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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights10/05/15 06:10 PM
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IntactivismSpoonwood/r/MensRights18/01/16 04:50 PM
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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights03/06/17 08:10 AM
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GeneralSpoonwood/r/MensRights22/02/16 04:11 PM
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GeneralSpoonwood/r/MensRights27/06/15 02:05 AM
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Social IssuesSpoonwood/r/MensRights06/08/15 11:39 AM
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Edu./Occu.Spoonwood/r/MensRights16/02/16 10:48 PM
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DiscriminationSpoonwood/r/MensRights09/05/16 08:16 PM
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IntactivismSpoonwood/r/MensRights30/08/15 01:15 AM
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FeminismSpoonwood/r/MensRights17/12/15 06:24 AM
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AnalysisSpoonwood/r/MensRights14/01/15 09:21 PM
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FeminismSpoonwood/r/MensRights10/01/16 11:24 AM
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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights24/04/15 02:21 AM
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DiscriminationSpoonwood/r/MensRights01/03/17 05:12 AM
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False AccusationSpoonwood/r/MensRights16/05/16 12:57 AM
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Spoonwood/r/MensRights01/05/16 06:30 PM
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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights27/02/16 08:14 PM
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Anti-MRMSpoonwood/r/MensRights05/07/15 12:47 PM
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Spoonwood/r/MensRights09/05/16 01:57 PM
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FeminismSpoonwood/r/MensRights29/01/16 08:32 PM
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DiscriminationSpoonwood/r/MensRights09/07/16 09:45 PM
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IntactivismSpoonwood/r/MensRights05/07/15 10:59 PM
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IntactivismSpoonwood/r/MensRights06/08/16 11:01 PM
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GeneralSpoonwood/r/MensRights04/11/15 03:06 AM
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Activism/SupportSpoonwood/r/MensRights18/09/15 08:39 PM
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IntactivismSpoonwood/r/MensRights30/08/15 12:29 AM
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Activism/SupportSpoonwood/r/MensRights13/05/15 05:04 PM
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Spoonwood/r/MensRights09/05/16 01:58 PM
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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights06/07/15 07:04 PM
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False AccusationSpoonwood/r/MensRights26/11/17 08:48 AM
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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights19/02/16 08:39 PM
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FeminismSpoonwood/r/MensRights20/09/15 03:33 AM
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GeneralSpoonwood/r/MensRights04/10/15 06:35 PM
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FeminismSpoonwood/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:50 PM
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Spoonwood/r/MensRights02/05/16 06:36 PM
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Social IssuesSpoonwood/r/MensRights15/03/18 03:40 AM
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IntactivismSpoonwood/r/MensRights19/11/15 05:01 AM
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Social IssuesSpoonwood/r/MensRights09/04/18 06:39 PM
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Spoonwood/r/MensRights03/04/17 12:36 AM
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Legal RightsSpoonwood/r/MensRights14/04/16 04:37 AM
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DiscriminationSpoonwood/r/MensRights25/02/16 11:38 PM
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Anti-MRMSpoonwood/r/MensRights14/02/16 03:40 PM
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DiscriminationSpoonwood/r/MensRights25/01/15 02:49 AM
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DiscussionSpoonwood/r/MensRights20/01/15 11:45 PM
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Spoonwood/r/MensRights04/09/14 12:57 AM
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Well... for whatever it's worth, a similar complaint did NOT get thrown out in Pennsylvania: http://pittsburgh.cbslocal.com/2015/09/08/barbershop-fined-for-refusing-to-cut-womans-hair/ I don't know the legal differences.
/r/MensRights10/04/18 01:38 AM
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This barber said he didn't have the proper equipment to cut women's hair (at least in the interview). He did have to pay a $750 fine. http://pittsburgh.cbslocal.com/2015/09/08/barbershop-fined-for-refusing-to-cut-womans-hair/
/r/MensRights10/04/18 01:31 AM
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This barber payed a $750 fine for something similar: http://pittsburgh.cbslocal.com/2015/09/08/barbershop-fined-for-refusing-to-cut-womans-hair/
/r/MensRights10/04/18 01:29 AM
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Perhaps the suggestion here is the men should act like more like birds with respect to sexual behavior. I don't know, but I don't think there exists any sort of punishment for male birds raping birds. So, does the author really think it wise to suggest that men act like birds?
/r/MensRights08/04/18 12:03 AM
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Scarcity increases value. So the fertility that women provide is more valuable because it’s more scarce. Value only occurs via an agent. As the saying goes "the price of something is whatever someone [emphasis added] is willing to pay for it." There is no agent which provides value with respect to human reproduction in general. People are not consistent enough in their nature either to get regarded to be similar to an agent. If there existed a supernatural agent that valued human reproduction, t…
/r/MensRights07/04/18 10:52 PM
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Right, so the average man provides more fertility, meaning reproductive capacity, than the average women. Men have far more sperm than women have eggs. Consequently, it's more like women men provide fertility ... than what you said above.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 10:10 PM
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Pretty sure that it takes two. In other words, men provide fertility just as well as women do.
/r/MensRights07/04/18 09:58 PM
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Hooooooooboy, did someone who had suffered depression try and tear me a new one. It's just a hunch, but when people hear 'exercise' they may think of a school program or some sort of poorly designed fitness program. If they think of exercise associated with school programs, then they might think of exercise as working your body to the point of barely tolerable pain, or having to measure up to some standard of some coach.
/r/MensRights16/03/18 11:12 AM
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Where the fuck is the child's father?
/r/MGTOW02/03/18 06:35 AM
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"She recanted her recantation." It's hard to know what happened in these situations.
/r/MensRights25/02/18 10:01 PM
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Unequal opportunity does not equate to discrimination. Yes. Discrimination doesn't necessarily imply unequal opportunity. However, unequal opportunity, if produced by people, does imply discrimination.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 11:41 PM
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If you want to talk about the original post, the phrase 'in the United States' is ambiguous. In four states within the geographical boundaries of the United States, practices similar to this have gotten ruled as illegal discrimination: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ladies%27_night What you said above doesn't make a dent in the argument that such practices are discriminatory in some objective sense beyond the boundaries of those four states. There only needs to exist unequal opportunity of people…
/r/MensRights13/02/18 07:45 PM
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Your liver won't thank you. Nor will your drunk haze help you to think. Drunk drivers are a problem also.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 04:45 PM
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Women aren't going to pound as many "all you can drink" as men will, but women are really cheap and so the lower cover charge will attract more of them in. So, then the woman engaging with the bar would pound more, become more liable to liver problems, and also become more likely to engage in risky or immoral sex. MRAs are opposed to this, because it's prima facie discrimination and it's straightforward. Perhaps also, some MRA got raped from some female drunk also, and a similar sort of rape see…
/r/MensRights13/02/18 04:44 PM
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I think you're correct in some of your details. I do agree that it works as incentive for females to show up and in turn attracts more males to such places. Women get a pecuniary discount which men do not get. So, a man with $10 in his pocket doesn't have the same means to obtain the intoxicants from that bar as a woman with $10 in her pocket. If a particular woman has the same amount of money as a particular man, then she has a greater means to purchase intoxicating substances than he does. Giv…
/r/MensRights13/02/18 04:31 PM
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Well, if we're suppose to take her seriously may as well make all the MGTOWs who say "women are garbage" into opinion writers in major publications, right?
/r/MensRights07/02/18 02:27 AM
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Regardless of motivation of the bar, it's discrimination on the basis of sex in a place of public accommodation.
/r/MensRights02/02/18 06:15 PM
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I think 60% or more of our customers are fucking idiots and I hate them. I don't know what you do, but having worked retail for a number of years, I would find it presumptuous to claim something like that about people who I interacted for a rather short period of time. It wasn't ever like I had an hour or even half-hour long conversation with someone where I could really get even a hint of what they were like intellectually. This isn't to say that you don't see plenty of customers do stupid thin…
/r/MensRights01/02/18 09:16 PM
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I think I mostly agree with you, but having worked in customer service, though "the customer is always right" is nonsense, what sort of alternative do you have that encourages workers such as cashiers to take the interests of their customers seriously? It should go without saying that retail businesses rely on selling their products, so how do you encourage people who are there for a paycheck to serve their customers well? How do retail businesses ensure that the number of complaints about their…
/r/MensRights01/02/18 05:49 AM
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I agree. Why would a criminal deserve anonymity?
/r/MensRights31/01/18 05:15 PM
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The junior anti-sex league is annoying, and positively seems at odds with the proles. The future lies with the proles, so that might bode bad times for the junior anti-sex league. Also, it seems that The Party has this as one of their slogans Obedience is Education
/r/MensRights31/01/18 05:11 PM
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This looks like a petition so far. It doesn't look like much else has happened, at least not yet.
/r/MensRights31/01/18 04:54 PM
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This is probably from the lawsuit.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 03:08 AM
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First off, Damore and others in the lawsuit, already worked for that company. Second, the Dhillion Law Group references this part of California law in the sections about political activity: https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=1102.&lawCode=LAB So, political affiliation is a protected class, even if there's nothing in California law which forbids hiring of conservatives, there does exist some restrictions on the treatment of conservatives by employers.
/r/MensRights10/01/18 03:05 AM
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if anything, louis ck just likes to have girls watch him while he's jacking it, just accuse him of being a pervert, instead they brand him as some sort of rapist. The difficulty with doing that is that perversion indicates a lack of moral character. How exactly was Louis CK's character morally lacking when he considered the consent of women important? What harm did he cause to them by asking?
/r/MensRights03/01/18 06:49 PM
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I don't agree that Louis CK did anything morally reprehensible. His behavior does seem different than many people, but mere difference in sexual preferences from the majority of people is not moral perversion. I don't see any evidence of harm to any of the accusers. So, I'm not seeing them as morally wronged in any way.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 06:47 PM
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this is actually one of the times where positions of power are important. The women were in a position of power in that they could say 'no'. They had control such that they could do that.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 06:43 PM
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And with prominent feminist leaders and feminist politicians having acted in somewhat similar ways, it seems more like a pattern than a happenstance of some posters on a subreddit.
/r/MensRights02/01/18 08:49 PM
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Take a look at all the science fields where women are in the majority.
/r/MensRights02/01/18 08:38 PM
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"Why are you expecting Feminism to solve men's problems, Feminism is about helping women!" So, feminists, not some prominent MRA like Paul Elam, Harry Crouch, or Karen Straughan, are saying a statement which implies that feminism isn't and hasn't been about equality. Good to see you around Deals!
/r/MensRights02/01/18 08:31 PM
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It was created by and for women, and oppressed minorites, MEN (as a demographic) are not included. Period. Right, so it's not Karen Straughan, Paul Elam, Harry Crouch, or any other prominent MRA making a statement which implies that feminism was never about equality, it's a feminist saying that.
/r/MensRights02/01/18 08:27 PM
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Ladies and Gents, I present to you the real feelings of how feminists few men I think that can use an edit.
/r/MensRights02/01/18 08:16 PM
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I decided to reply to a comment of /u/FeministiskFatale there. I'm going to repost one of my comments from there, so that it doesn't disappear: But 75% of the people that wrote those health guidelines were MEN. Why, when men are the ones in control of the pen, are they shooting themselves in the foot? Alright, you asked about this. I don't know where you got that 75% figure from, and I don't know how accurate it is. The Affordable Care Act got passed by members of Congress at a time when women w…
/r/MensRights01/01/18 05:59 PM
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Sally Miller Gearhart Wikipedia says that: [Gearhart] was able to develop one of the first women and gender studies programs in the United States [in 1973]. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sally_Miller_Gearhart
/r/MensRights01/01/18 05:52 PM
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I am not 'on strike'. I do not have terms that I seek for some sort of equitable marriage. I would be happy if the state decided to abolish such an institution as legally binding entirely. I'm sure that there are other men who are not on a marriage strike, but rather are just against marriage for themselves and as a legal institution.
/r/MensRights01/01/18 06:37 AM
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This happened in Kentucky. According to this legal site, statutory rape has to involve sexual intercourse: https://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/kentucky-statutory-rape-laws.htm The article linked above doesn't mention any sort of sexual intercourse occurring. So, how could she get charged with rape if there was no intercourse, when Kentucky law classifies oral sex with a minor as sodomy instead of rape? But also, this piece doesn't explain why women so few women are on the sex registr…
/r/MensRights31/12/17 11:48 PM
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The quote by Pinker concerns feminism, NOT supporting women. Note how the quote starts. Feminism is not a movement for political and social equity since women and girls have more protections (e. g. legal maternal surrender via adoption or abortion, laws against female genital cutting, laws which acknowledge female rape victims as more worthy of concern than male rape victims, the Affordable Care Act in the United States) and fewer obligations under the law (men having to register with the Select…
/r/MensRights31/12/17 11:01 PM
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It depends on where you live. Male genital cutting makes for a good example, since places like the U. S. and the U. K. have explicit bans on female genital cutting bans of minors, and there is no explicit law banning male genital cutting. Though, some people argue otherwise on the basis of other laws. Sometimes laws include the possibility of male rape victims, sometimes they don't. But, even with an inclusion of male rape victims that might misled one into thinking there exists equal status, wh…
/r/MensRights31/12/17 10:52 PM
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I don't know The Princess of Darkness, but I have a feeling that Satan wouldn't even find it worth his time to "possess" her. Oh.. by "possess" I mean sexually possess her against her will.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 04:56 PM
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It still doesn't make sense to join such a movement unless you agree that discrimination against women has more importance than discrimination against men. With women having more protections and fewer obligations under the law than men, I don't see that as the case.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 04:54 PM
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He still seems to think that discrimination against women is more important than discrimination against men. Especially with men having fewer protections under the law and more duties under the law, and the severity of such lack of protection such as a lack of protection from genital cutting, that emphasis is misplaced.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 04:52 PM
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Yes, there are many possibilities.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 03:37 AM
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In all of this it seems kind of surprising that no one seems to have said that for all we know, Karen Pence may have told Mike Pence not to eat alone with other women. Everyone just seems to have assumed that this was a decision by Mike, when it could have been her idea and he might not want to go against what she wants.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 05:03 PM
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You might want to watch this and note how it ends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MFJ7ie_yGU
/r/MensRights29/11/17 04:10 PM
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You might want to watch this and note how it ends: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MFJ7ie_yGU
/r/MensRights29/11/17 04:09 PM
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By saying "If they don't come forward, their lives are not ruined" they are arguing that not coming forward always means that their lives are fine. No. They are arguing that they're lives are not ruined by not coming forward. You changed the subject of the argument to be about being negatively affected by failing to report a crime when the argument was about the negative affect of the crime itself. No, it wasn't about that. Oh you're right, because downvotes are always deserved right? The key wo…
/r/MensRights29/11/17 04:00 PM
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Notably, only eight out of 39 men reported being intoxicated when they had unwanted sex. Yet NOT a single one of them seems to have gotten classified as a rape victim. What does that tell you?
/r/MensRights29/11/17 03:58 PM
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Also, isn't 'unwanted sex' an 'uncomfortable interaction'? If so, how are they avoiding an uncomfortable interaction?
/r/MensRights29/11/17 03:53 AM
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I mean, it couldn't be because she's a rapist now, could it?
/r/MensRights29/11/17 03:49 AM
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And I am arguing that coming forward has no relation to a person's life being ruined by a crime, their life can still be ruined if they never come forward. I don't think anyone here argued with that. So, I said: I think if a crime victim doesn't report a crime to police, then they personally are not negatively effected by failing to report the crime (unless the criminal is likely to act against them again). You said: No That 'no' communicates a denial. I ... was very clear rolls eyes Look at how…
/r/MensRights29/11/17 03:46 AM
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The original comment you referred to says: If they don't come forward, their lives are not ruined So, with respect to 'moving the goalposts' accusations, you might want to go back and look what you responded to and remove the mote from your own eye.
/r/MensRights29/11/17 12:10 AM
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Again, and with emphasis: I think if a crime victim doesn't report a crime to police, then they personally are not negatively effected by failing to report the crime (unless the criminal is likely to act against them again).
/r/MensRights28/11/17 08:07 PM
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I think if a crime victim doesn't report a crime to police, then they personally are not negatively effected by failing to report the crime (unless the criminal is likely to act against them again).
/r/MensRights28/11/17 06:15 PM
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Oops... here's the correct link: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7g0kr0/sample_letter_to_emily_lindins_probable_employer/
/r/MensRights28/11/17 05:12 AM
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Oops... here's the correct link: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7g0kr0/sample_letter_to_emily_lindins_probable_employer/?utm_content=comments&utm_medium=user&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=frontpage
/r/MensRights28/11/17 05:07 AM
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Followup: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/7flsd7/on_emily_lindin/
/r/MensRights28/11/17 03:33 AM
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That reminds me of something E. Belfort Bax wrote: https://gynocentrism.com/2014/01/01/the-yonic-cultus/
/r/MensRights27/11/17 09:40 PM
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Well you might report it to Twitter.
/r/MensRights27/11/17 06:58 PM
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This is interesting. It does concern free speech, and I find it important. I enjoyed watching it. However, how does this concern men's rights/men's issues at all?
/r/MensRights27/11/17 04:11 AM
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See the recent edit. I believe the people to contact are those at Conde Nast (not necessarily the CEO or President, but someone there).
/r/MensRights26/11/17 07:19 PM
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I'm not a parent, so take the following for what it's worth. For any parent or for any else who believes that Teen Vogue would listen to them, perhaps it would be wise to consider writing to Teen Vogue and demand that Ms. Lindin issue an apology or that they reconsider having her as an employee. Perhaps it is even more important that any parent who has been a victim of sexual harassment or sexual violence in their lifetime do so.
