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The issue here for me is the use of the term nice guy. If you're a "Nice Guy" there is an issue to address one way or another. If you're truly a "nice person" that's different than being a "Nice Guy." This needs to be made clear. A "Nice Guy" is actually a bad person pretending to be an awesome, caring person with the best of intentions when the reality is they're an "incel" trying to "get out of the friend zone." It's a derogatory term for a reason. If you're a "Nice Guy" you should be looking …
/r/seduction24/02/25 10:06 PM
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"Do you like pizza?" Before she can answer, "I'm just joking, everyone likes pizza." It doesn't matter what you say. It matters how you say it, and your intention behind it. I read something once that was pretty helpful for me at the time. It was called the Groot method. Everyone knows what Groot is saying when he says groot. In this thought experiment, it works for you too. Just say "groot" while thinking "hey". Then say "groot" while thinking "you look fine." Then say it when thinking "I want …
/r/seduction31/05/23 03:55 AM
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Oops haha good to know
/r/seduction20/04/23 10:02 AM
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It's fine to treat people nice, but that's what you should be doing. That's like owning a fridge and being like, well it opens and closes. Not that it even turns on, or has any other features. If you're trying to sell a fridge and you're first point is that it opens, that's a red flag. I'm also not advocating being an asshole. I'm explaining that people tend to be with someone who is entertaining over boring, even if it means they are an asshole.
/r/seduction20/04/23 05:35 AM
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We all know this for one reason or another, but nice sucks. Don't be a nice guy. Not even just a /r/niceguy. If the primary way someone describes you is as nice that means that is your standout quality. Nice is just one step away from being an asshole. It's baseline human. Level 0. At best you're boring. No one wants to fuck around with someone who is boring. They'd rather deal with an asshole because at least there is probably entertainment there. There is a difference between being nice and be…
/r/seduction20/04/23 04:27 AM
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Just ask him if he wants to grab some food or drinks at some point and give him your number. That's obvious enough.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:14 PM
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One thing I recently read was that muscular people are perceived to be more narcissistic. That could be the caution women use when approached by muscular men, rather than intimidation.
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:26 AM
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This is a concept I've tried to explain to people long before I knew of "nice guys." If youre tasked to describe someone, generally the first word you can think of will be the most applicable. For instance, how would you describe a fridge? It keeps food cold. You wouldn't say, it applies pressure to a specific spot in your kitchen and uses electricity. They're true, but they don't give a good description of the fridge, because that's not necessarily accurate. When you're describing a person, if …
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:02 AM
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Met a girl on Tinder. We talked a little bit, I asked her a question or said something and she didn't respond. A week later I asked her some random question about something we had talked about previously. She responded, then we hung out for a few months. The whole "don't double text" is more, don't rapidly double text someone - unless that's the style you two have texting. Especially with large messages. It's more of, don't triple text someone after they've clearly ignored you. Or you still can.…
/r/seduction01/08/22 02:34 AM
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It's cliche, for a reason, but just be yourself. If you're putting on an act you're going to find someone that likes the person you're not and it won't work, for non-short term. Don't deal with bullshit. Ever. But if you're past your 20s, jump ship immediately. There's too many people, not enough time, and too much fun shit to do to ever put up with a human in 2020+ that can't get their shit together or act right. If someone is working on themselves, that's different than someone who KNOWS they …
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:13 AM
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It will make you feel better. It releases endorphins, and it helps with stress. So if you are stressed out, and need a boost of happy brain chemicals, yes. But that's temporary. It won't last because your brain will get used to it. If you need to get out of a funk, which will lead to you developing healthy coping mechanisms to help stay out of depression - then yes. You also don't need to have sex to develop those mechanisms. If you're sole focus is to have sex, rather than actually being happy,…
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:21 AM
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You think it's an opinion whether being a "nice guy" is ever acceptable? If you go over to /r/niceguys and read those you'd say "some of these reactions seem reasonable"?
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:32 PM
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Nope. There's zero reason to even spend your time talking to someone like that. They're adults and they can figure their own shit out. No reason for you to give them any more time. "say something shitty" ultimately translates to "be a nice guy" which results it people calling women fat cunts because they didn't want to talk to them. This is being a cunt, so just don't say anything at all. If you want to say something, be honest and open. "The fact that you're saying something shitty to me is rud…
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:03 PM
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This should go without saying, but unfortunately too many people need to hear it. Don't be a cunt. If someone stops talking to you, or says something shitty, move the fuck on. Don't insult the person on the other side, even if you think they deserve it. Even if you know they deserve. Just don't do it. This should go without saying, but unfortunately too many people need to hear it. Don't be a cunt. Yes I wrote that twice because you need to hear it twice.
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:20 AM
