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There's absolutely no problem for average man to be dating as long as he: Doesn't look for casual sex as women are less thirsty and less interested in casual sex therefore he will be competing with many other man for women with BPD and other personality disorders. Doesn't look for woman out of his league. If he has an average look and has average income but looking for beautiful woman with hot body he is gonna be disappointed. Doesn't require more then he provides. When he expects woman to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:22 AM
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Translation : I am so awesome hot sexy. All bitches want me. Look at me. Diagnosis. Someone has insecurities and looking for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:32 AM
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Its normal to be able to feel and express all sort of emotions. Nothing wrong with that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 05:41 PM
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Its not instincts. Its rational decision to create family with man who is capable provide for the family while woman looking after kids. Giving kids away to kindergarten to some strangers who don't really care about wellbeing of following kids for the sake of work is not in interest of future generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:29 PM
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That's definitely a bad strategy for her to be married to a man who does't love her. She should either lose weight or find a man who likes fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:43 PM
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What do you mean? Did he marry her only because she approached him and a better option had not appeared, or he married her because he particularly liked that fat woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:34 PM
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Because we see what men do and how they behave towards women who they choose and toward who they didn't choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:29 PM
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it doesn't work like that. If he didn't choose her she will be a place holder until a better option for him appears. Women only should go for a man who consciously chooses her, who thinks she is his the best option ever, the one and the others does't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:28 PM
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How do you know this? I see this from life observations. And do you think women are any different? I don't know are women any different in general. Create a question for women, sure it will be interesting. I personally appreciate man more if he puts more effort. Lol, men can always reject a woman. Just like a woman can reject approaching men. Of course, they can reject women, but they won't as many men like easy sex without any effort. Nah. Plenty of men with options nowadays avoid bothersome wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:22 PM
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Why any woman would want to be an option for now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:10 PM
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I am a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:09 PM
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That were you who approached her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:23 PM
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Of course men like when women are approaching. They don't mind sex with the most of women especially if they don't have to put any effort. I really can't blame them for that. However they won't appreciate this woman, they won't want to spoil that women, they won't want do things for that woman, they won't want to win her over as she already pretty much gave herself. This is not a woman who they choose, she is just an option for now. Men much more appreciate women who they had to work hard for. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:10 PM
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I can't argue with that. Of course men can have their preferences in dating . The same as women have preferences in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 11:13 PM
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Okay I got you. Perhaps term LVM for a man who doesn't want to pay for dates is insulting because he might be a decent person, just not wanting to pay. Hovewer we like when a man pays for dates, as we like man who can take care of a woman. We like strong masculine men. In the modern world, it is expressed in the ability to solve problems and get resources. It's masculine and it's attractive, we can't change the preferences. As TRP men say attraction is not negotiable. Men who is not willing to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 09:14 AM
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You absolutely have right to think that some woman is low value, just don't approach her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:44 AM
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Men age as bad as women. However women put way more effort and skincare, so they might look better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:30 AM
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Of course we do prefer tall attractive men (all else being equal). If he is handsome but performing trashy promiscuous behaviour and bad personality qualities his beauty doesn't help him, he still unattractive, and his clients are emotionally unhealthy and trashy women. Even average looking man with great personality overall more attractive than hot man with unpleasant personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 08:00 AM
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The girls who they choose seemed to be nice and decent, I am sure they weren't promiscuous. The same as I would never choose promiscuous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 07:45 AM
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I personally know very attractive tall men who should be according to your ligic high n count however they choose to be in ltr, they have decent personalities as well. Aksi I know not that attractive meh men with annoying personally who us somehow is high n. I dunno how. Just probably going after every woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:38 PM
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Sure some of them do have high smv. If they are very handsome and tall, of course women who are looking for sex would choose them. However attractiveness not nessesary lead to high n, some men choose to have ltr instead. Also men with high n are not nessesary attractive. Some are just good at talks and manipulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 10:05 PM
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Middle class doesn't guarantee happy family and mental health. Its the type of women you attract. Women who is not sleeping around won't go near man who. Is sleeping around. Fuckboys are quite obvious. It doesn't even need 3 dates to recognise one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:59 PM
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Yeah some men don't feel need to have relationships and women who want relationships should avoid that men. It doesn't matter what's the reason of their univolment into relationships. Women still should avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:55 PM
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For sex maybe, by promiscuous women. For relationships absolutely no. With exemption that if they are rich or famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:48 PM
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Of course we do have agency. If I ever go for promiscuous man I would admit how big my mistake it was. Thankfully I have a knowledge that promiscuous men are trash and should be avoided and successfully avoided them despite of many attempts. However there're unfortunately many women easily manipulated and with mental issues who became vulnerable to unworthy men. I really can't blame them to be easily manipulated the same as I can't blame blind person that they can't see.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:47 PM
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Its not any good for the wife who is likely to be cheated, left pregnant or live with emotionally anavaliable man. Its doesn't matter what he feels towards her if he makes her life miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:37 PM
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Many of them do. Others just choose emotionally broken women who is into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:24 PM
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Promiscuous men are not desirable for women who are looking for healthy relationships. These men are broken and should be avoided. Nobody want potential cheeting husband who's commitment doesn't worth anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:22 PM
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Its not about being repulsed. Its about knowing that these men are not suitable for relationships. They are suitable for casual sex and as I am not into it these men are not good for anything to me. However they can be repulsive as well of they achieved high n count using lies and manipulations and are jot nice people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:16 PM
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Of course men who sleep around should be and are avoided by the adequate women For me high n count would be automatically black list. Who wants man with attachment issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 08:38 PM
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That didn't happened because of simping though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 08:17 AM
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But your experience is absolutely irrelevant to me. Also your wife left you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 08:38 AM
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I only had long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:55 PM
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I make the rules. In my rules it's just letting me know he is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 12:41 PM
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Paying for date is not guaranteed sex, it's justa a man way to express interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:14 AM
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The same. I never ever in my life was asked to split bill. It looks like it exists only on reddit, not in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:13 AM
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If you don't feel good about your date better to not go. He sounds like total asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:08 AM
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I agree. Spending 300 on a first date is over the top and nearly inappropriate. It tells rather about bad money management .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 08:03 AM
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Okay if my friends despise my man I would not like it as I expect my friends accept and respect my choices and respect and accept people who I choose. It's irrelevant if they find my man attractive/handsome/sexy. But IF ALL your friends would leave him on the table, given the choice, would you pick the rests as yours? What if all your friends feel over that objectively good man. Not enough for them. It doesn't work like this in real life and sounds like you have very little relationship experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 12:29 PM
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Why would my friends disrespect my choice? They probably might express concerns only if I choose some abjectively bad man, like drug addictict or criminal. or a manwhore. Which hasn't happened. I would not go near manwhore and my friends neither. Menwhores are not valuable, women only date them by mistake. And its usually silly women with mental problems. Most of my friends have established relationships with decent men. Your scenario is not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:57 AM
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Let me see I am attracted to man who is tall , has a decent job, nice looking, has great personality, spoils me and who is not a manwhore. I never thought about wants of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:02 AM
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Thats a false dichotomy. I am attracted to man who has interests in life apart from chasing vaginas and also has a standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 10:29 AM
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You clearly don't know what hypocrisy means. I'll give you an example. I would be a hypocrite if I say that menwhores should be avoided at all costs while secretly I was engaging with them, which I don't. Instead I have different standards for men and women which I declare openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:56 PM
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I am glad that despite of your hysterical response you don't mind people have different opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:35 PM
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I am afraid me going on the kitchen won't save you from the butthurt. (Menwhores can't be respected, sluts are much better) You are clearly obsessed with all sorts of holes. See, how is it even possible to respect men like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:56 PM
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I would not use word respect toward sluts, its rather compassion but men whores can not be respected and should be avoided at all cost, which is not that hard really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:39 PM
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It should not be unpredictable as its common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:36 PM
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Sure that's alright. Was it suppose to bother anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:35 PM
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If it includes manipulating, lying, or using someone for sex then its evil act. The achievement has a positive connotation. Doing something immoral is not an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:33 PM
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You can agree with me or not or not, it doesn't make you entitled to any vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:31 PM
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No it doesn't mean that. Putting an effort into some activity doesn't make person more valuable. You can put and effort into killing cute little kittens, you can make an effort to pee on every single bench in the city, you can make an effort to manipulaye women for sex, you can make en effort to anything else harmful instead of doingsomething good, and it makes you less valuable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:42 PM
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Thats a good point, however man whores are more harmful to women than sluts harmful to men. Also men whores have to put an effort to become man whores, which implies a choice while sluts just can't feel their boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:36 PM
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Because in this situation men put an effort to learn how to manipulate women to become man whores and women are just victims due to lack of experience or intelligence or whetever. If I to choose who to empathise with - some scumers or theirs victims i would choose victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:32 PM
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Of course women can make their own choices and most healthy women make a choice to not sleep with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:22 PM
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As a woman I definitely don't respect man whores and never would want to have relationships with one. If we are talking about sluts I don't have that much resentment towards them partly from womens solidarity but mostly because they are very often are just emotionally damaged girls who being used and manipulated while man whores became themselves by their own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:17 PM
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Alcohol dates are red flag. I would not want to date casual drunker. What if you have dates every day? You drink every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 10:02 AM
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Thats easy. The person's time and presence is more valuable if they are the one who is interested less. Usually it's a woman, because man get attracted and want sex straight away while woman get attracted when she is emotionally connected therefore men usually need it more and put more effort. Its not a question of Should. You can't make a rules who should do what. Everyone is free to do whatever they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/20 10:02 AM
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Such scenario also happens. However they get another man when the relationships are terrible and they just didn't get enough will power to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:47 AM
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I haven't noticed people are dicks to each other in real life. It's mostly here. Because people come here for drama and good old fight. If we agree and be all nice to each other that would be so boring. In real life if I open to people they are usually are open to me too. Men are fine, women are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 09:19 PM
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But he choose her. So it's their both fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 08:08 PM
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Man also can leave bad woman, because he made a bad choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:15 PM
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If she is a whore bad for him. It goes to the "he made bad choices " category.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:37 PM
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Men very often leave decent women. They got baby and "he wasn't ready"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:26 PM
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Yeah the same. Women rarely leave men for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:33 PM
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What did they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:32 PM
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Probably disqualify. I don't want man who abandoned his own children. I don't want man who was so unbearable that his wife left him. I don't want man who made bad choices. I don't want to be involved into minding someone's else not mine kids. I don't want all that drama with ex wifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:30 PM
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I guess to like someone enough I have to know them, otherwise I realise I am making things up in my head, being attracted to imaginable person which probably doesn't match reality. I thought I should not project my imagination to actual man. So I preferred to keep all the crushes in my head until they fade out. And if I got to know that person, it was so different from what I imagined, it's nearly disappointing. Also let's not forget about rejection and hurting ego, and the ones who want it more…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 08:20 AM
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I never asked men on dates. I was either not interested enough or thought if he was interested enough he would invite me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:54 AM
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I would say older ladies who is divorced and have kids and not interested in futher marriage would be more likely to participate in casual sex with younger guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 05:20 PM
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We do. High n is a a big red flag and I avoided such men altogether or would make him wait for sex for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:41 AM
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Physical. Tall, strong chin, deep eyes , healthy weight, a bit beard, I don't like chest hair. However its just an image and I look at character and actions and if its not good he is not getting into anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 08:21 PM
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As a woman i would not want to be involved in management. I believe in self regulation. Its other men who can decide how to manage all that. For example If the majority of men are not happy with chads banging all the ladies they can control them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:52 PM
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Women are happy with things how they are now. Its men who want changes. Therefore men should cooperate and convince pals to wear chastity belts for their common good. Also women in chastity belt stil can cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 11:38 AM
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I have better idea. Men should wear chastity belt and women can be sure that men are not cheating. It's good for men as well as their women won't be able to cheat as other men are wearing chastity belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 09:46 AM
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Now see the problem is deeper than just his immature actions. How old are you and who takes the most financial responsibility ? I doubt its comfortable for you to live as a guest in somebody's house. For relationships its unhealthy when you live together with his mother. Its not enough privacy she is always on his side, so he feels that he is always right. He receives double care from mommy and from you and gets totally spoiled. In such conditions he has no incentive to improve his financial sit…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 09:15 AM
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Its not even about different treatments its about taking responsibility and make a statement for all the society that you are his women and he is willing to spend his life with you. Perhaps you are giving too much and he got too comfortable for him that he doesn't feel the need to pursue you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 11:00 PM
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Please do not watch these videos, especially if you have low self esteem. They want girls like you to be forever girlfriend of abusive losers or creepy old men. If you want to make things with your boyfriend work ask him to give your more affection, explain that it's important for you. If he can't do that relationships are not gonna work and it's better for you to find a man who suits you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:55 PM
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His reaction is manipulate and passive aggressive. If he is not happy with something he should explain you his feelings in non abusive direct way for example that he feels insecure and jealous when you hanging out with other men, but not making this drama. However is am confused with your relationships status. Are you married? If after 10 years you are still a girlfriend he has no right to say anything.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 09:35 PM
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I thought red pill tell women to low their standards. Really if your needs are not being met you won't be happy in your relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:19 PM
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Amazing how many flies are attracted to poo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 03:01 PM
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Yeah some women have extremely low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 02:08 PM
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Haha those very naive silly poor women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:20 PM
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3 dates rule is great for women. Unworthy men filter out themselves and women even don't have to do any work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 01:08 PM
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When all man's existence spinning around how much sex he can get, how many plates to spin and how strict frame to keep. Its pathetic and a sign of a lot of self esteem issues. You have to have life outside of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:27 AM
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TRP are not HVM. Nobody wants TRP men, the strategies filter them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:46 AM
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Why in other posts men are crying how lonely and sad they are, mention suicide rates and sex inequality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:38 AM
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No it doesn't work like that. Nobody want to force man into relationships. It's about finding man with the same life values and who is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 07:03 AM
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That sounds super annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:57 PM
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Because all those man have emotional problems and personality disorders such narcissistic one. They are not able to experience any healthy attachments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:14 PM
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Yeah and it's the best outcome for everyone, especially for woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:13 PM
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A woman can do whatever she wants and can also not to do whatever she doesn't want. If a man is not happy about it he can close the door (from outside)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:09 PM
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For casual sex yes, for long term no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:51 AM
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Everyone has an equal right to be attracted to what they think attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 07:48 AM
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Why is a foot difference an issue ？ for me definitely not. For men is also not a issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:02 PM
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why do they text me on social media instead of enjoying their dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:03 PM
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*short height as a physical trait is unattractive for the vast majority of women. It doesn't mean short man as a whole person can't be attractive .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:53 PM
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I also hope I will never divorce. I won't have enough patience dealing with all those 40 year old men texting me on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:40 PM
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Nah I am married already, and quite happy, so any leverages are not important. However if you are doing well in a dating market good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:28 PM
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Its irrelevant. As long as I and my close circles are not involved with toxic TRP men, choices of any other adult women is not my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:16 PM
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I choose man who is being himself and treats me nice, but I don't lie about height. In the other topic I was trying to explain that short men are less attractive and men are not happy to hear a that. Also how is that still a surprise that we like when man pays for dates, giving presents bring us on holidays. Men get mad when hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:11 PM
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What preferences do we lie about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:01 PM
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And that man from video is quality man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:50 PM
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What's wrong with wanting tall man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:41 PM
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Women should only listen redpill men to see how toxic they are and learn how to spot their manipulations and avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:39 PM
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Typical "YoU Are AsExUAL! Shaming tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 07:17 PM
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That tells me about quality of your circles
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:23 PM
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If he has great personality still attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:12 AM
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I wrote above that if she loves you she will be also physically attracted as for us women those things come together. If you want women be willing jump on you just based on your looks it's not gonna happen as it's only small percent of women who regularly does that so they can choose the most visually attractive men. I told you at the beginning that if are you looking for shallow relationships you have to fit into shallow standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:02 AM
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That's too exhausting and you need loads of free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:27 AM
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It depends how shallow relationships you are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:25 AM
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It's kinda partly true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:05 AM
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Sounds like pathological nonsense. Women definitely should avoid men viewing them as a toilet (even not public one)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:03 AM
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The answer is simple. Tall men are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 08:44 AM
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How about men become accountable and stop coercing and raping?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 09:29 PM
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It't the other way around. People who can't pair bound due to emotional issues have high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:54 PM
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Yeah that's absolutely fine. You didn't even had to comment on the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 01:55 PM
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Yeah because its currently not illegal I guess. Correct me if I am wrong. When it becomes illegal, and I am sure it will in the foreseeable future then it won't be borderline anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:34 PM
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Okay probably the more correct term sexual coercion. I believe sexual coercion victims are as valid as rape victims and also probably much more common, and coercion affected much more women. I am not sure about legal aspect that's why I use term borderline rape. I noticed it's mostly men who worry about downloading the word rape ( perhaps they know they did something wrong )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 12:27 PM
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If you use " techniques " , artificial behaviour where you make her feel negative emotions such guilt or fear in order to get something its manipulation. You can tel her directly and honestly, that you only interested to do anything affectionate if it involves sex. But you won't do so because you know she doesn't want sex at thos stage and you need to push and manipulate her. (Which is borderline rape and should be illegal)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:52 AM
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Manipulate someone into sex instead of doing it when they are ready and willing is not just cause buyers remorse, it's a borderline rape, it should be illegal and men who do it deserve troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:32 AM
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That's exactly what happen however depends of life expend emotional intelligence it might take time for person to realise that they are being manipulated or abused. Edit: I am wondering does it hurt men's ego to realise this woman doesn't want sex with him and he has to manipulate her to get sex, after which she most likely will feel regret?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:26 AM
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Nobody is entitled to nothing but everyone has right to choose partners according to their standards. If woman doesn't like manipulative cold man she has right to dump him straight away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 11:13 AM
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It depends what I feel towards that man. If I dump him because I don't feel anything towards him I would not care if he in his turn also doesn't care about me leaving him. This situation actually occured in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:40 PM
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Dread game is unhealthy thing and will only work with people who has low self esteem. Normal person (man or woman ) if they get signals that other person is not interested or being manipulative just will let it go .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 04:13 PM
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You confuse intellect and psychological maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:14 AM
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Having child is life changing event. A lot of women aware that their men can leave at any moment as soon as they smell problems. We all see attitude of society and especially men toward single mothers. They don't want that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 09:29 AM
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It's well known that men develop with a bit of delay compared to women. 18 yo girl is more mature than 18 man, while 18 girl is about the same as 20 y.o. man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 09:26 AM
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Because he doesn't need my money?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 08:09 AM
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I'll explain. if man doesn't carry his role as a provider in equal marriage woman doesn't carry role as a mother of children ( all that pregnancy, health complications, redused life expectancy, stretching marks, bresfeeding, lack of sleep, child minding, educating.) So no kids for them. Women love to be taken care of as much as men love sex .Women are way less thirsty for sex. If woman's need of care and support is not being met, than it's fair that man's need of sex is also not being met, maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 10:22 PM
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You want equal marriage when both equal work and pay, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 10:09 PM
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If equality is sexless and childless marriage then surely it's fair to demand also equal financial contributions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:56 PM
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All that harem women might getting something out of it, although definitely not my cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:41 PM
1