/r/MensRights26/11/17 02:24 AM
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Relevant Michigan Law: http://statelaws.findlaw.com/michigan-law/michigan-rape-laws.html
/r/MensRights25/11/17 08:36 AM
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How is it that people are keeping black males away from the home, in your imagination? Again, I said that such may be happening. I don't know what is going on and admit to that. But one possibility is that the women don't want black males in the home and tell them to get out. Perhaps many black men respect women telling them to go away and don't want to end up with charges for domestic violence and thus leave that home situation. Please include descriptions about how so many young black men are …
/r/MensRights21/11/17 06:46 PM
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So you think sexist, anti-male people may be keeping black males away from the home Yes, I think that may be happening. You think you can just dismiss that with a laugh it shows naivete conclusively? Sure does sound funny to me that you seem to believe that doing such will necessarily work to your favor.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 11:33 PM
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How many men's advocates were there between E. Belfort Bax and Warren Farrell? Sure sounds like a cause that got forgotten.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 12:15 AM
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It is still sexual harassment, but I don't that he is "groping her." The EEOC says: Although the law doesn’t prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illegal when it is so frequent or severe that it creates a hostile or offensive work environment or when it results in an adverse employment decision (such as the victim being fired or demoted). https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm If this is all that happened (and he…
/r/MensRights19/11/17 11:55 PM
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It’s been proven that lack of fathers at home increases criminality to a very large degree in male kids. Alright, why is that lack of fathers at home happening? You wanted to talk about "the real problem". So, what is the problem causing that? That means criminal acts are committed disproportionately by fatherless males before sexism even COULD come into play because the criminal acts occur long before sentencing has even been done. No. There could be (anti-male) sexism causing the lack of fathe…
/r/MensRights19/11/17 09:37 PM
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Try to believe it tomorrow.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 05:42 PM
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The real issue is that we need dads at home. There could exist fewer dads at home, because of them getting kicked out of families, the courts having preference towards mothers, and because enough women, even those who mother children with men, do NOT like men. Or the institution of marriage could be such that it favors women over men (there are people who say that if you are against marriage as a legal institution, you are consequently a misogynist implying that views of marriage have something …
/r/MensRights19/11/17 05:40 PM
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Interesting. From the report of Sonja Starr: gender gaps favoring women throughout the sentence length distribution (averaging over 60%), conditional on arrest offense, criminal history,and other pre-charge observables. You posted the wrong link.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 05:30 PM
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Black female offenders received 29.7 percent shorter sentences than white male offenders, and other race female offenders received 35.4 shorter sentences than white male offenders. All of those number are larger than 19.1 percent.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 05:29 PM
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I had a different experience last time I went to a doctor. I had a serious male skin problem and needed to see a dermatologist. The doctor was smart enough to ask me if I wanted to see a male dermatologist (instead of just referring me to someone out of hand). I responded yes, and realized later that seeing a female dermatologist could have been a rather awkward situation, because of the possibility of an untimely erection. The doctor told me that there were fewer male dermatologists, and later …
/r/MensRights19/11/17 05:23 AM
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The question now is whether the American Health Care Act/whatever they want to call their new proposal now would change any of these inequities. It doesn't look like it would do so to me: https://www.congress.gov/bill/115th-congress/house-bill/1628 https://www.npr.org/2017/03/10/519461271/heres-what-the-gop-bill-would-and-wouldnt-change-for-womens-healthcare
/r/MensRights19/11/17 03:41 AM
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I absolutely support same pay for same work with the same variables. I agree with the principle, but find it rather contrived and abstract. Plenty of times, if not always, such a situation does not exist in reality.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 03:23 AM
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I think that considering all the privileges women get, 75 cents to a dollar is a fair price to pay. I think it best to pay people based on their merits, not based on averages.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 03:21 AM
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Don't forget that Obama was (and is) a feminist (perhaps the first feminist President... though there was Bill Clinton). If you don't believe me about Obama being a feminist, by all means look it up. There is visual evidence, and him penning a piece talking about himself as a feminist in Cosmopolitan or some women's magazine. And it isn't like him or the feminists who had influence with respect to the ACA didn't know about such disparities. They tried to discount them as worthy of concern.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 02:15 AM
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Maybe not, because the author might believe that women aren't people. Don't forget about feminist misogyny now.
/r/MensRights19/11/17 02:08 AM
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I didn't say it was consensual (nor say that it was not consensual). I do realize that the accuser claimed that the intercourse was not consensual, but regardless of that, the statutory aspect of this case still exists.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 07:21 PM
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The accuser being 17 in California at the time, this makes for a statutory rape case. So long as sexual intercourse between the accused and the accuser happened, including consensual sexual intercourse, Dunham's position is not defensible. Or in other words, so long as there existed sexual intercourse between the two, he raped her.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 11:28 AM
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Perrineau, 23, said that the two had met at the Standard Hotel in Downtown Los Angeles during a night out with friends. So, whatever happened, the assault was alleged to have taken place in California. The age of consent in California is 18: https://www.age-of-consent.info/states/California Thus, consent isn't even the first issue with respect to determining whether or not criminality existed. The only issue is whether or not they had sex. And Perrineau isn't only claiming that sex occurred. Dun…
/r/MensRights18/11/17 11:22 AM
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That's just you though, the majority of the population can tell. I don't agree that they could tell.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 07:43 AM
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Have you ever felt cheated out of thing because you are a man? Yes. My foreskin. As far as I am concerned any man who doesn't feel cheated and got cut as a minor is asleep or lacks empathy for himself. How did become involved/find out about in this community? I saw the MRM mentioned on MGTOW sites. We're you ever a feminist before and are now a Men's Rights Activist? Pretty much. I didn't use the word 'feminist', but I remember telling a Smith College feminist that I found it appealing that she …
/r/MensRights18/11/17 02:27 AM
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You have to have observation in order to tell.
/r/MensRights18/11/17 02:16 AM
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Really? You don't see how actors performing certain scenes need more than just "lips touching" for the scene to work? Yes, I don't see why you need more than just lips touching, since you can't see what happens inside of mouths when they are connected to each other.
/r/MensRights17/11/17 05:55 PM
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"Just talking." He went to the police. He went to the police before this episode: http://www.digitalspy.com/showbiz/news/a842619/terry-crews-police-claims-hollywood-executive-groped-him/ That is HARDLY "just talking."
/r/MensRights17/11/17 05:53 PM
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It's also clear cut that it can have to be a tongue-kiss depending on the skit, and what's being conveyed. No, I don't agree at all. I do NOT see any need for actors to actually have their tongues in each other's throats when the idea just lies in them kissing. Are you saying there's no difference between putting your lips together and using tongue? Nope, I'm not. The matter concerns what the audience can see. And the tongue was part of the acting. So we agree she consented to it. No, I don't ag…
/r/MensRights17/11/17 05:20 PM
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The issue lies in that they didn't discuss what the kiss was going to entail? Nope. It's rather clear cut beforehand that any sort of kiss for the camera doesn't have to be a tongue-kiss, since the audience can't really see that sort of action. If she had limits on what she was consenting to, she had every chance to communicate those. Since they were acting it is only reasonable to presume that she consented to anything necessary to the acting and no more. And I don't see it at all likely that s…
/r/MensRights17/11/17 03:27 PM
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He's calling for "an ethics investigation" into his own conduct? This. Especially if Franken is innocent, the right to remain silent exists for a reason. Calling for an investigation sounds like someone who simply isn't willing to invoke that right. And with Franken's position perhaps he believes that the accused should not invoke that right.
/r/MensRights16/11/17 10:19 PM
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She agreed to rehearse the kiss. I mean, what more can you ask for. She can say that kiss wasn't what she expected, but you can't say she didn't consent to the kiss. But I didn't say that and that isn't the issue. The issue lies whether or not she consented to him tongue kissing her and whether or not that happened. In other words, his tongue in her mouth. And I don't see it at all likely that she consented to that, nor that she would have done consented to such tongue-kissing as they were not l…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 10:17 PM
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Franken clearly states that's not what he remembers from the rehearsal. No. Franken says: "I certainly don't remember the rehearsal for the skit in the same way, but I send my sincerest apologies to Leeann," http://www.businessinsider.com/al-franken-response-sexual-harassment-claims-2017-11 That only means that he does not remember some detail. It does not mean that he denies any particular detail such as the kiss happening. He said they needed to practice the scene, all of it. I don't see any n…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 09:41 PM
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You mean the part that's disputed? That part? Franken didn't dispute that part about him sticking his tongue down her throat necessarily. So, no I don't mean the disputed part, because it's not clear what Franken is disputing. He only said that he didn't remember things the way she did. There was more to it than that. Remember, she said that he had said that they needed to practice kissing: He said to me, “We need to rehearse the kiss.” I laughed and ignored him. Then he said it again. So Franke…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 09:21 PM
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It was a work situation. He doesn't have to actually touch her for hostile environment harassment to exist. Having your hands one inch or so away from someone's breasts (man or woman) isn't acceptable. Now if that was it, then perhaps it could be dismissed as simple teasing or an isolated incident. But, with the whole part about him sticking his tongue down her throat, it stops sounding like an isolated incident and Franken's behavior starts to sound more like something frequent or severe enough…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 09:05 PM
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Expecting equal unfair treatment is vengeance, and Is what you are advocating. I do NOT consider it unfair to have a several year prison sentence for someone who intentionally drops a baby. The article says that she "dropped the infant on his head." It also says that she was caught lying with regard as to how the boy came to have his injuries. Intentionally dropping an infant on his or her head sounds like attempted murder. I do not consider it unfair, so long as we have prisons, for someone att…
/r/MensRights10/11/17 06:02 PM
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She was a juvenile offender, which would by far be the influencing factor in her sentencing. The article says she is 18. Was she 18 when the crime ocurred?
/r/MensRights10/11/17 05:56 PM
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This post doesn't belong in this sub. Permanent brain damage and only community service and 8 months at young offenders? How many less violent or non-violent crimes receive harsher punishment? I disagree. It belongs here, because a man who did what she did almost surely gets punished more harshly.
/r/MensRights09/11/17 03:25 PM
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Good point.
/r/MensRights24/10/17 10:55 PM
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Remember the backlash when Donald Trump said this about Mexicans I think you've forgotten or missed that Trump talked about Mexico first. When Mexico sends its people, they’re not sending their best. They’re not sending you. They’re not sending you. They’re sending people that have lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with us. They’re bringing drugs. They’re bringing crime. They’re rapists. And some, I assume, are good people. https://www.realclearpolitics.com/video/2015/06/16/t…
/r/MensRights23/10/17 06:26 PM
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I think that there exist good reasons why men's rights activists are typically anti-feminist. However, that does not mean that there exist good reasons for men's rights activists to go on and on about how bad feminists are or how bad certain feminists are.
/r/MensRights23/10/17 12:58 AM
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Any mad dumb enough to be "trapped" by this probably deserves it The man wasn't the one lying. The man wasn't the doing the trapping. If he is trapped, then he is the victim. He is not the actor, he is the receiver of the action. Seriously, please don't blame people when they are the receiver of an action. Warning them to be more cautious and not get into situations where that can easily happen is fine. But please don't blame someone when they are not the agent who makes things happen. If you ha…
/r/MensRights22/10/17 04:42 PM
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it is overly simplistic So this was a tweet where you can only say so much. Assange says: constantly self-proclaiming and often and in general So, I'm not sure that this was so simplistic. For a Bright Guy, he says some really stupid things. There exist plenty of bright people who say really stupid things.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 04:31 PM
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I keep having to ask this; what relevance does this thread bear on men's rights? I don't know about relevance to men's rights, and I do think you have a good question there. But, the post could still have relevance for men. I mean those sorts of comments could get taken as a warning about male feminists. As in associating with male feminists might associate a man with some bad people. I agree that labeling a group of men with a certain ideology as sexual predators makes for a very bad idea witho…
/r/MensRights22/10/17 04:22 PM
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You can also find things like this: http://archive.is/uh730
/r/MensRights17/10/17 11:49 AM
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The court in Vinson decided that Taylor’s conduct amounted to hostile environment harassment. Even though Vinson and Taylor had sex multiple times and the sex was voluntary, in the sense that Taylor did not force Vinson to have sex with him, the advances and thus the sex were not welcome. Wikipedia says otherwise: Additionally, she testified that Taylor had touched her in public, exposed himself to her, and forcibly raped her multiple times.
/r/MensRights17/10/17 11:35 AM
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So, the Supreme Court's decision was that the woman had sex 40 to 50 times with the man, but the working environment was 'so severe' or 'pervasive' that it was abusive to her? I will doubt that. I mean, that can happen if someone is kidnapped, but it just seems less plausible for a working environment. I have to wonder about the dissenting opinion in Vinson.
/r/MensRights17/10/17 11:24 AM
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Yeah... pretty much screams "women own sexual assault." No.
/r/MensRights17/10/17 11:16 AM
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You'll notice the sort of vaguely violent phallic comments I can't imagine a phrase such as 'vaguely violent vaginal comments' as morally acceptable. I don't think that feminists are to blame for the suffering of abused husbands anymore than I think men are to blame for the gap in wages, for example. So, there was a Jezebel article a few years ago where feminists talked about how they were responsible for abusing their boyfriends: http://archive.is/wNAZK So yeah. There are feminists responsible …
/r/MensRights17/10/17 10:55 AM
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No, they were sexual assualt allegations (under Canadian law), since the actions, if they had happened, would have taken place in a sexual context. But, they did not involve any sort of contact between genitals of people. So, to call them 'rape' doesn't make sense. The allegations, if they had held true, would have been somewhat like how an ass slap could be sexual assault, but is not rape.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 05:24 PM
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Oops... I missed that. It is there in the article. Thank you for the correction!
/r/MensRights16/10/17 05:21 PM
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Many people did falsely accuse Ghomeshi of rape. But, I will note that not a single one of the criminal complaints against him was a rape complaint, and those complaints almost surely would NOT qualify as 'rape', even if they were true (and they weren't), in jurisdictions where that term does exist. I do not intend to defend the accusers here. Rather, I mean to point out that many people misunderstood, innocently or willfully, the Ghomeshi case as a rape case, when it was no such thing.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 01:18 PM
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I didn't see them calling a lowering of the pension age 'equality', though I could have missed it. I did see them calling equal pension age an 'injustice' and saying that the pension age should get lowered for women (only). In other words, lack of female privilege is an injustice. And to that I could not disagree more.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 01:14 PM
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It gets even worse when you read further down those questions. The author even cites a study which does asserted the opposite of what the author claimed it did.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 11:47 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Insane. There are views that assert that women actually do not get shorter sentences for the same crime that men also commit (e.g: http://www.bostonglobe.com/ideas/2015/02/22/female-criminals-get-lighter-sentences-heavier-ones/QLPYwuge1bdJZ5zyvCXCYK/story.html). No, your source does NOT assert women in general do not get shorter sentences for the same crime. It said that female narcotic offenders with extensive criminal histories received longer sentences than male narcotics offen…
/r/MensRights16/10/17 11:46 AM
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It's violent, because it involves forcibly taking a device which literally wounds the penis causing it to bleed and removing the ridged band and the frenulum permanently from the body. It's violent in that it leaves a permanent scar, if not many permanent scars, on the boy's penis. It's violent in that it leads to long-term psychological effects; see this volume to get started here: https://www.amazon.com/Circumcision-Hidden-Trauma-American-Ultimately/dp/0964489538 Note that the foreskin is fuse…
/r/MensRights05/10/17 03:53 AM
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Yeah but look at the finer details and you find it's much different. I agree that type IV Female Genital Mutilation differs substantial from male circumcision. It is not as severe as male circumcision. Type IV female genital mutilation is illegal in the United States according to federal law: https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/18/116 There is no similar law against male circumcision. Male circumcision is very widely practiced, with something like 3 out of 5 infant baby boys currently cut sh…
/r/MensRights05/10/17 03:47 AM
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What McGoldrick says is wrong. It is a small minority of men who do such. It is not something that happens across all spheres of life.
/r/MensRights04/10/17 05:01 PM
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What you referenced is what I first thought of when I read 'Albert Haynesworth'. He is lucky to have not gotten prosecuted for that brutal assault. I don't think the context of professional football is enough to excuse that heinous behavior legally (or at least it shouldn't be), but I'm not a lawyer.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 07:15 AM
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Not sure that OP assumes all female MRA's were feminists. Why did you leave feminism? Hence, what the OP writes assumes that female MRAs left feminism. Karen Straughn arguably one of the most famous female MRAs was certainly never a feminist. So, she didn't leave feminism. Contrary to the question above.
/r/MensRights23/06/17 12:55 PM
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See the links to the Washington Post article. As I recall, his name does get printed in that link.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 03:12 AM
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The Spearhead hasn't existed for a while now. /r/askmensrights still links to it.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 10:57 AM
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Don't female hair stylists, or whatever they call themselves, generally make more than barbers? Edit: Here's one where a barbershop, which even employed women, has had to pay a fine: https://consumerist.com/2015/09/08/pennsylvania-gentlemans-barbershop-fined-for-refusing-to-cut-womans-hair/
/r/MensRights04/06/17 12:06 AM
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The California Supreme Court also decided that the act outlaws sex-based prices at bars (ladies' nights): offering women a discount on drinks, but not offering the same discount to males. In Koire v Metro Car Wash (1985) 40 Cal 3d 24, 219 Cal Rptr 133, the court held that such discounts constituted sex stereotyping prohibited by this Act. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unruh_Civil_Rights_Act
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:57 PM
3

