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| 2 | Is it worth offering money to women to be my girlfriend?It’s hollow paying for someone’s affection. After it’s over, your still left with the missing pieces in your life, and now you’re bank account is hurting. | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 05:04 AM |
| 3 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?I’m pretty sure she took the long distance thing as “I am not really into you”. I know you meant something else but, she probably doesn’t feel appreciated by you. Just another notch in your belt. By messaging her now, she probably thinks you’re looking for one thing hence the delayed texts. You have to show her that’s she’s special and important to you and that without her, life seems dull and boring. You need to go on a date and not make it about sex but, about connection and how you two hangin… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Quick guide to hookeup with a girl at a clubWhat kind of vape is “cool”? | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?If your upset about ghosting, watch this: https://youtu.be/Ybld6IG1KtA | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Who dates the hottest girls, excluding rappers, celebrities & sports athletes ?Simps who get used | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Staying hard…tips?L-arginine 3000mg | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Attractive girls I’m see don’t seem to know how to have a conversationYou can get by with looks. They trick you into believing your interesting. Then when you don’t have them, you suddenly need social skills. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | THE NUMBER 1 REASON YOU LOOK LIKE A CREEPVery important. I know depressed people have hard time with this when starting out. Work on one thing at a time and progressively increase the activities you do for hygiene. You could just start with brushing your teeth. It takes two minutes. Make it a priority in your life. You can also habit stack. For instance, every morning you use the washroom. Make a statement that says, “after I use the washroom, I will brush my teeth. Keep at it. If you can, take a shower as well. Make sure to wash every… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?Ya sex got to be a meaningless chore. It feels nice temporarily but, the whole drama of keeping it is exhausting. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needNot being serious for sure, Role playing, sexist remarks in a teasing sort of way, storytelling(this is a skill to develop), banter/teasing, mis-direction is pretty basic good comedy technique, same with sarcasm, just don’t use it to much, impressions, self-depreciation, though that is usually for high status people and shouldn’t be used when you first meet someone, improvisation, energy/emotion in your voice. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 5 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?If they are doing that much shit, they are just going to end up with a talented liar. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop putting hot girls on a pedestal?I think the best thing I heard is if you want trust in a relationship you can’t force people to be with you. When you put them on the pedestal, it’s because you’re worried about losing them. To have a good relationship, you have to be willing to let them have autonomy and not try to control them. This can also be done through gratitude by appreciating the positive things in your life. All and all, they are not the be all, end all of your happiness that your ego would like you to believe. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needI would say you have to develop a personality of going out on your own and starting conversations. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 07:15 AM |
| 18 | Does smoking weed get you laid?This. Women seem to want to use their sexuality to attain things that can be helpful in their life from the man. Figure out what she wants. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 0 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?You just do it and expect her to cheat | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Update to the Post: “How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a loner”One that screwed me up in a relationship was trust. You lose it, it ruins everything. Tell the truth no matter what. You guys are unit and can work through it as long as there is trust. Don’t forget love is conditional. Nothing is for granted. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 09:48 PM |
| 3 | As a virgin, it hurts me to see teenagers younger than me make out and hold hands. Seeing sex ed for teens sadens me. I have so much sorrow and regret from missing out on teenage expereinces and I would really like some words of encouragmentI would go talk to someone about this. This can lead to co-dependent relationships where you’re desperate. It’s not healthy to want something so much. There’s a deeper issue here that needs to be address as to why it’s causing you so much pain. This coming from a guy who felt the same way at 19 and decided I didn’t care what happened to me as long as I got that connection. That much neediness will push people away. Speaking from experience. I haven’t figured it out yet. It’s lack of values, self… | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Nothing is given in life. You have to go out and make what is yours. Part of that is defending your made up values from other people who oppose them. Nice doesn’t reveal anything about your values or if you can defend them. She wants to know what’s important to you and if your brave enough to stand up for it. You would do this by standing up to aggression against you and shaming those who go against this. Shame is a dark art. If you’re shaming people, you not being a “nice guy”. Neither would yo… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 05:07 PM |