If man spoils me well I don't mind to play the traditional role
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:56 PM
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It might be true and I don't see what's wrong with it. Getting laid it's not a right. If no woman wants have sex with a man it just mean he doesn't bring any value to the relationships. Does he offer partnership, care, willingness to make women happy? Probably not , he just want bang with many different woman. Then it's not a surprise that he is alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:51 PM
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Haven't seen such thing. I have seen that women choose tall men but haven't seen height shaming while I see fat shaming all the time. Let's be honest those things are equally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:39 PM
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why can't men create one and promote how short men are good?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:35 PM
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Short men can always go for obese women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:31 PM
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Yeah hopefully she will find decent caring man who won't have homoerotic fantasies about Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:26 PM
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Women don't reject good men especially if good men spoil them. Being manipulated by toxic men while they were naive and stupid is something what women regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:01 PM
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cause you started to tell me your private life. But I guess the answer that you could not at the moment attract a better woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:51 AM
1

Why if it's ok to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:33 AM
1

So she is ex now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:30 AM
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Sound slike bad deal for her. Anyways sooner or later she will figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:24 AM
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If you want a lot of nsa sex with hot chicks and you are not rich then looks are everything. If you want meaningful relationships, to love and to be loved looks are definitely not everything. In this case you have to see past looks as well. I know many people who is not conventionally attractive and have happy relationships also I know plenty unhappy lonely hot looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:10 AM
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We don't want full control we just like being spoiled and taken care of. And men who are good and willing to spoils us are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:49 AM
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Leaving moral part aside that would be good for dating market. Insels will get sex. Plate spinners will be legally spin prostitutes plates and hopefully stop manipulating women. Man who wants meaningful relationships will still have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:45 AM
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Why would women who earn the same want marry you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:37 AM
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We can have our girlfriends and kids. Edit. Actually where's data from? I see mostly men crying here how lonely they are. Single women seem to be doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:03 AM
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FDS women would win. Women are less thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:46 AM
4

If men still commit to that woman despite being disloyal she is high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 11:53 PM
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TRP complains a lot about monkey brunching. It means woman who cheats her husband often gets commitment from new usually better man. Sure there men are aware that women were cheating. It means those women are high value despite not being loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 11:51 PM
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I just reflected and extrapolated men's view on the subject. Apparently its men who can't be suspected in too much introspection. Men on PPD say that high value man is the one who can have a lot of casual sex. ( not loyal, carrying and honest man as we women try to suggest)Then high value woman is the one who can attract men for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 11:21 PM
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HVW is the one who can get commitment from men, especially attractive ones. Doesn't matter if she is loyal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 11:00 PM
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Naive people who pay scammers and who become their victims also choose. The same as young women dating old abusive men who use them don't know what do they step into. They learn from their mistakes and become more distrustful in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 04:55 PM
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Omg who said these are high value? Women are always support women first including giving advice to avoid old creeps. If all women have high standards men don't have other choice but improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:32 PM
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I find men who is lusting over much younger women or very young barely adult women, creeps. Does my opinion matter? Not really. They can do wheyever they want as long as it's not illegal. Would I date such man? I wouldn't. Would I be friend with them? I would avoid friendshwith with them and try to keep any interactions minimum. Although most young women absolutely disinterested in dating old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:27 PM
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Sweethearts usually become bitter after dating specific men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:14 PM
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That's why a lot of women choose men 2-3 years older. Not 20 years older. We don't like balding, stale, old men. Only women who badly needs money and has low disgust, or woman with severe mental problems can date an old goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 12:54 PM
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Ah please. Approach anxiety is not when you afraid to make someone uncomfortable. It's when you afraid of rejection and hurting your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 07:36 AM
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They are not even chad chasers. They have very low standards and go for any loser, who is very likely treats them badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:12 PM
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Not necessarily. Sometimes man's profile look like the he is a decent person. How would she weed him out before actually communicate with him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:35 AM
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Doesn't sound like realistic scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:33 AM
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That's good that you are letting them know that you are not suitable candidate. Although week is long enough. Could you make your mind sooner not to waste people's time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:26 PM
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What's vetting period consists of? Is that not meeting in some neutral place which is a technicaly a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:12 PM
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Do they go straight away to strangers apparent? Sounds very unsafe for women. I doubt men who go on dates always looking for LTR. From what I read here a lot of men primary looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:22 PM
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Probably you know better than me but I imagine peole from tinder meet up somewhere first before having casual sex or short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:12 PM
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It's a matter of personal preferences. If man doesn't want to pay he has a right to do so. Woman has a right to choose a man based on her preferences. Personally I haven't faced situation when man didn't want to pay for a date with me. It's sounds strange for me. Although I didn't date many men and I only had long term relationships. Maybe if i participated in a hookup culture things would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 01:48 PM
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For women. It's a shitty situation to be in. I would plan and prepare finances to leave. If he is abusive I would not have any moral suffering over cheating with guy who makes me happy. A and C. I am sure he would guess that we are only friends if he knows I am married. Perhaps he also appreciates my friendship and he also gets emotional support from me. I am not that bad friend. Otherwise I would let him know that I am not interested if I know that he wants me. It depends of our relationships. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:42 PM
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If guy looks average but he has awesome personality and he is funny, carrying, makes her feel loved, spoils her why would not she date him. Only very silly girls goes after narcissistic men who spend their all time to look pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:58 PM
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Its completely different things. Weak is being a push over, not having boundaries allowing people use you and walk over you. Nice (actually nice, not like niiiice guys) is having moral principals and standards which you follow, be kind, try to make world a better place. It doesn't mean that you have to tolerate when people disturb your boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:46 PM
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No it's not. It means woman wasn't aroused (apart of very few exceptions of women who doesn't get wet) and was manipulated into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:01 PM
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I haven't thought about it. Maybe all these men with lub in a pocket exclusively interested in older ladies. Then it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:48 PM
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You can't impress anyone performing copipaste from google. Please try to think logically using your own brain it's not that hard I promise you. The percent of women who have these issues is very small. Like its always a small percent of peculiar properties on the background of normality. The probability to regularly meet women who doesn't get wet is very low even if man sleeps around a lot. The vast majority of women perfectly become wet while aroused. And when so many men use a lubricant means …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:44 PM
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Is "vaginal dessication machine " just a synonym of poor quality sexual partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:29 PM
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Apparently your cockiness doesn't help knowledge and common sense. I advise you to read a bot more to avoid embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:20 PM
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Its fairytales to protect mens ego.the most women are wet when they aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:05 PM
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Haha that's fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:04 PM
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Why do you need lube? Can't make woman wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:47 PM
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Usually guys with high n count are too smooth, as they have a lot of practice. Also it's a sign that he is not into you. If a guy likes you he will be more likely a bit nervous. Also pushing sex. It's not necessarily mean that he is a high n count simply because he might not succeed in achieving a lot of casual sex, but that what he is looking for. Basically don't sleep with guys quickly and you will know soon enough what they want from you. Guy who is into you will try to do nice things for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:37 PM
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You did a right thing to leave abusive alcoholic. You had stress too but you didn't start drink and didn't become abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:04 AM
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I can't say for all FDS women but I as many other women was implementing dating rules which is again wasn't invented by FDS and I am pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:35 PM
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That's typical men manipulative tactic. Basically "give me sex and then I maybe decide a If you are good enough for relationships" that approach in not beneficial for woman and women should avoid men who expressing thoughts like that because its exact men who just want ro sleep around and are not suitable for relationships. Man who is open for relationships can make up his mind way before sex. It is much better to see a man as a friend until he is sure he wants relationships and explicitly expre…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:21 PM
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It works for those who use it. Obviously if woman sleeping around she has no basic knowledge about what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:55 AM
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Perhaps but RPW are unhappy and in relationships with abusive losers. Better to be happy devil.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:54 AM
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Only very naive woman believes that. We all can see here how many men desire casual sex with many women and bragging about every new n count. If a man had 30 women I doubt its because none of them were bringing something in his life or he has poor taste. If a man is interested he will wait. It's the only way to filter out unworthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:52 AM
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FDS is not something new or original. Its basic common sense rules for every woman. It works and always worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:13 PM
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Sometimes it happens when woman doesn't want to chat but doesn't feel comfortable to say directly that she is not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:38 PM
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If people cared about scumers how come they still buy their tricks and give them money? Because people are different and some people are naive and stupid. There are promiscuous women who sleep around, there are naive women who easily tricked, there're emotionaly unhealthy women easily manipulated, there are inexperienced women who don't know what's right and what's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 07:52 AM
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Of course better looking man had better chances to manipulate women to sex if he has that goal. It doesn't men that decent looking man would manipulate women to have sex. Many are looking for real relationships and don't have many partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:07 PM
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Of course good looking men are more attractive but If he does look good doesn't mean he spend his all free time looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:03 PM
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It doesn't mean you are good or special. You must be good at manipulations and can trick naive girls with emotional problems who buy your manipulation, and most likely regret afterwards. Bad for them. If you already had 60 girls you emotionaly damaged. Damaged and toxic people are not suitable for relationships and therefore should be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:51 PM
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Would you see potential in some very ugly woman? She migh lose weight eventually, change her style, have surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:44 AM
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You can't change an adult person. Its parents job to raise their son not womans to mind her husband. Nobody is perfect and there're certain things we can deal with but certain things such cheating, toxic behaviour, disrespect, abuse, laziness should not be tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:40 AM
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Its irrelevant as I know plenty of attractive tall men with decent personalities who are not sleeping around. They had a few long term relationships. They are attractive men. And I know some not very attractive men with high n count and not even nice personalities, it even makes me wonder what kind of women even look at them guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:29 AM
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Exactly. High n count only tells about low self control and ability to manipulate and use people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:45 AM
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Men's n count is discussed too and many women who wants happy relationships avoid men with high n count as incapable of building healthy relationships. It's like a building house with cracked bricks. I personally avoided them , most my friends avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:42 AM
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Everyone had a trauma at some point. There's very little healthy people. The question is how trauma affects persons behaviour in relationships. Some people with high neuroticism are very good in relationships. They think they are not good enough and trying their best to please a partner. They do more in relationships than recive. They might not be happy but their partners are. So the partners should not complain that their SO is damaged goods, as they get more than they give. Sometimes trauma ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:17 PM
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Maybe she doesn't sleep with you and moves to the next man willing to be with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 10:07 AM
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I really find it funny how men try convince women that having sex quickly is good for her because then she might have a chance that man will want LTR with her. While we all know how good works not sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 10:00 AM
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Women especially single should only act in their own interest. Having sex quickly is against women interest. Self development is great and everyone should do that, and if man interested and wants this woman in his life he will wait for sex, if he wants just quick sex, other qualities of women are unimportant for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 09:56 AM
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Women should never sleep quickly with anyone before he explicitly expresses and prove his desire to have relationships with her. Of course if she also wants relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 09:46 AM
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At the beginning of dating when I am not emotionally attached and don't know the man yet I am meh about sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 03:10 PM
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Loads of people are not doing anything particularly shitty and still living happy lives
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:09 AM
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Yeah you are right. Perhaps they just don't want to feel guilty after doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:31 AM
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Because poeple are social creatures and its important be approved and accepted. Also not everyone want to be an asholes that's why they ask about morality of certain actions. Pump and dump, cheat, lie, manipulate and a be a nasty person is not against the low but it's immoral and not approved by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:16 AM
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that sounds soo pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 05:00 PM
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It's hard for me to imagine to Genuinely like someone and then, right after sex, when I got want I want, suddenly stop liking them. It sounds like a lacking of self-introspection or simply a self lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:56 PM
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It's hard to say how to be a man would change my personality. Maybe If I was a man I had very little empathy for women and was craving for sex like most men do and just do anything to satisfy a physical need. Then I would just have sex no matter even if she regrets afterwards. If I was closer to who I am now I would not have sex with a woman if I am not interested in her but see that she is interested and let her go before sex. Instead, I would look for somebody who I am actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:23 PM
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I wouldn't wait 2 hours, I would call the police straight away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:50 PM
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I had relationships and sex withing those relationships wasn't great. But I think its because relationships wasn't good. Now I am married to another man and sex is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:48 PM
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You are free to do whetever you want. As long as I am not involved .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:43 PM
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I agree here, although I never was involved in one. But it sounds gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:23 PM
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I mean I wasn't rejected because someone didn't want to have sex with me, just don't do casual sex at all, but I was twice in my life rejected because those men pushed for sex and I refused. Rejection is painful when you realise this man doesn't care about you but I never called them names, I just accepted that people don't have to like me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:35 PM
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But men can approach all women they want from anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:29 PM
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If they do they are rude. Although I had never did it maybe it because I wasn't rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:17 PM
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It's not a tech gave women a favour. Its freedom which they didn't have before and right to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:41 PM
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It's up to him really. If he wants me in his life and likes me he would wait and risk. If he is meh about me he doesn't have to wait and can find woman he is more enthusiastic about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:26 PM
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Yeah its because you know that I am right but can't allow yourself to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:15 PM
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We are not talking about relationships here. We are talking about casual sex, there is no couple and working together there. Some men are terrible in bed even based on my very very short experience. I am the same person but results with different men were different. It's not about skills its more about being attentive to woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:08 PM
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1.Take responsibility for you own choices for ones. Nobody gonna change behaviour to please you. I had no problem of finding men who want to commit and married for years. It's jusy silly to try change fuckboy. Decent women just will continue to avoid them. If a man choosing to spend all his time and energy to get a lot of casual sex this man is an animal and not suitable for relationships and should be avoided. Women are very often manipulated and lied to get sex. Men are very rare direct in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:05 PM
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They have attachment issues, self-control issue, they will cheat, they might have the std, they were using women for sex therefore they are not nice people altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:22 AM
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Ahaha how did I forgot about "Frigid ". Men are so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:14 AM
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It's so old man shaming tactic. "You don't want to have sex with me? You are asexual! "
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:07 AM
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It depends. Of course there are some asexual people in population. Although I personally do have quite a good sex drive. If we talk about some stranger, I have literaly zero interest to have sex with that man (as well as many other women), instead I would mastubate on my own. If i have emotional connection with man which establishes overtime I want to have sex with that man although I would wait for another while to make sure if it goes right direction. Some women who is lacking of love in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:50 AM
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See, very often women pretend that they enjoyed in order to not hurt mens ego. Perhaps your women did lied to you or maybe you are a rare sex giant. Yeah vetting works both ways. I was vetting for man who wants relationships with me. Men vetting for whetever they looking for. That's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:31 AM
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I agree. Women should start using 3 months rule by now, but some still don't
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:27 AM
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Women often are used for sex, when men manipulate and lie about their intentions. Sex is often not enjoyable for women as many men are useless in bed. But I agree taht woman is not entitled to commitment. It's a very important thing to remember while some man try to push sex. That's why I never have had sex without commitment. Women are also not entitled to resourses but they are entitled to chose man who is willing to share resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:19 AM
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Poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:18 AM
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It so does. Fuckboys are not suitable for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:02 AM
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oops. sorry. Still better don't read it, incelness is contagious!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:21 PM
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If you are not dating better do not read this sub. You will get traumatized and won't be able to look at men without disgust. Only people with established relationships can survive here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:17 PM
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If a man pretends that he is like a woman in order to get the sex he using her. Men need sex more, men enjoy sex with strangers more. Casual sex is only good for men therefore in the situation of casual sex women are being used. Of course, women should never get involved in casual sex. For the dates where a man pays its absolutely normal as a woman doesn't know if she like him or not to have relationships, as it takes a long time to learn his personality. She doesn't pretend that she likes him i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:08 PM
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I am not OP but can answer this questions. 1.Because fasfood is still not that popular. Many places in Russia only recently got McDonalds and kfs. Also women experience a lot of pressure from society to look good and being fat shamed. 2.Because European men are better looking than russian men, have more money, have better attitude toward women and many of women hoping to get married move to the west. Sometimes they are only interested to move to the west, not because man is attractive. Because e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 11:50 AM
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What's wrong with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:46 AM
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Agree. A frase " let's see where its going " is a example of typicsl time waster, a man who doesn't know what he wants. Even man who saying " i just want sex " deserves more respect. Women still shouldn't go near them but at least it's honest and straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:21 AM
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Yeah that's fine as long as man is happy to date trashy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:53 PM
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I live in Europe and the majority of young women are not overweight, they are not necessary Ideal shape or thin, or looking like model, but they have Normal BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:01 PM
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No woman of value will jump on man after 3 dates in cheap places
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:26 PM
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That's why women have 3 months rule
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:19 PM
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Nothing wrong to keep men in friendzone while he paying for dates and do a favours. You all start out as men who we want money from. Most of you not worthy of sex or love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:43 PM
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Of course, they do, for example, an older established lady could date a young fresh guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:25 PM
1