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There's a couple ways to look at this. One, if we're going to play the whole "value" game (shout out to Female Dating Strategy, the neck beard basement for women, who love this mentality), then you're fucking up. If you're a high value male, and you're talking to anyone that isn't also high value, you're wasting your time. If someone doesn't immediately see you as high value, that means their judgment is flawed, and you're now proving you're willing to sacrifice your time and energy in pursuits …
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:46 PM
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Same
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:04 PM
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Yeah because most of their clients can only geting intimacy from someone the pay, because they the social skills of a 60s pick up truck. Everyone hates those people, most just have to be nice to them, and even fewer of them get paid by those people. You probably hate their clients too. Moreover, they're not. Going to complain a out the people they don't hate, and they're not going to talk about them in public because A) it's not entertaining, 2) it's rude and D) any smart person trading that wou…
/r/seduction10/03/22 05:11 AM
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Great response, definitely take stock in this one, /u/rubenn89. I would also add that if you want your intentions to be known, just tell her. Obviously wait to see if you actually enjoy being around her and find her attractive during the date. If you do, being straight up and tell her you want to see her again because you're interested in her. If you're really dead set on getting a kiss the first date (which is an arbitrary rule/ideal that I personally wouldn't worry about if I were you), is tel…
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:39 AM
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To be fair, a good number of the people who utilize the services of sex workers do so out of necessity, not convince. There's a reason for that... They're shitty, which is why they need to pay for sex. Non SW say the same shit about those same people, one group just makes money, and deals with more of them consistently.
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:25 AM
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Probably won't be the most popular response, but this is what I would do, personally. Write your phone number on a piece of paper. Then write "that's my number, feel free to text me, but if not I completely understand. (write my name) PS I won't be any more awkward than I already am." She'll either text you or she won't. If she doesn't, you absolutely have to not be any different than you normally are. Don't mention it, nothing even remotely in the realm of eluding to it, etc. For all intensive …
/r/seduction12/11/21 04:54 AM
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Yes you did.
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:06 PM
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I don't disagree with the idea that people can simp on purpose. But you give me the woman of my dreams, and she loves me too, I'm simping hard. Wouldn't think twice.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:51 AM
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You did by posting your comment though. That's how forums work.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:49 AM
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Other people have said it, but I'm going to say it as well. Get in shape. Even if you're not a fat slob, or a scrawny dude. You can still get into better shape. I was not in bad shape in general, but definitely hadn't been to the gym with real consistency in over six years due to college. I was out of shape for sure, and my weight fluctuated between people telling me I look skinny to my own limit of "looking down and can't easily see my dick." Started going to the gym five days a week, and one t…
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:47 AM
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Who gives a fuck what the social norm is? Is that social norm benefitting you? Are you inside the social norm of individuals? No, and no. So if your abiding by the norm and it's not working, why keep doing it? That's like taking toast out with a knife even though you get electrocuted because that's what the rule of the kitchen is.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:41 AM
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This is literally it. Take a chance. If you THINK you're getting a signal, move on it. Girl smiled at you? Talk to her. Don't be afraid to touch someone's body. A shoulder touch his a huge opener. Touch their hand afterwards. If they're still talking to you, read the situation and follow suit. A woman isn't going to do anything she doesn't want to do. If she's hanging out with its because she wants to. Be straight up. If you like someone, make it known. Don't play fucking games and make someone …
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:05 AM
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"Would rather her" not "hes going to." Who said he was going to or had plans to? Are you capable of both reading and comprehending or are two tasks too tough congruently? Also, sorry but I definitely did not read your whole comment before I started replying. I didn't afterwards either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 02:19 PM
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4 kids, 22 years old, not married? You can't figure out why? Thinking do be tough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 11:40 AM
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Could she have actually voted for Trump? Is the delusion she has what makes her a good supporter of someone that would rather her be shipped out if the country, or is she just retarded?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 02:33 PM
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I'm sure the fact that she indicated she doesn't know if she wants marriage, that she has and wants more children, and is catholic all go hand in hand. Being a catholic means you can be a fucking idiot, do whatever you want, lie about it, then delude yourself with some fantasy sky wizard to absolve you of all wrong doings. Follows suit. I'd say those definitely are the worst of the whole post.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 02:22 PM
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So I stepped back and looked at his outfit, he wore tight clothes and stuck his chest out to look buff. And he just had a lot of energy. TLDR; wear clothes that makes your body look good, roll your shoulders back, and stick your chest out. As far as the the shoulder and chest go, that's probably just good posture. Most people have abhorrent posture, slouched, hunched and primed to get hurt. Especially if you're going to the gym and lifting weights. Your arms should hang off your shoulders, and i…
/r/seduction04/07/21 05:55 AM
