SpicyScroteRoastery Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
303	Found in another sub, imagine thinking this is funny.	NAH, SIS	SpicyScroteRoastery	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/08/21 01:04 PM
132	Finally leveling up!	LEVEL UP	SpicyScroteRoastery	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 02:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Andrea Dworkin's take on male trolls Right Wing Women, the book that is quoted by OP.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 01:58 PM
15	I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him… PSLD hurts the feefees more	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 09:47 AM
26	A pictorial depiction of the “male feminist” https://feministheretic.wordpress.com/2017/08/17/male-feminist/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 03:11 AM
18	Pretend you can't cook Well, in the best case scenario that you actually love him, you've already dated and vetted him enough to where he has earned the privilege to eat your delicious homemade meal! I also love cooking for the people I love, in and out of a relationship I really love hosting dinner parties! 💕 Edit: a word	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 03:03 AM
7	We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡 Straight outta the Scrote Factory	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 11:48 PM
6	Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex. The men die lonely. 🤗	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 05:29 PM
13	A true FDS queen❤ Omg I didn't know she had a youtube, only watched like 2 episodes of the netflix show! Love her!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 10:48 AM
12	If he says he isn’t looking for a relationship he won’t change his mind even if you end up in a relationship with him I wasted a decade on a loser like this. (Orbiting for a few years + 7 year relationshit 🙃)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 10:45 AM
4	"Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence" I watch kdramas sometimes and enjoy kpop. I realize scrotes be scrotes internationally, but these ones are rarely enough pleasurable for me to look at. I enjoy them with my eyes only!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/21 03:43 PM
8	My hairdresser told me... Never ceases to amaze me how universal the LVM experience is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/21 03:41 PM
1	I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was great Hahaha they really have to fund kdrama propaganda to fool women into relationshits..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 12:37 PM
9	I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was great Oh yeah, I'm cheering so hard for feminists in Korea and other asian countries! They're pretty damn pissed off and I'm loving it. 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 08:34 AM
1	Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperwork Oh god, I might have let out an ugly piggy snort at the last sentence..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 03:17 PM
1	Weekly FDS Check-in On discord?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/21 09:26 AM
8	Weekly FDS Check-in I've felt incredibly fucking lonely these past couple of weeks, but I was kind to myself and just comforted myself through it the best I could. On a more positive note, work is actually going great!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 07:14 AM
7	What was your moment of clarity? That sounds a lot more awesome than I thought, thanks! 🙏	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/21 01:55 PM
14	What was your moment of clarity? Oh, I've avoided watching that show thinking it was just male fantasy bs. Maybe I'll move it to the maybe list.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/21 01:15 PM
3	I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience: I'm not sure this is an option for me, but thank you for sharing that. I'm glad you learned such great things during your trip. 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 03:39 PM
30	Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes. This is kind of how my celebrity crushes work. It's not really a crush on the actual person, more the persona + the attractive vehicle. Can't really be bothered to like follow their personal lives or anything, it's just nice to have a dedicated swooning-object! 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 10:18 PM
20	Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page! I just have to say that I love your username!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/21 01:49 AM
2	Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc. I get where you're coming from and it is exceedingly rare, but a small number of narcs can, if they themselves have internal motivation for it due to the outcome of their behavior, manage their issues with the help of a good professional. This doesn't mean "cured" of course but they can learn about themselves, how they work and develop strategies to not hurt others. That being said, I'm unwilling to make this exception for men. 🤷‍♀️ Honestly in most cases tbh, but I'm speaking about our member s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 04:49 PM
3	Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc. We do actually have our very own diagnosed recovering narc in our community here on FDS! Sorry if this comes off as "not all men" , that's not my intention, I just wanted to point out that I am actually very grateful of her participation in FDS and the unique and terribly helpful insights she has into narcs and how they work, due to her own experiences from the "other side". She wishes to be a HVW and I am rooting for her. I have witnessed change in myself that I previously thought was impossibl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 03:20 PM
6	Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc. Yes, physically possible for people to change with hard work and intention, but statistically insignificant % do, so treat it like a "no".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 02:58 PM
10	Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc. I've only asked once and was shocked at the number. I had been giving myself shit for a "high body count" that was way lower, and he said this was "average". I don't think I want to ask the next person, I don't know. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 02:57 PM
240	Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about it Hello, diagnosed late, no support given, also very angry but don't currently have a lot of energy to write shit about it. Might return later to rant, thank you for your post though!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/21 02:12 PM
91	Starting to Regret Getting Tattooed "The uninterested kind, bye."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 09:43 AM
6	“Age is just a number.”So is a prison sentence. Honestly, it's probably a lot cleaner too. 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/21 09:04 AM
10	What’s your best FDS quote? "He knows." Fuck cOmMuNiCaTiNg how he hurts you. He knows, he just doesn't care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/21 02:01 AM
35	TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!! Haha, yes.... I sleep with mine, bring them with me when I travel etc. 😅 I also talk to animals as if they're people to the point where people feel the need to remind me that animals aren't people and I don't have to apologize for touching them briefly before learning that they did not want to be touched at that moment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/21 11:36 AM
90	TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!! Can confirm, these two apply to me too and I wouldn't suddenly want to keep slaves and rape them if I was in his position. Honestly I'm so tired of people not understanding what autism is and using it to excuse terrible behaviour. We don't lack empathy, on the contrary many of us are very empathetic, it just presents differently. I still apologize to inanimate fucking objects if I've been "rude" lol. 😣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/21 11:30 AM
3	When men talk about "the wall", they are inadvertently admitting that women are oppressed. Seems silly to add a discount to something that is abundantly available for free! 🤭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 08:17 PM
3	Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?) HAHA A BLOAT OF OVERWEIGHT GUYS 🤣 GIRL!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 08:10 PM
2	BDSM Apologist Slams Gail Dines, Claims it's Not Violent to Women 💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 08:00 PM
4	FDS Fiction - What Are You Reading? Oh my god, I've literally been thinking about what a world would like if we tweaked only our physical power and left the rest as is and it's consequences. I'm absolutely checking both of these out, like right now, thanks! 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 07:55 PM
2	It's a lonely fight Me too. I don't actually spend that much time on reddit, I'm mostly just here for FDS 90% of the time. 🤷‍♀️ If FDS moves, so do I.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 07:47 PM
7	BDSM Apologist Slams Gail Dines, Claims it's Not Violent to Women Them saying it doesn't make it true. Consider what they gain by fooling women that this is normal. Also, if that puts us in the minority then we'll just keep staying here until we become the majority. Either way, keep your standards high and never accept abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 07:27 PM
