive her spouse is, other factors more. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mi2epb/study_having_an_attractive_partner_makes_no/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:11 AM
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Umm nowhere in any of the links you posted did it prove women aren’t marrying because of lack of marriageable men, that’s just one theory put forth by one social scientists (who is a male btw) based on his interpretation of the data and definition of marriageable. Very weak proof, and citing the same study over and over just with different links doesn’t help your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 05:04 AM
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The lesbian statistic you are talking about literally says over a third of lesbians list male perpetrators.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:43 AM
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One thing I’ve learned from him was until very recently men in his country could be jailed for failing to pay their wives families the dowry or mahr/mehrieh they promised, and there are still certain circumstances where the man could be jailed for not paying. Iran is still incredibly patriarchal especially in regards to divorce laws which are based on sharia law but this is one arena where I think and was surprised to learn that men are treated unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:43 PM
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Persian.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:09 PM
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I have to say dating a man who comes from an actual extremely traditional society/culture(middle eastern) has been an illuminating experience. There is a lot misconceptions that Westerners, (tradcons included ironically) have about these societies, especially regarding the gender dynamic and the responsibilities put on each gender. And honestly based on what I’ve observed and what my bf has told me I don’t believe the gender dynamic in those societies is anymore healthier that what we have in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:05 PM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:45 PM
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Do you mind posting a picture of a guy you think is ‘hot,’ I’m curious to see if we have similar taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:14 PM
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Dude wtf are you talking about, I said his interpretation of what feminist think is rape is not what’s legally defined as rape, which you proved my point for me. Remember he said that she couldn’t ‘legally’ consent not that feminist think she can’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:35 AM
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That’s is not how rape is defined legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:19 AM
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The US law defines anyone who has sex with someone who is incapacitated whether it’s from drugs or alcohol as rape. This is what Roosh confessed to doing. Nowhere did I say simply being intoxicated means you can’t consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:49 AM
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Yes and legally under Iceland and US law it is considered rape to have sex with someone who is incapacitated whether it’s from alcohol and drugs. Also the women in question actually spoke out and said what happened to her was rape. https://wehuntedthemammoth.com/2016/02/14/an-icelandic-woman-has-come-forward-to-accuse-roosh-v-of-rape-blogger-reports/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:46 AM
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Sex with somebody who is passed out is rape in my understanding. If you show me where he said she was passed out I will retract everything I said and agree he is a rapist. ‘My understanding’ I mean it should be common sense that having sex with someone passed out is rape, so it’s really weird you originally defined rape to only occur with threats or physical violence. And US legal system does not define any sexual intercourse that happens under the influence of alcohol as rape otherwise a heck o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:40 AM
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You can be drunk and still consent to sex. He said she couldn’t consent which implies she was either unconscious or close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:28 AM
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If you feel they can’t give you their consent, which Roosh said in his own words, you probably shouldn’t have sex with them or be surprised when someone thinks you are rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:25 AM
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This is for the women I've seen on here speaking in favour of 'rape by deception' laws. As I understand it, this is the notion that if a man lies about himself in order to make a woman have sex with him, that this should be legally classed as rape. That is not how rape by deception laws actually work. Most rape by deception laws involve someone impersonating another person usually the victims spouse to get their consent, not lying about how much money they make. There was one example in Massachu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:08 AM
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Yes. You are still able to get drunk and consent to sex. However, if somebody is so drunk that they are physically incapable in your view of consenting to sex (which is usually a sign that they are unconscious or not in their right mind) then that’s rape. Roosh is one who said in his owns words that she couldn’t give consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:59 AM
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If you didn’t consent to those sexual encounters then I would encourage you to file police reports. Otherwise I am confused as to why you are defending a man who in his own words had sex with a woman who he says couldn’t consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:55 AM
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Nope, it later came out what he did was rape in Iceland too, and that authorities in Iceland were thinking about opening investigation into him. Having sex with someone who doesn’t consent is rape, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:48 AM
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He said on his own words that not only she was drunk but couldn’t consent. Those are his own words. Having sex with someone who can’t consent is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:44 AM
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He said she couldn’t consent, that’s rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:43 AM
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We are talking about tradcons here, if you want to debate another topic, create your own post. But I am asking for examples of tradcons excusing or forgiving a female version of roosh v.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:43 AM
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You don’t think having sex with someone who is physically incapable of not giving consent is not rape? So would having sex with a passed out person not be rape in your mind as long it wasn’t obtained by threats or physical violence? She wasn’t just drunk , she was incapable of giving her consent according to him, those are his own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:39 AM
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Am I wrong? Do you have examples of tradcons embracing and excusing a woman after she wrote she raped someone like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:36 AM
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It later came out what he did in Iceland was in fact rape, as having sex with someone who can’t consent is rape drunk or not. So he is a confessed rapist. It’s pretty disturbing anyone would defend someone having sex with another person who in their own words says they can’t legally consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:16 AM
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A drunk girl that couldn’t in his own words legally consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:07 AM
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Roosh never raped anybody in his books, False, he confessed to raping a woman in one of his bang guides. https://mobile.twitter.com/EyesOnTheRight/status/930241060609101825
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:01 AM
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I haven't read any of his books. but I'm writing off your claim that he admitted to rape as typical female hysterical exaggeration. He explicitly confessed to raping a woman in his books. These are his own words word for word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:00 AM
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Why south Asian women specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:09 AM
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Poor men statistically are more likely to have fathered a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:14 PM
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Thank you for being the only person in this thread to actually provide an example of what I was asking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:35 PM
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Read my post again, I asked for any media which can be a video, article etc, of a confirmed chad talking about his dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:17 PM
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Honestly unless you provide pictures proving you are truly a ‘chad’ I can’t really take anything you say seriously, so this conversation is pretty useless tbh. I don’t want anyone to post pictures of themselves if they don’t want to, which is why I asked for any media of a chad voluntarily talking about his dating experience whether it’s a video, article, forum post etc, with proof he actually is a chad. If you can find an example of that, then I think we could get somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:16 PM
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I’m a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:12 PM
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Yes I Iive in the US and I could probably show you dozens upon dozens of couples I know where the women is objectively more attractive but that would be rude and creepy to post without their permission. But here is a thread someone posted if normie couples I see often ( I live in a big city at the moment.) https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kns468/lifefuel_betas_in_relationships/ https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/knz0n2/lifefuel_part_2_betas_in_relationships/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:49 PM
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Deshaun Watson
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:22 PM
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Sure, but it’s pretty easy to find media with attractive women/stacies talking about their dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:36 PM
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Ok so you got no proof just say that next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:34 PM
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I would prefer to hear for a guy who is actually a chad since those tinder chadfish experiments can be faked and ones I’ve seen I wasn’t blown away by the results. The pro athlete gets away with everything with women. Isn’t a pro athlete currently getting sued by over a dozen women for sexual harassment? Obvious it doesn’t shield you from everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:29 PM
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Your the one who made the claim so you should offer the proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:09 PM
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Have they? Yes a popular pua who would post these widely popular videos of him sexing hot women on camera was exposed by bbc for being a fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:09 PM
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You need to explain to me how that is me saying they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:31 PM
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Frankly, I don't give a care if you believe me or not. Any proof I could provide wouldn't be believed anyway. Not true, I just want proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:16 PM
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Go watch The Minorities on YouTube. Then come back. You realize a lot of these pua you tubers have been caught paying women to be in their videos, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:13 PM
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You can link the threads with the pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:09 PM
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Again you have no proof of actually being friends with this guy you describe nor proof he is an actual chad not figment of your imagination so therefor I can’t trust anything you say because for all know you could be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:00 PM
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Pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:58 PM
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Hence I asked for any source media not just reddit of an actual confirmed chad talking about what his sex and dating life is actually like. Not larpers making it up what they think it’s like based on what other likely larpers say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:20 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:14 PM
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Proof they are actually a chad which can include pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:05 PM
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Where I did I say I don’t believe chads exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:05 PM
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He doesn’t need to declare himself one if it’s obvious by looking at him that he is one. That’s what I am asking for, any source of media of a confirmed ‘chad’ talking about his dating life. Not just someone claiming to be one or friends with one but doesn’t show any proof like a picture of themselves confirming they are telling the truth and not larping.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:50 PM
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I’m not just talking about reddit, but any source of media about a legit actual chad talking about his dating experience. Plenty of guys on here already claim to be chads or friends with one but never offer proof, so for all we know could be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:46 PM
