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A significant portion of men are very attracted to unstable women who take them on a roller coaster ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:34 AM
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The manospherian misogynists are definitely a minority irl and foreigners are definitely overrepresented, but a very large number of them are white, black, or 3rd gen+. Lurking around /pol/ or MGTOW kinda makes that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:49 AM
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I'm 19 and a girl and work at a coffee shop. 50+ women are the nicest, most patient demographic. The rude women tend to be 30 somethings with small children. The pretty, 30 something, yoga moms with small children are usually the most entitled. Middle aged men are also often awful to deal with. They are often grumpy/rude or creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:44 AM
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Well abortion rights, women's education, women's voting rights, women's ability to have their own bank accounts and credit cards are pretty much due to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:27 PM
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I can see what your saying about Diana as she mostly looked better than average due to being a healthy body weight and having good styling/hair/makeup. But Meghan Markle is well above average. Most actresses are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:28 PM
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Meghan Markle is very beautiful. She's significantly above average. Diana was average to somewhat above average for a slim slim young women who had professional styling, hair, and makeup. So she was better looking than the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:29 AM
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Her name is Karen and she has that haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:07 PM
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Unless the dude is being overly pushy, sexual, touchy, or cant take no for an answer, I dont really care about guys hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:09 AM
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Red pill women are mostly male larpers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:00 AM
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Women are pretty into Harry Potter. Also I know a lot of women who are very into historical fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:57 AM
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By good I mean behaving in a way that avoids harming others and trying to care about the wellbeing of others. That's basically what being prosocial means. Empathy helps a person behave in a prosocial manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:49 AM
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Except men are on average more predisposed to violence and antisocial behavior, and are on average less empatheti than women. While being prosocial and empathetic aren't the only requirements of being a good person, it's pretty much impossible to be a good person without those traits. So women are on average more good, which shifts the bell curve. So really, really, really good women are less exceptional than their male equivalents Anecdotally I know more really, really, really good women than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:48 AM
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Iceland is one tiny country, so it's an exception to the trend. Also most IQ tests show that men and women are similar in terms of intelligence. Nobel prize winners are extreme outliers, organ donors are not; most organ live donors tend to be relatively average in terms of economics, status, education. There are only a few hundred Nobel Physics Laureates. Thousands of people donate organs every year. There are over 6000 live kidney donors in America in just one year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:20 AM
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That might be because you dont spend a lot of time with women. Of course half of them are "special" by being exceptionally terrible, but that's true for men as well, and exceptionally terrible men tend to be really, really bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:14 AM
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Most men are still basic af though. Only like 10% of men and like 5% or 6% are actually "special". And half of them are special by being much worse than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 11:13 PM
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Yes but the number of very sick people who are not broke, just scraping by, or financially tight is pretty small. A lot of middle class Americans will see their retirements, savings, and estates entirely wiped out by medical bills. Even upper middle class Americans will lose a lot of their assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 09:42 PM
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Considering healthcare costs and the age of study participants most women would get nothing or next to nothing since most or all of the estate will be used to pay for healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 09:06 PM
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Which is why woman donate organs to their ill husband at a greater rate, which allows the husbands to live much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 09:03 PM
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I would say that a lot of women experience being treated poorly or witness their friends being treated poorly on the dating market, and it does make it harder to form stable relationships. But women have always been treated poorly so this isn't a new problem. It was just harder to leave in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 09:01 PM
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Here is some information on child sexual abuse decreasing. https://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/29/us/rate-of-child-sexual-abuse-on-the-decline.html?mtrref=www.google.com&gwh=9B3E92E21F017104D9B230E0F0129D0F&gwt=pay&assetType=REGIWALL Look at girls not brides or UNICEF's to learn about the decline in child marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:50 PM
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Ok, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:47 PM
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Men have been lying, cheating, and abusing women for all of human history. Now in the developed world and increasingly in the developed world men are less able to inflict the worst forms of abuse on women. Child marriage, especially for girls under 15, has been declining. Rates of child sexual abuse have also started declining. Domestic violence has become unacceptable or at least less acceptable. Now women may have to deal with more lying and cheating by men, but they are more likely to be spar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:39 PM
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If you are red pill, why are against AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:29 PM
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Honestly you seem a lot more aware of contemporary culture than a lot of the Gen X and even some of the the older millennials here, so I'm really surprised that you are one of the oldest posters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:28 PM
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Based on the stats for the US and UK they are about evenly split by sex, which is exactly what I expected. It seems more tilted towards men in less egalitarian countries. I've donated blood before and its pretty easy, it isn't much of a sacrifice. There's some mild pain and you may be a bit dizzy at the end, but something sugary should help. Plus blood donors are paid a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:20 PM
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Organ donation is still a very selfless and caring act. And most seriously ill patients will need at least some help bathing and dressing at one point. Also the husband falling ill did not increase and maybe even decreased the risk of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:46 PM
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Lots of cheating happened on the dl. Men frequently visited prostitutes, and women cheated a fair bit too. Seriously read the Kinsey report.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:00 PM
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Most men dont seem to value emotional bonds that much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:45 PM
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Donating an organ to someone is pretty selfless especially considering the risk of death, the surgery, etc. Caring for a sick person is also very difficult, so anybody who does that is probably not selfish. Bathing and dressing someone, insuring they eat, managing medication, taking them to doctors appointments, etc. is incredibly exhausting. I've volunteered at a cancer treatment facility for a while, and while caretakers may do token things to make themselves seem better, they also put in a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:23 PM
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A lot of the effort is token (about a quarter to a third), but a lot is genuine. Also middle class people dont have large inheritances or life insurance payouts. 43% of Americans have no life insurance. Middle class Americans will lose most if not all of their estate to cover medical costs. Also cancer patients tend to be on the older end, and considering how life insurance costs increase with age, most people dont have that much. Even upper middle class Americans shouldn't expect a large inheri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 08:05 AM
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Men being treated as disposable is dehumanizing and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:50 AM
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Caring for a sick person full time probably requires more work than your standard 9 to 5 job. I volunteer at a cancer treatment facility. My 6 hour shifts are incredibly tiring. And I've worked at restaurants and retail, and they were easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:47 AM
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Medical costs will wipe out most if not all of the money. People only get a small amount of status if they care for sick spouses. The status alone will not not even come close to the amount of time, resources, and energy it takes to be caretaker of someone sick. People need another reason to be able to do something so difficult. In these sort of cases attachment plays a pretty huge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:44 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:27 AM
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Both of the articles found that a wife's illness increased the risk of divorce, but the same was not true for husbands. However, the increase in divorce risk in the 2nd study was pretty small. The 1st study found a much higher risk of divorce when women are diagnosed with cancer. Also after medical bills, the payouts most people receive are measly. And caring for a sick person is incredibly time consuming and difficult. I volunteered at a cancer center, and saw how much people go through. The do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:24 AM
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So men will leave or "monkeybranch" to a better option when they have the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:08 AM
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Caring for sick people is very hard and time consuming. If they are doing it solely for a the small end payout they will get after all the medical bills are paid, they would be much better off working a minimum wage job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:07 AM
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Caring for a terminally ill person is incredibly difficult. The number of people willing to go through that for social approval is pretty small. Its also worth noting that women are far more likely to be caretakers in general. They are more likely to care for elderly parents, care more for adult children, etc https://www.agingcare.com/articles/amp/171474 https://www.google.com/amp/s/fivethirtyeight.com/features/guess-who-cares-for-young-adults-when-they-move-back-home/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 07:04 AM
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That's a pretty accurate assessment of a lot of terps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 06:39 AM
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It's easy for men to say don't worry or wallow about aging, but they dont lose romantic or social currency the way women do. Strangers and acquaintances treating me differently is one thing, but I can have friends who will still enjoy my friendship and will enjoy the some of the qualities I develop through aging. Since men pretty much only value youth, beauty, you being Mommy 2.0, your left with being Mommy 2.0 once your old. So you end up less valued than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 12:17 AM
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I rarely see women blatantly checking someone out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:33 PM
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So I would be in a relationship where someone's love for me would be constantly decreasing? Why would I want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:48 PM
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Over 90% of men do, and most will try to hide it so there is no way to know if a guy does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:14 PM
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So there goes the branch swinging allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:53 PM
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https://www.cafyonline.org/get-help/survivor-resources/survivor-resources-parents-victims/perpetrators-child-sexual-abuse/ https://victimsofcrime.org/media/reporting-on-child-sexual-abuse/statistics-on-perpetrators-of-csa
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:14 PM
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Most of those cases involve women having sex with their 15-17 year old students. While that's disgusting and should be punished with jail time, it's not pedophilia as mid to late teens are done with or close to done with puberty. Also male teachers are more likely to have sex with their students. Over 60% of complaints involve male teachers, but less than half of teachers are men. Pedophilia and sexual abuse of children under 15 is overwhelming done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:56 PM
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Men follow insta models, pay e girls, watch tiddy streamers, and watch tons of porn, pay prostitutes and sugar babies, check out random girls in public, make it perfectly clear that they dislike aging, but are surprised that women think that men will easily leave them if they get old???? Does nobody here understand actions and reactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:26 PM
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True remember Sandra Bullock's ex and Arnold Schwarzenegger cheated with less attractive women. The same thing happened with one of my friends mom's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 03:10 PM
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Binge eating disorder often has different causes and mechanisms than anorexia and bulimia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 02:50 PM
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Since the topic at hand is EDs like anorexia and bulimia that's not really relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 02:38 PM
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So the reason men dont cheat is because they can't attract young women? So the only reason he sticks around is because he can't get what he really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:42 PM
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Women get remarried at a lower rate than men. Also that was one study with a small sample size. There are other studies that would contradict that assessment. Also I see like 3× as many couples where the girl is hotter compared to couples where the guy is hotter. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4011637/ A review of 4 studies found that wives physical attractiveness predicted husband's satisfaction but husband's physical attractiveness had less/no impact on wives satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:23 PM
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LMAO I see men on relationships checking out girls all the time. If I had a dollar for everytime I a dude holding a girl's hand while as also checking out some other woman, I would be rich and I'm only 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 01:16 PM
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Women are taught how important beauty is from at a young age. Men learn at much older ages. Also in terms of employment, schooling, and social interactions looks matter more for women. People comment about women's appearances more. https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2016/01/05/new-study-finds-women-who-are-not-considered-attractive-receive-lower-grades https://www.recruiter.com/i/in-2018-professional-women-are-still-judged-by-their-appearances/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.groupon.com/merch…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 08:03 AM
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Body dysmorphia alters a person's perception of reality. Also as a women even being a little bit more beautiful means better treatment, so every little incremental increase in beauty means that people are kinder to you, it means that you get more random favors, it means that society seems you more valuable. Your disordered eating is reinforced by society and it becomes a habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:31 AM
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I know that not all men have a dark side (my father doesn't) and that my childhood's friends father is an extremely disturbed outlier, but many men do have a milder version of some of the tendencies my friends father did. Many men value youth to the point of borderline pedophilia or actual pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 07:06 AM
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Well what else do they value in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:40 AM
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No they like having someone do most of the chores and they kinda like/want kids plus it's not like they can do much/any better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:34 AM
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A lot of men are ok with being used for money by young Stacies and Beckies and will tolerate her treating them poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:28 AM
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A lot of men stay because they have no other options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:26 AM
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I think the key is calm, rational, caring people, but a lot of men pretend to be that way while harboring a much darker side. Everyone thought my childhood friend's dad was wonderful. Nobody suspected, and a fair share of people who knew about my friend's accusations said that my friend and her sisters of lying until her brother found the hard drive where their father had kept his child porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:25 AM
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Women are not as youth obsessed as men are and do not crave sexual variety as much as men. Edit: also a lot of the saying that the other person is less attractive is due to people virtue signaling/rationalizing their actions, and men's desire for variety overriding their desire for attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:12 AM
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Most men value physical attractiveness above all else in women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:11 AM
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I only know 6 couples over 35 well enough to see how they truly interact with one another. My parents and my bff's parents are doing well. Our closest family friends are a gay and a lesbian in a marriage of convenience and are best friends with each other. My other bffs parents are divorced because her father started sleeping with her mother's boss. My childhood best friends father died, but after his death my friend and her sisters were finally able to tell someone that their father had sexuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 06:11 AM
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Most of the men here make it very clear that men only value attractiveness in woman and that women's value is dictated by their beauty. If she is not attractive, what will such a man value in her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:59 AM
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Zayn is gorgeous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:23 PM
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I'm 19. 16 is the youngest I would go. Younger than that is just kinda gross and tbh is taking advantage of a child. I remember this boy flirting with me and I thought he was super cute, I thought he was 18ish. He was 14!!! I felt absolutely disgusted with myself once I found out his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:30 AM
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Brazil's age of consent is like 14 or 15 if I remember correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:27 AM
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When I was 11-14/15ish I was pretty ugly. I started becoming decent looking again and everyone was nicer. Now I'm actually kinda pretty, and people are so much warmer, and I occasionally get random favors from strangers which never happened before. When I was ugly the only men and boys over 10 who were nice to me were my family, teachers, a couple classmates who were nice to everyone, and a long time friend. And this was as an ugly child. It is true that ugly women tend to have to pair up with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:03 PM
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The greasiness is so off putting even looking at oily cheese disgusts me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:34 PM
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Cheese hating gang gang gang gang
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:33 PM
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Most men are already chunky and bald by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 01:24 PM
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The number for women also increased from 8 to 18 percent. Fewer people overall are having sex, and people are losing their virginity at an older age on average. The rise of the internet and smartphones (which started in 2008) led to a lot of socially awkward, depressed people who are kinda checked out. Also The Great Recession and its aftermath. And the rise of smartphones has made porn super accessible. Also video games, Netflix, YouTube, and other forms of cheap entertainment leads to men bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:27 AM
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Nursing has a pretty decent pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:02 PM
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Am indian The vast majority indian kids I know date to some extent. They either tell their parents or just do it behind their parents backs. Also a lot of them love booze and weed. Same for a lot of Muslims.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:38 PM
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I made another comment here. I would link it but I'm on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:25 PM
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The God of Small Things, Midnight's Children, The Road, Cloud Atlas, most Jane Austen (especially Emma), A Midsummer Night's Dream, Hamlet, and anything by Margaret Atwood, The Bell Jar, and The Second Sex, Anna Karenina (Tolstoy is pretty awesome), Frankenstein, The Sixth Extinction Also I kinda love wandshit and airy fairy magic shit so Harry Potter and The Wizard of Oz and its many kinda poorly written, somewhat inconsistent sequels.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:20 PM
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Cormac McCarthy and Kurt Vonnegut are awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:51 PM
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I love Cloud Atlas and House of Leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:49 PM
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Fiona Apple is also a feminist who wrote a song for the women's march. She's also a rape survivor. The album this song is from is also full of subtle girl power lyrics. Seriously listen to "Sleep to Dream"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:44 PM
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That's true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:02 PM
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That's because women are far less likely to be predatory. So yeah girls need to be warned more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:51 PM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:29 AM
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The Y chromosome was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:25 AM
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And tons of freshman boys have crushes on the hot senior volleyball captain or their cute 23 year old teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:24 AM
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People who try to be amateur physicists are hilarious but also cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:22 AM
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Tbh most of the girls who ended up in situations like this usually have terrible home lives or are naive and a bit dumb and unprotected. In the UMC suburb I grew up in, this sort of stuff was very, very rare. 2 or 3 years happened but nothing like this. When I volunteered at a place that offered support for teen moms I heard this sort of story way to many times. Not just with 16 year olds but also with 15 and even 14 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:46 AM
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This is why you should never hire a male babysitter or allow men who aren't the bio father/close relatives near children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:39 AM
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Are you electra's alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:33 AM
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Hide
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:37 PM
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Maybe Valerie Solanas had a point....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:35 PM
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Attractive parents can produce ugly children, and the reverse happens as well. Also physically unattractive men can attain status and other attractive qualities. So yeah black pill is not real. But if you want attractive women, you will probably have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:18 PM
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This is some pretty solid advice. I didn't expect that from Purge Week, but you are one of the sane posters here...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:02 PM
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True. If you've hit the wall at 30 and you live in the developed world you've probably stuffed your face or downed way to much alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:40 PM
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For attracting pedophiles yes... Also some chill nerds, but you will have to filter out the pedos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:44 AM
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He is incredibly sweet and charming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:13 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:12 AM
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Good point.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:11 AM
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Brendon Urie ❤❤❤
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:17 AM
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Zayn Malik 20 or 30 something Brad Pitt Tessa Thompson Deepika Padukone Late teens, 20 or 30 something Angelina Jolie
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:17 AM
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I think he deleted his account.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 09:20 PM
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My great grandparents and grandparents were farmers in a third world country. Everyone did hours of back breaking labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:45 PM
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Women did work 16 hours a day. They did some fieldwork, all the cooking and cleaning (it was much harder back then and took several hours a day), raising kids, maintaining gardens, gathering water, tending to livestock, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:21 PM
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Clever. I thought you were either Indian or Asian since I always see a ton of them at every Indian or Asian grocery I go to. And at every Desi function I go too. My family also has a Camry so we fit that stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:15 PM
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Are you Indian or Asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:28 AM
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Age: 19 Ethnicity: South Asian General Locale: from Colorado, going to college in the Midwest Income: currently a student, family income is around $200k
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:28 AM
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Lol that's accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:18 PM
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Healthy people are hotter for much longer. This reminds me of how when I go back home to Colorado, everyone is much hotter. People there smoke less, eat healthier, and work out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:10 PM
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For Americans diet is somewhat regional. In Colorado where I grew up people were pretty healthy in terms of diet. Theres a lot more processed carbs and animal fat where I go to college in the Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:01 PM
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Definitely true. I grew up in an UMC Colorado suburb. Almost everyone under 30 was slim, and around half of them were fit as well. Half the girls in my class and and in the two grades below are your standard pretty VSCO girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:40 PM
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The Brits are descended from the Scandinavians. Also they look similar when young. They just age worse. Also this stuff applies to British men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:30 PM
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Good point about diet... The British are about as chunky as Americans, but their diet is probably even worse. Nobody has ever been excited about British cuisine for a reason. Also there's like no vegetables. Americans, Australians, and other Anglosphere countries also drink a lot. But there are more teeotolers in America...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:05 PM
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A rich dude on his death bed. He will be gross, used up, and not fun, but you can get a couple semesters of tuition and a nose job, so afterwards you can go for frat boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 02:55 AM
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If you want a religious, traditional woman, you have to play your part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:59 PM
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There are a lot of 18, 19, 20, and even 21 year old virgins. A lot of them are religious, so if you want them you would have to marry them first and support them. If you want a tradcon women you gotta play your part in the tradcon game. The other virgins are ones who will lose it when the right boyfriend comes along. I know a lot of girls like this. You will have to comitt before sex, and they will likely want to wait a while. Most of those girls are also pretty studious, don't party, and most d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:56 PM
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Instigated Violence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:00 AM
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Paternal age is the bigger risk factor in autism buddy. https://www.spectrumnews.org/news/link-parental-age-autism-explained/ Also birth defects don't become a serious risk factor until late 40s/early 30s. If you want 2 or 3 kid (which is what most people want), you can start at 30 and have all of them before you have any serious health risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:22 AM
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A history of non self defense related violence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:54 PM
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I'm sorry about the family member. That really sucks. I had a similar experience with a guy hitting on me in a car and offering to "teach" me. Although it was while I was test driving a car at 18, so it was much less scary than it would have been st 13. It is a lot easier to shut this stuff done once you realize that you have a voice and that people have no right to violate your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:05 PM
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I'm sorry. Those people are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:50 PM
4