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This is the same sort of process that celebrities go through, in one way or another. Going from struggling to have it all quickly leaves you with unmanageable chaos that your brain and habits aren't suited to handle. Having wrestled with confidence issues most of my life I can offer you some perspective and advice. First and foremost you're in a stage of using other people's opinions to evaluate your value or worth. You have to get that from yourself first. If you don't you're always going to be…
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:08 PM
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I'm batting 1000 currently.
/r/seduction06/12/20 05:15 PM
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That's solid as fuck. Definitely going to have to use that technique. Now I just need to try and kiss someone so I have an awkward story to tell. Strangers work, right?
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:59 PM
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To be fair, I always know when it's going to work, and I'm not saying I ALWAYS do this. When I do use some variation of it, it always works though. Sometimes you've got to say "are you sure you're okay with this (sex)?" and other times you don't have time to ask before you're already one leg in. It's an art, not a science, boys.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:54 PM
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I mean, people can say whatever they want. I don't think I've said it that exact way, as I don't keep track of everything I say in the moment on dates, but it's definitely not the smoothest. Either way, I'm going for a kiss, not casinova.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:51 PM
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That's fine. Has worked 100% of the times I've used it. If you're not getting weird, you're not getting weird.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:49 PM
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I agree. I also think making your intentions clear, and asking if necessary, is helpful. "hey, I want to kiss you. Is that okay?" It's to the point, and you get your answer.
/r/seduction06/12/20 11:39 AM
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You'd probably do yourself some real good looking for some therapy and a support group. You don't want to start a cycle of finding someone or something to depend on to fulfill needs and wants. Especially given you have a condition that's relatively uncommon - it's not something you're going to want to ignore and not get ahead of mentally. Let alone some of the other things you've mentioned. With that said, being yourself and stepping out of your shell once in a while, or preferably once a day, w…
/r/seduction21/08/20 12:04 PM
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There was a post about using the groot tactic of saying things. Think "I'm hungry" and say "Groot." Think "let's fuck" and say "groot." Think "let's go out" and say "groot." Think "I shit my pants" and say "groot." The way you said groot and the intent behind the same word makes it come off different, even if ever so slightly. This is an important thing to keep in mind. From a purely scientific stand point, the human ear is capable of hearing sounds as quiet as a mouse crawl under a leaf in the …
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:24 PM
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Firstly, do it, own it and be confident. Don't make it into a joke if she doesn't dig it. Start out playful, drop an occasional direct and explicit message, see what that nets, and go from there. "what's up, sexy?" "lol nothing, you?" "oh just hanging out. Thinking about you, how great you are, what I'd do if you were here, wondering what you're up to. Typical stuff!" "what WOULD you do, huh?" This point is where you would decide how to proceed. Since he suggested it, you have the okay from her …
/r/seduction19/07/20 06:31 AM
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If you don't have Facebook, don't make one. If anything is creepy, it's Facebook. Not you.
/r/seduction12/04/20 04:29 AM
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You help build a queen.
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:09 PM
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I just read something about how women are less attracted to men that are easy, essentially. Keep that in mind, if you want to get more action, /u/InherentFrequencies
/r/seduction15/02/20 05:43 AM
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Do you invite them to hang out? Here is an example I have for you. One of my teacher's assistants from a few semesters ago works in a building I work in occasionally. I had asked for her number after the class ended, but she didn't respond. I took it as my answer. I saw we about two months ago in the building I work at and we started talking. We exchanged numbers. A couple weeks later I ask if she wanted to get food. We meet up, get food, then try to figure out what to do afterwards. We drove ar…
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:36 PM
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As an introvert, who has minimal time to be social (I'm currently doing my job-work in the basement of school, alone), I can absolutely understand where you're coming from. It's not easy, but as Neil DeGrasse Tyson once told me, "nothing worth doing is easy." It's not easy to be social and make friends, especially to get to the point where you're the envy of those outside of a large, fun social circle. What you need to do is work smarter. Be very selective with your actions and who you approach.…
/r/seduction10/02/20 03:12 PM
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I absolutely agree with that. Not complementing people on their looks, rather on something they choice is much safer to do. Especially because you never know if something you like is something they hate, and will take it the wrong way. I also want to add, instead if saying "I like that shirt" for example, tell them it's a good shirt. Then it's not a matter of what YOU like, instead you're stating a fact. The shirt looks good is not your opinion necessarily. It's just a minute way of phrasing thi…
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:38 PM
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More good stuff to take away, thanks! I really like the name and homework portions. I never thought about it in those ways.
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:34 PM
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This was an awesome post. Thanks for the insight, it was very interesting. Definitely a lot to take away. I think it's also helpful to point out that you can cold approach people quickly in a situation where you know you'll see someone again. If not to get an initiate read on interest, but to also position yourself to warm approach. Anecdote I cold approached a girl at my school who I had seen around a bunch. I never found the right time to approach her, solely because she was always doing homew…
