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3

Would be super valuable thanks
/r/TheRedPill09/02/21 02:49 AM
1

Yeah so just invite them over, and be like, "Oh hey this is Stacey, and this is Tracey. Now kiss."?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:49 AM
1

Thanks I read the guide, it says "get them together, don't go on a date". So I assume invite both over saying I'll have friend and some drinks?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 12:03 AM
1

Curious about the 3 some logistics. I have 2 plates who are open to a 3 some. How do I set it up? Just invite both girls over at the same time and hope they vibe?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 10:45 PM
0

That's an expensive diet
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:35 PM
2

Give it time bro. This shit can take months to process. Most guys go through it so just part of the journey. Some say fuck other bitches but in my case it didn't really help. What did help was getting into a routine and doing a challenge like #75hard.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 11:21 AM
19

OP did you chat to my ex LTR? That's basically her to the core, and she posted that I was emotionally abusing her as a result on her insta, 2 years after we broke up...
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 08:29 AM
82

What's your number? I'll ask your permission next time.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:34 AM
1

Well your choice is to keep fucking her or leave on your terms. Either way, the ball is always in your court.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 08:47 AM
3

That's you being in her frame. Instead remember YOU are the prize. And she is lucky to hang with you. And if she doesn't want to, she's missing out.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:00 AM
5

Sounds like you don't have your girl in check. Now, you don't go about Sperging red pill to women but you can definitely stand up to their hypocrisy that western women are "oppressed".
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 02:58 AM
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Tattoos for a lot of guys are psychological armour. Basically to protect the inner pussy.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/20 12:38 AM
8

The way I see it always worth a shot if you find her attractive. Be their cheat meal.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:58 PM
2

Message once, if no reply, try again in a week or two with something relevant to earlier convo. Don't ask her where she has been or why she didn't reply initially.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:22 AM
11

"Not always a douchebag " does the trick for me
/r/askTRP30/06/20 05:12 AM
15

Unfortunately Australia is the same. Lots of fit guys and too many land whales with overinflated egos
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 05:47 AM
11

That's just autism.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:25 PM
0

The main take away here: don't be a slave bitch to coffee. It's an addiction and it's not good for your health. It messes up your stomach and digestion.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 03:05 AM
1

Yep. I'm in a similar situation and deep down just miss the social validation from all of my friends seeing me with a solid 8.5. And that comes from insecurity. We just have to learn to love ourselves more.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:29 AM
1

Great post thanks! Where do you find these dames?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 03:05 PM
7

If there is no driving reason why you are doing improvement no system will stick.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 02:15 AM
1

Damn that's a sobering thing to see before bed and every morning
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:54 AM
2

I wanted to have higher quality women, so came across the pill
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:53 AM
3

Please do
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:53 AM
2

Inner game came from trusting myself, by doing the tasks I promised myself I would do, no matter what. 5 second rule book helped. So did doing #75hard challenge.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 10:40 PM
3

Going to continue my hobby: archery. As for gym, thinking of cancelling the membership as really loving kettle bell workouts and doing calisthenics.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 09:57 PM
3

Can confirm that after being "Bad boy" type with a girl, she left for a sensitive dude. I give them 6 months for the cycle to repeat.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 01:08 PM
3

You can be kind though. Nice is just being a pushover. Kind is rewarding for good behavior.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 11:25 PM
2

You look young and that is actually a pretty good body for a young guy. You have a good base foundation, so build on that.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:42 AM
3

25? That's the twilight. 30+ is post wall
/r/askTRP07/03/20 02:18 AM
1

Hey man, remember you too. How do I get past this Neediness phase? Do I ride it out and let the emotions simmer away, or replace my focus and attention with a bigger goal.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:09 AM
1

Commonly overlooked: Sleep at a set bedtime each night.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/20 09:55 PM
1

The lol is on you, I slept with the same girl that night. And being complemented on clothing is different, because people say it about weird looking shit like scarves with dog shit print or something. It's the shock value there.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 04:01 AM
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this is some cringe shit right here
/r/askTRP05/02/20 07:39 AM
1

That's some gold material there. The dog training bit makes sense.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 12:23 PM
5

Doing anything which makes you feel a pang in your gut after. Anything not congruent with your internal state.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 03:15 AM
5

Guaranteed. Good thing I still have 2 side plates, so life will move on.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:15 AM
2

Yeah I remember thinking your response was harsh but also deep down knew it was right. Cheers for the tough love brother.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:14 AM
3

That was her job while at uni. But yeah I agree.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 10:54 AM
6

