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ConversationThatGuy_Nick9/r/seduction25/10/21 06:37 PM
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ConversationThatGuy_Nick9/r/seduction14/04/22 10:37 PM
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Excellent. I’ve noticed this, but I’ve never actually thought about it logically. I think it literally just boils down to “ooh I don’t mind them touching me” versus “ah yeah let’s keep this professional”
/r/seduction14/04/23 04:48 PM
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I think I know what you’re saying but that’s definitely not what my experience has been on the subject. Kissing a woman is a very interesting thing indeed
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:08 AM
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No
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:02 PM
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Yeah no.. intelligence and intellect are different in this context. Most women won’t be turned on when you talk about history or tanks. Buuut many more might be turned on listening to you talk about something more relevant or witty. So it’s not that “simpletons” get more attention, they just say less to turn potential sexual partners off. Being witty is about having the intelligence to think on your feet and say something or contribute to a conversation in a surprising or entertaining way. Intel…
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:49 PM
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By smiling and looking into her eyes
/r/seduction30/08/22 11:54 PM
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Stoli/titos
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:55 AM
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I think many people are going to not understand the point here, unfortunately. It’s actually pretty decent advice for many of you who struggle with dating. Soooo many of my best relationships started that way. I keep seeing “beta vibes” in the comments but women won’t see it that way. Many men look at me and say “you don’t pull, you’re not manly enough.” But I’ve almost certainly pulled many more and higher quality women than most (not to brag, I travel a lot and have been moving around the worl…
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:48 PM
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Idk that’s not my experience at all.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:42 PM
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Just talking for 6 mo. will do that
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:31 PM
1

Good god man, you go to horny jail
/r/seduction26/07/22 03:44 AM
1

Exactly, just meme the comments for karma and move on
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:18 PM
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Need mor signs plz halp
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:17 PM
1

De donde eres
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:17 PM
6

Well there’s the problem
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:43 AM
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Lmfao this is satire guys
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:03 PM
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Lmfao 😂 hey, I know in some states, you don’t have to get physically married to be considered married. In Texas you can just say you’re married and sign an agreement and it’s done.
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:14 PM
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“Being divorced but staying friends for the kids”
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:01 PM
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Just without a mother? Idk, definitely a strange take but I’m sure it’s possible. You could even find a surrogate mother. There are women out there who will happily grow and birth a baby without the motherhood obligations. Just understand what you are getting into before doing anything and understand that there are many more benefits for a child to be with it’s mother in it’s early years rather than the father.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:46 PM
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Aye alright trolls gonna troll But I’m bored so I’ll bite. Most kids today have had video chat their whole lives as well. Nothing can replace touch. Digital just doesn’t cut it. Kids are a responsibility and a lot of your freedoms are clipped away for a while. I mean I suppose it’s possible if they are provided a lot and have stable care (nanny’s, caretaker, daycare, rotating personnel, etc) to some rigid capacity. But at that point, what are you doing? Your post makes it seem like you are cling…
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:29 PM
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I honestly think your best bet would be military or crack addict. You really need to consider the kids as well. How are the kids going to feel if mom is always gone? It’s not good. There’s a reason couples stay together until the kid moves out.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:10 PM
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No clue why this was removed?? I’ve seen way broader and more beginner questions be allowed hourly… While it is a broad question, you likely do pull other men but you go for the obsessive one because it’s easier and more instantly gratifying than working for a higher tier dude. Boundaries helped me, a guy, pull more attractive women (I used to fall for anyone who would talk to me more than once), but you’ll need to find out what works for you. Strong women, to me, are women who know what they wa…
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:02 PM
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I thought the “keep his belly full and his balls drained” was pretty spot on tbh
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:46 PM
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That’s her decision, I believe. Just do the normal thing, flirt, escalate, and see where it goes. Of course, morally, I recommend not doing this.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:10 PM
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Hi. Male who honestly doesn’t care for blowies here 👋🏽
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:54 PM
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It’s the new normal now. With online dating, guys are unwilling to risk a harassment allegation when they can just pick and choose who they want to talk to. If she’s not 100% into you, move on. Because if you keep at it, there’s not a lot of good that can come out of it. Of course that’s not always the case, but that’s sort of the mentality, the vibe, of seduction right now. There’s just a lot of bad press that comes with Being a PUA
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:31 PM
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It’s still alive but it’s evolving. A lot of monetization has flooded the industry and a lot of PUA “professionals” are just trying to sell product and gather clicks. You see a lot of “buy my book where I explain how I got to bang 2 new chicks everyday for ten years and you can too.” Also, day-gaming is much less appealing now as women have been fairly clear that random men approaching them in public is scary for them. I feel like most PUA is just content now. Now the community is flooded with “…
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:33 PM
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Don’t! But perhaps try figure out why your type is your type. If it’s because they remind you of a specific person then try and branch out. If it’s more about sensation, emotion, and vibes, then you’re good. Being picky is a good thing imo, as long as it’s picky because you filter out the bad ones
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:37 PM
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Nope. You’re screwed. If you don’t get lucky by 19 you’re out of luck
/r/seduction12/07/22 09:11 PM
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Some do some don’t. I’ve had some that, like you say, just move to the other side of the bed and had others that will cuddle with me all night.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:55 PM
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Yeah this is the answer. Sex is happening everywhere. Camp counselors are cliche because they are stereotypically older kids away from home over the summer. Something is bound to happen somewhere if any two people figure it out.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:13 PM
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Honestly, this is true. If it’s not coming easy, she probably doesn’t like you that much. When she’s into you, she’s all in
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:15 PM
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I feel like believing in types is just super limited. Someone who is your “type” is usually just someone who resembles a past partner. I find it better to branch off and explore until you find out what your “type” actually is.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:42 AM
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Yeesh don’t women who only go after “a type” why would you do that to yourself
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:52 PM
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Hey 👋🏽
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:50 PM
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Definitely, or more, I can bring people over whenever I want
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:32 PM
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Be good at the sex
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:48 PM
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Ok
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:01 PM
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Lmfaoooo
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:53 PM
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In moderation, of course 😎
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:32 PM
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It’s probably not too late. I’ve no idea how old you both are, but you could just message/talk to him when you’re back in town and ask if he “want to catch up over drinks tonight” and his response should be a good indication of where he stands. Maybe throw in a winking face emoji if you’re feeling particularly bold
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:19 PM
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So assuming you’re talking about a guy you found out later had a crush on you, if he invited you out with his other friends, he was potentially trying to show you off to his friends? Like “look at this hottie I’m talking to!” Kind of thing. I find it more than interesting that you two usually hung out one on one. Did anything strange happen during any of that? Or was it all business?
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:07 PM
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Ok.. so maybe for you it’s about understanding what men do to flirt? For instance, for many males, they will sit close and face you when they like you. Maybe they “accidentally” brush your leg with a hand. A guy who likes you is going to want to talk to you. They might text you in the morning/at night even if it’s just “hey.” They will invite you to “hangout.” It’s not necessarily subtle imo but in context they are letting you know they want more of you to some capacity. And some guys sort of ex…
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:56 PM
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Lots of guys on this sub need to see this post.. I unfortunately do not have an answer, I haven’t run into the issue much. I’ve seen lots of guys talk about how they don’t understand hints or subtle nods. So if you’re “friendzoning,” then maybe you’re telling guys you are friends and they aren’t understanding that “friends” can become “not-just-friends” very quickly? Maybe they make passes at you and you don’t reciprocate? I’d have to know more about how you talk to men to understand the issue m…
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:46 PM
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Congrats on the secs
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:35 PM
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Fr block a bitch and get on with your life. No extra emotions needed
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:50 PM
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“I love [‘X’ NFL Team]”
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:07 PM
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Practice
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:53 PM
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It’s not very ethical, but it’s definitely something people do
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:32 PM
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Probably with a tweaker for some bud. But not really. For me it’s a thing that can be a nice added mutual interest. Two people who smoke together have a big “in” to get to know one another at a more personal level. But this is the same as any other activity: going to the gym, traveling, school, video games, nationality…
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:28 PM
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It’s often socially acceptable to open with a side hug —one of those one arm ones. Those might help you get comfortable with physical contact? A hug is simple enough!
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:30 AM
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Why haven’t you hugged a girl yet?? How old are you
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:14 AM
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Oral is Chad asf
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:44 PM
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Username checks out…
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:06 PM
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That’s simply not true at all lmfao
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:00 PM
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Just putting in genuine effort. It’s not one thing you can say, it’s a process of doing. Right now, I’m with a girl that makes me feel good. We fuck all night and it’s great, then we separate and text each other about how great it was and some dirty talk. But we also talk to each other about what we’re up to. We are planning on going out this week but didn’t know when: she’s got a busy schedule and so do I. So when I texted her what I had going on early in the morning, she simply told me she had…
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:18 PM
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No. I mean we like the chase. But we like it when women are upfront with us. Maybe it’s how you’re being upfront. Like, I don’t like it when a girl says “I like you” when we have only fucked once-or just a mediocre sesh. But I do like when they encourage me and hype me up while reciprocating the effort. I think the majority of men lose attraction when they feel the woman doesn’t care. We often talk amongst ourselves about “starfish.” Don’t be a starfish and you’ll do fine, imo. That’s not even j…
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:20 AM
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I smoke ouid with my cop/military friends semi-frequently tbh
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:04 AM
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Gets arrested for harassment
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:02 PM
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I have met a couple pretty attractive police officers who I started talking too. For me, I cannot date a cop. The career is unattractive (hours, trauma, literally you’re a cop, etc.) so I, personally, cut it off after that.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:01 PM
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Can you work in Lux and work digitally somewhere else? Just a general question
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:44 PM
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Some people like having fun with people without the added risks of having sex with someone
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:03 PM
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Lol m8 it’s a joke. I need no help 😂
/r/seduction03/06/22 04:12 PM
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So, in my experience, not having friends rarely hinders my game. Having lots of friends does help, but I moved across the country some time ago and only had a month or two of no ahem acquaintances. Sometimes I meet a girl and she’ll want to go out with my friends, I’ll just tell her I don’t really have many friends in the area, but I’m down to make our own party somewhere.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:20 PM
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You’re telling gamers they don’t meet to have max stats before starting the main quest line? Yeah good luck with that…
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:15 PM
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The trick, as a male, is to get close to women whom you don’t wish to reject. I haven’t had to reject someone in 8 months. I’ve been rejected twice. No worries
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:24 PM
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You do need to break out of that cycle. Get a job that gets you out of the house, go out of your comfort zone once a week to start. If you have trouble speaking to women, just start by smiling and saying hi as you walk by/hold doors open/to your waitress. Build up from there so that you stop someone and talk to them. From there work on asking situational questions. Then learn how to compliment (don’t tell her she’s pretty: tell her I like your boots, they look really nice on you). You get out of…
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:33 PM
1