/r/seduction28/12/19 05:04 PM
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The way someone explained it that I found interesting was based on what your intentions are as opposed to what you're saying. For instance, if your intention is to take a girl home you can do two things: Say "I want to take you home" ; Say anything with the idea of taking her home. The example the person used was to say "groot" out loud or in your head, while thinking each example. I like the color red I like what you're wearing I want to take you home Let's have sex Etc You get it I think. You …
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:58 PM
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I find that flirting with everyone makes it super easy to do with people you actually like, to go off your last point. Obviously guys aren't generally comfortable with other men flirting with them, but you will have male friends that find it funny, if nothing else. That really helps lessen the stigma of doing it. Additionally, there are women that won't like it, but if it's a friendly flirting they generally won't care - especially if you know them. You might think, well if you flirt with everyo…
/r/seduction27/12/19 03:48 AM
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It makes sense the women wouldn't get involved in this as men have much beter upper body strength, which is exactly what's needed here. Why would this trigger anyone?
/r/MGTOW26/12/19 01:33 PM
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I don't agree with that. Giving someone your number who you're unsure about gives them a lot of power, and thus comfort.
/r/seduction25/12/19 08:50 PM
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I asked this girl out over email (bc I want young to see her in person again) about six months ago, just to grab food. She didn't respond, so I left it. A couple of weeks ago we ran into each other, and talked for like an hour. As we departed I gave her my number, expecting nothing. Two or three days later she texted me, and hung out. It's Def not fint anywhere, but it was a really good experience. Moral of the story, if she took your number, that's a good sign. Wait a few days for her to text y…
/r/seduction25/12/19 08:48 PM
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If the escalation is there, and good, I have had success with "I'd like to kiss, is that alright?" Haven't gotten a no.
/r/seduction20/12/19 11:02 PM
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You absolutely should not act disinterested. That's a bad idea. I think the best way to look at it is 10% to 90%, or something similar. When you're not together, the girls you are talking to should only account for 10% of your life. This is because you SHOULD be doing other things like work, working out, pursuing hobbies, hanging out with your friends, etc. You should talk to them through text, for example, to initiate a conversation but not bombard them with messages, and work at hanging out in…
/r/seduction20/12/19 11:56 AM
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This information looks like it will help make a date fun16.
/r/seduction02/12/19 01:35 PM
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Because interacting with people you want to have sex with verses people you actively don't want to have sex with is much different. Straight men treat other men differently than the women they're interested it. Once you build up the skill of being able to be able to hang out with girls you are able to change your expectations and interactions with the women you want. For instance, I work very closely with someone that I absolutely am interested in, but I'm able to separate our relationship from …
/r/seduction22/11/19 11:08 AM
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Make friends with girls, ones you're not interested in.
/r/seduction22/11/19 02:22 AM
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One time I was at a show. Hit it off w a girl, we chatted a bit. Then she went off to do her own thing. Eventually she came back and asked what my name was. I told her, but then realized later she was giving me the opening to ask for her number. Sometimes I still think about it, and it was like 5 years ago. I don't beat myself up about it, but goddamn am I still disappointed in myself.
/r/seduction21/11/19 02:23 AM
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Don't go here. I had a friend who clicked on this link and now he's in a coma. The doctors said there was a severe brain trauma, and he'll never come out of it. Definitely due to having his mind blown.
/r/seduction03/11/19 02:12 PM
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100% what he said. You were frustrated prior to that, it's understandable you'd have your mind on other things. Like he said talk to her next time.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:27 AM
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Honestly, it's probably better you didn't seal the deal. Now you know you can approach her when you see her next time. But you HAVE TO next time you see her, no matter what. It won't be an opportune moment, for either of you, but if you don't then you've completely biffed.
/r/seduction30/09/19 01:06 AM
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You tell her to fly home for food or else she wins the game.
/r/seduction09/08/19 03:16 AM
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3, I would argue, is the easiest to do. The first step is essentially accepting anything that goes wrong in your life as your own doing. Sort of "you're in the tiger cage." If you get stuck, it's your fault for being there. If the tiger gets you, your fault for being there. You get banned from the zoo, your fault for being there. The tiger gets put down, your fault for being there. A better way to put this, is everything that happens that involves you is your responsibility. For instance, if my …
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:27 PM
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Yup. Small talk is vapid and tedious. We're made to feel rude for not wanting to engage in that sort of social interaction, but it's because we have better things (in our opinion) to talk about. Deeper things that stimulate us, rather than drain us. For instance I can stay up until 4AM talking to my friend about why different genres of music attract other people, but if you put me around someone who wants to discuss superficial things like why the boss is a jerk, I'm done after five minutes and …
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:30 AM
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I'll agree with this. I'm an introvert 100%, but I'm not shy at all. The issue is getting drained talking to people, making it often not worth it for me since it means 1) I'm going to be bored or faking, 2) I'll be tired later and less likely to engage in things I actually want to do.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:57 AM