Wait 6? Thank goodness your Mom was able to get you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:20 PM
3

I also got the ugly girl-fake ask you out harassment in middle school. Yeah I've noticed that drunk dudes are something else. They are way more touchy. I don't experience street harassment much either, except when I'm with my girlfriend. That's when stuff starts to get scary and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:45 PM
3

9?????
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 07:30 PM
2

I think that the cram school was an exceptional case in terms of schedule. Most of my male teachers were good so I have s more positive view of them. If he has a regular schedule and treats you well, I would say go for it. But also try to make sure he's not a creep. Maybe see how he responds when you talk about sexual harassment to gauge his views. But also observe him from a distance. Find out how he behaves around young girls, and his attitudes about them. Maybe observe him with students. If h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/19 07:43 AM
1

Yeah it's not a study you can draw broad conclusions from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:16 AM
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When I was in Japan, I noticed there was only a small difference between a 20 year old and a 30 year old. But that's due to people eating much healthier and walking a lot (more physical activity), and as a result being much less obese. Also skincare is pretty popular there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:26 AM
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Being attracted to 16/17 boys or girls is normal as they are post pubescent but adukts hitting on 13 or 14 year olds is disgusting. Those are middle schoolers. They are both physically and mentally immature and its traumatizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:45 PM
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I mean kandy is kinda hyperbolic that's kinda her style, but the dude does look aged (especially from other angles). But late 40s men from the 60s did look better than they do now (obesity wrecks everyone).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 10:17 PM
2

Yeah middle school boys and freshman boys in high school aren't like that. They will try to impress or get attention from pretty girls, but they certainly don't kiss anyone's butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:43 PM
3

Oh yeah middle school boys are much tamer than high school aged, college aged, and older men. And most older men and older teen boys will leave you alone until you are 16ish. Most of my friends and I started experiencing harassment at around 12-14 including from older teen boys/adult men, but once we became 15-17 the amount of attention started to really increase, and it became more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:40 PM
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Angles matter. Also video quality was worse in the 60s https://www.google.com/search?q=stopover+in+a+quiet+town&oq=stopover+in+a%2F&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j0l3.4581j0j4&client=ms-android-samsung-gs-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#imgrc=nB5HhgACT9WVTM:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:31 PM
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His mouth and eye area definitely show aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:03 PM
2

Well 13-15 year old girls get attention from their male peers, and also pedos (a significant portion of men are pedos). But only Stacies in the making and Stacies actually get their butts kissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:00 PM
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Ok sample size of 88 (lol) and women age the same until 50? By 50 you have to start worrying about your health taking a turn for the worse, getting ready for retirement, accepting death, etc. Loss of SMV is trivial in that regard. Also a lot of women lose their sex drive during menopause, so you would care even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:55 PM
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I mean he'd did date Giselle for several years. He also dated Bar Refaeli for like 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:27 PM
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Look at the Kinsey Reports. Something like 2/3 of men visited prostitutes and half cheated. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.businessinsider.com/why-alfred-kinsey-was-controversial-2013-10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:08 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 07:08 PM
9

