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In regards to your edit, the only people asking you why you broke up "just for marriage" are probably angry men. You're entitled to break up for any reason. And it's wrong for someone to give another person the impression that they are more committed than they actually are. Good job for identifying what you want in a relationship and maintaining your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:52 PM
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"He also suggested we go for a drive afterwards" = he wants some kind of car sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:17 PM
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"Decisions - any ideas to do anything must have my prior approval" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dying. Like literally anything? Should I wake up now? Should I get dressed? Should I wear this shirt? Should I brush my teeth? Should I take this step? Should I sit down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:58 AM
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My biggest advice would be to face your fear of conflict and speak up! He grabs something out of your hand, what did you do?? Be nice to all the other people you work with so that most of the office likes you more than him. Build relationships with them to cut him out as the middleman. Then start standing up for yourself and/or bullying him right back! As long as it bothers you he's not gonna stop. You're gonna have to grow a thick skin and learn to play the game or just find a different job. OR…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:54 AM
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I work for the unemployment office and it's so pathetic how many men are like "I'm gonna pass the phone to my wife/girlfriend because she can explain it better." Like dude, you're already unemployed yet you're going to put an additional burden on your partner by making them take responsibility for YOUR claim?! I've never had a woman pass the phone to their man to explain what the situation is on their claim. Not once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:59 AM
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Almost everything that exists on this planet can cause damage if you overdo it. Edit: also, whitening your teeth is not a substitute for daily oral hygiene. You can't go days without brushing and flossing and smoke and just use a white strip all of the time. If you're doing it once or twice a year for just a few minutes each time, it's fairly harmless. Especially if you're keeping your teeth healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:52 AM
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It's only temporary though. And you can do it gradually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:30 AM
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I posted that people should also whiten their teeth b/c yellow teeth are gross and it got downvoted 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:12 PM
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I'd literally rather die than be in a relationship like that. Holy fucking shit. At least in death I'd have my dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:41 PM
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So I've been binge-watching America's Next Top Model and just started the seasons where there are guys AND girls in the house. The men always start emotionally exploiting the women almost IMMEDIATELY. It's very interesting to watch through the FDS lens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:17 PM
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Facts. It's been just over a year since I've had anything to do with a man. No sex, no dates, no texting. Nothing. Just focusing on myself. I even blocked and deleted my father who was the original LVM in my life and I feel so much better. The only "man" in my life is my son who I'm raising to be a total HVM that respects and values women and knows how to be a functional human that can cook and clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:26 AM
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“Rice has stated on several occasions that he enjoys assaulting women because they are, in his words, quote, ‘more vulnerable,’ close quote, than men.” Additionally, prosecutors stated that Rice said the women deserved to die because they were gay. In 1999, the FBI placed an undercover agent with Rice at the Federal Corrections Center in Petersburg and taped their conversations. In one, Rice "admitted... that he has only engaged in two sexual relationships with women, the last occurring in 1991.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:28 AM
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"Giarantueed" Bruh. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:28 PM
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Hell yeah I would! Pre-FDS I let this asshole play me for a year saying we were monogamous only to find out he'd been sleeping around. 😒🤢 Saw on his Facebook that he got engaged about 3 months later, took note of her name. As predicted, he would hit me up trying to hook up or sending dirty texts or dick picks on snap which I secretly took screenshots of. I would reply with active disinterest and even mention that he's engaged. He kept doing it. Finally, he swore on his kids that he was truly sin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:23 AM
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FACTS omggggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:47 AM
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Yasssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:54 PM
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Literally just found out last night that they had sailor Moon on Hulu!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:35 PM
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Don't forget Murder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:46 PM
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"With my mother, everything was a fight. Everything was “No” unless she determined it was appropriate to say yes. If my mother wasn’t the one who made the decision, the decision couldn’t possibly be good. Every so often she would appear to cede to my father’s wishes, but only if she happened to agree with him." LMFAO 😂😂 AND...?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:12 PM
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Queens before peens. She did his (hopefully ex) girlfriend a solid by calling him out like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:41 PM
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💯💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:33 PM
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I could make a shelf from scratch after a 30 minute trip to home depot and it would be cute. Ugh. I've assembled all of my own furniture and legit guys have had the audacity to be surprised when they find out and then ask "but who helped you?" No one, and clearly having a man around wouldn't be of any use, even if I did need help. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:19 AM
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Thissssss! Oh snap, he's finally got over his grief, he can now dump the rebound wife and find his "real" wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:11 AM
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That and not to mention you have to look at his horrible outfit because, judging by his awful cargo shorts and ill-fitting, tasteless shirt in that picture, he can't dress for shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:03 AM
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What is it with men and this "free meal" hang up?? Like bro, I'm pretty sure any woman could easily treat herself to a nice meal whenever she wanted it's not that big of a deal. And I think most women would rather eat a shitty meal alone than eat a nice meal with shitty company... Also: he's cheating. Thus the video chat only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:42 PM
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"I want to meet up with you and get a sense of how desperate you are first without spending any money, and if it seems like you might be easy then I'll spend money on a meal with the expectation of getting laid afterwards"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:19 PM
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I'm most offended by "apolitical"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:47 PM
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Is it controversial to say we need to have lots of babies, not inform the fathers to keep them out of the children's life, raise them right and just start over.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:23 AM
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I wanted to start up powerlifting right before this COVID19 stuff, and, after reading this, I'm fully committed to starting as soon as it's safe. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:45 AM
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I was physically nauseated at all of the men in that documentary. Antles was grooming young girls and basically led a cult, Exotic exploited naive young men, Carol is the world's biggest Pickmeisha other woman around, I became enraged when that Jeff or whatever his name piece of shit was showing pictures of the hot nanny they hired and made that snide comment about after the baby being born his wife was gonna lose weight. Honestly, it reinforced my general distaste for men and fear about how man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:09 AM