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You cannot discredit the human and environmental elements of in person. That do not exist on Tinder. They're pretty different. You should treat them the same though.
/r/seduction13/07/19 08:45 AM
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I agree with this. Gets you out, but you don't have to talk to anyone. Just be around them
/r/seduction23/06/19 07:22 AM
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I understand it is the same thing, but socially it is not. Even genetically it is not. Since we live in a world heavily dictated by those two things more than reality, that is how we need to behave. You understand that, correct?
/r/seduction14/06/19 04:30 PM
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No its definitely not, socially, at all.
/r/seduction14/06/19 10:02 AM
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Keep in mind that 17m to mid20f is far less awkward than 24+m to 17f. Next time, go for it. You keep getting older and they keep getting younger.
/r/seduction14/06/19 04:11 AM
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Something I always find interesting. 1 is infinitely greater than 0, where as 2 is only twice as big as 1 - less than the difference between 0 and 1. 1 to 10100 is far higher than 1 to 2, yet still less than 0 to 1. To me, seems the first step has the most value ever and matters the most. Nothing will supercede it.
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:25 PM
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I am groot.
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:30 PM
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"Lucky guy." "Tell him I said hi." "Is he single?" If the girl is saying it in a condescending way, trying to be shitty; "And I have standards." "Oh, congratulations. Hope you two are both happy." Pick one, then be on your way. Or make something up. It's like stumbling when you walk up stairs. You can own it, and no one will care. Or you can make any sort of deal about it and the only people who will care are yourself and the people you annoyed by doing so. When was the last time you can remembe…
/r/seduction05/04/19 03:34 AM
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How often do you cold approach people?
/r/seduction23/02/19 06:07 AM
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This is a quality post. Ten ten. I would like to add something to a couple points. First. You own the place. This universe is yours. Yes it's everyone else's, and I won't rant, but no one else exists but you. Don't be a cunt because everyone else is trapped in your universe, but remember you own it. You belong anywhere you are and/or want to be. You may be out of your element places, but it's just like owning a house and never going into the weird depths of your basement. You own it even if it's…
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:30 AM
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While a lot of this wouldn't work, at least for me and seemingly a large number of others on here, I could see a certain type of guy pulling these off. I think part of the issue is reading this list and imagining doing these one after another. Or any more than one of these to the same girl. You'd come off like a bully in a way. I think the point is to get your mind working on things. If messing up someone's yawn with your finger is a bad idea - what could you do in that situation that would work…
/r/seduction09/01/19 03:25 AM
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Accurate
/r/seduction08/01/19 04:12 AM
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I think the assumptions we (all) make aside, this is a solid suggestion. Play to <their> level of confidence. I think that's typically applicable in any situation. Whether that means going to some magnitude away from your own. If you're going to buy a car and the seller knows you have low confidence, they're going to change their behavior. Same as if you have a high level of confidence. You're the seller. Sell yourself - that's what it's all about (relatively). Don't get caught up on the "we all…
/r/seduction08/01/19 04:11 AM
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This is true. Being on the other side of this, I had a relationship with a girl for a short while. We are both in school, and I also work full time. She eventually got mad that I wasn't spending enough time with her, even though she knew I was extremely busy. I did try to make time to see her on break at class, but in reality it was just too much work. My priority was absolutely school (got an A in my two summer classes which had been the hardest to date at that time.) I very well could have pri…
/r/seduction21/11/18 04:58 AM
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The link has the main comment removed.
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:06 PM
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Even when she's smiling at someone else? Got it! "I noticed you were smiling at your phone so you obviously wanted me to come talk to you. What do you think about the fact that if humans don't colonize Mars the species is going to die off?" Will report findings.
/r/seduction03/10/18 08:07 PM
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That's also a good way to go, but your reputation has to preceed you in that situation. That professor is known and has expectations, if you're meeting people for the first time that's not very likely, But I do agree that's a good thing to expect. Expecting people's respect. Also means you have to be worth respecting.
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:41 PM
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This seems like something for /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck (potentially on the fail side of that). Not giving a fuck doesn't mean you give no fucks. It means the things you don't give a fuck about you give no effort. Not giving a fuck is fill of fucks, only they are concentrated into important aspects, meaning their individual numbers are sparse, but they have a high density. Don't care.. About some things, but make sure the things you do care about you focus on.
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:16 PM
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As far as tip three goes, there is a neuance that should be pointed out. Speak loud, but use a deeper tone than just a higher amplitude. If you speak with a higher amplitude but your voice goes to a higher pitch it will have the opposite effect. Also keep this in mind if you're employing tip 2 as well. If you are looking up your voice is likely to be at a higher pitch than if you are looking down.
/r/seduction16/08/18 09:12 PM
2