It does. If you look at a Sugar Baby website or ask a prostitutes who their clients are, it looks like most clients are middle aged men cheating on their wives or divorced middle aged men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 05:46 PM
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Well about 20% of women in that age bracket didn't have sex last year either according to the GSS, and people are losing their virginity at older ages, so it will probably increase for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 05:42 PM
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I mean by the early to mid 20s the vast majority of people have lost their virginity. https://onlinedoctor.superdrug.com/american-virgin/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:53 PM
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14% of men admit to paying for sex. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.businessinsider.com/paying-for-sex-is-not-as-common-as-once-thought-2013-3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 03:30 PM
2

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisherian_runaway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:14 AM
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"You're a bit young for fillers, they are more more late 30s, but rentinol+Niacinamide at night and vitamin C in the morning will do wonders in terms of anti aging especially if you start in your 20s. Also sunscreen." advice from the dermatologist I'm shadowing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:07 AM
1

I think that looking for a job in another country may be your best option tbh. You will find more economically stable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:03 AM
4

The average age of marriage in Japan is 29.3 for women and 30.9 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:00 AM
1

Some aspects like a healthy body weight, clear skin, having hair/having good hair and not having any deformities are related to not having any birth defects, not being ill, and being relatively youthful. Other things like breasts, muscles, are related to being post pubescent. But for a lot of components of attractiveness there isn't much evidence showing their relatedness to anything actually useful/good and could very well be due to Fisherian Runways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:14 AM
3

I'm sorry about that. I hope things work out with your current woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:37 AM
2

Oh yeah there's a lot in there about social status, love, change, and the "pretty little fool" line was brilliant, but it also kinda shows why what your doing is kind of a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:36 PM
3

Gatsby did you even read the book your name comes from? Remember what happened to Jay Gatsby? Hell he wasn't even the one Myrtle's husband. He was the one cucking Tom who was cucking Myrtle's husband. And you remember what Daisy does? She chooses Tom over him and let's him take the fall for Myrtle's death. If Gatsby had just stayed away, he might have been fine. Avoid the trouble of angry unstable husband coming after you, and just go for single girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:00 PM
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I mean my 18-20 year old Stacy friends/acquaintances are mostly dating other college students. One is dating a 22 year old grad student (she's 20). But pretty much all are dating their age mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:30 PM
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I'm a 19, so I notice any signs of aging very quickly. My similarly aged friends also notice aging very quickly. If you have oily skin, you probably aged better since you no longer have acne and wrinkle less. A lot of guys my age who work have a lean fit look which is nice. Also beards are a turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:26 PM
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On campus about 30% of men are at least kinda cute in some way. And around 10% are hot and noticeable. With older men I only notice the ones who look younger. And I've only seen like 3 who are actually hot. They don't look more like men. They just look older. Not particularly sunny, but men don't take care of their skin, so its gets noticeably worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:14 PM
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"White men are at their best looks in their 30s" Lol no. When I walk of my college campus to the nearby neighborhoods with late 20s/early 30s residents, none of the men catch my eye. On my campus at least a couple do. Older men, particularly older white men, have worse skin and a lot have noticeable hair thinning. These neighborhoods have low rates of obesity and are mostly white. Also white men's skin ages worse than darker men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 11:55 AM
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I mean I've seen men argue that 25 is wall, hell I've even seen them say that 16 is prime. I've even seen guys here say that 14 is prime, and that's on PPD. On other sites i've seen some of the inkwells argue that 12/13 year olds are hot and prime. Now I'm thinking back to the fact that adult men started hitting on me and my friends when we were 12-14 and obviously underaged. To be fair most of these men who hit on me and my friends before we were under 16/17/18 were clearly deranged and/or dysf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 12:42 AM
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I mean mgtow is still up and should stay up, so I see no reason why gendercritical should be banned. Those two subs don't gnerally advocate/encourage mistreatment of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:06 AM
2

True
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:01 AM
3

That's good. She seems very unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:15 AM
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Lol at men being less emotional. Women might cry more and openly Express shit like sadness. But man dudes can get angry. They can get angry enough to go on shooting sprees, to kill their ex, to just be generally insane in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 01:22 AM
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True. My parents are light brown and medium-dark brown (we're Indian) and they both used sunscreen and retinol and they both look better than the average mid to late 40s person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:38 PM
1

The only scenario that would be a acceptable in is if the guy was bisexual, and even then it's kinda gross. I'm a bi woman and the thought of my gf being with a guy or even another girl disgusts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:32 PM
4

Brad Pitt kinda transitioned from pretty boy to slightly rugged and masculine. I think part of the reason he aged so well is because he has a very versatile look and was attractive in more than one way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:27 PM
1

Maybe it's his personality that makes me like him so much. Idk he has this appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:25 PM
4

True irl I've never been attracted to anybody over 40. The percent of people who are attractive starts dropping in the mid 20s. Although people who don't drink, smoke, and eat like shit are hotter for way longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:23 PM
2

Yeah they are all hot because they haven't aged at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:22 PM
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I might have these weird age goggles. I find it hard to be objective about the appearances of people past their mid to late 30s because most of them have no appeal to me since I'm 19. Although there are some people like Kate Beckinsale, Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Paul Rudd who manage to remain appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:10 PM
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He had this youthful glow, and his appeal came from his pretty boy look, which kind of wore off. He's still way better looking than the average man his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:58 PM
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He was super hot when he was younger but sometime in his late 30s crossed into kind of old territory. I was watching Once Upon a Time in Hollywood and realized that even though Brad was a decade older than him, Brad was actually hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:53 PM
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Nope. I don't do casual sex at all and only have sex in committed relationships. The only kind of openish relationships that sound appealing are closed triads or quads and those seem too difficult to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:51 PM
4

They are both old and ahem... large so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 05:48 PM
4

I mean who owns fur coats anymore. But it can keep you warm in a post apocalyptic scenario. Also you can let people borrow your clothes for money to take pics as well. Also with Gen Z and younger millennials, lots of men love to buy shit like Supreme and Gucci thanks to hypebeast culture. Materialism is something that transcends sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 01:49 PM
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I mean really expensive cars, Supreme, most boats, etc. are pretty useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 01:11 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:33 PM
1

I do avoid eye contact with men unless I'm already pretty close to them or they are some sort of professor/boss/authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:36 PM
1

True.. Also my dad is just generally hard to anger. I can count on one hand the number of times ive seen my dad angry. I've seen him disappointed or sad a fair amount, but he was almost never angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:24 PM
2

Teachers, Coachs, random people etc were also colder and ruder to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 03:14 PM
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Its probably higher than 11% for young women. The average age of sexual debut has gone up for both genders. People are also drinking, doing drugs, and dating less according a lot of studies. I'm Gen Z and can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:24 AM
2

Yeah most gene editing research is focused on somatic cells. And when it comes to designer babies, it will probably be focused on preventing disorders caused by one gene. I'm actually taking a genetics class now, and I've realized is how incredibly complicated it is to understand how genes work due to interactions between genes, gene interactions with the environment, etc. One thing that wasn't mentioned much in the twins in China scandal is the the variant of the gene that made the girls immune…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 12:05 AM
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That info could provide info to why its happening and possibly contradict OPs claim that this is due to the 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:04 PM
8

Lol no. As a formerly ugly girl, men and boys will be far crueler to you when you are ugly. I was middle school aged when I was ugly, and I was quiet, well behaved, kind, and agreeable to the point of doormatness, and I was still treated poorly by almost every male over 11. Even a lot of my male teachers were colder to me than my prettier classmates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 08:17 PM
2

I actually went to a talk by Dr. Jennifer Doudna (CRISPR co-discoverer) and one thing that she mentioned was that CRISPR was only good for changing specific Genes in specific ways like you could change a mutant allele that causes cystic fibrosis into the normal variant of the allele with CRISPR, but stuff like cancer, heart disease, etc. are literally influenced by hundreds if not thousands of Genes, so CRISPR wouldn't actually help with stuff like that. There are other methods for selecting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:06 PM
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A lot of the time these men want girls that are out of their leagues, and because of that nice isn't enough to get the attention of the girl they want. Around half of the time I've seen guys complain about girls only wanting bad boys, it's over a way out of his league girl and most of the time her bf isn't an asshole, he's just a popular, hot guy. Another quarter of the time, the guy is either very shy , very socially awkward or he is just kinda boring and it impedes his ability to date. A lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:21 PM
1

Yeah it really is. My landlady evicted a tenant for having cocaine. She lost her case
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:21 AM
2

Yeah a lot of people just give up in court, so people think they can get away with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:52 AM
1

Yeah I've done a bit of gig work. When I told one of my professors about it, he looked me straight in the eye and told me that I got screwed over and told what I should have gotten paid. At least I learned after 1 bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 04:37 AM
1

Oh gosh from the ages of 15 to 17 I had to make a sarcastic comment every day. My dad would just laugh, roll his eyes, or look at me in a disappointed way. But then again my dad is normal and functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 02:13 AM
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Yeah it is an asshole move. Physically hurting or humiliating teens as a punishment is a hard no. I mean I understand something like smacking a small kids hand away from a hot stove, a campfire, or iron (I was a dumb pyromaniac as a child), but doing shit like this to a teenager is just fuck no. Also why the fuck is this dude's wife ok with him tying up their son? My mom slapped me when I was 16 (it didn't even hurt since my mom wasn't trying to hurt me and she's tiny) but my dad was pissed!!! H…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:46 AM
2

Nah. A lot of field reports seem fake af and I've only read like 10 of them but half of them are like r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 01:09 AM
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Honestly there need to be better labor laws. A lot of contractors aren't contractors, and gig workers need to be treated better. Also there needs to be a better way for contractors to save for retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:15 AM
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Yeah I have to agree. I think the ideal would be college, a couple years to figure your shit out, and then becoming a "real adult" sometime in your late 20s. That way you have your youth to enjoy but you also have stability at a reasonable age, and people in their 20s have the healthiest children Unfortunately low wages, the gig economy, expensive healthcare and housing have made this really difficult When I talk to a lot of Gen X parents, they had this and seemed to really enjoy it. They had hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:40 PM
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I'm Gen Z. Literally nobody I knew started having sex voluntarily until they were at least 15. I remember stats saying that the average age of virginity loss is 17, and I absolutely believe this. Most people get their 1st serious dating partner sometime between the ages of 15-19 and then lose their virginity to that person. UMC and MC parenting has basically turned into helicopter parents with a dash of Asian tiger parent. CDC stats about fewer teens having sex, drinking, driving, doing drugs, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:15 PM
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Yeah I have to agree that's ridiculous, perverted, and anybody who tries up their teenage child is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:00 PM
1

Oh I meant personality wise, the woman in this story reminds me of a classmate from middle and high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:49 PM
1

That Heidi Klum look a like chick reminds me of one of my classmates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:43 PM
1

Gross 🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:27 PM
5

The entire concept of last minute resistance is probably my biggest objection. Its essentially taking advantage of the fact that a lot of women are very agreeable, terrified of conflict, and due to that will give into having sex they don't really want to have. It is also straight up dangerous to tell a bunch of socially awkward, angry at women, and just generally clueless men that hey women are not actually saying no, you just need to break through their resistance, that is just a terrible idea.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:34 PM
0

Aww that sounds yummy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:07 PM
1