You kinda start to get a feeling that she’s down to kiss. You’ll be somewhere and the conversation will null and you’ll both be facing each other or touching/leaning on each other. Then you’ll just lean in a bit and usually she’ll face you and lean in and then you lean in more and if she reciprocates that then it’s go time any you just go for it. “You wanna go somewhere more private” works, too. But like you probably want to have at least set yourself up by having gotten more personal already. (…
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:29 PM
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Lmfaoo
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:02 AM
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Yes. Of course… haven’t you ever seen some nerdy/ugly looking dude with an attractive partner? No offense but I feel like you’re just seeking validation or a specific “fix-it” answer that obviously doesn’t exist. It’s possible, you just need to go get it
/r/seduction01/06/22 07:57 PM
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Confidence. I’ve known a few women who just loved it when a straight guy is confident in hisself enough to not give a fuck if other people thought he was gay.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:25 PM
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Question: have you heard about the various dating apps?
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:36 PM
1

Join an art club. Go to the mall. Online dating. Gay bars. Drag.
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:39 PM
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Fucking nerds trying to min/max dating
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:01 PM
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I used to, but my life was so stressful and I hated living in perpetual “where do we stand” now I just move on. Sometimes they hit me up with some spine and the ball moves a bit. Sometimes I never hear from them again. Life
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:00 PM
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I cannot help you on this dark path 😒 Step 1. Pull trig; rip the relationship bandaid off. You’ll feel better about it later
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:56 PM
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Agreed. Really just have fun in general. It’s easy to let it all weigh on you, but if you’re genuinely having fun and being respectful, you’ll get good results
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:38 PM
1

Perhaps back off and try different settings before clubbing. If you like clubbing, obviously keep going, but don’t try and pick anyone up, just go dance.
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:46 PM
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I mean, I know some trashy folks who smoke weed. But I’ve done it with a decent number of very attractive women who smoked weed with me after/before/during.
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:16 PM
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Maybe she just gave it out to be nice. No worries, you’ll get the next one
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:50 PM
2

I had a deer head mounted in my college house. We’d toss all that stuff on that thing as decoration. Mounted over the beer wall of course 😂
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:31 PM
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That’s not true. Unless you’re boring and don’t increase attraction over time. At that point it’s clear all you’re interested in is getting some poon and nothing else which is a turn off to any women looking for more
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:46 PM
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Fr, OP is down muy bad
/r/seduction26/05/22 12:42 AM
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Dang I have too in the past. Any tips on over coming that? It’s hard to “just do” with performance anxiety
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:39 PM
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Bro I just got some of those. I haven’t gotten a chance to use them with a lady friend yet, but I tried one on and It didn’t totally kill my boner immediately! Trojans and others just immediately suck all the life out of it for me.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:38 PM
5

Are you doing it for revenge? No. Do what you wanna do. Don’t try and convince her with words. Convince her with penis
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:06 PM
6

Agreed. Prob just fishing for attention
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:06 PM
1

Not. Unless you live in LA or another influencer hub I’d imagine.
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:42 PM
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Bro if she sends me a TikTok I’m out bro
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:11 PM
2

I had an fwb all the way through college. Pretty sure the deal is still on the table, we just live in different states atm so we haven’t gotten it on in a bit. 6 years technically 3 years of service
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:38 PM
2

“Can you show me around?” This does work quite well universally in my experience
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:14 PM
2