What about the workers?
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:56 PM
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This is humorous, but I don't know who at the Alamo DraftHouse had this daft idea and who stuck to it. Their CEO is a man named Tim League. This might not be feminists, but it's still something that I think worth doing.
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:55 PM
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Tell me about it.
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:54 PM
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You're welcome... wolf. (lupus means wolf in Latin)
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:53 PM
3

What about the workers?
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:53 PM
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With all due respect, I think there's a difference between filing a complaint and a lawsuit. Though, I agree with your sentiment.
/r/MensRights03/06/17 11:52 PM
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Wait... she thinks that saying this will reflect badly on old white guys?
/r/MensRights03/06/17 03:45 AM
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Where is the laugh button when you want it?
/r/MensRights02/06/17 03:43 AM
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I think you can advocate that something which currently isn't legal become law. However, can you advocate that a particular person or organization break the law? I don't think so. Or at least not for some laws. Edit: Conspiracy to commit a crime can be a crime in and of itself.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 03:06 AM
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He is. Ivanka has said he is, he's also signed gynocentric legislation into law, and in his speech to Congress he talked about investing in women's health and did NOT talk about investing in men's health.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:48 PM
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As long as the company can show that their male employees will not be losing out on any potential earnings because of this event then that's fine. I don't think it's that simple. Note that the EEOC considers discrimination in shift assignments, job advertisements, and job recruiting. No one has to get paid to get discriminated against by a job advertisement or job recruiting. http://archive.is/NOpxj#selection-913.0-913.442
/r/MensRights01/06/17 07:39 PM
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But this isn't job discrimination. Here's what the Alamo DraftHouse said: Apologies, gentlemen, but we’re embracing our girl power and saying “No Guys Allowed” for one special night at the Alamo Ritz. And when we say “People Who Identify As Women Only,” we mean it. Everyone working at this screening -- venue staff, projectionist, and culinary team -- will be female [emphasis added]. http://archive.is/5eyUB Here's what the EEOC says: http://archive.is/NOpxj Note in particular the parts about recr…
/r/MensRights01/06/17 07:36 PM
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So where were all of your complaints when it was men only? The Alamo DraftHouse NEVER had a male only screening. So, what are you talking about?
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:41 AM
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If you answered "no" to both of these questions, then you're making a big deal out of nothing. The Alamo DraftHouse said that it planned on having a female only staff that night. I do NOT think that scheduling on the basis of sex, which sounds illegal according to the EEOC for an entity like the Alamo DraftHouse, "nothing". Lack of equal opportunity in jobs is a problem. And it looks like the Alamo DraftHouse plans to do exactly that.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:37 AM
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Warren Farrell's book Why Men Earn More argues precisely this. That no such gap exists. Do you know of any studies that controlled for all of the factors he talks about?
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:34 AM
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They said they would have a female only staff. You might want to read the EEOC on scheduling people on the basis of sex. Do you think that job discrimination against men isn't meaningful?
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:33 AM
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I still think it is silly and not worth our attention. Do you think job discrimination against men worth our attention? Do you think a movie theater probably not complying with EEOC regulations worth our attention?
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:32 AM
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Men make up the majority of the unemployed in several areas, and did overall in the United States during The Great Recession. If I were thinking about working at the Alamo DraftHouse and saw what they said about their employment on that evening, I would immediately forget about working there. You might want to read the EEOC says about such business practices. It is NOT legal to schedule people on the basis of their sex. It looks pretty bad for the Alamo DraftHouse, if they don't get their pants …
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:31 AM
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They said they would have only female staff. You might want to read the EEOC says about such business practices. It is NOT legal to schedule people on the basis of their sex. It looks pretty bad for the Alamo DraftHouse.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 08:29 AM
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This looks like one reddit, not a collection of several reddits. Generalizing from a single example has it's flaws.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 10:35 AM
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So? It doesn't follow that so-called "social justice" types, which they aren't actually, more like vigilante injustice types, don't play "Oppression Olympics".
/r/MensRights05/05/17 09:35 PM
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Just to be clear, you're saying the MRM shouldn't spend time focusing on issues that don't directly affect a majority of men? No, I'm NOT saying that. Again, /u/Ciceros_Assassin said: Anyway, we genuinely just wanted to share this around, because it's such [emphasis added] an important men's issue. In terms of being a "men's issue" it is not such an important issue. The first problem lies in that gay men make up a very small minority of men. And there exist plenty of distinct issues that affect …
/r/MensRights05/05/17 05:32 PM
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No, I don't. For you to make an explanation doesn't require anything of me.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:39 PM
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You aren't able to explain it, because there doesn't exist a sound basis to interpret what I said in toto as some sort of underwear joke.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:35 PM
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If so, then where do there exist laws or a law which discriminate against men on the basis of underwear?
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:25 PM
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No. It's more like having a female genital mutilation act in the United States (which includes type IV female genital mutilation), and similar things in England, but NOT having a similar male genital mutilation act in the United States.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:21 PM
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You know, when I hear people say that MR doesn't give enough support to minority men, I just don't know what to tell them. Tell them that the MAJORITY of men suffer from legal discrimination such as discrimination in protection with respect to their genitals. Tell them that the majority of men don't get enough support. And that such majorities of men include most of the members of minority groups.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:19 PM
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Anyway, we genuinely just wanted to share this around, because it's such an important men's issue. Gay men make up a small proportion of the male population. In terms of the proportion of men who have issues, NO, what you've referenced does not make for "such an important men's issue". That is, NO, it doesn't make for one of men's top issues in comparison to other issues. It's sad that MR subscribers constantly claim we never try to work with MR... You are NOT trying to address one of the issues…
/r/MensRights04/05/17 06:55 PM
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The only example worthy of attention (regarding rights) is the one related to sexual assault, and it serves no purpose but to paint women in a bad light. I'm pretty sure the police officer there says "meh. who cares?" So, no it doesn't do what you claimed it did. It can get interpreted as having the/a purpose of showing that police officers don't take victimization of men by women seriously.
/r/MensRights03/04/17 08:15 AM
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Look at the context. Pretty much the rest of the document includes both men and women explicitly. But, not in that part. So, the context suggests that women aren't needed.
/r/MensRights03/04/17 12:05 AM
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So, under your interpretation it follows that women aren't needed in the solution to these problems.
/r/MensRights01/04/17 10:26 PM
1

How exactly can economists produce reputable studies of prostitution when it is often illegal? Doesn't economists getting involved in such "Freakonomics" studies have all sorts of problems with methodological rigor which makes the topic that much more prone to error than economics already is?
/r/MensRights01/04/17 08:20 AM
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Well for the most part men are the perpetrators. I'm not really sure how big a difference we have here. But, even granting your premise, so what? If we have some country where say blacks make up most of those who get convicted of murder, it is not appropriate to say "murder can be reduced by engaging young blacks to step in and provide peer leadership against murder, and by mobilizing blacks as allies in preventing murder". And well, it shouldn't be, because white murderers still exist. And neit…
/r/MensRights01/04/17 08:13 AM
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I don't think you read that all that carefully: This can be done by engaging young people to step in and provide peer leadership against condoning violence, and by mobilizing men and boys as allies in preventing sexual and relationship violence. So women don't have any responsibility in preventing such? And allies to what exactly? Feminism?
/r/MensRights01/04/17 04:56 AM
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Darwin's book was called: The Descent of Man. Creationists aren't saying "but he was only talking about men... he left out the women!"
/r/MensRights31/03/17 07:39 PM
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In the Indo-European languages, man has always ment male human. you can easily look them up on sites like wiktionary or etymology online, if you can spare the five minutes of your life. No, it hasn't. "Old English man, mann "human being, person (male or female [emphasis added]); brave man, hero; servant, vassal," from Proto-Germanic *manwaz (source also of Old Saxon, Swedish, Dutch, Old High German man, German Mann, Old Norse maðr, Danish mand, Gothic manna "man"), from PIE root *man- (1) "man" …
/r/MensRights31/03/17 07:30 PM
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They take a vote. The response struck me as kind of prudent for a President of such a group, since it didn't imply any official position of the group, just that the vote did not pass on the previous attempt. Though, of course, I might have read that a bit too quickly.
/r/MensRights31/03/17 06:43 AM
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Close the university down.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 10:22 PM
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This is a duplicate post: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/5s1n79/women_laughing_about_violent_abuse/
/r/MensRights20/03/17 06:08 PM
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Given the majority white population disenfranchised the minority population, it's not yours to decide whether you should give them positions of power. Employers, in general, get to decide whom they hire. They get to decide what power they give. You know what percentage of Fortune 500 CEO's are women? 4%. Now you have some perspective. I had some idea of that before that. The glass ceiling presupposes that women can't reach the top. But, clearly they do. So, there is no glass ceiling. Also, pleas…
/r/MensRights20/03/17 02:27 AM
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Sure, The Red Pill is pretty awesome. I backed it myself. But, she's not even proposing a project at this point in time. You have no idea of the topic that she would make a movie on.
/r/MensRights19/03/17 09:50 PM
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I guess archiving could be useful in case of censorship. But, I think most people around here want Karen to get more clicks.
/r/MensRights19/03/17 09:40 PM
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Because this is so ridiculously important compared to all the systemic barriers against women in society. I don't of barriers against women in society. But, even if they do exist, having your body attacked is more serious than getting denied a job. You can get another job. Or women might marry someone who will provide for her. Men can't get a ridged band or a frenulum after circumcision. Think of it as "We don't view people who practice a religion as being inherently violent, we just view the re…
/r/MensRights19/03/17 09:32 PM
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However, it is not proof that men are an oppressed gender. It's simply absurd to say that getting forcibly strapped down to a table, having your penis forcibly penetrated by a metal object, then having your penis forcibly made to penetrate a foreign object, and having bodily structure permanently removed in the process does not amount to oppression. Again, we can be angry about an issue men face without viewing it as a result of a hierarchy that puts men below people of other a/genders. Type IV …
/r/MensRights19/03/17 05:36 PM
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I don't know about those on that subreddit you mentioned, but Trump himself is a feminist: http://time.com/4392409/ivanka-trump-donald-trump-feminist/ There's even more evidence of that from his gynocentric policies and the way he spoke in his address to Congress.
/r/MensRights18/03/17 11:15 PM
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Ugh... 10% of boys is still a lot of boys every year. And we're talking about a human rights violation which involves permanent scarification and destruction of bodily structures. I mean, sure 10% in comparison to 84% looks great and is better then 84% or 74%, but that still makes for a large number of individuals. The numbers in some European countries are better.
/r/MensRights16/03/17 02:55 AM
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The Obama administration. The Trump administration I don't think has responded to that yet. I think the Trump administration still has to consider whether they want a National Council on Women and Girls. That said, I fully expect to slam the door in the face of Warren Farrell's group trying to found a National Council on Men and Boys.
/r/MensRights08/03/17 05:55 PM
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No, the double standard in the Selective Service System was not created by feminists. The double standard in domestic violence policy did not originate with feminists. Male genital cutting did not start with feminists. Feminists are not the primary cause of violence against men. The disparity in prison sentencing also probably did not start with feminists. You say that you're new here. If you don't recognize men's issues which don't have feminism as their primary problem, well then you're the na…
/r/MensRights07/03/17 06:06 AM
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So much of this sub is focused on women. This post is focused on policy by the Trump administration. Not women. Trump is not a woman. Nor are most members of Congress who put forth and signed the laws. They are gynocentrist men whose policies we have criticized.
/r/MensRights03/03/17 02:05 AM
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How is trying to make things equal, putting one sex over the other? It puts the opportunities of women over those of men. It is NOT trying to make things equal in terms of equality of opportunity. Your argument would make sense if there were as many women as men in STEM at the moment, but there aren't. STEM actually consists of a vague term that doesn't have consistent agreement among academics as to what it means. Do you include psychology? Do you include fields like nursing? Do you include soc…
/r/MensRights02/03/17 10:44 PM
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How is having more people in STEM not a good thing? It's not good if you value one sex over another. It is also not good if you have preferential treatment towards one sex. This sort of policy bears a certain sort of resemblance towards affirmative action which makes gender relevant when it doesn't have any bearing on the job that gets done. They so belligerently hate Trump that they wouldn't even acknowledge when he said something good. I don't agree that such programs are good in the first pla…
/r/MensRights02/03/17 10:01 PM
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Don't get me wrong I totally see the reasoning, I just think too often in this sub it becomes more about "women bad, men good". This post isn't about "women bad, men good." It's about policy and what has gotten signed by the legislature and the executive branch, not some sort of statement about women and men. Also, I don't agree that this is good. One-way gender policy is not good, and the Trump administration shows a tendency of going only one way. Trump is a feminist: http://time.com/4392409/i…
/r/MensRights02/03/17 06:53 AM
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Is making fun men's issues an official goal of Buzzfeed or is that something that some writers there have done? Do all writers at Buzzfeed necessarily share the opinions of those other authors at Buzzfeed who have made fun of men's issues?
/r/MensRights01/03/17 06:13 PM
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I don't see any connection to men's rights or men's issues here.
/r/MensRights01/03/17 05:31 PM
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There exist comparable death rates for breast cancer and prostrate cancer. http://dailycaller.com/2010/10/05/breast-cancer-receives-much-more-research-funding-publicity-than-prostate-cancer-despite-similar-number-of-victims/ http://neoneocon.com/2013/05/29/prostate-vs-breast-cancer/ Yet, breast cancer funding receives a lot more funding. I also don't find a good reason to prefer research toward helping people who die at a younger age when we talk about disease. In addition to what /u/Badgerz92 h…
/r/MensRights01/03/17 05:27 PM
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Sounds like a bunch of gossip so far. Who knows?
/r/MensRights01/03/17 06:15 AM
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They have the data against feminist claims, they know feminism is bullshit. But its the narrative they have to peddle. So why do they then set up a federal office of women's health but no federal office of men's health? Why does the government spend so much more money on women's health than on men's health? Wouldn't they not actually do such things if they believed it bullshit?
/r/MensRights01/03/17 06:08 AM
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The Feminist in Chief mentions women's health. He didn't mention women's health. He touted his program about women entrepreneurs, which isn't competitive capitalism, but rather special treatment of women. There doesn't seem to exist any sort of similar measure for men in elementary education or psychological counseling or other careers where psychology can matter and men are in the minority.
/r/MensRights01/03/17 05:28 AM
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Meet the new feminist boss. He sounds like the old feminist boss. And yes, I mean feminist boss (or Time or Ivanka were lying): http://time.com/4392409/ivanka-trump-donald-trump-feminist/
/r/MensRights01/03/17 05:22 AM
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And that Trump is a feminist comes from an article in Time where they quote Ivanka saying that he is a feminist: http://time.com/4392409/ivanka-trump-donald-trump-feminist/
/r/MensRights01/03/17 05:14 AM
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It warns men about certain people in the dating world. At least, I very much doubt that the author is the only woman who thinks that way.
/r/MensRights26/02/17 01:43 AM
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I don't think they reached impeachment with Nixon, but I think most people from the time believe that it would have come had he not resigned. Less seriously... What do you mean Clinton diddled Monica??? He didn't have sex sex with that woman... he only got a blow job!!! ?
/r/MensRights12/02/17 04:51 PM
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The principles of the women's march were such that women's rights and human rights are equivalent: http://archive.is/hXlI6 Feminists have long said that women's rights are human rights which if interpreted as meaning that women's rights are part of human rights, that might work. Perhaps that interpretation gives a little too much undeserved credit, but whatever. Now they have said that human rights are women rights also. Um, excuse me? Human rights are not a subset of women's rights, nor equival…
/r/MensRights24/01/17 06:37 AM
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I see that also. And I don't understand it either.
/r/MensRights23/01/17 05:30 PM
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Thanks for your comment. Don't get me wrong; I can't say I'm optimistic here. Did you sign the petition? Have you shared it anywhere?
/r/MensRights22/01/17 04:57 PM
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I think the number of offices on women's health and none for men is a national travesty of age that purports to be about "gender equality". Thank you for pointing out that there exists much more to equity in the federal government than the issue of National Councils.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 03:55 PM
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As entertaining as this is, the only relevance I see to men's rights here is how easily Lauren Southern could legally become a man.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 07:11 AM
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Does the National Council on Women and Girls even still exist or was that a project which didn't necessarily transfer to the new administration? When I did a search for that council, the White House website indicates it can't find such: https://www.whitehouse.gov/administration/eop/cwg Either two National Councils one for men and one for women, or none at all.
/r/MensRights22/01/17 06:44 AM
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The user who posted this and got banned probably is a man. So, it does concern the opportunities of one man.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 09:02 AM
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The user who posted this is probably a man. Consequently, it has to do with the opportunities of a man.
/r/MensRights19/12/16 01:28 AM
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Where? What thread?
/r/MensRights06/12/16 03:50 PM
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Tom Golden made a post about this not too long ago: http://menaregood.blogspot.com/2015/10/International-Day-of-the-Boy.html
/r/MensRights12/10/16 02:23 AM
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"Equal rights necessitate equal prerequisites." No, they don't. People have an equal right to their freedom of speech, their freedom of assembly, their right to a jury trial, etc. even though they do not have the same education, intelligence, ability to defend themselves in court, money, and social influence. Nor do they pay the same amount to the state, but they still have equality of rights for those things. However, if we are talking about earned rights, then yes equal rights necessitate equa…
/r/MensRights30/09/16 04:58 PM
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He could have referred to his belly. His arms. Or the size of his head. But even if he referred to his penis so what? I'll note she talked to someone with what looks like a badge, so it seems like she wanted to contact law enforcement. Was this a workplace situation or a situation which involves a position of trust at least? Did this consist of anything more than isolated incident? Did it consist of anything more than an off-hand comment? Did it consist of anything more than simple teasing? Was …
/r/MensRights22/08/16 08:51 PM
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Perhaps your view is that because he's a man, Obama can only be pro-feminist, he can't actually be a feminist. For the record Obama appeared on the campaign trail with one of those "this is what a feminist looks like" shirts a while back. He said so in June: http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/2016/06/14/obama-what-feminist-looks-like/85883712/ Then he penned this piece this month: http://archive.is/KhiUu
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 05:26 PM
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Complaining that women get their own chances really is pathetic and diminishes us greatly. I believe I encouraged comparing men and women thoroughly. So, please reconsider the accuracy of what you just said. I welcome women competing in the same division as men. I welcome them getting subjected to the same standard as the male competitors. I just want that thoroughly done and not have some sort of special treatment for women. Not on the basis of their sex. Additionally, I regret to inform you, b…
/r/MensRights22/08/16 08:41 AM
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Warren Farrell has sometimes sounded like such a calm voice.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 08:28 AM
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The Olympics though isn't there to establish best in class for the most part. Other than the sex division, there do exist weight divisions, but that's about it. The 400 meter dash of The Olympics isn't some division for 20 and 30 years olds. It represents the best in the world at that time, and pretty much even trumps the World Championships that go on in terms of prestige.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 08:01 AM
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I will assert that the sex segregation of sports causes us to regard women athletes as more deserving of praise even when they are not as good as particular male athletes who are not strictly speaking the champions. At the very least, how is it fair to regard a better male athlete as less worthy of notice when he is better at the sport than the so-called female champion?
/r/MensRights22/08/16 05:30 AM
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We know that women can't compete with men in sport. We simply don't know about future possibilities of men and women competing. It makes for an ancient mistake, pointed out first I believe by Aristotle, to talk about knowledge of future events, and I think you have ventured into that sort of territory. Additionally, I will point out that women have won the dance competition So You Think You Can Dance several times (when they had mixed competition the ratio of men to women winning was exactly equ…
/r/MensRights22/08/16 05:19 AM
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Plenty of male athletes including Olympians have less recognition as athletes while women athletes who perform worse have more recognition. Do you know of Katie Ledecky? Well, do you even know the name of the 4th or the 5th or the 6th place finisher in the men's heats who almost surely have better times than her? The above just doesn't sound much like trolling that doesn't make sense on closer examination, but more like pointing out a process of actual discrimination which takes a while to recog…
/r/MensRights22/08/16 02:02 AM
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lol
/r/MensRights22/08/16 01:52 AM
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This deserves more attention.
/r/MensRights22/08/16 01:20 AM
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This article has a good response: http://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2016/08/why_do_womens_sports_even_exist.html#ixzz4HtpBjjgd
/r/MensRights21/08/16 06:52 PM
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First off, the reporting is sexist, but not in the way the author of this article thinks. The reporting attributes to Ledecky a world record when I believe she has no such thing. All of the world records happened in the men's heats and Katie Ledecky doesn't have a faster time than any of them. Now, the Olympics currently gives out six medals for each swimming event. A bronze for a woman and a man, a silver for a woman and a man, and a gold for a woman and a man. Now, if we compare Ledecky's time…
/r/MensRights21/08/16 06:50 PM
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Hey look, you still make false character insinuations, which you probably did back in elementary school and have someone else approve of it ... like this: They did it to me so I will laugh at it happening to others - how mature. The referenced article did NOT laugh at sexual assault happening to others. There were ZERO particular sexual assaults referenced by the article. ZERO. Each of those "incidents" was a non-sexual assault which jokingly got re-interpreted as a sexual assault. So, you impli…
/r/MensRights19/08/16 03:43 PM
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Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies trying to con people into believing that women have fewer rights then men when in reality women have more rights then men (genital integrity rights, parental surrender rights, can vote more often, etc.) There, I fixed that for you.
/r/MensRights13/08/16 03:53 PM
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So, it looks like you put feminism ahead of anything else. If intactivist ideas imply the existence of misandry, then forego intactivism, because misandry can’t exist. If intactivism fits with the oppression of men and boys to a greater degree than the oppression of women and girls, because the oppression of men and boys can’t exist or can’t work out as greater than the oppression of women and girls. If you don’t like how some men do intactivism, just shame them as whiny manbabies like tradition…
/r/MensRights07/08/16 04:57 AM
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Intactivism consists of a movement so that children can have intact genitals growing up. That means advocating that instead of girl's or boy's genitals getting cut, advocacy for those genitals remain in their natural state. Feminism is the bizarre con game that tries to convince people that putting women's and girl's interests ahead of men and boy's is a way of promoting equality between the sexes. Feminism has little to do with intactivism in parts of the world where there already exists a law …
/r/MensRights07/08/16 04:48 AM
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Foreskins get used in women's facial creams, to grow stem cells, to grow vaccines, and to grow grafts for burn victims. Which in effect makes it just wrong to claim that circumcision has no benefit to women or men in any sense. That said, so far as I know, all of that can get accomplished with other materials. Additionally, male foreskin penectomy often gets done without a clear and present medical reason to the infant or boy it gets performed on. It is robbery, and also involves a boy's penis g…
/r/MensRights07/08/16 04:43 AM
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I had my penis cut as an infant. Even though that does not satisfy any legal definition of sexual assault, since my penis got penetrated by a metal prod, and then got made to penetrate a metal clamp, morally speaking I consider that sexual assault. I don't have a conscious memory of it, but I still have the physical scar, and a slight wrinkle from that cutting also. When I was in high school, many of the students in the marching band use to roll up their drill books and hit someone else's genita…
/r/MensRights06/08/16 08:31 PM
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Obama is a feminist. Trudeau is a feminist. Joe Biden is a feminist and more.
/r/MensRights06/08/16 01:01 AM
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It wouldn't work out as just one group. If they would write the law such that only men would get punished, then you have discrimination in the law which results in inequality of treatment under the law. If they write the law in a gender-neutral manner, then the freedom to catcall would get removed from both men and women. In other words, the scope of both men and women's free speech rights would get reduced.
/r/MGTOW28/07/16 10:31 AM
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Via free speech laws, catcalling qualifies as legal speech for men. Women can also catcall via such laws. The author of this post talks about removing freedoms from both men and women.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 10:21 AM
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I'm pretty sure that neither your balls, nor your penis falls off if you wear a skirt. And for the record, the MRA, and man, Mel Feit has worn a skirt for a number of years during public appearances.
/r/MensRights23/07/16 06:09 AM
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Video cameras not being allowed indicates a lack of accountability.
/r/MensRights22/07/16 07:58 PM
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One group is overwhelmingly the victims of violence, men. The greatest predictor of being a victim of violence is being a member of the male sex. Additionally, women have the intent to kill more often than men. Just compare abortion statistics to homicide and suicide statistics. And there exist more male victims of violence than perpetrators of violence.
/r/MensRights16/07/16 08:14 PM
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Did they even consider for a second also making misandry into a hate crime? What about uninvited verbal engagement from women to men?
/r/MensRights13/07/16 05:47 PM

