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SpitAndGIory/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 11:07 PM
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SpitAndGIory/r/askMRP16/10/18 02:32 AM
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SpitAndGIory/r/askMRP18/10/18 05:29 PM
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If you were a millionaire she’d be complaining that you weren’t a billionaire. Serious red flags here.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 10:23 PM
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Did you finally read something that made your brain short circuit so hard it went back it’s base default response and that’s all?
/r/askMRP19/10/18 05:01 PM
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Chill dude. If this is your attitude you got a long way to go. When you get called a fag it’s because you’re being one. Don’t go on the offensive and get butthurt. Every comment here is a lesson in frame and you getting defensive is proving your frame is garbage. Stop DEERing and take the advice that helps and leave the shit that doesn’t.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 10:18 PM
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Right. Which puts me in her frame. Thanks for the insights my man. Sometimes I do feel like I’m put on the spot. Working more on DNGAF.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 06:20 PM
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I didn’t even realize this. She knows how to get to me with tears. You’re right about asking. I wasn’t really thinking about that, possibly trying to pull me in her frame?
/r/askMRP18/10/18 06:06 PM
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Hmm. I may have been in the wrong when I did this but once way back when I first started to get my shit together I started to initiate one night and she said “if you wanna fuck it’s gonna have to happen soon because I’m tired” in a bitchy tone. I didn’t necessarily withhold it out of anger but my dick immediately slumped over and I just told her I was gonna go to sleep instead. That’s the ONLY instance I can think of and it wasn’t so much out of spite as it was “if this bitch doesn’t wanna fuck …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 05:53 PM
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This. You need men in your life. When you vent and feel like a vulnerable fag they will put you in your place and support you like no woman can. Don’t ever underestimate the value of bro time.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 10:55 PM
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I didn’t find anything in The Five Languages I’d Love on this topic.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 03:44 PM
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I go down on her often. I love eating pussy. Also that gym comment was a one off. Usually I get the gag reflex excuse.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 02:58 PM
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You’re absolutely right. The more I read and the more I think about it I’ve given her so much of my time that I’m seen more as a commodity now. I’ve been working on dread but the plates part is where I’m struggling
/r/askMRP16/10/18 02:38 PM
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Will do. Thanks.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 01:08 PM
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This is the difficult part. Dropped all my plates when I upped her to LTR. As gay as it sounds I don’t wanna downgrade because aside from BJs sex is pretty good. Fuck, she even does anal often but won’t go down on me.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 11:22 AM
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This right here is my issue. When I upped her to LTR I ghosted all my plates. Since started seeing her the interactions between me and other girls has dropped significantly. I work with nothing but dudes(defense contractor) and so I am having a hard time upping that.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 11:20 AM
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I don’t think you’re understanding my point dude. It doesn’t MATTER if she knows the other girl is interested. Something you need to understand about women is that you can NOT control or manipulate them. What you’re trying to do is overtly manipulative. This WILL backfire. I think you are so over invested in this girl and you’re looking for a quick fix or to show her how it feels. It doesn’t work that way. Even if she does find out I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t give a fuck because she is…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 05:31 PM
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You are entirely missing the point of dread. You don’t use dread to make your girl jealous. The thing about dread is that you have to be RIGHTEOUS in every thing you do. By this I mean you have to do it because it’s what YOU want. Dread is the secondary effect. You have to WANT to text this other girl and fucking own it. You don’t lift to make your wife jealous. That’s fucking stupid, you lift to stay healthy, instill discipline, and the secondary effect is your wife notices you getting more att…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:48 PM
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Best response is to not play the game. If she asks that ask her “what do you think?” or “does it matter what I think?” And she will most likely respond “yes” to which you reply “why?” The point here is to essentially point out you’re not playin her stupid fucking games and pull her more into your frame from there.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 03:55 PM
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I think men like this have known for a while they need to talk their way into getting pussy, I.e, confidence. He may not look like an alpha chad, but he exudes confidence, he knows he’s the shit because he’s HAD to be the shit his entire life. Years of this from career fatties builds confidence, it literally has to or else they become basement dweller incels. I think the biggest thing to learn here is aesthetics are nice and women love strong men, but lifting is two-fold: it builds physical attr…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 03:26 PM
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I responded to one of your other comments but I’ll respond to this as well. You sound like one co-dependent mother fucker. If you don’t fix this, this already failing relationship will fail, and so will all your future ones. What you don’t understand is that her texting other dudes openly in front of you isn’t her fault, it’s yours. It’s your fault because you’re co-dependent, weak, and sensitive. It’s your fault because she knows you don’t have other options and you couldn’t get other options i…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 02:57 PM
