Does smoking weed get you laid?

BigTBoneDog · 2022-06-14T17:52:18+00:00

well, I had a friend who lived beside a drug dealer and this drug dealer was not good looking but he was constantly hitting way out of his league, so maybe yes.

James_Bob_007 · 2022-06-14T17:33:28+00:00

Guys doing drugs have some sort of a bad guy/an element of danger vibe = attractive for a lot of girls.
If she likes drugs and you like them too = you have something in common.
in terms of social status, girls who are into money will like rich guys. High school and college girls will like popular guys from their social circle, girls who are into art will like painters, art teachers etc. Girls who are into EDM music will like DJs etc. My point: in each social circle, based on her preferences = a different type of men will be on top of the social hierarchy. Now do the maths. For girls who want drugs, a guy who can supply her is some sort of alpha/a popular guy in that niche.

I am not doing drugs or promoting drugs btw. But I have seen this scenario tons of time.

An element of danger + adventure + something in common + social status in that niche.

It surely works on some girls.

rennitbaby · 2022-06-14T17:14:06+00:00

[permanently deleted]

whomeverIwishtobe · 2022-06-14T18:36:39+00:00

Wait you guys didn’t know that asking girls to come smoke is a easy way to get laid?

In all seriousness it’s not a great play for every girl and some girls will take offense to the idea but being a smoker and asking if they have weed in pics or are smoking in pics is a solid way to score.

QueasyEducator5205 · 2022-06-14T17:17:46+00:00

In my experience, it is much easier to get a girl if you have some sort of drug. Be it wine, pot, coke, w.e. that is not to say any of these girls are quality girls...

Imo this has no place in a first date let alone a profile bio.

Kevin26039898 · 2022-06-14T17:50:27+00:00

You get bad quality girls who want someone to buy 🌿 for them Keep your body healthy

Squeeky211 · 2022-06-14T17:31:57+00:00

im 46 & ive been smoking weed since 18 .. before i met my SO a lot of the girls that pulled me into bed were all 420 friendly girls .. when i met my SO I thought she was straight edged until i pulled a joint out and she was relieved that i was a weed smoker because it turned out thar she was one too. Here we are, 20yrs & two kids later and we’re still pot heads ..

Does smoking wee get you laid? .. uh, well its been working well for me in that department ..

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-06-14T19:09:43+00:00

Don’t rely on drugs to seduce women, don’t be that guy

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-06-14T17:38:22+00:00

abnormal_flora · 2022-06-14T18:22:29+00:00

Woman and weed smoker for around about 20 years give or take some because I quit for various reasons over the years (for jobs, pregnant) if I'm about to be dating someone I feel the need to put it out there so they know. Some guys are just against drugs in general, which is totally their right. But I need to know that it will be okay and accepted in whatever relationship I may be entering. Also, I would never depend or expect someone else to buy it for me. I don't like to run out and I get quality (I'm not in a legal state). Also if I meet a guy and he like to smoke too, I get excited, because it is (sometimes unfortunately) a big part of my life.

As for the quality of girls who smoke weed...I mean, I don't know your personal description of quality, but I graduated college with a 4.0, my husband is able to be a mostly at home dad on my salary (he works maybe 16 hours a week) I work in healthcare doing gods work without any recognition (maybe I'm being a little dramatic) but anyway, you get the point

n00b1shx3 · 2022-06-14T20:26:40+00:00

Yes bro girls love weed

Specialist_Offer317 · 2022-06-14T19:10:29+00:00

cocaine

CarlosJamesColumna · 2022-06-14T20:04:11+00:00

a smoke session can turn into a date really quick

lucyducyfur · 2022-06-14T20:18:36+00:00

What are you a nark

MauPow · 2022-06-14T22:10:41+00:00

No because I become an absolute fucking catatonic idiot when stoned

iwun87 · 2022-06-14T17:36:40+00:00

They just wanna smoke your weed.

MrDownhillRacer · 2022-06-14T19:33:18+00:00

People like people who live similar/compatible lifestyles to them. Stoners are going to be drawn to stoners, and those who don't smoke weed are less likely to date somebody whose personality is "420 blaze it lmao."

That doesn't mean that it's a necessity. There are plenty of couples where one party smokes weed and the other doesn't. I think people might telegraph that they are "420 friendly" because they are looking for a non-judgemental, easy-going person who doesn't mind staying in for date night sometimes and doesn't think that doing drugs makes you a bad person. They're not looking for some "24/7 grindset" type, or somebody who is too uptight and straight-laced. You can have those traits without doing drugs yourself.