| -1 | WHERE THE FUCK DO I LOOK AT WHEN A GIRL IS WALKING PAST ME?Straight for the boobs. It’s really up to you. Remember that you gaze is a gift. Don’t give it out to often. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?A study showed being callous and having no remorse made you more attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | So self improvement is preached here. But at what point are you good enough?I think keeping busy in general is the idea. If you slow down, suicide tends to creep in. Keep moving forward. It doesn’t have to be the generic exercise, healthy eating, sleeping right. Just keeping busy at something will make you better at it. Know that you’re good enough no matter what and that status is a game built around shame that you don’t have to play. It can only affect you if you agree to shame yourself for not being number one. Shame does no good for anyone and only serves to make yo… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Young guy balding solutionsGo to Turkey for hair implants | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to just not be meant for girls or be successful with them no matter how hard u try or how hard u try to improve etc?If you have that belief, then yes. You are however limiting yourself from any potential you have. You can’t know what kind of potential you have, but you can always better it. Also there’s no real way to predict the future. You could have someone who’s interested in you only to be denied because you don’t believe you should be with a girl. There is a certain dance for sure to learn. If you give up though, you’re going to miss out on relationships. They are important because you learn a lot about… | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Ideas for opening lines on dating appsYou can try all these lines but, if your Pictures suck, they won’t respond. Make sure you have pictures of yourself doing stuff outside and with people. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Guys, one of the most important things to women that is never mentioned here is having a HIGH VALUE FRIEND GROUP.Anyone on TV usually has no problem getting women in the sac. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 12:36 AM |
| 9 | Guys, one of the most important things to women that is never mentioned here is having a HIGH VALUE FRIEND GROUP.Word of warning: Jealousy can manifest in these groups if people start getting desperate and turn your back on each other. If you really want to succeed with this strategy, you need to set boundaries. A hot women will usually destroy friendships like this. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | I feel like committing suicideThose are just stories you have come to believe. You need to work with someone to break the negative cycle you’re in. All those thoughts are lies and stories that you’re brain is cherry-picking to get you to believe your worthless to protect you from pain. Read The Confident Mind. It might help you see how your negative thought pattern is keeping you stuck. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 311 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidHonestly, I find the real point of exercise is mental health. The modern world is stressful and exercise is extremely beneficial in keeping your mind and body healthy and in good working order. It’s not a silver bullet like you said but, definitely helps. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That’s an arbitrary question that your using to put yourself in a box. There is no real answer as it’s all going to be biased. Trying to fit in with the “status quo” will cause you therapy in the long run. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Things to know about sexOne thing for dry pussy is to spit in your hand and use it as lube. Also some women need gentleness. Not every girl likes to be plowed going full tilt like you see in porn. It’s can be painful and make her bleed. One more thing, anal sex needs prep work. Look it up before attempting. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 8 | Baby steps... talking to chicks in mallsLet’s be real, they all “hoes” | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You could say that I work in the PGA… Propane and Gas Accessories, aheh heh heh | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Techniques For Seducing A Married Woman?It started awhile ago. She showed up to my job site. Blonde hair, blue eyes, short, fit, basically dream girl. She drove truck which meant she was somewhat of a boss to me. I’m always nervous around attractive women. So I act all shy around them. Eventually she came up to me and we started to talk a bit. A month passed and she was offered a job as supervisor. This pretty much made her in charge. My job can be pretty isolating. So everyday there after, I would get to see her because she would hav… | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]And that’s when she cheats. I’d call it quits if taking time away is the option. She sounds very distant. Sucks but, she probably thinking about a way out. Focus on yourself. You deserve someone who wants to spend time with you and not act all distant. This happened to me a few months ago and I thought giving her space was the answer and she would come back. Nope. Should have ditched her ass. The pain of break up sucks though. I just think it would have felt better if I ended it on my terms. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Serendipity. Change things up. If it’s the same every night, she gonna be mad. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Speech therapy | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 4 | What Are Your Techniques For Seducing A Married Woman?Just make moves and pretend you don’t know. That’s how my ex ended up cheating on me. Guy who makes more money. She told me the first thing he said to her was “There’s my wife”. She was pretty much gushing after that. She would also often tell me of other guys trying to get with her by calling her and saying they were interested in her. She just used me. Women just want that validation. Once you’re with her, she’s already validated. She would also tell me “ It’s hard to retain ass” because the s… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:59 AM |