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I mean this is what I am talking about, you are claiming to be friends with chads but we have no idea if you are telling the truth or not, for all we know you could making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:45 PM
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A guy telling women despite having no first hand experience what dating is like for me, yet claims women have no self awareness. Irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:28 PM
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Maybe so, but I would thought being a size four, young in her early 20s, and being considered decently attractive by many would make me above average at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:27 PM
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I don’t pay for tinder plus nor use tinder anymore so I don’t know how many likes I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:05 PM
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Yes apparently he knows better than I, an actual decent looking young women what the average women dating life is like despite having no first hand experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:04 PM
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The average women doesn’t have access to men making more 100k a year, jfc, you guys are so out of touch with women. I am normal young attractive women in her early 20s with a social media presence and even I wasn’t getting 50 messages a day from men. Maybe 1 per week usually by some weird guy in India or a bot account. Poor people have more children then anyone so it’s not as though money automatically means you can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:45 AM
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Aren’t Hispanics the fastest growing ethnicity in America/highest fertility rates, and have the shortest height on average? That can’t be happening if women aren’t banging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:42 AM
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I see far more unattractive men with attractive women then the other way around, I guess that proves the dating market sucks for women by your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 12:39 AM
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I’ve see many many unattractive men with attractive women so what’s your point? It never a occurred to me to angry at those couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:26 PM
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Crime rate has nothing to do with having a warm culture or not. The warmest cultures on earth are in Latin America where crime is the highest in the world. Maybe they were open to you in Taiwan because you were a western man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:41 PM
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You literally live in the UK, and spend your days on the internet ranting about how only obese women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:24 AM
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Awesome you were able to cherry-pick, something anyone can do. Now why not drop a video like this showing tons of handsome men with ugly/overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 07:23 AM
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Almost nobody lets someone beat the shit out of them and nothing you said still changes the fact that plain/ugly women are more desired then their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 12:33 AM
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What does it matter if it’s a few if they still greatly outnumber ‘women getting beaten just to fuck a guy’ demographic? Onlyfans has 50 million subscribers alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:46 PM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/24/style/divorce-rates-dropping.amp.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:44 PM
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Divorces are statistically down actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:57 PM
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There far, far more men paying for a plain or ugly women’s nudes then women getting beaten half to death just to fuck some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:55 PM
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Kevin Samuels, a popular redpill dating advice guru has excused men especially hvm from cheating by saying they are exercising options she is just repeating what he says by switching the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:02 AM
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The realistic, non ideological answer is that a woman at 30 is probably looking for a totally different guy for that relationship than she would be at 20. People change. Maybe change in terms of expectations. Nobody at 20 expects you to have your own place or even a steady job yet. At 30 you are expected to be a self sufficient adult. I however doubt women are drastically changing the personality type they find attractive in men at age 20 versus 30. We tend to find people most like us the most a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 07:54 AM
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Oh I was talking about sex and relationships. Yes guys have fun hanging out with freinds and parties. How are men not having fun when they are young with sex and dating? Yes that is settling technically, if your not marrying someone you would date in your twenties then yea. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:59 AM
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It depends. If none of her friends are getting married, then she won't feel the pressure. The pressure gets very real when enough of her friends do get married and have kids. The anxiety and envy of being behind can be maddening for women. That makes sense. So by ‘settle down’ do you mean get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:57 AM
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You're comparing men with just having health issues at 45 vs. women who start to have a combination of fertility and health decline starting from 30 and being much worse at 45. These are not the same odds, and for women in particular you're just pointing out that the odds get more extreme later, but why wouldn't people still want to make use of the best chances they can get? It’s not just men having health issues, the quality of their sperm declines with age which increases the likelihood of hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:49 AM
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What do you mean guys don’t have fun? Do guys not go out to bars to party? Do guys not travel when they are young? Do guys hang out with their friends? I fail see how only women are ‘privileged’ to have fun when they are young. Yea settle down as in get with a guy who has a good job . The beta thing , you know. So ‘settle down’ refers to marrying a guy with a good job?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:31 AM
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Around 30 women realize their biological clock is ticking Does biological clock here refer to wanting children? her friends are married and having families. The last one is the most motivating or demoralizing. Wants interesting is some posters on here make it seem as though most women aren’t looking to ‘settle down’ (which I presume you mean marry) until 30, so wouldn’t most of her friends be unmarried too in your scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:27 AM
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Interestingly there was also study showing that advanced parental age increases the the risk of Down syndrome: Dr. Fisch and his colleagues found that the rate of Down syndrome steadily increased with advancing paternal age for the maternal age group of 35 to 39 years. The greatest increase, however, was seen in the maternal age group of 40 years and older with increasing paternal age. The rate of Down syndrome for both maternal and paternal age greater than 40 years is approximately 60 per 10,0…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:21 AM
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Because they want the most fun they can get, which is in their 20’s. Isn’t this what everyone wants when they are young? To have fun? Women are forced to settled down in their 30’s because they want kids or the looks start to fade, so they HAVE to settle. What do you mean by ‘settle down’? Get into a serious long term relationship? Because most women have had at least one of those before age 30. Only dating with sole intention of getting married? I think most don’t develop that mindset until lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:09 AM
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Then what is it about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:59 AM
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It's this, specifically directed at women that plan on having kids, because waiting longer is disadvantageous for women biologically, What’s interesting is a woman’s chances of having children doesn’t really drop off until she hits age 45 according to many studies: Studies of natural conception are surprisingly difficult to conduct. Three modern, reliably conducted female fertility studies included only about 400 women 35 or older who might not be representative of all women trying to conceive. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:58 AM
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So the ‘settle down’ refers to wanting children?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:53 AM
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People who think women constantly rebound tend to look at it from the "women have more options/easier time getting sex" pov. That’s exactly what is it, but as the study shows that notion isn’t always correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:56 PM
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I have to wonder if a woman in real life told man to give her money because she is a queen or using fds lingo would you guys be saying she wasn’t influenced by fds like you are for these men using redpill talk points or lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:14 PM
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I’m a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 05:09 PM
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Which part of TRP tells you to do that? The part that’s obsessed with defining who is an alpha male vs beta male. Which one? Half the post on trp are complaining about modern women being bossy, masculine, and not feminine enough. His spiel is an obvious TRP/manosphere talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:59 PM
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It "blows in their faces"? Correction, I wrote ‘it blows up in their faces’ which is why they are getting dragged all over social media. Not really good PR for the redpill world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:56 PM
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The second one...it's funny that if women say "I'm looking for someone less pushy sorry" it's all slay kween but a guy says it and he's "dateless" 🤣 (shriveledeggs over there seems to think her supereligible friend was the only girl left on the planet) and gone viral. I think when women say they like assertive men it doesn’t include ‘go into a huge spiel calling me names because I suggested a different place to meet up’ in the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:50 PM
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This has nothing to do with TRP, tho. Who other than TRP members unironically calls themselves alpha males in real life? This has nothing to do with TRP, either, it's just a woman womaning her woman moment by publishing something private, which is meh. And him having a difficult time going to a different coffee shop has nothing to do with TRP. Yes he’s just using trp talking points about women that we all know. What were/are the women from the stories like, btw? Seem like nice ladies to me that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:47 PM
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Why do you think trade jobs(there are just as many people in trade school as college if not more) are inferior to jobs that require college education? Sounds like that’s your personal value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:09 PM
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My link is literally based on government data, you can go look it up yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:07 PM
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The study I linked looks at hourly median wages, did you not read it? Here is a screenshot: https://imgur.com/a/oM2383C
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:54 PM
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I’m pretty sure my data I linked from 2020 is the most recent and your article says: Millennial women earn less than men - yet these young ladies are the ones driving the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 05:51 PM
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Again your article is based on data from 2010. Do you really think we've been seeing less women's empowerment financially the past 10 years? Idk something seems wrong somewhere. 2010 was around the time we had a recession, and the data is based on a lot caveats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:59 PM
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Again men still earn more if you look solely at hourly wages. https://www.statista.com/statistics/185362/median-hourly-earnings-of-female-wage-and-salary-workers-by-age/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/185366/median-hourly-earnings-of-male-wage-and-salary-workers-by-age/ I already went over the study you quoted in my link, it is a 11 years old with a lot caveats while all the data I linked is recent and from 2020. http://www.cnbc.com/amp/2020/07/18/heres-how-much-men-and-women-earn-at-every-…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:41 PM
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99% of Muslims either but that doesn’t stop social media from banning radical Islamic content.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:20 PM
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The article is based on data from 2010 I already went over it in my link, plus it says: But if any one of those factors changes—for instance, married women, or women who don’t live in a city—they end up earning less money than men. James Chung of Research Advisers, who spent more than a year analyzing Census data, said education is the reason for salary increases for women. Those with college degrees tend to earn more than those without, and more degrees are awarded to women than men. Even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:17 PM
