Not sure why mods deleted my last thread as I'm genuinely seeking help.

How do I get over my recent ex LTR oneitis?

It all started after she sat on some guys shoulders at a concert, and went camping without me. I then soft nexted her to logistics only texting to have sex. A couple of weeks later she said she needs someone who "treats her like a queen" and doesn't just text "come over".

Now that she is completely out of my life I miss her like crazy. I currently have 3 young 22 to 24 yr old plates, so it's not the sex. I think somehow I attached my happiness to her and not sure how to untangle that web.