Hey, In this post I will explain 3 flirting techniques that I personally use and worked great for me in creating attraction:
#Exaggerating
Exaggerating when done right and is obvious, could not only make her laugh, but also show you have a good sense of humor and self esteem. So what are some examples of exaggerating?
A classic example is when you are on a date with a girl you like, and she asks "how many girlfriends have you had in the past"? or "how many women have you been with"?
A question most guys freeze when they hear. Some answer uncomfortably fearing that she will think you've had too little or too many, regardless- exaggerating is a good way to lighten it up a bit (and of course after that, you will tell her the truth).
You "I'm actually divorced with 2 kids and a dog, i hope that's not gonna be a problem for us, since i'm having a good time with you".
Option 2: "I've actually never been with any women before, Don't i look like a virgin?"
Option 3: "I'm actually married, sometimes i like to go on dates with beautiful women to take a time out, marriage is tough you know"
Doesn't matter which one you use, it just has to be obvious that you are joking, you should always smile or wink at her when you exaggerate, and of course to tell her the truth after wards.
#Mentioning
Mentioning is basically to bring up something she said from the past. It is used mainly to tease a bit, and to lighten the mood but also to make her realize you've been listening all this time to what she says. It can be used in many ways:
A good example is, lets say you have been seeing this girl for a while now and she told you she really hates to be photographed.
Then one day, when you are on a date and you two take a selfie together, and you see her smiling.
You can say something like "And i thought you didn't like to be photographed, i guess it depends on who you are with".
Another example is, lets say you've been seeing this girl for a while now, and last week when you talked on the phone, she kept complaining about her annoying friend named Keren who annoyed her that day.
A week after that, when you asked her what she's been up to and she replied something like "nothing much just came back from shopping with Keren".
So you can reply something like "Oh, you mean that annoying Keren that you hate? That Keren which you said you never want to see again? That keren?"
This can be done in many ways, the purpose is not to annoy her, but to tease a bit, and make her laugh. Obviously in such a scenario she has already moved on from being angry with her and they made up, so she will take your joke lightly.
It can be done over texts as well, and even with a girl you are not in a relationship with, mentioning can work in almost every scenario.
#Shifting the blame on her (playfully of course)
So i saw that "Gusolsen" also pointed this one out in a post yesterday, if you are reading this you have great content btw.
To be honest, from personal experience this is one of the best ways to make a woman attracted to you.
It will show confidence, self esteem, self worth and much more.
Basically its when you did something, but blame it on her when she reacts to it, let me explain:
So the best example i can give here is from a friend of mine who took this girl on a date.
The date went great and when they got back to the car and he was about to drive her home, he decided to give it a shot and kissed her. She kissed him back, and they made out for a few minutes.
After a few minutes, she stopped him, and said "I think that's enough for a first date".
He didnt really know how to react so he just agreed and took her home, the night ended there.
Shifting the blame in this scenario would be to say something like:
"Hey, i usually don't even hold hands on the first date, you just kinda attacked me with your lips, and you are an attractive woman, it's a bit hard to refuse you".
So it shows confidence, good sense of humor, and you also managed to squeeze in a compliment.
This can also be done in many ways, but this is probably the best example i can give.
These 3 can be done even while you are trying to get her number in a conversation inside an app.
Remember that being an attractive guy and to make her attracted to you is mostly in being different than the 99% of other man.
She gets thousands of messages, in dating apps, and on social media, most compliment her, most chase her, and that's usually how her interactions go- men chase her all the time.
If you want her to find you attractive, you need to interact with her differently.
You can do that by implementing these 3 methods, and there are tens if not hundreds of other ways as well.
I hope this helps, i've been told many here look for practical advice on interactions, so i made it as practical as i can, feel free to comment, and if you like this post, i will make a lot more.
Also, feel free to message me about any girl, date or situation you had if you want some free advice.
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