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ConversationSpiritual_Word_7288/r/seduction19/08/24 10:48 PM
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Inner Game Spiritual_Word_7288/r/seduction18/08/24 04:07 PM
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Sounds to me like those are girls who expected something, didnt get it from you and unfollowed you as a consquence. Could it be that you didnt really push for a date? maybe texted with them without it leading anywhere? This happens usually when they lose interest, or think that its a dead end- like the conversation with you wont lead to anywhere. Regardless of what it is, you should forget about those girls and focus on higher quality ones. But if what i wrote is correct, take this as a learning…
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:30 AM
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No reason to play games if you like her and she is already interested in you. And seems to me like thats the case, if she is the one who offered an alternative date, she is interested. I would just accept
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:27 AM
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Ok, not bad so far. You need to understand that as long as you work together, you didnt get rejected. Its not over yet. Sounds to me like you got some decent game, so what i would do from now on, is give her the cold shoulder just like you did, try to talk to other women around the office but dont be too obvious, still do say hello and talk to her now and then but a lot less than usuall. Keep flirting, keep playing, if you got that thing going on with the older women (45) thats good as well. Wom…
/r/seduction20/08/24 11:00 AM
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According to her profile, "married men turn her on" and she has "s1ut" in her name.... Yea, idk...
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:46 AM
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Glad to hear that, means a lot, thank you!
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:49 AM
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Real interactions are much better i agree. Of course when you watch the right guy interact in those. Unfortunately, there are more people who teach nowadays than people who actually know something. These movies are def not the main thing, but are just the tip of the iceberg in having a good attitude when it comes to interacting with women
/r/seduction18/08/24 07:12 PM
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Attacking the competition eh? I personally dont think anyone should pay for these kinds of things, there is enough knowledge out there for free. But do your own thing, let him be, your comment is unnecesary.
/r/seduction18/08/24 06:08 PM
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Totally agree, there are many other good movies in this niche, thats def one of them
/r/seduction18/08/24 05:31 PM
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Doesnt have to be instead of. When one want to improve, he should read, watch, and experience in real life as well. Also the fact that its a movie is correct, how ever it doesnt mean you cant learn anything from it. You will come to realize how close to reality some movie interactions are, much of the success i personally had with women, i relate to hank moody from californication. The witty comments, teasing, sarcasm, and humor, are things i learned mostly from his character, even though its sc…
/r/seduction18/08/24 05:17 PM
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I disagree on that one mate- having game is not about succeeding 100% of the time. It's also about how you react when you get rejected. Cause everyone gets rejected sometimes, you can't have 100% success rate. Emma stone was one character, which did reject him couple of times, but he showcased good responses to that rejection- he was confident, used sense of humor, and after she left- moved on to another girl without getting offended. It's a numbers game after all.
/r/seduction18/08/24 04:22 PM
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Yea of course, mb. Aren't* shying away from physical touch.
/r/seduction16/08/24 08:52 AM
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So just try to watch hank moodys interactions with women, how he speak, his body language, face expressions. sense of humor. everything. That is the best way to improve your game. Even better than real life experience.
/r/seduction15/08/24 05:54 PM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you on improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Few tips: 1- dont hate us for this- for some girls it is a deal breaker yes. there is absolutely no reason for you to be fat, every person who says he is fat because of health issues is lying to himself. You can always run, you can always eat healthy, you can always lose weight. And lets be hon…
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:15 PM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you on improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Few tips: 1- never tolerate something like this, you need to be assertive, dominant, you should have brushed him off nicely "sorry mate, this dinner its me and her alone, but feel free to join us next time". That would make him uncomfortable even if he insisted on joining in, and would make you…
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:13 PM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you on improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Few tips: 1- Tease her- dont be scared to talk about pervert stuff, or make sexual statements, it shows confidence which women find extremely attractive. 2-Dont be shy- this is regarding conversations and physical contact, she needs to feel that you arent shying away from physical touch even du…
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:09 PM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you on improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Few tips: 1- You should always prioritize building yourself as a man rather than chasing girls in your 20s. Meaning you made the right call. Now as a 34 male, when you have your sh1t together, you make money, you are in good shape, you are at the top of 1% of men around the world. Yes, dont be …
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:06 PM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you on improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Few tips: First of all, sounds like you are going outside of your comfort zone in order to come in contact with girls, in that case- go all way- yes, you should dance and interact with them. Otherwise, whats the purpose of being there in the first place? Second of all, no- you will never look l…
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:03 PM
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I would have pulled her number easily :) Read my comment :) Its all about the confidence and the game, 1 mistake and you may lose it, do everything right and you will succeed. He was also very close to getting her number, he just made 2 mistakes.