My dad is pretty much the opposite of your dad. Quiet, peaceful, very agreeable and non confrontational, but if I ever tried stuff like hitchhiking or traveling the world alone on a motorcycle, my dad would probably track me down and send me to go live in rural Canada with my uncle and aunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:41 AM
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Yeah I remember my male cousin and my dad talking about traveling across basically every state in India when they were young. Its something I've always wanted to do. It was disappointing when I realized that I could only go to a handful of places north of Mumbai safely, and even if I stuck to Southern India, I would need to be very careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:26 AM
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How dare you introduce nuance /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:03 AM
2

Lots of cultures that are poor are also relatively egalitarian. Also can you provide an example of a society falling due egalitarianism?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:00 AM
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I mean such patriarchal societies exist now. You could move to Saudi Arabia or Pakistan. Don't like Islam? Try a rural Northwestern India. Want to go to a place that's Chirstian? Lots of parts of Africa or a Latin American gang are suitable. If you want to be part of a patriarchal, hierarchical society, there are plenty of places to do that. Do any of those places sound appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:55 AM
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Hatred often implies a dislike so strong that you wish bad things on someone. And hatred of a group often implies that you wish for their rights to be taken away or you wish for harm to be inflicted on them. I don't want to hurt men, I don't want to take away their political rights, I don't want to prevent them from working, I don't want to bar them from education, and I certainly don't want to enact terrorism on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:37 AM
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I mean if your bi and want casual sex, why don't you just have casual sex with men and not bother with women. I'm bi and am not well suited for relationships with men, so I just date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 12:32 AM
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Well if you think the world economic forum is biased, and that egalitarianism is a slave morality, then you an extremist in this regard. If you want to go back to traditional "masculine" society do you also want to go back to the days or warlords, colonialism, slavery, and men being sent to death to by other men over stupid disputes. Not to mention you would probably be subservient to another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 11:52 PM
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Except in the modern world, greater gender equality and opportunities for women means faster economic growth, more reliable food production, and a higher quality of life. http://reports.weforum.org/global-gender-gap-report-2015/the-case-for-gender-equality/?doing_wp_cron=1569446608.2501289844512939453125 https://www.adb.org/publications/gender-equality-and-food-security-womens-empowerment-tool-against-hunger The most powerful western civilization ever was either the British Empire or post WWII, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:24 PM
1

Nah. I like the way my hair is now. Plus my gf likes playing with it and it smells nice and is soft, so I'm going to keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 07:34 PM
1

Lol I definitely don't have the badass bitch personality for a buzz cut or the cute, qUiRkY personality for a pixie cut. I kinda wish I did tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 06:34 PM
1

If I were to ever date men, I would only consider low sociosexuality men. I have no sexual experience with men, and would prefer a partner who is not interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:46 PM
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Lol it's pretty much impossible to glam up more than 2 points irl, and even that takes forever and requires a lot of skill. On a day to day basis you can improve 0.5 to 1 points. The only reason men think you can go from a 6 to a 9 with stuff like heels, tight clothing, and makeup is because men overvalue signals of sexual availability. They rate a 7 who wears regular clothing, sneakers, and minimal/no makeup a 6. Then when they see her in bodycon, heels, and hoe makeup thinks she's a 9. She's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:45 PM
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Only in pictures. That kind of makeup doesn't look good irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:29 PM
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Nah. I don't have the face to pull of buzzed hair. There are lots of girls who look good with short hair, but my face isn't suited for anything short. Plus a medium straight cut isn't that high maintenance. I fixed my hair, and stopped trying to do crazy styles with heat and hairspray. I just brush it with some anti frizz serum in the morning and wash and condition it every other day. Also I like my hair. Now that its healthy again it's nice to look at and touch. But there are some girls who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:26 PM
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I don't really hate men as much as I fear and am disgusted by them. There are a decent number of men I am really close too, my dad and my grandfather in particular. I guess part of my fear and disgust is that I have a really good relationship with my father, and as a result of that had very high expectations for men, but once I hit puberty, men and also boys turned out to be cruel and objectifying in a way I never expected. Even then I was able to turn down my fear and disgust until about a year…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 01:15 PM
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I mean if you think that male celebs don't wear makeup, your way naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:36 AM
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Yeah when I first heard the crisis o confidence speech, I realized that he was as honest as they come, and that honestly of that kind is pretty much impossible to find nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:32 AM
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I'm bisexual and I've noticed that I don't fall for those same attraction triggers as men, well except maybe full lips. I'm mostly drawn to a harmonious, put together appearance on a normal to thin girl with decent skin. I'm also drawn to big eyes, but that's because pretty much everyone has pleasing eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:43 AM
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Just 2 months ago I overheard two chubby guys pick apart the appearance of a size 4-6 girl. They pointed out that she had a bit of cellulite and some white stretch marks and implied that she was gross looking because of these things. I used to play sports with this girl, so I've seen her in her underwear. She has some pale strechmarks on her thighs and butt thanks to a growth spurt, and a small amount of cellulite that's only really noticeable when her legs are in certain positions. These are fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:21 AM
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Unfortunately that's probably true. I've also noticed that a lot men seem just as attracted to cultural signals of beauty/sexuality as they are to actual beauty. When I was 17, I accidentally partially trashed my hair, but it was long so no men made rude comments, but when I had really short hair at 15, men made plenty of rude comments. After that I noticed how often women in movies/pop stars had on obvious wigs or kinda trashed hair, and that men didn't really notice or care. My face is only li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:03 AM
2