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I’m confused by this. You asked what her intentions were in the relationship? These should already be implied as “don’t fuck other people or it’s over.” Overtly communicating intentions that are already laid out in the basic framework of what a relationship should be comes off weak and insecure and women hate weak men. They can smell insecurity like a shark can smell blood in the water and right now you are bleeding from an artery my man. Stop talking about your fucking feelings with this woman.…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 02:47 PM
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Read your wall of text and first and foremost your lifts are weak as fuck. 152 and benching 90lbs. You need to lift and fuck EAT. We talk about fat fucks a lot here, but being 152 and only benching 90 is just as gross TBH. What are your goals in life? What is your mission? Until you’ve clearly defined these things you will be lost. Drifting through a void of never ending unhappiness and blaming everything and everyone around you for all your failures because you have nothing to hold yourself acc…
/r/askMRP07/09/18 04:53 PM
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My last marriage was shit. She is a Covert narcissist but I did everything I could because I was such a nice guy. I learned a lot from that marriage and the shit person it was with (9 fucking years). But that’s a whole other FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 02:54 AM
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Duly noted.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 03:03 AM
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I certainly don’t disagree. Had I been a better judge of character this entire situation could’ve been avoided. Also try 90% naked.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/18 03:03 AM
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I have not seen or spoken to Bob since that incident. I mentioned earlier I have no room for people like him in my life. I did want to post a FR about Bob though because I’ve honestly never encountered a man like this. Bobs wife expressed to LTR at the dinner they had she is hesitant to come over and hang out because she’s scared she won’t feel welcome if I’m there. I told LTR IDGAF but Bob is not welcome in my house to which LTR agreed. Also Ranger panties are amazing to run in, especially wher…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 04:09 PM
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I have questioned the timeline as well. LTR has never really been fond of Bob. LTRs ex and Bob use to work together and were friends and LTR would tell me stories about how Bob was a constant dick to LTRs ex and her ex would just let Bob walk all over him. That’s just not me. Bob did NOT like that and he didn’t like the fact that there was no mutual commander he could run to if there was any slight against Bob. Bob seems like the kind of guy to me that keeps people around that he can walk all ov…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 03:56 PM
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This is absolutely true. I will make a point that Marines have the highest physical standards. In fact I can probably count on two hands how many fat Marines I’ve ever encountered. I respect that. Also for anyone that’s been in the military for over 10 minutes there’s something called the “staff NCO PT test” where essentially E-6 to E-8 give each other a PT test behind closed doors. It’s the hook a brother up test if you’re out of shape and enables a lot of senior ranking individuals to stay fat…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 03:47 PM
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Interesting insight. I’d have to agree, but, from what I could deduce from what my LTR has told me as well as observing Bobs behavior it would seem there is an odd power struggle between them. This obviously comes from Bobs beta behavior. He has no control, only perceived control. When that perception of control is lost, she puts up a visage that she’s in line until the next inevitable fight happens (which apparently there are a lot of that LTR tells me about). I think Bob keeps a tight leash on…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/18 03:36 PM
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I’ve considered this. I always carry everywhere I go though I’m convinced Bob is the kind of guy that tries to ruin your career or other facets of your life. Too much DGAF from so that’s literally impossible, plus there’s nothing he can do to me. I’m a civilian. I could get away with 100 times more shit than if I was still in the military.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 11:09 PM
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Man... what a fucking train wreck.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 11:07 PM
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It should be worth mentioning the last thing Bob said to me was “get out of my house” before he ran to his bedroom. I gladly obliged. I honestly don’t fully understand the confrontation myself and I was there. Writing this out really helped put into perspective the kind of guy Bob is and how to not act as a grown ass man for me at least. Bob taught me a lot of good lessons, at his own expense.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 10:04 PM
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While this would be hilarious to watch there are two things about this. 1. I don’t have room for people like bob in my life so I won’t be seeing him again and 2. I don’t fuck around with other people’s relationships. Not as some morally superior code or anything, but because that’s entirely too much drama for pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 09:58 PM
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I did gloss over bobs wife. Not sure what to make of her. At times she was overtly friendly, but I think she’s honestly very controlled by her husband. I don’t know much of the nature of their relationship nor do I care. One thing struck me as odd though, because bobs wife’s SMV is much higher than his. She’s about 5’5 115lbs and extremely fit, but she made a comment to LTR saying “I don’t understand why you’re attracted to SpitAndGlory” to which my LTR responded “what do you mean?” And bobs wif…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 09:53 PM
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He’s 21 and is making one of the biggest legal and financial decisions of his life for one vagina.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:17 PM
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Dude... just don’t. You have your whole life ahead of you. Get rid of the oneitis man. LDR don’t work, don’t make a detrimental life changing and altering decision because of pussy. Be stronger than that.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:15 PM
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Ha I contract for the US Marine Corps. Only former army guy in my department and the shit never stops flying. Definitely best job I could ask for getting out of the military.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:42 PM
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I can agree with that. Let’s not get started on Marines though...