Are you evaluating yourself as 15?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 02:24 PM
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I don't like movies when men portrayed as incompetent, as it's degrading and far away from reality, but also I don't like when women portrayed as incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 08:41 PM
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Ahh don't worry about it and don't take that seriously what losers here are saying. Although of course be smart and only engage with men who Invest significantly into relationships with you (time, money, emotions) and who happy to have a lot of non-sexual activity with you. Believe me, a lot of decent men who interested in you don't mind to wait for a few months if you have a mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 06:50 PM
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Because fools should suffer. They will be smarter next time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 04:53 PM
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They seeking young and attractive women, not old and unattractive. . They are polygamous and hypergamous. Not a surprise that so many men are frustrated, its simply because they want impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:36 AM
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All the power is in women's hands just some don't use it. You didn't asnwer my question, you tried to explain why women don't like trp. My question was why TRP men from YouTube (because its pretty much the one place to see how they look like) are not attractive, not Chad's if you would like to say, they are just average looking men with demands, some of them below average some of them just old cranky men. You said it's easy for TRP to be 9/10 (top 10%) . Why all these men didn't become attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 09:19 AM
2

Why redpill men from YouTube are unattractive then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:07 AM
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Okay so you are attracted to normal looking people. What's the problem then? So they have too high demands or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:45 PM
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If both man and woman are equally attractive and the woman is not too stupid to give benefits of girlfriend she will be a gatekeeper to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:41 PM
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So you have some standards. You don't want obese people while a big per cent of people are overweight. Even healthy weight is a big enough spectrum. It's very subjective. Is that possible that what you consider normal weigh might be a actually slim figure and normal face is attractive face? People with healthy weight still cam look fat enough. Slim people know that they are more desirable and can have higher demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:35 PM
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But they do Buy good things. They give people opportunity to have relationships with beautiful them, have sex with their beautiful bodies, have beautiful children, improve their status by having beautiful people with them. Those people could always choose ugly but less demanding people but they willingly choose beautiful. Would you start to be open minded and have relationships with unnatracive woman? If you have choice of beautiful woman and ugly woman who would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:09 PM
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And people who born rich should not demand all the luxury things although they have money and loads of peole willing to sell them luxury things. Beauty is the most valuable asset at this days and people willing to give a lot in order have relationships with beautiful people. It's sad bit its reality. Beautiful people will only stop to have high expectations when people stop preferring them which is not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:25 PM
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As any other healthy person, I am only attracted to people who treat me nice. I avoid people who are not nice to me. I agree that TRP strategies work but it works for the short term goal of achievement sex with low-quality and mentally ill women. It's immoral, causing people harm, but life is not fair, anyways. However, it unlikely will work for the long term wellbeing and It will likely exacerbate emotional problems of the people who following TRP. Although if you feel satisfied and happy with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:28 PM
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Blue pill is in many cases is true, although it works for healthy people. All mentally healthy men who I know are being themselves and have no problems in private life, most of them in relationships. Bitter people who have not great personalities are struggling. In both groups are both good looking and not good looking people, it means looks don't matter that much for relationships. Although if a man looking for abundant casual sex, then he has to look great and present traits attractive for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:28 PM
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I would never agree on 50/50. Woman who takes too much on her shoulders at some point will burn out and marriage will fail. Men who expect or ask women to pay are emasculated to me and I couldn't view one of them as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:39 AM
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Women offer looks because men value and choose looks. We are all know beautiful woman with bad personality will always have nicer treatment and better relationships than ugly women with good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:11 AM
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Yeah around women with emotional problems, not healthy ones. That what I am saying its effective for specific women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:52 AM
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You can't make things balanced. You only can choose partner who has the same view as you. If he wants you to pay 50% he is not gonna change. Choose man who is able and willing to be a strong lider of family and support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:51 PM
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tall and fit with ugly face is not 7 sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:48 PM
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looks are not everything. We want a balance of looks and personality. Looks with a bad personality only work for low-value women. People have the right to do what they want, but other people also have a right to shame people who think behaving badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:11 PM
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Not only money but money too. Man would not want a prostitute because prostitutes do NSA casual sex with many men, not because they take money for it. It's a bit different from actual relationships. Relationships, when a woman invests too much (half finances, pregnancy, childcare, etc) are inevitable fail. That's why so many marriages break up right after kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:05 PM
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If she is so self-sufficient why does she need a man at all? Especially if its some old man? Not surprise many women leave their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:48 PM
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Why do I rehumanise women with daddy issue? No, It's not women's fault that they had shitty fathers, but they do exist and they are the target audience for TRP men. That's just a sad reality, nothing we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:45 PM
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Women are still in control of dating game as we are not thirsty or dependant of sex and can choose if a man makes us happy enough to stay with. We have something that men want badly while men have nothing which we want that badly. After reading this forum I appreciate being a woman as I don't have the issue of being constantly horny and my life doesn't spin around it. Regarding manipulations. Manipulative behaviour is any indirect communication. If you are looking for only sex and say it directl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:42 PM
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lol what social circles are you into?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:33 PM
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Yeah if the guy is very hot and the girl is very trashy that scenario is not totally unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:27 PM
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And that competition consists of what? Consist of a big amount of horny men who want to get laid and competes for a much smaller amount of trashy women who agrees to have casual sex and tolerate bad personalities. Nasty personalities are objective. Being selfish, rude, manipulative are undesirable qualities regardless of looks. Is he is very good looking but has a bad personality he still might attract certain types of women. It's not gonna be a healthy woman although it doesn't matter as a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:25 PM
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Obviously because of competition. The amount of BPD women and women with daddy issues, women who will put up with nasty TRP personalities is not that high and amount of men who wants to get laid is much bigger so TRP have to look extra good and be extra manipulative to attract them. Women don't want to suck randos dicks. Dicks have very little value. We value men who spoil us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:22 PM
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TRP is not necessarily handsome. Handsome is not necessary TRP. At least the ones from Youtube are so far away from being handsome. Also, we want men who spoil us. What's good to us if he is handsome but bitter and manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:03 PM
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No it's only specific types of women: 1 Too stupid or naive to recognise these manipulations 2. Low value who put up with bad behaviour as they can't attract anybody else. 3 mentally I'll with BPD, daddy issues, anxiety, low self esteem. Healthy attractive women will never date TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:55 AM
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What's "blue pill enforcement?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:52 AM
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I agree. Manipulative behaviour does work. Although It's shitty behaviour and also attracs only specific types of women. But it works
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:38 AM
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FDS subreddit has many thousands people and I am sure you can find all sort of tests and standards around the audience. I would say going to some rando apartment is totally not wise idea as the guy could be a maniac not just a messy person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:52 AM
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Sugar dating is good. Casual sex is Never should be free . If he wants casual exclusive sex he should pay even more. Men never ever should get anything for free. Some men treat women worse than prostitutes. They expect sex, care, house work and also pay half of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:20 AM
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Tall with ugly face is never 7
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:53 AM
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Why would she married man if she makes the same money? Its much more difficult for women to make the same money. In this case she is much better than a man. Why would she marry a man who worse than her. Exepsion if she is ugly and man is hot and tall
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:51 AM
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Ohh well. If you can't figure out If she is good or not perhaps you are just not smart enough for good relationships? Life is unfair and fools must suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:56 PM
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Why did she attract you on the first place? Did she perform any traits as dishonest person at the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:45 PM
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What did you do in the womans best interest and what did she do to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:46 PM
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Taking responsibility it's not blaming yourself or kicking your own ass. When people afraid to take responsibility for their wrong choices means that they don't allow themselves to do mistakes. We do wrong choices sometimes and learn on our mistakes all our life. We don't have to be perfect or always right. " I am a good girl I never did wrong, it's all evil people around who hurt me" This victim mindset when everything is out of control prevents people from development. Blaming others doesn't m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:30 PM
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The person who cheats on them tf? My ex was abusive and cheated on me, that’s not my fault for trusting him, it’s his fault! Cheating on someone is wrong. Being an unhealthy person is wrong. I see this approach as not constructive. I think we should accept that life is the way it is and it's unfair. Nobody ever promised that it will be fair. How's good for you if you know that it was His fault to cheat. Does it make you feel better? It's just an objective reality and you can choose what to do in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:49 PM
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Then it's not a cheat really. Your marriage was already broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:32 AM
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It would be much the same as now. I could always say what man wants from me. I know if man a fuckboy and then he say "hello I want only sex with you and everyone else" Well that would not be a big surprise. The other thing if people are honest with themselves. Very ofyer we all guilty of self lie. To get rid of it would be helpful and make everyone more happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:04 AM
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I don't believe men as whole as well as women as whole. Therefore I don't believe that the best interest of all men would be the same. Some men best interest is to sleep around with as many trashy women as possible. Other men best interest to build healthy relationships. My right is to choose that man whose best interest would not contradict with my interests. That would be silly if I choose a man who want fucking around with unhealthy women and try to change him to act in my interest (which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:45 AM
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you are the one who is responsible for your life. not women or society. If you choose pussy, not a human being then don't be surprised that it doesn't end well. That also doesn't sound what a good trustful person would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:13 AM
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Who prohibited you to experience relationships? According to this post, women choose bad boys. Perhaps men choose bad girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:05 AM
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When woman chooses fuckboy who pump and dump her. who's fault is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:43 AM
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Everyone chooses their own scenario. If you choose unhealthy women who cheats on you who's fault is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:35 AM
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How do you know the relationships of these married women were good? Just because they seemed good from outside? I still believe good relationships don't break as people are happy in these relationships. Rollecoster is for emotionally unhealthy people who seeking for drama. Healthy relationships are calm. Myself and my friends did leave relationships but resuon never been "he is too good". The problems in relationships were: he was abusive, he was lazy and didn'thave a purpose in life, relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:23 AM
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I don't think anyone of us lying just we live in different realities and make different life choices. Each has a right to exist. I choose a specific type of man and you choose a specific type of women. As long as everyone's happy why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:50 AM
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Never saw this scenario in real life. Why would I cheat ot leave a man who loves me, spoils me, make my life good? I appreciate such man and try my best to make him happy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:38 AM
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Men acting in interest of women are the best men and deserve the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:28 AM
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Women want good men just don't know how to find out which one from available men is good or not, especially when they young with no life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:27 AM
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Yeah and the majority had 1 casual partner in a whole lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:47 PM
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Yeah the minority of troubled promiscuous women does. Why do you all so obsessed with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:42 PM
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Most women have 1-3 long term relationships which fails due to lack of experience then find someone they are more compatible with. The majority of women don't sleep around with Chads because they understand all these fickboys are not suitable and should be avoided. The post talks about small percentage of promiscuous troubled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:31 PM
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College is not a vaccine agains being trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:19 PM
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Of course the guy is also trashy. Trash attract trash. Why would decent man go for trashy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:15 PM
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Sound like you prefer trashy women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 10:42 AM
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the guy is disgusting. How anyone even can get attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:46 PM
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Men who sleep around are trashy, and only attractive for trashy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:30 PM
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Exactly. It creates vicious circle. Guys send generic messages every single girl they can. Girls can't and don't want to waste time answering on all similar texts from hundreds of men. Men don't get replies, get upset and trying even harder sending copypastes to more girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:50 PM
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That exactly what I heard. Female friends told me they get a lot of matches and it doesn't go anywhere and the most messages are generic. Some gave up online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:12 PM
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That's very possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:09 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:13 PM
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Cool. Because I am woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:12 PM
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Seriously? For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:10 PM
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Would you looking for women with daddy issues and bpd if they had diagnosis in the forehead?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:02 PM
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Hookups cost people souls anyways. Its meaningless and damaging interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:55 PM
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Emotional problems and manipulation. Find a woman who has daddy issues and bpd, learn how to manipulate and she will have sex with you. Although of course that dishonest and immoral, but it is what TRP men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:44 PM
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I am interested in marriage because we are social creatures and marriage is declaration for all the society that this man loves me, commited to me, willing to spend his life with me, take financial responsibility and take care of his future kids. I personally like to feel loved, taken care of, spoiled, have sense of security. Some men find marriage risky therefore it's even more valuable if a man take this risk. Not all marriages work but most peole who go into marriage hoping that it will be fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:47 AM
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Obviously physical abuse is worse. Its is also a crime. Abusers are terrible people. Cheating is not a crime, and cheater is not necessary a terrible person it just might be indicator that relationships are not linger viable, which is sad but still is not a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:31 AM