Woman here. Somebody who behaves in an altruistic manner, someone who tries to avoid harming others, and in terms of a partner somebody who cares for me and helps me when I need it. A good person is honest even when its difficult, however they try to avoid hurting people's feelings unless its absolutely needed. My example is Jimmy Carter (I know that's super out there)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 11:43 PM
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Yup. Not to mention the skincare, haircare, shaving, body scrubs and moisturizing, finding out the right colors and styles for your body, skin tone, and facial features, maintaining a healthy low calorie diet, and working out 2-3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 09:10 PM
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I knew that women were supposed to be beautiful before I went to elementary school. I realized that more attractive women were treated better by the time I was 8. I've been a 3.5 and now I'm a 7, and I see how much nicer people are to me. I see how much skincare, haircare, makeup, fashion, diets, etc are advertised to women. Now thanks to social media 13 year olds wear full faces. Girls in my age cohort (18-19) were the very last to not be totally bombarded with beauty ads as middle schoolers, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 08:59 PM
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Yeah I feel that way too. It also makes them look older than they are. When I first saw one of my friends' sister I thought she was our age (18-19ish). A couple hours later I saw her without makeup and realized she was 14/15. It was offputting. Social media was a big part of this. Girls my age were the very last ones allowed to have an awkward phase (and even then it was heavily punished and a lot of girls avoided it). Now girls are expected to go from girl to woman without any transition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 08:47 PM
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That's not true irl, only in pictures with the right angles. A 9/10 has to have the right bone structure. In real life makeup can improve you by 0.5-2 points. But the kind of makeup you need to wear to improve by 2 points requires a lot of skill and time, so it cant be done every day. Makeup you wear on an everyday basis can make a 6.5 a 7 maybe 7.5 if you already have decent skin and pay attention to eye makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 08:43 PM
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Yeah it takes a bit of planning (making the room nice, shaving/trimming, a nice body scrub, etc.) but long sex sessions take away a week of stress plus you get like 4 or 5 orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:30 AM
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No. But that includes foreplay, massaging, fingering each other, eating each other out, repeating that if we want, and then showering together. Lesbians last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:56 PM
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Female in a relationship with another woman. Sex 1-2x a week except on period weeks. It should last between 1-3 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:48 PM
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A lot of defendants will allege that consensual ""rough sex"" occurred. Hell it's even been used in cases were the victim died as a result of their injuries. This will fail a lot of the time, but if you have a particularly idiotic judge and jury it can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:21 PM
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Pornhub's data also shows that lesbian porn is the post watched category by women. Also a fair number of women (around a third) don't watch porn at all. Also look at the demographics of fet life (spoiler there are way more men than women). https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/46571902.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjdosCQy-rkAhWFiOAKHR2MD-0QFjAFegQICRAB&usg=AOvVaw0E3lTsIZnrGAZ9i-SjOgzx
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 11:14 PM
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Can confirm the nervousness about man land.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:40 PM
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Before the industrial revolution almost everyone on earth was as sustenance farmer. For women this meant doing a portion of field work, cooking over fires, walking long distances to gather water, birthing over 5 children, watching half those kids die, raising the survivors, etc. Women did a lot of back breaking labor in agricultural societies. And were still considered inferior During the industrial revolution a lot of women worked in shitty factories, in mines, etc. SAHMs didn't become a thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:11 PM
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This has gotten absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:05 AM
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Well I'd have a higher chance with a man. Plus my girlfriend is 5 feet and a 100 so she couldn't do much damage if tried (which is unlikely)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:29 AM
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Listen I've had some bad experiences with men over the past year (and so have a lot of my friends) so romantic relationships with men are off the table for me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 04:11 AM
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Playboy also had photos of Brooke Shields, when she was 10, posing naked in a bathtub.🤢😬😟
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:14 AM
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I'm a bisexual woman. 61% of bisexual experience ipv (with 89% reporting male perpetrators). 35% of heterosexual women also experience ipv. Also these stats are over the course of a life. It's not 29% people being abusers. Most abusers have multiple victims. Also I didn't say that women are the better gender. I just think I am more compatible with women and that I am not well suited with relationships with men due to my lack of compatibility with most young single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 01:06 AM
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Most lesbians have dated men before they came out of the closet. Most have ex boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:58 PM
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It's just usually in cases like that, one or both of the children have been victims of child sexual abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:10 PM
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In that case they both need help as prepubescent children usually do not have sex, and if they are there is probably something wrong going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:07 PM
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For American high schoolers which is basically gen z. Its similar or higher for western European and Canadian high schoolers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:58 PM
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Do the math. 67.4% of 43.4 is around 29% Around 29% of lesbians experience ipv in same sex relationships. Comparatively around 35% of heterosexual women experience ipv in straight relationships. Also pretty much no study has taken severity of violence into account except the homicide study I linked earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:54 PM
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Actually the average is 17.1 or something close to that now. People are having sex later.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:42 PM
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I agree that anybody that sleeps with a 9 year old and anyone older than 15 who sleeps with a 13 year old is disgusting, but after the Epstein scandal and listening to what men on this forum (plus men on other parts of the internet and even men in academia) justify having sex with middle school aged girls, and thinking back to the fact that me and my friends started experiencing harassment when we were 12-14, and several studies I read about men's attraction to various ages, I'm beginning to won…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:33 PM
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Oh I absolutely agree with point 1. Even in places where child marriage is allowed there are rules against having sex with prepubescent and pubescent children, and more child marriages involve girls 15+ than under 15. Having sex with an elementary or middle school aged child abuse, and even very patriarchal societies had some (weak) rules against this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 10:11 PM
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Yeah. I'm disgusted by people like that too, anybody who does that to a middle school aged child is psychologically damaging them for life and does not care about that child's wellbeing. People like that a selfish, cruel, and thoughtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:47 PM
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Read to many reddit pedo posts 🤮. Personally I think that anyone who has sex with any adult who is middle school aged and younger (14 and younger) should be castrated or have there ovaries removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 09:21 PM
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I mean I'm the one who sees what they do. But sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:31 PM
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Omg as I've stated ealier 43.8% of lesbians experience ipv, and 67.4% of them report a female perpetrator. Also read on page 26 of the report that around 80% of lesbians report only one perpetrator. While around 60% of bi women and 70% hetero women report only one perpetrator. https://www.thetaskforce.org/bisexual-women-have-increased-risk-of-intimate-partner-violence-new-cdc-data-shows/ https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_sofindi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:11 PM
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Again a university page from 2000 that hasn't been updated because no better studies existed at that time. In the 2010s studies with large, representative samples were conducted. Also websites that have been updated in the last decade cite the CDC stats I mentioned earlier. Go read that report. https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:16 AM
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I am citing reccent studies with large, representative samples. I am citing the most reccent study conducted by the CDC. I am citing a review of studies conducted by researchers at UCLA that is only a few years old. How am I being dishonest when I cite the best regarded studies and reviews on the topic? Also i never stated that ipv prevalence would have changed over that period of time (although it is possible it has as violence in general has fallen since the 90s). What I've repeated over and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:57 AM
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I go to a large secular university and live with 5 other girls. I also observed my floormates in dorms last year. Half bring no boys, a third bring their bfs, the rest bring some boy once every blue moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:23 AM
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All that post did was repeat the 17-45 statistic. In fact it used the same sources as your previous article. And all of the studies were conducted before 2000, and as I've stated before these studies did not have representative samples, and many also had a small sample size. If you read the abstracts of these studies many will state that they used convenience samples. Also that is literally a decade old forum post. Domestic violence does occur in lesbian relationships, but what recent studies (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 07:20 AM
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Your roommates are not typical western women. Most women do not have an insane number of hookups or sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:40 AM
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Where on the page does it say that ipsv is no less than 30%? The only numerical stats on the page are the 17-45 and the up to 50% stat. (Btw I looked into study 12 where the coercion stat came from, it stated around 31% not 50% so that may have been a typo). It should also be mentioned that the page you pulled up only cites studies from the 90s and 80s because it hasn't been updated since the year 2000 (notice the copyright 2000 at the bottom of the page). The reason those studies were cited is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:14 AM
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A lot of them screw around on the side on the dl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:21 PM
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It also happens in the west, but at a smaller scale than what occurs in developing countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:16 PM
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There have been such cases, but sex trafficking is a real phenomenon. It's more prevalent outside the West but it absolutely does occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:45 PM
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That's pretty interesting. I've noticed that one of the things I do, always going for coffee or sorbet for a 1st date, is done for the same reasons a man would. It makes being stood up less awkward and it's cheap, although every girl I've been on a date with has always insisted on going Dutch even when I offer to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:58 PM
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This review of the literature I linked distinguishes between studies with representative and non representative samples. A representative sample essentially accurately reflects the population it is studying. A non representative sample means that the sample over samples some members of a population and under samples others. Did you even read the study or the table, and the footnotes of the table? Also representative and non representative are statistical terms. If you read most pages on ipv in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:32 PM
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The lowest stat is 0%. If I were to cherry pick, I would use that stat Only three of the studies had representative samples, and only of those studies had enough information to estimate ipsv in lesbian relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:03 PM
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They claim to have been nice guys, but I doubt that based on the way they behave here. A lot of them are creating more pain in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:24 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/Intimate-Partner-Violence-and-Sexual-Abuse-among-LGBT-People.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjWpbW9puLkAhXDnOAKHV1ZCbMQFjAFegQIBhAB&usg=AOvVaw2lrYboEJm39HRVhm1P8H9-&cshid=1569082305479 This details basically all the studies on domestic violence experienced by gay and bisexual women, and on page 10 has a table summarizing all the studies. It shows that studies have found that between 0%-30.6% of lesbians…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:21 PM
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Take everything you read here with a giant spoonful of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:37 PM
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In one of his posts, he talks about sex trafficking and pimps being not being real and being "exaggerated".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:24 PM
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Your school seems to be really interesting. I like that it is single sex and coded. A lot of research shows that female students perform better at single sex schools. http://gap.hks.harvard.edu/academic-performance-and-single-sex-schooling-evidence-natural-experiment-switzerland
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:21 PM
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Yeah reading a lot of the comments in that thread really downgraded my view of the men that post here. I also have had some pretty bad experiences with men irl, so I think that a significant portion of men (like a third to a quarter) dehumanize women and don't care about their suffering or pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:58 PM
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Yes partner violence is experienced by 17-45% of lesbians. A lot of studies on this topic suffer from small, nonrandom samples so that's why the results are so varied.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:46 PM
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What I mean by low sociosexuality is both only sex within a committed relationship, and only interested in vanilla sex (aka just oral and vaginal). Nk choking, no group sex (I'm bi and guys ask about threesomes before we even go on a 1st date), no taking pictures or videos, no trying to imitate porn, nothing that causes more than mild pain. And yeah I've had a really bad experiences in the past year and so have some of my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:42 PM
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Your right I should have phrased it better. I do sound awful. What I meant to say is that only about 20ish percent of men have a compatible sociosexual orientation and most of the compatible ones I've meet are either taken, tradcons, or sexist weirdos. I also don't have the best view of men and hetero sex now, so I am better suited with a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:25 AM
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Yeah I'll admit to having some messed up views about sex and relationships for the past 3 or 4 years , but those beliefs weren't strong and didn't interfere much with how I viewed the boys I spent time with. But that's changed over the past year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:24 AM
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The absolute worst is a tie. One was this guy from a dealership who started touching me back and chest while I was test driving a car and he put his number in my phone while I was driving, texted himself, and kept calling me for months. I was 18, he was in his late 30s. I've also been roofied. I wasn't even drinking alcohol, in fact I dont drink at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:52 AM
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I mean your flair is "Women are SHIT" so that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:39 AM
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Yeah while before my view of men had a slight negative tinge due to my parents wanting to raise me with a healthy fear of men, my view of men has gotten worse when I started to experience sexual harassment when I was 14, and when I was romantically involved with a boy. But over the past year my view of men tanked. Thank goodness I haven't had sex with one yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 12:04 AM
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I'm glad that your life was improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:44 PM
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I feel that be due to a portion of their target audience becoming incels instead of terpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:39 PM
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Same. But I do think that a fair number of men are secretly hostile to women, but I also think these parts of the internet attract a certain type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:27 PM
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Yeah while I've encountered a fair amount of sexists, until last year the vast majority were not openly hostile. Over the past year I've encountered a lot more hostile sexism and it's really influenced how I view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:24 PM
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Lol same. There are some men I would enjoy being in a relationship with, but finding a non sexist, nonbigoted, low sociosexuality, intelligent man is fucking impossible, so I'll stick with women for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:19 PM
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Aww that's sweet. People irl are much nicer than they are on the internet. This seems especially true for men. Btw you are one of the chillest, most rational posters here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:16 PM
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Yeahs that's definitely true. When I lived in Colorado, I got harassed once every 2 or 3 months or so after I was 16ish. It was mostly random old men coming to flirt with me and getting offended and scolding/pressuring me to change my mind when I said I wasn't interested. Where I live now there are more catcalls and car honks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 02:24 PM
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Lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:32 PM
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Ok that could work but I would still try talking to a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:04 AM
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What kind of fiction? Like fictional stories or like roleplay? Because based on how your describing your fantasy it may not be the best decision to roleplay it because you might not be able to do that safely?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:17 AM
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A lot of people need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:10 AM
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Yeah but it can explain a lot of psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 07:08 AM
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While yes we all have bad, messed up fantasies occasionally. If those fantasies are persistent and recurring to the point where they cause concern or become consuming, it starts to get to the point where it harms you psychologically and your fantasy starts to leave your head. With fucked up fantasies I find it's best to avoid fuel for them and try to focus on something else. Salty mentioned walking away from a knife when he needs to, and I have to agree with that. Also sometimes dwelling on thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:35 AM
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I mean the simplest explanation is that people like favors and I'm a strong supporter of Occam's razor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:31 AM
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One more thing. Please remember that it is easier to seriously hurt someone or even kill a person than you think it is especially if you get into stuff like choking, gagging, smacking people in places like the head, back, or abdominal area, or by applying lots of pressure to certain bones, etc. So if you do get into BDSM please realize that its possible to seriously injure someone and avoid that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:27 AM
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Omg look up porn directors. They are as white bread as it gets. Look up the guy who created the hellhole that is gonzo porn. Hell look up Max Hardcore who helped turn porn into the shitty thing it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:23 AM
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I mean women like benevolent sexists because benevolent sexism means being treated favorably in some contexts. It's not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:16 AM
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Yeah I agree with that. Violence is best left in fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:42 AM
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I mean causing permanent harm or severe bodily harm to another person is illegal. But that doesn't change the fact that some people (men) have sexual interests which will seriously harm other people if they become reality. What should we do with these people? In a sane world we would have them go to therapy and seek help, or if they were fucked up beyond repair, try to prevent them from harming others, but in our clown world we're not supposed to shame people or make them feel guilty about their…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:40 AM
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I mean a some of those surveys also show that a similar number of men have rape fantasies (e.g. being forced into sex by a women). https://reason.com/2014/11/11/kinky-sex-survey-finds-everybodys-weird/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:26 AM
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Not everything about a person needs to be expressed. Most people dream up some fucked up crap. A lot of it could seriously and permanently harm others, and is best left in your head. Also often times a fantasy comes from an unhealthy place. In OPs case it seems like his fantasy came from a toxic place. There's a reason people feel shame and guilt when they fantasize about hurting someone--hurting someone is bad. Shame and guilt exist for a reason, and we shouldn't try to ignore them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:14 AM