Saying that Black Lives Matter posts are a men's rights issue, as indicated by the original Black Lives Matter, is like saying that feminism is competent to handle men's rights issues. The original Black Lives Matter is a feminist movement. They don't have a male-positive space on their website. They mention women and queers as groups worthy of concern, but not men as worthy of concern. Additionally, people aren't white or black first before being a man or woman. In other words, a man or woman i…
/r/MensRights13/07/16 04:38 AM

Have you read the Black Lives Matter site? The founders of that movement are feminists and the site is thoroughly feminist. They have sections on women and queers, but when they mention men they say that they shouldn't be in the front. They are not male affirming or male positive.
/r/MensRights13/07/16 04:15 AM
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Your first statement is the kind of headlines you see in the news. What? Which news source has a headline like my statement that there exist more male victims of violent crime than male perpetrators of violent crime? What headline do you honestly find similar?
/r/MensRights12/07/16 05:00 PM
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There exist more male victims of violent crime than male perpetrators of those crimes. There exist more men in prisons or homeless or starving or have gotten killed than CEOs and Presidents. More men in plenty of countries and states can't vote today than women due to felony (and sometimes even misdemeanor) voting laws.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 04:30 AM
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He talked with Warren Farrell a year ago for a while. Maybe that influenced him.
/r/MensRights12/07/16 04:26 AM
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No, Black Lives Matter is not an MRA movement. In fact, they are a feminist movement, as others here have already pointed out. Here's an archive link: http://archive.is/ARBH4 Hence, the usual, and thoroughly absurd, playing up of race over sex on this sort of issue. They even talk about a "herstory" of their movement. If you look into their founders, you'll also find socialist roots.
/r/MensRights11/07/16 11:25 PM
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What are you talking about rampant libertarian nonsense? The law in the State of California is clear in that in certain spaces, such as a shopping center, there does exist a right to free speech even if private individuals or a private corporation own the land or building. Facebook is in the State of California. They do have a functional equivalence to a public commons.
/r/MensRights11/07/16 08:47 PM
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A "public forum", for First Amendment purposes, is a government-owned property that the government is constitutionally-obligated to make available for speech. I wasn't referring to the First Amendment to the federal constitution. To rule otherwise would allow the California Constitution to supersede the Federal constitution and render the Supremacy Clause dead letter. No, it wouldn't. The federal constitution does NOT say what states rights on free speech are when such speech is not protected by…
/r/MensRights11/07/16 05:36 AM
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No, I'm not using the term 'public property' at all. The case I referred to involves private property, and says so explicitly. Did you mean public character? Well, I think, but I'm not sure, that on any given day more people go on Facebook these days than to a shopping center. So Facebook probably has more of a public character than a shopping center at this point in time.
/r/MensRights11/07/16 04:36 AM
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They can say that, but... Can speech legally get owned according to the California State Constitution? Edit: You're wrong: You own [emphasis added] all of the content and information you post on Facebook, and you can control how it is shared through your privacy and application settings. https://www.facebook.com/legal/terms
/r/MensRights11/07/16 03:42 AM
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Can Facebook even do this legally? "'[The] countervailing interest which [the owner] endeavors to vindicate emanates from the exclusive possession and enjoyment of private property. Because of the public character of the shopping center, however, the impairment of [the owner's] interest must be largely theoretical. [The owner] has fully opened his property to the public … .'" http://danfingerman.com/law/cases/Pruneyard_Cal.html Facebook does have a public character and has it's headquarters in C…
/r/MensRights11/07/16 03:12 AM
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And such a right does, sometimes, exist on private property in the State of California. The headquarters of Facebook is located in California. If Facebook qualifies as similar to a shopping center or a non-public university in that it has functional equivalence to a traditional public forum, and California state law applies to Facebook, then it would seem that the right of free speech exists on Facebook if the law is consistent: http://www.firstamendmentcenter.org/assembly-on-private-property Do…
/r/MensRights11/07/16 02:42 AM
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There can and does sometimes exist a right to free speech on private property. The Pruneyard case shows this. I've posted a link to it in this thread elsewhere.
/r/MensRights11/07/16 01:45 AM
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The Pruneyard Shopping Center couldn't legally just kick people out for their political speech. Maybe Facebook isn't similar to the Pruneyard Shopping Center or some other privately owned establishment where there does exist a right to free speech, but, Facebook is not like the back of someone's car. Please.
/r/MensRights11/07/16 01:43 AM
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No, free speech doesn't apply only to the government: https://www.law.cornell.edu/supremecourt/text/447/74 I mean free speech doesn't only apply to spaces owned by the government. That said, that doesn't mean that free speech applies to Facebook. But, note that Facebook has it's headquarters in California, the state where the Pruneyard case took place and where some forms of free speech on some forms of private property do apply. Facebook is a public commons. So, there might exist an argument th…
/r/MensRights11/07/16 12:02 AM
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It doesn't look like it if you check with the National Organization of Women. They still believe Emma Sulkowicz, and even more strikingly, they still believe Jackie in the University of Virginia hoax.
/r/MensRights10/07/16 11:41 PM
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Those two are not mutually exclusive. Both probably happen. I'm not saying that they happen at the same rate, just both happen.
/r/MensRights10/07/16 04:24 PM
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I have confidence that even with more thorough and evenhanded studies of this issue, the gap disfavoring men in comparison to women would still end up larger than the gap disfavoring blacks in comparison to whites (or non-blacks).
/r/MensRights10/07/16 04:15 PM
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This source indicates Native Americans killed at a greater rate than blacks. Also, white Americans get killed more often than Asians. http://www.cjcj.org/news/8113 Also, I suggest getting over "you can never say that" and start saying things like that. The evidence points in that direction, so start making it known... at least so long as you want to talk about identity categories or someone else does.
/r/MensRights10/07/16 04:04 AM
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You also speak of "irrefutable data" that institutional male privilege exists. Fine, please state what special rights that men have under the law exactly. In other words, state what that institutional privilege refers to. I note that you didn't do that above, because the representational percentage of men in office is not a right. Nor is men holding office more often than women a right in the law. Also, please show that such exists, by not just stating words that say what the law is, but referri…
/r/MensRights06/07/16 03:20 PM
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However, when I look at the distribution of political power in the U.S., 71% of elected officials are male. Political power is more than just holding office. We live in a democracy. The fundamental political power in a democracy consists of the right to vote. There exist more women who can vote than men, and more women who do vote than men. Mothers also make the decision as to whether or not to have their child's genitals cut more often than fathers. If men are being discriminated against, and m…
/r/MensRights06/07/16 03:11 PM
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I could be wrong, but I doubt that sexually transmitted diseases all that likely to get transmitted by anal penetration with a fist (unless there exists a cut on the fist). Sure, I'd probably sue them and be pissed as hell, but I could do that under sexual assault laws or probably even assault or battery laws. Also, no one will get pregnant by such an anal rape. No one will have to pay child support later on. So, in addition to what I might feel, the consequences of a typical anal fisting sexual…
/r/MensRights24/06/16 07:22 PM
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So, why is rape a special crime of it's own then? Why not just make it into a form of assault or battery?
/r/MensRights24/06/16 07:16 PM
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I suspect many people will try to dismiss your perspective out of hand. One question that people don't seem to consider is Why is rape a special crime of it's own? I mean, it could prosecuted as assault or battery, couldn't it? The pregnancy issue provides a simple and compelling answer to the question of why rape is a special crime of it's own.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 07:13 PM
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Maybe you are right about how I would feel if someone shoved a beer bottle in my anus. But, there's more to it than that. From a broader perspective you have to look at the potential effects of the behavior as well as how people do or might feel about the assault. Finger in vagina sexual assault stands as extremely unlikely to cause pregnancy or, I believe, transmit venereal disease (unless, the fingers get laced with sperm or blood). On the other hand, penis in vagina rape OR vagina over penis …
/r/MensRights24/06/16 07:01 PM
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He will have to serve parole. He will lose the right to vote until he completes his parole, which looks like it means at least one year after completing the jail sentence if not four years after completing the jail sentence: http://www.sentencingproject.org/publications/felony-disenfranchisement-a-primer/ http://www.recordgone.com/articles/parole-vs-probation-california.htm#fn4 He has to register as a sex offender for life. This case is so high profile that it will follow him around for the rest…
/r/MensRights24/06/16 04:53 PM
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Sure, there exist men out there who have done significantly less and faced much much worse punishments. But, the same can accurately get said for the vast majority of criminal convictions. There almost always exist harsher punishments out there. Additionally, the phrase slap on the wrist is not correctly used to indicate that some harsher punishments exist. The phrase slap on the wrist gets correctly used to indicate that a punishment is not harsh in comparison to all punishments, or at least th…
/r/MensRights24/06/16 04:46 PM
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I've already indicated that he wasn't convicted of rape. Seriously, go learn what the state law says here. A figure of speech is only appropriate when something ends up like what the figure of speech refers to. Again, Turner punishment is not like getting slapped on the wrist. A slap on the wrist is MUCH LESS severe than what Turner gets here. And thus, his consequences are not like a slap on the wrist.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 04:13 PM
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We might alternatively advocate that someone like Turner, who has gotten convicted of criminal behavior, should have the right to vote while on parole and while incarcerated. After all, his behavior doesn't in any way make him less competent to judge who might lead us, how health care should or should not get handled, how taxes should work, how much defense needs to get prioritized, and basically the whole gamut of political issues.
/r/MensRights24/06/16 04:04 PM
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No, it doesn't meet feminists' requirements. His behavior as determined by the court is not getting tolerated, accepted, or excused. It's getting punished. And it ends up more than just the sentence. He got convicted of felonies, and thus he won't have the right to vote while incarcerated and won't have the opportunity to regain it until he completes his parole. That consists of the system sending the message that he doesn't deserve to even have a voice in the political process, because of his b…
/r/MensRights24/06/16 03:10 PM
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I find it disgusting that you think he has just gotten a slap on the wrist. Have you gone to jail? Have you had your right to vote taken away? Do you have to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life? If so, does the consequences of all that really work out as equivalent to someone just slapping your wrist?
/r/MensRights24/06/16 02:56 PM
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He has to go to jail for several months. He has to serve parole after he completes that. He loses the right to vote while incarcerated for the felonies, and until he completes his parole which looks like it will end up as at least one year, if not four years: http://www.recordgone.com/articles/parole-vs-probation-california.htm#fn4 http://www.sentencingproject.org/publications/felony-disenfranchisement-a-primer/ He will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life. This case is so…
/r/MensRights24/06/16 03:39 AM
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It hardly ever works out as just three months in county jail. He will have to serve parole. He will lose the right to vote until he completes his parole, which looks like it means at least one year after completing the jail sentence if not four years after completing the jail sentence: http://www.sentencingproject.org/publications/felony-disenfranchisement-a-primer/ http://www.recordgone.com/articles/parole-vs-probation-california.htm#fn4 He has to register as a sex offender for life. This case …
/r/MensRights24/06/16 03:32 AM
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It's not quite like that. Men can lose their right to vote if the state decides to convict them of the felony of failing to register with the Selective Service System. And felony voting laws apply in 48 states: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Felony_disenfranchisement
/r/MensRights24/06/16 02:10 AM
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In 48 states if convicted of a felony, the man or woman convicted loses the right to vote while they are in prison. Sometimes for misdemeanors also. And sometimes while on parole also or even for life in some states. I made a post related to this a while back: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/364uq6/some_figures_on_the_loss_of_voting_rights_by_sex/ You might see here also: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Felony_disenfranchisement Brock Turner, living in California, won't have the right…
/r/MensRights24/06/16 02:08 AM
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Well Scott Adams is either ignorant of voting trends or just throwing them out the window. Women voting have outnumbered men voting in every federal election since 1966. Women have voted at higher rates than men in every presidential election since 1980. http://www.cawp.rutgers.edu/research/women-voters-and-gender-gap Women also can vote at a higher rate than men, and that has pretty much held since the 19th amendment came into effect, due to felony voting laws and men getting convicted for crim…
/r/MensRights23/06/16 07:42 PM
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I didn't. Rape isn't the only sex crime.
/r/MensRights21/06/16 03:57 PM
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Something which is significantly more likely to cause unwanted pregnancy or transmit disease is morally distinguishable from something far less likely to cause unwanted pregnancy or transmit disease. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4p2puq/brock_turner_was_not_convicted_of_rape/d4hszt1
/r/MensRights21/06/16 10:10 AM
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From an ethical perspective, in terms of the severity of the offense, the most severe consequences likely enough to occur need to get take into account. In the case of a penis in vagina rape those consequences include but are not limited to: Forced pregnancy. Transmission of physically disabling or even deadly disease by fluids. In the case of finger in vagina sexual assault, forced pregnancy is not likely enough to occur, because it is not all that likely that the sexual assaulter laces their f…
/r/MensRights21/06/16 10:07 AM
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A man falsely getting called a convicted rapist prejudices people against him. That can make it harder socially for him. Even if correctly convicted of a crime, it ends up as important as to whether people have prejudice against him or not, because even former murders and former rapists will need to get a job and exist in society if they get released from prison.
/r/MensRights21/06/16 09:55 AM
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Turner is not an actual rapist. The prosecution actually originally planned to charge him with two counts of rape. They dropped BOTH of those charges. Turner did get convicted on one count of attempted rape, and two counts of sexual assault. I've made a post about this here, where you can find links to the court documents: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/4p2puq/brock_turner_was_not_convicted_of_rape/
/r/MensRights21/06/16 04:05 AM
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This post wasn't about other moderators personally speaking. Criticism of the moderation of other moderators deserves to get put in public. It makes that moderation more accountable and potentially makes it easier to address grievances.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 03:18 PM
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If you cut off my pinky, I can go on and enjoy life decently. If you take away my children, you'll take my will to live. The former is physical assault. The later is not. Additionally, taking away someone's children may or may not take away their will to live. Taking away part of someone's body can also take away their will to live. Jonathan Conte may well tell you that if he hadn't recently committed suicide. You can potentially get contact with your children back also. No matter how unlikely, …
/r/MensRights02/06/16 11:16 PM
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I just don't think it's nearly the societal issue as the others mentioned. I don't know where you live, but seriously check up on the rate of cutting of minors without their consent where you live. In the United States and plenty of other places those numbers end up at levels comparable to any other men's issues, if not higher. Additionally, many states have laws forbidding female genital cutting in all it's forms explicitly written into law including type IV female genital mutilation. Hardly an…
/r/MensRights02/06/16 09:08 PM
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By all means indicate which men's rights issues he brings up. Also, by all means how he can approve of having boys having their genitals such that they permanently loose structures and have a scar from the cutting and still qualify as 'outspoken about men's rights issues'.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 08:03 PM
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Bomb threats are illegal. They also stop people from speaking, because of a real fear for their safety. This also doesn't bring attention to the MRM, because Milo is not an MRA. And even if it did, bomb threats are not good.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 05:29 PM
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Please show me where I said men dying was hilarious. I'll wait. You said: Three hilariously cherry-picked examples. in response to: I cannot see how we could have been when 10 million were killed in the first world war 15 million in the second and it was women and children first on the Titanic. It's cherry-picked because the opposition will just say "women only got the vote 100 years ago and only x% of CEOs are women". The first statement isn't true, because voting depended on state laws (and st…
/r/MensRights29/05/16 10:57 PM
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Three hilariously cherry-picked examples. There exists little hilarious about millions of men dying in wars. Additionally, men dying and getting seriously injured and maimed in war is not an instance of cherry picking. The primary victims of wars are men.
/r/MensRights29/05/16 02:02 PM
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Of course they don't mention the (previous) legality of wives raping their husbands.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 11:09 PM
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It consists of one thing to call Ms. Glenn a hypocrite. It consists of another to call her a feminist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gal31umPpGQ In particular 2:40 and on. Though, admittedly, it probably would qualify as fair to describe her as gynocentrist in orientation.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 07:02 PM
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The undergraduate population is 51% female, the graduate population is 48% female, and the professional population is 49% female. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvard_University Yeah, sure doesn't look like there exists male dominance at Harvard.
/r/MensRights13/05/16 05:06 PM
1