21	“Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates. I've heard shit like this too, definitely not from HVM. You have every right to be disgusted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/21 08:52 AM
37	oop 👀 I absolutely love this place. I get to learn so much about all kinds of things from amazing women around the planet. Thank you! 👏🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 08:23 PM
98	He absolutely despises her. Oh, what a coincidence, my sperm donor kept my mother poor as well! Technically he forced her to work but then took her paycheck. Also quite upset when she wanted to go to school, who knows what she might learn right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 09:32 AM
2	Always Google Your Dates Hello, may I also receive a pm with helpful tech info?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/21 08:32 PM
1	Why is blocking sometimes a reasonable response/action to take in both platonic and romantic relationships? I like this type of thinking too. I see my time, attention and energy as a finite amount of resources per day. If you "have time" for scrotes that don't add value to your life, you could easily redirect those precious resources to something that is actually beneficial to you. Anything from career related things to meditation or even painting your damn nails lol. They are literally not worth your time! A nice, relaxing cup of tea > acknowledging some LVM. 🍵⏳💅🧖‍♀️🧘‍♀️🛀💰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 12:52 PM
5	NVM/LVM & Social Functions Shocked to hear that he became very hostile and threatening when I left him? 😒	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 11:36 AM
8	NVM/LVM & Social Functions I followed an ex to a week-long event where I didn't know anyone and he specifically told me not to bother him while he was with his friends. I was like 17 at the time, could have used some FDS wisdom back then lol. Fucking asshole.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 11:23 AM
7	The Bachelor franchise is a treasure trove when it comes to dating red flags Ooh, this is interesting! I have very little experience watching reality shows, I'd totally be up for watch parties and discussions! I think the only one I've seen is "Love is blind" on netflix. Never watched the bachelorette or real housewives! I'd love to see a queen in action! 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 11:16 AM
16	Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡 They're clearly very busy with going their own way! 🤭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/21 10:07 AM
11	Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them? That's true, but in my language the word for "dad" is not really close to any version of "daddy" and sounds very unsexy, so it might be ok in some languages!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 06:14 PM
20	Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them? I'm saving that for future use 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 11:03 AM
3	Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets? I love when new women get introduced to the legendary Nest lol. 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 11:53 AM
2	For my Vanilla Queens! It's super tasty in baked sweets!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 11:58 PM
21	A saying from my Shanghainese mother - raise girls rich, raise boys poor Maybe it's just colorful language. I like to see Princess as a Queen in Training kind of thing, so of course prepare them for rule over the kingdom but never skimp out on the love, affection, support and being a good role model. 👸	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 09:08 PM
17	Shift your energy, queens. 👑 Lol, I've been moping in bed for hours because I'm "not pretty enough", not fixating on a specific scrote, but yeah this is dumb. Needed to hear that, I'mma get up now 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/21 01:56 PM
8	This is what „women support women” is about! I hate that so much. 🤢	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 12:03 AM
28	This is what „women support women” is about! Yeah in these cases it's definitely justified violence used in defense against a predator.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 11:54 PM
7	I am done with trying to make pickmes see the light 💕🙇‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/21 01:59 AM
32	I am done with trying to make pickmes see the light Obv not OP, but I was really in the MRA thing for a couple of years a while back. Left scrote after being a forever girlfriend, dated a few scrotes and came upon FDS. Did nothing but read the handbook and there it was, finally shit started to make sense. So many things falling in place and so many goddamn patterns throughout my entire life had not only happened to countless other women, now they made sense. FDS has been the biggest truth bomb for me, but yes I had to leave a longterm scrote and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 11:17 PM
21	"You need to forgive!" I've been forgetting this these past few months. Not because I've tried forgiving (fuck him and I hope he gets what he deserves in prison) but just been in a funk due to stress with work. I'm really fucking productive on anger! I'll get out my "angry women"-spotify list first thing in the morning! Thanks for reminding me of that! I love being angry, or rather turning it away from me and redirecting it where it belongs. Tomorrow I will unleash my wrath outwards and get shit done instead of punish…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 10:47 PM
4	What are some ways that you typically signal to a guy that you're interested? I think that's a little harsh tbh. I think a short amount of extra eye contact or a smile is something a woman can do to signal interest without being a pickme. Basically giving a man minimal but positive, voluntary attention should be more than enough for a guy that is interested in you to grow a pair and shoot his shot. You are the fucking prize, and having your attention for himself for even a moment is already a gift, so don't feel the need to go beyond that imho.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/21 11:15 PM
1	Tip - if he reschedules even once for your first date, there is a 99% chance he is using you as a backup. Ngl, I'd be into carrier pigeons 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 05:05 PM
6	Stop worrying about the existence of HVM: Some strategies Haha, having crushes on kpop idols is my religion at this point. The difference between what is offered by men vs what the kpop idols provide is gigantic, leaving me terribly unimpressed by regular scrotes. It's like making me allergic to all men in my country, highly recommend! I'm fully aware that it's a product, but it's a damn good one 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 12:22 PM
8	Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys? I'll put them to good use, thank you 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 04:09 PM
42	Leave the Door Open May I suggest korean music? Not just kpop, but korean r&b too, I'm sure there's trash there too but I've found some nice stuff.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 01:57 PM
21	Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys? Wow, what a low life. Bless your body for protecting you from further interactions with that pile of human garbage 🙇‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 01:31 PM
12	Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys? Lol poonhound, I'm remembering that for future use!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/21 01:12 PM
8	They finally made a Handmaids Tale for Men. I'm screaming with laughter! I enjoyed the inclusion of shit like returnofkings lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/21 10:01 PM
5	dating strategies are different for men vs women Also Butt Crumbs...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 03:46 PM
17	Why do other women get so angry at us? Because patriarchy is a religion, and we are heretics. I quite enjoy my heretic witchery! 🧙‍♀️🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 01:19 PM
16	“Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 AD Please do so if you are willing! A lot of us might have opinions about the platform, but it is true that a fuckton of young women and girls use it so it should have potential for great reach!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 11:45 AM
10	"Am I the most beautiful woman in the world?" Your LVDad can eat shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/21 07:34 PM
1	Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever made Ooh, now I need to watch it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 05:54 PM
10	Loved him in Triad Princess 🥵 Jasper Liu 🔥🔥🔥🔥	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 04:32 PM
20	Matt LeBlanc Oh damn, I haven't seen him that young before! Adorable!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 04:31 PM
12	Kim Jong-in aka Kai of the band EXO Yes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 04:30 PM
21	Oded Fehr (The Mummy era). One of the few men who can actually be considered a Silver Fox 😩 A lot of dudes posted aren't my type, but I upvote all of these anyway in support of my sisters having standards lol. 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 03:35 PM