But also keep in mind that if one party has little interest in doing anything other than hitting the bong and playing video games… if that's their entire existence… somebody who has goals and ambitions in life isn't going to be compatible with that person, even if they themselves also smoke weed.

But, in short, smoking weed purely to get laid is a dumb idea. If you're not getting any now, you're not going to start getting some just because you smoke.

Top-Dragonfruit-6101 · 2022-06-14T17:30:51+00:00

Definitely not

MountainGoatSC · 2022-06-14T17:58:49+00:00

It helps only with a small subset of girls who are into smoking weed which is honestly not that many

SimplyLeon · 2022-06-14T20:56:52+00:00

Short answer yes.

I knew a 'big time' dealer back at uni who I sometimes helped and was p close with. He would constantly have a new girl every week. He wasn't a 10/10 in my book, idk though I'm a guy but I like to think I know when another guy is good looking and attractive, but the girls he'd hook up with were definitely 10's, some were street as fuck though but they were 10's. He obviously had confidence, big set of balls (reason I'm saying this is because I saw him do some p heavy shit twice when I was helping him out) and he carried himself in a certain way, guess you could just say he was v street wise along with him being somewhat of a dickhead if you weren't pals with him or if you didn't buy of him. I'm waffling though, but you get the picture and I'll confidently say, selling drugs and doing drugs gets you laid, whether it be Weed, MD, Coke, and no doubt heavier shit, especially if you're the plug, some people are into the whole 'drug dealer boyfriend/girlfriend' shit fr

WoodpeckerNo5416 · 2022-06-14T17:51:39+00:00

thrxwxwxyxbvxxslx · 2022-06-14T18:22:18+00:00

I smoke, still a virgin. Most girls dont like it..... Wish they did lol. Fml

EagleEyeWaterBoy · 2022-06-14T18:37:21+00:00

naw, but it does get you high. and sometimes high sex is THE MOVE! 8)

Ruizzus · 2022-06-14T18:44:54+00:00

The last 2 ive met off apps were potheads although they didn’t write it on their profiles. I don’t smoke but honestly don’t mind if others do. so I just hang out with them while they smoke. I try to just chill and try to crack a few jokes. They never expected me to buy them any weed but I did drive them to go pick some up every now and then

mamaknulare · 2022-06-14T18:54:03+00:00

Lol no. If anything weed has made me more anti social and kept me from getting laid.

steegyy · 2022-06-14T18:54:32+00:00

Smoking and having drugs available can help cast a wider net but I would say using regularly with reduce it. If you use occasionally and keep a little stashed in case I connect with a girl like that but better to not. make a lifestyle or post pics at all related to that.

MasonJarTeaDrinker · 2022-06-14T18:59:58+00:00

34 here, I’ve always wondered this lol, but I don’t smoke cause I drive a big rig, so I can’t relate :/

Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-06-14T19:08:01+00:00

No, but drinking does.

BaldBeaverHunter- · 2022-06-14T19:08:17+00:00

I was addicted to smoking and fucking for a while and while it’s very pleasuring I don’t recommend it as a man because it makes you very passive and sometimes awkward so stay sober or just get a little tipsy as he in control and vocal.

Specialist_Offer317 · 2022-06-14T19:10:20+00:00

bamhawkmagera · 2022-06-14T19:10:40+00:00

You could smoke, but if she smokes that a no no. You guys will be high all day everyday and fuck high. But as for self growth and development it’s not. It’ll be even a bigger distraction especially if you fall in love with a stoner. Go make some money first and consider that after

WolfofLawlStreet · 2022-06-14T19:10:48+00:00

I mean, yes and no. If that’s your type of girl. it gives you a reason to hang out often. If you physically escalate like say you’re smoking and watching a movie. It can get you laid, I’ve done that a few times but it’s no different then just hanging out and not smoking.

letmereaddamnit · 2022-06-14T19:16:28+00:00

Nah. It can work as excuse to get a girl to hangout but if she's not attracted to you she won't smash

Dinkinflicka43 · 2022-06-14T20:10:49+00:00

If they’re into weed, it’s a great thing to have in common and great excuse to hangout. Kind of like if they drink, then it’s easy to invite them to a bar. It’s especially relevant in the states where it’s still illegal.

yo_saturnalia · 2022-06-14T20:43:16+00:00

Maybe also ask the experts over at r/drugs for unintended side effects of drugs such as drowning in an excess of pussy