"You think you could grab that guys dick without him getting upset? "
/r/seduction11/08/18 11:53 PM
3

Damn, I was quite off. Interesting. Anyways, something to consider that sex is a guarded thing for many reasons, one being its power. I would say just start going places that YOU like to hang out. Start talking to everyone there, you'll get a reputation, and then you'll have an easier time talking to anyone you like - especially girls.
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:58 AM
1

Yes, you can read every book on swimming and then drown your first time in water. That's true, but standing on the shoulders of giants puts you at odds with people with experience. They may have the application knowledge, but not the information knowledge and need to aquire that. (At least to be successful). You have every right to be down with fucking trees straight out the pub-spirt as anyone who's gotten to that point from bordem. What is and who decides rights of preference? Do I have the ri…
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:23 AM
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I'm guessing you're still in, or just out of middle/high school. Probably not in a big city, and around a lot of similar race people. (Bonus points, you are or around religious folk)?
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:17 AM
3

Nice post. Good info. I like the examples. I suggest adding what not to do, and why. Double the info.
/r/seduction27/07/18 11:38 PM
3

Read things. (spoiler :I'm about to brag) I've been told I eat pussy like a chick, and fuck like a porn star. I'm naturally good with my hands and mouth, as an artist and musician. I draw well and I can rap very fast. So translating those motor skills aren't very difficult. One thing I have done though is read up on things even after I had done them and was good at pleasuring girls. How to stimulate things, where things are, etc. You can literally always keep learning. Denzel Washington still ta…
/r/seduction27/07/18 11:36 PM
9

As someone that doesn't get compliments on my looks, but then told I am attractive, I can tell you it will make a difference. I don't take compliments well in general, but as a guy I've come to never expect them unless I did great work. Nothing about me personally is complimented, it's what I can produce that is the center of scrutiny. Unless I'm being made fun of for what I look like, or as a person. Not to say that occurs now as an adult, but for about 12+ years in school it definitely has an …
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:40 AM
1

Don't be too subtle about it, but don't be vulgar or creepy. For instance I was talking to a girl about music, and I mentioned that I like rap, specifically fast rap because I've always been good with my tongue and I like the way it sounds. That wasn't how I worded it exactly, but that was it more or less. I've made a few more comments like that throughout our conversations. Today she teased me for not emailing her back, so comments like that work.
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:12 AM
1

Why does that matter? You wanted to compliment someone?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:48 PM
1

Step 0. Be genuine. Sure the preceding steps help, but if you want to compliment someone, do it and mean it. It doesn't matter how the person reacts, because you're not doing it for the reaction. Unless you are, in which case you don't want to compliment someone. You want the reaction you want. Does it matter if you're attractive to that person if you want to give them a compliment?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 12:29 PM
2

Someone I know got perma banned for calling a guy a cunt. Said guy was actually trans, and that's why they banned him.. Except the person identified as a guy, so why is that an issue? This guy I know was told if they make another account they're banning it based on his IP.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 04:38 AM
0

Ghetto, suburbs, beach front community, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:43 PM
2

Aka be honest and up front.
/r/seduction19/05/18 08:24 PM
2

Also learn the subtle art of not giving a fuck. It's a struggle, but once you figure that out you'll be well on your way.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:42 AM
6

Work on your confidence. A good place to start is talking to people at the grocery store. You're trapped in line with these people, especially the workers. Talk to them while they're scanning your stuff. It's also good because you can learn how people react to what you say, and you can study their body language. They have a couple ways they can stand, so you can analyze the more slight changes they make. Go to the gym. Make sure youre always wearing something outside the house you'd want to be s…
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:41 AM
1

Tip #-1.0 have a sizeable bank account. Tip #-1.5 have a rich family.
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:39 AM
1

Can you give any tips?
/r/seduction04/04/18 03:16 PM
5

I read the subscripts you put on the side, and ignored most of the actual texting. Regardless of the content I thought this was very interesting. I tend to be too analytical and read into things, so I liked this.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:07 PM
2

I stopped coming to most of the threads here, and commenting far less, because the people who post in here tend to be hurt boys who are sexist as fuck, or have empathy issues. I'm not saying everyone is like that, but trying to have a two sided conversation in this sub is nearly impossible. Just to touch on the "many people post and leave" type comment. Keep in mind a good number of people in here are bitter or just shitty humans. Yes, women can be a problem, but too many people think women Are …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 04:03 AM
1

You know what people like and how they treat the person doing something for them, if nothing else. You would also see how they behave if their order is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 10:05 AM
5

The bitch work part, I think, is what many people over look in the department if importance. Coffee runs give you a very good insight into a lot about many people.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 09:47 PM
1

When I saw the thumbnail for this I literally thought it was a drawing. Like a caricature... She's real...?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 01:06 PM
3

I tried something similar. I gave up after two hours over two days because it was too over whelming. Men are gross.
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:15 PM
2

Yes, break this down and lesson this story.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 05:50 PM
1

