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Exactly, I mean I am a genuine nice guy but that is for me. I am not that guy that drops everything to run to a woman to be her emotional tampon I have a life to live and shit to so. Yes I can be an asshole at times and certain assholes can be good dudes but it is the ones that are not genuine that try to hard and then boom shit goes south.
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:46 PM
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This just shows being who you are is key. If you are a genuine good guy be that. If not don't. I see all the time friends saying I am going to start being an asshole because obviously women are into it. I tell them not really because 1 you have no clue how that man is when you dont see him and 2 if he is genuinely as asshole that is why they are attracted. He is not trying to be an asshole he is just himself. I am a nice guy I tried to be an asshole and it actually almost got me killed. I am a n…
/r/seduction04/04/21 07:40 PM
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NOW THIS IS WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR. good advice thank you. I dont want to cut this person out of my life they are an awesome friend and no I dont know if I effed it up people have lives and I am sensitive sometimes. My primary focus right now is going to be myself. Thank you. I was sort of on this cusp but not entirely sure, I think you helped me take the fools leap and say fuggit and go with it. Again thank you.
/r/seduction11/02/21 11:33 PM
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I know, it fucking sucks.
/r/seduction11/02/21 11:29 PM
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Lol thank you. I am going to apologize for sure at least to salvage the friendship I just want to keep pussy boy me away because...well that isnt me.
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:48 PM
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I can catch plenty just fucked up a good friendship and I am hoping to recover that. I have moved past me and her dating for the most part, who knows maybe at some other point. I have been out with a few other women since then. (Both of them boring af) I miss my buddy and getting to vent to her about dumbass women 😕
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:46 PM
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See it isnt that I have already been in a couple of dates with other women. We honestly had a great friendship before this, I dont want to lose the friendship we did have. It wasn't a friendzone friendship but an actual decent friendship where we would joke around etc.
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:44 PM
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Yeah I am definitely working on it a lot more. I honestly thought I was getting over this aspect of myself...but this one in particular. However I also realize maybe the timing isnt right anyways. She just got out of a very serious relationship so I am going to work on myself for awhile and just hold her in the friend zone. Also thank you very much.
/r/seduction11/02/21 06:05 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction11/02/21 05:54 AM
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Honestly that is what I was thinking. Ok it is like this I thought she was way way way out of my league and she was in a serious relationship. The relationship ended and through a series of events I started talking to her. Everything was perfectly fine until I found out she kind of was into me and I went into simp mode. Before that we got along great, we were friends and I could joke with her and goof around flirt etc. I fucked up and am hoping maybe eventually I can fix it if I let it cool off …
/r/seduction11/02/21 04:28 AM
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Thanks lmao. See I talk to most women like this as well and they usually find an attraction towards me. I have been friends with the hottest woman I have ever met and all was good. Soon as I found out she kind of liked me and boom...fucked
/r/seduction11/02/21 03:14 AM
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All I need to do is act like i do with any other woman. I only get this way with women I am really into. Other women are easy to talk to...hell really hot women are easy to talk to because I figure I cant have them so I can be relaxed and myself.
/r/seduction11/02/21 03:11 AM
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See I really want to change that one aspect. Ok so it is like this, if I am not really that into a woman or I think she is unobtainable I have zero problems acting like myself and treating a woman good but like not a simp I guess. I can be friends with a woman in an actual friend way messing around joking legitimately listening etc. I dont have problem telling my female the truth. Sometimes I do come off as an asshole. Then they show interest and I am fucked, i swear my balls retract and I becom…
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:43 AM
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No I mean I messed up with a woman a few nights ago. Figured give it a few months of cool off time and try again but do it right.
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:38 AM
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Asked one woman already I want the consensus of two. If a man actually begins acting like a man and discovers his balls have finally dropped is there a chance to recover the situation one day?
/r/seduction11/02/21 01:17 AM
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Ok so you as a woman can answer this for me...can a man recover is he finds his balls amd acts like a....I dunno, a man.🥺
/r/seduction11/02/21 01:16 AM
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Yeah, if I am actually into a woman. I end up that pathetic simp turd myself still. However if I view a woman as an actual friend and treat her as I would treat my brothers (you know joking around being myself a little goofy, talking to them like a people's (Yes I know how that was written)). Those women tend to crush on me and tell other women what an awesome guy I am and hot etc. I just need to see the women I actually want in that same damn way. Sooo that being said thank you OP I am currentl…
/r/seduction11/02/21 01:15 AM
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Oh yeah she wants him just not inside her or close to her.