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Those mean could be -shallow -sex addicts -have personally disorder Really is unimportant to finding reason why they behave that way, Women should just avoid those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:00 PM
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No. When woman doesn't feel sexy she is most likely end up in a bad relationships or could be easier manipulated. Men are sexless because women are less dependent of sex, and those men can't suggest anything to make that sex worse of spending energy and time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:40 PM
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it's nice to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:30 PM
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and then men ask what women bring to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:28 PM
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In general married men are more happy than unmarried. Probably happiness is the most reason to do something. Although if questions like this arise it means there is no woman in his life who this man want to have relationships with. Relationships for the sake of relationships is pointless and won't bring any happiness. Also it's possible that particular man has no ability to pairbound, because normally at 30s people know what's relationships like what they are for. Such questions is already a red…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:38 AM
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I never gave an assessment if it's good or bad just it makes all long texts about how would men do it good irrelevant as nobody would exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:21 PM
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Humankind would extinct as people would not have sex, and therefore would not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:51 PM
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They are more attractive. Looking at married man I would assume he is (more likely) more responsible, committed, as he chooses one woman instead of fucking around. He is capable of pair bounding and probably has healthier personality compare to singles. In business I would trust married more, especially if his marriage is good and lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:52 AM
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She well knows that most men would choose just beautiful woman than plane but with good personality. She can afford to put super high standards and men absolutely buy that. Its super hypocritical to criticize that she has nothing to offer apart from beauty because its her beauty what you desire , if she had sex with you, you would not complain that she is not interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:56 AM
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I absolutely agree with you. Men here are angry because they can't sleeping around with multiple women preferably above their league, such Instagram models (while criticizing the beauty industry and fake beauty)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 09:37 PM
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It's not the problem that men and women peak in different times. The problem is majority of young women want relationships and majority of young men want sex. The dating situation would not change much. Minority of promiscuous women would still have a majority of men to choose from, and of course they choose the nicest looking whatever time hey peak. The rest of men still would be sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:07 PM
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It's an interesting thought. Please elaborate how would it make a world better?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:45 PM
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It's a very mens view on womens sexuality. Wet panties and somebody good looking are two separate things therefore if someone good looking it doesn't mean sex should happen. The only reason to have sex when both people want the same and get what they expect from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:44 PM
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I hope it will make guys feel better. Ye are not all ugly just we are not up to things you offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:17 PM
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Women who don't practice promiscuity refuse ONS with men even If they find those men attractive and good looking. Being attractive is not enough reason for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:10 PM
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I really like to do art and design, read fantasy books, do physical exercises, watch birds, walk in the forests, learn something new like astronomy or history although have a bad memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:09 AM
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It's not like 100% men want only sex when they ask woman out. We are all know that men want sex but very often they also genuinely like woman who they ask out, want relationships and don't want screw things up. I would say its the same 20-30% nasty ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 09:13 PM
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If we are comparing men and women we should ask how many men went on dates with women strictly for free sex. I would say around the same amount as women go for free food and probably those two groups meet each other all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:17 PM
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food is cheap. To get that free cheap food I would have to spend an hour to get ready, leave home get to the place, tolerate long awkward conversation with a stranger who I don't like, then come back home. What's the point of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:11 PM
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No. dates are exhausting. I only can bare it with a people I like. Edit. Although when I was 17 and guys started to get interested in me I started to go on dates with guys but I never really clicked with anyone. So I found dating people who I don't know is useless and I felt too much pressure over it, so later in life, I only went on dates with men I already knew and had something in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:54 PM
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To be a woman with low self esteem is dangerous. They are usually targets of abusive men. It comes from childhood with constant critics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 08:46 AM
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A lot if problem arise due to indirect communications. If men Clear indicates their intentions that they are interested in sex only it will be much less problems. Also some women being pressured or manipulated to have sex. Maybe it's not a rape in classic understanding but its somewhere in grey area. More clarity what's rape what's not would help. Of course some very small percent women potalogical liers and will make things up. But if it will be very little rapes overall it will be easier to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:42 AM
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It's not like man Gives tingles, we can have them without man. But sexual attraction toward man takes time and if woman decide to have sex with man on 2nd date it's not because he is extraordinary hmv but it's just normal practice for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 10:08 PM
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Maybe your life experience is not that great?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:42 PM
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I see it as a sign of some emotional problems. it's not gender specific. Although if it happened once or twice I wouldn't be judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:40 PM
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I didn't miss your entire point just your point doesn't match the reality. The thing is different understanding what HVM is. From some mens point of view it is sex addict who just want sleeping around no matter what and dump women if they refused sex after 2nd date. They mostly get trashy women and women with disorders and have sex with them. Mens opinion what HVM is irrelevant as it is women who chooses men. Healthy women are looking for man they can establish healthy relationships with and be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 08:32 PM
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I like introverted people. I feel comfortable around introverted people. Because they are in my experience the less shallow, less annoying, they leave you alone and give you space. Introverted people are the best of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:39 PM
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Totally agree on. Normal women avoid promiscuous men like plague. Even a small evidence that man is a fuckboy is enough to brand him as unsuitable. Too much risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:20 PM
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There is not much problem even now, just women should not have sex with man who is not committed. Just filter out men who pressures you into sex. Although unwanted sexual attention from men is very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:08 PM
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WOrk through your emotional problems, learn healthy direct way to communicate, avoid manipulation. It probably won't help to get casual sex with emotionally damaged women but bring more life satisfaction overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:46 PM
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Marriage is not complicated. If you are unhappy dont feel loved or validated it's not normal. You needs are not being met. What is your marriage like overall? Sometimes men have different language of love, for example he gives you a lot of presents, does something for you but doesn't say compliments. In this case you can ask him in non-abusive way to compliment you more , explain that it makes you happy and how its important for you, preferably explain in details how often and what things you wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 10:51 AM
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Are you married? Sounds like you never been in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 10:00 AM
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Cant help it. Like men who spoil me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:26 PM
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I am woman and I absolutely love to be spoiled feel loved and I only attracted to men who does so. If he is interesting person but doesn't give me enough love he is very welcomed in my friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:26 PM
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Nah, who wants relationships with man who doesn't give enough love, emotions, compliments. That's a main reason of divorce . We are all like to be treated nicely and feel loved. It's like a drug. And people who provide it are also loved and wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:01 PM
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Haha that's not correct. The most sexy men who spoiling their women. Lazy selfish men are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:32 PM
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That's not true. Men always should love more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:17 PM
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Don't you think if a woman do it fast with you, she doesn't do it fast with everyone else? That's how exactly it happens btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:16 PM
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Personally I would not consider relationships or even dating man if I wasn't favourite. Furthermore Even if I knew he is seeing or interested in other woman and we get on well I'd only view him as a friend. I appreciate effort and when man know what he wants. If he is not expressing his interest he is not interested. If he is not complimented he is not attracted. Therefore no communication happens. Your case sounds a bit confusing and rather abstract so I assumed possible situations. Can you des…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:48 PM
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It depends what interest your have and how you express it. If you attracted mostly sexually and push her to have sex with you she might not feel comfortable think you are creepy or a simply a fuckboy and want to use her for sex. If you are investing your time to know her as a person, inviting her in interesting dates, do nice things for her and she still rejects you, she is not attracted and it's not because you doing nice things. Every healthy person likes when people nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:15 PM
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I am not sexually attracted to anyone straight away. Although I can admit if they look attractive and pleasant looking. Sexual attraction forms gradually while I get to know a man better and get connected. Although certain repulsive things might prevent from wanting to know man better such bad hygiene weird or creepy behaviour, older age. Fixing those problems would definitely help
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:50 AM
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ya okay
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:03 PM
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are there actually women who buy that manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:59 PM
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Yeah That's overweight. But it's also a big range under 25 considered healthy weight but might not look slim. Could be or 22 or 24 perceived as fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:34 PM
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Do you think prostitution should be prohibited?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:57 AM
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When you say fat what's bmi is that for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:37 AM
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Preditory behaviour when one use their power or money to get sex. For example if some old woman would use her power to get access to young sexy guy. Is the guy preditor? No. she is a preditor. The same time when beautiful woman attracts men who willing to give her money, buy gifts or whetever it's not preditory firsts because its passive, she doesn't actually do anything, and secondary she is not pressuring anyone to sex with her. If we are talking about gold diggers who pretending to have vigor…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 09:21 AM
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You don't have to do that choice. If you don't enjoy certain things you don't have to do it with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 08:12 AM
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Number of matches on dating apps because men thirsty for sex with pretty much anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:30 PM
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Yeah. Most of us knows that. Thats why we don't take what men say any seriously and instead see what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:14 PM
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That's not true. Check true rate me where ugly men get 8 points while young girls who might work as models get 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 03:00 PM
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Who said about spreading legs? That's silly if woman has sex without relationships. Dates are exclusively free will of man. No man is forced to invite anyone on expensive dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:54 AM
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What's issue then? That they don't do it before relationships starts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:49 AM
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Yeah most women who is in relationships do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 09:35 AM
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I like how men in comments here are criticising women to prove that women are critical towards men. Calm down, men and women are both the same critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:59 AM
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For example? What can she bring to table apart from money/material things.?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:03 AM
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If you had chats before it's okay to say about her hairstyle even if you are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:53 PM
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Telling coworker she is sexy is a harassment. You can say something about her work or new hairstyle bit not that she is sexy. Edit. I should probably add that to comment her hairstyle appropriate if you two talked before. If its first comment ever its creepy. Better compliment her work project or ideas - something she achieved and proud of, not her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:14 PM
1

You don't have to use such high-flown words just say Woman who pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:51 PM
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If it feels shitty to pay for a date with woman you attracted to than you are not attracted enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:24 AM
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The thing is balance of risks and benefits. Woman doesn't get atracted to a man that much quickly it takes time. Man sees women and gets attracted straight away. For women as stated before dates are more risky while for men it's safe. In result woman interested in date less than man. Why men are so obsessed with free meals? No women (maybe with small exemptions) go waste their times for free meal with man who they are totally not attracted to. It's one of the filters to see his attitude. Everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 10:17 AM
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Everyone is free to exist and have any expectations they want. There's no obligation to fulfill any expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:14 AM
6

And so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:05 AM
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A possibility to have her in his life. If he doesn't like it he can pass, if he's happy with it he'll keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 12:02 AM
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Maybe women will have ther men dolls?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:18 PM
3

Nothing disastrous will happend. The global trend is violence constantly goes down the last 30 years and becomes less acceptable. Insels will get their advanced sex robots. Prostitution won't be that wide spread as the trends at least in Europe is socialism and universal income. Relationships between ex partners become more civil and dating people with kids will become more normal. In general less people will have relationships as prefer to cohabitation with own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:12 PM
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Yeah serious problems increase risk of divorce. It's the same that men more likely to leave sick spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:52 PM
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It depends. If those attributes didn't initially exist I wouldn't be attracted because mens ability to protect and provide is the most masculine quality. ( not talking with exaggerated deep voice and dominating around) If something happens then we go through hard times together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:16 PM
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Of course, I have real orgasms while masturbating or having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:58 PM
3

I am not talking about physical protection against criminals or wild animals. Although one time travelling in other country we were attacked by pack of stray dogs. My husband got a stones and drove all them away. Situation like this happens even in modern time. I am mostly taking about protecting from stresses, and his ability to sort things out. But I can't disagree with you that wrong men definitely cause more danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:40 AM
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Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:21 AM
2

When it comes to the stage of camping together all moves are already done
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:18 AM
2

Why can me only get one of the? They can get many things. If a man feel that his needs are not met he probably would end relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:02 AM
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When they say makeup they think about slutty badly done makeup which very often makes a girl look worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:47 PM
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it's the other way around. When a man is not able to pair bond he will be promiscuous. Not like he was able to and then due to promiscuity lost that ability. Men who are relationships material have relationships instead of ons. This is just one of the markers to filter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:22 PM
2