Similar experience. I grew up in a fairly small town. Growing up it seemed girls were not interested in sex, only guys were. Man oh man, what it must be like to be a girl. It had to be awful. A guy can openly admit the want sex and 90% of the time it's no big deal. When a girl does it, it is one. The whole "one lock opening to a bunch of keys is a shit lock. One key opening a bunch of locks is a great key" type of mentality hinders boys from realizing girls want to fuck to, and not just sluts. S…
/r/seduction03/02/17 06:50 AM
1

What sort of stuff would you be interested in reading here? I know you insinuated non-beginner stuff, but what would that include?
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:07 PM
1

Why? I'm curious.
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:50 AM
1

That's certainly one way to do it, and maybe it's the best way. I'm not sure why not ask to do that necessarily, but I'm sure the two of us could come up with a pretty sizable list if why not. Different people, different tactics I suppose.
/r/seduction06/10/16 11:00 AM
2

Read Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan if you're going to not read that one.
/r/seduction22/06/16 12:56 AM
1

You're correct.
/r/seduction20/06/16 12:51 PM
2

The reason to practice a smile is because sometimes your mind and body aren't connected to your will. Knowing how to fake a smile, while making it look real, allows you to be in control of your meat sack. If you're not, it's in control of you.
/r/seduction20/06/16 12:51 PM
2

Practice this on other people. A great way I've found to practice not looking away from people is to walk up a busy road, with a lot if traffic. You can stare at people to get better at doing it, and not worry about doing it for too long because the environment forces a break. All you have to do is stare right into people's eyes. As you walk and they drive away you can keep eye contact for longer than you want, and not feel weird. Something else to keep in mind is you'll never see those people a…
/r/seduction20/06/16 12:49 PM
1

It's cliché and all that, but my first bit of advice is worry about and like yourself first. The women will come, especially if you have the skills to pull em.
/r/seduction03/06/16 12:25 PM
3

Something I've noticed, just in general not just related to "seduction", is not to ask people Why questions. To instead phrase them as What questions. It makes them easier to answer, because it's more inquisitive rather than being an accusation; dat human brain doe.
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:51 AM
4

Why?
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:49 AM
2

"you just need to get out of your own way." Truth.
/r/seduction25/04/16 01:39 PM
2

He also stated "if that's what you actually want." So YOU wouldn't care about that, but someone else might. You may have missed the point.
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:25 PM
1

You're definitely correct. Practice makes perfect, but I think to begin with you need to force yourself to make mistakes, especially early on. Playing it long enough you'll understand better, and be more efficient.
/r/seduction12/12/15 12:40 PM
2

The not giving a fuck aspect changes your life. I picture it like playing Fallout 4, atm. You put in time, but only get a certain number of points to put into talents before the time becomes more valuable. You don't want to make mistakes, but not doing anything is going to not help either. So say fuck it, think about it, then act. Don't over think, and don't dwell. Too often that happens. Giving too much of a fuck is a hindrance and ruins things.
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:30 AM
1

Talk to her if you're bored. Use her for experience and experiments, but remember that some mice are bred for death.
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:14 AM
5

Compliment her on something she's wearing or her make up. Especially if she has good make up. For women that's something they find important, especially if they put the time in. Show her appreciation for her efforts. Only do that if you actually believe it though. Don't lie, it will bite you in the ass later. For example, she has a shirt on you think is cool. Or maybe a dress with a pattern you like. You want to say "whoa, that's a cool <clothing>!" or "Hey, that eye liner looks really good." Th…
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:12 AM
0

My advice. Go do it anyways. You need the adventure. If you don't think you do, you're not thinking.
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:57 AM
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I've stopped talking to girls before who reciprocated interest because they're just not interesting enough. Or they're weird or ended up being gross. Being over baring, or clingy. Showing signs of bad manners or being dumb. Basically if someone sucks after I get to know them, I'll stop talking to them. If you're interested in me, that's only my business while I'm in the market for it. "Be a better person" ; you're aware of what you're lacking. Fix it. Other people know it too.
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:56 AM
1

This is going to sound a bit sexist, but bare with me. As the man, you are the controller. You're driving the situation and essential women need to be told what to do, like children. That's not to say they're all like that, but if you have that notion in your head, it helps significantly and gives you some foresight and understanding about how they behave. This makes it easier to not get overly frustrated or hurt. "They're over grown children, and children are kind of dicks and usually dumb." I'…
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:50 AM
1

Yes and no. Talk to her like a friend if you want to be friends. If you only want sex, don't overly complicate the situation if you don't want to be friends with her. Being friends with her is how you'll get attached.
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:38 AM
2

I'm going to make some assumptions. Don't take any of it the wrong way, as I'm just trying to figure a few things out. You really really like her, but you only noticed how you felt about her after she was pursuing you. You may have noticed her beforehand, but if you two never talked or hung out, you wouldn't have gone out of your way to meet her. Is that correct? If that's not the case, skip the next part. You probably only really like her because she has shown interest in you. You're not in a b…
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:37 AM
1