You have to realize how easy it is for lots of women to get attention from men. It’s fun to chase, to be challenged. So when you make yourself easy, even if you aren’t easy, they likely instantly get bored and move on to something more emotionally stimulating
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:56 PM
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Tinder is like having a passive flow of new opportunities. Keep on doing real life stuff, use tinder when you feel like it
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:00 PM
3

First up is to stop over thinking. Second is to get intros out of the way. Third is to establish intent. Fourth is to ask them out or over or make physical plans or whatever
/r/seduction18/05/22 02:27 PM
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It’s got some good points. Many people actually believe this is how it is. It’s important to know the other side of things in seduction imo
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:06 AM
1

I’m not sure if I understand what you’re asking. Can you expand?
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:03 AM
1

It’s really not if you read it.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:33 AM
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I think this is a quality post. It’s nice to see from a new lense. I feel this perspective is pretty dismissive of the male POV though (but that’s not the point anyway, this is about their POV). For the sake of open conversation— I feel like women have always felt this way. But if you ask any man— man to man— if he thinks women are just sex objects you’d get laughed at. Men care very deeply for their parters. Really for anyone who is understanding of them. I think the disconnect often happens be…
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:27 AM
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Yes it does. It’s also very important in general to know this
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:59 PM
16

A height quality man doesn’t give a shit about bodies. All that matters is quality
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:57 AM
0

Just scoff and move on is probably the most mature way to handle it
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:04 PM
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I’m 5’8” I never had an issue with height. Like I’ve had chicks say “I don’t like guys under 6’” who fuck me an hour later. Not all the time but I don’t think height has ever been the only thing standing in the way of a relationship I want. I feel like women can use height as a generality to reject unwanted attention. It seems to me like it’s used in the same way that “I have a boyfriend” was used in the 2000’s
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:25 PM
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Nah, sex is no fun. It’s only fun as a teen 🙄
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:24 PM
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Never let em know your next move, embrace anarchy, be water 😎
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:12 PM
2

Yeah exactly
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:32 PM
1

Do you do cocaine?
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:42 PM
2

That really never goes as far as I know. But men learn to control it while children let it consume them. Imo
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:13 PM
5

You know how when you go to the airport and you always “fall in love” with like 5 strangers. It’s like that. Distance is attractive
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:00 PM
1

If you feel anger towards anyone who’s just living their life, you need therapy bud
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:44 PM
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For real tho. Cannot figure out why it works but I guess it doesn’t matter why..
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:46 AM
2

I actually agree. I always wanna fuck but tbh, it just isn’t fulfilling anymore unless there’s good tension before hand. It just doesn’t feel good meeting and fucking at the same time anymore. Monogamous Relationships are still kinda lame feeling but I like the dating scene, currently
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:18 PM
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Well your interests don’t set you apart at all. You’re essentially saying you’re the same as everyone else. That’s probably most of your problems. I put dumb stuff in it and stuff that applies to me and I get more matches than I can realistically speak to any I live in a very competitive area
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:06 PM
1

I match with good looking girls quite often. I don’t get to go out with all of them, but every now and again I do.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:08 AM
7

To be fair, your personality is going to be more intriguing than your face
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:34 PM
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Not a waste if you like your time there
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:17 PM
3

If this is real. She’s either 1. Fucking weird 2. Trying to fuck you 3. Has PTSD about bare thighs
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:50 PM
2

Man y’all like to pretend that the world is impossible to navigate alone. Nobody needs a fucking parter. It’s not “devastating” or life ruining to go your own way. This isn’t the 1920s anymore
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:36 PM
2

Yup! Her loss
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:15 PM
1

You never know. This is something you should not ask her directly, rather she will let you know, if she’s mature enough. Though you could sort of lead her into telling you, you know
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:54 PM
2

Well y’all are young so maybe she’s talking to someone else and feels she’s being disloyal to them by dming you
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:15 PM
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Bro… no kink shame but come on now…
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:56 PM
6

Men either tbh
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:21 PM
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Men really need to get better at taking no for an answer. Men are very toxic with how much sex they expect from people they’ve never met before. Women are a fantastic resource to learn seduction from, you just have to listen a bit. You’re not getting rejected because your “ugly and women are all shallow” you’re just a cry baby who blames their problems on other people. Ugly fuckers get married to models every day. Stop making lame excuses Going to the gym and buying new clothes isn’t going to tu…
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:14 PM
2

My head is high. Ain’t nothing wrong with a chick talking to other dudes while we’re just talking
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:37 PM
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Yeah, that was hard for me at first, but now, that’s how I see it. She’s with me, the other guys aren’t so clearly I’m winning.
/r/seduction24/03/22 08:03 PM
3

We really need an actual definition of rape so we can actually hold real predators accountable. Simply asking your spouse to have sex, even if you have to through a “please” in shouldn’t be “spousal rape.” Getting too drunk and hooking up with someone, then having regrets shouldn’t be assault. Obviously if one person is taking advantage of the other than of course that’s assault, but I’ve seen the argument that alcohol removes the ability to consent. Like that means all hookups after a drink or …
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:22 PM
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Wrong sub. Y’all sound young, just move on lol
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:29 PM
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Thats an ironic comment.. no that’s not the point. Point is, you have the wrong mentality. Someone has told you that dating is a looks game. Literally the stereotype is that MEN care solely about looks while WOMEN are “complicated” and have too many filters. Both are not true but this sentiment i keep seeing on here about how attractive males have it so easy is just false. Fabricated. No supporting evidence. Doesn’t even make sense. Mental gymnastics you’re using as a crutch to excuse yourself f…
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:10 PM
2

Practicing. I still don’t think my skills are “excellent” but I get told I do well. When I was 15 I got fed up with being awkward and not being able to talk to girls well. So, I got a job as a waiter and stepped out of my comfort zone. I actually started out bussing but I’d try and converse with customers and eventually started flirting with old women that came in. That opened up lots of doors for me. Eventually I did get a waiter spot and later I’d become a bartender. Those different positions …
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:17 PM
1

Many guys don’t seem to understand. If you think you’re ugly, you’re going to be ugly. Good looks get you more looks but it gets you no further than being an ugly fucker. I know more ugly bastards who fuck more than the hottest of my friends. I see this sentiment you post about so often. But it’s flat out not true. The attractive dudes you see pulling girls simply go out of the way to meet them. I bet when you go out into the real world, around girls, you stand in the corner and blend in. Then y…
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:40 PM
4

Amazing insight! Thank you
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:00 PM
1

The things you describe are all very immature behavior lol. No clue how old y’all are but red flags all around, man
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:36 PM
3

Naw probably not tbh. Personally, I think getting with a homies girl after they break up is a dick move. But people do it all the time. She probably would have hooked up that night if you’d’ve made a move. TLDR: nothing good can come out of it. But to answer you question, she was interested. Likely not in a serious manner though. Potentially just to make your friend jealous.
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:16 PM
2

I think she’s emotionally unstable. What does your friend think about it?
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:56 PM
0

Congratulations?
/r/seduction19/03/22 05:37 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:27 AM
1

Sounds like it’s not worth it to you then. Keep looking, partner 👍🏼
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:58 AM
1

Is Uber an option?
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:09 AM
6

As a 24 year old male, my dating pool is 21-26. A 30 year olds is 21-~40
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:05 AM
1