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:58 AM
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It is a good tip honestly. I wasn't reading into it u just found it funny and a little odd someone would talk like that.
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:23 PM
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Yeah I always figured anger issues was more of a third date kind of topic lol. I honestly thought most men would actually rather talk about normal things. Well most probably do but damn to honestly think a woman would think "wow you like petty revenge and you talk nasty about people let's breed right now". I should be thankful that guy just put a whole new level of confidence in me.
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:17 PM
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Seriously? There are dudes that would think that is what you talk about on a date? Ok I really need to think higher of myself if this is they game other dudes are bringing. My worst fear about going on dates with women is not knowing what to talk about or bring them with the things I am passionate about.
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:11 PM
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Sounds like me spot on, where can I find this book. Had probably the most beautiful woman smile at me the other day (fairly sure she was) I was within a couple feet and kept saying to myself talk to her and my self talk kept saying what would you say how would you approach blah blah blah. Never occurred to say hello how are you today? Or make some small talk about the wine she was carrying etc. Fml
/r/seduction04/10/20 06:07 PM
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It isn't about actually having anything it is about being content and happy as yourself. You have to have a common interest to have a stable relationship. I am getting in shape, I want to climb mountains and live the van life while selling food out of a mobile kitchen. If a woman i am interested in wants to settle down with the white picket fence and a family guess what we should not be together. I cant take that away from her and vice versa. Now if I am happy and honest with who i am i will att…
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:15 PM
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Yeah and there are plenty of homeless women out there. My question is this, if he is homeless what is he doing spending his time in reddit and online seems he would want to get himself together. Not a judgement just and honest inquiry.
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:09 PM
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Yeah I learned that one the hard way. Even if most ger a girl it definitely isn't the kind if relationship you want.
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:06 PM
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Not going into detail here but just want to say two words to you. Thank you
/r/seduction01/10/20 06:55 PM
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Ok you do bring up some very valid points though I guess I should have taken a breath and maybe made some of my points a bit more clear again I am truly sorry for that. I rarely fly off the proverbial handle but I guess it just felt like you were attacking just to attack. God dammit I kind of wanted to stay mad at you lol but I kind if cant and yes I am the asshole.
/r/seduction25/09/20 06:20 AM
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Yes there are a lot of men who pull that crap. I have never given a gift or treated a woman because I thought that would make them date me or fall in love with me. I have a lot of female friends, most of which are very attractive however I know that there are boundaries and they will always be nothing more than friends. Quite a few I put in the friend zone because they didnt meet my requirements. I had a lot of trouble accepting that I needed to put up the same kind of boundaries and have a woma…
/r/seduction25/09/20 05:24 AM
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I am sorry I called you a narcissist and a bitch. No I do not talk to women irl that way. I do not talk to anyone that way and in no way was that right on my part. As I said I was that way I have changed myself for the better in many ways which is why I curr2ntly have not dated any women in over a year, I feel they deserve the best version of me. I do get kind of caught up when I see people that were like me in the past get hurt doing the same I just want some people to know that there are some …
/r/seduction25/09/20 04:56 AM
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Really you got all of that from what I texted, stop trying to read.betweem the lines. As for me defending my friend yes if a guy looks you in the eye and says I am going to use you for sex and then you go crying to his best friend because he used you for sex then shame on you. As for me being the perpetual nice guy yes I am. I am not saying these things based off of zero evidence I am saying so based on them telling me they are attracted to me and then saying you are just too nice of a person or…
/r/seduction25/09/20 03:39 AM
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I would argue with you about all of this however I can tell it would not make a difference. I just want to leave you with this however. Far to many women look at men as an ATM with a dick leaving far to many of us nice guys sitting in the sidelines watching our douchebag friends leave with a beautiful woman. I have sat with a woman crying on my shoulder because my beat friend simply used her for sex. ( in his defense he was forward with them and his intentions so it was their fault on that) I sp…
/r/seduction24/09/20 04:58 PM
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Honestly this is the single best way I have ever heard this put.
/r/seduction23/09/20 07:56 AM
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