I am afraid of wasps and spiders. Can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:07 PM
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companionship: You could get that from a friend, couldn't you? I can, but when you spend a lot of time with a person its much nicer when they are also your friend. Such relationships are more stable. Emotional connection with SO is different than just with a friend. It's a new level of intimacy. Relationships without emotional connection just don't make sense to me. Affection is all those nice things which you say to each other, including physical affection cuddles, kisses, cute names. Resources…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:02 PM
6

I am glad I made you laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:40 PM
1

ahah poor cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:33 PM
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Protection is not necessary from immediate danger. But I prefer to feel safe if some emergency situation occurs such a fire or spider in the house. Marriage, when two are friends as well, is more stable. It's nice when you sharing interests and can have a laugh at a good joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:32 PM
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I need companionship, emotional connection, friendship, affection, resourses, protection, to love and feel loved. and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:44 PM
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I never experienced such a problem. Men who are psychologically mature and healthy have no problem to commit to a woman who they want to be with. Women who sleep around due to bad filtering tactic and personality issues also meet/attract men with personality disorders, then, of course, they will struggle to get a commitment. They will struggle even if they get it. Every man decides what they are looking for and want they want in the relationships. They might want love, commitment, sex, affection…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:37 PM
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There are a few things to consider. You don't know each other and were raised in different counties. Are you even compatible? Is the girl actually willing to get married to you or she would do as she told? What happened if the marriage doesn't work? Is she staying or going back to homeland? Are you personally willing to start a family or it's act of desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:46 AM
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Agree. Health concerns is a big thing. But also the ability to pair-bonding. Promiscuous men are not able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:31 AM
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That's it's not equal relationships then. How exactly do you think your husband going to help? How are you going to share finances, while your pregnant, recovering after birth and taking care of a child? At that time you won't be able to perform as good at work and earn as much. Is he going to borrow you money and then you would have to pay back? Because once the man got used to paying only for himself it's unlikely that he would change this mindset. This is important questions to think about if…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:05 AM
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Problem-solving. For example, when some stressful situation happens, something is broken, or whatever happens, I know he'll fix the problem like a superhero. I know I always can rely on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:57 PM
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It' such a silly thing to assume. I advocate for women to choose worthy men suitable for long term relationships, ideally life long. Obviously it won't work without love and emotional connection. The relationships described in the topic will unavoidably lead to divorce as soon as a woman realises her life became worse after marriage. Then again the man would cry about why did she leave such a nice guy. It all was discussed million times about what women invest. Anyway, you are free to choose the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:21 PM
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If your woman jas similar quality of body then it's ok. If you are looking for woman with nicer figure you have to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:59 PM
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Because in what's called equal relationships women invest more. It's not actually equal. Why would I want that? I am embraced my sexuality. And I can tell you what's sexy and what's not: When man wants woman to pay its antisex, when wants her money its antisex. Mommy's boy who can't take responsibility is absolute antisex. As a woman I do enjoy sex, but I can perfectly survive without without it as so the majority of women. While men need sex and keep crying all over that they are lonely. In thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:56 PM
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You can react whetever tou want. Its irrelevant to me. You are free to chose the way of dating whetever suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:31 PM
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What happens when you decided to have child? Is he going to carry half term?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:25 PM
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yes, I prefer more traditional relationships. I treat my man with love and respect like in any healthy relationships. I don't need to take too much on my shoulders and to be bossy as he has the competence and proved it many times by making the right decisions. Usually, bossy women paired with useless men, they don't have much of choice but grow balls and be bossy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:43 PM
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Beauty is the most thing men want in women and we are like "do it regardless". No, we don't do it regardless. We are well aware of what men like and do practises to be attractive for men. That one of the things we bring to the table. Men can't bring it and have to bring something which we appreciate. Usually its resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:33 PM
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we do it for ourselves of course. It's self-investment to be more attractive and get a better man and keep him attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 01:23 PM
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Disgusted me or disgusted with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:58 PM
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Of course, men do. That's why ladies do not have sex before he commits. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:52 PM
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I would never agree to his. That scenario would favour man but not me. To be feminine takes way more effort. Wearing dresses, take care of long hair, diet and constant exercises, hair removal, skin care, nails. Wearing high heels and make up. Most of that things are uncomfortable if not harmful and takes time and money. Equal woman would wear jeans, jumper and short hair with no make up and of course hairy legs and other parts, just like man and they would also adopt kid or use surrogate mother.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:10 AM
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Better young nurses. They can do CPR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:51 PM
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Some people will agree to have a sex with dead body if payment is high enough. It doesn't mean its healthy and natural. Of course rich old man can buy young escort who will play a quality performance being a wife, have a side young lover and wait until old goat will play in a box and get inheritance. I don't judge anyone to choosing this path but wouldn't do it myself as its gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:41 PM
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I never said all that people greasy hair. It is a figure of speech. Clooney and Pitt are old men. Women only tolerate sex because they rich and famous and they want to get some of their money and fame. Sex with old person is unhealthy, gross and unnatural. Old people should minding their grand children and grow radish in the garden, not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:23 PM
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Attractive is a wide term. Are the guys attractive? Are women more attractive than them? Maybe all of them relatively attractive and have relationships. Most people look alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:16 PM
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When old men approach or text me or watch me with greasy looks it's the most gross thing in the world. No no no noooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 09:56 PM
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I absolutely agree with that statement. I always recommend my female friends to engage with a man for exlusively long term relationships and only if he keep expressing explicit enthusiasm and prove that he is worthy to have relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 09:44 PM
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You can get a long term relationships with woman in your league instead of searching for casual sex. In older times not many men got casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:18 PM
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I thought 80% men considered below average based on looks? How majority can have serviceable features? Also good in bed and penis size are two separate things. Average man has 6 inches. High value man has to have above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:57 PM
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I am absolutely fine with porn or mastubation as long as it doesn't become unhealthy addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 12:16 PM
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The problem is guy very often overestimate their smv. Good evidence of it is Rate me subreddit where guys get higher rates than women. You choose guy who looks 5, but he thinks he is 8 and in his head you are below his league and you should be happy to hook up with him. What to look for is common interests. If he is interested he won't rush things , he will invest his time and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:09 AM
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I don't have evidence that people degraded since 30 years ago. Although if it happened it affected both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:19 AM
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No that's not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:59 PM
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Yes that's manipulation. You never give her honest answer that you primary interested in sex because she will walk away. By not answering this question or making indirect lie you pretend that you might be boyfriend material, good man and give her fake sense that relationships are possible. She doesn't have sex with you, she does it with fake image of possible boyfriend that you created.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:54 PM
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Okay how do you answer if girl on the date ask you "Are you looking for something serious or just sex?". (which is silly question to ask but it happens)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:43 PM
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I disagree that everything is manipulation. of course while dating peole are tending to present themselves from the best side it's still their real personalites while In pua you pretend to have some qualities and personality which you don't have just to manipulate women to have sex with your by giving them fake sense of future and that you are actually interested in them. They wouldn't do it with your real self if you directly tell them what are you looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:30 PM
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Interesting that you haven't mentioned face features and penis size. Kinda important things don't you think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:14 PM
1

Have you ever thought that you migh attract or choose specific type of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:11 PM
1

Sounds a bit blury. What qualities has a man with high SMV and with high RMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:41 PM
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They don't mind to wait for sex if interested in woman's personality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:39 PM
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Describe what's high value guys in your understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:13 PM
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Men are sexually attracted to pretty much anything. Women should not take it personally. It's a big mistake to thinking about locking down any men. Let him decide what he wants. Without having sex with him. Sex only with boyfriend. It's not women's responsibility to make stranger men happy. They can hate all they want, not our problem. If she wants sex that badly and can't hold it then yeah she can have sex with available man but not expect anything from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 01:43 PM
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Next group of players? They can be anywhere they want it doesn't bother me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:54 PM
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Doesn't it make you sad or miserable knowing that you have to use manipulations to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:44 PM
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Yes I am happily married and most of my friends are also married or in long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:32 PM
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And a good surgeon always will recognize who has a fake face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:31 PM
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Just don't have sex with them if they cant decide if they attracted to that woman enough or not. When a man can't make his mind it's so unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:28 PM
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I personally always had a good intuition about players and successfully avoided them. And the most my female friends also did the same. Although some women don't have this intuition and they don't have life experience yet to recognize who is player. It's not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:24 PM
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Ahh ok, TRR men, fair enough. In this case, not a surprise that trashy women your target audience, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:14 AM
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No man is good enough to have early sex with. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 09:47 AM
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First of all, women don't have disgust for men who struggle with a woman. We have disgust for men who are women haters, see women as something less of a human and complains about inability to use women into sex. If my brother had this problem I would advise him to start looking at women as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:12 PM
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sorry, who manipulate with who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:44 PM
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FDS doesn't have rules of how man Must perform. Men have their holy right to perform whatever they want, but FDS rules how to filter out men who are not the high value from the FDS point of view. There is no need to specifically mention of how to be an attractive woman as it is a piece of common knowledge - to be pretty, feminine, smart, skinny and have a nice personality, and low n count. that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:25 PM
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Jeez where's this wet fantasies about 40 men from?. The vast majority of women had a very few partners and don't do sex on the first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:01 PM
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All relationships are transactional even if we don't think or conscious about it. We are all ready to give something and want to get something from it. It's not necessarily material things it could be things like affection, love, commitment, sex, emotions, validation, companionship, intimacy, friendship. Healthy relationships are when everyone is happy about what they get. When a man has a crush on woman he usually invests more. That's a reality of life. then things balance out. Perhaps some min…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:23 AM
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No, I don't think they aren't seen as valuable. Adequate people appreciate the effort and nice things and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:53 AM
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Only 1st answer. Never changed my mind. Sex with beloved person is beautiful and magic. Sex with stranger eww.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:01 AM
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if it is consensual then it's grand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:54 PM
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nah porn is okay. Again if it's not something abusive or illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:41 PM
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Masturbate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:39 PM
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If its individual escort girl ( not abused underage, trafficked drugg affict) who is ok about her job, then it's not immoral to hire her. Although I personally would avoid man who used escort
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:35 PM
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You portraying some creepy but reasonably looking (otherwise woman won't date him anyway) psychopath who just wants the opportunity to pump and dump some woman he is not that much attracted to, who would invest a lot of time and money into non-sexual activity. That's highly unrealistic, would be too obvious and unlikely happens in real life. I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:29 PM
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Not necessary 200 on one date, normal people do a lot of dates before have sex and relationships. Of course he will think about "wasting " money if he only wants to get his dick wet but will be okay with spending if he actually like that woman. As I said a man who is interested will invest in the relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:44 PM
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Men rarely invest too much just to get sex . They want sex cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:34 PM
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20 bucks for a date is not really spending money. And if he is not getting his dick wet after that 20 bucks date he'll probably withdraw himself as he doesn't want to invest too much time and money for just getting dick wet which is proves my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:32 PM
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Yeha that's why I said resources And time. Richer men would spend more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:22 PM
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It's not true. Man who wants only sex usually wants it with as many women as possible and he tries to spend as little money as possible because resources are limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:21 PM
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​ Attention from a man means nothing he just wants sex. If a man interested in you he will invest his time and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:59 AM
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Obviously some men do lie to get sex. The good news that women have an absolute control over his situation. Don't jump in the bed straight away. Look at what man does, how he invest in relationships. Smart women perfectly able to filter manipulative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:51 AM
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That's delusion. All men in their 50s look like they are 50. I don't understand what makes women in 30s to go for it. Do you pay them or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:45 AM
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What kind of women in their 30d attracted to old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:43 AM
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Exactly It's very unfortunate for a woman to be a Pickme. They don't only have unhappy relationships but are also blamed for it. That's why it's important to educate young girls and help them to detect this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 04:27 PM
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*Good for Low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:19 PM
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Pickme raised the way to choose abusive men. They think abuse is love. When they gain life experience they might realise it's all wrong, go to therapy and try to fix it. it might happen after very damaging abusive relationships but at the young age they have very little chance to have healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:15 PM
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Pickme is a woman with no self respect or boundaries who thinks that she is not good enough and needs to earn love and approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:04 PM
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You surrounded by misirable people then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:02 PM
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Imagine some people are actually likable, able to pair bonding and don't need to be settled down for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 01:43 PM
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Definitely he will regret of not being bitter red piller or incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:44 AM
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After reading comments from men here I appreciate my husband even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 10:28 PM
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I would say before 30 yo women like men around the same age or a bit older. After 30 yo women are more attracted to men below 30-35. Young men are generally more attractive. However, women are more realistic and they know 25 yo man unlikely chooses 35 yo woman, and also they might no be mentally mature enough so they choose men around their age. Also if they are already married and in love, they won't look for a younger man as ageing happens slowly and she still remembered him young and sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:42 PM
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Trashy desperate women who don't have morals or self-respect have sex with the same trashy men with no morals or self-respect. Nothing to do with attraction, just both don't have any other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:01 PM
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Most my female friends avoid men with high n count. It always was like that. Promiscuous people fucking with each other getting STDs, and normal poeple have relationships with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:01 AM
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Obviously online harassment discourages women to use online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:30 PM
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I only partly agree. Some men are only interested in sex. You can read it here on reddit so much about spinning plates, fwb, pump and dump and in general the way those men are talking about women. Nothing there about romantic connection. Other men are interested in relationships and if they are not looking for someone above their league they usually have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:21 AM
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If I refuse sex to man I am not in relationships with and then a man leaves I absolutely can assume that he is only interested in sex. I didn't refuse communication or my company. What fake situation are you talking about? I don't have enough reason to trust him as much as he doesn't have a reason to trust me. In a healthy situation things devep naturally and I don't have to refuse as man respects me enough to not give inappropriate suggestions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:33 PM
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It didn't work for me that way, I wasn't unintentionally screwing things up by playing games but rather just having standards. I only have sex with man who I have relationships with and who loves me. I am not interested in sleeping around and definitely didn't think: "ohh noo I turned off a man who wanted use me for sex ". I use the experience to learn men better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:13 PM
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Its not like testing the man it's more like to filter men out to find suitable one. For example If she is not interested in casual she will refuse have sex filtering out men who wants casual sex quickly. And so on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:34 PM
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It's not an inflated women's ego is a reason to refuse men, but the desire for happiness. Years before the woman had to get married as she wasn't allowed work, she couldn't provide for herself, or her father would give her away to some man who she might not even like, but would have to tolerate. Nowadays relationships are not compulsory for survival and woman can think about what she wants and what makes her happy. The woman can estimate is it good for her to be with a particular man who express…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:20 AM
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How can you be attached to any sexy person? For attachment you need at least to spend some time with that person and know them at some degree and to have something in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:17 PM
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She was saying exactly that and I disagreed. I also disagree with your statement that men are only forcefully loyal. Everyone has opportunity to cheat but not everyone does that. It's all about attracting and choosing certain types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:15 PM
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I disagree that most men want to have multiple women. Most men in my circles are interested in long term relationships or already have one. Promiscuous men are only a part of the population. When a woman can't get commitment means that out of all men she is attracting or choosing promiscuous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:22 PM
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In my experience, I have never had a situation where a man didn't pay or let me pay, or ask me to split bills. I guess if men ask me to pay it would be a signal that he is not interested and it means that I should not consider him as a potential boyfriend. Although I very rarely went on dates with strangers. Usually, they were people who I already had some sort of connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:01 PM
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Sounds like Simps are the best men and boyfriend/husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 11:33 AM
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I am not sure, as I am still trying to figure out what a Simp is and what is his pathological behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:04 AM
2