| 9 | Self improving but still no results with women, now what?Sounds like your not creating enough rapport. Cold approach’s aren’t going to be as easy to retain as compared to a common a meeting place and common interests. Trust is huge in this day and age where there is little of it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?Both. One makes you lazy and forgetful, the other kills your manliness. Porn is probably the worst. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Am I just horny or is this a sign?Make sure you watch what you eat. Don’t want to get sick or anything. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 04:25 AM |
| 30 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :Found out his job, accomplishment or something that made them stand out from the rest(Traveller) that they find attractive. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | This is a friendly reminder that you should start a skincare routine if you don't have oneJust started one with Geologie. It’s pretty good. I used to use cortisone on my face for dry, flaky, red skin on my nose and face. I no longer have that problem with the daily cream they have. Pretty simple stuff too. Comes with instructions. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Should have made something up, emergency what not… Easier to see now than in the moment and how it played out however. Guess moral of the story is don’t push and maintain the relationship with grace. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I get as many notches under my belt as fast as possible?Boomhauer method: https://youtu.be/N7FVmeJXwCY | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 13 | Best locations for vacation seductionI swear the hottest girls come from Columbia | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]As a person who has been guided by emotion for far too long, don’t do it. Your emotions will tell you, “you’re too tired”. However once you start doing something, the energy will come. Don’t believe your feelings. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 0 | How can I create sexual thoughts in someone’s mind?Legs are easy, a nice butt in anything is positive, cleavage, smiling, colourful hair, jumping jacks, can your elbows touch other behind you, touching, winking, suggestive movements with your hands, pretending to suck dick jokingly, kissing movement with your mouth, spanking your butt, belly dancing, hugs and you saying you make me feel so safe, | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How often do women approach men?It happened to me. She was 7.5/10, very fit cuz she used stims and used to compete in swimming. Double Ds, short, blonde, blue eyes, owned a house. Fucked like a porn star. I asked her over text, but, she gave me hints to do it in person. They really want you to call them or ask them in person. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middleGo for mediocre. You’re trying to think of the perfect thing to say rather than just flowing. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | (19m) feel like i’m missing outYou’re in the industry. Go out Sunday, Monday. You will meet other industry people and get in on the hang out. My Brother met his wife by just writing a note on the check for the waitress. Also it might be a bit hard. It’s my understanding that women in your age range dating guys who are “Bad Guys”. You could always go younger, maybe 17. Just don’t be surprised if she dumps your ass to go to collage. Dump\cheat\whatever. I read a news article that cheating on women is healthy for males. Coming f… | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 03:30 AM |
| 4 | How can I change and make this my year? M31You’re going to have to get uncomfortable. What ever your mind is telling you, you can’t do, you do it anyways and understand that it is a conservative estimate at best however mostly a lie. I would focus getting good sleep, hygiene/self-care, work out routine and eating healthy under your belt, then ask this question again to help find the next step. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 03:26 PM |
| 11 | Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob?Ya because it was her first time. She literally tried to “suck” | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 04:17 AM |
| 16 | Do many women like giving head?My ex gave the best head, though it troubles me how she got so good. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 7 | drunk texted a lot of women, what now?This is some wallstreet bets shit | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:00 AM |