If you have an invite you need to do that rn
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:52 PM
1

You probably lost them with something you said at some point.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:40 PM
2

Don’t fuck her if the non-penis part says it’s a bad idea. It sounds like you aren’t comfortable with it so just say it, if you mean it, and keep your friend. From experience, getting some pussy from a long time friend because you need some pussy isn’t the way to go. You’re better off looking elsewhere and keeping your golden ticket for another, better time
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:27 PM
24

But wait.. I don't need to buy a book to understand OP's advice?? Shocker..
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:41 PM
2

Quality Control here. Everything checks out. Good tips. Young-uns would do good to try this out.
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:41 PM
12

There’s always the tried and true “what are you looking for” opener lol most everyone either says “something casual” or “idk wbu” and there ya go
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:13 PM
2

True. Harsh but also kinda true. Sorta akin to the “How do I talk to girls” posts
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:43 PM
1

I know opinions vary on the topic, but I don’t see why you shouldn’t be able to approach a hot coworker. You don’t have to say anything escalative, but you can still “game” them. In some ways it’s free experience. You might be able to get a coffee or talk over lunch break and you never know.
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:00 PM
2

Jesus, you kids gotta remember not to complicate shit. NO! Sigma males? Beta? Alpha? That’s all stupid, made up. Especially “sigma” wtf I’m going to vomit. Stop looking for excuses as to why you’re not getting the attention you want. Realize it’s just that you’re inexperienced, get better, and be the change you want to see. Let me tell you, many women LAUGH at the idea that men can be categorized by “alpha, beta, whatever.” In the real world, you tell another human that you think you’re a sigma …
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:17 PM
6

Interesting. I may check that out..
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:30 PM
12

Lol not quite. Only if you listen to the internet pessimists. In many countries sex is more available than ever before. And I don’t mean paying; of course.
/r/seduction13/03/22 09:25 PM
1

It’s true. It’s pretty common. Not as a pick-up gimmic, though. Men who tend to be able to have lasting friendships with women (surprise) tend to do well in other relationship aspects as well. So guy hangs out with pretty girls, other girls in the vicinity see that and understand that you likely aren’t some insane dude who will murder them. Clearly you are a normal person.
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:08 PM
5

Hour later: no response. Probably not. Yet..
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:32 AM
4

It’s not though. It’s about looks for the first minute, then that shit don’t matter as much. Good looks may attract some but not the majority. I know several conventionally hot dudes that can’t get laid to save their life
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:08 AM
3

Lol yeah dude just discovered where he’s going wrong
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:06 AM
1

Same. I’m definitely not feeling super into seduction at the moment either. I think it’s because of all the stuff going on right now. There’s too much stimulation in everything else
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:27 PM
8

So for point 2. That is very common btw. It’s totally normal for many guys. That wanes with experience. I, myself, either want to know as little as possible or, like you say, get to know them better. But when you gain confidence, I’m sure it won’t matter if you know someone or not.
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:13 PM
0

Everyone always says how ugly they are but I RARELY see people I’d consider too ugly irl. Shits just a BS excuse tbh. Funny but total gob
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:34 PM
16

When you have no confidence, it only feels like people treat you any more shitty than anyone else
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:06 PM
2

Im not insecure at al, but I’m not risking a case for a phone number, there’s more available fish.
/r/seduction26/02/22 01:21 PM
-5

You got it or ya don’t, some dudes get good at memorizing corny jokes. They always seem to become dads so start there Hmm
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:20 AM
15

Even if he was interested, do you understand how much trouble a man can get into for following a woman out to her car these days? Like, from his perspective, he sees you looking, maybe he’s interested, but he’s thinking pros and cons, getting logical, so much can go bad if he comes out to talk to you and the best case scenario, the one where you’re actually waiting for him to come talk to you, is the only one where he’s not getting blasted on social media. Point is, the age of playing hard to ge…
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:10 AM
7

I suppose it’s a sign of comfort, they trust you aren’t deranged or unhinged
/r/seduction24/02/22 09:02 PM
1

“Who’s this?”
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:58 PM
3

Yeah, this would likely feel the best but will probably be the final main in the casket
/r/seduction24/02/22 12:30 PM
3

Fr tho that’s improvement all the way
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:27 AM
2

What do you do for work? Chat women up there. Saying hey as you walk by isn’t weird. Get a job where you’re forced to talk to people: Waiter, Bank Teller, reception, sales person. You’ll get better with experience, even if you’re the most hopeless guy on earth
/r/seduction24/02/22 03:20 AM
1

It’s really because you can’t talk or get to know each other at a movie theatre
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:02 PM
0

I would stay away from movie theaters for a first meet
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:40 PM
2

Coffee, park, museum, downtown, mall, skatepark
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:07 PM
2

Some dudes are very emotionally broken. There no outlet for men so, unfortunately, some turn to women who maybe can understand emotions for empathy. It’s definitely a red flag. He’s probably a good guy but he will have underlying emotional instability until he’s older. Or maybe not
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:27 PM
1

No because attractive men will attract more women who will threaten her security. An Attractive partner can be “riskier.” An attractive man won’t stay loyal is a common association
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:02 PM
2

Some girls will date ugly men because it’s secure and safe for them. Women consider more than just looks when it comes to LTRs which is probably why you have no issues getting laid but struggle with a relationship. Maybe you’re boring or come off as uninterested. Most of the time, all you have to do is step back and reframe your attitude. Sometimes that requires a break
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:26 PM
12

Lol too much creatine! Fuck that guy, he’s a tool. At least say hey to her
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:00 PM
1

Dawg it lets the whole thing begin. The apps a superficial. I use them to practice but I try and send less than 10 messages before a meet up. More than that, and I’ll usually fuck it up by saying something dumb. Meet in person and you’re more free to be yourself because people are more forgiving in person
/r/seduction22/02/22 01:29 PM
1

Experience is the answer. Figure out what you want and ask. You want to go out to the mall? Tell her you want her to come with you. Unfortunately, the hard part is, you will likely come off as creepy sometimes. It sucks and you want to avoid that. You have to figure out what works for you. Start talking to everyone you can. Strike up conversations in line with girls your age. If you feel like you can, get a number or set something up for later that day so you can carry on with the momentum. Stay…
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:49 PM
1

They do
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:58 AM
5

I mean that line was weird, man. From your text it seems like your friend wasn’t really interested in helping you. She didn’t give you advice, I mean. Not all of what a woman says, will be easily understood as a man, but it’s still important m nonetheless, because it lets you know where their values lie. A woman wants a man who is confident in himself, not “ticklish in the right spots.” I say this, because i see similar sentiments being shared more and more on this sub. Women should be your best…
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:33 PM
1

Do you know him in real life? You can always just start with “Hey 👋🏽” in the DMs, but that’s not so interesting. I’d like it, personally, if a girl came up and said something like “hey you’re that cute guy I follow on ig” and then try and ask him to lunch or coffee if he’s that kind of dude Edit: Why are there so many salty little babies in this comment section? This chick is asking for advice. This sub is open for everyone to learn seduction, not just incels :/
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:18 PM
5