I don't think we've very well defined 'men's rights' issue so far. a rule that unilaterally enforces its practice across genders can only qualifiy as an everyone issue, despite it having a larger impact on males of that group. The law may say that all panhandling is illegal. However, with things like the fairly well studied disparity in criminal sentencing length, it would seem that similarly situated homeless men stand as more likely to get arrested for panhandling then similarly situated women…
/r/MensRights04/05/16 03:43 PM
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Most of the homeless are men. Our own FAQ says: Instead, MR is about the vast number of people at the bottom - the glass cellar - including the homeless [emphasis added], unemployed, divorced, victims of violence, depressed/suicidal, etc. These are also predominantly men [emphasis added]. http://unstats.un.org/unsd/demographic/sconcerns/housing/comp1995/TABLE08.pdf This comment also has relevance: I’ve seen cardboard panhandling signs held by women that ask for help because she’s pregnant. (Gene…
/r/MensRights04/05/16 03:12 PM
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"Domestic violence experts said Jones’ story of abuse isn’t unusual. Sgt. Carol Adams points out that the cases are grossly under-reported and too few men seek protective orders. Adams said a review of assault cases in Richmond two years ago showed just how prevalent it is to see women battering men. “We looked at those aggravated assaults from that time-frame, it was 50-50. Meaning that half of the time women were just as aggressive carrying out domestic abuse,” Sgt. Adams said."
/r/MensRights04/05/16 11:06 AM
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"The American Civil Liberties Union of Ohio has filed suit against the city of Akron for a decade-old panhandling ordinance that it says violates First Amendment rights of people who beg for money." ""Upon information and belief, the Anti-Panhandling Ordinance is only enforced against individuals who are perceived to be poor or homeless, and not against other individuals who solicit funds, for example, in connection with nonprofit corporations," the lawsuit says, later saying that the law "furth…
/r/MensRights04/05/16 11:03 AM
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The case went both to the university and to the police. The university wants evidence destroyed: "The university wants the student to be ordered to destroy private medical reports by a sexual-assault nurse examiner for the student who alleged she was raped." He was in jail a few days after the encounter and... "... John's attorney provided St. Thomas' lawyers with audio recordings from several people who saw his client and Jane flirting and kissing that night, as well as a photograph, taken whil…
/r/MensRights03/05/16 08:52 PM
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Maybe this is better: http://www.hurriyetdailynews.com/Default.aspx?pageID=238&nid=97142&NewsCatID=341
/r/MensRights03/05/16 04:13 AM
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She didn't just call him a rapist. She called him a serial rapist.
/r/MensRights02/05/16 07:31 PM
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Not a single word about women who sexually harass, as if female managers didn't exist. Also, the definitions of sexual harassment used by corporations probably vary significantly among corporations.
/r/MensRights02/05/16 06:51 PM
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Taxpayer-supported Michigan State University maintains a women’s only study lounge in its Student Union building. I want to see what happens when a men's only study lounge gets set up.
/r/MensRights01/05/16 06:37 PM
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It is almost like they want to create a criminal class by overreaching and maintain it through disenfranchisement. Invoking a hypothesis of 'gender-mandering' might be a bit of a stretch. However, the number of men who have gotten disenfranchised in America is not small. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/364uq6/some_figures_on_the_loss_of_voting_rights_by_sex/
/r/MensRights28/04/16 05:57 PM
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Did the author check her links in this paragraph? Academic courses about male issues have gained currency at several universities in the past few years. There is a men’s studies department at Hobart and William Smith colleges, and there’s also a Center for the Study of Men and Masculinity at Stony Brook University. Stony Brook’s Michael Kimmel has been leading the way in research on men’s issues. In offering a men’s studies course, Columbia can encourage other Ivy League schools to investigate t…
/r/MensRights28/04/16 05:38 AM
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Meanwhile the sentencing gap between men and women for the same crime is something like 6x the gap between whites and blacks. I've read studies that point out a larger gap between men and women than black and whites. What is your source for the gender gap being 6 times as large as the racial gap?
/r/MensRights28/04/16 05:11 AM
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Academic feminism and postmodernism, where there is no truth, have a long history of friendship.
/r/MensRights28/04/16 04:13 AM
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There exist many reasons. One not mentioned so far lies in that the case got trumpeted by many people as a rape case. Make no mistake, even if the accusations against Ghomeshi were somehow true, it wouldn't have qualified as a rape case. And I don't just mean that Canadian law doesn't have rape as a legal term, but the accusations against Ghomeshi wouldn't qualify as rape in a state where rape is a legal term nor according to any reasonable concept of the term. That and all the dishonesty and ha…
/r/MensRights24/04/16 10:23 PM
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Well, for the record, he does still care about issues facing men. He's devoted his life to that discipline, in fact. No, he hasn't devoted his life to that discipline. In other words to men's issues which they face as men. Look, I'll quote from his article: I read a little bit of The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell... You can't just read a little bit of the Myth of Male Power if you're anything close to a serious scholar in men's issues. Honestly, one might even say that if a person who has…
/r/MensRights17/04/16 02:58 AM
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First, we felt they did not add unique value to campus because many of the proposed topics are already covered through equity centres and other student groups RSU supports. And don't there exist other groups whose missions overlap? Also, I have a hard time believing this. Second, during their presentations, representatives from the group refused to acknowledge the reality of patriarchy and other systemic issues of privilege, which runs contrary to the core equity values of the RSU as an organiza…
/r/MensRights16/04/16 07:47 PM
1

It's really laughable. I mean the piece starts out saying that he found Spreading Misandry in the popular books section of a book store. Seriously, think about how out of touch with reality one would have to be to believe that such a book would get placed in a popular books section. Look at how few reviews it has on Amazon also.
/r/MensRights16/04/16 05:32 PM
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Here's the CV: https://uvic.academia.edu/EdwinHodge
/r/MensRights16/04/16 05:28 PM
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I was in the self-help section “facing” our most popular books — arranging them so their covers, and not their spines, faced outward — when I noticed the title Spreading Misandry: The Teaching of Contempt for Men in Popular Culture. laughing. For all of it's merits, Spreading Misandry is a little known academic volume. Even though published more than 10 years ago now, it has a mere 31 reviews on Amazon.com Plenty of college textbooks have more reviews... say those on calculus... and plenty of pe…
/r/MensRights16/04/16 05:26 PM
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Take the 2010 and 2011 NISVS and the made-to-penetrate numbers in the last 12 months into the category of rape. Then add in the prison population. I did a little of this in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/3l3e3x/more_men_raped_than_women_in_the_last_12_months/
/r/MensRights16/04/16 04:50 PM
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As you probably realize, saying that rape sub-cultures exist comes as very different than saying the "we live in a rape culture" or that society in general is a rape culture.
/r/MensRights16/04/16 04:43 PM
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The right to vote still has strings attached for men only in the United States (in this context). Failing to register (not failing to report to boot camp if drafted), is a felony. That felony can get punished by imprisonment for up to five years: Failing to register or comply with the Military Selective Service Act is a felony punishable by a fine of up to $250,000 or a prison term of up to five years, or a combination of both. https://www.sss.gov/Registration/Why-Register/Benefits-and-Penalties…
/r/MensRights15/04/16 07:19 PM
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Heterophobic misandry.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 12:44 PM
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The Equal Pay Act requires that men and women in the same workplace be given equal pay for equal work. The jobs need not be identical, but they must be substantially equal. http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/equalcompensation.cfm I don't see how you can maintain that men and women's soccer are substantially equal. Again, men and women play in different leagues. The competitions are not all that close to each other, and I would think that the speed of the running, the ball movement, and the force of …
/r/MensRights01/04/16 03:40 AM
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Don't these players sign contracts for how much they should get paid? The employer can't legally pay the player less than the contract stipulates. Why should the employee have the ability to run-around the terms of the contract by going to the EEOC and in effect forcing that the employer do more than they promised in the terms of the contract?
/r/MensRights01/04/16 01:41 AM
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The article now says: Clarification: An earlier version of this story said the women players filed a lawsuit against the US Soccer Federation. They have actually filed a wage-discrimination action against USSF with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. So first off, there is no lawsuit. Also, don't these players sign contracts for how much they should get paid? The employer can't legally pay the player less than the contract stipulates. Why should the employee have the ability to run-arou…
/r/MensRights01/04/16 01:39 AM
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These women aren't even in the same league as the male players. Why aren't they trying to start playing in the same league first?
/r/MensRights31/03/16 08:46 PM
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Thing is, feminism, at least from one perspective, has a history of co-opting other movements and the whole notion of 'intersectionality' even encourages more attempts at co-option. Honestly, look into the history of relationships between feminism and the GLBT crowd. Or look at the blogs trying to link feminism and the philosophies behind animal rights/animal issues movements.
/r/MensRights28/03/16 03:31 PM
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I haven't read all that much there, but I find it interesting that one of the commenters under male DV put up a link to the White Ribbon Campaign, which writes under their 'who we are' section: White Ribbon is the world’s largest movement of men and boys working to end violence against women and girls, promote gender equity, healthy relationships and a new vision of masculinity. Um... yeah. That isn't addressing male dv.
/r/MensRights28/03/16 03:27 PM
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/u/saintartaud You've said elsewhere the following: The biggest problem I can think of with her point about the way criminal sentencing disadvantages men is that it doesn't contend with the way class and race intersect. I.e. it seems to be poor and minority men who are most disadvantaged, so while their being men plays into the harsher sentencing when compared to women, it's difficult to say whether it is primarily because they are men. The quote and the link in the original post where this comm…
/r/MensRights12/03/16 05:17 AM
2

Males can't be raped in their vaginas.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 02:17 AM
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And what would those differences in classification be? One is 'male rape' under the law and another is 'rape' under the law. One is male on female, the other male on male, and they both carry the same maximum possible sentence of life in prison. Yeah... so apparently according to Idaho law the gender of the offender makes a difference. It doesn't make any sense to have such distinction in law, because it implies that the gender of the offender changes the nature of the offense. First you started…
/r/MensRights06/03/16 10:18 PM
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Male rape is not the same as rape under the law. They have different classifications. You've tried to pretend as if such different classifications didn't exist in Idaho law.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 09:14 PM
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Rape is not a crime of which men can qualify as victims of in Idaho. Again: Rape is defined as the penetration, however slight, of the oral, anal or vaginal opening with the perpetrator's penis accomplished with a female [emphasis added] under any one (1) of the following circumstances Your bringing up 'male rape' which is not an equivalent term to 'rape' under Idaho law shifts the goalposts.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 01:38 PM
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In this sort of situation, where we had a woman making the boy penetrate her, he couldn't qualify as a rape victim under the law. Also, it's silly to talk of 'rape' and 'male rape' as if we need two separate categories.
/r/MensRights06/03/16 12:28 AM
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If the problem lies with Rubio's comment, then making such a comment comes as unfair to a man on the basis of his sex, which he has no control over. If men shouldn't get offended by 'shit like that', then it would come as fair game to insinuate about slack vaginas. Such comments clearly would end up as insulting and also irrelevant to the discussion. Really, the quality of discussion and debate get degraded by such irrelevant nonsense. Either way, the double standard DOES indicate an inequality.…
/r/MensRights04/03/16 08:41 PM
2

That's male rape not rape under Idaho law. So, no, what I quoted before was not inaccurate. Notice also that it doesn't cover a man getting raped by a fleshlight or a vagina.
/r/MensRights04/03/16 10:53 AM
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And here's how Idaho law defines rape: Rape defined. Rape is defined as the penetration, however slight, of the oral, anal or vaginal opening with the perpetrator's penis accomplished with a female under any one (1) of the following circumstances: http://www.legislature.idaho.gov/idstat/Title18/T18CH61SECT18-6101.htm
/r/MensRights03/03/16 10:21 PM
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Thanks for the better link!
/r/MensRights28/02/16 06:49 PM
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I posted the wrong link before. The correct link is: http://org2.salsalabs.com/o/5922/p/dia/action3/common/public/?action_KEY=22209
/r/MensRights28/02/16 06:49 PM
1

Kesha testified on the stand that she and Gottwald did not have an intimate relationship and that he didn't make sexual advance towards her. Do you understand that? On the fucking stand, under oath.
/r/MensRights27/02/16 03:40 PM
3

Make rape hysteria great again.
/r/MensRights26/02/16 09:59 PM
1

This may be a small victory for men. But surely, this would make for some modicum of fairness towards them.
/r/MensRights26/02/16 05:39 AM
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I don't know. The insistence on an apology to me by her at a glance looks like an attempt to shame him personally and make him take responsibility for others.
/r/MensRights25/02/16 06:17 AM
1

It's one thing for an author to make this sort of mistake. It's another for N. O. W. to actually publish something like that.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 10:32 PM
2

One could accurately call the people still supporting Kesha False Rape Accuser Activists or Perjury Activists.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 09:43 PM
1

She said that he never made sexual advances towards her. You can't have a sexual assault without a sexual advance. Consequently, your comment here actually ends up misleading.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 08:05 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty consists of a legal standard. She isn't on trial for a false rape accusation, and I don't believe Dr. Luke has an interest in prosecuting such a case. How do you say that you did not have an intimate relationship with a person and NOT mean that they you did not have sex with them, when the phrase 'intimate relationship' is a euphemism for a strictly sexual relationship? While the term intimate relationship commonly implies the inclusion of a sexual relationship, the …
/r/MensRights23/02/16 10:19 PM
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In fact, it's more likely than not that she was. Under oath on the stand she said that she didn't have an intimate relationship with Gottwald: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2802370/kesha-swore-oath-2011-deposition-dr-luke-did-not-sexually-abuse-undercutting-rape-allegations-latest-lawsuit.html More specifically, p. 149 of the following: https://assets.documentcloud.org/documents/1342034/exhibit-b.pdf
/r/MensRights23/02/16 06:11 PM
3

Blacks, whites, then hispanics in terms of highest death rate: Middle-aged blacks still have a higher mortality rate than whites — 581 per 100,000, compared with 415 for whites — but the gap is closing, and the rate for middle-aged Hispanics is far lower than for middle-aged whites at 262 per 100,000.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 09:43 PM
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Fair point.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 09:38 PM
1

Do you believe that boys have fewer rights than girls with respect to their genitals, since girl's genitals are protected by law while boys are not or if they are protected by law cutting of male genitals is not prosecuted? Will you point out such an inequality in law to other people? Do you believe that men have fewer rights in that women can have unilaterally to decide to not financially support a child by having an abortion under some circumstances or leaving the child up for adoption, while …
/r/MensRights22/02/16 02:34 AM
4

Um... I'm pretty sure that a guy saying that he will not objectify her from a distance while still looking at her might come across as dishonest since he's catcalling and thus at a distance from her and looking at her. Also, "I know you're on your period, but ..." that's actually better? I mean what business is it of any man to know about a woman's period? How about this: Heyyy gurrl. Women have made up the majority of voters in every federal election in the United States since 1966. And things …
/r/MensRights22/02/16 01:49 AM
3

Cherry picking one random tumblrina's insane rantings and using that as an example of feminism is dishonest. It's only dishonest if you intend to base any generalizations about feminists on that single case. It's not dishonest to have a whole host of individual cases and then say that many feminists are like that.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 01:37 AM
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It's the stuff where people link to any terrible crime committed by a woman, and assuming "she'll probably get a shorter sentence than a man would". Though some particular cases of that might not hold, in general women get substantially shorter sentences than men for the same crime. http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002&download=yes Women have also come as exempt from certain crimes such as rape in plenty of place throughout history, or exempt from equal penalization such as…
/r/MensRights22/02/16 01:28 AM
1

Oh you think that I'd even date you for me to cheat on you. That's cute.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 01:00 AM
2

But see Bill Clinton didn't have sex with that woman, he only got a blow job. /s
/r/MensRights22/02/16 12:25 AM
1

I remember the use of r/t or real time in at least one internet community for a long time now. Perhaps it's just a culture difference.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 12:24 AM
1

I'm not GAE, I'm not GAE, I'm not GAE.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 12:17 AM
3

Does anyone have a link to a transcript of the proceedings of the case where we can read the exact charges leveled?
/r/MensRights21/02/16 06:39 PM
1

Man... those comments of yours... they're like soooo GAE.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 05:06 PM
2

Yes I know it was a parody. I don't believe that Paul Elam actually thinks that way either, note the '/s' in my original comment.
/r/MensRights21/02/16 02:58 AM
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Yeah... maybe we should get Paul Elam to decide instead! /s Only women can rape [emphasis in original]. http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/ill-decide-if-you-were-raped-not-you/
/r/MensRights20/02/16 10:02 PM
1

Sue them sooner rather than later if you can.
/r/MensRights19/02/16 03:42 PM
2

Here's the W. H. O.'s typology of F. G. M.: http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs241/en/
/r/MensRights18/02/16 04:22 PM
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Which is complete crap. Type IV female genital mutilation is less severe than foreskin penectomy/circumcision.
/r/MensRights18/02/16 03:21 PM
1