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Men still make more if you solely look at hourly wages, that includes young men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:12 PM
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No only fds women commit ‘mass abortion’ you said it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:19 AM
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Aw but I thought you cared so much about ‘mass abortion’ so I thought you would be further outraged about the countries with the most abortions in the world, that have an estimated 10-20x more abortions yearly then the US. I guess not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:13 AM
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Here is the link, it’s behind paywall which is why I took a screenshot. https://www.statista.com/statistics/185362/median-hourly-earnings-of-female-wage-and-salary-workers-by-age/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/185366/median-hourly-earnings-of-male-wage-and-salary-workers-by-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:11 AM
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I never said anything about unequal opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:09 AM
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Mass abortions? Try India and China, there are 9 million and 15 million abortions alone respectively in both countries. The patriarchy loves abortions when it’s useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:08 AM
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So you still got nothing? Btw alimony is rarely handed out anymore. If what you are saying is true, you should pretty easily be able to link a case where a man was forced to pay alimony to his ex wife despite her making more. It should be easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:06 AM
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So you got no evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:26 PM
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Source? Every recent data I have found says men earn more in the 18-25 category and definitely earn more in the their 30s. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mftks2/comment/gspj7t2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:56 PM
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Men make more hourly on average as well. https://imgur.com/a/oM2383C
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:55 PM
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Probably because gen z men still earn more then their female counterparts on average. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mftks2/comment/gspj7t2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:54 PM
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No they don’t. I’ve been over the statistics before. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/mftks2/comment/gspj7t2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:53 PM
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Probably cuz they haven’t committed any mass shootings yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:55 PM
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No offense I can’t tell you how tired I am of people posting links to a bunch studies without ever quoting a summary of the study or data, because they think it makes their argument stronger. For example one the studies you linked: Women are more attracted to men who are already in relationships than single men - Says no such thing in the study. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S019188691500505X It just talks about how woman self perceived attractiveness compared to her part…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:39 PM
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It seems like you are changing the goal post, the initial comment said nothing about physical attractiveness, but if guys ever change what they find attractive, personality is included in the attractiveness equation. Also most of the [delete] are of usernames, you can still clearly see their comments. Here is a comment though that explicitly mentions changing his physical requirements as he got older. Me at 14: “I only like skinny punk girls with big boobs and good taste in music.” Me at 24: “Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:48 PM
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There are tons of evo psych studies that attempt to study human behavior through empirical methods that don’t moralize over the issues they study. I’m not sure why asking trp who make broad sweeping claims about half of humanity to provide some empirical support to their claims without the emotional bias clouding their judgement is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:10 PM
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Oh haha you wrote this same comment in the last thread, but here is my response again. It really is a zero sum game most of the time. That's how women have ALWAYS seen it, and so men are now doing the same thing. Proof? No women I know views sex and dating with men as some zero sum game. Nobody with a healthy mindset does. What's going on here in particular is that women just don't like that sometimes, they "lose". What's going on here is that men are now onto women's game, and that you can't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 04:07 PM
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Ok, so what is a good source of redpill information on the sexual strategies of men and women that doesn’t try to moralize over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:47 PM
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https://amp.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1mzbq1/does_a_mans_taste_in_women_change_as_he_ages/ https://amp.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/zahxv/30_men_how_has_your_taste_in_women_changedrefined/ https://amp.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/a0xoqx/how_do_you_think_your_taste_in_women_has_changed/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:45 PM
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It really is a zero sum game most of the time. That's how women have ALWAYS seen it, and so men are now doing the same thing. Proof? No women I know views sex and dating with men as some zero sum game. Nobody with a healthy mindset does. What's going on here in particular is that women just don't like that sometimes, they "lose". What's going on here is that men are now onto women's game, and that you can't lie about it anymore, and that we know goddamn well exactly what you're doing. Or they fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:23 PM
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If you threaten someone with the choice to either get beat up or have sex with them that would be considered sexually coercive behavior at the minimum. Like wtf do you guys not hear yourself right now. You basically just said that it's rape if your partner says they will only be in a relationship with you if sex is involved, and you choose to go through with it. I fail to see what I said is analogous, as one example involves threat of violence the other doesn't. Using violence to get sexual favo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:03 PM
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You said Which I answered... Then you gave a list of sitcoms from the 70s and 80s. I assumed that was in response to my question. Basically you're admitting that your post is disingenuous at best and downright deceitful. Nice to know. It sounds like you are taking this whole thing kinda of personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:59 AM
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Oh so you grew up in the 80s, I think we have a different generation divide here because most shows I watch depict hookup culture. I still think it’s weird to look at big budget family friendly films to teach you about hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:38 AM
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So you do you not watch any media aimed at adults or mature audiences? Like why are you looking to movies aimed at kids to teach you some women sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:21 AM
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Muscular men are not common so we can assume most men who are classified as obese and overweight in accordance to BMI scale are in fact overweight and obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:20 AM
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Honestly I’m so confused. What media are you watching that doesn’t depict hookup culture? The hallmark channel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 11:22 PM
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Men in the 18-39 group have a higher obesity rate according to the graph. And there are more normal weight BMI women vs men. Currently, 72 percent of men and 63 percent of women are overweight or obese (people who are overweight have a BMI of 25 to 29, people who are obese have a BMI of 30 or greater). In 2020, 77 percent of men and 53 percent of women will have dysglycemia (either diabetes or pre-diabetes).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:56 PM
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The recent data shows men have a higher obesity rate btw. Your data is from 2015. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db360.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:05 PM
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So basically you learned everything about dating and women from sitcoms from the 70s and 80s?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 07:42 PM
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I’m not sure what is the point of you cherrypicking stories to prove a point but I can also do the same thing. https://www.mysanantonio.com/news/local/amp/North-Texas-teacher-gets-probation-in-sexual-6424161.php https://tulsaworld.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/former-central-teacher-gets-probation-in-rape-case-involving-student/article_58ffeeac-a586-585d-a4c0-b82425378694.amp.html https://newsmaven.io/pinacnews/eye-on-government/no-jail-time-for-hawaii-cop-who-repeatedly-raped-5-year-old-tl7xW…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 07:07 PM
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Leave it to Beaver Isn’t that a sitcom from the 1950s? I can’t think of any prime-time shows where a woman was dealing with the consequences of her bad decisions. I’m guessing you don’t watch a lot shows with female main characters then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:51 PM
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“Women are faithful.” Can you give examples of popular media pushing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:32 PM
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Still doesn’t explain anything that relates to my post, the misconceptions men have about dating, sex and women in general. Like how are cartoon villains from villains needed to teach you that women like sex and some sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:31 PM
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Can you give examples in the media specifically I must not be seeing them as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:28 PM
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Yes I watch romcons but most of the ones I watched have women as main characters. Even the ones I’ve watched with males none have been ugly by real life standards, maybe by Hollywood standards but not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:26 PM
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Yes every women only settles down after she is 30+ and with a kid. It’s science everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:22 PM
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Threatening someone with the choice of either violence or to have sex with them would be classified as rape in most jurisdictions. The researchers of the study even said themselves that some of the reported sexual activity by gang members was a result a rape( they linked a previous study showing this to be the case) and prostitution.... The study also said female members of gangs were extremely rare and the few who existed were being passed around in a similar manner to this. you know the only o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:14 PM
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My family is very conservative, and I studied in religious schools. We used to read parts of the Holy Book or predicaments from the Catholic Church. Also, I live in Peru, a South American country which is extremely catholic and conservative compared even to another latin american countries. Ah ok, now some of your beliefs are starting to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:22 AM
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Yes a bunch. But the romcons I watch usually have female leads not male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:12 AM
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The tv trope page you linked also shows tropes were the genders are reversed on some of the stuff you are talking about. One related thing that particularly annoys me is how common it is in romcoms to have the man apologizing to the woman. Have you ever watched any romcons with main female characters? Because they definitely are put in situations where they have to apologize for their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 07:53 AM
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Women get lighter sentences than men for the same crimes. It's already well documented. That of may have been true in the past but that nots true anymore. https://i.imgur.com/IDYBmox.jpg It's technically a PDF you should see. Here the relevant part: I was able to download the study but I was not able to find the paragraph you are quoting, the only thing I could find was a list of tables with studies. https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/psychology/premarital-sex Most of the studies are old and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 07:35 AM
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Thank you for your answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:10 AM
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Honestly that’s what I figured. Based on what you were saying it doesn’t sound like you had a normal childhood which probably has more to do with the misconceptions then anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:29 AM
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I just looked the couple and I wouldn’t call the actor ugly at all, he’s kinda of cute actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:19 AM
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You can just describe their relationship. Like how is it an example of the trope you are talking about? Was Corey just some ugly nerdy nice guy and yet despite that Topenga pussy fell into his lap?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:14 AM