5	The "Nothing To Hide" Feint. Definitely, in too many cases women have accidentally stumbled upon some depraved secrets without any glaring red flags beforehand. Checking shouldn't be restricted to only after finding red flags, some scrotes be damn good at hiding shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 03:16 PM
2	CURRENT RELATIONSHIP STATUS: IN THE AIR/ POTENTIAL COUGAR. I'm coming, and I'm bringing my girlfriends!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 10:33 PM
3	To all the beautiful ladies on this sub, head up high and stand up for yourself always! I do this with a scrote I have to deal with for another year. I know he's gonna continue being a lvm scrote, but I've gotten appreciation in private from other colleagues so I'm gonna keep doing it for them. 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 09:28 PM
3	Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼 I skipped through a single video or something a long time ago, I kind of liked it but I just can't get through such unstructured, loooong and ranty videos. Glad to know I didn't really miss out on much!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 04:37 PM
11	A picture is worth a thousand words... Lesbos 2.0, let's create it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 07:49 PM
10	Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again! Cackling at these names! Thank you, I'll look it up! 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/21 07:09 AM
25	DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional". That was an intense read. 😣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 11:23 PM
14	DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional". That was some delicious information, thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 11:16 PM
15	Went on a lot of coffee dates in my pickme days.. never again! How do you shave your back?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 12:59 PM
41	A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit?? I hope she will! I stuck around my scrote for years, but here I am! 👸	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 04:19 PM
12	Paing Takhon Oh, I'll be saving this for future reference 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/21 08:48 AM
61	How to tell if your partner is becoming red pilled I had a deadbedroom for years, where I was the one who wanted sex. Longest dry spell was about a year. Definitely made me feel like shit since "all men want is sex" :( He was likely a porn addict..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 03:56 PM
9	Found him on tinder 😛 Bit too muscular for my taste but ++++ points for asian man! I also like the pretty ones~	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 03:32 PM
5	Swipe left for evidence of said rational, objective logic 😂 Happy cake day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 02:54 PM
13	Most men are not dating to marry I strongly dislike your first husband, may he suffer an itchy butthole for the remainder of his life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 03:52 AM
6	Weekly FDS Check-In If you don't have a set routine that you currently follow, I'd advise you to stick to the basics for maybe 2 weeks. Basics to me meaning double cleansing, moisturizer and sunscreen and moisturizing sleeping mask. Then when you can do those steps naturally and consistently for 2 weeks you can start implementing extra steps for targeted skin issues. Like maybe retinol at night for anti-aging or a vit c serum in the morning for clear/bright/glowy/whatever skin etc. Again, 2 weeks until next new pro…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 09:55 AM
7	Weekly FDS Check-In I sure fucking hope so! I love his lame humour lol 😭💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 09:48 AM
2	If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain. That read like something out of a horror film! So creepy, I'm sorry 😔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 12:01 AM
3	Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out. Holy shit, that is so fucking sad	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 11:25 PM
5	What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ Begged my NVM-ex to please not hit on two other girls in front of me, our friends and the two girls in question. The girls and ex were laughing. I had known him for like a month at that point and stayed for a year. 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 01:38 PM
1	Things That Perturb LVM 🤡 Happy cake day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 12:33 PM
2	Scrote Translation #1 : INCOMPATIBLE MAN I'm just staring at that hairline, amazed over his audacity.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/21 04:38 PM
9	Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜 Hello, I like your username!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 11:29 AM
7	Helping other women out - stranger edition This is so heartwarming and beautiful! I can totally relate to these kinds of feelings being heightened by a fuck ton since finding FDS. (Please don't be angry with me for this, but I hope she doesn't eat the table hehe.....I'll see myself out, sorry!)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 10:42 AM
1	Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arson I am thoroughly enjoying this, many chuckles. 😂 Whoever did that is a fucking hero.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 10:26 AM
57	All men are 100% lying when they say they don't notice if a woman pays them attention What a well mannered scrote to at least supply you with some entertainment!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 01:43 AM
19	It was not Witches I feel this. Never really been religious but I could totally identify as a witch who worships Lilith! 🧙‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 08:57 AM
118	I love this and him. He literally looks like a Chad, very handsome! I can imagine incels being upset looking at him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 10:45 AM
56	Black women and weapons I love it when women bring up facts to debunk scrotery. 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 07:53 AM
39	Honestly never though of it this way, I love it! I high key stan Lilith tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 07:11 AM
17	It's okay to be sad that you're single Absolutely agree with this. Of course I have picked up some women to look up to along the way, but I'm choosing to become what my little girl-self wanted to become and it feels fucking awesome!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 08:07 AM
7	On the idea that being intimidating to men is a lie women tell to justify their failure to bag a man I also had the delight of reading that thread. It's very interesting to go through ccomments with an FDS lens. I can see all the scrotes and pickme's now lol. They reaaaally want us to settle huh?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 06:39 AM
9	Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡 ...Y'all are getting compliments? 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 03:20 PM
72	It’s scary how many of them think like this Men getting their feelings hurt is just as bad as women getting murdered! /s	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 06:29 AM
7	Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩‍❤️‍👨 I'm getting more and more uninterested in dating a man. My plan is no men for at least another year, due mostly to career stuff. But I'm not so sure I will actually find one that can provide what I want ever lol. I have however been going deeper into things that I felt were too painful before. Like romantic movies, love songs, k-dramas and similar things. I extract the good feelings of romance from those sources instead. That might not work for everyone or even be of interest, but I'm actually r…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 12:21 PM
19	Please forgive me for breathing! I think mainly they are like a satire news site? Didn't know about their insta but I'll be following that now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 11:28 AM
59	I'll just leave this here. Damn, I feel like I need to rewatch the parts with her in it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 11:14 AM
8	Don't put your life aside for a man! I do this too lol. I have one celebrity that I've decided is my crush now. Any time I feel like I need to direct some romantic energy towards a man, I'll just enjoy him instead and remind myself to not settle for anything less than the attraction I have towards him. I quite enjoy it. 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 12:20 PM
9	For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solution I'm still holding on to compliments from some girls I didn't know, like 15 years ago. I was kind of goth and they were more of a street style. I was so surprised, I was used to the opposite happening. Still one of my favourite compliments! 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 10:51 AM
28	Science finally admits that it's a myth that we fall off a fertility cliff at 35 This is really nice to read even though I'm starting to doubt I actually will have children. I really thought the time was up already, I'm not even 30 yet.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 08:28 PM
3	FDS Dictionary 🤣 1 Wheezing at gashole 🤣 Edit: I also want "Nest" to be immortalized. Let us vow to never forget.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 03:29 PM
1	The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them. Lol, yes because being attractive is somehow protection against abusive men..???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 02:54 PM