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:47 AM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Will address how you could have gotten her number: You were close, but let it slip. Sounds like the conversation was not bad, you flirted a bit, you asked her questions, and she seemed enthusiastic to answer. She challenged you. When she brought up the "because of you i couldnt order my drink" …
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:44 AM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. First of all understand that when some women complain to you, it does not mean you did anything wrong. Most women have issues with themselves, are damaged, and expect things they never got from anyone else. Most would demand that you text, but when you do she will say its less attractive. Women…
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:34 AM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. First of all, sounds like you dont need any advice, you are 27m and you already set up a sex date with a 57f woman. Just go with it, dont be scared to take action and lead, although with these women you usually dont need to, they initiate themselves. Go to that dinner, have fun, be flirty, be f…
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:30 AM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. First of all, from what you gave us here, we have no way to know if she genuinely was interested in the first place or just being polite with the intent of ghosting you later on. One thing i noticed during my years of life, is that men who dont succeed well with women- often read them wrong. Bu…
/r/seduction12/08/24 10:24 AM
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hey, we are talking about his side of course. I didnt mean to turn her down if she does want to have sex on the first date. But rather dont push to that direction. Because if you do, not only she will feel pressured, but she might also think thats the only thing you wanted from her-sex. And might ruin your chances for a real relationship later on. If she is down and you see thats what she wants, by all means why not.
/r/seduction09/08/24 08:56 PM
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Very easy. Fear of approaching and fear or rejection translates to LOW SELF WORTH. Men who fear approaching women often value themselves at a lower aspect than other men. A man who is confident in his social skills, think he can flirt well, thinks he looks good, fit, and have a winning mindset that every woman would be lucky to have him- DOES NOT fear approaching. You need to value yourself more, you need to focus on your strenghts as a man, and be on a constant journy of improving in these area…
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:43 AM
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Will address your issue: First of all you need to understand that women dont care how you look especially at your age. Sure, if you are good looking and fit its a bonus, but what they care mostly is your status, if you got you sh1t together, if you are successfull, and sounds to me- that you are. So first of all start acting like it, and yes that means changing your wardrobe too. Second of all, at your age, women who are single are looking to settle down already, so feel free to be more direct a…
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:31 AM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. So studies show that women are more interested in a man with a beard. it looks more mature, more masculine, and much more. You should find the perfect balance between the beard and feeling convenient. find a good number that makes you look and feel good. From personal experience i just keep min…
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:25 AM
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That is the worst advice he could have given you, and we now question his capability as a dating coach. So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. Having sex on the first date will actually have a bad effect on your chances to have a good relationship with her afterwards (that is if you are looking for a serious relationship). If all yo…
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:22 AM
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Dating apps have only 1 purpose- hooking up romantically or sexually. If a woman is saying she is looking for friends there, it could either be that she said it to you personally because she is not interested in you in particular, or it could be that she is embarrassed that you found out she is on these apps. Frankly we need a bit more context to figure out, but you can rest assured thats a lie. No woman is browsing these apps for "friendship". Rest assured that when she founds a guy she is real…
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:18 AM
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So we are a group of players and dating coaches determined to help people just like you in improving their game, gaining confidence around women, becoming more assertive, and achieving success with women. We created the perfect playbook which has already helped around 10k men worldwide. however we really hate selling through this platform so what i would advise you to do is follow our new instagram for daily content that will give you insights about what you are looking for. (all the links in ou…
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:12 AM
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Hey, We are a group of dating coaches who help men win the dating game, and will address your situation: First of all, we need to understand that unless clearly said- most interactions are in our own head. You have no idea what she really thinks or if she really got frustrated over it, she might be going through other stuff in her life. Second of all, women regardless of their relationship status with you- will always love attention. When a guy gives attention to a woman, she feels wanted and de…
/r/seduction08/08/24 09:27 AM