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It’s a popular trope in media aimed at girls. That plot is basically half the books I read in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:12 AM
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I thought women are waiting for the marriage, so they're only dating good men who are nice as persons, but not true. I’m especially interested in this. Where did you get the notion that women only have sex until they are married (I presume you are talking about sex here)? I ask because waiting till marriage has not been the norm in Western countries for decades now. I would be curious to know how you learned about the other misconceptions you use to have about women too. Media? If so can name th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:07 AM
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There are tons of shows and movies that have a love triangle. The ones I’ve seen is always one girl and two guys. The nice guy and the “bad boy” I’ve seen the reverse, although usually it will involve the nice girl main character trying to convince her crush to leave his hot but mean gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:02 AM
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Not familiar with the show but how is that a good example?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:00 AM
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Men are attracted to "nice" women, but women are not attracted to "nice" men Really because one of the studies you just cited to me says the women bullying increased their dating opportunities more then it did for male bullies. The only significant sex differences among the victimization and bullying correlations were that in Study 1, the association between bullying and dating interests was stronger for girls (rs = .28) than for boys (rs = .03; z = 2.59, p < .05), and in Study 2, the associatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:54 AM
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We all grow up thinking if we just make ourselves the right man, and find the right girl, and not cheat on her, (since men cheating seems to be the problem in all movies and tv shows), she’ll stay. Yeah except.... She won’t. Can you give examples of media that made you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:52 AM
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women-are-wonderful effect I just looked that up and found this: Catching up with wonderful women: The women‐are‐wonderful effect is smaller in more gender egalitarian societieswomen-are-wonderful effect . Inequalities between men and women are common and well‐documented. Objective indexes show that men are better positioned than women in societal hierarchies—there is no single country in the world without a gender gap. In contrast, researchers have found that the women‐are‐wonderful effect—that…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:50 AM
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Can you give one example at least? I don’t know need to see a whole list of movies or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:42 AM
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"Women are the more empathetic gender". "women care less about looks then men" - lol. "Be yourself" and "Your time will come". General ideas that women are nicer or. better than men. Where was this rhetoric largely coming from? The media, your parents, authority figures etc? And can you give examples of media that contains those messages or how you were taught to internalize them growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 03:31 AM
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Your post title says: Are men inherently seen as disposable by society? Also why then bring up biology and evolution as possible explanation? The entire theory of male disposability fails apart on its face when its not universally seen in other cultures. Nothing to say about my article showing sex selective abortions taking place in Western countries either?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:16 PM
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Unmarried queens, however, were more frequently attacked than other types of rulers. This may have had something to do with perceived weakness of female sovereigns. Just found another article on this subject this is what they said: Female reigns may have had higher capacity to carry out war since queens often put their spouses in charge of official state matters. This division of labor would then have freed up time and resources for queens to pursue more aggressive war policies. In contrast, kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:08 PM
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The women and children first is a myth. https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn22119-sinking-the-titanic-women-and-children-first-myth/ u/renfsu
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:30 PM
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And I agree that’s abhorrent human rights violation. Yes it is, it’s also shows you women are treated as disposable, because if we are being real for a minute far more female children and fetuses have been killed/aborted this way then men have died in wars in the 21st century. There was a cultural reason for it, which had to do with inheritance laws and how their society was structured. The practice is not unique to China, it’s widely practiced in India and most of the developing world too. http…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:25 PM
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Everyone coddles them Not everyone it appears just male judges do. The evidence regarding the treatment of female and male offenders by female and male judges is less consistent. Two studies found that female judges imposed similar sentences on male and female defendants, whereas male judges sentenced female defendants more leniently than male defendants. Although these results suggest that female judges are less likely than male judges to see female defendants through a paternalistic or chivalr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:13 PM
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You haven’t addressed her point about sex selective abortions, in some places in China they literally throw their daughters on the street to die because of their gender. http://www.downtoearth.org.in/news/health/amp/selective-abortions-killed-22-5-million-female-foetuses-in-china-india-64043 https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1996/04/in-a-chinese-orphanage/376563/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:44 PM
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According to the article: Unmarried queens, however, were more frequently attacked than other types of rulers. This may have had something to do with perceived weakness of female sovereigns. King Frederick II of Prussia, for instance, declared “no woman should be allowed to govern anything” and, after Maria Theresa took the Austrian throne in 1745, promptly seized a chunk of her country. (She fought fiercely but never won it back.) So countries with female rulers were more vulnerable to getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:35 PM
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Nothing to see here folks, just the mod of whereareallthegoodmen defending his decision to lust after 14 year old girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:17 PM
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Having a degree is not a guarantee of getting a good job especially nowadays, your major and qualifications matter plus there are still plenty of trade jobs that pay well. Maybe things will change in the future but based on all the recent data we have there is no evidence at the moment that the average young women are out earning the average young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:21 PM
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No it’s a breakdown of median hourly wages by age group. Here is a screenshot of the graphs since you can’t access them. Never said anything about the wage gap existing or not, just disputed the notion that young women are out earning young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:08 PM
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Whoops sorry just noticed that. Here is the breakdown for hourly wages for men and women by age: https://www.statista.com/statistics/185362/median-hourly-earnings-of-female-wage-and-salary-workers-by-age/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/185366/median-hourly-earnings-of-male-wage-and-salary-workers-by-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:46 PM
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According to the data I linked, men earn: 16 to 19 years: $518 weekly ($26,936 annually) 20 to 24 years: $662 weekly ($34,424 annually) While women earn: 16 to 19 years: $481 weekly ($25,012 annually) 20 to 24 years: $610 weekly ($31,720 annually) So is motherhood the reason women ages 16-24 earn less? Seems weird considering most women don’t have children at those ages. Also your study which is 11 years old at this point says: But if any one of those factors changes—for instance, married women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:32 PM
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Young women are already outearning men People keep saying this but every recent government hourly earning wage report shows there are no differences or men still earn slightly more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:13 PM
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Cool while you are at it watch this sweet video of YouTubers interviewing young couples at the mall for Valentine’s Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:19 AM
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Now I think you are trolling or live in a very weird place. You never see average looking couples together? Not at the mall, restaurants, movie theater? Never ever? And all the average women you see have hot bfs? Here is an hour long video someone took of people walking through San Antonio river, are you really going to tell me with a straight face that you don’t see average looking couples together? Only average women with hot men or average women alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:05 AM
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Do you people ever go outside, because I seriously don’t know how anyone who did could say with a straight face ugly or average women never date men in their ‘league’.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:27 AM
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Uh ok. It’s still an option for violent people hence mass shooters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:23 PM
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There was thread asking bisexuals if they find more men or women attractive in day to day life and the vast majority of them both men and women said they found more women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:39 PM
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Uhh guns exist nowadays, you don’t have to use your bare hands anymore to be violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:21 PM
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Even if all women stopped working tomorrow, corporations would still find a way to lower costs by either outsourcing overseas or using cheaper labor from abroad. Engineering is a good example of this, it’s a field that is 90% men yet that hasn’t stopped their ceos from using HB-1 visas to cut employees salaries by getting cheaper labor from abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:26 AM
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Given that women are less likely to vote for and to support wars, it appears no. https://news.gallup.com/poll/7243/gender-gap-varies-support-war.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:14 AM
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Ok, name me at least five mainstream movies or shows with a fat woman romancing or having sex with a hot partner. I can name at least five with the other way around, Knocked Up, The Nutty Professor, Mall Cop, Zack and Miri Make a Porno, Get Him To The Greek etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:52 PM
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Fat guy with a hot wife is literally sitcom cliche at this point. And there are far more movies that poke fun at fat women then fat men, Mrs Doubtfire, Norbit, the Madea series, any movie Melissa McCarthy or Rebel Wilson is in etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:43 PM
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On average across OECD countries, 41% of births occur outside of marriage (Chart SF2.4.A). In 11 OECD countries (Chile, Denmark, Estonia, France, Iceland, Mexico, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Slovenia, and Sweden) more than 50% of children are born outside of marriage, with rates particularly high in Mexico (69%), Iceland (71%), and Chile (74%). In four other OECD countries (Israel, Japan, Korea and Turkey), by contrast, less than 10% of children are born outside of marriage. In Japan, Kor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:33 PM
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The men who began this movement wanted to remove discrimination for their overweight wives. It was not done for themselves. I just looked up the leaders of this movement, both of them looked to be fat to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:43 PM
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Obese men are normalized, look at the media you far more likely to see a male lead who is fat then a female lead who is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:41 PM
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The original intention of the fat acceptance movement was to normalize obesity, how is that different from today’s fat acceptance movement? Seems like a continuation of the original message.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:34 PM
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What do you think were the ‘good intentions’ behind the fat acceptance movement that have been ‘perverted’?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:49 PM
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How is the body positive movement anything other than a "life hack" for overweight women to start a trend where fit attractive men pay attention without the negative social stigma of "chubby chaser"? I don’t know op why don’t you ask the three men who started the movement. Two years after the Central Park fat-in, writer Llewelyn Louderback and activist Bill Fabrey formed the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance with the goal of ending fat-phobic messages in media and making the world s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 02:58 PM