No idea but if you’re asking what I think you’re asking, one of the tell tales is when a girl is talking to you, facing you with her legs half crossed and playing with her hair, she’s interested. Obviously, situational, but if she’s doing that and she tells you she’s single or you notice she gets flustered with your innuendos, you got her attention.
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:06 PM
2

Definitely impossible
/r/seduction20/02/22 12:56 AM
1

Yeah man, it’s like that sometimes. She’s a human too. Got her own life. She, realistically, has to find a way to move on as well. So do you. Doesn’t mean the fling is dead, but it will not continue in a linear path from here on
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:15 PM
2

This is a terrible comment section.. but it’s not easy to tell. Depends on the bar and who you are. Probably pretty likely.
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:33 PM
15

Yuuup. I cringe so much when I see all these tactics from nerds trying to “min/max” seduction. Just go talk to em dude. Most guys issues are that they 1. Over think the fuuuck out of women or 2. Have a shitty misogynistic view of the world and reek. Pretty women, are starving for good attention from polite men. Just be nice lol
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:31 PM
16

Lol fr Im hearing a bunch of “YOU CANT JUST CHANGE YOUR MIND!!”
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:24 PM
2

Yeeeap
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:55 PM
4

That’s weird. Her friend fucked up the date for sure. You made the right call. Getting bulldozed by some rude chick you’re not there for isn’t worth the hassle. I liked the idea to have suggested moving locations, but from what you said Im not sure if your date would’ve gone with it
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:03 PM
2

Fr lol. I think some have “gems” every now and then. But there’s a difference between getting a number and actually getting together. Most are simply just entertainment.
/r/seduction28/01/22 01:24 PM
1

Tinder/bumble. Just don’t be a douche. I got a fwb coming over later I met on there. We just hangout and bang no drama
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:21 PM
2

He asked if you love him? Dudes already got the bug. It’s a tricky one though. One mess up and you go from having a great thing to nothing. Or you end up with everything if it goes right. Only thing you can do is try to escalate it and see if he’s willing to reciprocate. See if he’ll grab brunch or something. Set up a date at least. Work up to something, get him to commit
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:51 PM
0

10/10s can be hard to date, man. Shit gets to em; Fucks with their mind and shit
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:47 PM
0

Good! That’s shit advice!
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:31 PM
1

What kinds of things do you talk about at a night club?
/r/seduction13/01/22 08:12 PM
5

Denver is great. The women (as well as the men) are friendly and open to conversation. Denver’s nightlife isn’t great but Shotgun Willies is forever one of my favorite experiences with friends lol
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:20 PM
2

Lol go get en tiger
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:47 PM
6

Smh she got you wrapped up like a Christmas ribbon
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:51 PM
-1

Did we date the same girl wtf?
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:07 PM
0

I know a lot of losers who found another loser to get married with. Life works out if you put yourself out there
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:48 PM
7

Wtf are you talking about? That’s literally opposite of what people think about Easter European women lol. Get outta here Edit: going through this guys profile and he’s either 1. Incredibly lonely/mentally lacking or 2. A sad troll. Please realize your thoughts are not normal and these kinds of posts are not ok
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:37 PM
2

This is so true. The deniers her in the comments don’t have a CLUE. Yeah sometimes it means No. but many many times it’s not such a final thing as redditers make it out to be. FriendZone? Yeah because girls totally would never fuck their friends. Certainly that isn’t a super common thing🤨
/r/seduction18/12/21 02:42 PM
5

Don’t read. Learn how to socialize.
/r/seduction24/11/21 03:13 AM
4

Agreed. Just roll with the punch this time. Reschedule and try again.
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:08 AM
3

I say forget the hot tub and let her discover the hot tub at your place and use that to score a second date. Unless you want the hot tub to be the main reason for the meetup this time then lead with that
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:58 PM
13

Naw bro. Better play it safe and wait for a clear sign.
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:37 AM
3

Posts like this >>>
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:24 AM
1

It may be a cultural thing but he probably just didn’t want to have a conversation with you while rocking a boner. It’s kinda weird. Of course he’s hiding it wtf
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:01 PM
3

Men definitely give compliments just to be nice. Most of the time it’s stuff we don’t care too much about but know you’ll be happy and that makes us happy. That said, if they’re complimenting your butt, they probably just like your butt
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:46 AM
4

Sure but telling OP “it’s a numbers game” isn’t helpful. Not even in the context of keeping composure because that’s not even what this post is about
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:59 AM
36

Possibly. I’m just working with what I got here. It sounds creepy from my pov but maybe it’s not so creepy in your social context. I also don’t really use socials much, either.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:55 AM
97

To be honest, maybe it’s me, but I think it’s a bit creepy you DMd her on IG? Like, unless you traded socials, I’d be super weirded out if some chick DMd me on IG after we chatted for a sec at the gym. But I’d really wager she has an S/O and she blocked you because it was easier than explaining
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:43 AM
-9

Nice regurgitated, generic advice..
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:40 AM
39

I just want to say. Most girls your age aren’t going to act in emotionally mature ways. Many of the tips you see here are geared more for 20+ year old interaction. Obviously they’re not “age locked” but you’ll find more success with seduction later in life rather than in primary school
/r/seduction10/11/21 04:40 PM
2

Your profile probably isn’t great. Maybe your pics or your profile interaction needs more work
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:24 AM
1

First off: who are “people like you?” But yeah actual real advice: don’t give up. You seem to have a bad attitude so maybe take a mental break, work on your own interests until you feel motivated. You say you don’t like dating apps (which is a totally valid position to have btw) but why? Do you not have any luck? Maybe assess why not and fix it? Is it that you don’t know what to say to get a girl to meet up? You’re in the right place. Edit: ok ok. Can you clarify: do you like being single? I’m n…
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:02 AM
10

Yep well said. It’s like the collective forgot that sex is supposed to be fun, not just another talley mark…
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:43 PM
2

Nice
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:29 PM
2

Girls do it because they’re afraid the guy will freak out and get violent. A man should communicate better than that
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:02 PM
1

Hm who said that?
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:24 PM
3

Reading books on how to talk to girls is for chumps. Since you took the liberty and swear so much by it, you should be able to give some pointers.
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:58 AM
2

Hmm that’s a hard one. I usually try to weed those ones out with some basic small talk leading up to a meetup (coffee, museum, university library). Then just try and be friendly. I have pretty good successes on apps though. It’s fairly easy to match and set up a date when I’m bored and that usually ends up with something happening either hooking up, dating, or just platonic
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:03 AM
10

Share some insight rather than pushing products
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:28 AM
3

I’ve made lots of my female friends from intern work, class, dating apps, and other interest groups. Just be cool. Girls are definitely down to have guy friends. Just put it on the table you’re interested in being friends. If you are really looking to test the waters you could always attend some LGBTQ events and it may be possible to make friends with some gay women which also has its own greater benefits
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:12 AM
5

So dude, I think it’s never not a good idea to go out of your comfort zone. Personally, I try to live out of my comfort zone all the time. I move to new places where the native language may not be the one I speak best, I move to places that may not line up politically, socialize when I may not feel like it. It really helps your head imo. That being said, I’ve never felt sounds or visuals to be any sort of overwhelming. So if you truly don’t enjoy putting yourself out there you may always feel li…
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:14 PM
1

