Spectralgeth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Daygaming in Canada	Conversation	Spectralgeth	/r/seduction	16/07/21 06:05 PM

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1	Had an awesome date with a tall girl This is a great insight and it goes to show why you shouldnt be surprised if youre rejected in those examples. If I really try to put a finger on what it is I think Im fearing, I think Im humble enough that I can accept a loss or a defeat, not every girl is going to like me and thats fine, in fact I wouldn't even want that. But I think its mostly the pressure that I put on myself, Im thinking I will absolutely need to win them over or make a killer impression if there's any chance of succeeding,…	/r/seduction	28/12/21 11:17 PM
1	Had an awesome date with a tall girl Ya, absolutely. Well Im still struggling to find it within me to approach them and I know deep down its a deep rooted fear of rejection.. but I cant seem to figure out, why. I've even put my mind through the paces of what it would be like, I've even experienced it a small handful of times in person, and it still paralyzes me from taking action a lot of the time. I get very hyper sensitive around timing and location and don't like to cause a scene. On top of that, I think my personality is just n…	/r/seduction	28/12/21 10:09 PM
1	Had an awesome date with a tall girl It's amazing man. And we literally have polar opposite problems in life haha.	/r/seduction	28/12/21 09:10 PM
3	Had an awesome date with a tall girl I just want to chime in that I find this pretty commendable, seriously congrats on this. Im a tall man, 6'3" and it doesnt matter too much what the girl looks like, I just struggle in general. When you take in the fact that most taller women (5'9" and up) are probably going to have a hard time finding a match that's their height or taller, this even more remarkable. I say this because on average/balance of probabilities, most women will say they want a man that is taller than them. Like seriousl…	/r/seduction	28/12/21 04:33 PM
1	[deleted by user] I think its a mix of both and it depends on your focus and your goals. If you know youre going out often enough I dont think you need to beat yourself up about it and similarly I think it would be counterproductive to your goals - I feel as though girls would sense that you are pushing yourself out there to speak to them and it could come across as a more relaxed energy if you're actually doing it because you want to have a good time naturally. Force yourself a bit more in the beginning probably…	/r/seduction	19/09/21 02:23 AM
1	Doing my first cold approach tomorrow Im in near the exact same place as you with this. Let us know how it went!	/r/seduction	03/08/21 11:19 PM
9	[deleted by user] Basically this comes down to funnel, and you want to get as many leads in your pool as possible. Do you practice daygame, what is your social media like? etc. I'm no pro at those things but Ive had a few of these kinds of relationships in my life, Ill be honest most of them came from online dating. The more you put yourself in situations where youre exposed to women, hopefully women you want to have flings with... you should eventually build the practice/reps/experience whatever you want to call…	/r/seduction	16/07/21 06:02 PM