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Lol no. Reddit only bans or quarantines subreddit that give bad press that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 12:22 PM
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I could be wrong but wasn’t the victim also sexually assaulted by her abductor? Wasn’t her abductor also a stranger and a cop on top of that too? Because that would explain why the case got a lot of more national media attention, than a typical murder case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 07:57 PM
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Most of guys I mentioned seem to know what they are talking about in regards to sex, dating and relationships. They also seem to have the most levelheaded takes too which is why I singled them out especially compared to the other male posters on here whose takes are like you said, completely out of touch or bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 06:14 PM
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Based on looks alone Sherbertbacon, randalcunningham, ohyarlysmiles, and Sonicbackscratcher. Smurf below gives another list of poster she thinks are chads based on other criteria then looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 05:43 PM
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The device I am typing on kept changing the word chimp to chip for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 05:03 PM
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Lmao, I think I know what poster you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:48 PM
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I’ll give you a 6/10. Maybe I’m underrating since you are not really my type. What girls do you attract typically online or in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:25 PM
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I readily acknowledge you can have fucked up views on women, sex and dating without being an incel. There was one poster who claimed to be married here who had the most deranged takes on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:16 PM
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I also forgot to mention how almost every ppd male poster seems to have several close chad friends that give them front row seats to their sexcapades and personal inner thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:11 PM
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Never once used the word incel, stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:09 PM
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Your eye area is blurred out which makes it harder to assess your face, but you seem like just an ok looking guy. Not anything I would rate as super attractive or as ugly either. Again your eye area is blurred out so I may not being rating you accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:00 PM
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So wouldn’t know how great her body looks for being in her 50s? Sonic also seems to have nice body too, for a guy in his 50s, as long he ain’t hideous face wise he is definitely better looking then most men in his age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:47 PM
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You didn’t see the pics did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:42 PM
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Wasting energy hating half of humanity isn’t a Chad thing, it’s a lower tier angry man thing Exactly. I remember reading somewhere that among chimps, males who can’t compete with other male chimps in the male hierarchy will start attacking female chimps to still maintain a sense of dominance. Reading that makes me wonder if the same thing applies to humans especially after reading this subreddit....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:41 PM
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Just not being fat doesn’t equal nice body. She had a nice butt and breast too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:28 PM
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He showed her body, and she is in tremendous shape for a woman in her 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:23 PM
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Sherbertbacon, randalcunningham, ohyarlysmiles, and Sonicbackscratcher (didn’t show his face but I give him a pass because his wife is hot) are a couple of the ones I can think of at the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:18 PM
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Sure why not, I’m bored today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:04 PM
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There have been several actually and they all end up being the most sane male posters on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:48 PM
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Can’t be chad without an attractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:47 PM
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Have you ever noticed the chad posters here tend to have the most sane and levelheaded takes on women, sex and dating compared to most other male posters? By chad posters I mean guys who have profile pictures showing what they look like so we can confirm they are chads not the no profile pic having larpers who claim to be chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 01:31 PM
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Zuckerbarg married his wife after he had money. Just look up the wives of millionaires and billionaires, most are not remarkable looking, for as long as the woman is thin, intelligence and social class matter more to those men then having a hot side piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:08 AM
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“Murderers are consistently 95% male in every country” According this crime stat that is true actually. FBI crime stats disprove what your saying actually lol. Have YOU seen them? Where are you getting this 95% number from. Source please, cause I checked the 2018 crime stats, and women commit 42%, According to the latest fbi stats: Of the offenders for whom gender was known, 88.0 percent were male. (Based on Expanded Homicide Data Table 3.) https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2019/crime-in-the-…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 03:07 AM
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She is not really all that unrealistically looking for a rich guys wife. A lot of rich men aren’t married to super beautiful women, just look at Jeff Bezo’s ex wife, she is cute but not remarkable looking even when young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:41 AM
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Huh? The girl in the movie has a very nice body, most guys I know agree with that. Also are going to ignore the millions of movies where men sex and romance women way out of there leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:44 AM
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Reddit quite literally only bans subs that gives them negative attention. The Mgtow sub for example was only quarantined after one it’s members was arrested for planning a terrorist attack, the incel subreddits were only banned because the repeated terrorist attacked committed by their members. Again not because of same grand stance against sexism by reddit but because of the bad press. Other manosphere related subreddits like Whereallthegoodmen are not banned, for example so there is no double …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:26 AM
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It’s pretty funny you guys complain about the fat acceptance movement even though it was started by men. And for every fat acceptance group there are thousands more groups aimed at women on improving their looks whether it’s plastic surgery, makeup, fitness, fashion etc. You have be super delusional and out of touch if you think Instagram, Tiktok, Twitter are filled with fat acceptance stuff and not the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:08 AM
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Do you guys on here not realize how unappealing they make ugly men sound when they say women should go for them because they are more likely to be faithful since nobody else will like them? Nobody but a control freak wants to be with somebody who is only faithful to you because they no other options to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:00 AM
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I found the quote by Robert Crumb here. He basically thinks because he is more similar to women ex: he likes ‘pretty things’ then those guys the girls at his school like, they should like him better then those boys. I think a lot men whether they admit or not have the same mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:57 PM
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I think guys who claim they were lied to by society about women are exaggerating. What’s more likely is that they assumed that the traits they like in women were also the ones women liked in men. I can’t find it but I remember a quote by a famous cartoonist named Robert Crumb that was along the lines ‘I thought women should like me because I was the most similar to them.’ I think in actuality that’s probably where a lot of the rage and anger comes from, society is just a convenient scapegoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:55 PM
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but I see a lot more men haters than women haters on here typically. Lol what? There are far more inflammatory things said about women here vs men. Just look at what purge week is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 09:46 AM
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I love reading people’s sex fantasies. Not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:42 AM
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While at the same time having sex with multiple women? Yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 06:13 AM
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Most men who are happy with their sex lives definitely are not obsessively posting on here that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:53 AM
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Somehow I really doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:37 AM
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It’s useless arguing with him. He honestly believes the average young women has had sex with 30 men and no data is going to change his mind on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:31 AM
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Its nice to know multiple women now = all women. Like I said, delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 05:13 AM
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Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:30 AM
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There have been dozens of studies posted showing the CC is real. Please post these ‘dozens of studies.’ But even if you are right, the women I meet irl have 30+ partner counts in their 20s. So its irrelevant. I am not sure how you meeting women with 30+ partners contradicts the research above. Do you generally believe the average young women has had sex with 30 different men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 01:43 AM
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This idea that millennials are uniquely promiscuous is such a false idea, I don’t know where people get it from: The team analyzed data from more than 26,000 respondents to the General Social Survey, a nationally representative survey of U.S. adults that includes members of both the Millennial generation and its predecessor, Generation X. Among Americans ages 20-24 now, the results showed 15 percent had no sexual partners since turning 18. Young white people, young women, and those who haven't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 11:14 PM
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Oh so now wonder you are out of touch. Tiktok has 80 million users in the US alone and has been downloaded over a billion times worldwide. Continuing to downvote won’t make you your non fatness hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:04 PM
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Lmao you really are the king of downvoting when people don’t answer how you like. I’m not just talking about world famous like a celebrity but social media famous. Your average person couldn’t probably name one Instagram model or tiktok star yet they still have status due mostly to their looks. Take a look at this tiktok likes on this account, notice something about almost all the people in the videos? Are you still going to claim just not being fat makes you hot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 07:07 AM
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A celebrity so much so they go viral on tiktok can make living as an Instagram model or become a YouTube star? Nobody cares if you are the hottest person in some dying poduck town where everybody is obese. They care if you are hot compared to Instagram models, tiktok stars and attractive YouTube commenters young people have been inundated with since the creation of social media. You have to be hot by global standards not just local if you want to successfully monetize your looks or get a rich hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:01 AM
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In the age of tiktok, Instagram, YouTube, and social media nobody is judging anybody by local standards but global. Sorry but not being fat doesn’t make hot no matter how hard you want that to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:48 AM
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Lmao, who are these women that ‘revere’ Elliot Rodgers?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:10 PM
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A lot homeless women are prostitutes who are basically able to keep themselves afloat from time to time by engaging in sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:02 PM
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Yeah promiscuous women and high n count women exist, nobodies denies that and there is nothing wrong with it either. But their prevalence is definitely overexaggerated on ppd, to the point that I am wondering if these guys live in a fantasy land or have some type of agenda. I remember having a back and forth with a guy in another thread who told me he believes the average high school girl will have sex with at least 6-15 guy before graduating and that finding a girl in her early twenties who has…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 06:57 AM