Recently took off my shirt off at a festival to put on something underneath, and the girl next to me just went, whoa your pecs are amazing. Yeah girls like muscles. Massive ego trip when they complement them too.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 04:07 AM
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Update: saw her last night. Told her it was unacceptable for her to do this. She acted genuinely surprised about why I think it's a big deal. Then said she's going to go home because she doesn't like being told what to do. So I said see ya. She walked out and just stood at the door way staring at me. Then proceeded to apologize and sexy time.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 11:07 PM
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What the OP is saying is focus on the process not the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 08:43 PM
1

My ex does that 2 years later on her Insta. How her current boyfriend puts up with that shit I'll never know.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:29 PM
1

Only option? No. Hottest option right now yes. That's probably clouding my judgement, so I see your point dude. More red pill to absorb for me yet...
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:57 AM
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Simply followed the 10 week plan in the book.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:33 AM
2

I had a similar experience. Was a perfect time to go through some emotional integration work, to integrate those feelings of loss and despair. "The Presence Process" was a book that really helped. And keep slamming those HB7s while hunting for HB9s
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:21 AM
1

I really appreciate that further clarification. I'm certainly going to keep my options open. I'll observe her behavior even closer now. Again thanks man.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:06 AM
1

Really? I clearly told her she violated a boundary. And withdrew attention. It's her job now to get off the thin ice with sucking up to me. Now if she did this a 2nd time that would be a different story. Or am I missing something.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:50 PM
1

That's the plan. I won't reach out or reply to her until I'm back on Friday. We previously made plans for the Friday night but I'll be bailing on those.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:23 PM
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6'3 9.9%bf 95kg bench, 150kg dl, shit all squat
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:51 AM
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Well fellas, thank you for your comments/advice. Just had this text exchange with her: Spets87- You crossed a line for me Her-What's that S- Straddling another guys shoulders H- I'm sorry I didn't realise it would bother you. Won't do it again I'm pissed off, but enough to kill an LTR? Not quite. I will continue to spin side plates just in case.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:35 AM
3

She was in jeans, so thats a bonus
/r/askTRP06/01/20 08:01 AM
2

I said: Of course you're a priority otherwise we wouldn't be together. To which she replied: Thank you I feel much better now, and some stuff about new year plans
/r/askTRP31/12/19 04:44 AM
1

Totally can relate to binging on women, and now moving on to more important things like career/ mission. Unsurprisingly, the women are still there, but no longer a priority.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 07:44 AM
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"We can be exclusive, but, you cannot fuck anyone else, suck anyone else's dick, hangout with someone you have fucked, sucked off, knows wants to fuck you or that you've ever wanted to fuck" Did you just make her your LTR or am I missing something?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 10:50 PM
2

Thanks guys. I guess the hardest part to get my head around is the duplicity nature of females: lovey-dovey when together, riding other Chads when not.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:24 AM
5

Those first two sentences hit hard. I've experienced all lovey-dovey shit while the bitch was fucking other dudes. Didn't know which way was up for a while.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:05 AM
2

I definitely think there are insecurities I must work on. I find doing bioenergetics helps. As for her not earning commitment, as soon as I told her I expect her to be 100% committed before I can give her any commitment, she agreed. I guess it's just in my mind I assumed we were further along in our relationship to where we were. Which is 100% my fault: poor communication and leadership on my behalf. But it doesn't make it easier on the feels.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:45 AM
5

18 they are still mentally children. 21 at least they are grown children.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:12 AM
2

Get it out of your system. Keep fucking. And while you're at it try to find a hobby besides pussy.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 01:58 AM
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78% of statistics are made up.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 11:27 PM
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Had a situation a couple of times now: plate would ask "where do we stand", pushing for commitment. I let her know that we are taking things as they come, implying I fuck other girls. As a result the plate says: so we are cool still fucking other people because I then don't want to catch feels for you. I ignored it both times and 2nd time around I had to drop the plate as I started catching mad feels for her and can't stand the idea of her getting other dick.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 02:35 PM
3

Great post. Lots of "aha" moments for me. From my own insecurities, to the girls I've dated and their behaviours. The question is of course, how to get rid/overcome insecurity? You mention mission and purpose, so I am guessing this will be the big next post?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/19 12:05 PM
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As I believe Patrice said: "fuck them like you're going to prison tomorrow". And a bit of cuddling to build up the bond like others said.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 05:44 AM
2

This makes so much sense. Worked for me plenty of times without me realising why.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 12:16 AM
4

Japanese have a word for this: Kenjataimu
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:27 AM
1

Yeah I told her I'll let her know when I'm free next.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:05 AM
1

My biggest pet peeve is the 26 hr reply. Punctuality is a part of my profession so this just screams a big "fuck you" in my direction. Which having typed that out, is exactly what a shit test is, to see how I cope under pressure.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:04 AM
1