5	The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them. It's so sad that the first thing that came to my mind was security. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 02:45 PM
29	The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them. I got on tiktok just to see the younger generation of women being ruthless and taking no shit. I fucking live for it. GROW AND SPREAD!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 02:30 PM
2	Another Reason to Ditch Online Dating Had to do a retake when I read their ages to see which one of those two could possibly be 25...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 02:22 PM
4	You Idolize the Joker character in the movie, sympathize with his actions because of all the abuse he went through and applaud his violence when he cracks- yet you roast FDS in the same breath. I call that extreme double standards! Yup, late 20's here, still hyping up Barbie movies openly with my girlfriends. I refuse to tone down the un-sexy parts of "femininity". Give me all of the Hello Kitty's, cute boy bands and pumpkin spice lattes. Die mad, scrotes. 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 01:55 PM
9	According to the comments, she’s the problem for being overly jealous... Holy shit, I'm kinda tempted to make a male alt-account to try this shit lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 01:26 PM
57	Scrotes chastising women as fake geeks for cosplaying characters they have not even heard about Lol, there'd be a massive reduction in cosplay if white people didn't cosplay asian characters 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 12:25 PM
6	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in Aahhh I want to be your friend! 🤣💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 11:47 PM
7	How to make friends with FDS-friendly women in real life: the more open you are about your beliefs, the more likely you are to attract people who share those beliefs. I'm thinking about getting myself a crown, nice and subtle!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 10:02 PM
162	Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work. Disappointments..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 11:35 AM
4	Green flags for breakfast Damn, I want to have this energy when I get back into dating!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 12:14 PM
14	This is my worst fear. Hope she can take her kids and get the hell out ASAP Last lines seem to be indicating that she intends to leave though?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 11:42 AM
12	If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums. I stayed in mine with no orgasms for 7 years...... Man I wish I had FDS earlier! 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 11:31 AM
4	If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play. Ah, I'm picturing you as a fierce and cute dragon on that pile of money! 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 08:45 AM
7	Conservative Pick Me Magazine Evie thinks we’re all Femcels Y’all. I wonder which man dictated this idea for them to write down? Lmaooo, imagine being this desperate for male approval in 2021. Lol, I used to read this shit back when they launched and I was deep in pickme hell.. Then I found FDS. I'm sure more women like me will jump ship after seeing this article.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 11:39 PM
16	Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap. Damn, I had no idea that Germany was like that! I'm also in europe, I've always just assumed Germany was super progressive and stuff.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 11:16 PM
15	A reminder for the recovering pick-me girls I like the show in general, but yes, holy shit that relationship is difficult to watch. Want to watch more episodes but it's just painful lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 05:08 PM
14	Women can do anything And this mindset is a great example of why this picture is important and needed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:33 PM
26	Women can do anything I don't think the point of the post is that you have to be high-earning, but more about the fact that women are told we cannot be highly successful in our careers AND be a nurturing mother at the same time. This is just a woman showing us her lived experience in doing just that, which proves those people wrong. You absolutely do not need to take a specific role in society to be a HVW or valid as a woman, this is just one of the things that a woman is capable of doing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 03:13 PM
-4	This person criticized kinks on a debate dub and they're getting ATTACKED for it. These comments are disturbing Is there an /s in there?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 10:51 PM
0	This person criticized kinks on a debate dub and they're getting ATTACKED for it. These comments are disturbing I'm sorry, are you lost? We proudly kink-shame here and we do not defend porn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 10:46 PM
25	Tiktok is grooming young girls into thinking they trick grown wealthy men It’s absolutely terrifying because some of these women are even being sponsored by sites to advertise on TikTok and get people to sign up as soon as they’re 18 Honestly, I think going off reddit is the best way to find what you're looking for, sadly. I suggest Spinster and Ovarit!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 09:57 PM
6	We are not immune from our own deeply rooted biases. Wow, thanks! I had no idea lol, TIL. :D	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 01:47 AM
27	We are not immune from our own deeply rooted biases. Vivian is gender neutral? It's not a name commonly used in my country, so I'm sorry if that's a dumb question lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/21 01:43 AM
5	In the original tweet a guy got busted by his girlfriend as he liked pictures of sexy models on instagram. Male or female, and especially this one, the replies were terrible. 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 06:37 PM
22	In the original tweet a guy got busted by his girlfriend as he liked pictures of sexy models on instagram. Male or female, and especially this one, the replies were terrible. No, it is to be aware of the lengths a man will go to in order to hide his depravity so we don't forget to continually vet because they seem nice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 06:36 PM
11	In the original tweet a guy got busted by his girlfriend as he liked pictures of sexy models on instagram. Male or female, and especially this one, the replies were terrible. Thanks, love!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 04:26 PM
32	In the original tweet a guy got busted by his girlfriend as he liked pictures of sexy models on instagram. Male or female, and especially this one, the replies were terrible. There are still women that need to see this. There are still women who will naively believe that her man will just be honest and take his word for it when she's beginning to notice his shady behaviour and dismiss her own insticts.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 04:08 PM
22	In the original tweet a guy got busted by his girlfriend as he liked pictures of sexy models on instagram. Male or female, and especially this one, the replies were terrible. Justice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 04:03 PM
35	Scientific proof how to recognise a LVM ;) It'd be fun to make a fighting game with only buff, handsome guys and add stupid shit like dick jiggling physics like they do with boobs. Also plenty of sexy, suggestive poses and weird crotch focused camera angles etc. I'm sure they'd love if it became a big hit with all the female gamers!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/21 11:36 AM
3	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in I made some really scary decisions and surprised myself with how much space I can take up now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 12:31 PM
19	And they say marriage is bad for men. Who tf think washing dishes is a suprise?? Even if it's normalizing scrote clownery, every woman who posts videos like these do give us a chance to save more women. I'd like to be a little positive and see it as an opening for FDS to enter women's lives!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 07:57 PM
16	MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnT I love FDS meta-humour lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 07:47 PM
16	Screencap, video and meme posting: let's work together to ensure quality! Yes, please! I love memes and wouldn't mind "low effort" if it were on a separate sub.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 04:05 PM
2	On today's episode of Count The Red Flags! My jaw dropped reading that, insane.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 11:00 AM
5	Women have every right to be skeptical and NOT trust men, especially around children. PERIODT. Oh god, read that thread too. Not sure why I was actually expecting someone to make this point in the comments. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 10:22 AM
4	I had a date tonight... Honestly, the autistic men I know personally are fucking decent. Maybe that adds to why I'd be ruthless to an autistic scrote using that as an excuse. But yes, I've seen some of it online..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 05:10 PM