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You also skipped this part? In 2017–2018, the age-adjusted prevalence of obesity in adults was 42.4%, and there were no significant differences between men and women among all adults or by age group. prevalence by age group (Figure 1). Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4% among those aged 40–59, and 42.2% among those aged 60 and over. Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among those aged 20–39, 43.3% among those aged 40–59, and 43.3% among thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:22 PM
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Not according to the latest cdc charts: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/images/databriefs/351-400/db360-fig1.png Interesting how you didn’t post those.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 12:58 PM
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This guy and this guy I posted both would be considered chubby and definitely not fit. Here are more examples: https://www.instagram.com/p/B8kDbuXnk2L/?igshid=1c7ssfpvpo215 https://www.instagram.com/p/B4gBr9PjoE1/?igshid=17yrslvpk9otl https://www.instagram.com/p/B5BBIk4h2uu/?igshid=1pd2av0kdzjfk https://www.instagram.com/p/CHEjydPhZSr/?igshid=vpaoa6ha132m https://www.instagram.com/p/CGlrVLlBduR/?igshid=1rxnyruj5b4iw https://www.instagram.com/p/CFupumUpQLk/?igshid=jfujjaz0w7mm https://www.instagr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:39 AM
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Interesting. Why do you think that the concept of ‘chad’ is not an actual thing but a ‘post hoc rationalization’?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:45 AM
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They look like this generally: https://www.instagram.com/p/CA3a9kPje6w/?igshid=13lddrbk4bxph https://www.instagram.com/p/CMEA09MhuQx/?igshid=1dwzmyvdvq2nf https://www.instagram.com/p/CG_U-r-HTM_/?igshid=11iqe1oz27s9b https://www.instagram.com/p/CDm61VXplh-/?igshid=11o9ybb0fklui https://www.instagram.com/p/B32-9fJgPn8/?igshid=fvgoe3njbwin https://www.instagram.com/p/CJcGNpUl6iD/?igshid=15xfn32yxzth8 https://www.instagram.com/p/CIEVhkfnH9n/?igshid=w9t8dxdz7srq Mostly average looking to slightly ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:40 AM
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Interestingly, I would say most attractive women I know aren’t dating guys who would be described as ‘chads’ looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:56 AM
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Why? Are only attractive women and men allowed to have relationship sex in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:49 AM
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What if the man is fugly himself? Is it still a ‘problem’?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:39 AM
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I am 21 year old woman go goes to big state school, and honestly say I am not seeing your observations. I mean, you honestly believe the average high school girl has had sex with six guys by graduation? The average person doesn’t even have lose their virginity until 17-18 nowadays. This makes me think you are exaggerating, or only focusing on a small group of women. Not once did I insult you for being male or hurl a sexist insult. It seems you got really triggered at me for just saying I haven’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:28 PM
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Sorry but I went to a big state university and I am actually friends with girls in sororities. What you are saying is nonsensical and is not an accurate picture of the average women’s sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:06 PM
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So no you never see any teenage or college aged couples where you live? Because plenty of people are forming intimate relationships before their mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:06 PM
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You aren’t average as the average man has had at least one casual sex encounter. Men have had none are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:03 PM
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How is is possible for women to all have these high n counts but are also super picky about who they sleep with only giving 8+ men who are objectively a small percentage of the population any play? It’s sounds like bitterness is clouding your guys perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 12:02 PM
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Yet the average of marriage for women is 27, so how does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:04 AM
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Plenty of people are dating in high school and college, whether or not they are serious ltrs is a question but I really don’t why people here pretend nobody under the age 25 dates anymore and only sleeps around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:04 AM
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Good for you, I’m not sure how that contradicts the original posters point that men with your n count are very much a statistical minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:19 AM
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That’s why most studies on N counts look at the median not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 01:17 AM
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Now I think you are purposely being obtuse, I just cited the statistics, from the study I linked which spells out how they got their numbers. Law professor Marsha Garrison cited data showing low rates of alimony throughout the twentieth century, with cases involving alimony awards amounting to only about 25 percent of all divorce cases.39Naturally, an award did not guarantee payment, and many women never received the amounts ordered.40 Garrison compared divorce outcomes in 1978 cases to outcomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:14 PM
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3 It just says there are fewer, not by what percent. It could be 1% fewer. And it is using estimates, which are nothing more the guesses. Did you bother to even bother to read the article?: Law professor Marsha Garrison cited data showing low rates of alimony throughout the twentieth century, with cases involving alimony awards amounting to only about 25 percent of all divorce cases.39 Naturally, an award did not guarantee payment, and many women never received the amounts ordered.40 Garrison co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:04 AM
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If they did that then they'd lose their fans. Women find the idea of working on themselves for the sake of getting a man offensive. The existence of subreddits like r/vindicta and thousands of female orientated looksmaxxings forums shows this is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:35 AM
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I just googled bts and the Wikipedia says they were originally a hiphop group. And the “hiphop” links to an article about American hiphop. You claimed most Kpop idols are rappers, I pointed out that most Kpop groups sing pop or hiphop and that Koreans conflate hiphop with rap. Your point just furthers supports my point. I demand that you stop being irrationally delusional and admit that they take direct inspiration from American rap. You seem to be the only human being who believes otherwise. Du…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:36 AM
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This discussion has really veered of its course. The original point being made was Kpop stars despite not fitting the Western standard of masculinity enjoy a larger female fan base then most American rappers who in general have a more hyper masculine image. Why we are now debating whether or not Bts claims of being influenced by African Americans is genuine or not despite their numerous racist scandals, is beyond me and not really a conversation I am interested in having.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:27 AM
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Bts supported BLM because they don’t deny that their music comes directly from American rap. If they don’t deny it, why do you? Because as we all know, black people have all the money and political power. No but the youth do, do you think most smart organizations are just going ignore the fact that we had a summer long protest over BLM? Wall Street and other companies like Macdonald also put out ads supporting blm, do you think they actually care about blm are want to stay in the good graces of …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:21 AM
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We are talking about in general. I’m aware there are niche musicians and genres that are different from the mainstream, but mainstream Kpop hiphop is different from American hiphop. The former is absolutely influenced a lot by latter but there are still subtle differences. Bts supported BLM because they don’t deny that their music comes directly from American rap. If they don’t deny it, why do you? Bts like any politically savvy organization who wants to stay in the good graces of their Western …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 12:08 AM
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They call themselves rappers and purposefully try to emulate American rap artists. Nope. The content they sing about is much different then most American music. Although Korean hip hop adopted American hip hop music, the difference in culture naturally led to the difference in lyrical content. For example, in the early stages of Korean hip hop music, many Korean rappers referenced Confucian values and idioms. Vasco, a Korean rapper, explains, “While American hip hop mainly dealt with themes of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:56 PM
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Nah the most popular Kpop idol is Jungkook then Jimin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:53 PM
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Who is that a quote of? It’s from research paper on Korean masculinity and Kpop. How do you know so much about Korea masculinity and how it differs between generations? Or rather, how do you think you know so much about it? I’m half Korean, you should see what my middle aged and older Korean male relatives think of Kpop stars and the younger generation. And why don’t you understand that the rappers in kpop groups are rappers? Most Kpop idols sing pop not rap, and even it’s Hiphop is different fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:49 PM
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Your talking about the younger generations only, the older generation which still dominates the country’s culture and social norms scorn Kpop idols and view them as ‘degenerate’ for their androgynous appearance. As the compulsion to conform to the newly codified aesthetic androgyny has secured influence over younger generations of Korean men, it has also caused them to be scorned by older generations of conservative Koreans, as well as conservative Westerners, who deem aesthetically androgynous …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:33 PM
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It’s the flower boy look, pale skin, red lips, large eyes, soft features etc, they basically are trying to look like real life anime boys. None of them have particularly strong jaws compared to Western celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:20 PM
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Dude even in Korea they are considered feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 10:35 PM
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There are entire forums worshipping MGK and G Eazy and Twista and Tech N9ne and every rapper you can think of Are those forums made up of women or men? I know the Kayne West forum is nearly all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:52 PM
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Nah, it’s every women mostly western who are bedazzled by kdramas and Kpop music that they now think all Korean men are sweet, sensitive and romantic. Just look up ‘my Korean bf’ on YouTube and you will find hundreds of videos of women showing off their Korean bfs like they won a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:21 PM
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I think what it comes down to is do these women like these men for sex, or is it just in terms of the relationship? I could show you the ‘erotica’ many Kpop stans write about their favorite but I don’t want you to die of cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:17 PM
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There are literally entire forums on the entire dedicated solely to worshipping Kpop stars and every time a popular Kpop group drops an album they are the number one trending topic by quite a bit on twitter or social media. Can you say the same about any of those guys you listed? Lol at Jay z since when are women attracted to him?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:12 PM
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Most Kpop stars would absolutely be considered feminine by Western standards yet there are so many western girlies who are downright obsessed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:09 PM
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Cope. The amount of Western women I see in Korea want to get pale skinny bf is way too damn high every year I go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:06 PM
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Not to contradict most of Ops points but as someone who is half Korean cannot stand most Kpop stars. Most are too plastic, too pale, and look all the same. The music is basically a rip off of cleaner 90s hip hop/pop. I can’t believe use to be obsessed with them. That being said it’s true most male Kpop stars would be considered feminine by Western standards that’s probably why many women especially young girls like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:04 PM
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I am not sure how anything you are saying contradicts the fact that studies have shown most casual sexual encounters are under the influence of alcohol. OLD are not this fuckfest and probably never have been. Do have any data proving most women have used tinder because every statistic I have found shows that not even most men have used tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:52 PM
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Those aren’t hookup sites and the statistics on bumble show the same gender disparity as tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:49 PM
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Yes, tinder use to have a much more even ratio when it first came out, it’s now much more skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:42 PM