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Most porn is made by men. Most men is made for men. Men consume over 70% of porn in mainstream sites like xhamster and pornhub, and on paid porn sites the userbase becomes even more male. About a third to a half of women dont watch porn at all. A shit ton of women who watch porn exclusively lesbian porn/"female friendly" porn. Only a minority of women look at violent porn and most of those dont want that to become reality or act it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 05:03 AM
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Some people have fantasies about mutilation. That's absolutely not fine. If the fantasy is as bad as OP implies he should seek help from a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:36 AM
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I mean that study also shows that men and women are into dominance and submission st the same rates if you go to the tables. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/318505712_Fifty_Shades_of_Belgian_Gray_The_Prevalence_of_BDSM-Related_Fantasies_and_Activities_in_the_General_Population
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:33 AM
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I grew up in Colorado and moved to the Midwest for college, so I know what your talking about. Whenever I go back home, I'm slightly surprised by how fit everyone is. Although being thin in the Midwest makes me seem hotter than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:44 PM
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Yeah when I visited Japan earlier this year,one thing I noticed is that a lot of easy, quick food you could get from vending machines and 7-11 was actually pretty healthy. Lots of no sugar drinks like green tea, very little added sugar, far less saturated fat. It was really easy to eat healthy. I lost weight the 5 pounds I gained during my 1st semester of college within a month and a half without even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:41 PM
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Porn still has a lot of problems with abuse and exploitation. I mean the whole James Deen debacle. Also kink.com's recent lawsuit, Girls Do Porn's lawsuit, also Leigh Raven and Riley Strong's accusations of abuse, etc. Not to mention that huge portion of the adult industry is controlled by a shady company called Mindgeek (porn stars get blacklisted if they mention it by name).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:08 AM
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Yeah while I've always been normal or underweight there was a period from the ages of 11 to 14ish where I was just straight up ugly. My features didn't fit my face, jaw problems caused asymmetry, and I had lots of acne and hyperpigmentation. The compliments I got as a child and the compliments I got after becoming pretty again at 16 where drastically different in terms of sincerity, frequency, thoughtfulness, etc. Even at 11 I knew when a compliment was sincere, fake flattery, or a lie to make f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 08:01 PM
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I love pretty boys. I'm bisexual and a teenager if that helps explain. 1-D boys (especially Zayn) Brad Pitt (from the ages of 16-45) Leo (from 18-35ish) Kurt Cobain Peter Centineo Shawn Mendes A lot of K pop stars
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:12 PM
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I'm bisexual with a lean towards women so I prefer more feminine men aka pretty boys. Boy band members (especially 1-D members) are super hot, so are Noah Centineo, and young Leonardo DiCaprio. The hottest men ever Brad Pitt from ages 16 to around 40ish and Zayn Malik from 16 to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:03 PM
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I'm bisexual with a lean towards women so I prefer more feminine men aka pretty boys. Boy band members (especially 1-D members) are super hot, so are Noah Centineo, and young Leonardo DiCaprio. The hottest men ever Brad Pitt from ages 16 to around 40ish and Zayn Malik from 16 to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:03 PM
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I have to agree with this. Most men have enough self respect not to orbit. I would say that about a quarter to a third of men orbit; they are usually slightly below average to slightly above average. But of the ones that do, they often have a tendency to drastically overestimate their attractiveness and underrate the girls they are pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 04:25 AM
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Research shows that men overrate their physical attractiveness and that men are less attractive than women (both men and women rated women as more attractive)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 04:21 AM
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There's a reason women spend more time on beauty products and worry about their appearance more. The average women is more attractive than the average man. There's more Stacy than Chad. (I'm bisexual and I see more attractive women on a day to day basis than attractive men). Men care more about appearance. However, now that women are not dependent on men, they are pickier in terms of appearance than they were in the past and men begin the understand the pressure to be beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 03:02 AM
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Yes this. They compare a dressed up, airbrushed, post plastic surgery insta girl/celeb to the girls they see everyday. These girls are 8s and 9s. Good features, good bodies, some exceptional features, but the fact that they have some tiny flaws (like all other humans) causes a lot of men to think these girls "just above average." They underrate the attractiveness of these girls, and overrate their own physical attractiveness by discounting their own flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:55 AM
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Except in this case in this case the women who they were orbiting were top tier 8s and 9s in terms of looks. These girls were also intelligent, athletic, socially adept, generally nice, responsible etc. So they were high RMV as well Their orbiters were in the 4 to 6 range and were less popular, non-athletic, and often times socially inept. While there is nothing wrong with being those things, its blatantly obvious that these girls are way, way out of their league. Especially considering the tier…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:45 AM
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For the vast majority of men hair removal is not needed since most women don't mind body hair. I just put this down as something difficult and often painful women do to insure they look good. Most men could get better haircuts, better skin, dress better, and if they have weak jaws get a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 02:00 AM
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Yeah a lot of women exaggerate how much they appreciate things like being humor, kindness etc. What they often mean to say is that I would like an equally attractive partner to slightly less attractive partner who is kind and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 01:49 AM
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I would say that around 90% of couples are looks matched if you take into account the fact that women on average are better looking than men. Most of the time there is an attractiveness difference it's not too large of a gap (like 1 or 2 points). But women are far more likely to date down in terms of looks. If you see a legit couple where one partner is more attractive, 90% of the time it's the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:49 AM
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30 will be old to most girls under 23/24
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:40 AM
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Height is pretty important but better grooming and style can lead to a better face and working out can lead to a better bod. I would say face and fitness are more important. An average height guy could probably become a 6 or 7 or if he is really fit and had a good face an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 12:08 AM
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They could try to get a honest assessment from another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:41 PM
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Yes in fact these men were deluded about their looks and their personalities. The girls boyfriends were more compatible than the orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:20 PM
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The 1st study I linked shows that altruistic people both male and female report my romantic and sexual success. While yeah my 2nd study's methodology wasn't great it was very similar to your second study (where a bunch of women rated characters with various personality traits). Both studies had small sample sizes. All we can say is that the information is mixed. Altruism/pro social behavior is a facet of agreeableness and the dark triad is negatively correlated with agreeableness, and the dark t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:03 PM
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True. Skincare has limited potential, but a lot of men could improve their chances by aiming within their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:57 PM
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Yeah after puberty people's skin improves. That's part of why why college aged people to mid twenties are usually the hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:52 PM
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Actually they were way worse looking than the average dad of my high school classmates. Most of my classmates dads were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:48 PM
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They had a lot of it along with other skin issues. Pretty much every high schooler has 1to 4 spots but these guys were a lot worse. Some of them also had poor hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:44 PM
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I wish I could upvote this twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:41 PM
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A lot of the orbiters were deluded about their personalities as well. While 3 of these girls are intelligent honors/AP students and most of the orbiters were nerdy guys, these girls were also athletes and were decently popular. Their boyfriends were also semi popular to popular athletes in honors/AP classes. Their boyfriends did have better, more compatible personalities. Smart Stacy will want Smart Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:38 PM
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Sexlessness grew among both men and women. It's just that it grew more for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:23 PM
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Yes a lot of them had acne and bad haircuts and poor style. None of them were fit like the girls bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:22 PM
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Well middle age would not be attractive to teen girl unless he was Brad Pitt levels of hot. But they were often bald and chunky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:12 PM
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Most were normal bmi but that's because my bff and I grew up in a UMC suburb in Colorado so our area had some of the healthiest bmis in the country (particularly among young people).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:11 PM
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That abstract is essentially saying that the effect of narcissism could be accounted for by extraversion. In a speed dating scenario more extroverted men would likely engage with women more and appear to be more confident. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bjop.12208?casa_token=yekWPsTnSY4AAAAA%3AJQ97I8xNG6nvVv3jEWHta3MLq-SJj3zs3QMCobkVUJ_M5Q53J0vmhadDJo7ZJ1egQZZjIRK9rNrQnHA https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3851331/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:09 PM
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I wasn't suggesting leg removal, but a lot of the boys around me are kinda sloppy looking and by improving their skin, style, hair, and getting a normal bmi, they could become 6/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 10:01 PM
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Yeah most people have an upper limit on how hot they can become without drastic measures . For most it's a 7 or 6, but yeah not everyone can become Chad or Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:59 PM
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What your saying is true, but while all of the boyfriends played 1, 2, or 3 sports (in fact 3 of them had a sport or two in common with their girlfriends) none of them were douchebags. Edit: in fact all of the boyfriends were social, well adjusted, generally respectful and polite, kind to their gfs, and good students
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:58 PM
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Then become hotter or realize that you are playing on a harder level, but stop whining about women not being attracted to you and stop complaining about women being hypergamous or shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:54 PM
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I remember my blonde bff would get approached by gross middle aged men a lot. She would laugh in their face (still does). I pointed out that this was kinda mean, but she said that someone would have to break these men's delusions about how they were not attractive to women half their age. Tbh even though this is cruel it was kinda hilarious to see these men's delusions being crushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:16 PM
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Yeah low value people are often exploited by high value people. However in these cases the women said they were not interested in dating their orbiters and had exclusive boyfriend, so in this case the men were just being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:05 PM
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Shave you head completely, skincare, get fit, dress nicely. Also shoot in your league if you want to play it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:03 PM
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Dating more attractive and youthful partners means dating up in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 09:02 PM
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Incels have really deep issues, but a lot of terpers also have issues. A lot of them are incredibly clueless, systemize things that shouldn't be systematized, and are bitter misogynists. An earlier post asked why bloops are mean and make fun of terps. It's because terps are an easy target due to the clueless, inept crap that terps rant about. And since many of them are misogynistic it's easy to morally justify bullying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:36 PM
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True. Men tend to be hypergamous in terms of beauty and youth. Women tend to be hypergamous in terms of status and resources. People in general want to best they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:31 PM
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The girls said that they were not romantically interested in the men and they had hotter, more socially adept, and in two of the cases more intelligent boyfriends. The girls said that they were only interested in friendship and treated them like friends (e.g. doing group projects, hanging out in class, inviting them to events). In a lot of these cases the girls would find out that the boys were not interested in friendship and break it off, but that was after like a year of orbiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:27 PM
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Well these boys had nothing to offer the girls since these girls had hotter, more socially competent boyfriends, so they should stop complaining about being rejected and whining about the friendzone. If these men want hot girls they should find something that single hot girls value and offer that instead of posting on braincels, or screeching about women being hypergamous sluts incapable of love and maturity like terpers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:14 PM
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If women were more honest, men would put more effort towards looking good, and thus women could have more attractive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:08 PM
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They would talk with the boys in class and occasionally do group projects/homework with them, and would occasionally invite them to parties they were hosting, and since a lot of these girls were in various clubs that hosted fundraisers/events would ask the boys to come. Most of the girls said that they were only interested in friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:06 PM
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Except overweight and unattractive women usually understand that these comments are just their friends being nice. Research shows that women are aware of their attractiveness, its men who overestimate their attractiveness. In fact men are the ones who overestimate their skills, intelligence, etc. I'm saying that women should be honest that there is a barrier of looks that a man needs to surpass to be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 08:03 PM
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I mean the girls were friends with some of the guys for at least a little while. A lot of the girls tried to reject nicely because they didn't want to hurt the guys feelings. My bff was the only one who harshly rejected guys initially. My lab partner didn't explicitly reject the guy until he started stalking her because she didn't want to be mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:56 PM
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True they could but none of them were willing to change, and these girls already had boyfriends (and were very attached to said boyfriends). My bff and her boyfriend are still together and doing well (it's been 4 years). The SEC cheerleader and her boyfriend have been together for 3 years and are still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:51 PM
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Yes but a well maintained beard for some men and a good haircut can make you more facially attractive. Good style can add another point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:48 PM
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The 1st study showed that both men and women were attracted to narcissists and sociopaths. The second study explains your point better but the sample size is pretty small so it would require replication and a larger sample size. Especially since there are studies that show that altruistic men are more attractive. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2016-26097-003 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886918304586 https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/10/081014134027.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:46 PM
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Yeah that's true. I that better skincare and haircare becoming mainstream for men would help with the situation. But at the same time most of the girls I'm describing are 8/9 and the orbiters are 4-6 so at that point it's kinda straight up delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:40 PM
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Yeah I have to agree with that. While I think looks matter less for women in terms of attraction they are the biggest factor. I would say that for men looks are 90% and for women looks are 70-80% depending on the woman. Women do understate how important looks are and it would be better if people were more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:35 PM
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Most 6/7 girls also do a lot of skincare, haircare, hair removal, etc. If men did things like that and had a normal bmi most could become 6/7. If men did this things along with gym a lot of them can become 7/8. I honestly think that a lot of advice for men focuses on the gym to much. Good skin, nice hair, nice grooming in general can add 2/3 points for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 07:32 PM
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Yes but you are an upper middle class professional and if I remember correctly your daughter is very intelligent, and it is very good that she was able to help her friends. However, while a lot of the girls I am talking about would benefit from free birth control (which my home state, Colorado, started providing to teens and low income women), a lot of the girls with intellectual disabilities need a lot more support. Hell even the average intelligence girls who had piss poor elementary education…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:09 PM
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If you read the post it was mostly news articles discussing studies. I looked through the articles, a lot of them discussed the same studies. Often times 3 or 4 articles commented on the same study. The responsiveness study was mentioned over 6 times. Also this was the only dark triad speed dating study I found. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/per.2040 In this study both male and female narcissists and sociopaths were rated more favorablely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:49 PM
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I would agree with that but that's ignoring the fact that a lot of these girls were only 13-15 years old, came from dysfunctional environments, had experienced childhood abuse, and had intellectual disabilities which made it difficult to encourage them to make good choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:27 PM
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I mean a lot of those studies weren't great. A lot of them had small sample sizes. The ASPD patients one had a tiny sample size, and it's very likely that there could be lying. The bullying one didn't take other factors into account, like the fact that bullies are generally more popular and attractive. The responsiveness one essentially states that men responded more positively to responsive women (women were neutral) which is unsurprising since men get less attention from the opposite sex. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:24 PM
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I agree that most single moms with deadbeat dads made stupid decisions but a large minority of them also got unlucky or were abused. I used to volunteer at a clinic that provided healthcare for teen moms and a lot of the girls there were very naive and had some intellectual disabilities, and were groomed and impregnated by adult men who discarded them. While yes these girls are technically responsible for what happened to them, a lot of them didn't have the intellectual capacity or foresight to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:21 PM
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Oh your one of those people....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:15 PM
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I've never seen this. Most of the successful men I know are at least above average and charming/extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:09 PM
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The vast majority of people who ever lived were poor and starving by current standards. Before the industrial revolution most people were poor, uneducated farmers. But guess what, they still reproduced. In fact, as a country gets more wealthy and women become more educated, birth rates go down. People only really start controlling their reproduction once they are educated, encouraged, and incentivized too. Also mass starvation is incredibly inhumane. Its borderline sociopathic. Like you couldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:49 AM
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That would be harmful in the long run. There would be a lot of poor, desperate, dysfunctional people. That leads to cycles of crime, abuse, and a general decrease in society wide wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 05:09 AM
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While I disagree with parts of points 2 and 3, I do agree that women are more responsible for reproduction than men (I would say its like 80 women to 20 men). I also think that a lot of women make terrible choices in terms of reproduction and childcare, and I think that society should discourage these sorts of poor choices (like having a kid out of wedlock). But some of these women are victims. ​ Also since its in society's best interest for children to be nourished, living in decent housing, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 04:26 AM
0