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So, it's almost like women are the default sex and men were created from our rib as an afterthought 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:45 AM
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Definitely not as a first date. Maybe a handful of dates in, if it was a lunch date and a walk in the park afterwards it could be cute provided it's a nice park.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:31 AM
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You go into their CRM and they follow up with their warm leads from time to time instead of having to cold call on Tinder. This makes things easier because they know: You're looking to date You've already agreed to go out with them once They've already built some familiarity I'm a real estate agent and I do this with my buyer/seller leads only with real estate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:13 AM
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Saw this and gagged. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:46 AM
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Because they assume that men can operate in good faith, which they cannot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:42 AM
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"... a man can get very sick if he's turned on and doesn't ejaculate. He was up all night shitting after our date and it was my fault." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMG I'm dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:21 AM
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"But even as much as I want to end things, I don’t want it to be because I cheated as I know that would be held over me for the rest of my life (as it probably should)." POS coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 06:55 PM
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The worst thing is I stumbled upon this bullshit on the front page. These kind of beliefs shouldn't be given that kind of publicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:36 PM
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Lol so ridiculous. How about, she didn't want a relationship at the moment so she had some flings that were fun. Now, she wants to settle down so she's more picky and taking things slower because this time she's involving her emotions. "NO THAT'S MANIPULATION" Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:32 PM
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No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:27 AM
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Ok, normally I side with the woman but your poor choices are no reason to involve him... It's not ok to drive high. Not high value behavior at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:28 AM
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I'm sorry, did a huge crowd of men NOT just collectively sexually abuse the students of a women's college in New Delhi? Or was it a group of women that did that to men... Oh wait, that doesn't happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:21 PM
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Projectionnnnnnnn. Everything he told her is how he feels about himself and by projecting it onto her and rejecting her because of it he's escaping his own feelings of inadequacy. Typical narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:10 PM
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I swear, watching movies and TV just hits different after FDS. Like the absolute audacity of all these shitty male characters. I can't imagine tolerating a hint of disrespect from any man for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:54 AM
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Literally just happened to me this week. Felt amazing! Thanks FDS ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:04 AM
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Corporate personhood gone too far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:07 PM
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25 and "successful"? Doubtful. 25 and he's already had a career end? Sketchy. Ex-COP? You mean the career that a huge amount of domestic abusers choose? HA, NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:40 AM
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No when I was active on the app I'd always get ghosted after messaging for a while. I only went on 1 date from OkCupid and it was with a guy who lied about his height. Ugh. He said he was 5'9" but he was more like 5'5" which sucks cause I'm 5'8" and I wore heels so I felt like a giant. I think they're messaging a lot of different women simultaneously and go with the one who seems to be acting the most "interested" (easy and desperate) and go with that one. If you're following FDS and not despera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:06 AM
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HOW?! HOW IS THIS EVEN A QUESTION?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:19 AM
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He's probably gay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:09 AM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:11 AM
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I went through her post history. I guess she was a foster child. Just let her be. Clearly this man is a substitute for the family and love she never had growing up. Almost every post mentions him. She probably had a rough childhood and is using her relationship to define her self worth because it wasn't developed as a child. It's a coping mechanism. And her emotional maturity was also likely stunted from the emotional trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:12 PM
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I was just thinking about posting something like this lol. I feel the same way. It's so supportive and it really is validating and putting into words so many thoughts and feelings I've had over the years. Everything in regards to dating seems clearer. I never had much of a mother figure in my life to show me how to date and value myself as a woman and I wasn't raised seeing healthy relationships so to have a space like this is actually life changing for me. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 03:33 AM
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I love rap and hip hop and yeah, there's usually some misogynistic lyrics and themes in there but idk lately it seems like it's gotten worse! Like the songs used to be about putting down other men or selling drugs but now it seems like these songs are now completely about fucking and degrading women to a new extreme. Am I just getting older or are any of you noticing this too??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:41 AM
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Yes! You can tell that he just SEES her for everything amazing that she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 01:05 AM
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There is no way in hell the vast majority of females age 25-29 have only had one partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:46 PM
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How to decrease your chances of being raped: don't go to house parties don't do hard drugs or drink excessively in the company of men don't be alone with a man always be in very public areas on dates commit RIGHT NOW to reporting that shit if it happens no matter what. Predators can sense weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:22 PM
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The order is: sex sex sex "business" (aka money aka cheap) And "29" is code for early to mid thirties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:16 AM
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I agree I don't like that he brought it up during an argument either BUT I don't know the context of the argument. People with autism can have trouble interpreting social cues and facial expressions and can struggle with communication. It doesn't excuse shitty behavior BUT I think it does require some understanding on her part to realize that she might have to change the way she communicates in order to avoid misunderstandings. For example, stating her feelings instead of expecting him to read h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:51 PM
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I mean, if you haven't noticed for 2 months I'm guessing it's very mild. If you're ok with his behavior so far and enjoy his personality and he's treating you well I don't see the problem. What is it that you find upsetting about it? Autism is on a spectrum, some people with it can live completely normal lives while others require constant support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:08 PM
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Good Thing - Kehlani is the FDS anthem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:07 PM
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The original distracted boyfriend meme lol. I can't believe this ad though holy crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:01 PM
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