DHoodie · 2022-06-14T20:52:25+00:00

No lie, I ate the best Pussy when I smoked, shit was hella slow but I was into it lol. Even tried smoking while stroking. That part was ok, except when she wanted to hit it, while getting hit. So I just put it out.

bandsupjay · 2022-06-14T21:18:09+00:00

Hey man. If you don’t smoke cause that shit, dont smoke. You dont need to fit in with someone to be liked. The only thing you guys are going to have is things in common but thats not enough to fuck lol. I hate smoking. I can’t think and I feel so low vibration. Thats my value, and thats yours as well. Own that shit dude. You’re cool enough, you don’t gotta try fitting in lol, im sure that means nothing to girls anyways.

Dearly_beloved_1078 · 2022-06-14T21:52:45+00:00

Smoking has gotten me laid twice and almost laid a third time. I smoke every night before bed, so the segue was a smooth one. 😄 Doubt it would work on everyone tho.

eatout2helpout · 2022-06-14T22:09:58+00:00

im sure i read this somewhere in uk history the smoking of weed was banned because it made women horny and they were shagging outside of marriage im not 100% sure if this it correct or not i think i was stoned at the time

KakkaKarrot · 2022-06-14T22:20:14+00:00

In my experience they usually don't end up being people I'm compatible with. I'd describe myself as 'motivated' and while you'd definitely get laid, they seem to really enjoy sitting on the couch doing nothing for hours

LongHairedKraut · 2022-06-14T22:34:59+00:00

Smoking weed is something I always did with pretty much every girl I've been with. Normally I'll bring a couple joints to share but usually she'll have her own as well. My last gf used to roll me blunts every time I would go over to her house lol. If I'm going to smoke with anyone tho the ideal situation is if both parties have some to contribute. If she's cool, she'll provide weed in addition to what you bring. It's good courtesy to always bring some of your own, so I would stick to that rule.

yupyupyuypypn · 2022-06-14T22:35:13+00:00

For me? Fuck no. It kills my libido and motivation to do anything but watch boxing on YouTube and eat…. Not an ideal aphrodisiac (personally).

no_not_this · 2022-06-14T22:46:39+00:00

Every girl who posts that is trash imo. Don’t waste your time with them. If you smoke weed cool. It’s not a personality trait

Shanbaceball · 2022-06-14T18:37:51+00:00

Congrats on not being a smoker and working through your problems w o drugs

MomsSpecialFriend · 2022-06-14T18:42:50+00:00

No one is fucking for weed, don't be that guy. Weed is either: recreationally legal, medicinally legal or illegal and whichever the situation, they already have a plug and just want a date.

Would it open more doors if you smoke weed or are at least cool with people who smoke weed around you? yes. Trying to leverage that beyond just being a cooler human is pointless.

-girl who smokes weed

ChiefGentlepaw · 2022-06-14T18:23:40+00:00

It absolutely does not get you laid -- if anything, it's a red flag to women if one of your interests is getting stoned. Women don't like deadbeats, and stoner culture SCREAMS deadbeat.

By the way, seeing this stuff in a girls profile should also be a red flag to you. These women tend to be morbidly depressed.

Golferama · 2022-06-14T18:58:10+00:00

These are very poor quality women that probably only eat cheetos for breakfast. Weed isn’t entirely bad but having a personality that’s dedicated to a drug will hurt your life more than anything. Women who show off their drug use are giving you red flags and you’re still trying to jump through hoops for that. Find women that promote a healthy lifestyle. Healthy lifestyle= healthy relationship

rhofire · 2022-06-14T17:17:32+00:00

I’m more just curious if my assessment about it is right

It's wrong. Also, you should meet more women in real life.

Soberskate9696 · 2022-06-14T18:50:51+00:00

Drugs money and sex

tdroylshy · 2022-06-14T20:12:40+00:00

For me, yes, but I'm also 6'7, look good, and am established so I doubt it's the weed by itself.

TheNextBigCrash · 2022-06-14T21:39:20+00:00

This is a new low for this sub 😂 taking drugs to get laid…

After all the “work on yourself” stuff that gets thrown around - gym, hobbies, self-worth etc… we’re now talking about taking/supplying drugs as a means to get laid. The desperation…

Just in case anyone is still on the fence, drugs are the polar OPPOSITE of self-improvement. If you need drugs to feel good, you’re not “having a smoke”, you’re partaking in an addiction. I’ve seen drugs, even weed, fuck people up and it’s not something worth doing, ESPECIALLY if it’s just to get some girls.