21	I had a date tonight... That's fair! And yes, having people explain the why to you is very beneficial. I'm just aggressively not leaving wiggle-room for autistic scrotes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 02:44 PM
8	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in There is a discord server, but I think it's hard for the mods/mods of the server to have time for validating members. Might be easier for you if you are in the US though? I think most times I have missed it is due to sleeping haha (I'm in nothern europe).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 02:30 PM
13	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in I mostly keep flours there. I have quite a few different types... Stuff that doesn't fit in other spaces can also go in there, like canned stuff or coconut milk cartons.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 02:25 PM
3	Do you want children? Poll. Voted 'not sure yet' but would have chosen 'do want children with the right HVM' just a few weeks ago. I was extremely set on being a mother for years but I've so rarely been in first place in my own life. It took me a damn long time to get here and I kind of want to spoil myself for the rest of my life? That's my current mood anyway lol. Just imagining a man I'd be willing to put my body through a pregnancy for is impossible. I'm not sure I ever want to cohabitate with a man again or marry one.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 02:17 PM
8	Can you ladies imagine this? Could we all just pitch in and buy an island and have it be Lesbos 2.0 ? Like if men wanted to infiltrate they would literally have to travel over the sea and obviously our borders would be highly surveillanced.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:46 PM
3	How do you get over post-relationship embarrassment? I agree with the other ladies here about forgiving yourself. I usually treat these things like 'growing pains' to make it more positive for myself. Growing or expanding as a person can be very painful, but it's worth it and you can treat it like a receipt on what you paid for your new-found knowledge and wisdom.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:38 PM
2	This - exactly this. Can someone explain this to me? I know of Jordan Peterson, I'm confused as to who is saying what to whom in this picture.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:32 PM
1	Finally someone made a video on mainstream media normalizing bdsm & rough sex I'm diving straight into Elly Arrow! Thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:17 PM
112	I had a date tonight... Tbh #3 can go in with #2 lol. If you're autistic and old enough to have a career, you are aware that commenting on people's look isn't okay, because you will probably have done it many times before and dealt with the consequences. I'm autistic and would never excuse an autistic adult for shit like that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:08 PM
7	Boring/completely ordinary men thinking they know more than you when you're an expert. Ahhh I don't really have anything to add, I just want to say that I'm also autistic and interested in cybersecurity! I'm fairly new so I don't feel like I know anything but, yes, hello! :D	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 11:13 AM
6	Came across this today I have no words I just pretended like I had seen it so nobody would show it to me, there are other things I haven't been able to avoid though..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 08:44 PM
2	Legitimately evil mle tells his gf he had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend him Not sure what that is but I am an excellent googler and instruction-follower.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 11:45 PM
3	Legitimately evil mle tells his gf he had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend him You know what, I will make a damn fine spicy roast just for you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 11:26 PM
78	Chinese dad makes beautiful dresses for daughter; the dad is adorable, the daughter is adorable, and the dresses are adorable! From the South China Morning Post YouTube channel Yeah, I doubt she will settle for a low-effort scrote having grown up with a father like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 10:12 PM
25	Men will date you while still looking for his wife .. She out here saving women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 09:05 PM
7	Beware of misogynistic women, too! She said, from her fancy office..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 06:48 PM
9	"No man wants a woman who"... Oh god, you reminded me of all the times I read about men "holding frame" lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 06:20 PM
5	Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs? Oh, yeah that's pretty stupid. It's also hard to even get to adopt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 06:15 PM
8	“Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean while Looking forward to it, thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 04:50 PM
5	“Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.” <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 04:48 PM
1	Seriously? <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 04:47 PM
7	Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs? What, how is IVF selfish? I've not heard this before.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 04:31 PM
3	Legitimately evil mle tells his gf he had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend him I can literally not even make up shit this depraved if I tried, holy fucking shit what a piece of trash!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 02:44 PM
8	Legitimately evil mle tells his gf he had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend him I'll deal with desserts!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 02:19 PM
6	Legitimately evil mle tells his gf he had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend him "You weren't raped alone, he was there too" what the actual fuck went through this person's head while typing this out?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 02:17 PM
3	Seriously? Been there, never again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 02:03 PM
25	Why is his "career' more important than me, more important than my own life? You mean Brock the Rapist Turner?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 01:02 PM
4	"Vanity is only a sin because a woman who believes she deserves good things is harder to commodify". I think regardless of size, the principles she lives by emanate the FDS vibe. I feel a sudden urge to watch this hair youtuber. Is it a big channel?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 12:39 PM
14	“Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.” Six years, but he did propose within her timeframe and wedding was postponed a bit due to covid obv so not as bad as it seems I think.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 12:32 PM
24	“Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.” Second this. It's embarrasingly common. I've had friends "celebrate" being engaged for 8-10 years. After having lived together and several kids and everything. edit; I was one of these people. No engagement or kids though. Just a forever girlfriend. (:	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 11:53 AM
78	“Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean while I really enjoy getting insights from so many different places in this sub. Scrotes really be scrotin' in all cultures, but it's interesting (obviously also sad) to learn about scrotes from other cultures.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 11:50 AM
77	“Imports” poor wife from developing nation to cook and clean while I'm happy that you found your way here and I hope more will too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 11:46 AM
11	HOW IS SHE NOT EMBARRASSED?!?OMGGGGG Oh god, I've been subscribed to her for years but haven't been watching in a while. Damn, this cringe is gonna hit hard.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 11:01 AM
1	Seen this a few hours ago and couldn’t resist sharing with you ladies FemaleDatingStrategy PostsFDS Official WebsiteFDS HandbookFDS WikiFDS Social Media LOL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 11:09 AM
9	I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll. I went down that rabbit hole the other day, there is some wild shit about FDS out there lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 11:59 PM
17	Vet vet vet to prevent this! Lol emotionally constipated, like it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 08:38 PM
1	Protect her from what? 🙃 Thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 11:59 AM
3	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? Oh, I'm so sorry :( I hope better things will come along for you in the future <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 11:36 PM
3	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? Oh, I'm in northern europe :( It's provided to me by my government. Sorry if this wasn't helpful enough, but googling around with "social training" and therapy etc should hopefully lead you somewhere. There might even be some online courses given the pandemic?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 07:42 PM
9	Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself? I agree with this, I'm also autistic and being the way I am has definitely resulted in scrotes taking advantage of it. With my close friends I feel safe to ask if I'm being annoying, even though I'm trying to reduce that. Never let scrotes know about your insecurities though, this is for your safety. We're at a disadvantage when it comes to social cues but they can be studied, please try some courses if they are available to you. Where I'm at they will offer (when not pandemic) courses where you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 01:30 PM