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Hey, We are a group of dating coaches who help men win the dating game, and our E-book helped over 10,000 men worldwide- achieve success with women. However, We dont like to use this platform to sell, we have facebook and google for that. We are here solely to help other men, with gaining confidence, becoming more assertive, flirting and more. That is why i recommend you ask for guidance in specific situations in this thread and we will do our best to help you. Seeking mentorship wont get you an…
/r/seduction08/08/24 09:21 AM
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Hey, so i help men win the dating game and i will address your issue: First of all, its good that you are aware. It seems to me as the reason you eventually end up in the friend zone is you yourself. Women do want you sexually and romantically, you just give off vibes that you want nothing of this sort but only friendship, of course as you said you dont do it intentionally. So what you are experiencing is fear of intimacy, and thats pretty rare to be honest with you when it comes to men. Because…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:24 PM
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Hey, so i help men win the dating game and i will address your situation: First of all, yes it does look like she is interested at some level, otherwise she wouldnt have texted you at all, instead she would try and ghost you, but thats not the case. Women know exactly what they want when it comes to men, you are either in or out, and it looks to me like you have a shot. Try and set up another date with her, as someone else here wrote, texts dont matter, the purpose of the text is to set up the d…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:16 PM
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So i help men win the dating game, and i will address your issue: first of all there is nothing wrong with being on dating apps. of course its better to approach women face to face just for the benefits you gain such as experience, improving your game, and it will much more boost your confidence. Your problem starts with how you view yourself, as you said you are insecure about your looks, and i bet you are insecure about other things such as your flirting skills, your game, your social skills m…
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:09 PM
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If you are trying to get casual sex out of 10 women, and 90% decline. And you ask me how to raise your chances, thats what i would tell you. And you will achieve success. But if you feel like its immoral, so what other option do we have left? try to convince them to have casual sex with you? What other option do you suggest?
/r/seduction06/08/24 06:17 PM
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Im not sure you quite understood me, but thats ok. If thats "leading her on" in your opinion than you should just keep doing what you are doing, be direct, be upfront and just hope you meet another woman who happen to want casual sex as well. There is no magic solution to getting laid more often if you dont want to play the game. By the way, im a bit confused right now lol cause you asked for a way to get laid more. And i just gave it to you. You said that whenever you say you want casual sex. 9…
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:56 PM
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Correct, and that is called "playing the game". You gotta play the game correctly if you want casual sex. Women today respect themselves and most of them wont sleep with you immediately, especially like you said- if she feels thats the only thing you want. Playing the game means showing interest, making her feel wanted, and giving her the feel that there is future here, but not saying it directly. That is keeping your intentions to yourself part. Look my friend, you said it yourself "most lose i…
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:10 PM
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So first thing you are correct. However, there are 2 types of men in this situation: 1- Lets call this type "The Players"- These will keep their intentions to themselves, they will be charming, interesting, they will flirt, and they will show their interest in the girl, and after they hook up with her they might ghost her. 2- "The nice guys" These will be upfront, and they will tell the girl in advance that they are looking for just sex. However, how moral it may be, she might still find it disr…
/r/seduction06/08/24 04:07 PM
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Hey, i help men win the dating game and i will address your situation. First of all, lose this thought which you refer to as a fact. That is not correct. If anything, not texting between dates will actually promote the attraction between you two. It will cause her to debate with herself wether you really want her or not, and it will make her think most of the time why are you not texting and with whom you are with= meaning she will think MORE about you. Plus, the texting is for a purpose, and th…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:34 AM
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Hey, i help men win the dating game and i will give you my take on it: So first, you got a foillow back and thats good. that is the first condition. Second what i would do, is try to wait for a good story from her, and comment something that would lead to a conversation. From there its all your flirting skills that can take you to the next stage which is setting up a date. But what i usually Do is i comment on her story, flirt a bit, and i dont take it to anywhere. So in this case she is a bit c…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:27 AM
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Hey, i help men win the dating game and i will give you my take on it. The ONE AND ONLY answer is- it doesnt change. You need to understand that there is a CORRECT way to flirt. You dont change your flirting way when you want casual and change it back when you want Exclusive. Flirting is being confidence, assertive, funny, humoristic, also talking about sexual things without embarassment, its teasing her, and much more. The only thing that may change is that you can put a bit more effort about p…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:23 AM