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Also online dating is increasingly becoming more and more popular and makes it super easy for women to select fuckbuddies that meet her exact physical preferences. Then why has the gender ratio on OLD become even more skewed in recent years?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:15 PM
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I have seen a lot that give the average instead of median. Anyways, could you link the one you are quoting? The ones conducted by cdc and other reputable sources usually use the median rather then average. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm It doesn't really make sense for the male median to be larger imo. For example, wouldn't you agree that women are pickier for casual sex and that the % of men who meet women's casual sex standards is smaller than the % of women who meet meens …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:40 PM
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1) First Link: https://priceonomics.com/how-long-do-couples-date-before-getting-engaged/ https://bridebook.co.uk/article/bridebook-co-uk-marriage-report-2017 https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2019/11/06/key-findings-on-marriage-and-cohabitation-in-the-u-s/ 2) Second link: https://www.bls.gov/cps/wlftable25.htm From the ‘blog’ I quoted where they linked the study which is from the Bureau of Labor, that you could have easily clicked on: In 38 percent of heterosexual American marriages, the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:34 PM
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So how do you explain that that women have sex with more partners than women, do they murder their partners that the women don't get 1 up for the sex? I don’t understand your question. Are you asking how explain how do I explain that men have more sexual partners then women? Well like any survey certain populations are going to be excluded because they are considered outliers. Studies have shown that a) men underreport sexual contact with sex workers and b) when you add sex workers to the study …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:25 PM
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This isn’t a good example because the studies she is referring to look at the median number of sexual partners by men and women not the average. Its true the average can get skewed by a few people having a really high number of sexual partners, but by taking the median number which middle value of a statistic it’s suppose to undercut that problem: In statistical terminology, this is called skewness. In this case, the average can be significantly influenced by the few values, making it not very r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:36 AM
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Well in Northern Europe it's very normal for couples to live together and have kids before they even get married. That’s normal in the US too, the average couple here will spend 3-5 years together and at least one year living together before tying the knot. That’s not unique to Northern Europe, nearly every western developed countries shows a similar trend of extended courtship period and later marriage. That is if they even get since it's not looked down up on here to live with a bf/gf have kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:48 AM
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It just seems that in the US women shoot for the moon in their 20s then wake up later and realise oh shit time is running out fast to have kids and family. Lol this pretty funny because we use to have a poster from Denmark on this subreddit who was constantly complaining about how hypergamous Scandinavian women are, claiming the standards for men are the highest in the world. He even claimed there was a study by the Swedish military which said they have the highest number of incels in the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:05 AM
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The entire point of this sub is to debate redpill and bluepill ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:27 AM
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The rate is sky high roughly 40% of households with children under 18 are a single parent household. Ok and you are going to ignore recent statistics I linked which show single parenthood is declining? 1960 only 8% of children lived in single-mother headed houses. That figure doubled by 1976 and continued to rise steadily (although not quite as rapidly) through the 1980s and 1990s, reaching an apex of 24% in 2012. However since then that figure has gradually decreased and is now at 21% in 2020 -…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:24 AM
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Yes they are look at FDS they refuse to date if they can't date a top guy and even the women here admit they are not going to date if they can't get that top guy. So now fds is representative of all women? Then why are we seeing a massive increase in the amount of single motherhood in America? Did you bother reading the link I quoted? Single motherhood is higher in counties were women out number men because this causes men to have a higher bargaining power in rmv which favors short term relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:11 AM
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Yet their ideas is what this ‘debate sub’ is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:08 AM
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I’m guessing you are not redpilled because they specifically advice men to not get married at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:46 AM
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So now it’s not being able to get a wife? I thought it was just not being able to get laid. What makes you think those guys want to get married in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:04 AM
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Women are refusing to marry because obviously they can't all marry the top guys. Except women are not refusing to marry, People in general are waiting to get married because they are taking longer to become financially stable then in the past, are going to school longer and are dating/living together for longer periods of time before tying the knot. Research shows when women have more bargaining power in the rmv, people get married younger and less children are born out of wedlock: The research …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 04:01 AM
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So not being able to get laid isn’t the only variable that predicts gang violence? Maybe things like poverty, abuse, disregard for human life, environment etc all play much bigger roles then dry dick. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:51 AM
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So all gang members are incels? Who would of thought. Why do you think gang membership/violence was higher in the past vs today? Oh and studies on the positive affect marrying has on lowering recidivism rates shows that positive correlation only exists for men who marry non criminal women not ones who marry any women or just cohabitant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:41 AM
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Mentally ill people like incels have always existed. Gang violence was greater in the past. Oh and I thought women loved criminals according to men on here, now your telling me they are all incels, who only commit drive by shootings because they can’t get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:23 AM
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Researcher on this have actually contradicted this dystopia you are painting: One of the main theoretical concerns is that greater numbers of unmarried men will cause an increase in societal problems through their aggression. Men, in general, are more likely than women to be both the perpetrators and victims of violence. According to the Federal Bureau of Investigation, 80.1 percent of people arrested for violent crimes in 2012 were male. Some experts have theorized that, due to greater sexual f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:15 AM
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Most studies on infidelity show no gender difference or that men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:13 AM
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Some posters here seem to think a lot of them are living it large off of money from sugar daddies, simps, and onlyfans. When in reality those girls they see on Instagram who are always traveling or out eating are just trust fund babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:25 PM
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Where do people get this idea that the average young women is doing so much better financially then the average young men? Based on this stat I found the average young women (16-24) makes similar amount of money as the average young men. Most people my age are broke, the few living it large are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 09:16 PM
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Do you know the names of these celebrities these girls banged?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 09:10 AM
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They are getting lower grades because system is geared for better learning to women. Girls have always gotten higher grades then boys btw: Researchers noted as early as the 1950s that girls on average earn higher grades and achieve higher class standing than boys, and today, from kindergarten through college, girls tend to achieve better grades in all major subjects. I’m open to the idea that way schools are set up are more beneficial to girls learning style versus boys. I haven’t seen any solut…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:25 AM
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Lmao what BS . 65% students are women because of things like quotas, scholarships and the fact that colleges nowadays are literally a landmine for straight men. The vast majority of scholarships in the United States are gender neutral. Sex specific scholarships make up less then 5% of all scholarships and sex specific scholarships for men only exist as well. Also which colleges have gender quotas? A student recently was expelled on grounds of toxic masculinity because he refused to kiss a girl. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:13 AM
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Ever heard of affirmative action? Affirmative action mostly benefits male students nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:00 AM
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Girls were complaining about the difference between Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts for years , I’m sure they were. That still doesn’t explain why Boys Scouts start admitting girls, it was a financial decision fullstop not a social one: TIME has confirmed that approximately 92,700 people have now filed sex abuse claims against the Boy Scouts of America ahead of the Nov. 16 deadline set to demand damages from the organization. The Boy Scouts filed for bankruptcy in February under the mounting financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:56 AM
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I mean they even caved on the fucking Boy Scouts lol, Boys Scouts opening admissions to girls has nothing to do with a public pressure campaign and everything to do with money. The organization was going bankrupt after getting sued by dozens of former members for covering up child rape which lead to membership numbers to decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:41 AM
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I haven’t visited fds enough to really comment on it or compare it to another subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:12 AM
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These are currently some of the most upvoted posts on the front page: https://www.reddit.com/r/Vindicta/comments/lsaks4/hey_ladies_i_posted_a_little_while_ago_some_of_my/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Vindicta/comments/lsjrlc/picking_the_right_colors_to_look_more_polished/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Vindicta/comments/lrp7iw/my_softmaxxing_using_contact_lenses_totally_worth/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:05 AM
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Just because you don’t agree with their motivations does not mean it isn’t a subreddit dedicated to self improvement. 99% of the posts on there are about how to improve your looks/style/personality etc, not how to get money from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:49 AM
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I fail to see how that contradicts what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:30 AM
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There entire sub is dedicated towards maxing their potential whether it’s through looks, personality, style, presence etc. That’s the definition of self improvement, how they feel about men is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:59 AM
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The 1/20 college girls selling butthole pics on onlyfans. The majority onlyfans accounts aren’t active as in they don’t post any pictures or have any fans. Most performers do not make a fortune from OnlyFans. Indeed, the majority of them receive less than $145 per month. However, it must be pointed out that one reason for this inequality is that the majority of OnlyFans accounts have no fans at all. They aren't set up for serious broadcasting. To get an accurate picture of the actual number of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:53 AM
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The funny thing is the fat acceptable movement was started by men. Two years after the Central Park fat-in, writer Llewelyn Louderback and activist Bill Fabrey formed the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance with the goal of ending fat-phobic messages in media and making the world safer for people of size.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:43 AM
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Dude there are literally thousands of forums, websites, subreddit’s dedicated solely to self improvement advice for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:39 AM
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I mean there are nearly a million OnlyFans content creators and the vast majority of them are college aged American women. If 1 in 20 college aged girls are literally selling pictures of their buttholes to make ends id say the idea that 1 in 3 have dated a rich guy for his money seems pretty plausible. This isn’t accurate either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 03:36 AM
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So wouldn’t the pragmatic solution be to make college tuition free then? Btw sites like this are known for jacking up their female membership numbers. Ashley Madison got caught a couple years ago doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:39 AM