6	Protect her from what? 🙃 Could you possibly dm me some of these accounts do I can follow them?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 03:02 PM
13	Patriarchy squashes female liberation by forcing women to choose between two equally oppressive binary gender roles. FDS teaches women that we don't need to take ANY "pills" that do not 100% serve our interests. 😘	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 01:27 PM
6	I can hardly stomach relationship advice on other subs after my FDS awakening I miss that sub :( didn't know what happened to it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 12:04 PM
19	Patriarchy squashes female liberation by forcing women to choose between two equally oppressive binary gender roles. FDS teaches women that we don't need to take ANY "pills" that do not 100% serve our interests. Happy cake day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 10:35 AM
50	Protect her from what? 🙃 Yeah, I've been pretty damn anti-tiktok but content like this makes me want to reconsider lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 10:10 AM
7	I don't have a good title this is just hilarious I'm so proud of this generation lol, savages.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 09:46 AM
53	Sorry if this doesn’t fit but this had such FDS energy to me Yeah, I'm not losing sleep over men getting robbed while buying women. 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 03:20 PM
24	Yet another reminder why you vet men, so this won't be your future. It's way too common. No thanks Probably not, raccoons are adorable!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 12:27 AM
51	Pornhub exploiting minors 😔 Yeah, we're toxic apparantly 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 10:19 PM
3	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments I read this while I clicked out of the thread and had to go back in and scroll so I could give it a like. Ahhh, thank you for that giggle!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 10:28 PM
4	This is almost word for word read like my previous relationship.. and they are making HER feel bad for not planning something HERSELF. I am heartbroken and so, so angry. I wish I could do something other than give her support in the comments Oh, but let's not forget that men are entitled to their expectations from porn!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 09:59 PM
4	"FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world! Seconding this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 09:37 PM
11	"it's just biology" is psuedoscience that LVM gravitate to. In the past it was used to justify slavery and racism. And now it's used to justify mistreatment of women. Thank you, I enjoyed reading that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 09:06 PM
10	No questions. Blocked 🙅🏻‍♀️🚫 Damn, why u gotta do me like that 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 01:53 AM
41	What LVM really mean when they say... I had a married scrote trying to convince me they had an open marriage but their rule was to not talk about who they slept with. Dumbest fucking shit I've ever heard. And no, he did not get any lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 07:32 PM
14	So-called "petty" deal breakers Fuck, I've never thought about it before but my ex was a NEET lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 01:03 AM
27	"Most women dont have a problem with their boyfriends watching porn" - 27yo M I switched to vaping with nicotine and slowly weaned off the nicotine and then the vaping. It was so easy for me that it felt like cheating lol. I recommend trying it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 01:02 PM
13	Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it! Lol, kudos to the friends that left him over that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 12:48 PM
16	Plastic surgery and the paradox of dating Huh, that sounds interesting. Not sure I'm up for it yet but maybe I could check that out in the future, thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 11:51 PM
6	There’s a 99% chance sis read the handbook😂❤️ Oh, I love watching her videos! She's inspired me so much!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 11:27 PM
8	This slapped in me in the face on my TikTok FYP and I though you all would also enjoy getting slapped in the face ✨ Oof, I felt this...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 11:12 PM
2	Ashnikko back again with bops 🤩 Yeah, that part of the song bothers me too. Still fucking love it tho, I'll take it tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 11:13 PM
47	If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low value Let him rot! So proud of you! <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 10:35 PM
3	Damn. Please leave him!!! Oh, I was not aware of that. I'll be unfollowing that sub...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 12:19 AM
1	Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍 Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 10:28 PM
1	Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍 Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 10:27 PM
7	Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍 What about lab-made diamonds? I've been eyeing some rings for myself..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 04:02 PM
7	NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia. Let's hope!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 03:38 PM
4	NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia. Wait what has shoe0nhead done?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 03:36 PM
10	Him: let's just see where this is going! Let's not put a label on things 😊. Me: No pity stops either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 09:17 PM
14	How many influencers/celebs have we heard about having complications from cosmetic surgery? And how many NV scrotes still benefit from these beauty standards? I'm also really proud of you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 08:15 PM
4	"ONCE YOU HIT THE WALL, YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER! TEeHeeHeHeE" 🙄 Thank you! <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 05:55 PM
8	"ONCE YOU HIT THE WALL, YOULL BE ALONE FOREVER! TEeHeeHeHeE" 🙄 Hey, I enjoyed your ted talk, but I don't feel that it's necessary to bring "autism causing sperm" into it. I'm autistic and don't really wish I wasn't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/20 12:05 PM
3	Never understood how guys can express a long list of requirements and preferences but as soon as a woman does the same for a guy, she is shallow. I've rewatched this several times for that line hahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/20 04:08 PM
4	I stopped being his mom and it pushed me to end the relationship. HAHA, I'd love to implement this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/20 01:42 PM
20	I literally don’t even have words Damn	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/20 01:37 PM
18	Do not coddle men! Your mother said that to you!?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 03:09 AM
2	Thank you all! 💋 Fuck yeah, go you sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 11:11 PM
10	Be THAT KIND of direct, lol! Thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 09:04 AM
83	Be THAT KIND of direct, lol! What does nsa mean?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/20 09:01 PM
6	One of the creepiest posts ever submitted on 2XC. My response in second. No, we don’t like it when a male stranger compliments our body in line at the grocery store. ffs. Thank you for reminding me of it's existence, I shall spread it to unsuspecting friends!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 11:04 PM
9	Men need to stop complaining that they do not receive compliments from women. Men will delude themselves into thinking we want to have sex with them without us giving them any compliments lol, so I'd rather not make it worse by actually giving them compliments..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 09:25 PM
130	I thought this was perfect for us 😉 I wish a mirror would just materialize in front of these crusty scrotes whenever they criticize women waaay out of their league lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 09:14 PM
2	Combatting touch starvation I am absolutely touch starved. My autistic ass doesn't like touching the vast majority of people though, so I can't really solve it by cuddling with friends. It has definitely played a big role in my past decisions as partners tend to be the only people I can cuddle with. There are a few female friends also, but they live far away. It's especially hard with skin contact (anywhere, hands, arms, I find it painfully uncomfortable). I've got a weighted blanket and am on the lookout for a cat though.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 06:43 PM
19	Don't bother "communicating", actually. Just go. Hello, are you me?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 12:22 AM
7	I got you, babe. I've never thought about that, how gross!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/20 11:24 PM
3	Dealing with a cyberstalker? I may have developed a girl crush on you just now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 11:07 PM
