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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	[FR] Made out with a chick on the club for the first time, her friends then cockblocked me At the very least, you get her number and text immediately to meet up later somewhere in the club, or for some food after the club. You obviously had her interested, so you could do one of two things: 1.) Follow my first line of advice and risk a no-show, or 2.) Deflect the shit-test, integrate into the group as a gentleman not looking to ruin their night, and isolate your target. There's a lot of good introductory info in the sidebar. You sound like you have confidence and don't need much advic…	/r/seduction	14/09/13 09:33 PM
1	Self post about the self improvement part and specific advice about how to deal with a current girl problem (well, the problem is AFC me) What other problems in your life? This question never gets asked enough. Your oneitis is probably a crutch.	/r/seduction	14/12/12 07:03 AM
4	What to do when falling out of state? Have an object in your pocket to remind you that you're on sarge duty. A coin, a lighter, a pack of gum, whatever - your talisman.	/r/seduction	10/12/12 02:43 AM
1	Just being a better man Agreed - it's the human experience, everyone gets heartbroken, but you get back on the horse when you get bucked off. For me, my meditation is done first thing when I wake up (or during the morning work out), and last thing when I go to bed. Each time, I go over a couple of questions: What kind of person are you? What kind of person do you want to be? And if it's the morning, I go over goals for the day (what do I plan to accomplish with work, family, and friends), and if it's the evening, I go …	/r/seduction	10/12/12 01:34 AM
1	Just being a better man My ex completely knocked out my old alpha personality and any confidence I had - part of the compromise I gave to be in that relationship and I regret it hardcore. Starting to get back in the game now and gain confidence, back to feel like my old self more. Remind yourself of who you were and who you want to be, daily - meditation helps. It's not a destination, it's a process.	/r/seduction	09/12/12 06:11 AM
1	How do you begin to have a game mindset to pickup and talk to girls if you don't know what you want to do with your life? There's a difference between having your life together and having a set career. There's nothing wrong with aspirations and having a lot of goals; you've got to show her that being a good man doesn't always mean having laser-like focus on one thing for the rest of your life. Don't be unsure of your goals - who you are is constantly in flux. Were your goals the same as they were 5 years ago? A year ago? A week ago? Probably not. A better question is, when you are on your death bed looking back on …	/r/seduction	09/12/12 04:58 AM

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