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/r/seduction16/09/24 03:55 PM
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Honestly idk why I'm here, I left the sub after this post lmao. This guy is doing the most u rly don't need to do any of that shit to get girls
/r/seduction09/05/24 04:28 AM
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Yeah it’s cringe lmfao
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:18 PM
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This is so cringe lol. Who tf counts how many girls they make out with ur not collecting Pokémon. Seriously what’s the point of this…? An ego boost? There’s a dude in ur hometown who put in 1% of this effort and he’s in love
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:12 PM
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Lmfao
/r/seduction01/05/24 10:37 PM
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I rly don’t think it matters much. If she’s into you she’ll want to keep talking no matter the platform, but if she’s not she won’t wanna give you her number. You don’t have to put in effort to try to stand out from other guys she already liked u enough to swipe and respond
/r/seduction01/05/24 10:36 PM
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Totally agree. Hinge is to find a date, not to aimlessly swipe
/r/seduction01/05/24 06:09 PM
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Why? I meet a lot of cool ppl
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:36 PM
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I agree with him, on tinder especially just write something short and sweet. But it’s so much better to be authentic than generic. I have one that says “I always fall for - socialists” or something similar. Any girl who hates socialism will swipe left but I prolly wasn’t gonna vibe with them anyway. But now I get girls who are actually rly excited to talk to me cuz I like the same shit they do. Being generic just means being boring, nobody wants boring
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:19 PM
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I don’t even ask for a number until the dates guaranteed. What’s the point when u can jus talk on the app
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:12 PM
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Social media is more about seeming authentic than seeming rich or popular or whatever. It’s not even just a waste of money, it would actively be bad for your dating life and your life full stop
/r/seduction27/04/24 04:35 AM
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Idk dude saying “kiss close” is so cringe to me. Like ur tryna check off a box or some shit. Some ppl don’t like to have sex on the first date and I’m not tryna force shit. We hit it off, we’ll fuck when she feels comfortable, prolly next date the way things are going
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:41 AM
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Ur proving my point
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:16 AM
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That’s a good point! That’s exactly what happened. I think I get annoyed when gurus say to do weird shit like order for her. Cuz I actually ordered based on her suggestions, got ice cream cuz she suggested it, and let her be the tour guide for the neighborhood. And it took a lot of pressure off me cuz it would’ve been stressful to plan a date in an area I don’t know at all
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:20 PM
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Some tips I wish I knew my first time: Biggest thing: focus on the sex. Not the bs in your head. There’s no right way to do it, ur not making a fool of yourself. I had so much bad sex at the beginning cuz I’d just be totally in my head and not even enjoy it. Also helps me personally to remind myself that I can trust her. Communicate a lot - tell her how good shit feels, ask her questions “do u like it when I touch your pussy like that” etc. if you say it in an explicit way like that it’s pretty …
/r/seduction17/04/24 07:43 PM
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A whole week is too much. She could’ve just missed the message. 3 days give or take
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:33 AM
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Could be that you’re waiting too long to text? Text her the day after don’t play games
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:36 PM
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I assume he means he gave her a massage. That sounds a little unnecessary to me, you can just keep flirting until the tension builds and then kiss her
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:28 PM
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Again, I have to push back against this. You are always talking to a “specific person.” Other people should be treated as individuals, not just practice dummies for building your confidence. Asking people directions when you don’t need directions is wasting their time and yours. Pick topics that will make both of your days better
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:09 PM
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This is NOT the best way to go about learning cold approach. You’re training yourself to be disingenuous, which is unhealthy and ultimately not gonna get you laid as much as being genuine (lots of girls sniff that out immediately). OP is right that you should train yourself to talk to people, but for the love of god don’t ask randos, male or female, for directions to somewhere you don’t need directions to. Eventually in a convo with a girl you like she’ll be thinking “wait a second, did he even …
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:16 PM
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Lmao thrust thrust 3000
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:00 PM
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Watching some infields on YouTube can help. Check out A.G. Hayden he does game reviews and they’re so good to see what works. Coach Kyle is good too. Edit: I also like Playing with Fire but he’s not a natural, which is actually great because it shows you you don’t have to be super witty to have great game
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:29 PM
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Just think “fun and flirty vibe” and don’t overthink it!