Yeah Lord Bolton or whatever his username was asked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:12 PM
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Yes attractive assholes are socially adept and physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:21 PM
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I mean most braincels posters are socially inept, non financially successfu pricks and also claim to be physically unattractive, but they constantly complain about not being romantically successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:35 PM
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Well goldigggers are known for repressing their disgust. Also a 13 point gap is pretty significant in terms of support for candidate. If you look at it another way, men are 33% more likely to vote for that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:31 PM
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I mean isn't that guy's wife grossed out by his touch? And he has significantly more male supporters than female supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 03:47 PM
1

Based on your post history you are South Asian right? If you are I would say that if you are not able to marry her by the time she is 23/24 then you might need to let her go if marriage is something she wants and that's not some you can provide soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:03 PM
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There has been a backlash against every wave of feminism that ever happened. There was backlash against the suffragettes. There was a massive backlash against 2nd wave feminism in the 1980s. Susan Faludi even wrote a book about that particular backlash. The manosphere and the rise of Trump are part of the backlash against 3rd wave feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:02 PM
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Except a lot of matrilineal societies are also somewhat patriarchal. Also most societies where women are in power don't have problems like mass sex selection, huge amounts of sexual violence against men, mass disempowerment of men. There is no place that is as bad for men as places like Saudi Arabia, India, China, etc. are for women. Hell even developed countries like South Korea have tons on misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 12:18 AM
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In a lot of India, sex selective abortion became really common in some regions, but it's not common in every region. As a result girls from places like West Bengal are trafficked into places like Haryana due to the demand for brides. It's also made sexual harassment a lot worse, especially in regions where sex selection was common. When I go visit my family in Bangalore or Hyderabad I encounter sexual harassment (staring, some catcalls) but it's a lot worse in places like Dehli or Agra. There I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 05:20 PM
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Honestly I can't watch most porn. A lot of the time a naked person will actively turn me off unless I'm actually touching and smelling them.... I have clown world sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:39 AM
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I think the company you're talking about is a Danish company called Color Climax Corporation. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Color_Climax_Corporation Sidenote: they made child porn with literal 7 year olds. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:28 AM
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https://archive.org/stream/kink-lawsuits/Cameron%20Adams%20vs.%20Kink.com%20et%20al.%20(2015-07-24)#mode/2up Yeah probably not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:24 AM
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Femdom porn is generally a great read. But I can't watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:11 AM
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Lol I lost mine to another foid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:54 PM
3

PPD does not represent the average. While BDSM fantasies are common, a lot of people don't want fantasy to become reality. A significant minority of people do engage in BDSM practices (about a third). However, when the vast majority of people want to engage in masochism, they want the pain to be mild and controlled. https://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2017/8/16/how-many-americans-have-had-a-bdsm-experience-infographic?format=amp https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/qvmynb/five-most-common-sexual-kinks-…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:01 AM
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My friends who have sex with men often complain that men try to imitate porn and that it feels unpleasant. Most of them are not interested in kinky things and of those that are they are not interested in anything that causes any party more than mild pain. I also hear many women complain that porn has made more men interested in anal sex. I've only met two women who are into anal and both said that they only does it with a lot of lube, foreplay, and prep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:40 AM
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First of all a lot of women don't watch porn, second of all a lot of women who watch porn only watch lesbian porn. So yes there is a minority of women who are into violent stuff but again that is only a minority of women. Edit: also a lot of people (women in particular dont want their fantasies to be tried out irl)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:34 AM
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Ugh yes. I rarely watch porn but if I do I watch to watch lesbea. I never watch straight porn or mainstream porn. But I'm bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:20 AM
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I've asked straight women why they like lesbian porn. The answer they gave me is that hetero porn is too extreme and that lesbian porn is more focused on female pleasure. I've also met a lot of women, myself included, who don't watch porn at all or watch very very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:21 AM
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First of all most porn is made for men. And if you think that pornstars aren't faking it you are quite frankly very very naive. https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-porn-gap-gender-differences-in-pornography-use-in-couple-relationships Hell even pornhub says that less than 30% of its viewers are women. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2018-year-in-review#gender Also when women search for porn, they tend to look at lesbian porn. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vice.com/amp/en_us/article/j5zzyp/heres-t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 01:03 AM
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A big cause of out of wedlock births is due to birth control failure. One problem with a lot of contraception is the margin for human error. There are some forms of contraception that reduce human error. Sterilization, IUDs, the implant, etc. IUDs Colorado gave out free IUDs and implants for several years. The results: -births to teens were reduced by 50% births to women without a high school diploma were reduced by 38% https://www.colorado.gov/pacific/cdphe/cfpi-report
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 10:26 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.jimhopper.com/pdf/koss1987_scope_of_rape.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjt1NivipjkAhViTt8KHd-kBxYQFjACegQIBxAB&usg=AOvVaw3anA2n8zZNEKi4GqSg3FNd&cshid=1566531982451 It's a bit too much to quote but the results and discussion are worth a read. But basically only #8, 9, and 10 counted as rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:48 AM
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" A modified 16-item version of the Sexual Experiences Survey (Koss et al., 1987) was used at both timepoints (Abbey, Parkhill, BeShears, Clinton-Sherrod, & Zawacki, 2006). This measure uses behaviorally-specific language to assess a range of sexual activities (e.g., sexual touching; oral, vaginal, and anal intercourse) that happened against the woman's wishes through the use of verbal pressure, physical force, or when the woman was too impaired to consent." This basically states that they used …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:42 PM
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In the second study under the subheading "Descriptive Information About the Prevalence of Perpatration" it says that "1.4% committed attempted rape, and 5.4% committed completed rape"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 09:06 PM
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No but the studies mentioned that it based its scaling off a study from 1987 conducted by Mary Koss. This study is pretty well known and it used Ohio rape statutes at the time to classify what rape and attempted rape are. That study defined rape, sexual coercion, and sexual assault in the way I detailed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 07:51 PM
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In this case they used a scale which defines rape as unwanted oral, anal, or vaginal penetration by a penis or other object that occurred due to the utilization of force or through the victim being incapacitated by alcohol or drugs. Sexual assault basically involves all inappropriate touching. Sexual coercion is continually pressuring or using a position of power to make someone have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 05:07 PM
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Only a tiny minority of feminists think that way. Hell even on gender critical most of the women there don't think that all men are like that. But quite frankly men who hate women are more concerning than the women who hate men. The Ecole Polytech massacre, various shootings by incels, etc. show that misogyny is quite violent. Misandry is a bunch of people screeching online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:52 PM
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On page 27 of that report it states that 67% of lesbian victims of IPV female perpetrators. Which means about 29.5% of lesbians report domestic violence by another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:37 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3727658/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3262661/#!po=0.434783 These studies distinguish between various forms of sexual assault. I.e. distinguish between rape, sexual coercion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 02:26 PM
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I don't hate men. But everytime someone says that men are on average more violent, they get screamed at by terpers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:26 PM
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Yeah the study basically found that the majority of incidents were perpetrated by repeat offenders and this study isn't of sexual assailants that got caught it is about men who admitted to committing sexual assault in an anonymous survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:24 PM
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Around 4 or 5 percent of men are gay. While that is a small minority it is still a significant minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:22 PM
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While the main study reports on sexual assaults committed in which alcohol was involved, the article mentions that other literature finds that around 6 to 11 percent of men admit to committing rape in anonymous surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:21 PM
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Like most other violence men are more likely to kill their children. https://news.brown.edu/articles/2014/02/filicide
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:46 AM
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A lot of self report studies show that between 5 to 11 percent of men commit rape. https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2019/04/12/study-repeat-rapists-committing-vast-majority-sexual-crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:45 AM
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Somebody else mentioned FebFems on this thread and I am one. I actually have no sexual experience with men (although I do have romantic experience). I've only dated women for the past 2 years. While I don't really like saying this, I understand gold star lesbians. One of my TAs went through 9 relationships in 4 years because 7 of the girls she dated decided to be with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:31 PM
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While my dad didn't identify as a feminist, he is very soft spoken, polite, and respectful (and I'm pretty sure he doesn't watch porn), so I was utterly unprepared for how gross men/boys are in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 01:49 AM
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Omg you're flair is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 09:08 PM
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We went on a date and he spent the entire time talking about Zelda. I barely got 10 words in. That was the last time I went on a date with a guy. In the 2 years since I've only dated women. Edit: Just as a side note this guy was actually the most attractive and well adjusted guy I've actually dated. Although my sample size is 4 and I only dated men for 2 years while I was still in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 07:51 PM
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I would not choose option 1. However I would not choose option 2 either. Average in terms of looks is ok as long as he has a normal bmi (I'm 19 so most guys my age are normal weight), but I only want to be involved with intelligent, educated people. However, I am abnormal in many regards. I have never been past 1st base with a guy. For the next few years I will only have sex or relationships with women. I also will not have sex with a man I am not married to (I'm not religious) and I will not ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 03:47 AM
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You would think that's obvious. Unfortunately a lot of people here don't seem very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:53 PM
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I love how you're the only one who presents actual evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:01 PM
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If both men and women want to "be prey". Then wouldn't being prey be a standard part of human sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:22 PM
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They fantasize about being forced to penetrate, and while that's different from being penetrated, still falls under the umbrella of rape by most people's definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:13 PM
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Yes but if both men and women frequently have "rape" fantasies, doesn't that show that they both want to be prey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:11 PM
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Rape fantasies are also common among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:50 PM
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Men spank and hit their children all the time and also justify by saying it's just spanking. Also being creeped on by pedos is worse than the vast majority of spankings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:21 AM
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Unfortunately men are pedophiles. I wish society acknowledged this and protected children but we have to consider men's fee fees over the safety of children. Girls start getting catcalled around ages 12-14. If you have kids, particularly female children, be very careful around men. Assume that they are dangerous and go from there. It's better safe than sorry. I hate how men here perform mental gymnastics about how men are not dangerous at all. My dad warned me about men and tried to protect me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:04 AM
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Finally a sane, logical response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:03 AM
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A lot of men are pedos. Are you surprised by this revaltion? It's pretty obvious. Lots of adult men love leering at or harassing pre teen/early teen girls who just hit puberty and obviously underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:00 AM
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Meh I want to empty nest by my early 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 04:25 AM
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Most people don't have significant fertility issues or gamete quality issues until their late 30s/early 40s. If you have kids in your early 30s/late 20s, they will be out of the house by the time you're in your early 50s which is pretty good. And you will likely have grandkids in you're 60s, which gives you 10 to 20 years with them. And most people only want/can afford 2ish kids so you'll still have plenty of time. While early 20s/mid 20s might be optimal fertility for women, and that's usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:02 AM
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Congrats on both of you being very fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:48 AM
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Wasn't you're wife also in her late 30s/early 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:22 AM
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Except a lot of studies show that on college campuses fraternity members and student athletes are more likely to committ rape. Which kinda contradicts your assessment. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1077801219833820?journalCode=vawa#
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:32 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2017/10/30/health/men-rape-sexual-assault.amp.html Risk Factors of committing rape: -heavy drinking -associated with others who commit sexual violence -victim blaming is associated with committing rape again -beliving sexual assault myths Also on college campuses fraternity members and student athletes are more likely to committ rape. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1077801219833820#
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:56 PM
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I am sexually attracted to men however at this point in life I would only have sex or relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:42 PM
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It's basically a bisexual women who only has sex with/dates/has relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:55 PM
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Yeah it's also depends a lot on the region they are from. Bengali, Sindhi, and South Indian Muslims tend to be a lot less hyper strict than Mirpuri Pakistanis. But yeah I do worry about some of the girls a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:52 PM
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A bisexual who only dates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 07:49 PM
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South Asian muslims are either pretty liberal or super super conservative. I'm South Asian Hindu and while I know some Pakistani girls who date and have boyfriends I also know some who don't even talk to boys. ABCD Hindus and Sikhs are either serious nerds who occasionally end up in relationships with each other or they are partiers (but still decent students to keep mommy and daddy off their back) who drink a lot and date/hook up with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:55 PM
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I'm non white and young (19). I'm also a FebFem. A lot of people have their judgement clouded by their limited perspective. A lot of people also don't seem to understand the changes that have happened over the past 10 years. Social media, decreasing financial stability, and the pushing adulthood until older ages have drastically affected dating. People are older when they start dating, kissing, driving, and having sex. Some of my above average to very attractive friends did not have their first …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 05:49 PM
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I agree with the 1st 3 Ws. Also A lot of people on this forum seem to be lacking in terms of pro social behavior compared to the people I interact with on a day to day basis. Part of this is the nature of the internet lowering people's natural levels of empathy. But I also think that a lot of people here seem to be damaged. A lot of the men here also seem like shut ins who watch too much porn. The over the top promiscuity they accuse women of engaging in is absurd. Perhaps I am just a boring per…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 03:22 AM
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This is the sane smart answer from you of all posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 10:09 PM
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A lot of users on here seem to be racists, sexists (duh), or narcissists. A disproportionate number of people here seem to be lacking in terms of pro social behavior. But that's true of the internet in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:31 PM
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Obviously a significant portion of women would kill or carry out extreme violence. Its just that far more men would do these things. I don't believe that the women who claim they would be perfectly moral would actually be perfectly moral but I don't think that they would actually rape or kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:28 PM
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Do you have evidence that female teachers abuse their students more?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 09:12 PM
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Empathy, Agreeableness, hope for the future
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:21 PM
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Women tend to be more empathetic and agreeable and less violent. These women probably wouldn't be totally moral and would happily steal and vandalize but they probably won't go beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:20 PM
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You still have to consider your own comfort and safety. I don't want to endanger myself or others and I don't want to do something that causes more than very mild pain to either of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:12 PM
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Agreed I don't want anything to do with buttholes and I honestly would not want to be involved with anybody who is noticeably sadistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 08:08 PM
2