2	A small one, but a red flag nonetheless I'm retroactively understanding why some situations with LVM that made me furious, thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 06:47 PM
7	This is what they really think of you. Hey, don't say that! Garbage can be useful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/20 12:17 PM
24	Only accept what you deserve! I received flowers. But only the day after a fight :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/20 11:54 PM
2	Strong women 💪 👑 Omg I have the biggest crush on Evy! I ordered her book right away after seeing her once hahaha. She is a literal fucking queen, I love her!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 04:47 PM
11	Strong women 💪 👑 Oof, I reacted to that one as well. Really like her talks when he isn't involved though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/20 03:26 PM
6	Miss A “I don't need a man(남자 없이 잘 살아)” This song resonates even more now than ever, especially since it's from a culture that is very blatantly sexist, so it's great to see more and more Korean women realizing their queen value (Turn on captions for lyrics translation!) I love that song! And also Good-bye Baby!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/20 03:24 PM
48	No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity. Lol I asked for exclusivity early on in my last situationship and well....it was a 6+ month long situationship. Lesson learned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/20 11:30 AM
7	Fragile masculinity 101 It's legitimately hot when a man just gets shit done. Not just a person with "plans". I want a man of ACTION.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/20 12:12 AM
3	My friends roommate met up with us after 2 dates yesterday..a coffee date and and a park date. Oof, you said that in a way that I really needed to hear. Thanks sis, damn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/20 11:09 PM
3	they don't even hide it (a collection) Reading this gives me nightmares :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 02:02 PM
3	Examples of disrespect Can you explain what enmeshment with other females is? Like how I can tell the difference from "normal" female friends?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 01:36 PM
3	#1 😂😂😂 of course they won't admit being one Amen sis. I will only reward consistency.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 10:45 PM
12	How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words. Holy fucking shit what a delusional manbaby! How can these men exist!? I'm happy that she can see that this is clearly bs behavior. This sounds like a literal nightmare.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 10:30 PM
1	Woman's self defense Thank you so much for this. It's possibly the only reason that has ever convinced me to do cardio.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 02:45 AM
2	Before r/FemaleDatingStrategy, I would have used this app! Dang, I was thinking about how pretty that girl is!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 05:30 PM
1	What are the signs a man is pornsick? God, I wish I knew about this earlier. My ex (we eventually developed a dead bedroom) would have such a hard time finishing and I used to feel so bad about it, like I wasn't sexy enough. I was his first, he has a massive fucking dick so I don't know what other than pornsickness and a death grip could have caused that. Like big to the point that I had to stop often because it was too painful and I felt bad that HE didn't get to cum! He would also take these extended showers and bathroom visits,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 04:43 PM
3	FDS Answers To Questions The fucking entitlement of him putting a time frame on your response lol. It warms my heart that you blocked him. Also, I love your username!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 03:59 PM
1	There is no energy like that which comes from prioritizing yourself I kind of feel like the ones who feel the need to berate other women for their grooming rituals and what not are still kind of attached to the idea that we do this for MEN. We don't. I like cute shit, I like soft shit, I like sparkly shit. It makes sense that my vessel for this earth includes these things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 02:27 PM
5	This hits too close to my pickme teen years. Why you calling me out like that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 06:34 AM
6	I think the f*ck not This was a lesson I learned the hard way too. I will never let my standards drop that low again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 06:31 AM
16	Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31. Glad to hear it's an ex!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 03:25 PM
17	Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31. I also need to see this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 03:24 PM
18	Oh the duality of straight men.. one month they're telling one guy they'd never date someone over 30 "because 18-20 year olds are just hotter" and the next month they're crying to a bunch of other straight men about being bald and unattractive at 31. What a fucking disgusting pig, that nipple comment. Gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/11/20 03:23 PM
18	the image speaks for itself This is horrifying :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 02:39 PM
21	Sharon Alger wrote a fantastic article about FDS in Medium titled ‘Why Men Really Hate Female Dating Strategy: It Works’ God forbid a woman doesn't loathe herself!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 02:26 PM
2	This just makes me so sad :(( I'm probably a bit older than you so I don't really have your experience with this. Only like one friend that does onlyfans, even then I was shocked tbh. It feels genuinely disturbing that you know many girls in your grade that are like this. It breaks my heart.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:42 PM
6	This just makes me so sad :(( That's insanely inappropriate!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:36 PM
14	Performative femininity? I think in most settings you'll benefit from looking put together or intentional about your style. This doesn't need too much effort imo, like clean clothes that fit and go together, a simple but polished hairstyle, trimmed and clean nails and a good skincare routine and you can make a good impression with minimal or no makeup.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:33 PM
6	Performative femininity? I feel you with the effort thing. I completely stopped taking care of myself after/during a shitty relationship. I've finally started to doll myself up again and I get compliments but also, someone felt the need to point out that I "don't need that" to be pretty. I honestly didn't even feel like explaining it to them so I let it be. I'm not feeling better because I'm putting on makeup and fixing my hair, it's the other way around! I see my prettiness as a symptom of feeling better about myself t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:20 PM
11	Performative femininity? Oh! I'm finally going to be able to do my nails again! My current workplace doesn't allow it for safety reasons, but I'm leaving very soon.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:15 PM
54	Had literally exchanged a few basic sentences with this guy (how are you, where do you live). He said he was having dinner so I said "enjoy" - then this 🙄 I seriously can't relate to their thought process when they randomly spew disgusting shit like this. Porn sickness?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 09:53 AM
21	"I love your cooking" is NOT a real compliment Holy shit, what an ungrateful manchild! Is he a literal fucking toddler???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 08:44 AM
27	You deserve to be cherished! If he wanted to, be would. Mine just stopped using social media when I brought this up lol. Well, the ones I was also on anyway. :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 08:40 AM
26	Just a reminder that men negating your self esteem is a form of control Wow, his life must be so awesome lol..	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 10:42 PM
7	Years later and it still bothers me. Sounds like a nice summary for the relationship with my ex!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 10:35 PM
12	Beware of men who call you beautiful Yep, I got no compliments for years. Like, almost the entire relationship? It did a fucking number on my confidence, stopped trying altogether to groom myself even for myself. Mine seemed to like titty streamers, I'm not exactly well endowed so that was a treat.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:36 PM
12	Beware of men who call you beautiful I like saying "I know" but I'm eager to try this also hahaha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:30 PM
16	How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed. I've seen friends celebrate 8 year engagements... After they had kids and all, like how is that something to celebrate? Congratulations on never getting married?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:15 PM
50	Yep... Pigtails mean you are a slut and how dare she wear her hair like that outside the house... Oh god, that post had me fuming!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:10 PM
10	Men are never just your “friend.” Lmao cut out the middle man! I'mma save that for future use	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 12:48 PM