Here: http://www.wptz.com/news/owen-labrie-to-learn-sentence/36116196
/r/MensRights15/02/16 05:49 AM
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I think the main charge wasn't so much for the sex, but rather using a computer to lure a minor into sex. http://www.wptz.com/news/owen-labrie-to-learn-sentence/36116196 Labrie, of Tunbridge, Vermont, was convicted in August of misdemeanor sexual assault and a felony count of using a computer to lure the girl to a sexual encounter.
/r/MensRights15/02/16 05:48 AM
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Q would have to lose their current host Shad to put Ghomeshi back. That's probably not likely to happen even if Ghomeshi makes amends with Q.
/r/MensRights09/02/16 08:04 PM
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She said that when she told Mr. Ghomeshi she wanted to fuck his brains out, she didn’t mean it. Dear Valerie Solanas, I want to.. Nope, I can't do it. I felt sorry for them. What? They're not on trial here. Ghomeshi is. The evidence we have so far indicates that he's getting wrongly accused and the accusations are preposterous. So, maybe pity these women for their stupidity, but really you would do much better to feel sorry for Ghomeshi who's getting put through the court system. And for what re…
/r/MensRights09/02/16 07:51 PM
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Christie and Bush don't seem to have understood the question, so I don't trust their answers. Rubio did understand the question though: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fY5heoPdb4
/r/MensRights09/02/16 06:07 AM
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No, breast is not a female word: The breast is one of two prominences found on the upper ventral region of the torso of female and male [emphasis added] primates. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breast
/r/MensRights09/02/16 05:33 AM
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I'm 5'11, and about 140. A nickname that got assigned to me when I was young was "bones", because when someone looked at me he "just saw skin and bones".
/r/MensRights08/02/16 10:14 PM
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I don't know. Saying something like: "Men don't think of themselves as having breasts," doesn't particularly give a person credibility. I certainly don't that think statement is even remotely true.
/r/MensRights08/02/16 06:14 PM
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Please use archive.is so that we don't drive up their page hits.
/r/MensRights07/02/16 08:45 PM
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Women bear the burden of paying back exorbitant student loans The American Association for University Woman has basically said that (the title): http://archive.is/JlWz5 Student loans are a Feminist issue And that when they wrote: Student debt really is a women’s issue.
/r/MensRights07/02/16 05:33 PM
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I, for example, am extremely insulted right now that you have egregiously and patronisingly given a link to the definition of the word insult in the dictionary. My apologies. However, I will say that in my own experience the dictionary often has nuances or alternative definitions to words which you don't expect. Or the dictionary indicates that certain words don't have so much meaning as people expect. One surprise I found comes as that the word 'oppression' doesn't necessarily have any sort of …
/r/MensRights06/02/16 08:08 PM
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This shows that those implementing the Affordable Care Act find the notion of discrimination against men as questionable, even though they clearly won't provide services for male birth control, while they will do so for female birth control.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:57 PM
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Stop talking to any feminist unless it's in public or you carefully save everything. You don't need an accusation of harassment on your hands.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:54 PM
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What does the Affordable Care Act actually say about discrimination? I do know this: Plans in the Health Insurance Marketplace must cover contraceptive methods and counseling for all women, as prescribed by a health care provider. Plans aren’t required to cover drugs to induce abortions and services for male reproductive capacity, like vasectomies. https://www.healthcare.gov/coverage/birth-control-benefits/ I don't think that the Affordable Care Act requires counseling for all men with respect t…
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:41 PM
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Just because people have no interest in MRM doesn't mean they don't agree with a lot of what they're saying nor are they against them either. Milo has a pro foreskin penectomy piece ('circumcision'). Not a neutral piece, but a pro foreskin penectomy piece. This isn't just treating him with hostility for not subscribing to MRA ideas, but for opposing an important MRA idea. As far as I'm concerned, I'm okay with that, as long as the other stuff people believe in don't involve violence and simply a…
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:22 PM
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That's definitely true. I was disappointed because in the past Breitbart editors and writers have shown an above average awareness of what the MRM stands for. Is that an awareness of what the MRM stands for, or that modern feminism is bad?
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:12 PM
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Warren Farrell's group talked to the campaign manager of Bernie Sanders's campaign Jeff Weaver: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLMZSDETAK0
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:07 PM
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Where does the article imply that men get denied services?
/r/MensRights06/02/16 07:03 PM
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Where is the insult? The insult lies in the assertion that the entire raison d'etre of all waves of Feminism past and present has pretty much been to shame others into interceding on their behalf. Usual definitions of the term 'insult' don't imply any sort of intent of offending on the part of someone who makes an insult. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/insult How have you even come across it for that matter? I had searched for posts where this subreddit talked about something about that …
/r/MensRights06/02/16 05:21 PM
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The comment is a generalization – how can it not be a generalization when making a comment that summarises a common thread perceived to be running throughout 3 or 4 waves of Feminism over a century or more in time? – but in what possible sense is this "insulting an identifiable group"? A raison d'etre comes as the most important reason to people. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/raison%20d'%C3%AAtre So you've said that the highest reason of all waves of feminism was to shame people to d…
/r/MensRights06/02/16 06:47 AM
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We, men and women who hereby constitute ourselves as the National Organization for Women, believe that the time has come for a new movement toward true equality for all women in America, and toward a fully equal partnership of the sexes, as part of the world-wide revolution of human rights now taking place within and beyond our national borders. Um... more boys than girls got cut at that time in the United States. F. G. M. wasn't illegal, and it did happen, but it came as rarer, though not neces…
/r/MensRights06/02/16 04:11 AM
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The rules say to "be supportive". That's feminist for "never criticize me or my friends or else!"
/r/MensRights06/02/16 12:08 AM
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An individual woman is not a token of womanhood. She is an individual woman.
/r/MensRights06/02/16 12:01 AM
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Her purported reasons for being critical of Stewart-Binks are utter rubbish. It is simply not reasonable to think that because one female reporter will pay for a lap dance implies that most female reporters will pay for a lap dance.
/r/MensRights05/02/16 11:25 PM
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The article was criticizing Stewart-Binks, and pointing out how hard her inapropriate behavior made it for serious female sports journalists to do their jobs. So? That's complete nonsense. No female reporter comes as required to pay a football player for a lap dance and no one thinks that part of the sport's reporter job. Did Stewart-Binks consider that every time a female in sports media acts inappropriately or unprofessionally it unfairly reflects on all females in sports media? The assertion …
/r/MensRights05/02/16 11:23 PM
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I do agree that more women can and even should take on dangerous and dirty jobs, including firefighting. But this "substantive equality" quota bullshit should just get thrown on the trash heap.
/r/MensRights05/02/16 11:00 PM
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Or for schools of dietetics or elementary school teachers. Gender quotas can make for a rather bad idea.
/r/MensRights05/02/16 10:52 PM
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This is just from imgur. Do you have a direct link? Or an archived link?
/r/MensRights05/02/16 08:40 PM
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A final point about circumcision’s medical history; it has not only been about male privilege, but white male privilege So if say some African-American got cut as a child in the United States, it's 'white male privilege'? I mean let's just ignore that over 50% of black American newborns got cut in plenty of years: https://search.yahoo.com/yhs/search;_ylt=A0LEVismGLRWjW0A12YPxQt.;_ylc=X1MDMjExNDcwMDU1OQRfcgMyBGZyA3locy1kZGMtZGRjX2JkBGdwcmlkA2xzMndybU5CUm9lTFdfV3RrYmpkNUEEbl9yc2x0AzAEbl9zdWdnAzEwB…
/r/MensRights05/02/16 03:48 AM
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Proof by a single example... man that proves soooo much!!! /s
/r/MensRights05/02/16 01:03 AM
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Plenty of rape of males involves penile envelopment which isn't sodomy.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 07:36 PM
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Use your head for Christ's sake. I don't think you needed to say that, but you are right.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 07:33 PM
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Yawn...: http://archive.is/7eRED https://archive.is/csaH6 http://archive.is/2mPF8 http://imgur.com/r/mensrights/83XKV4r
/r/MensRights04/02/16 02:24 AM
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They've been saying that Roosh is an MRA for years. They don't listen very well. It does seem disturbing that all of those officials though say that, since I don't believe Roosh ever advocated any behavior.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 04:11 AM
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You can't grow the frenulum or the ridged band back.
/r/MensRights02/02/16 05:32 PM
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Since lesbians are free from the expectation that women’s careers should take a backseat to those of their male partners’, they can prioritize their jobs without compromising their ability to find a mate. "I won't date you girl, because you make more than me!" said no man ever. After they’re coupled, there’s no built-in assumption about whose career ought to come first when both partners are women—and either way a woman’s career is prioritized. Riight, 'built-in assumption', even though one part…
/r/MensRights01/02/16 04:01 PM
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It boggles my mind how this woman gets to keep her position when her incident went viral. But a guy can get sacked for say "slut". It's really worse than this. A guy can get sacked if some woman believes he said "slut", even if he said something else.
/r/MensRights31/01/16 04:20 AM
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People would need to know where you live and your local laws to better answer your question.
/r/MensRights31/01/16 04:11 AM
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You haven't really mentioned anything about men's rights or shown any support for men's rights. You've only talked about antifeminist stuff. Though antifeminism does sometimes come as useful, it's not the core of the MRM.
/r/MensRights31/01/16 04:09 AM
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Exactly how many men have gotten fired for "sexual harassment" or "harassment" which doesn't fit the legal requirements for whatever happened to qualify as a crime? And she's still going to work for the university?
/r/MensRights30/01/16 10:27 PM
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So why hasn't N. O. W. joined the National Coalition for Men in their lawsuit?
/r/MensRights30/01/16 05:35 PM
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Any feminist who stands against those groups organizing peacefully, shouldn't get elected to any governmental position. It simply doesn't make sense to elect people who oppose the right to peaceful assembly.
/r/MensRights30/01/16 04:29 AM
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Note also that one of the organizers of the feminist collective said this: People organizing with these beliefs is of course a concern for us. Yeah, it is concerning. That definitely sounds like an opposition to the MIAS having a right to peaceful assembly, though admittedly the Ryerson Feminist Collective is not a governmental organization. Though, one can easily and reasonably argue that those who support that statement made by Rogers shouldn't hold public office, because they stand against th…
/r/MensRights30/01/16 04:28 AM
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Well the Students Union also did not approve of a pro-life group, because of similar bullshit about teh womenz.
/r/MensRights30/01/16 03:27 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 10:13 PM
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All groups have the right to peaceful assembly. And even groups with serious problems can have legitimate grievances. As a case in point, I feel sure that plenty of prisoners of the group Prisoners Against Rape committed felonies. They still had a right to peacefully assemble, and they did so. So, no, you're wrong.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 10:01 PM
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Yes, that's pretty much it.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 09:21 PM
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You might want to note that All Ryerson full-time and graduate students are not only members of the RSU, but are also members of the CFS, united provincially and nationally with more than - 600,000 students at colleges and universities from coast to coast. http://www.ryerson.ca/calendar/2012-2013/pg1479.html The Freedom of Peaceful Assembly involves the ability to come together peacefully to defend one's ideas: The Freedom of assembly, sometimes used interchangeably with the freedom of associati…
/r/MensRights29/01/16 07:41 PM
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Well Ryerson lies in Canada. However, if an American public university said something like this and it was the administration, then we would have a first amendment violation problem.
/r/MensRights29/01/16 05:30 AM
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At least one can say that in the United States what she said would mean that she opposes the first amendment at a government funded institution: Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble [emphasis added], and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances. Edit: It does look like Canadian law acknowledges a right to peac…
/r/MensRights28/01/16 10:02 PM
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More than 100 Republican state lawmakers called for Click’s firing in a letter to university officials. Just Republican state lawmakers? And if so, why the hell didn't any democrats call for such? Doesn't "calling for muscle" rise to the level of a credible threat?
/r/MensRights28/01/16 09:55 PM
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First, these are donated foreskins, not purchased foreskins. There do exist foreskins for sale: https://www.thermofisher.com/order/catalog/product/C0045C Additionally, the person who provides the foreskin has no say in the giving of it. It is nonsense to believe that hospitals are making money selling foreskins. Actually, it comes as nonsense to believe that they do not receive money for foreskins. And you look stupid for trying to deny it, when there exists plenty of good information which supp…
/r/MensRights27/01/16 05:32 PM
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If so, then what about these links? https://search.yahoo.com/yhs/search?hspart=ddc&hsimp=yhs-ddc_bd&p=neonatal+dermal+fiborblasts&type=bdc-bfr-6YN2R__alt__ddc_dss_bd_com
/r/MensRights26/01/16 09:54 PM
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No, not an urban myth: https://search.yahoo.com/yhs/search?hspart=ddc&hsimp=yhs-ddc_bd&p=neonatal+dermal+fiborblasts&type=bdc-bfr-6YN2R__alt__ddc_dss_bd_com
/r/MensRights26/01/16 09:54 PM
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The video has a sizable majority of upvotes on YouTube. Seems like a fairly positive reception.
/r/MensRights26/01/16 05:40 PM
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Take a look at the public reaction to the SNL statutory rape sketch. Very little has changed.
/r/MensRights26/01/16 05:29 AM
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"Shouldn't go to jail [even if we have a trial which determines rape occurred]" "take it seriously" Those sentences don't make sense together.
/r/MensRights26/01/16 05:21 AM
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If the premise of the sketch involved them talking about this on the street, then bringing up the age of consent in other states might make sense. However, since they were in a court of law, that comes as irrelevant. Since they were in a court of law and they made age relevant, it follows that in the state where this took place, the age of consent was at least 17. So, you're wrong. This does have to do with statutory rape... that's the whole premise of the sketch.
/r/MensRights26/01/16 05:16 AM
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And this illustrates the problem with making "revenge porn" illegal.
/r/MensRights22/01/16 07:46 AM
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men’s genitals would be sliced up Um... men's genitals ARE sliced up more than women's. FAR more than women's especially in countries like the United Kingdom, Canada, and the United States.
/r/MensRights21/01/16 05:27 AM
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Power.... Unlimited Power!!!
/r/MensRights16/01/16 03:30 AM
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She actually proposed a "guilt project". I mean, are they completely unaware of their reputation of making wrongful accusations? Or that even if Bill Cosby did rape some woman, or women, that such a "guilt project" would encourage viewing all of the accusations as correct?
/r/MensRights15/01/16 07:36 PM
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This study made headlines a few years ago: http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002
/r/MensRights15/01/16 06:43 AM
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Unequal educational opportunities for women. As if male rape victims on college campuses got tons more support than women who got raped, and as if men were not in the very clear minority of college students, and as if we didn't have special scholarship programs targeted at women.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 07:05 PM
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The liar of the UVA story.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 06:54 PM
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We'd have to know the context. If he's wet, and then exposes himself to dry off, then he comes in the right to try and dry himself off.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 12:27 AM
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But, we are currently talking about her version of the events, So i am sticking with those. No, I'm not talking about her version of events. I'm talking about the entire situation. No she didn't, she thought they were all on the field practicing. So? It's still off limits for her to walk in there, because their personal belongings might be in there. She walked into a place she shouldn't have been and saw something she shouldn't have THROUGH NO FAULT OF THE DUDE IN THERE I can't tell your tone he…
/r/MensRights06/01/16 08:10 PM
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And if he was doing either, and she walked in on him, i would agree. But he wasn't. He was covered, and then purposefully exposed himself while taunting her. First off, that comes as speculation. Second, we don't know if anything else proceeded that. She could have said something provocative first for all we know. You gonna tell me that having your 8 year old daughter walk in on me while I'm peeing and seeing my junk is the same as her walking into the bathroom while I'm washing my hands, and th…
/r/MensRights06/01/16 07:42 PM
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Your analogy doesn't work, because people do plenty of other things in their bedroom. A locker room's purposes lie in people showering and changing clothing.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 07:24 PM
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And that goes for male reporters too. I honestly don't think it makes sense for any sports reporter, male or female, to go into a team's locker room.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 07:21 PM
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You've contradicted yourself by saying that what I've written isn't anchored in the real world when I've cited the law.
/r/MensRights06/01/16 06:31 AM
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Calling for muscle is an implied physical threat. So, yes, this makes sense.
/r/MensRights05/01/16 11:10 PM
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So just because I don't like this treatment at work makes it ok to treat other women like that because "Oh gee, you never know, she may just like it!" Yes, it does make it O. K. It's widely regarded in workplace policies that harassment of this type is not tolerated. So what? Those workplaces have restrictive policies and are in the wrong. They should not treat their employees as automatons with such repressive policies, but rather treat them as human beings with desires, wants, and needs. There…
/r/MensRights05/01/16 10:37 PM
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Even when it elicits the same response? Yes. When we tell people we don't like being treated like that in the workplace and yet there are some men who still think it's ok and isn't a big deal, who do you think is right? You don't speak for all women nor all men. You don't know how others will react if such got said to them a priori. Consequently, the person who says such doesn't stand in the wrong, unless they have gotten warned by the particular individual at hand to stop such behavior. It's on…
/r/MensRights05/01/16 07:20 PM
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Intent does matter.
/r/MensRights05/01/16 06:55 PM
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Even if it was a joke, he still dun fucked up. Just look at her face when he says it. That's 100% discomfort. So what? He couldn't know how she would react until he said what he said. So, no, he didn't do anything which should get penalized. Also, the reporter is reporting on him. Consequently, the player doesn't have any responsibility to accommodate their self to the reporter. The player doesn't even have to respond to the reporter. The reporter has the responsibility accommodate their self to…
/r/MensRights05/01/16 10:34 AM
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It wasn't a pass. It was a joke.
/r/MensRights05/01/16 09:58 AM
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It's not a horrible crime to ask out a woman, but asking out the person interviewing you on live TV is a definite social faux pas. No, it's not. It shows a certain sort of confidence. People ask each other to marry all the time at sporting events in the United States. But also, he wasn't even asking her out. He said it was a joke.
/r/MensRights05/01/16 09:56 AM
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Krista Milburn.
/r/MensRights03/01/16 12:48 AM
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I wouldn't be so sure that such is not her re-writing her own personal history. Then again, she faked her own death, and now has plenty of favorable material towards men's issues.
/r/MensRights03/01/16 12:48 AM
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I agree that the title qualifies as clickbait, but I think the content of most of the article pretty good.
/r/MensRights22/12/15 05:01 PM
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Well, they certainly look like feminists... see here: https://archive.is/GFsYE#selection-465.0-465.191 and here: http://womenalliance.org/inauguration-speech-by-iaw-president-joanna-manganara
/r/MensRights18/12/15 01:59 AM
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Yes, but we do know that this case involves a felonious charge and not some misdemeanor.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 06:16 AM
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No. Stop encouraging feminism when make up the majority of suicides, the majority of the homeless, the majority of those who have their genitals mutilated, and the majority of those who suffer from violence in the world. Also, most of the article consists of misleading statements. It talks as if feminism has no power, when both the President of the United States and the Prime Minister of Canada are open feminists and universities have specific departments devoted to making feminism more effectiv…
/r/MensRights15/12/15 12:22 PM