I would suggest not asking if she's still up for it. That's giving her a way to back out. Tell her what the plans are, but ask if those will work for her.
/r/seduction07/11/15 05:24 AM
33

Yessir
/r/seduction05/05/15 06:46 PM
1

This is one of the better things I've read on here in a while.
/r/seduction02/05/15 08:30 PM
1

Originally it started that way?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 06:16 PM
1

Please quote him exactly where he tried to fight those facts.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:53 PM
-1

I don't think there's a date rape drug epidemic. I know more men get beat by their spouses than women do. I know how things really are. They really are a bit scary for women. They're surrounded by proverbial monsters all day in general. I find myself even looking at women going, yeah I'd fuck her. Oh she was nice, yeah she wants to fuck. That's a hostile environment for people who don't want to fuck. That's the reality. I'm all for true equality, no one is rightfully better than anyone else. No …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:51 PM
-1

Thanks man. I'm glad there's reason in this sub. It's not all bad obviously, but some people here.... Well let's say feminism existed originally for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:51 PM
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The difference is that paparazzi aren't dangerous. You have a general sense of their limits and what to expect. Badge Bench guy could have wanted to anything. My first thought was he's working on building the confidence and skills to impersonate a police officer so he can do shitty things. Multi millionaires by in large don't have to worry about that. I see what you're saying, though for sure. I think what it comes down to is white girl pussy is typically the gold standard for sex. Regardless of…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:24 PM
-6

This. Im glad I'm a white male in America for various reasons, one of them being not ever having to deal with anyone I don't want to generally. Being ogled at by upwards of 95% of people would fucking suck. Nearly all men who just want to fuck you, and nearly all women that hate you. That includes the fucking super creepy men that act hyper sketchy. I've seen that happen first hand by someone who didn't think I noticed. Myself and three women walk by this guy sitting on a bench all alone. And as…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:05 PM
1

Open the car door when she gets in, definitely. Don't open it for her to get out, but if you're there offer your hand for them once she opens the door.
/r/seduction29/04/15 04:07 AM
1

I'll have to try the mirroring vibes thing out. That's an interesting concept. But I'm confused where the pretending to strangle, and violently dominate her idea is coming from?
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:53 AM
1

Lmao I was expecting beta, rapist was a nice twist Haha You're probably right. I'm also a rapist so that doesn't help my case, huh?
/r/seduction16/04/15 11:49 AM
1

Well humans are animals, so yes.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:48 AM
1

/r/howtonotgiveafuck
/r/seduction15/04/15 11:37 AM
1

That wouldn't be introverted, for sure. Probably not timid either though. Introverted is that you're more reactive than active basically. You're more in your head than you're outside of it. Timid is shy and quiet. I'm only shy and quiet when I feel it's best suited for the situation I'm in; which subsequently is more often than not, but I'm not timid by any means. If I want something and find it's worth the effort, I go for it.
/r/seduction10/04/15 04:21 AM
1

My dad makes awesome pancakes.
/r/seduction07/04/15 01:41 PM
1

Kiss on the first date. Is that what you want? Yes; then do it.
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:24 AM
3

I know men who's love for women are based on need. Need not to be lonely, bored, sexually frustrated. Will jump ship the minute a better catch possibly rears. In fact I know more men like that then women, to be honest. I know more women who are committed to their men. It could be due to lack of better alternatives though. I feel like that's a tad bit of a generalization.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:24 PM
-1

I was going to write something like this. This is totally the main reason.
/r/seduction08/02/15 06:04 PM
2

Isn't this like sleeping with a co-worker?
/r/seduction24/01/15 05:21 PM
11

To be honest, I've had women I think are unattractive tell me they think I look good, or would like to talk, and I feel the same way.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:48 PM
2

I started this yesterday. Started by asking some lady if she had change for 5 dimes to save myself time from going into a gas station. Later that night I ended up in a bar, having talked to two girls, some cool guy, and got my and my friend two free drinks each. I would like to attribute it to knowing I had my rejection quota made.
/r/seduction17/01/15 09:24 PM
2

The second girl you should have said something like, "well I can help you with that, what do you like to do for fun?" or "ah, so you're also into <something boring you're into>?" The third girl you should have made a joke, or asked her why, or said something to make her feel good about herself perhaps.
/r/seduction15/01/15 05:05 PM
8

Someone ran an Unreal Tournament game on the computer for three years, full of 16 bots. At first they all ran around and killed each other, but eventually, as the owner decided to go into the game noticing an odd kill/death ratio, he noticed none of the bots moved. All they did was watch him as he ran around. He decided to kill one of the bots, which caused the 15 other bots to hunt him down and promptly kill him. The bots learned that the only way to win (aka not die) is not to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:08 AM
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