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How is it bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:53 PM
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People tell women to self improve all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:52 PM
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Alright here is another example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:36 PM
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I see tons of post like this all the time. Guy says he is lonely and sad he has no gf, people offer him sympathy and positive advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:24 PM
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What?! That 'advice' comes in the form of insults and blame. Most people usually try to offer constructive advice, they are only blamed if it becomes clear their repeated actions are causing their predicament. Here is an example. Guy posts he is lonely and sad he has no gf. Most comments are sympathetic and offering him positive advice. That incels have toxic attitudes and that's the real reason no one wants them. Well a lot incels do have toxic attitudes. Their subreddit was banned on reddit fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:23 PM
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A lot fds posters post on r/vindicta which is pretty much what you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:39 PM
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Sure. But then why the entitled attitudes today? Entitled how? And why do they wany to go back to that brief period in history when they fought so damn hard against it? Who wants to go back? Women are doing the same thing they have always done, work and then stay at home briefly to take care of the children. I am not really seeing evidence there are masses of women who want to go back to the 1950s gender roles. The toxic work culture of America may make a few women want to opt out but in other c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:30 PM
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Men who are lonely are given plenty of sympathy and advice already. Should they get more? Absolutely. But when your movement like sjws is driven by resentment at those who you believe are more privileged then you, it’s going to make it hard for people to feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:15 PM
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Do you not disagree with my point that you are conflating equality of opportunity with equity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:58 PM
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Dude there is a difference between advocating for civil/human rights and being a tumblerina sjw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:51 PM
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The definition of privilege according to the dictionary: a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group. "education is a right, not a privilege" For someone to be privileged they would only have the right do something. For example in the past white men were more privileged then others since certain jobs and opportunities were only available to them. Nowadays that is less true, although there are still issues. Point is I think some people are con…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:49 PM
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When people talk about women being privileged on here they're using the literal definition of the word and talking about material, tangible privledges. You're so warped up in your own political ideology you can't understand the meaning of words. This is the definition of privilege according to the dictionary: a special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available only to a particular person or group. "education is a right, not a privilege" By this definition women are not privileged in dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:42 PM
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Yup and they kept crying and whining, daily, for years until they won this last election. The democratic party needed them, and made sure to use their massive media outlets to make sure there was enough "representation" Just imao if you think sjws won the election for Biden, not Trumps massive incompetence at handling the COVID pandemic. Most legit leftists hate Biden anyways and preferred Bernie. Who determines who is a victim? Whoever has more victimization points in today's society gets power…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:26 PM
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If you can't beat them (since it's a prison sentence to do so), join them. Sjws haven’t won anything. There has been massive backlash against them that lead to election of Trump. If sjws has any true power he would have never been elected. It's not hypocritical, it's playing to an audience. It’s hypocritical when you complain about other people playing the victim but then do it yourself. Keep in mind, trying to argue anything conservative gets censored. Reddit only bans things that give them bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:56 PM
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Because SJWs and liberals get pandered too. Look at all these places like reddit and FB, where basically anything conservative is banned as racist or some other "ism". So, because this brand of hysteria is seen as valid in today's trash heap of a culture, many men have adopted that language, thinking it would bring them the same level of success it brought SJWs. That’s what I figured. But it’s hypocritical to hate sjws for playing the victim yet mimic their vernacular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:39 PM
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I put privileged in quote marks because some people argue against the assertion that the people deemed privileged by sjws are actually privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:13 PM
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No. It's directed exactly where it needs to be. Put down the fork and you'll be fine. It’s not that easy for most people, that’s why obesity continues to grow worldwide. CICO is basic science. Also, more men are overweight, more women are obese. Big difference. Not according to the latest cdc stats: Among men, the prevalence of obesity was 40.3% among those aged 20–39, 46.4% among those aged 40–59, and 42.2% among those aged 60 and over. Among women, the prevalence of obesity was 39.7% among tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:06 PM
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It’s often not just the man’s money, but hers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:51 PM
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There have been several times when a politician has tried or introduced a bill that would help reduce obesity by taxing sugar or ending farm subsidies and they have been demonized by others (mostly men) for doing so. Most right wingers and libertarians are men and they are against any kind of regulation. Just look at the backlash Michael Bloomberg got just for trying to restrict sodas. This anger at fat women is so misguided, women are not getting fat on purpose, the food we are eating is litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:33 PM
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So why don’t you tell your fellow men to not throw temper tantrums and cry nanny state anytime a politician tries to do something about the obesity crisis(ex taxing sugar, banning certain chemicals/foods or restricting processed food)? Other countries don’t have an obesity crisis because they are actually have rules and regulations about what is allowed in their food.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:07 PM
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I’m not sure how that’s relevant to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:20 PM
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Women have always worked. There was a brief moment in the mid century when predominantly middle class and up white women did not but they never represented all women. That period in history was the exception to the rule not the norm. The only thing that was different back then was women weren’t allow to do certain jobs or attend certain universities (Ivy Leagues did not start admitting women until the late 60s early 70s).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:11 PM
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Do they? Because the latest statistics I found says they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:01 PM
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Same reason girls watch media aimed at boys all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:58 PM
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Tv always shows men being needy or offering money to earn women's attention. A lot of the times both at the same time. You must have not watched a lot media aimed at female audiences if this is your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 04:32 PM
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When comes to standards that relate things that people have no control over, I would advice someone to try to expand their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 06:38 AM
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If there is an over saturation of them then it’s becomes less of an unique asset to make money off of, which is the case with onlyfans which is why most creators don’t make very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:47 PM
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It’s is niche. How common are those girls really? Just cuz you know a few doesn’t make it common: However, as XSRUS observes, the revenue of content creators follows a classic power-law distribution. The top performers earn substantially more than everybody else. The top 1% of accounts make 33% of all the money, and the top 10% of accounts make 73% of all the money. Most performers do not make a fortune from OnlyFans. Indeed, the majority of them receive less than $145 per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:19 PM
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He’s right statistics show the majority of content creators aren’t making nearly that much money. The only ones make real bank are the ones who got into early, famous people or people who cater to certain niches.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 09:21 PM
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I see it not as lowering standards as much as widening them to include more people thus hopefully increasing your chances of meeting someone. When it comes to standards relating to character (loyalty, kindness, openness etc) I would never tell someone to lower their standards. When comes to standards that relate things that people have no control over, I would advice someone to try to expand their preferences. It’s ok to have specific and strict standards, it only becomes annoying if you are con…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:26 PM
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When I was in high school the nerdy awkward unattractive guys always had nerdy awkward unattractive female friends with them, they were never shunned by all the girls, but like GridRexx says, most girls didn’t hang out with them. They weren’t malicious or mean to them, just didn’t really interact. The only students everybody regardless of gender went out their way to avoid were the truly weird students. I’m talking about guys who thought eating their boogers in front of everybody was funny not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:04 PM
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My observations match yours, it was mostly other men who would tease other men for being virgins, most of us girls didn’t care one way or another. I think guys on here just take any insults from women more personally and to heart which is why women are perceived as being ‘harsher.’ I remember when the military got in trouble a couple years ago because some of the male officers as part of hazing ritual would force male recruits to do extra push ups in front everybody if they were still virgins. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:14 PM
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I don’t think you’ll find an entire movement of men encouraging people to “do what they want with their bodies” and sell drugs because it’s empowering. Have you never heard the lyrics in a rap song before? There is a vast majority of women that are against sex work being “normalized,” and crammed down their daughters throats. I don’t understand this comment. If the vast majority of women are against onlyfans and sex work being normalized why do you care that a fringe minority online has differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:04 PM
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It seems you are conflating prostitution with onlyfans when they are two separate things. Yes they fall under the umbrella as ‘sex work’ but that doesn’t make them the same. Onlyfans is popular precisely because it allows women (and men, onlyfans is popular in the gay community too) to make money off their sexuality without having to be intimate with their clients. I think it’s also important to point out the hype surrounding onlyfans is not what is all cracked up to be. Most women aren’t making…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:22 PM
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the guys that work in coal mines and power plants don’t complain They absolutely do. Did you fall asleep in history class and miss lecture about the massive labor rights movement that took place in the 19th and early 20th century?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:56 PM
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I think prostitution should be legal but it’s pretty telling that in most first world countries the overwhelming majority of women who are in it except for the high class escorts are either poor or come from immigrants backgrounds. It really shows you it is not a desirable job for most emancipated economically stable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:20 PM
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It’s not Johns who are at risk while prostitution is illegal it’s the prostitutes themselves who are. Johns are rarely arrested in the US, and when they are they usually are only given a slap on the wrist or a stern warning by the police. The overwhelming majority of arrests related to prostitution are of prostitutes themselves: In fact, in the U.S., prostitutes get busted more often than Johns or pimps by a huge margin. The breakdown of arrests: 70% female prostitutes and madams, 20% male prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 08:05 PM
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