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On what basis do you claim that Trump makes for the best candidate for men's rights?
/r/MensRights12/12/15 04:40 AM
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Bernie Sanders is a feminist: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-politics/wp/2015/09/24/hey-bernie-sanders-are-you-a-feminist/ http://www.salon.com/2015/05/07/bernie_sanders_uber_feminist_making_america_more_scandinavian_would_mark_a_gender_equality_breakthrough/ http://mic.com/articles/119074/5-times-bernie-sanders-spoke-the-feminist-truth#.KQLOPbIqe
/r/MensRights12/12/15 04:38 AM
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puke
/r/MensRights12/12/15 04:27 AM
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Another article where they didn't use either the term "sexual assault" or "rape" a single time in the article.
/r/MensRights12/12/15 04:14 AM
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I'm pretty sure that they've had Theryn Meyer on who has formed a men's group on a Canadian college campus. They also do put out a lot of content and even this critic admits this. One can argue that other groups do more to help men, and thus one would do better to donate to other groups that do more than mostly sit around and talk on the internet. But, then you would have to actually mention such organizations (such as the National Coalition for Men, or the Campaign Against Living Miserably, or …
/r/MensRights05/12/15 12:02 AM
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And in Canada those who will have trouble with amnesty the most will be single men, because of the feminist Trudeau administration.
/r/MensRights03/12/15 02:13 AM
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Ahem... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDRFEni3iIM
/r/MensRights01/12/15 02:16 PM
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I'm finding this funny that even mentioning that it's not the same is somehow is horriable and is downvoted. You responded to a comment where type IV female genital mutilation with a comment about female genital mutilation in general. Why wouldn't it get downvoted when you confused things like that?
/r/MensRights26/11/15 03:48 AM
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This seems pretty bad compared to having the tip of your dick cut off. The information you cited almost surely wasn't dealing just with type IV Female Genital Mutilation. Consequently, your quotation is not all that relevant to what I asserted. Additionally, there rarely to never exist any known health benefits to the individual male that gets cut. And it does come as harmful to the male individual in many ways. First and foremost, male foreskin penectomy is painful and traumatic: http://www.ama…
/r/MensRights26/11/15 03:46 AM
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Why did you compare removal of the entire clitoris to a removal of part of the penis? Do you see a double standard there?
/r/MensRights25/11/15 04:21 PM
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Male genital mutilation in the form of male foreskin penectomy is more severe than type IV Female Genital Mutilation.
/r/MensRights25/11/15 04:18 PM
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Both MGM and FGM function as broader terms than how you have used them.
/r/MensRights25/11/15 04:17 PM
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None of the comments in the other thread mention that the husband might be depressed. And the husband seems to self-medicate. Doesn't doing drugs come as a possible symptom of depression?
/r/MensRights21/11/15 11:34 PM
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It's not the same jurisdiction, but still it might come as interesting to compare that to the Owen Labrie verdict: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/30/us/owen-labrie-st-pauls-school-sentencing.html?_r=1
/r/MensRights20/11/15 07:50 PM
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Truth under US law is a pretty absolute defence. Given that you have truth. With just hearsay that you know truth comes as a stretch at best.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 08:49 PM
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The disclosed fact is that the girl accused him of rape. That is the basis for the opinion. It does not matter if he raped the girl or if their reliance on her accusation was unreasonable. The "facts" are simply what the opinions rely on and it does not matter if the facts are ultimately true or false. By your own admission, they aren't basing their opinion on facts. They base it solely on the fact of her having made an accusation. The "facts" are simply what the opinions rely on and it does not…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:45 AM
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Wait, you know this guy didn't commit rape? No. I meant to refer to your silly goat case. Confusing use of language on my part.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:31 AM
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Did you or anyone else bother to read the article I linked to that explained that concept? Yes, I read it. Volokoh tries to explain the following: Why isn’t saying “Dr. X performed surgery on me and caused permanent nerve damage” a potentially libelous statement of fact — about causation — rather than (as the court held) a nonactionable statement of opinion? Your article says this: If the defendant expresses a derogatory opinion without disclosing the facts on which it is based, he is subject to…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:29 AM
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Fine, then if my friend told me they saw you fucking goats on x day at x place, and I repeated that claim with only that to go on --if it turned out to be true, it's not defamation. There is no "if that turned out to be true" here. Such either did or did not happen. In this case it didn't. And people come as innocent until proven guilty in the eyes of the law. Yes, it is reckless of them to post those signs. Yes, they could be liable for defamation. Remember, the original comment I was replying …
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:10 AM
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It's a statement of opinion ("I think Johnny is a rapist" or "I think OJ Simpson is a murderer"). They didn't say "he's a rapist" as some sort of vague, non-specific statement. They accused him of committing at least two rapes of a particular person on two particular days in a dorm room. They are NOT making an opinion about his character here. They clearly imply that particular facts did occur at a particular case at particular points in time.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 04:56 AM
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If you accuse me of being a goat-fucker, then you have made a non-specific claim. Do you accusse me of fucking goats on a regular basis? Maybe. Maybe you also have accused me of fucking a goat at least once at some particular point in time in my life. But either way, you have not specified when or where or how the crime took place that you accused me of. Thus, to prove defamation of character for such would be difficult, if you made such an accusation seriously. On the other hand, the poster her…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 04:47 AM
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However, truth is a defense to defamation. So they might not actually be liable at all. There is simply no way that the majority of the members of the group know this, unless they either got violated by him, or personally witnessed such a violation. I don't see how truth can qualify as a defense when the basis for a claim lies in little more than hearsay.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 04:19 AM
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/u/Kareem_Jordan It sure does look like they think that the number of women working in a dangerous and hazardous job in this case makes for a problem, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights17/11/15 08:30 PM
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Well there does exist slander and libel, but what you say as a summary still comes as far more accurate than inaccurate.
/r/MensRights17/11/15 01:16 AM
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But the essential answer to your question is - there is no point in complaining, no one's going to do anything about this form of gender inequality. I see. So discrimination which puts men in a lesser position with respect to their needs comes as socially acceptable among academics. Or at least that's what that user thinks.
/r/MensRights17/11/15 12:25 AM
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While he does not directly mention gender, gender is ALWAYS included when these types of people talk about "privilege" and "social justice". There is no possibility it's not included in this. None. He could just mean "white privilege" by "privilege". Also, when they talk about "identity", they ALWAYS mean "the feminist theory that gender was arbitrarily fabricated by men to oppress women". He could mean racial identity and that's all he means. You've put words into his mouth that he did not say.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 11:39 PM
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Where did the President say anything about gender in that letter? This is the men's rights reddit. Racial issues, wherever the truth lies, simply don't belong here unless they dovetail with gender. I don't see the President's letter talking about men, women, males, females, anywhere at all. Without any reference to gender in that letter, there does not exist much difference between what you posted and what a radical feminist troll would post.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 11:09 PM
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That makes for interesting factoids, however, your source consists of a summary sheet. It doesn't tell us anything about the methodology of the survey(s). I believe I asked methodological questions.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 08:06 PM
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I don't know how the attempted suicide numbers get derived do you? Who funded the research which found that women attempt suicide more often and what methods did they use? Let's say someone cuts their self. Would a researcher interpret that as an attempted suicide when the person doing the cutting just intended to engage in a form of self-harm, but did not intend to kill their self?
/r/MensRights16/11/15 05:05 PM
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Even with that, the definition still has a double standard to it. A vagina getting penetrated by an object without the consent of the victim is rape. But, a penis getting made to penetrate an object without the consent of the victim is not rape.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 09:46 PM
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Penetration can mean the act of moving through something. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/penetration
/r/MensRights15/11/15 09:40 PM
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Replace women with feminists and you won't be a red piller, there are women lurking around even on the anti-feminist places who do not at all act like these morons. Yeah, the whole idea of there existing so few women on the internet for massively large anonymous sites like reddit comes as even more absurd when you remember that men work longer hours than women on average and basically "everyone" has access to the internet these days.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 09:36 PM
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What is ELI5?
/r/MensRights15/11/15 09:30 PM
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It's actually worse than that.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 05:17 PM
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That sub isn't an honest debate site. If you look at the rules carefully enough you'll see that you can't insult someone else's argument. It's also not just some empty threat of mod action, since a mod has actually sandboxed and even deleted a comment for insulting an argument. https://archive.is/c9stf https://archive.is/YnW2O Also, if you think that women should work more often in dangerous and dirty occupations such a comment can (and has) get censored there as your second link reveals. The su…
/r/MensRights15/11/15 05:16 PM
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But does the Student Union actually fall under the government's structure? Of course that Student Union is bigoted.
/r/MensRights02/11/15 06:09 PM
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The government can convict you of a felony for failing to register for the draft. Young men convicted of failure to register may be fined up to $250,000, imprisoned for up to five years, or both. In addition to being subject to prosecution, failure to register may cause you to permanently forfeit eligibility for certain benefits. Not registering is a felony. http://www.armyenlist.com/selective-service/ And in 48 states you lose voting rights when serving time for a felony. Women don't have to do…
/r/MensRights09/10/15 01:49 AM
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I believe it's just during their sentence. In the United Kingdom, prohibitions from voting are codified in section 3 and 3A of the Representation of the People Act 1983.[77] Excluded are incarcerated criminals[78] (including those sentenced by courts-martial, those unlawfully at large from such sentences, and those committed to psychiatric institutions as a result of a criminal court sentencing process). Civil prisoners sentenced (for non-payment of fines, or contempt of court, for example), and…
/r/MensRights08/10/15 04:49 PM
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Men (and women) in prison in the U. K. still can't vote.
/r/MensRights08/10/15 02:48 PM
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It sounds like you're in the United States. There's a hugely disproportionate impact of felony (and sometimes misdemeanor) convictions. Over 5 million men in the United States have gotten systemically disenfranchised because of such a convictions. A similar method yields over half a million women in the United States systemically disenfranchised. Or in short, thousands of U. S. women can't vote, while millions of U. S. men can't vote. All too often even after they leave prison. https://www.reddi…
/r/MensRights06/10/15 02:21 AM
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I believe she did one in Edmonton with members of Men's Rights Edmonton also. If I recall correctly either her YouTube channel or Men's Rights Edmonton has an indication that they did such in a video.
/r/MensRights05/10/15 07:57 PM
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It might be if cancer exists there.
/r/MensRights03/10/15 06:24 PM
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What religious person has the requisite training and skill who will do the cutting in in appropriate medical and health conditions AND has enough knowledge to ensure that: the parents [are] duly informed of any potential medical risk or possible contraindications [emphasis added] and take these into account when deciding what is best for their child, bearing in mind that the child’s interest must be considered the first priority Which religious person is that? Note that it says any potential med…
/r/MensRights03/10/15 03:07 AM
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By the source you yourself cited, there's no sucking involved, even if it is cited in an article about fellatio. The penis gets inserted into the mouth. I suppose there might not exist any pressing of the lips, but the penis still gets made to penetrate the mouth. When you go by the description of the act that you provided (instead of making up your own description and then pretending that that's what I was in favor of) it's an extremely brief contact either way. Definitions of rape such as the …
/r/MensRights20/09/15 08:14 PM
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Doctors use to recommend removal of the tonsils as a prevention. They no longer do.
/r/MensRights20/09/15 07:41 PM
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I guess I rape my 1 year old every time I change her diaper and have to wipe fecal matter from inside her vagina in an attempt to control her likelihood of developing a UTI. Dear god I need help! There's no evidence that such leads to something like breaking of the skin, a pool of blood, a scar, and a permanent loss of body parts. Thus, your analogy doesn't work. Please reconsider the above argument considering the severity of most circumcisions.
/r/MensRights20/09/15 06:56 PM
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Anyone who argues based on the legality of something is "appealing to authority". The law may well represent a codification of traditional values that have gotten time tested. So, it may well be that appealing to the law consists of an appeal to time-tested wisdom that we might not fully understand the reasons for at present. Within our community, its normal to ruin a man's life with a false claim of rape, because of our views on sex. Is that any better? Yes, because no one in particular is gett…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 03:50 PM
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It is an actual rape in plenty of places. The law says so. Rape and sexual assault are about power, not sex. When you have adults doing it to infants or toddlers the power differential seems clear enough.
/r/MensRights20/09/15 03:47 PM
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Thanks for the links. They are interesting. But I will highlight one thing you said: Its the same way that female scientist proved that sexual relationships with underage people with overage people was actually no more harmful than two underage people having sex, and in some cases the claimed victim even said they benefited from it or enjoyed it. So, similar to Eve Ensler, statutory rape can be a "good rape"? Wouldn't that also suggest that the position of Michael Foucault, Simone de Beauvoir, a…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 02:08 PM
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I'm really interested in how you feel that sexual organs are the critical problem, and are the most important thing to protect and to covet, to keep from being "defiled" as it were, because not having autonomy over them is a huge fucking problem that hurts human beings, when we have no autonomy from birth to begin with. What exactly is the male genital cutting rate in America again? I don't know of any part of the body where we subject children to a procedure where they get strapped down, cut to…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 01:45 PM
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My apologies. You're a Foucauldian feminist named TryptamineX who said that slight cock sucking of a male infant or toddler isn't rape. You're a Foucauldian feminist named TryptamineX who said that kissing of a male infant or toddler's penis isn't sexual assault. You're a Foucauldian feminist named TryptamineX who has indicated that such a cultural practice of such slight cock sucking and cock licking or cock kissing isn't indicative of rape culture. How do you know that no one there considers s…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 01:39 PM
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This really seems simple here: Step 1: Make something which would seem sexual and classify it as non-sexual. Result: A sexual act gets normalized, because no one thinks of the act as sexual, and thus no one thinks that any sort of sexual violation might be going on. Alright, it's fair to say that might not be going on, but still. What autonomy does he have with respect to his own penis in such a culture? Do there even exist any cultures where they kiss and put their tongues inside infant and tod…
/r/MensRights20/09/15 03:58 AM
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So personal autonomy doesn't matter?
/r/MensRights20/09/15 03:44 AM
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The feminist also says that if they did it to infant girls or toddlers that wouldn't change anything: https://archive.is/6lbsg
/r/MensRights20/09/15 03:44 AM
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Utterly terrible comments there. He just wants to know that he's the father of the child like how she knows that she is the mother of the child.
/r/MensRights19/09/15 08:13 PM
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That's a total score of negative 28, I think. There could exist a lot more downvotes there. Alright, maybe you meant 28 people more down voted you than who upvoted you.
/r/MensRights19/09/15 08:10 PM
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Here's a case from 2000 where the man was more than 10 years older than her and faced up to 5 years in prison on each count: http://www.ageofconsent.com/utah.htm In the end he got 60 days: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/784304/Former-newscaster-gets-60-day-jail-term.html?pg=all
/r/MensRights18/09/15 03:38 AM
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The judge did sentence her. That sounds like the law indicating that he did have grounds to see that justice got served here.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 04:31 PM
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Consent is consent, but we have all sorts of laws and circumstances about entrapment, sexual grooming, and that even if consent is present between a prisoner and a jailer, they can't legally engage in intercourse. Consent isn't the only thing relevant.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 04:12 PM
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Tell me though: if you accept that consent is conditional and of your partner lies about any condition that may lead to that consent does that become rape? Is it rape if a man has sex with a woman and she tells him that she is on birth control, but she is not, and then she successfully wins 18 years of child support money from the man? Even if you want to say that consent exists there, it isn't informed consent. Even if that isn't rape, such a scenario which amounts to sperm-jacking, whether ori…
/r/MensRights16/09/15 01:45 PM
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Lying about being a woman (and I'm pretty sure the other woman knew or at least suspected by this point) doesn't really cause lasting harm. Many people these days seem to regard sex without consent as harmful enough to warrant such a punishment. What do the laws concerning rape where you live say?
/r/MensRights16/09/15 01:53 AM
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Why can't they just read it here?
/r/MensRights15/09/15 10:44 PM
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A much-touted new survey on sexual assault in American colleges shows that college women believe, by an overwhelming margin, that it's better that innocent young men be punished for offenses they didn't commit than to allow a guilty man to go free. I've often thought that when you punish the innocent you make end up making a martyr out of them. And when you make martyrs out of people, the ground for revolutions gets made.
/r/MensRights15/09/15 06:27 PM
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Hasn't C. A. F. E. tried to do something like this for a few years now?
/r/MensRights15/09/15 05:58 PM
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The police didn't find any of these threats credible: http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/threats-against-women-at-university-of-toronto-not-credible-police-1.2558406 http://www.thestar.com/news/crime/2015/09/11/u-of-t-death-threat-investigation-continues-though-police-see-no-credible-danger.html In contrast the threats made against gamergate meetup and conference in D. C. and in Florida lead to the people evacuating the buildings.
/r/MensRights15/09/15 05:55 PM
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I know the profile of an abuser, and you fit that profile. She calls the judge an abuser and she expects a positive response from her?! I am the 58,000 women a year who have faced your courtroom bias. Who needs to exaggerate when there's nonsense like this out there?
/r/MensRights14/09/15 08:52 PM
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This is a great comment, because even if you are wrong about feminists, or those places as part of the "feminist establishment", what you say about statistics and statistical studies comes as useful in other places.
/r/MensRights14/09/15 12:30 PM
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That wasn't just an emotional reaction. She deliberately got her ass up off the chair and walked over to hit him.
/r/MensRights14/09/15 11:46 AM
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Obviously she's upset and this reporter shmuck should have been more tactful. You not only dehumanized the reporter by calling him "shmuck", you musturbated all over him.
/r/MensRights14/09/15 11:41 AM
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Please use archive.today
/r/MensRights08/09/15 10:36 AM
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If you have crazed religious leaders doing it instead of medically trained professionals, that might magnify the perception of the heinousness, violence, and mutilation of the act.
/r/MensRights04/09/15 09:44 PM
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I don't see soccer as systematically violent (I'm not talking about the fans, but rather the game). Fishing is cruelty to fish. I don't see hockey as systematically violent... the refs just need to get tougher on not tolerating fighting. The other three I do think systematically violent and not good for society.
/r/MensRights04/09/15 11:21 AM
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Also, why football? Why not Mixed Martial Arts? By all means boycott and protest mixed martial arts. It's not something funded and promoted by public schools, or funded by taxpayers though, at least so far as I know. Seriously, how many more back, leg, shoulder, and neck injuries, and concussions will it take before people wake up to the violence of football and start to find it unacceptable?
/r/MensRights04/09/15 01:39 AM