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So i help men win the dating game, and i want to make one thing very clear to everyone here: It doesnt matter where he likes men or unicorns, you kissed him= you cheated. Thats all there is to it. There is no "if" and "what" in this matter, you kissed another man knowing you have a man at home who you are with relationship with. And the audacity to do that in front of his best friend which you probably knew would tell him after that, thats just disrespecting him. And for all the guys here- Feel …
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:19 AM
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When you get stuck its because you approach with no specific goal. Because when you approach for example for the goal of getting her number, then u flirt a bit, u feel like she is interested as well, you ask for her number and after you got it, you achieved your goal so you walk away and promise you will call her. But you probably approach without thinking what you want to achieve, so you get stuck and dont know what to say. Feel free to follow my instagram page (link in profile) where i post da…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:16 AM
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Well thats a weird question to be honest my friend. Because It depends , are u into them or not? Because if you are not, respectfully decline and say you are not looking to get into a relatioship right now. But if you are into them, flirt back. You can take the conversation to a humoristic place and for example when one says "do i know you from somehwere"? you can reply "we dated once, dont you remember me? i am the guy who cheated on you with a hotter blonde". If by this question you meant to g…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:11 AM
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So i help men win the dating game and i will try to shine some light on your situatuin. First, yes of course its possible. What i would suggest to do is wait for her to post a story about something and try to come up with a good comment on it so that it would open a conversation. From there you can take it wherever you want, flirting is the name of the game. And remember that the whole purpose of the text/messages is to arrange a date, so aim for that. Feel free to follow my instagram page (link…
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:06 AM
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/r/seduction05/08/24 08:47 PM
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First of all, its very common to fear rejection, and it is ok to seek girls who are alone just for the practice of it. However the best way to face your fear is to deal with them. You cant learn how to swim without getting wet. Life is not a movie my friend. You will get humiliated and everyone will laugh at you. No one cares. No one knows you at the mall. You will never see them again. You will get rejected many times in life. It may be a girl or a job interview. For starters you mentioned you …
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:35 PM
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If a women is married you think you can overcome her marriage? You cant my friend. When she says she has a boyfriend it can mean 2 things: 1- she really does have a boyfriend. and you dont know how close they are, they might be getting married soon, she might see a whole future with him. 2- she does not have a boyfriend and she said it because she doesnt want you. Either way, you should let her go. There are many girls who WILL like you, so why waste time on those that wont? Feel free to follow …
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:28 PM
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So i am helping men with dating, gaining confidence, becoming more assertive, and approach the women they want and i will try to shine some light on your situation. (new here) First of all, you gotta understand that 99% of the times when we get rejected, it has nothing to do with us personally. but actually something that the other person is going through. And i am saying this as u encountered an unpredictable girl. But they tend to be like that. Second of all, it sounds to me like you didnt pic…
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:22 PM
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So i help men win the dating game and i will try and shine some light on your probem. What you are lacking is self worth. You fear rejection and you fear the approach because you think you have less value to provide and you dont know what you bring to the table. A man who knows he is confident, knows how to speak to women, knows he looks good and knows he has his life in order, IS NOT afraid to talk to women because he knows his worth. What you need to do is rearrange your midnset. You need to k…
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:37 AM
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So i help men win the dating game and i will try to shine some light on your situation. First of all you need to understand that most interaction wether we think were good or bad, are in our head. You may think your interaction was great and that she is interested in you while in reality she may think it was bad and never want to contact you again. Her asking for your instagram can be just politeness, it doesnt really show any interest. So thats first. Second, we never know whats going on in som…
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:34 AM
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The most common reason a men can be rejected today is the fact that most women are more sought after than ever. Social media has evolved in the past few years and women get ALOT of attention from men. A woman can post a photo of herself in a bikini and get thousands of messages from men. This situation caused 2 things: 1- it will be harder for the average guy to find his match as he has to compete with thousands of other men. 2- women think they can get anyone they want, because they get too muc…
/r/seduction05/08/24 10:26 AM
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