Isn't blackpill about how looks are what matters and all women wanting Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 09:28 PM
2

It's more being so annoyed and frustrated with men that you decide to stop dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 08:02 PM
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Dating whiny, clueless, shallow manchildren and then being so frustrated and unattracted that once you break up with them you stop dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 06:56 PM
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4
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:42 PM
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Very few people have sex before 15/16. https://www.guttmacher.org/fact-sheet/american-teens-sexual-and-reproductive-health Also a lot of girls who start having sex at 13/14 were raped or sexually abused. I'm 19 and almost half of my friends are virgins. Sexual debut is bring pushed into the late teens/early 20s which is a good thing. I can personally reccomend waiting until you are done with high school and in a stable relationship as it insures that you are stable, mature, and cared for. None o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 07:28 PM
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I have a girlfriend now so I don't have to worry about dating for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:32 PM
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Gay men are more physically attractive, are more likely to have similar interests, and more likely to place value on traits like intelligence and curiosity. Of course a lot of this is due to the fact that gay men who interact with me value me as a friend and because of that value me for things other than physical attractiveness and agreeableness and because of that I start to think of them as good dating prospects until I realize they are gay. I know there are straight men like this but I've bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:14 PM
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I have four groups. Avoid at all costs (creeps, violent, etc.) Don't like but can tolerate. Like but will not date. Would be willing to date. So far all the men in this category are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:19 PM
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I attract nerdy white, Asian, and Indian guys. I've also had above average, extroverted Desi and black men show interest. I also attract 18 to 21 year old lesbians (I'm bisexual). I've only had one relationship until very recently. It was with a nerdy white guy. Throughout high school I was in honors classes and in stuff like Latin club so I was surrounded by nerdy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:24 PM
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Don't fight Don't get in a fight Help me get away to safety. The best thing to do is to hide and call the police. Only get in a fight if you absolutely need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:45 AM
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I knew a high N man who became super religious at age 27 and married a virgin. He was one of my friend's father. He was an conservative Evangelical. He would give talks about how wrong he was in regards to his previously hedonistic lifestyle. About how finding God saved him. About the importance of female chastity. About how sluts are dirty and used up. He died two years ago. One year ago I learned that he sexually abused my friend and her sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:55 AM
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Men are also like that bowl of Skittles. The most poisonous men are peeps, rapists, etc. We should treat all men as if they are rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:44 AM
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As a 19 year old girl I agree. I'm a bisexual agnostic feminist but I strongly dislike how oversexualized the world currently is. I know that I'm not the only one. I have a lot of friends who are putting off sex because they are uncomfortable with it due to being constantly being bombarded with hypersexual imagery. A life as a nun will seem like a kinda nice break to a lot of women. I will probably just find another woman to settle down with or I will become a plant lady. Edit: the obesity epide…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:21 PM
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I'm bisexual so that's probably why I'm ok with bisexual men. Also I will probably have sex with women sometime within the next year or two since I am willing to sleep with a woman who I have had 4 or 5 nice dates with. So it would be hypocritical of me to judge a bi man for sleeping with lots of men if I am willing to sleep with lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:00 AM
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Yes actually. Picturing a male partner with other women causes me to feel jealous, but picturing him with men elicits nothing really. I just don't care if he has had sex with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:46 AM
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If he had sex with a lot of other men I would not care as long as he was STD free. I will not have sex until marriage (with a man) and don't want to get married until I am at least 24 so I would prefer an n count under 5 when it comes to the number of female partners a man has had.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:35 AM
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I'm bi and have dated women and while a lot of terpers exaggerate what they call AWALT tendencies and demonize women they are accurate about a lot of women being flakey in the initial stages of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 03:30 AM
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Tbh I think that they are so naive and optimistic that their advice will work that they are borderline delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 03:19 AM
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I've decided that I will not have sex with a man I'm not married to. My ex was really toxic and I should have ended it months before I did. I also date women and I don't have the same standard for women in terms of sex, so maybe I'll be "Stacy widowed."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:14 PM
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Well I've never had sex and the one boyfriend I had was incredibly whiny and felt the need to constantly put me down, and if he tried to talk to me again I would honestly start laughing, so I have not been alpha widowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:47 PM
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If your 6'2 you're tall enough. Get at least somewhat fit, make your face more appealing (skincare, better haircut, and maybe some stubble), and dress nicely and you'll be there. Also learn to talk to girls in irl situations like parties and stuff. It's easier than Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:18 AM
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She's a 19 year old larping as a 13/14 year old loli to appeal to pedos and anime obsessed idiots in order to get $. I just hope she saves the money, but her appeal is a bit creepy and strange tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:46 AM
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Yes but most women will be married by 30 and have a couple of kids. Which is what's needed to keep the population stable enough to fund stuff like Social Security. Also with stuff like climate change and automation a decreasing population may be what's needed. These girls do well academically in addition to doing stuff like volunteering and internships to get good careers. They all know that they need some way to support themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 04:17 AM
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I know plenty of 19/20 year old girls who are either low N or virgins (don't have casual sex either), thin, responsible, agreeable, and intelligent, and don't spend a lot of time on social media. They're only potential flaw to some of the men here is that they are "career women." There are older versions of these girls. You surround yourself with a certain type of girl and assume that they are all like that. Well the average American woman is married by 27 (after 3 to 4 years of dating and an en…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:32 AM
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Go on cheap 1st and 2nd dates. Coffee, ice cream, parks+cheap picnics, etc. are cheap and decrease your chance of being screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 01:56 AM
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Also this article https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/fastfact.html
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:35 PM
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https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/sexualviolence/fastfact.html
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:30 PM
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When people are victims of violence it's usually committed by a person fo the same race. When women are victims of violence it's usually by men. When men are victims of violence its usually by men. Men are more violent than women in every country and socioeconomic group on Earth whereas that's not true regarding race.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:24 PM
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A couple months ago I was test driving a car and the salesman kept flirting with me and leering at me. He also took my phone and put his number in it and texted himself so that he could have my number. I put a PIN on my phone afterwords. He kept texting and calling me for the next month. I was 14 the 1st time I felt endangered by men. I walk on busy streets to feel safer. I think well lit streets would help make going out at night safer for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:12 PM
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I've had random women help me more, but I've had two random guys help me. I've had a lot of men and also boys creep on me and one mug me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:44 AM
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Usually I just tell a guy that i'm flattered but that I am not dating now. If I feel scared I will give a fake identify of some sort and have the guy give me his phone number. When i'm away from him I was block him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:35 AM
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I prefer plants but I will enjoy my spinster life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 02:38 PM
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Based on like 90% of the male posters here, hope in men is for the naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 06:40 AM
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So wouldn't the logical solution be to avoid all men except maybe your father as much as possible while still being a functional member of society and not becoming close to them (especially in a Romantic way)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:50 AM
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Then you should have broken it off before you started cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:53 PM
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That's cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 05:40 AM
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Why can't you just break up with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:59 AM
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Don't people in a lot of Europe spend a lot of time cohabiting before getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:05 AM
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It's usually blantantly obvious that a girl is a gold digger unless you're paralyzed by lust and oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 02:42 AM
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