When it comes to seduction/dating, taking drugs should be a huge, massive red flag to you. Do you really want to give your time to someone who’s mood is so low they have to regularly take illegal substances to satiate themselves? It just baffles me…

seba_sabe · 2022-06-14T19:29:35+00:00

Weed smoker here. Yes girls that like drugs want guys that have drugs. Honestly it's a reason why I always look for girls who don't smoke, so I know they don't want my weed. If I gotta spend money to get laid, bro I prefer to get me one that does it as a profession.

Blaphrodite · 2022-06-14T20:39:57+00:00

Sure… if you like girls that stink like weed.

I once dated a 420…. I don’t smoke. And I’ll never do it again. Yuck.

Dude was stinking up my apartment for no good reason.

The 420s can have each other, if you don’t do weed or drugs, pass on them

spiderSlayerr · 2022-06-14T18:57:13+00:00

If you smoke girls will obviously like you more because it shows your bad boy and can be a chill person to be around. Now I don’t smoke weed but I do smoke cigarettes. Girls mainly smoke weed while guys mainly smoke cigarettes. This is where you guys can share smoking together maybe take a hit of her joint while she takes a hit of your Marlboro red. Now keep in mind young girls like guys who smoke older girls probably past 30 don’t(for the most part)

overgrowntaint · 2022-06-14T19:36:51+00:00

This sub is pathetic

Chinoui66 · 2022-06-14T18:22:27+00:00

Yes. With girls that smoke weed too !

SkeetSkeet123hj · 2022-06-14T18:25:34+00:00

It’s like anything. You’ll attract stoner girls but generally not attract girls who don’t smoke. All about social niches and what people look for

Goonmann_31 · 2022-06-14T18:49:22+00:00

Does weed itself help? Eh, depends I guess. For me, I go with the flow, and good things happen. Especially when high. Good things ranging from getting even higher, some new mates, or laid. Just gotta go with the flow.

2022-06-14T18:49:28+00:00

No 😂

semxlr5 · 2022-06-14T18:53:05+00:00

My friends who do generally lose interest in getting laid.

willbebossin · 2022-06-14T18:53:09+00:00

I wouldn't put that as a big attracting factor. I think people are okay with casual weed usage but if you lean to much into it for some people it may look bad. As a guy I don't smoke anymore but if I did I wouldn't mention of showcase that until they mentioned it or it came up in some other way.

Bigballerway93 · 2022-06-14T19:06:19+00:00

If that were the case then I’d be Wilt Chamberlin

ThatGuy_Nick9 · 2022-06-14T19:28:54+00:00

Probably with a tweaker for some bud. But not really. For me it’s a thing that can be a nice added mutual interest. Two people who smoke together have a big “in” to get to know one another at a more personal level. But this is the same as any other activity: going to the gym, traveling, school, video games, nationality…

theosamabahama · 2022-06-14T20:08:57+00:00

It can help you with stoner girls. But that's true for any "hobby" or interest. If you watch anime, it will help you with anime fan girls. If you play a certain game, it can help you with girls who play the same game. People like to date other people with the same hobbies and interests as them.

babloo_25 · 2022-06-14T20:50:44+00:00

Why would you be a supplier?

Texan2116 · 2022-06-14T21:13:30+00:00

Weed is sorta like cigarettes, or drinking...These are habits/hobbies that are frequently must haves, or deal breakers.

brothersanta · 2022-06-14T21:32:20+00:00

girls that smoke go directly to the front unless they're fat and ugly lol

intelectualycurious · 2022-06-14T21:39:58+00:00

If that’s the type of girl you want to be with then yes.

Ohhhwordddd · 2022-06-14T22:12:57+00:00

I rarely smoke but I added 420 friendly in my bio and have had a small uptick in matches

GorillaGlue89 · 2022-06-14T22:14:01+00:00

weed became more popular so in a sense it’s an experience people like to share. If it’s not for you it’s not. But I’ve had a great time w those that do, we both bring our own or one of us treats the other. It’s a love language when you go deep into but so is everything, movies, music, Harry Potter stuff

Title	Does smoking weed get you laid?
Author	ksmith11011
Upvotes	65
Comments	118
Date	June 14, 2022 5:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vc8c3n/does_smoking_weed_get_you_laid/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/does-smoking-weed-get-you-laid.1257076 https://theredarchive.com/post/1257076

Comments