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:35 PM
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Interestingly enough, when the last post that exploded with Steve happened I read through a lot of his older posts. It was fascinating watching a complete stranger completely fall apart and detail every aspect of it on Reddit.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:35 PM
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I’d honestly not go through with it. Shitty thing about marriage today is the fact that men are even having to have this conversation while in the back of every woman’s head before marriage is “even if I fuck up and end the marriage I’ll still be set for life.” Talk to a lawyer about your options honestly. Divorce law varies state to state. For instance when I got divorced the ex, who had at least two extra marital affairs that I know of, got half my IRA that was solely in my name that only I co…
/r/askMRP29/08/18 01:20 PM
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It’s difficult dealing with manipulative controlling men. It’s behavior you’d expect from a woman. You don’t realize these people exist until the tipping point. I’ve learned a lot and I appreciate the input
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:20 AM
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Definitely. I’ve learned a lot from my experience and all the input here.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 02:19 AM
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While I completely agree with this sentiment, hindsight is 20/20. I never really thought much of Bob’s actions while hanging out. This all happened over the course of about 8 months and it all essentially came together during the explosion. That moment really made everything else Bob did make sense. Until that point Bob was usually an afterthought considering I only ever hung out with him one on one on two occasions. Every other time was in a. More social environment. I haven’t seen or spoken to…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:27 AM
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For the sake of space I left some of that out. Simply put I was army he is navy. Bob and I come from two very different worlds. He’d make an offhand comment about army grunts being stupid and I’d retort with some comment about navy guys being gay, usually with a stupid pun about semen. Just guy ribbing I suppose. I would totally agree with the DEER’ing on my part. I was honestly blindsided by the explosion but thought it was funny watching such a large man trying to be confrontational while avoi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 12:02 AM
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Hmm. That’s tough. The best two I’ve read are Black Hearts and They Fought for Each Other: The Triumph and Tragedy of the Hardest Hit Unit in Iraq. Both really highlight the consequences of awful leadership in the most dire life and death situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 11:56 PM
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Yeah, I would agree, especially after swallowing the pill. Transparency is key though.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 11:54 PM
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We had a saying in the army. “You can do a thousand great things, but as soon as you suck one cock you’ll always be known as a cocksucker.”
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 04:55 PM
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That was Bunker Hill in Boston . Good reference though.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 01:14 PM
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It is a shitty excuse. The reason I say this is, when I was at fort Bragg and I was doing PT every goddamn morning and pissing and moaning about running 5 miles and working out I ran by the wounded warrior barracks where dudes that lost a leg above the knee were just re-learning how to run. Really made me appreciate the fact that, even though I broke my hip and slipped discs in my back from an IED, I didn’t have to do that. My ailments weren’t a fucking excuse when I see dudes that lost limbs ge…
/r/askMRP03/07/18 01:24 AM
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Most likely she did it with Chad
/r/askMRP03/07/18 01:18 AM
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Ah I see. That makes total sense. My bench, even when I was at 155, was 165lbs but I’ve also been very active and lifted on and off for years. Read up on muscle memory and if you keep at it you will get passed the plateau and if you fall out of lifting(hopefully not) you’ll see your body reacting much quicker due to muscle memory. Keep at it man.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 02:26 PM
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Is there a reason your bench seems so light? At 178 lean muscle I feel like you should be benching at least 225 and squatting at least 275. Your deadlift looks good though. Probably up it to 315? Don’t hurt yourself and keep lifting man.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 01:43 PM
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Solid routine and post. I always lifted and spent about 8 years in the army. Best I was, 25 years, 6’0, 185lbs, 13% bf, and lifting like a fucking animal. Some people always said “must be so easy for you to be so skinny” but putting on healthy weight can be just as difficult as losing fat. The eating is the hard part because it’s so easy to get lazy and eat that breakfast burrito just for the calories. That’s when you start packing on the spare tire, when you focus solely on calories and not WHA…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 01:24 PM