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:24 PM
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Hahaha you’re totally right it can be really hard to find people who like what you like I’ve been there. What I’ve found is there are two things you need to have in order to find girls who like what you do: You need to be into things outside of time wasters like tiktok (I’d also put video games in this category, especially since girls don’t tend to play video games). Seems like you’ve got that covered though with how you described yourself. You need to go to places where other people who like th…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:38 PM
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Truth
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:10 PM
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No problem! Good luck man
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:51 PM
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Thanks man! I’m sure you could find exercises online if you do a little digging. But for me it’s all about having a relaxed state of mind in a conversation. You’re probably way better at this than you think you are. When you see a stop sign that says “speed hump” and you immediately think of sex, that’s free association. You just have to let your mind make connections and that only happens when you’re feeling loose
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:46 PM
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Yeah that’s fair thanks!
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:28 AM
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I mean yeah it def makes it easier to attract someone if you’re physically attractive lol this is no secret
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:48 PM
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Well what I mean is you can make anything slightly flirty or sexual by saying it in the right way or smiling with eye contact, touching her, etc. The PUA community focuses a lot on lines to say, but it doesn’t really matter what you say as long as she understands that you’re into her. When the conversation is fun and you’re both enjoying yourselves, there are always opportunities to tell her you think she’s attractive. Flirting with really heavy sexual overtones is fun, but not a necessary condi…
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:45 PM
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I think you’re missing the point but I remember she said “I’m older” than her sister and I said “wow you’re the hottest 60 yr old ive ever seen” doesn’t really matter what words you say context is everything
/r/seduction24/10/21 05:18 PM
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I know man it’s crazy I should probably be charging people for this cheat code
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:31 PM
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This
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:10 PM
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But it’s such an ego high tho
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:23 AM
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What’s crazy is that a lot of Hollywood movies actually portray really attractive masculine men, but men don’t watch them! Ever seen the first Twilight? I watched it the other day and Pattinson is the archetypal strong male. This is a book written by women for women and it shows you they know EXACTLY why they want in a man
/r/seduction12/10/21 07:51 PM
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Being friends with females does not mean you originally wanted to sleep with them, unless you have no standards and would sleep with 100% of women. There are plenty of circumstances where a friendship is preferable to sex with a girl. Maybe you don’t find her attractive, or she has a boyfriend, or you have other girls in your life/ a girlfriend, or you have already tried a sexual relationship and it didn’t work, or she’s too young for you, too old for you, my dude the list goes on. I truly belie…
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:24 AM
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As cruel as that sounds I think it’s totally true
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:58 PM
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Dude, sexism is also a social trend. I agree with that of course. I think I rambled a little, it’s late. I’ll retract that statement about emotion in sex because I was using the term emotion in a different way than we’ve been using it, which is moving the goalposts a bit and wasn’t useful to my point. I see what you’re getting at and it’s definitely a more palatable idea without OPs sexism. I think I agree with you, actually. What we disagree on, and this is something that’s near impossible to v…
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:51 AM
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He was very clear about what he meant, and purposely used language that implies a power struggle between men and women, with sex as something paid to a man in exchange for emotional intimacy. Don’t try to twist his words into something more charitable. That being said, despite the fact that your argument ditches the overt sexism, I think you’re still wrong. None of our actions are made in a vacuum that ignores social trends. Women, because of the possibility of getting pregnant and all that enta…
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:07 AM
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Oh you’re totally right, there are tons of people who still believe this crap. This post somehow got 20 upvotes. I mean that it’s an old, disproven idea rooted in sexism.
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:51 AM
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Exactly what I’m trying to get him to understand. I really get the feeling we’re arguing with an inexperienced 19 yr old here. Fundamentally what this all boils down to is that he doesn’t think women like sex. Kind of mind blowing that people believe this shit
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:44 AM
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Ok in that case I’ll respond but I don’t have time to keep going with this very long. You really just have to start talking to women if you want to understand them better. Women don’t want a relationship without sex either, unless it’s a friendship. When a woman decides to have sex with a man, part of the “value” a man is giving her is the sex. Women are perfectly capable of emotionless sex. Fwb relationships aren’t just men holding emotions hostage. The successful ones are generally two people …
/r/seduction03/10/21 08:03 PM
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I don’t know what to tell you to make you understand human relationships better except to reread my comment and genuinely wonder if you could be wrong. Because you really don’t understand women
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:29 PM
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Yep. Exactly
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:25 PM
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You’re right, it’s not meaningless. It’s nefarious
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:12 PM
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This is a really damaging mentality, and pretty antiquated too. Viewing sex as something a woman gives you is commodifying something that should be a shared experience. I think you’re really misunderstanding female sexuality. You said women give sex in order to receive emotional commitment. Don’t you think women want sex as well? Or is sex just something that women push through for the enjoyment of the man? What about men? Do men not have emotions? I for one would like emotional commitment from …
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:11 PM
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Bro what are you talking about…?? What would you know about a woman’s sex drive? I promise you you’re wrong I have a million girl-friends and the way they talk they DO NOT have a lower sex drive. And the girls I’ve been with were craving sex more than I was consistently. You have no idea what you’re talking about Edit: the reason people think they have a lower sex drive is because they are 1.) conditioned to show their love of sex less and 2.) forced to vet men much more thoroughly than men vet …
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:55 AM
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I do that a lot, good point
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:36 AM
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Yeah I agree I’m constantly told that I’m good looking and in person I can flirt and get a date with almost anyone. And my friends have told me my pics are good but I still have like 5% success rate on tinder Im just bad at tinder convos for some reason.