And where would you recommend day gaming for these types of women?
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:07 PM
1

It’s a feminine thing in that, as a man, it’s attractive to have confidence in your attractions. If you say you like her and then stop interacting/giving ioa then it just seems like you’re only saying nice things to get laid. So essentially it conveys mixed messages which are clear to women as a huge red flag. Imo. I totally agree though. In my experience it’s absolutely necessary to separate the so-called Timewasters in the dating life. Women often have a different agenda on their mind while da…
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:23 PM
1

Im really not even sure what your point was exactly but in regards to the implications and the OP, I suggest not playing mind games with people. If you like her tell her. If she likes you keep on doing what you’ve been doing but try and get things moving romantically soon. Telling someone you like them and then moving on is such a feminine thing to do. Abundance is a great way to attract other females (it also feels amazing mentally), but just because she’s not fucking you Doesn’t make her “a bi…
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:21 PM
1

What? Tell her you like her then move on? No?? I think maybe this comment is trying to come from a good place but it’s so wrong/terrible mindset
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:01 PM
10

Right?? I mean not eeeevry time but a large majority immediately high tail it after you drop that bomb
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:56 PM
2

Im thinking she was taking a picture of the line telling her friends it was too long/to hurry up
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:52 AM
1

Would you happen to have some tips on “keeping a flirtatious text/ sext relationship?”
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:50 PM
3

It do be like that
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:46 AM
4

Yee that’s what she wants, too
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:03 AM
2

Maybe she lost her nerve and wants you to hit her up with real, defined plans. I really doubt the coffee turned her off, that’s pretty common place for any casual meet up. The more I think, she probably literally was busier than she expected she’d be and had to cancel. She likely knows guys don’t like being canceled on so she’s giving you space to re-invest. Just a thought
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:28 AM
12

I just go “hey, we still on for ‘X time’ today”
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:18 AM
1

Hanging out with girls is rad! They’re just jelly dude
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:15 AM
6

Yeah 100% I’ve mentioned numerous times on here that’s fucked up. That’s why, in this post, I mentioned understanding women and talking to them like humans rather than dogs or “dolls.” Do you see a problem with that? Or are you being sarcastic. Seduction and manipulation have nothing to do with each other. People here spout manipulative tactics on here because they think “being an asshole is how you get to fuck the 10s” when in reality, most women just want a dude who’s not going to hurt them or…
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:52 PM
1

So look, the only reason you’d need to ace an interaction is if you’re trying to pick up someone way out of your “league.” Or maybe your boss or your pissed off S/O. Just be yourself and social interactions are so much better. You can even say weird or cringey stuff and, if you’re cool and confident, most people will not even think twice. Lots of people appreciate genuineness.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:37 PM
1

Aye bb want some dicc??
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:32 PM
4

Somebody needs to say something because currently I just see incels telling people they don’t belong here. Some times standing on a soapbox can get people informed that there is an issue. It might not change right now but I don’t like seeing this sub turn into an incel hangout. This place used to help me out a lot when I was a teen and I like to help others out now
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:58 PM
3

Sure it’s Reddit but this is a subwhere the input from a woman should be considered. Open discourse should be encouraged through men and women here. You want to learn real tips, ask straight from the source
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:55 PM
3

Not to be that guy but then you should totally be listening to me. I do pretty well with relationships/women in general….
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:52 PM
4

Yours may have been one of the posts that I saw, tbh. But it’s also not the only example unfortunately. It’s a story I see time and time again, and for what?? I know some people are just venting their frustrations into the internet, but lots of the comments I see towards women go beyond misogyny and dip into pure disillusionment. And this is a sub where the two genders should be able to have safe, unbiased discourse.
/r/seduction25/10/21 10:47 PM
3

I think people being shitty towards anyone in this sub is a problem
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:09 PM
3

I’ve seen it a dozen times today browsing Hot Posts
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:02 PM
2

This is how I do it. That and I try to include as many people I can in my actions. MAKE a party
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:25 PM
8

This might be the only right answer lmfao
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:23 PM
3

Pro tip: It won’t for you either lol, but you can certainly try
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:11 PM
2

She likely likes you but is busy. She might have other people on her phone keeping her attention as well (this is ok). She may not like you intimately or you may be on the bench for if the other person doesn’t workout. Impossible to know because she’s her own person. I’d stop texting her unless you’re hitting her up to set up plans and hangout. Don’t talk to women (or anyone) like this with small talk unless it’s asked for.
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:35 PM
1

TLDR: There’s alot of children on this sub. It’s a toxic sub for sure. I think most people here ignore the posts from the obvious young kids. I think those are the gross comments and such you talk about. There’s a lot of defeated boys here who are always going to be negative and hyper aggressive. Don’t take it personal please. Try to look for the finer posts and try those. There is often posts with actual helpful topics that stray from the typical “how can I make her sleep with me” and those are…
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:23 AM
5

Commenting for the sub ;)
/r/seduction23/10/21 11:00 PM
1

It’s hard to keep the interest of anyone whose not Interested in the first place
/r/seduction23/10/21 10:17 PM
2

Probably true but that’s savage 💀
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:32 PM
1

You could make a post on Reddit asking for advice on how to use Facebook?
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:57 PM
9

Also, to further this, anyone who is telling you to buy a book is 99% of the time a scammer. Don’t waste your time in books, go talk to people. I’ve read some of those books and it’s always the same vague advice. Books aren’t going to get you laid unless the chick you’re trying to bang has read it too
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:59 PM
1

Eh I don’t really mean it like that. Just that I was in places that girls would be and interaction would be inevitable.
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:31 PM
1

I’m telling your right now it does matter, and a lot. When I was younger (younger than 18) girls would always come talk to me and flirt. I was depressed and as soon as I’d speak they’d almost immediately run away. Now (older me) girls still come speak to me but half the time they keep speaking to me because I’m not so lame anymore. Learn how to be cool. Self-doubt isn’t cool
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:00 PM
1

Look man, I looked at your profile. Your eyes are fine. Fix the hair and the beard thing you got going on and you’ll be fine. Personally, as someone who finds success with women (or people in general) at various levels, personality is key. Be cool and you’ll get cool. Looks matter only as a look attractor (if you’re good looking, people will look) but there are many ways to get good looks and you’ve already got a good leg in the race.
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:49 PM
2

Fr unless sis is cool with it but I know many people would be upset if their sibling fucked their friend
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:02 PM
1

Yeah I feel like anyone who’s actually out dating activity knows that’s absurd. Maybe if your daily life is literally only going on dates, but most people have social lives/careers
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:41 PM
3

I mean I get laid pretty often with just 1 date a week and that’s fine
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:03 PM
5

2-5 dates a week for 10+ years sounds absolutely exhausting.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:47 PM
3

I mean I don’t need to try astrology or religion to know that they are scams as well… OP is definitely right but he’s got the wrong mentality about it
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:45 PM
1

Hey wanna exchange contacts? I’d love to continue this later over coffee
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:43 PM
1