And what if relationships are on the stage of dating and without sex yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:57 AM
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Not everywhere in the world is the US. Although I am really happy for US girls that they have good self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:01 PM
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What if "Simp" genuinely likes that woman and by being nice gets her attention and they have happy relationships. Is that "Simping" too? Any guy who does a lot of things for woman he is interested in is "Simp" or it has to be one-sided or nonreciprocal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:44 PM
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Still not enough information. Please describe relationships. - Is that love, connection? Is it happy relationships. Are we both satisfied? - Are they transactional when he only was interested in looks and I only interested in money? -Please elaborate on " he treats me fine". What exactly is he doing? -Is he won me over or I done impossible and got commitment? What exactly impossible did I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:33 PM
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That's 100% harassment. Especially they have a landlord-tenant relationship and potentially he has power over her. Dude deserved troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:21 PM
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It depends. If that happy healthy relationship with love and strong bond? Or it was a transactional exchange of beauty to wealth? How is he treating me? How things were changed after he lost money and looks? Did he start to treat me better or worse after that? What exactly impossible things did I done to get a commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:13 PM
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Slut and Pickme are two different things. The common thing they are both unhappy and have personality issues. Slut probably was abused, or neglected in childhood and has daddy issues. She wants an emotional connection but doesn't know what's healthy emotional connection is, and instead gets sex. Pickmeisha has very low self-esteem, most likely went through abuse too, she was told all her life that she is not good enough, that she should work hard to deserve to be loved, and if she doesn't have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:31 PM
2

Thats dishonest but probably your partners have the same high n count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:01 AM
22

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:36 PM
46

of course, men have their right to have views about promiscuous women. Although if they are promiscuous themselves but expect relationships with non-promiscuis women that's hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:36 PM
43

Promiscuous men have problems with establishing emotional attachments, might have STDs, most likely will cheat and use women as plates and in my experience generally shallow people. Better avoid them altogether. I didn't feel judged for this IRL as my female friends have the same attitude toward it and I don't talk about it with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:26 PM
3

That sound very toxic indeed. Although it's to the best really if these men withdraw themselves after 3rd date and not waste women's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:50 PM
5

Some women do go on dates to get sex themselves but its a very small per cent and I personally don't know any women who does that. Other women get pressured or manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:00 PM
14

We definitely are pressured. I had those experience twice. It made me feel that those men were only interested to have sex and of course I refused. I think its important for women to learn to let go men who have this rules and not take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:48 PM
1

Safety is basic human need
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:57 PM
4

You have your right to act in your own interest. Its bad for tou to stay around frienzonned hoping that she will like you back. If you feel unhappy in this situation, better to break up and let it go. For me as woman it would be sad if my friend leave me, it could be even heartbreaking but its understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:07 AM
10

Nobody is forced to be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:36 PM
1

All decent men who I know doing alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:24 AM
2

If they don't have high sex drive they don't have from the beginning of the relationships. I think topic is when sex life died out with time and I explain why it can happen. As a woman I can definitely say that level of stress and tiredness affects sex drive. And that's exactly what often happens in ded bedrooms marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:02 PM
1

They need to figure out what's the root of problem then. I can't imagine healthy relationships with dead bedroom, because sex is very natural part of relationships unless one of partners is sick or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:42 PM
-1

Dead bedroom is usually connected with over tiredness. When woman works full time, take care of home and children she has no mood or energy for sex. If it added to a lack of any effort from man to be attentive and nice to her it will result of dead bedroom. It means some attention and care from man can solve the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:53 AM
2

Like Any men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:47 PM
4

It's a poor decision indeed to have sex with some dude and hoping for commitment from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 09:28 PM
5

I agree. People can have ugly faces but be super healthy. Everyone like very slim women while women looking chubby but in healthy BMI range are still can be perfectly healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:36 PM
1

I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:00 PM
0

Eveyone is hypergamous not just women. Women want the best man they can get, men want the best woman they can get if we are talking about relationships. If we strip away all the personality qualities Men want hot sexy girlfriend, women want tall and wealthy man. Yes, for casual sex men are not very picky the same as women are not very picky of who they want to friendzone. People don't need to be ashamed of their requirements but everyone only gets what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:36 PM
6

Maybe Clooney when he was 20 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 10:09 AM
4

I think its more about the ability to understand own feelings and express them in a healthy way. There are no unemotional people, but some people, especially men, are disconnected from emotions. Relationships with such people are hard and very often unhappy. Advice for men to stop show emotions are harmful and traumatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:10 PM
4

Its impossible to say are they compatible or not base on provided information. What are they looking in relationships? What their life values? Interests? Temper? Attitude towards money, sex? What are they political views?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:30 PM
0

It's not like they are missing on young love. The majority of men don't have any problems to find a girlfriend while they 18-24, but they don't want to at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:38 AM
1

Usually, if guy interested in you he won't only spend money but also give you attention in other ways, be there for you if you need help, genuinely interested how are you doing, for example, make sure if you are warm if you are walking and its cold weather and small things like that. Only spending money is an insufficient sign as he might have loads of money and try to get sex this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:48 PM
1

If he didn't choose me and I didn't choose him we are not in relationships. Why would I have sex with that man? Yeah, I value safety in my relationships and I am absolutely fine with not competing for having "Higher quality mate" such as men's underwear model, a rock star, millionaire or whatever. as a normal person, I don't have overly high requirements and I am absolutely happy with the normal man who has a good personality, decent job and interests in life, tall, nice looking, intelligent, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:11 AM
3

How're skinny fingers unattractive? Does it mean big fat fingers attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:04 AM
6

Father is right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:40 PM
-1

Lol you sounds like male princes who wants women dancing around. That's not attractive, lazy and low value. High quality man knows what he wants and doesn't need a circus with horses to make decision if he like me or not. I am married to awesome man while you can hope that some desperate women will start to compete for you. They won't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:31 PM
0

that cheap manipulation won't make even the most losery women compete for unworthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:16 PM
1

if your personality is so basic and shallow that can be learned in less than 3 months, they definitely should not wait for so long and filter you out already now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:33 PM
1

Ahahah no thanks, I prefer seeing my husband during the week and weekends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:17 AM
1

Exactly. It doesn't need to be understood literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:15 AM
7

Thats ok. Other women can have him. Taking part in competition for a man is silly .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:13 AM
3

It's not about 3 months waiting, its about let things develop slowly and allow people to know each other. It not necessarily end up in relationships they might decide they don't suit each other, just in genral it takes a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:06 AM
0

This
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:21 AM
6

I am not a traditionalist but there 's a correlation which I can't neglect. No father, or divorced parents, mental problems, alcohol, sometimes, drugs and casual sex. Of course, it might not be big enough sample but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:24 PM
13

It's definitely not for everyone. I know a few people who's into it and they do not seem to be happy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:12 PM
2

It's a great strategy for both men and women as a woman doesn't have to even filter that man out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:07 PM
2

and he never will be on radar while a woman is spending her energy on FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:00 PM
1

Now I got confused lol. I thought in alpha-beta religion alpha is the one who is sleeping around and beta who has a job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:58 PM
1

It's all subjective. For me, an attractive man is kinds, funny, committed, intelligent, kind, purposeful, decent looking and have emotional intelligence. Definitely not a fuckboy. Doesn't have to be gym resident.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 08:09 PM
-1

Because women give advice on how to build happy relationships while men ask how to manipulate women to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:53 PM
1

all that alpha and beta thing sounds losery
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:41 PM
2

I think part of the problem is that most women are socialized to view sex as a bargaining chip ... as something they "give up" in order to get something of value, thus it's possible they view a FWB arrangement as being "cheated" since they're not receiving anything tangible in exchange for access to their orifices. I don't believe women are taught to see sex something to exchange, quite opposite the last few decade's women encouraged to have casual sex, denying what actually women want and need …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:39 PM
0

There is no such thing. There are people with healthy personalities and ones with disorders. Promiscuous people definitely have some disorders. Disorders are unattractive and they noticeable. Relationships with such people unhappy, and therefore they should be avoided until they fixed their problems. I already picked a healthy adequate attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:55 PM
1

Of course, men have the right to choose women due to their standards as well as women have their right to choose. I am just saying that relationships with a man with too many partners most likely will make woman unhappy so they should avoid such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:36 PM
0

It's great that you are doing well around certain women and happy but it still doesn't revoke the fact that women should filter men with many previous partners away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:29 PM
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It's weird that they asked. Usually when a man is a fuckboy its noticeable without any questions. Its just body language, some small things. It's not the number of previous partners is a problem but that man has problems with establishing and keeping emotional attachments. At this stage, it requires professional help to work out what cause those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:20 PM
9

That's perfect evidence that women should wait. it's a perfect way to filter out men who are not suitable for relationships. Man with 80 body count should not be accepted by any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:09 PM
5

I am talking about trends, something which is fair for the vast majority of women. Women want commitment, emotional attachment, relationships, want to feel special. Some women tricked into believing that ONS, FWB is cool and somehow empowering but in reality it makes women unhappy and miserable. Of course, I don't deny that there are exceptions and if you feel truly happy and fulfilled with your life choices good for you but this is not the case for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:55 PM
7

Virgin is a bit weird but better than a fuckboy. Ideally its a man with some experience of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:41 PM
1

Ahh I got what you mean. You are right. If man pushes sex he is unattractive for relationships. But trying to figure out n count is counter productive as its result of personality traits not a reason. Better to focus on specific traits and behaviours for choosing a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:56 PM
4

For me, a nice date absolutely would not be a reason to have sex with a man. Although in the future it might escalate to more communication, flirting, emotional connection, and if we both feel that we want to be together then sex happens. That how my relationships developed. Sex itself even with good looking man is not something interesting. Paying for a date its just a symbolic gesture, a message from a man that he is is interested and want to continue communicating with me. I would not go on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:35 PM
6

FWB is an illusion, a self lie and the way for lazy men to get free sex. If women have FWB is neither friends nor benefits. My observation of women having this type of relationships shows that the "the friendship" ends right after the man meets woman he is actually interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:49 PM
1

What do you mean, sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:45 PM
2

If she easy agrees to have sex with you, it's not because you are such an alpha but shes probably did the same to every other man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:30 AM
9

Most of women can help themselves. Masturbation is better than sex with random dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:24 AM
2

I am sorry to hear that. If you have disorder then you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:33 AM
1

You won't have any lose skin at the point. Losing weight when you are 19 is soooooo easy. Just cut out junk food, eat moderately and add exercise and check weight time to time. good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:24 AM
1

You are obsessed. I wasn't talking about having sex. Men being forced to live life alone You can live with your male friends in cohabitating to avoid living alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:58 AM
6

They can live together with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:25 AM
15

I agree. Sexual attraction is overrated. When woman surrounded by horny men its hard to see the one who is actually viewing her as a person and wants more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:45 AM
7

I guess men get emotionally mature slightly later. That's why people with 2-3 years difference usually have the best compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:12 PM
1

That's fair enough. If someone is not nice to you better to leave them. Problem with Pickme she has no time limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:30 PM
2

Anyways I wish you the best of luck in finding what you are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:07 AM
2

I think we might have different notion about what pleasing orientation means. To me is One sided willing to satisfy somebody else needs while totally neglecting own. Can you give your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:00 AM
3

Ah, you don't need to be a mind reader to notice that. It can be seen in a small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:22 PM
3

Women with self respect won't choose man who thinks other women should be treated like trash. That's just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:19 PM
3

Well then its not surprise that you looking for women with no self respect .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:15 PM
2

Do you please any women even who treating you badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:09 PM
3

Do you get dopamine by pleasing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:05 PM
2

Maternal orientation doesn't need approval, it's rather instinctive, like being caring person. Pleasing comes from insecurities. The purpose of pleasing is not making someone happy but to get a validation that she deserves love. this can be used by certain men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:00 PM
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I am not sure if there much difference. Usually people who has pleasing orientation think they are not good enough and try to deserve approval by pleasing others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:47 PM
6

If she has boundaries, self respect, knows what she wants then shes not pickmeisha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:42 PM
6

Commitment doesn't mean she is treated good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:18 PM
13

Picmeisha in my understanding is a woman who has no boundaries, who allows to treat herself badly, who allows men to use her. She is a plate, fwb, woman who forgives cheating and everything. She has emotional issues, probably had abusive parents, has fear of abandonment, thinks she's not good enough. She is unhappy person. No decent man would want his woman be this way but she's a victim not an evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:03 PM
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Its all in women's power to not sleep around without commitment. There is no reason for women to become plate, be pumped and dumped. Its all about self respect really and filtering unworthy people in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:59 PM
2

I had a bad experience in previous relationships. In my current relationships, it's great. It all depends on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:30 PM
17

I never heard of any woman who would start a relationship with a man and didn't want sex with him. It all goes together. Sex, love commitment. Except for relationships with old men, then women are disgusted to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:50 PM
3

the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:41 PM
3

it called insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:56 PM
6

You are right. Even if relationships are just Okay woman unlikely to leave them because she is still emotionaly attached. Even horrible relationships sometimes last long (unfortunately) If she left relationships it was unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:47 PM
4

The most decent people who I know have no problem to get relationships. The thing is they are not interested in sleeping around. The ones who can't get partners usually have some personality problems. Those men who complain they want to have casual sex with many women and can't achieve it. Of course, manipulative tactics might work with some women as well as stealing money might work to make you rich. It's both dishonest behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:15 PM
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I don't belive man becomes nice or bad as a response to his success at women. Personality forms long before that. Even looking at kids you can see this is a nice kid, this one is a nasty little prick. Nice men are nice because they developed this way. If a man is trying to be nice to gain a profit he is not a good person. There are kind, honest men who are just being this way independently of their desire to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:23 PM
2

Importance of sex for men is understandable. I wouldn't downplay it at all. The problem is that the fulfilment of this need very often happens at the expense of women when men use them for casual sex, spinning plates, NSA sex and so on. When a man can't get sex is harmful to him, when a woman is used for sex it's harmful to her. As a woman in control to decide what's good for her and can reject a man who she thinks is only interested in sex it might hurt man but preserves woman from being hurt. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:22 PM
2

Isn't that fucked up? Can't fuck them no more because they "like you so much" and want more. Feels like a punishment to me. Seems like everyone is unhappy in this situation. Maybe it's time to change strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:22 AM
4

But you know where it is going every time. You know that you gonna string them along, which result to hurt them, you know that you're clearly not interested in relationships. Why not just to say as an honest person, at the beginning before they developed feelings, and girls will decide if they still want to go for it or find someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:11 PM
5

when it's only a 1% chance, and you are aware of that, it is not very honest. If you are confident in your attractiveness for sex why not to say about your intentions directly? Of you think she'll refuse you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:40 PM
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It's very important to communicate directly without manipulations. For example direct and clear: "I am not looking for something serious, just have fun." "I am looking for casual sex." "I am looking for FWB". Indirect and manipulative: "Just see where it goes". "I need time to think about what I want". "I need to have sex to know if I want relationships"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:14 PM
17

not just sex, but using as many women as possible for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:04 PM
2