TRP is amoral, but I'd ghost her. As a small token victory against cheaters. But then again, as others have said, she'll just jump onto another strangers dick behind her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:01 AM
4

Pretty sure I lost brain cells listening to these women talk.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 01:44 PM
3

A quality post. Great work on pulling yourself up.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 11:55 PM
1

Do kettlebell workouts. Muscle building and cardio in one hit.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 02:59 AM
3

Good post but do you have to call people you do business with fools? Is this a businessman thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:16 AM
3

No woman will love you like you need is definitely a hard part of the pill to swallow. There is a way out though The person who will love you unconditionally like you need is YOU. This is what a lot of spiritual practice alludes to. A simple way is to repeat to yourself " I love myself unconditionally" and feel it.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 02:26 AM
2

What is this shit 18 years of celibacy? You're barely an adult, now go lift.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 07:20 AM
1

One of the best posts here. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 08:17 AM
10

Nothing good happens in public after midnight.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 11:27 AM
17

Visited Odessa in Ukraine, my god, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. HB8+ fish at that.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 10:07 AM
3

Honesty is important. Helps me sleep at night. And in most cases women don't care about other plates as long as you are discrete and focus your attention on them when in their company.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 03:49 AM
45

"100's of close friends." BS to the max
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 05:52 AM
6

The Russians had a lot of female soldiers in WW2.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:10 AM
13

You disrupted the banter, so you're the sperg here.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:52 PM
3

Saved this for later, and now it's deleted. Why?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 02:02 AM
0

and swimming
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 01:50 AM
2

Female friends are a waste of time unless they are a part of a large group of friends. They are emotional time sucks who are no where near on the same level mentally, physically or spiritually as a well rounded man. Relevant youtube vid with 10 million views: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 12:20 AM
2

+1 for approaching, but dude that sounds so beta to enter another man's frame like that and seek his approval. The daughter wont fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 05:27 AM
1

Fuck, I thought this was an opener, thanks for clarifying.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 01:28 AM
1

Not sure if it's a London thing, but 9/10 of my Tinder dates meet up as scheduled. But usually late, so it's a good way to "punish them" for a free drink.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 10:21 AM
7

Legit the hardest part of TRP to learn.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:41 AM
122

You can read about this stuff all day long, but until you go through something similar yourself, it just doesn't sink in. Fortunately I never married but have experienced an LTR moving in, and changing in the blink of an eye into a lazy slob from a horny minx. And guess what, it was all my fault, I didn't lead, I was a beta. So my hope for you is to keep up the TRP work but also do some self reflection on how you could've done things better.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 01:14 AM
20

No, that 80% actually comes from sleep.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 12:53 AM
30

Totally agree. I had one chick I used to work this send sexy snaps on her hen's night, while her fiance was there. Yes I know, I was surprised the fiance was there too.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:39 AM
18

Being playful can very masculine if done right and not overdone. Tease the girls, say shit to provoke them. Remember what you used to do as a kid.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:37 AM
2

Top quality post. After getting plenty of Tinder action it's time to man up and do this shit in the real world. Thanks OP, you really did help me finally push myself over the edge.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 05:41 AM
1

Cheers for the feedback, I'll just wait a week and setup another date, ignoring her last message.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:49 AM
0

Not sure why you got negs for your answer, but it certainly makes sense. I understand you don't want to give away too much personal info either.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 11:33 PM
2

Thanks for the post, great to see such a young man succeeding in business. How did you go about finding your niche/ problem to solve?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 11:32 AM
1

Thank you, that was a great example. I think you touched on a point which is incredibly important for all men to reach: "I started living for myself, myself first, myself only, and I didn't give a shit about what would happen."
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 06:12 AM
1

Did you reach a point where it became natural to be dominant?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:03 AM
2

Does anyone else find it hard to keep up the dominance dynamic? I find it easy at the start and then want to be nice because it feels more natural to me. (I'm guessing this is from years of bluepill conditioning). It's almost like I gotta put reminders into my diary: "be a dick".
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 02:38 AM
3

This is probably the hardest work for most men to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 12:19 AM
0

So does this mean being an "alpha" and essentially having your shit together mean we are destined for short and medium term flings only?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:20 AM
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Mate it's more than a little SJW here. Case point any mainstream news show like The Project etc. Check out Independent Man on youtube for great commentary on this shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 12:31 PM
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What is the point of this post OP? Who gives a shit about their rationalisations. In a way, guys do it too as they age. In my 20's I fucked anything decent with a pulse. Now in my 30s I am more picky and looking for plates that are actually interesting to be with (educated + high self esteem). So if it was plating a 7 with other good qualities or an 8 with nothing else besides her pussy, I'd choose the 7. But I guess that comes with time and realising an 8's pussy is just pussy in the end.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 01:10 AM
2