It just takes time and practice. I’m by no means a “player” if I can do it, so can you. Sometimes guys forget that the goal isn’t to get laid, it’s to have fun. And fuck the friendzone thing btw. Women absolutely fuck their “just friends.” Last summer I had a group of friends from work who I’d sort of chaperone for at clubs and bars (being the guy friend who was there to make sure everyone got on safely). Half way through the summer they were all making passes and competing for me. It felt good,…
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:58 PM
3

Head up, king. You’ll meet tons of better people in college. Keep meeting new people and enjoy yourself. Don’t forget to study
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:42 PM
1

Yeah these are the things that come with juice worshippers
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:38 PM
2

Sounds like she wanted a Juice to her Wrld. This whole thing gives me late HS/College Freshman vibes. I wouldn’t say “dramatic” but did you actually like her? She doesn’t sound like a high quality human being if you know what I mean
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:13 PM
3

Find a girl you like, hang out with her, compliment her, tell her she’s pretty, find something vaguely sexual and talk about bit. Escalate from there. Imo you shouldn’t need to break the touch barrier as women tend to be pretty good at deciding when that’s acceptable themselves. Maybe hug her at the end of the day and see if she’s up for a kiss? It’s all relative for you. IE: yesterday I was out with a girl I’ve been talking to. Our conversation had been mostly intellectual but we could both tel…
/r/seduction26/09/21 12:51 PM
10

It’s not wrong, no. Sometimes girls just wanna go on dates, though. Nothing wrong with that. Tbh sometimes I’ll [M24] use tinder to strike up a date just to practice dating and romance game.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:19 PM
7

r/BossFight
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:15 PM
31

Dude work as a server/bartender. Learn how to step out of your comfort zone. Learn how to flirt by conversating with customers and coworkers in a respectful, playful (non-serious) way. And you’ll get laid
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:15 PM
2

Sounds like you’ll want to meet another introvert such as yourself.
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:03 PM
1

If you’re unironically calling it “courting” that’s half way your first problem. You got some issues you need to figure out before trying again
/r/seduction09/08/21 07:53 PM
2

Dawg..
/r/seduction06/08/21 08:32 PM
5

Advantages? Probably not. Maybe some women like short guys? But don’t worry so much about height, it won’t be as much of a hinderance as you’d imagine. Go for girls shorter than you
/r/seduction06/08/21 01:57 PM
7

I’m dead 💀
/r/seduction06/08/21 01:55 PM
1

What? How does that make that wrong?
/r/seduction05/08/21 05:06 PM
2

A whole year is a long time for anyone, but it sounds like you may still be hung up on past relationships so building romantic interest may be more difficult for a bit. Just keep doing you, a rebound can often be a good way to get your feet back under you but for others they may feel worse than before. You’re young and pretty (as you say) so just go at your own pace and jump back out there when YOU (not your friends) are ready 👍🏼 I wouldn’t imagine guys would think you’re strange for sharing tha…
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:54 PM
1

I don’t really think my answer will be all that fulfilling, honestly. I have been told I am very attractive. I am in great shape and well proportioned, I have a nice symmetrical face with “pretty eyes,” my family is well off, I am very well traveled, and I have a pretty big personality which gets me into a lot of doors with people who don’t know me. On top of that, I have a somewhat feminine way of seeing things (I’m still pretty masculine in nature but I am artistic and like to appreciate emoti…
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:56 PM
2

I believe those men are insecure about themselves. Don’t confuse yourself by thinking what you see on the internet is a valuable sample size of the whole
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:19 PM
1

15 or something around that - 23
/r/seduction30/07/21 12:16 PM
2

I mean then tell your mom that you think “this girl is cute” and go do your thing then. Unless you want us to tell you how to get your mom to wingman I don’t understand this post
/r/seduction04/07/21 02:12 AM
3

I just care whether she is mentally ready to focus on me and has a decent portfolio of decent lays in her past. I’m not wasting time with someone who was giving theirselves to sleezy people or someone who is just fucking me to piss their ex off
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:28 PM
1

Oh she’ll be more sticky alright \(o)/ In all seriousness though, what are you even asking OP? Everything sounds good to me except not escalating on your next dates
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:09 PM
2

Ah ok yeah I see what you’re saying. Yeah if you don’t risk your biscuit you can’t reap any rewards people. What is “blue pilled” is that pretty much “mouth breather?”
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:46 PM
0

Naw I feel like most guys have pulled at least once over 20 y/o. Average body count is probably 9-10 by 30 I’d imagine
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:31 PM
2

Woah I’m super stressed rn (like I can feel the stress) and I tried this. It actually works a bit. Thanks OP
/r/seduction20/05/21 07:58 PM
2

Huge red flag for OPs girl and OPs friend. If your friend know y’all had a thing and flirted like that with her, I’d rethink your engagement. Buuut, on the other hand, he may have just been trying to set you up by warming her up to let you slide in with better game after he left. I’ve Done stuff like that for a few friends when they invite me around a new girl, be flirty but not for real just to set a tone especially if said friend is lost when talking to girls. But it’s really on you, OP, to re…
/r/seduction20/05/21 06:12 PM
1

Doesn’t like others? Idk sounds like bologna to me.
/r/seduction19/05/21 10:32 PM
31

Also I would like to add, it’s nice guys who are only nice to get laid finish last
/r/seduction30/04/21 04:57 PM
7

“My genetics would create superior offspring within your womb”
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:22 PM
1

Pretty much it’s whoever will let me. That’s the only answer. And I’m picky with who I let in
/r/seduction06/01/21 02:06 PM
6

I mean yeah it definitely is super common, I think that’s why it’s a general rule of thumb. It’s true, it’s probably not the best idea. Buuut everyone does it and it works
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:10 PM
1

I will say, girls can smell when you’re always matching their texting pace and they won’t like it. If she takes 6 hours to respond and then you take 6 hours to respond, she may take 12 hours to respond. If you then take 12 hours to respond, that’s gonna be a red flag because it shows you’re overly invested. Hence why she’s now at 22 hours. Just text normally, or stop texting her and call her every now and again. She’s probably not trying to play texting games
/r/seduction30/12/20 06:10 PM
1

I think you’d be surprised actually
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:18 PM
11

Lol
/r/seduction19/12/20 09:03 PM
1

Point stands the same: the answer is not much and it depends
/r/seduction16/12/20 01:18 PM
2

Effort, attention, a girl with with a strong will and mindset, being nice/friendly, underboob, etc. I like it when a girl smiles and continues conversation, it’s not very hard I don’t think. Just remember guys aren’t as cold and dumb as a lot of social media makes it out, we’re just like you we just have another brain.
/r/seduction25/11/20 08:04 PM
1

Lol playing games and playing THE game are different things, old man
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:50 AM
0

Playing games is for hookups dude. You won’t find a successful relationship messing around. Women will date men who are in an appealing position in whatever social latter they find Interesting.
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:28 AM
2

I like how everyone is calling OP a pussy lol
/r/seduction30/11/19 01:39 AM
2

Stop caring, OP. It does wonders
/r/seduction26/11/19 08:30 PM
1

50s but mods please remove this. This is not what this sub is for
/r/seduction26/10/19 10:45 AM
1

I’ve never understood the friend zone thing? Girls totally have sex with their guy friends
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:46 PM
2