| 5 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.I’m so glad I went crazy and burned our bridges. That would have been hell. Sorry for your pain though. I recently got dumped to and know its fucking painful. I’ve been doing neurofeed back however and it helps with the depression. Almost feels like I’m doing spotless mind of eternal sunshine but not erasing memories. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Jerry did that and it turned into prostitution. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | girl asks me if I'm mad after a failed kiss close. what should I do?Probably shit test. She probably sees you as a boyfriend but, needs to know how needy you are and if you can brush small things off and still want to be with her. I would think she is looking for a relationship and not a fling. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.I would try drama class to help get over people’s opinion affecting you. Also, I would start a work out routine. Don’t worry if you feel like you don’t belong, you do belong in the gym. I would also get good grades and do after school stuff, like join basketball team, football etc…, if you like music, practice an instrument you like. Just by doing these things, some girls will find you attractive because your a person with a future ahead of them. Ignore dumb sluts and asshole types. Don’t get dr… | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Is it even possible to get out of the friendzoneIn my experience, you just get labelled as a creep. I would keep the relationship and keep looking. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 01:28 AM |
| 4 | That feel when you ask her out and get rejected!You can always decide to laugh it off too to fuck with the negative response your mind usually has | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 04:30 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Slow down man. Work on relationship skills first. Focus on a hobby or goal. Think about how you’re going to make money after high school. Seriously study it. Pussy follows success and dreams. Just don’t let it derail a good life. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Increase this 1 thing to get laid more often 🍑👉👌I don’t think a deep voice matters that much. It’s more you don’t want it to be monotone. Monotone is a serious pussy killer. Having a pleasant voice that people enjoy listening to can do wonders for you attaining peoples approval. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says you should drink text her what does that mean?It means she’s looking for a good time from you. If you can provide, she will probably want to have more fun with you. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:38 PM |
| 17 | Well I asked out my classmate today.Rejection hurts, the key take away though is you didn’t die and the pain was only temporary. Your strong enough to do it again champ! | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Okay so handshake or hug when meeting dateGrab her right in the pussy. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?You didn’t ask for her number. There’s so much going on in people’s lives that random dude at the gym isn’t going to be top on their priorities. You really only had that one moment between you guys to make something happen. Moral of the story, move in fast on random encounters. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Boobs out and challenge him. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 04:29 AM |
| 8 | Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit.It’s hard putting up a charade for so long . Eventually, it’s just easier being you. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!Cave man dude when you’re both high. She will either let it happen or not. Let her decide. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | What tricks can I use to fool girls into thinking that I have other options, and am not easily replaceable?Be George Costanza and carry around a picture of a model and say it’s your ex. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 04:30 AM |
| 4 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itYou lose energy, your body isn’t growing as much as it was in your teens/early 20’s. Real life sets in with all the financial and self maintenance responsibilities. Most women your age are looking to settle down and are looking for long term mature choice rather than the “party guy”. A lot of “loose” girls probably are single moms by this age as well. Younger girls can weed you out just by the way you talk. Unless your loaded or have the charisma of Robin Williams, it becomes a game of what’s th… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 3 | I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this?Come with other girls? Also, numbers game. Don't wait for an invitation. Smoke pit is good place to chat. Also waiting in line for a drink. You could approach tables and make up a bunch of bull shit about yourself.They might dance with you. They might not. They could be there with other friends and just want to be with them. Just don't try to grind off the get go. If there not interested, move on. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?Just gotta guard yourself and try not to dive in so hard. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 0 | This girl (20F) at my (20M) school started texting me and sprung a weekend together snowboarding on me. Just trying to determine whether or not I’m “in”?Might be using you to go to said mountain. Nothing is guaranteed. Might be in friend zone. Realistically it's just friends going to mountain. Unless you asked her out, it's tough to tell. Girls usually are more attracted to guys that ask them and not the other way. You will probably have to demonstrate girls are into you to make her jealous. Just talk about past relationships and see where they are at. | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 09:13 PM |