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On your side note I was the same way. 155 lbs at 12% bf. Muscular and athletic but I wanted to gain weight and that was hard. You just need to eat nearly 3,000 calories a day and work out. It’s going to be hard, because, if you’re like me, you’re use to eating like a bird. Get a calorie counter app on your phone. I got up to 170lbs at 14% bf and I’m pretty stoked with how I look. It’s gonna be hard as fuck at first but your stomach will grow and soon, if you’re lifting hard, your body will start…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 12:22 PM
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You can respect yourself enough to not leave. But if there’s really no option at 1-3am you may have to for your own physical health. You can try and kick her ass to the curb and tell her to come back when she’s calm but be prepared for her to call the police to fuck you with the long dick of the law.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:40 PM
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Tread carefully OP. I responded earlier but with more details this behavior is unacceptable. Not because of your hurt fee fees but because keeping you up and yelling at you and only allowing you 3 hours of sleep a night is borderline abusive. Your performance at work will suffer if you’re not getting an adequate 6-8 hours of sleep a night (especially if you are working out an hour before work). Exhaustion is a bitch and will drain you physically and emotionally and this will impair your ability …
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:35 PM
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Dude you’re letting her get to you wether you show it or not. This whole post is about her. When she starts yelling and throwing shit just say something along the lines of “I’m gonna go do x(gym, ride motorcycle, go for a run, read a book etc) when you can down and ready to talk let me know” and calmly go do what you said. No one needs to put up with that kind of verbal and physical bullshit. When things escalate like that you need to STFU and remove yourself from the situation. Not only will it…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 11:23 AM
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What the fuck is your question or point exactly? Are we playing with dynamite? Yes we fucking are. We are men. We love shit that goes boom. But we handle it responsibly so we can see more shit go boom.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 01:34 AM
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Worry about you. Fight for your custodial rights as parent and, as these things usually go, the state will ensure she is taken care of to the fullest benefit, typically at your expense. Do not be friendly, do not be angry, do not engage unless it’s the utmost importance. She will do and say things underhandedly to try and punish you. Court orders are your friend and, for now, a legally enforced separation agreement are your friend. She will try and push your boundaries. Be consistent and do not …
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:53 PM
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It certainly taught me some hard lessons about life that I’m glad, at 20 years, I learned what I feel takes many men nearly a lifetime to learn. It taught me the importance of leadership and stoicism, keeping your calm in the middle of a shitstorm where even the best made plans get fucked at first contact. Taught me how to compartmentalize grief and when to appropriately express it, and how to redirect anger to push you forward against every single natural instinct that’s kicking in. It (un)fort…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:37 PM
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She’s testing your resolve as a man and clearly you have none. You are looking at this from a “you’re my wife, coddle me and think about my fee fees.” She’s testing your resolve because you’re sick wether she consciously knows it or not. When I was in Afghanistan I was recovering from dysentery and was told “get your shit on we got a patrol” did I whine and cry like a bitch? No. I put my shit on and went on the goddamned patrol and ended up shitting my pants while we were out. Why? Because I had…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:29 PM
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Too many people underestimate the power of a cigar and a glass of whiskey or a few beers in the backyard by yourself. Enjoying and embracing the fruits of your labor. Sure the habit may be disgusting to some. But it’s the principle. To me it’s as effective as meditation to some. To just sit and enjoy everything life has to offer no matter how shitty or stressful things get. To just sit and smoke a cigar and enjoy a glass of quality whiskey with your thoughts. That’s serenity.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/18 01:16 AM
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Clearly you haven’t tasted the sweet serenity of a Gurkha Beast.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 11:23 PM
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No he’s right. OP is being a faggot wanting everyone to feel sorry for him. Sorry. The world doesn’t work that way. Man the fuck up and fix it or get out of fucktown. Stop crying like a bitch and fix the issue or walk away. Nothing wrong with a guy telling another guy to stop being such a pussy. That’s what we’re here for.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 03:47 AM
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Great points here. When I was a squad leader in the army I got a lot of hard lessons in leadership that could be reflected in real life relationships, wether it be at work or in marriage/LTR. The first lesson is you cannot take care of others unless you take care of yourself first. This doesn’t equate to being selfish. Certainly leadership requires sacrifice, but you can’t administer first aid to your buddy if you’re bleeding out on the battlefield. Work on fixing yourself and your flaws in orde…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 01:40 PM
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