Not agreeing or disagreeing here but this sub is pretty much r/ihavesex but with extra steps
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:18 PM
6

F
/r/seduction13/10/19 07:08 PM
2

Korean?
/r/seduction08/10/19 07:46 PM
1

Some people don’t have autism you douche
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:42 AM
2

I don’t know about fake but probably all in good fun
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:01 AM
13

Idk this post is giving me low key r/incel vibes. You seem to have figured it out, if they’re not into you, move on.
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:55 PM
1

Move on she’s not into you
/r/seduction08/07/19 01:49 PM
6

Yes but with girls I already have an orbit with. I don’t really dm people unless I know them though
/r/seduction25/06/19 09:21 PM
1

The thing I don’t like about personality tests is that people tend to look at them like some would astrological signs. You aren’t defined by a personality trait. Sure it can be beneficial to get an introspective look at yourself but saying that you’re self conscious about yourself because of your personality trait is sooooo very limiting. Own your shit! To answer your question, no it’s not about staying longer even at the expense of your knees, it’s about having a conversation and including your…
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:26 PM
1

Yeah you seem confident in your conversation abilities but you seem to be super self conscious about yourself. Completely normal, believe me. But you might be focusing too much on what others think during your approach which is (I think) why you ended up sizzling out at the beginning. Also you don’t need to make any “romantic” moves to get a number. That can come later
/r/seduction15/04/19 03:30 PM
1

That’s a great cold approach! Have confidence in yourself! You seem to not have much of it but if you did I’m sure you’d slay.
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:46 PM
3

Daddy issues mostly
/r/seduction15/04/19 02:38 PM
3

Normally. Day game is just casual. Look nice but don’t do yourself up unless that’s just your vibe
/r/seduction15/04/19 09:06 AM
4

Deserves? Probably. From you? Ehhh I’d say no but that’s your call
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:42 AM
6

She’s not having sex with me! So many mixed signals/s
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:51 PM
1

What do you look like? Do you actually talk to women and progress the conversation? I don’t know why you don’t get laid, but a lack of confidence could be your answer
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:40 PM
1

Sounds like you’re really clingy
/r/seduction04/04/19 04:42 PM
3

Dump her? Why even try if she’s not going to see you?
/r/seduction31/03/19 03:19 PM
1

You’re young. You’ll get there
/r/seduction23/12/18 12:05 AM
2

The first half sounds gods but that second half might make you sound desperate. I’d leave it as just a “Hey just wanted to check on the status of our date. How is 8:00 sounding?” Or something like that. Leave that ‘I like talking to you’ out unless that kind of dialogue is mutual
/r/seduction21/12/18 05:10 AM
1

It sounds like you guys are already going out??
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:36 AM
1

It means that guy has really shitty relationships
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:06 AM
1

I’ve never really thought of it like that and I really like that analogy. How can I better show attraction. I’ve been practicing kino lately and of course I try and complement things such as eyes, hair, and teeth. I am a pretty laid back person and I often don’t express much emotion so I see this as a plausible issue.
/r/seduction05/11/18 11:22 PM
1

You’re missing the first couple lines that I wrote
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:13 PM
2

For sure man. Women can sense when men over invest. And i honestly believe both genders lose interest suddenly. At least I do. It’s part of human emotion. It’s what we, as emotional creatures, do. We see something new and want to explore it. Old just doesn’t cut it sometimes ya know. So I feel like it’s good for people to realize that it’s ok for someone to lose interest. Nobody owes you that much
/r/seduction05/11/18 05:01 AM
2

Solid advice for sure. I feel I could do more to show interest. Dates are something I really try and keep interesting. I like to do more than just goer dinner or coffee all the time. It helps being in college especially since there’s always interesting date ideas.
/r/seduction05/11/18 04:35 AM
0

Yeah tbh that’s where I’m at rn. If you’re not fuckin I’m setting you on the back burner so to say. I believe, however, that going for the gold too quick might have been the killer with this last girl but hey, shit happens.
/r/seduction05/11/18 02:37 AM
5

No it’s not weird. Maybe it’s not the same for you, but I loose interest in people who show too much interest simply because it’s too easy. If they display themselves as this easy, then they just aren’t worth my time.
/r/seduction14/08/18 04:20 PM
9

I can see why she didn’t fuck him tbh
/r/seduction11/08/18 03:31 PM
9

Hahaha damn bro
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:03 PM
27

Master of seduction
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:56 PM
8

My confidence and social skills are way up. My testosterone levels are higher and I am more successful with women. I’ve also come to realize that failure isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
/r/seduction31/07/18 10:56 PM
1

Nonsense! You can totally transform your game in less than a year. It just takes practice
/r/seduction12/07/18 12:28 AM
1

All in good time my man
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:55 PM
10

Dating your coworkers just leads to one of you being fired. I’d say 8 times out of 10 a coworker hookup just leads to drama. Don’t be that guy at work just wait till y’all are off the clock
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:32 AM
11

Don’t. Been there, done that. Believe me when I say it’s just not worth it
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:22 AM
2

She said she’d let you know. If she cares, she will. If not, who cares? Just wait it out and keep doing you
/r/seduction05/06/18 09:36 PM
1

As someone who has worked in the service industry. Any smile on the clock is forced. I wouldn’t approach based on a smile alone.
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:07 PM
10

Basically don’t be needy and only text when you actually want to, not when you think you need to because of your insecurities
/r/seduction24/04/18 09:43 PM
1

Maybe that was her boyfriend/ guy she was there with
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:36 PM
2

Idk hey isn’t really much of an opener, I see what OP is saying
/r/seduction09/02/18 03:48 PM
5

Read like the first 4 sentences
/r/seduction09/02/18 03:13 PM
1

Yeah dude just ask her to lunch or coffee. Just be “Hey I’ve enjoyed getting to know you, you’re a really cool person, would you like to [Grab coffee] with me [Friday]” If she says she’s busy, it’s no big deal. Just say ok and suggest another date to go out.
/r/seduction24/12/17 05:29 AM
9

Yeah but for girls, just like with men, her type isn’t “the rule.” A man’s outward appearance isn’t as important as his personality and such. It’s like she’s just saying that buff dudes catch her attention. She likes your intelligence and your personality which is a huge in. Most importantly, she hasn’t friend zoned you. You’ve seemed to have at least drop hints that you like her and would be open to a relationship. You just have to make the move. Obviously I’m just some dude on the internet and…
/r/seduction24/12/17 04:03 AM
20

Dude she’s in to you. “Hello me? Jk” is the giveaway. The “jk” on her part is probably just an out for if you aren’t also into her and reject her. Remember, she’s probably wondering if you like her too.
/r/seduction24/12/17 03:11 AM
1

Ayy bb
/r/seduction21/12/17 10:29 PM
4

r/jokes
/r/seduction21/12/17 04:19 PM
1

Yep basically just be confident in you. You are you, you have strengths and weaknesses and that’s fine.
/r/seduction01/11/17 10:44 PM
1

Because that's literally what it's designed for? It doesn't always work that way, I met a girl I dated for a few months on tinder but for the most part, it's a hookup app
/r/seduction09/09/17 04:39 PM
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