Good guys do absolutely exist. Good doesn't mean that they don't have self-respect and will be a doormat for any woman. It's confused with men who shallow and miserable and pretend to be nice to get laid and if they do have options they will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:12 PM
1

Yeah I am sure some women do that, other ones not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:44 AM
1

patience. Where have you seen divorce happen so quickly? It has to be long and painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:35 AM
1

too late Divorce rape already have begun!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:12 AM
1

Beware I am already on the way to steal of your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:08 AM
1

no I am female meninist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:06 AM
3

Not everyone's life goal of rubbing genitals with as many women as they can. A lot of men actually wants relationships. Most of my friends have relationships or married. In my college, most people from my group have boyfriends or girlfriends. I think men here exaggerate quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:02 AM
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women abolutely don't have to participate in hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:45 AM
1

Man can kill or injure woman literally with bare hands. I bet it happens more often than stealing houses and all the money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:25 AM
2

You talking about quite extreme examples. Man can do worse than that. Its late night I have a good imagination and don't want to think about some terrible things. We are comparing when man uses women for sex and women use lets say the same man for money such making him buy her things and not having sex with him at the end. I think emotional trauma for women would be worse because man was't attached to her, so he can sex with any other woman. It's the same as lose a wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:11 AM
1

so then it's equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:35 AM
0

If he was emotionally attached to his money it could cost him some mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:06 AM
1

Yeah it can happen to a men but it's rather untypical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:05 AM
1

I am sure the data is true but people confuse cause and effect. It's not like with each new partner person become less capable of building LTR. Each person is more or less developed by 18 years old. Initially, people who are inclined and capable of pair-bonding will pair bound, have love and long term relationships hence have low body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:26 PM
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in my experience, if a man is genuinely interested in me as a person, he won't insist on sex ASAP and be totally fine to let things developed slowly and enjoy my company, as human interaction and relationship are much more than just physical. Also for me its a sign of confidence and developed personality. It's not true that men are Primary looking for sex. The best men who I know have or looking for long term relationships. Men who state that the first thing they are looking for is sex are emoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:56 PM
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Man cooking is kinda sexy. Although the big part is letting women to have a rest. Tired women won't have energy for sex. That's why now in quarantine people have more time and everyone having sex. I even heard that's it might be deficiency of condoms in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:01 AM
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I am surprised to read that men so often expect women to pay. It never happened with me in real life. Although its okay if people are friends and they split bills especially if they are students.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:58 PM
1

awesome. I also think that they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:50 PM
1

how about according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:42 PM
0

not at all. People do stupid things such trusting scammers all the time therefore become victims of the crime and the low protects them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:41 PM
1

so do they lose they value after having casual sex with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:39 PM
3

Yes, you become less value to other people from sex. You are devalued. You don't get to decide how much the gold you own is worth. Other people do Jezz that's your comment, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:33 PM
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If you have such hangups about sex, I think that is your problem to be honest. Nope, I took it directly from your comment, as I can't accurately judge if a woman becomes less valuable or not as I am not a man so I trust the target audience: Yes, you become less value to other people from sex. You are devalued. You don't get to decide how much the gold you own is worth. Other people do. Women do get emotional trauma and according to You, she becomes less valuable for LTR, which is one of the big …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:27 PM
1

okay. You say woman loses her value for LTR after being used for sex. If men think so it's probably the case. Also, it damages her emotional health. Looks like a man who used her for sex pretty much destroyed all her life and future. In this case, it should be a criminal offence, like rape. A man who lost just some of his money, for spending on a woman and not getting sex seems to be in a better situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:47 PM
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devalues means that they become less valuable people. People don't lose their value unless they have done something horrible. The man also doesn't lose his value if he lost some of his money on the golddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:33 PM
5

women gets emotional trauma when they get attached to a man after sex and get dumped, so they lose some of their mental health. It's worse than losing some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:24 PM
3

The equivalent from women's side would be: She uses him for money and friend zones him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:17 PM
1

Okay if you wish we can look at the difference in the initial conditions for men and women. Men have less sexual attention from women. They are less likely to be used for sex. No. men Deliberately looking for hookups, learning PUA techniques and how to manipulate women into having sex with them, while women all the time receive sexual attention and a lot of times they are led on into casual relationships, while they are looking for LTR. Men are easier to get LTR from women as most women want it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:07 AM
1

If my husband had a child from previous relationships I could deal with that if there wasn't any unsolved drama around it for example if he still didn't get over his ex, or there's money or custody fight. To go through pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding sounds scary while to have already made child is kinda nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:54 AM
2

I would call woman misandrist if she had many sexual partner And did't want a man who also had many sexual partners, or had sex with sex worker And did't want a man who also had a sex with sex worker. I think rules should be the same for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:33 AM
1

yeah, there is definitely misogyny and of how men's and women's sexual life perceived in society and even here om PPD. If a man gets laid with loads of women he is bragging about it, other men think he is alpha male, while a woman who had slept with many men is a slut. And very often very the same men who sleep around is the one who calls them sluts and expects the relationship with a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:09 AM
1

If you let to know your intentions to women before you have sex with them, that's all absolutely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:33 PM
2

That sounds sad. What's the point to have kids and pretty much to give them away to some people who honestly don't really care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:21 PM
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I never met anybody in real life who would actually hate the opposite sex, but I know a girl who was a bit aggressive toward men for a short period of time after break up, which is understandable. Then everything was back to normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:50 PM
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Nah...to say something silly or inappropriate is not a big crime. We are all doing it from time to time, but it's important to communicate about the issue. Although if it' an against the basic life values of other person then it's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:42 PM
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For me, sexual history matters a lot. For example, if the man had too many casual relationships or str, I would suspect he has a problem with a pair-bonding, he might have a lack of empathy and be in general not a very nice person as casual sex is very often involves using and hurting women, also he might have narcissistic traits. For me, it's not relationships material and ladies should avoid them. Also, the men who didn't have a lot of casual sex but badly wanted to are also dodgy, they are ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:23 PM
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Nobody forces man to commit by slow dating. Man decided if he want to commit or not during dating. He has an absolute right to withdraw at any moment if he is not happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 07:43 PM
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a very small per cent of women regularly hookups, some other hookups and regret afterwards, the rest doesn't do that at all. I had a very few partners in my life I can't really compare, they all were rather big in my opinion. It's not necessarily good actually, the foreplay and attentiveness are more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:53 PM
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I think it's not fair to demand somebody to pay for the dates or do whatever it's right of the person to decide whether they want to do it or not. However, the woman also has a right to decide if she is happy to go to date with this man or not, no need to make a big drama over it.Also, it's silly to interrogate the man about his life plans and ask all the boring questions on the first date. He is a person she sees the first time ever not a relationships candidate. The first date should be nice a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:21 PM
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I feel sorry for her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:01 PM
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why do you think its rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:00 PM
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It's the realisation that you are willing to spend your life with this person as you feel happy, comfortable together, support and take care of each other, enjoy your time together, have good sex, have similar values and life goals. Why would I look at it as something temporary?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 03:58 PM
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absolutely. Also, very few men in their 20s want relationships. Mostly hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:16 PM
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Yes emotional bond for me plays absolutely the main role in sexual attraction. I met a man, we start to communicate a lot as friends, get closer, then it gets more flirty and man becomes sexually attractive and handsome, even I didn't look at him that way at first. The stories when a woman sees a man and straight away jumps on him happens mostly in porn. Don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:06 PM
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Of course women want successful one but individual is also very important. Rich dickhead - No. Has average money and nice personality -Yes. Has no job, lives with mom, but has nice personality- No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 10:47 AM
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It's not like preference, rather something given. I don't think many women are searching around looking for big dicks. its is an addition to man along many other. If my man has normal penis it's good, if its big- awesome. If its small, even this still ok it does't mean man is not attractive sexually. If some man has big penis it does't mean ladies will fly to it like moths to the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:10 PM
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​ Why would an orgasm feel good for one woman, and bad for another? Why would cuddling and kissing feel good for one woman, but bad for another? It's all those things feels great when it happens with a person who you love. All those women probably loved you so for them it was enjoyable. Sex without emotions is mechanical and just gross for most women. Also, casual sex might be emotionally damaging as women are tending to get attached to their partner while the man still sees it as something casu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:00 PM
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For most women physical and emotional attraction goes altogether, its hard to separate one from another. I would not be physically attracted to visually attractive man if I did't feel emotional connection. If she is in bed with you she probably is not disgusted so don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:28 PM
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of course big size is more sexually attractive, but if a girl already agree to have sex with you she probably likes you already anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:17 PM
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Of course, big size is preferable, but it's not the end of the universe anyways. Nice personality with the average size is better than nasty personality with the bigger size.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:06 PM
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that's absolutely fine, just that's not typical for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:55 PM
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I am sorry they left you, it must be hurtful. I still don't understand if you had experience with only two girls who were practising casual sex, how do you make an assumption that women, in general, find casual sex validating? And also all women from PPD are asexual? It's called being a man. I think this contradicts with what you said before. If women love casual sex than you would have plenty of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:41 PM
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if they are Exact the same, then, of course, the person who succeeds will be better, just it never happens IRL, because there is no exactly the same people. The same, if you have too exact two the same women just one is hotter, you would choose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:23 PM
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yeah, that's ok, failed business still doesn't mean that person is a loser. loser is a person who does nothing and complains and blames all world in their misfortunes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:20 PM
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doings and beings are all thins which makes a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:17 PM
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and what's wrong with them? What the man does and how he lives is also a part of the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:15 PM
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Yeah, of course, it's important how ones got wealth. If he is a drug addict who wins millions on the lottery he is still unattractive, but probably can buy attention from Instagram models. But this is a rather exceptional case. Usually, character correlates with material things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:14 PM
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I don't believe a man with all those qualities will be a total loser. He might not have loads of money but still with have some purpose in life, some carrier and stability and be very attractive for many many woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:09 PM
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If course they are. Its indicate your dedication, intelligence, ambition, purposefulness , skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:17 PM
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The most women absolutely love men for "who they are", just it consist of many things such as character, life values, looks, status, money, interest and many others. If woman doesn't like particular man it means the combination of qualities which he has is not attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 12:57 PM
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2 girls is not enough to be a representative sample. Why did you break from those relationships if it's ok to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:04 AM
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I bet I have more sex than you. Maybe it's you who asexual? 5% of young woman who had emotional trauma in childhood, being depressed and suicidal and used for sex by vultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:40 AM
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It's not HVM if he cheats
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:33 AM
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Casual sex, cuddling and kissing nsa with man who genuinely doesn't care about the woman and put all the efforts just to have sex with her can't be validating. Its nothing to do with sexuality. Women might not engage in casual sex at all and have loads if sex with man they in live with. Sex in love is validating and enjoable. Casual sex is just damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:24 AM
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Only if a partner who they in live with also love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:14 AM
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I am not sure what the roots of the idea of being used is somehow empowering. Maybe it comes from the time when women didn't get to decide who they have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:06 AM
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That's not empowering, its regretful or even emotionally damaging
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:37 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:31 AM
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Not sure if its accurate. Women don't need that water at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:30 AM
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Percent of this women from all population is very low. Maybe 5%. Usually they are women with problem in their upbringing. Distant father, sometimes abuse, lack of love. This make those women try find love and attention by having casual sex as its the most available thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:24 AM
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sending short messages doesn't seem to work either as we can see a lot of comments that OD are useless and men are giving up)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:12 PM
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I am really sorry that you think so. I think the situation where you are preparing to "war" will just drain you out emotionally. In this situation, it's very hard to build healthy relationships because people want an open and emotionally available partner. It's good to work on your independence but rather for yourself as a person not out of expecting some disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:07 PM
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ohh sorry. I did misread your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:57 PM
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That's reality. Women prefer masturbation than casual sex. Well, it shit alright as it hurts some men's ego. if women enjoyed sex as much as I enjoyed women's compagny there wouldn't be sexless people ;) but still not worth money though Congratulations. That exactly how all the ladies fell like. Sex itself for the majority of women has a negative value. The same as just giving money away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:36 PM
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It is very correct analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:17 PM
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that's not bullshit. Women do casual sex hoping on relationships and commitment. Otherwise, they can masturbate as it is much more enjoyable than casual sex. Her (random woman) company without sex is as enjoyable as casual sex with a random man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:12 PM
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casual sex is emotionally damaging for the wast majority of women while committing and giving money to some nice girl at least keeps your company
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:06 PM
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I am not sure if this approach healthy and can make you happy. I think if you have good relationships, trust your partner feel secure and safe you won't need to be emotionally detached to avoid jealousness and your partner won't deliberately try to make you jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:41 PM
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That's good I guess. Worrying of not being good enough won't help
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:11 PM
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Casual sex is not something desirable so no man would be good enough for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:17 PM
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Obviously people with kids are generally less desirable for relationships. Would you date a single mother? You can apply the same to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:34 PM
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Sorry didn't mean to hurt your fragile ego
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:56 PM
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Of course, she said to you that you are such a sex giant lol. That's what women do to amuse the pride of their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:40 PM
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I am sure you are safe from it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:00 PM
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I don't' think you compare chances correctly. When you choose a wider audience, the chance that any girl potentially suits you is very little as you don't spend time to simply read their profile. When you choose a few women you can make sure you and they have something in common. When you send "Hi" with 0,001% chance, it is the chance to get only respond which most likely is also "Hi" as this girls probably answering many other guys who texted her, and this won't go anywhere and real chances tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:41 PM
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DMing doesn't have Zero coast. It costs your Time which could be spend more usefully. When a man sends a thousand meaningless messages, women can see straight away that all this "how are yous" were sand to every single girl around and this attention has zero value and the man who sends it has zero value as a potential date and all of it just annoying. Why not to put an effort on more information enriched message for a limited amount of women. This messages would outstand of the grey mass of "wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:09 PM
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Its the same amount men and women. How every woman can have multiple men around? It only happens if every man sending messages to multiple women. Also if hordes of old men sending messages to younger women. How to fix this problem: Men should limit the number of women they texting and only choose the ones from their league. Old men should text ladies their age group and leave ladies 20 years younger alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:48 PM
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Women like resourceful men when they earn those resources with hard work. If its spoiled dickhead son of rich parents or idiot who won a lottery that's not attractive. Man taking steroids - a big No. That's just totally wrong to screw up the health for improving looks. Even a man who's spending too much time in the gym sounds stupid. Confidence is attractive when it has healthy limits and based on real achievements. Cockiness is just irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:31 PM
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As a woman I can absolutely say that I don't need sex in its raw existence. I can do perfectly fine without it, I can help myself to relief from tension. However I do enjoy it as a part of meaningful relationships with my beloved man. I do definitely need love, care, friendship, security, partnership and all that stuff. If man did't bother to learn about clitoris in modern abundance of information - he is a selfish man who need to be avoided altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:10 PM
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That's very little to do with cultural conditioning. Women don't need that much sex as it is, but some women who didn't have enough love in their life try to substitute it by having loads of sex with men, in some cultures they just not allowed to do so. It usually doesn't make them happy anyway. There are no unskilled lovers, but there are selfish men who do not appreciate their woman, doesn't love her and just want to satisfy their sexual need and don't put any afford to make a woman happy. Of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:35 PM
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They are just being delusional. I all the time getting attention on social media (and sometimes Irl) from old men who's 10, 20, 30 years older than me, despite I am married and it's reflected in my status. I find it creepy and disturbing and disrespecting my privacy. Sometimes I directly tell them that, other times I just block them. I am not sure what way is better. I never dated anyone more than 3 years older than me. My husband is 2 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 11:35 AM
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Nah the most women absolutely don't need sex to survive. Women like sex with a nice man if they have a mood for it but perfectly can go without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:47 AM
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I am more concerned about future muslim virgin wife. Unlikely that a young girl will want ex manwhore in his 30s. So we are talking about arranged marriage which is highly immoral and goes against human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:29 AM
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That sounds like men's world spins around pussies. Why the choice is between degrading by fucking anything that walks or degrading by giving up. You can build your carrier, travel all over the world (after the virus is gone), do something that you enjoy, develop yourself, have loads of friends and spend time with them. The list is endless. You don't need pussy in your life to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:14 AM
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No problem. I hope this information will be useful for somebody. its always nice to learn on somebody's else bad experience rather than own one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 09:02 PM
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For example yelled at me, hit me, kick out of the apartment which we rented, throw me around ( one time I badly hurt my tailbone when fell on office chair wheel and could't sleep on my back for a month, another time I hit my head hard of the wall. Threatening to kill. Criticizing privately and in public, Humiliating, saying really bad things. Calling me old and ugly (I was 22 yo) Could just have tantrum and walk away right on the street. Ah yeah.We were married. Girls. never ever ever get marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:43 PM
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Physically and emotionally abusive. Nowhere near 6 feet, average looking. Mindset is similar to TRP one. Just my own low self-esteem let me stay there until I got smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 08:14 PM
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If a man expressed any TRP inclinations that would be a instant turn-off
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:08 PM
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That's nothing to do with loneliness. These men just dreaming about casual sex with multiple women, pump and dump them, no strings attached and they are frustrated because can't get any. People who are lonely are trying to find friends or long term relationships but not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:20 PM
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No matter what we (women) say, men still fantasise about imaginable promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:33 AM
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I don't understand complaints about this girl greeted other guys and getting messages. You clearly didn't even consider this girl for relationships why should be she loyal to you? An adequate girl would not even meet a stranger for drinks and then bring them home, just because of its unsafe. You deliberately choose trashy girls and then complaining that they are trashy. I guess the root of your discontent was that you paid for drinks and didn't get sex. Why not just pay for a sex worker instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:00 AM
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Ahahah I can imagine. Darling please can you stop giving that dude blowjob ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:45 PM
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I think very often TRP men project their own desires and insecurities on women: if men are horny and want sex with multiple women, women must want the same and as they have all that attention from horny men but refuse them, they must be having casual sex with somebody better, like hot good looking tall Chad. Of course that frustrates men. In my own observation maybe 5% of women participate in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:44 PM
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What about ia she is all above but.. Cheats on you? Stupid? Uses you? Has a bad personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:24 PM
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For me there is only one guy exist- the same man I have relationships and a good time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:34 PM
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There is someone for everyone. The problem is when people have too high expectations and a lot of selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:03 PM
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I am sure you will find your person and you will be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:37 PM
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I guess I have to take my words back as you seem to be decent person. I am sorry that you came through break up and wish you to recover emotionally and get a harmony in your life. Thank you for your advice I am married for 5 years and my relationships is actually great. I had never had a reason to be manipulative and my husband is also open and genuine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:02 PM
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Most women don't want sex without emotional connection. It's nice that you didn't lie to them however if you didn't say directly that you only interested in sex to satisfy your need and not interested in relationships with them you still used that women. That's why I asked why do you find inappropriate for women to use men if you are using women yourself.( not because I personally use someone) I think some of the FDS strategies can help avoid abusive relationships or heartbreak while other are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:33 PM
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Intelligent, purposeful, quirky, carrying, honest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:07 PM
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That's a very interesting opinion and I am afraid might be true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:36 PM
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I think reputation of cold approaches is spoiled by PUA. When men using their techniques it looks too obvious. Women don't want to be used. Also men approach the most attractive girls who gets a lot of attention and of course are not interested in them. Why don't men want to feel loved by average or less attractive girls who might be lovely people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:51 PM
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Not exactly. We met online, while living in different part of world and initially even didn't see each other's pics. We just had nice chat as two human beings and got on well together. The problem with approaches is not that men are not pleasant to talk to, but that they are not trying to genuinely get to know the woman, and their approaches are only based on sexual attraction. If men saw women as human beings, went to them for conversations without asking phone number and invitation to "chill o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:23 PM
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Yeah I read you comment and it sounds like you don't mind to using women for you own benefits, which let me wonder why do you have an issue if women do much the same ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:56 PM
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Haha It's like meeting dinosaur out on street . Probability is 1/2 you do or you don't. I mean as anyone else I have certain combination of traits, interests and values from the wide spectrum of possible ones. The probability that some dude who approached me because he found me " cute" ( and wanted satisfy sexual needs), had similar traits, interests and values is very low. Before I got close with my husband we were chatting for months as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:49 PM
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The same for me. When a stranger approaches me I always find it threatening. What is he is a maniac who is gonna kill and eat me? Also, we unlikely to have something in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 10:15 AM
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That's great if you date and sleep with attractive women and have fulfilling life and happiness but why are you so angry about other women choosing men who is willing and able to provide for their women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:26 AM
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This marriage wouldn't work practically if people planning to have kids. It very often happens when people pay 50/50. First it goes alright but then woman gets pregnant, while still working, then recovering after childbirth looking after baby and still working and paying rent. At the end she gets exhausted from all the work on her shoulders, start nagging and relationships become nightmare and they get divorced. I personally appreciate a lot that my husband is able to provide for me and I can st…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 08:46 PM
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It's not something I believe or not. It's just info which I learned from TRP sources. "FDS want relationships with TRP men because they see TRP men as being a good catch. " We are now back from where we started. This statement is an opinion and it needs more evidence. We can compare traits which FDS finds attractive or not with TRP traits (or whatever TRP men apply or do) According to FDS ( information from their community) things such spinning plates, involvement in casual sex, manipulations, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 10:40 PM
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It depends. If it's some stranger then, of course, a woman doesn't care how much calories eat that dude, why would she. If it's her husband/boyfriend then the most women are usually supportive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:02 AM
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That's not true. I suggest you to go on field trip and look at couples. Mostly its normal men with normal women. You rarely see hot men with ugly women or ugly men with hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 10:21 PM
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Thank you for your answer. I learned that part of TRP strategy is to date multiple women ( spinning plates), have sex on first date, not to pay on dates or invest into relationships, to not get married. If its correct then why would FDS women want relationships with TRP man who might have qualities which you mention but FDS women can't benefit from such mens qualities or relationships with such men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:09 PM
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There are many other desirable qualities apart from being tall and hot: being smart, honest, funny, carrying, reliable, resourceful, confident, good provider, and many many others. Ideal man with all the good qualities does not exist as we all human beings have weaknesses and also good qualities usually have conjugate negative quality. Women, depend of what relationship they looking for, pick men with the most important qualities while being okay with lack of other qualities. If they looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 06:32 PM
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Women know what they want, just different women want different things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:21 PM
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That's very perceptional and also nothing to do with being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 01:15 PM
1