What exactly is game? I know sidebar etc, but is it just the cumulative effect of TRP knowledge with a dont give a fuck attitude and abundance mentality? Or am I missing something?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:52 AM
6

Interesting thought. The idea that our lives are pre-determined makes some sense. Because even in the simplest of decisions: ie. which door to walk through one on the left, or one on the right, the one we decide will be based on all of our past knowledge and interactions, which are based on all of our previous knowledge and interactions going back even further in time.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:16 PM
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TRP: where hope and dreams go to die.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 12:14 PM
2

Buy stuff that makes you happy, for you. I like driving fast cars, so I bought a sports car that I can afford with cash, it's for me and only used on the weekends/ track days. Most of the time I drive my old beat up old Jeep and the girls don't seem to mind it at all. Own your possessions and don't be owned by them with stupid shit like repayments or loans. Buy with cash.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:46 AM
0

The issue I have with compound interest it is touted as some magic bulletproof solution to all financial problems. "Just wait long enough and you will be rich". No one ever got rich with compound interest unless they either had massive starting capital and are just building up on an already sizeable portfolio, or they waited until they are too old to do anything with the money. I agree, business is certainly risky but as long as you provide value to your clients and there is a need for the produ…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 02:14 AM
2

Warren Buffet says one thing and does completely another. He is not a compound interest investor. He doesn't just buy stocks and hope they go up in price. He buys enough stock to be able to have control over a company and have direct effect on its performance. Compare that to Joe Bloe who buys 10k worth of Apple shares, who has zero say in what Apple does.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 12:31 AM
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Compound interest is bullshit unless you have massive capital to start you off. You have two options: 1. wait 50 or so years for compound interest to work on some paltry sum of money, and be too old to do anything worthwhile with it. 2. spend 10 years starting a business and get it up and running. Sell that business and then use the cash to invest into blue chip stocks/ bonds etc and live off dividends for rest of life.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 12:26 AM
1

Yeah I got a good window: I'll be going away for work for 3 days so that should be enough for her to clear her stuff out. Or take all my shit and, so I'll be sure to secure valuables.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 10:22 AM
2

I read this post by Rollo a year ago and it that was one hell of a bitter pill to swallow.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:57 PM
2

She doesn't like giving head. At the moment she thinks we are just renewing the lease. My stuff is all the furniture and appliances, so I can't really hide it anywhere. I guess I'll just have to take it on the chin if I don't get some of it back.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:54 PM
1

I'm in a 3 year relationship and also looking to jump ship. She cooks, cleans etc but due to her medical issues (big red flag but I was blue pill when we started) our sex life sucks. She did suggest an open relationship for a while (for me to bang other girls, she didn't want other guys), but since we live together the logistics seem a bit of a pain in the ass. Maybe I'm still just too blue pill to make it work.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 02:46 AM
2

Yep, having a worthwhile goal is super important to pour that extra energy from noFap. Otherwise the energy just gets pent up and is a distraction in itself. At least for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:17 AM
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"In The Family Alpha’s article, the concern is two fold: the ceding of a man’s inner self, the surrender of identity to the approval of the feminine, and what the consequences are for men once they reclaim or recreate an identity apart from what he allowed the feminine to create for him. This a significant thing to ponder for men. One reason I believe men become so despondent, so nihilistic, after some trauma that shook them into Red Pill awareness is that their identity, their sense of self, wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 08:52 AM
1

Gym is easy. Rock up and lift. Even if you're retarded with other parts in your life like social/ financial you can be great at the gym. That's not to say it's not important, it surely is, but I think people need to focus on improving their social/ financial standing more than high 5ing themselves for going to the gym 6 times a week. Cool, nice muscles bro, how's about making more than $20 bucks an hour.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:04 AM
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Relevant info by the mighty Jordan Peterson on helping out number 3. Essentially sort the small shit out in your life, and keep going until your problems and challenges get bigger (this is good) to find meaning and importance in life. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NI_tyAduoJo&t=1s
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 07:49 AM
1

Top stuff mate. Great refresher on female interaction.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 05:17 AM
8

Patrice O'Neil had a scale 1-30 1-10 Ugly women 10-20 Alright women 21-30 Beautiful women So a 21 is an ugly beautiful woman
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 10:25 PM
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From personal experience porn does the same thing. It's an immersion escape into some fantasy land to stop over thinking/ dealing with the difficult issues. Essentially a release from anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:34 AM
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This has been always the case in my life. The more I focused on myself and less of a shit I gave about the women in my life, the more they gave a shit about me.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:05 AM
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