34	Men are never just your “friend.” Got enough years of experience to say this is almost always the case. Even if they themselves are in denial about it lol. I'm prioritizing female friends nowadays.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 12:46 PM
59	Start your marriage off right by settling 🙂 My love language is being showered daily in gifts and my kink is to live in a mansion, don't shame me!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 01:01 PM
19	Just a few reminders for all the High Value Queens on here... I ain't even double texting, I was out there writing whole ass books with low responses lol. I know better now, but it's new so I can still feel it even though I won't respond or double text. I'm sure it will be better in time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 10:03 PM
15	Just a few reminders for all the High Value Queens on here... I struggle with the first two the most.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 09:29 PM
8	OLD is so effin grim Honestly, I'd just not lead with it. I'm also a gamer and so many men play games casually or are willing to try it for you so I just assume they will get along with it eventually lol. I'm one of those people that feel that there is probably a game or genre for everyone! I dated a guy who started gaming pretty quickly because of me, so don't worry about that bit imo!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 04:00 PM
24	Umm, no. She's not attracting anything. He's just a pervert. So sick of media making women's appearances the problem. Hahaha thank you dear!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 03:43 PM
88	Umm, no. She's not attracting anything. He's just a pervert. So sick of media making women's appearances the problem. Looking back, I'm not surprised my NVM ex was a fan of him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 02:53 PM
4	UPDATE: Leaving LV husband of 3 years I'm so proud of you! I hope Spain brings a lot of fun adventures for you along with PEACE!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/20 12:22 PM
3	*Before Fingers crossed!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 12:40 PM
47	Please never compromise your education and career for a guy Same! Fuck 'growing up and settling down', I'm just getting started!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 12:23 PM
21	The saddest proposal story I’ve ever heard. She wrote it along with a recipe for Mac and cheese on a blog. You and me both, sis. I was waiting around for a proposal for the same amount of time she did lol. Now I can see that 7 years is way too fucking long.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 03:21 PM
2	Learn to accept no-reason gifts Truth. I've also had issues with men paying for even the smallest things, like a dollar lol. I'd pay them back right away. Now I just accept it with a smile regardless of cost and I ain't even dating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 02:23 PM
1	Finally leveling up! Here's to us! <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:48 PM
2	Finally leveling up! It means the world to me, reading that! Thank you love!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:47 PM
1	Finally leveling up! Thank you! I'm glad I finally had a level up-story to share!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:47 PM
1	Finally leveling up! Thank you dear!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:46 PM
2	Finally leveling up! Yep, while my mother is not a pickmeisha, she is basically every other type of toxic so yeah. I'm using her as an example of what I don't want to become. Hugs!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:46 PM
2	Finally leveling up! I'm stoked! A new, awesome chapter has just begun!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:45 PM
2	Finally leveling up! I will, thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 01:44 PM
18	Disclosure of trauma and other negative life experiences What a disgusting person!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 01:50 AM
34	A pick me at my university replying to someone saying they're not comfortable with their partner watching porn I was told in my past dead bedroom that he was picturing me when he would masturbate lol. Really? I'm right here, you fucking idiot. I was literally begging for him to touch me and he wouldn't, fun times!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 12:55 AM
13	Remember that LVM/NVM are the rule and not the exception--anyone who tells you otherwise is a pickme. Men ghost us all the time, it's only fair to give them a taste of some eQuAliTy rIgHt nOw sInCe wOmEn hAvE aLl tHe DaTiNg AdVaNtAgEs I agree, why the fuck would you give him the opportunity to rape more children??? Just lock him up and keep him there, he's clearly lost his rights to society imo. I'm in northern europe :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 03:43 PM
16	Remember that LVM/NVM are the rule and not the exception--anyone who tells you otherwise is a pickme. Men ghost us all the time, it's only fair to give them a taste of some eQuAliTy rIgHt nOw sInCe wOmEn hAvE aLl tHe DaTiNg AdVaNtAgEs My abuser got less than five years in prison for raping children, so yeah, preach it sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 03:30 PM
10	It do be like that Honestly, spite has gotten me very far. I just nope when people tell me to "not be angry" or "let the past go". Nah, bitch. I remind myself why the fuck I'm even in my current situation and the anger I feel fuels me to outdo myself every day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 03:25 PM
2	It do be like that Eating disorders have stolen a good chunk of my life and fucked me up good but I've been with ogre-level scrotes who barely even shower while I'm soft, smell good, have shiny hair etc. Please, scrotes, tell me more about how society pressures you into looking good!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 03:20 PM
39	Remember that LVM/NVM are the rule and not the exception--anyone who tells you otherwise is a pickme. Men ghost us all the time, it's only fair to give them a taste of some eQuAliTy rIgHt nOw sInCe wOmEn hAvE aLl tHe DaTiNg AdVaNtAgEs Yeah, some men need more time in therapy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 02:30 PM
50	You shouldn't have to beg for respect. Never love a man who would disregard you like this. I'm in this picture and I don't like it. Pre-FDS me anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 03:04 PM
8	What hard lessons did you learn over the years through dating? Yep, that definitely applies to me too	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/20 11:59 AM
3	I'm not sure if this belongs here. This is so disgusting! I wish, I was around 15 back then :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 10:36 AM
27	I'm not sure if this belongs here. This is so disgusting! I've been introduced as the asian girlfriend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 11:28 PM
1	"I’m NOT into beautiful women ” - Men, Beauty and Power 💄 God, I've had that one! He would tell me all the time that he preferred my face without makeup and point out whatever flaws I had, that he knew I didn't like, and tell me how much he loved them even after I asked him to stop because I don't like it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 04:11 PM
3	BDSM grosses me out so much. To any women reading this, don't allow anyone to pressure you into doing that. It's misogynistic as hell. Thank you for sharing this, I've had a very similar experience and am just now really evaluating why I've participated in this. Like you, I never want to do it again. I literally didn't think about the connection of me being submissive and my past trauma. I'd just ignore any evidence pointing to it because iT's mY OwN ChoIcE and continued to delude myself into thinking it was just an accident that I wanted these things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 12:06 PM
13	Men on Reddit are MAD at these tweets yet fail to understand that these girls are trolling and are repeating excuses and lies men tell women when they cheat 🤣 This thread is giving me life lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 03:07 AM
1	Been wondering for some time; how many neurodivergent women are here? ADHD/ASD combo here as well! Two of the biggest changes in my life have been getting diagnosed and finding FDS this year!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 02:38 AM
42	Reminder to pay attention to words I never used to think like this. Now the bullshit has been unveiled. We live and learn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 10:17 PM
12	A man who is into you will make firm plans when it comes to being around you and take initiative. “You can come if you want” is not it. Glad to hear it's an ex husband, what a horrible thing to say, jesus.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 09:57 PM
4	Ever taken a really good, leveled-up look at your labias and vagina? Shit, I was considering it for physical reasons but yeah no, fuck that. I am not risking numbness lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 09:43 PM
55	We need to stop normalizing the 'men are indecisive' narrative Thinking about how compliant I've been with these things in the past has really opened my eyes up to what a major pickmeisha I was. Like, holy shit. I was waiting for a guy that I had to BEG TO HOLD MY FUCKING HAND to propose to me for 6 years??? That is never fucking happening again!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 09:07 PM