/r/seduction24/09/21 02:21 AM
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What’s your opener?
/r/seduction24/09/21 02:15 AM
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Be careful extrapolating your own experiences to the world as a whole. This is not most people’s experience
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:48 AM
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Fair enough!
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:57 PM
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This is a hard topic because we’re both right, of course. I guess I’m more skeptical than you of the effectiveness of creating feelings. My instinct is to throw back your “don’t cover up your feelings with situations” point by saying that trying to change what you feel mentally can also be a way of covering up or ignoring a problem. I do agree that something like meditation can be a good way to combat loneliness, but I disagree that the purpose should be to try to change your feelings. My best e…
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:36 PM
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This is a good point. I don’t think the original comment is the best way to go about it either. Might be better to start small and just make small talk with people in the elevator etc. There are more opportunities than people realize
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:48 PM
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Don’t you think it might be better to put yourself in situations where you won’t feel lonely, instead of manufacturing feelings? Eg. Become incredibly comfortable socializing and have some really close friends
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:44 PM
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Good idea! Any favorites?
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:49 AM
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Ooh that’s actually a great idea!! If only I was a better cook
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:05 AM
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Thanks! It’s gonna rain so the outdoor stuff won’t work, and idk if I can find indoor music that isn’t at a bar. And museums will be closed after dinner. But maybe I’ll pick up Jenga or something
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:08 PM
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Ooh good idea. Like watch a horror movie and drink for every jump scare
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:56 PM
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I totally disagree. Everyone at this age drinks together underage or not. Regardless, say we don’t drink. What’s something else you would do instead?
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:41 PM
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Hm maybe I should’ve mentioned that I’m 22. I guess without more context this comes off a little creepy
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:26 PM
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Well even in the short term you should never be giving blanket indifference. You want to make it very clear you are interested in the person, but if she shit tests you or gives negative reactions, THEN is the time for indifference
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:32 AM
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Yeah… indifference isn’t attractive, confidence (he feeling that you’ll be ok with or without her) is. She still wants to feel wanted. Nobody wants to feel like you don’t even care about getting into a relationship with them
/r/seduction22/07/21 02:24 AM
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You did great! Here’s two things to do next time: “Are you a couple?” “No, not yet ;).” As she’s leaving: “hey, wanna give me your number?”
/r/seduction03/06/21 04:03 AM
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I like both of these mindsets
/r/seduction10/05/21 10:36 AM
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I thought I had seen this before...
/r/seduction10/05/21 02:17 AM
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My dude... ur projecting a little I think. Why do you feel the need to put him down for seeing things differently than you? Maybe it’s important for your self worth to feel like you’re better than him? Self confidence can mean different things to different people. What he said and what OP said don’t have to be mutually exclusive
/r/seduction09/05/21 03:03 PM
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U didn’t get her number...?
/r/seduction30/04/21 10:39 AM
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I think you’ve probably done more reading on this, and I don’t really feel like finding the studies I read to support my argument, but I have a feeling that what you’re saying isn’t mutually exclusive with the idea that refined sugar isn’t good for you. There can be multiple causes of a problem
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:23 PM
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Out of curiosity, what did the dating advice subreddit say? Amazing that they had such a negative response I can’t imagine why they would take your post down
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:19 PM
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I agree with your last point. Also pushing past failure is just muscle compensation so it’s usually not useful. You’re also right that hormone regulation with protein and fat is important, and calories cause weight gain as opposed to sugar consumption. That being said, the more sugar you eat the more insulin resistance you get and the more likely you are to get diabetes. You also have worse mood regulation, are more likely to binge eat (cuz sugar is addictive), and more chance of getting cancer …
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:00 PM
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Cutting sugar is pretty well suported by science as far as I know... what’s your gripe with that point?
/r/seduction03/04/21 02:40 PM
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