| 3 | How can I get a Boyfriend?Well try to just be a little more outgoing. Ask for help with math. Guys love to help. Getting a part-time job might help you get out more. Joining the theater might help too. It can get you out of your comfort zone and realize its ok to be weird sometimes. If you go to parties, remember guys are raging with hormones and want to get you drunk to have sex with you. I wouldn't put out for at least three months if you want to have relationship. Just whats comfortable with you before then. | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl Stops Make Out - What Did I Do Wrong?You got sexual too fast. Shes probably not looking for a fling. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Just remember listening is loving. You have lots to offer. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 08:07 PM |
| 3 | I feel as if I'm social and funny in some situations, but at other times (when the girl is attractive) I get socially awkward or say dumb things. How do I change that?Fear man. Like everyone else you're worried you are going to fail or you have to have something clever to say all the time. This is a pit fall because when you start to think to much about what to say, you are activating your left brain and it can only think logically and this in turn shuts down your right brain which is responsible for creative parts of your brain. A conversation is not a rocket ship you are building, it is art and needs to flow effortlessly without too much thought. Once you c… | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 07:56 PM |
| 13 | There is only one thing that you can lose by talking to girls:All that stuff about losing is just a state of mind is bullshit. You have to experience rejection, ackwardness, painful stuff for sure. You have go through it and not resist it. Then get back on your feet. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 12:23 AM |
| 0 | 4 Tips For Eliminating Approach AnxietyI concur. That's how drug dependencies are made and that's a hell you don't want to be in. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 05:21 AM |
| 1 | My "inner game" is spiraling down and I can´t stop itJust want to say man no one deserves that. She treated you like shit. She's garbage. She obviously has commitment issues and was to scared to act like an adult and tell you about them. I would definitely work out and eat healthy. If you lose the motivation just remind yourself you will never feel like it and do it anyways. Also meditation can help with the separation anxiety so you don't fall into thought spirals(ie a negative thought about a person will put you in a negative mood thus creating … | /r/seduction | 04/08/16 10:22 PM |
| 10 | Don't ignore your fears and problems, deal with it, the sooner you deal with it the sooner you'll get your reward. You have greatness in you, don't underestimate yourself and don't overestimate the world. You are worthy of everything this world has to offer. You are the prize.The hardest part is dealing with the stress of change. Workout, eat healthy, and allow emotions to flow. Love yourself no matter what mistakes you make. Not everyone is going to love you but, you gotta love you. | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Come back from a bad reputation?You have to use other people to influence her. If she sees you being fun and attractive with other people she will have to question her opinion and probably join the crowd. | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Helpful book for us "nice guys".You can be nice. Just set boundaries and if something makes you mad, let the other person know. Don't be a push over, that's it. Be assertive. | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what's a book which helped you improve your game?That's true but then you might be reinventing the wheel when someone else has already figured out a better way. They give you books in school for a reason. You should be reading and performing. | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Freshman in college: What's your biggest regret so far? What was it about college you didn't expect?I would say start eating healthy and get a good workout routine going. Hire a personal trainer if you can so you can skip months of learning it on your own. Its too important not to. Next limit alcohol. You don't want to be the drunkest guy at the party. Talk to people. Start with an opener, move to small talk, find interests. If you're the nervous type, get into yoga or meditation. Don't befriend everyone. At first its OK. Get into university extracurricular activities. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Where does jealousy come from and how did you get rid of it?I used to get crazy jealous. What helped me was accepting that they were both happy and found happiness with each other. Its what every human wants and you can be happy with the fact that they are happy in that moment in time. It was less of drain to think like this and kept me in the race. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 01:00 PM |
| 3 | How do I start/keep a conversation going ?Notice something happen in the moment or relay a story or feeling. Make a comment about it. Expand on the nouns. Keep expanding trying to flow from one noun to another with anything you find interesting. Sometimes its a 80/20 where you have to talk for 80% of the time until the other person starts talking. Alternatively you can ask interesting questions or ideas just as long there is a good excuse. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm a twenty-year-old loser trying to find a way out.If you want out, you have to break those chains. Those hobbies you have are not very social. Its going to take time and discipline. But your 20 freaking years old. You still have time. You have to develop new interests. If your finding it hard to get motivated, you can either start doing cardio 3x a week, or start taking an antidepressant. I recommend just working out and eating healthy but antidepressants can motivate you too. But ya gotta make a commitment to being more social. I know how addi… | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 10:55 PM |
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