When the man becomes TRP do these qualities automatically come along? Can TRP man not to have these qualities? And can just normal man have those qualities without being TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:56 AM
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What's the traditional family in your understanding? Whats differs it from western family?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:49 AM
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yup, people were too busy to survive older times to think about such foolish things as happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:45 AM
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3 dates are still hookups, nothing changed for her just slowed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:37 AM
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Good point. I heard TRP saying that men and women don't have anything in common, no point to be friends with women and only matters if a woman is hot. While from my observations the best and successful relationships people have when it comes from friendship and common interests when before getting physically close people got to know each other quite well. The same time who cares what TRP say or want, nobody wants to date them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:34 AM
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What do you do in your relationships which doesn't benefits you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:48 PM
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Everyone chooses what benefits them, not only women. People choose partners who make their life happier. For example, men like good looking women because they enjoy to look at them and have sex with them, they choose women with a good personality to again enjoy their company and get emotional support. People love what benefits them in some way or another. It's normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 11:06 PM
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People who get validation without doing anything are more likely to have narcissistic traits. That is not confirmed information, though, just my thoughts. Long dicks still won't get validation if they don't know how to use them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 10:55 PM
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Tall guy wins if they are both otherwise exact the same which is never happens. Shorter guy can also level up his intelligence by 5% while tall one narcisisticly looking at himself in the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:52 PM
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what a weird place you're working in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:57 PM
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yeah I guess as long as everyone happy. Being tall is attractive trait but it's only one of the many other qualities and things like nice character and interesting personality is way more important. Tall boring bitter guy would lose to short but smart and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:53 PM
1

okay, I will be hairy, you shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:42 PM
1

I dunno, spending years with bad health after operation for the sake of rubbing genitals with strangers sounds like the questionable quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:40 PM
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So, in your opinion, TRP men are attractive to FDS women because they are TRP men which is attractive to FDS women. That's fair, and it's hard to argue with that logic, but what specific qualities or traits do the TRP men have which make them attractive to FDS women, apart from being TRP and being attractive to FDS women? When I say traits I mean, for example being kind or honest, or smart. What sets TRP man apart from other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:36 PM
1

ahahah yup, just like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:48 AM
1

and what Virtue in your opinion do Red Pilled men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:13 AM
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please elaborate, why do you think they do want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:03 AM
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do you want those hookups That much so you're ready to destroy your own health?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:51 PM
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yeah thats fair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:47 PM
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nah, most men want ridiculous things from woman like shaving legs and underarms. Whats your attitude to that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:14 PM
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lets keep discussion polite. No need to be rude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:29 PM
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People, both men and women who had many sexual partners clearly have some issues with establishing an emotional connection and have underlying psychological issues. I would not recommend anyone to consider such people for relationships. People who suggesting sex in the early stages of dating are also not suitable for lTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:23 PM
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You only can think so if you sharing it values, while I look from the side which makes me less biased and therefore correct. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:05 PM
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I think I understand it correctly: one participants makes money on others teaching them how to become alpha male but really teaching manipulative behavior which rarely succeed. (The same with FDS)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:19 PM
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When I hear "incorrectly interpreted" I can smell religion. There is not such a thing as True Alpha but either people with measure complexes or just coin masters who gets money from desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:14 PM
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I mean it's good that I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:04 PM
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I am sure I have met people with such mindsets (quite toxic ones) but they never stated about their affiliations with TRP or FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:03 PM
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That's good. I would fricked out if somebody yell at me: I am the Alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:52 PM
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tbh I haven't met either of them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:20 PM
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I asked first
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:10 PM
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I think both of the strategies have good parts mostly about keeping boundaries but they are based on using others, getting the best partner while investing little which is unrealistic. These people trauma also stops them from establishing healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:08 PM
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I agree with you on the part about having kids. The relationship can be equal only if kids are adopted or from surrogate mother. But not everyone wants kids though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:03 PM
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are you currently in LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:00 PM
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I guess men who want to split the bill find partners who also willing to split the bill and don't date FDS women. A lot of women would be happy to be in equal partners; Women are tired of spending time and afford to look pretty and feminine and also do all house work. If man is happy to have a LTR with woman with short hair, no makeup, wearing comfortable clothes and also ready to split all the housework then those men find ladies who will pay half of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:32 PM
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okay that's love-hate screwed up relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:52 PM
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FDS women don't want relationships with TRP men. TRP men don't want relationships with FDS women. Splitting or not splitting bills and 3 months waiting time is a good indicator for those groups to recognise and avoid each other. Why do people get angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:47 PM
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I agree that it's fair for a lot of men in their 20s. Mating without consequence just doesn't sound attractive for girls though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:57 AM
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TRP strategies work not just on women with low self-esteem but on emotionally traumatised women, for example on girls who were abandoned by father, who had a lack of love in childhood, who went through abuse. TRP strategies are manipulative and toxic and we, of course, have right to dislike it, but if they work and help men to achieve what they want ( sex with physically attractive women who might be younger and out of their league) that would be silly to tell those men to change their strategy,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:36 AM
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Hmm, sounds like choosing partners you are using exact the same methods as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:10 PM
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I would not believe they were fully honest in that statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:10 PM
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Would you personally prefer a woman with a nice personality even if she looks unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:57 PM
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its a rare, rare, rare exemption. I would not rely on it. Its the same as If I say some guys prefer fat and ugly girls. Maybe some do but its so rare and doesn't need to be taken into consideration. But again its only looks. Its shallow and should not matter that much for humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:36 PM
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It's all biological. Men attracted to beautiful women. Women attracted to tall men. I don't know anyone who is attracted to shorter guys, unfortunately. The same time for the long term relationships looks become less important as we all get used to them and it doesn't really matter who is tall or beautiful, personalities become way more important. For those men who have complexes about their height, I would recommend concentrating their attention on developing other important qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:07 PM
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Casual sex is not desirable for the most of women (really I don't know any woman who would want it) and my female friends are not exception. They go on the dates rarely but it does't lead to anything. They rather feel annoyed of the advances and one of my friend gave up to go on tinder saying that its wasting time. I hope closer to the late 20s they will be able to find a boyfriends when men get more adequate while now girls can pay more attention to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 07:53 PM
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I dunno maybe your friends have too high expectations of what average woman is ? Can you show me a pic of woman who is average? Many girls also have about zero attention from men. Another question what intentions did your friends have?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 01:32 AM
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Its all depends how that data being interpreted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:56 PM
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If those guys can't get a first date maybe their expectations are too high? Maybe they are looking for 20% top women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:45 PM
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That's a valid point. Its impossible to say do they have much attention from other women. To me, from what I saw they all looked much the same, average. But my point is that guys are in general less interested in relationships, not because they can't get it, but they just don't want to while complaining that girls (especially hot ones) don't want to have casual sex with them because they are not interested to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:34 PM
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That sounds quite perceived average :p
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 10:09 PM
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No, we are talking exclusively about their visual looks. What do the average boy and girl 22 y.o. look like in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 09:59 PM
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ok, let's specify. Show me average 22 y.o guy and a girl assuming they are both on the same social level like college students and have a similar job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 09:37 PM
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Key word is Average. Based on my female friend experience they can't find even Average man for relationships because guys seems to be mostly interested in satisfying their physical needs with any girl. Its all understandable but that's not my friends are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 09:19 PM
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Average women from early 20s are happy to have relationships with the average man of their age group if the man is actually looking for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 09:01 PM
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If we are talking about getting casual sex then women are in an advantage. The thing is the majority of women are not interested in casual sex with strangers, that's why it's so big competition for having sex with those ladies who are open for such adventures. A lot of my female friends in their early 20 s complain that all they get is sex offers from men, while they are looking for relationships. They don't complain that guys are not hot, or below their standards btw. Once guys start to see a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:35 PM
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