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No one is making these guys play football. I believe that some young buys get forced to play football by their parents. That said, I will agree with you with respect to college and professional players, but that doesn't imply that people should support such behavior. And those programs take money from public funds.
/r/MensRights03/09/15 11:32 PM
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Okay... and how exactly is a young man supposed to get exercise if we're supposed to boycott contact sports? Play another sport. Plenty of other sports aren't systematically violent and encourage exercise for young men.
/r/MensRights03/09/15 11:03 PM
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Has this happened before or is the first prostrate cancer awareness month in the United States? Edit: Nope. There was one in 2014.
/r/MensRights01/09/15 05:08 PM
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I'll go with this definition: Oppression is the inequitable use of authority, law, or physical force to prevent others from being free or equal. http://womenshistory.about.com/od/feminism/a/oppression.htm Thus, you can measure oppression by figuring out how the criminal justice system treats men versus how it treats women. I don't know where you live, but from what I've seen and read men get punished more harshly for the same crimes. More men than women get prevented from being free by going to …
/r/MensRights01/09/15 03:25 AM
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There's more to it than that in U. S. history. Voting was an issue left up to the states by The 10th Amendment to the Constitution. A fair number of women did have voting rights by 1920... see here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women's_suffrage_in_the_United_States#/media/File:Map_of_US_Suffrage,_1920.svg (and if I recall correctly, New Jersey let women vote in the late 1700s for a bit). The 19th amendment ensured that voting rights couldn't get denied on the basis of sex. There's more here whe…
/r/MensRights01/09/15 02:26 AM
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It's not just abortion in the way people usually use the term. "But it's also due to passive neglect, such as underfeeding, underimmunization, and failing to take girls to the doctor when they're sick." That though does effectively stop their lives. One of the sources says: Our own recent research has led us to examine how patrilineality — organizing societies through the father’s lineage And goes on and on about patrilineality. The author never stops to wonder about how often the man who raises…
/r/MensRights31/08/15 03:03 PM
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Hopefully, Owen Labrie's sentence and other cases like that result only in "weekend jail". I don't foresee that happening though.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:29 PM
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Sexual intercourse entails a higher risk for women than men. I'll give this a go... A female statutory rapist can have sex with a minor child and then raise the child on her own. A male rapist doesn't have such an opportunity, and the girl could have an abortion or leave the child up for adoption. Thus, the court's mistake here lies not so much in their saying that (vaginal-penile) intercourse carries a higher risk for the victim since that does hold, but in ignoring that statutory rape by a fem…
/r/MensRights31/08/15 12:58 PM
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If someone calls me a "man" I feel pressured to live up the ideal notion of an adult. I almost feel like I should be a "real man". If someone calls me a "boy" I feel like someone who just plays around all day and is a good for nothing with respect to society. I actually prefer male because that sounds like I'm a human being and there is no prejudement as to how I am or how I should be. I find male, less offensive than the other terms.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 02:04 AM
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I also think you're failing to take into account the pervasive misogyny that the prep school and Labrie's defense attorney exhibited. The "senior salute" tradition and the school's culture put enormous pressure on male students to have sex with other students, and to brag to their peers about their sexual encounters. This makes it so that if the boy doesn't want to have sex or misgivings and has sex, that he'll quickly re-frame such an affair as being good for him. That makes for societal misand…
/r/MensRights31/08/15 12:23 AM
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I find it suspect because it's based on the idea that infants remember the experience. But what if it gets done to a minor male who isn't an infant? Male circumcision and female circumcision far more different than they are alike so it isn't really a good comparison. Where do you live? What does the law say about female genital mutilation? I'm guessing it says something about partial removal of the body parts involved. Also, in a sense you've equivocated, at least according to what I understand …
/r/MensRights30/08/15 09:58 PM
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I've read lots of stuff about circumcision. Like most things, there are pros and cons, but I find the idea that circumcision can lead to PTSD or some other mental health disorder to be suspect. Why do you find them suspect? What leads to the suspicion? I don't understand your point about the gomco clamp. Consider a dildo that penetrates a vagina and think about it when such is non-consensual. Similarly, consider a fleshlight that envelops a penis non-consensually and what that is. Next think abo…
/r/MensRights30/08/15 07:06 PM
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What have you read about circumcision? There's a book on how circumcision might be a hidden trauma: http://www.circumcision.org/cht.htm There was a psychotherapist who found effects and problems from early life circumcision in his clients: http://www.cirp.org/library/psych/rhinehart1/ Here's something else to take a look at: http://www.cirp.org/library/psych/boyle6/ Also, circumcision usually involves the forced envelopment, or getting made to penetrate a gomco clamp, and it's about control of t…
/r/MensRights30/08/15 05:18 PM
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I don't know where you live. But in the United States, something like 3.5 % of male citizens can't vote due to felony voting laws, while about .33% of female citizens due to felony voting laws. Those estimates don't account for the loss of voting rights due to misdemeanors. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/364uq6/some_figures_on_the_loss_of_voting_rights_by_sex/ That makes making an effective campaign that much harder.
/r/MensRights30/08/15 02:21 PM
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It isn’t illegal to engage in consensual non-penetrative sexual contact with an individual between ages 13 and 16 unless you are at least five years older than the younger person. (Think necking and fondling.) It is always illegal, however, to engage in penetrative sexual contact with any individual between ages 13 and 16. (16 is the universal age of consent in the state.) http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2015/08/28/owen_labrie_verdict_it_s_confusing_because_of_a_new_hampshire_sexual_consent…
/r/MensRights30/08/15 01:43 AM
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There already exist some videos up on YouTube of people protesting outside of hospitals. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LCcDHvAyGAI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VxQG_KITd7o I don't see any evidence of the violence you suggested.
/r/MensRights30/08/15 12:53 AM
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I support the bill/Bernie's policy because I believe that women are capable of working more than %78 as hard as men. (There's your moral basis.) How hard you work is simply not determined by your income. Enough white-collar workers have easier work than loggers or coal miners or heavily physical labor, yet the white-collar workers make more than coal miners.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 05:33 PM
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But at a hospital, people are there for many many reasons. The same thing can accurately get said of mosques and synagogues. Imagine the horror of a woman leaving the hospital after complications of childbirth taking her baby's life, only to be met with protesters shouting about how baby boys deserve to have their foreskins intact, while her infant is on a table somewhere. She has her feelings hurt. Minors circumcised without their consent, and not having any medical condition, have their rights…
/r/MensRights29/08/15 05:23 PM
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Or maybe Mr. Sabrie is a rapist and the jury was giving him mercy by not convicting him of felony rape. I believe that is what they should have done, it's pretty clear they had sex and it's pretty clear that she did not consent... Well, you brought this issue up here. No one, so far as I can tell so far here has claimed anything about this case as a false accusation. But now since you've brought it up... She accused him of aggravated sexual assault. Back at her dorm, when her phone pinged with a…
/r/MensRights29/08/15 05:02 PM
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Your credibility actually goes up since you go right after where the problem exists.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 03:58 PM
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But that doesn't matter, the point is that women are making far far less, regardless if it is discrimination or not, and they need help to make better choices, which this bill encourages by offering equity program rewards to employers. Making more money isn't necessarily making a better choice. If the point is that women are making far, far less, then the wage gap isn't really a gap. It's just a statistical discrepancy. Statistical discrepancies don't harm people just by having statistical discr…
/r/MensRights29/08/15 01:04 PM
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If you're going to do synagogues, then I suggest that you would be wise to do mosques also. And perhaps protesting outside of mosques first makes more sense. I can see why you don't like the hospital idea, but on the other hand it does have the advantage of potentially VERY high visibility if you can get a serious media outlet to cover it.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 10:54 AM
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Does anyone want to argue that the misdemeanors against Owen Labrie shouldn't even exist? He got convicted of those misdemeanors, because he was 18 and she was 15.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 10:37 AM
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I would believe that the lesser charges follow logically from the law. I don't think the jury had any choice as to whether the misdemeanor charges would apply. As soon as the jury had decided that they had had intercourse, the misdemeanors apply.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 10:11 AM
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Thank you for the correction.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 02:40 AM
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The father has to know about the existence of the child and such a father registry. Also, such a father registry only indicates that the man has the option to take on parental responsibility. He doesn't legally have the option of taking on less parental responsibility after sex.
/r/MensRights28/08/15 01:14 PM
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Even if all abortion became illegal, women could still back out after birth by adoption. Additionally, some abortion is illegal in certain states, such as the illegality of partial birth abortion.
/r/MensRights28/08/15 01:04 PM
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I don't think I'm finding what you're talking about. They do have articles on the site... one says: The ERA would eliminate that different legal standing and, consequently, shift the burden of proof [emphasis added] to the party accused of discrimination.
/r/MensRights27/08/15 04:01 PM
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Her campaign had plenty of supporters. Just as some examples: http://www.allposters.com/-sp/Conservative-Activist-Phyllis-Schlafly-Wearing-a-Stop-ERA-Badge-at-Protest-1977-Posters_i9630784_.htm http://www.ushistory.org/us/57c.asp
/r/MensRights27/08/15 12:16 PM
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Constitutional Equality Amendment Can you archive this from their website?
/r/MensRights27/08/15 12:04 PM
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Just think of how many men's lives might have been saved if some strong woman had fought in the trenches throughout history and died instead of the man having to die or get injured maimed. "Patriarchy"... yer doin' it wrong.
/r/MensRights27/08/15 11:58 AM
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"any moral person would be swayed by the word rape itself." Um... what? That is getting upvotes?
/r/MensRights27/08/15 12:54 AM
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As if women haven't been the majority of dietitians for basically ever, and still are the majority of dietitians.
/r/MensRights27/08/15 12:48 AM
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Since I had my comment to this article sandboxed on another subreddit, I'm going to repost it here: They said they pounded on the door. I don’t remember hearing them pounding. I don’t remember seeing everyone’s faces outside the window. I remember Thomas holding my head down, and shoving his penis into my mouth. I remember trying to resist [emphasis added], pulling back, but he held his hands firmly on my head, pushing my face up and down. That’s all that I remember. "I don't find this all that …
/r/MensRights26/08/15 07:39 PM
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So what your saying is that John Adams was a concern troll. I'm joking, but that does seem like the mindset of those people.
/r/MensRights25/08/15 04:31 PM
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Here's N.C.F.M. on this: http://ncfm.org/2015/08/action/ncfm-our-secretary-al-rava-and-the-unruh-act-under-attack-for-standing-tall-for-equal-rights/
/r/MensRights15/08/15 11:10 AM
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I don't think you've understood what I meant. I agree that there exist ways that feminists have made things worse for men. However, I wasn't talking about things in general, I was talking about football. How have feminists made things worse for men with respect to football?
/r/MensRights14/08/15 10:08 PM
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I don't see how feminists made things worse for men here.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 10:47 AM
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I got the idea basically by thinking about how to respond to someone who says something like "but women make sooo much less money than men." Feel free to look at it either way.
/r/MensRights13/08/15 05:56 PM
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Correct this is what the prisoners were saying, outside its women, inside weaker men become proxy women . "Proxy women" are not women. Those individuals that got raped in prison were by and large men, and remain by and large men. They said male on male prison rape was an extension and symptom of cultural attitudes towards women outside prison . They admitted they knew that those men who got raped in prison were not women, but rather men. Consequently, them saying such indicates that they were pr…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 05:51 PM
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Well done Steve and Janice!
/r/MensRights13/08/15 05:41 PM
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That they became the "bitches", in the absence of real women . That the whole thing about prison rape of men, was rooted in cultural attitudes to women . No. As you said "in the absence of real women". Consequently, if women were around, then those men wouldn't have gotten raped by other men. Additionally, that doesn't take into account the rape of men in prison by female jailers. So even if the theory was as you say, it can't end up as right. Look please respect the fact that I don't want to ar…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 04:50 PM
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They said the culture teaches men to rape women, and weaker men in prison who become proxy women . I'm pretty sure that the men who get raped in prison are not women. No matter how they get viewed by a rapist, they are men. Their masculinity should not get erased. It sounds like their view was that the masculinity of male rape victims was getting erased culturally speaking. If that is correct, do interpretations of the film usually point this out? Not seeing anything wrong with harassing women i…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 01:47 PM
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Did the film talk about cat calling or sexual assault? Did it or did it not focus on rape and/or proposed causal explanation for rape?
/r/MensRights13/08/15 12:34 PM
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The thinking is if there is a general lack of respect for women's personal space and on the street, and not respect the fact they dont want it to be botherd, its part of a general attitude that doesn't recognise women's no's. If you're saying that such leads to rape, then that consists of theoretical speculation without empirical support. At best, it's like saying "if Mercury is the planet closest to the Sun, since planets closer to the Sun get more sunlight, Mercury is the hottest planet." Well…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 12:04 PM
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They were talking about attitude and treatment in general towards women, they though it was all connected to rape. The video by Hollaback where the woman walks on the streets of New York City for 10 hours and plenty of other observations of cat calling indicate that there is no connection to rape. After all, who got raped in that Hollaback video? It strains credulity to think that these individuals have observed cat calling connected with rape in any appreciable degree. The law also has examples…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 11:41 AM
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"Rape culture" is about cultural attitudes towards rape . So, the cultural attitudes still concern rape. Cultural attitudes towards cat calling and sexual assault are not the same thing as cultural attitudes towards rape, because rape is the not same as sexual assault or cat calling. Prisoners Against Rape wasn't Hollaback.
/r/MensRights13/08/15 10:37 AM
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No posts on paternity fraud or the issue of misattributed paternity there so far... if they will ever come. Well, other than the one I put up and they deleted. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/3fve9d/the_notion_of_patriarchy_has_always_consisted_of/
/r/MensRights13/08/15 12:05 AM
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Rape culture is about "culture" . Sure, but it's also about rape also. You haven't indicated that the film wasn't about rape, and the Wikipedia clearly indicates that it was about rape. In fact you've affirmed that the film Rape Culture was about rape. So, you haven't refuted my point, you've supported it. The wikipedia indicates that one of the groups involved was Prisoners Against Rape. Not Hollaback. A rape crisis center also came also involved.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 11:13 PM
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Watch the film, its not about what mra's believe its about . They were primarily talking about rape of women . But then it's still about rape, and not about cat calling or sexual assault.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 10:32 PM
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Saying "rape culture" is not about "rape" encourages the use of unclear language. Additionally, you would do better to note that the film "Rape Culture" where the term first got used was about rape, and particular rape in prisons. Thus, anyone who uses the term and is not referring to rape or something related to rape, refers to something other than rape culture as it originally got used.
/r/MensRights12/08/15 10:27 PM
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Alright, the 92% statistic that Paradis referenced appears to come from here http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/85f0033m/2010024/part-partie1-eng.htm It says: Police-reported [emphasis added] sexual assault rate more than 10 times higher for female victims compared to males. In 2008, the rate of police-reported [emphasis added] sexual assault against females (68 per 100,000 population) was more than 10 times the rate for males (6 per 100,000 population), with females accounting for 92% of sexual assau…
/r/MensRights12/08/15 07:02 PM
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We’re looking at it as a science,” said Daphne C. Watkins, the president of the American Men’s Studies Association, the first woman to hold that post. How does that even happen? Has the national woman's studies association ever have a male president? Many men still define masculinity as someone who can provide for his family, who can wrestle a tiger and protect, Thanks for telling me, a man, how men are in general, sweetie. But Dr. Kimmel’s audience is growing. At the Manhattan conference, U.N. …
/r/MensRights10/08/15 07:34 PM
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But with the more accusers you have the probability of a false accusation gets higher and higher. And as long as the probability of false accusations is below 50%, the probability of at least one false accusation existing increases at a rate faster than the likelihood that there exists a true one.
/r/MensRights08/08/15 04:44 PM
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Looks like hate and intolerance to me. Also, he/she actually indicates that he thinks it appropriate to treat people as something other than human beings. Despicable.
/r/MensRights07/08/15 01:30 PM
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Victoria Legal Aid does say: Sexual offences against children These are offences that are committed against young people under 18.These include: sexual penetration of a child aged 12 or younger sexual penetration of a child aged between 12 and 16 indecent act with a child under the age of 16 persistent (continued) sexual abuse of a child under the age of 16 sexual penetration or an indecent act with a child aged 16 or 17 by an adult who cares for, supervises or has authority over the child. This…
/r/MensRights06/08/15 08:19 PM
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Women do have the right to say "men are dogs". At least in the United States... it might qualify as "hate speech" elsewhere, but it probably remains unchallenged elsewhere. Men have the right to respond "You're a misandric bitch for saying that." Or to respond in other ways verbally by saying that such statements as "men are dogs" really piss you off or bother you. I'm not sure what else this has to do with men's rights.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 05:49 PM
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Betty Friedan was a spouse beater too. I looked around for some information on this and it does look like she was: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/1348841/Feminist-writer-Betty-Friedan-brought-terror-to-marriage.html http://rense.com/general76/makk.htm She also said that her and Carl had a violent relationship, but he wasn't a wife beater. Well, if he wasn't, then she was the violent one.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 05:37 PM
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"But your honor, I didn't anticipate her getting pregnant. She just happened to get pregnant. And she was seductive with her womanly wiles." Yeah... that almost surely wouldn't work.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 01:40 PM
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It doesn't matter who the biological father is, the concept of patriarchy concerns who holds power; patriarchy theory contends that it tends to be the man. It simply isn't the case that the man holds power with respect to raising children when the woman knows the parental status of the child, and the man doesn't. The woman has power there. So what if they're not really his kids? Then the father of the children doesn't have power. The man who raises those children might also believe that he does …
/r/MensRights06/08/15 12:47 PM
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Patriarchy is a concept of social power not related to biology or reproductive power. Social power includes how people relate to each other. A mother telling the father that she slept with multiple partners when she got pregnant and thus he might not be the father, or the mother not telling the father that she slept with someone else concerns how men and women relate to each other. Thus, the issue of paternity fraud or mis-attributed paternity does concern social power. If the OP was correct in …
/r/MensRights06/08/15 11:09 AM
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Some men might go there thinking such. Other "feminism for men" projects, like the Good Men Project, have existed before.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 11:03 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 12:39 AM
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"And yes, names do often get assigned to the husband in the marriage." Lol... I meant that last names of children have often gotten assigned via the husband. But, the husband should not get confused with the father. Ask, for example, Albert Ellis.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:54 PM
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You can't liberate men without dealing with the issue of paternity fraud and mis-attributed paternity.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 08:51 PM
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Eh... I've decided to make them a post. I'm putting it up here, because I wouldn't be surprised if they delete it: "The notion of the family as patriarchal, that is as the father having primary authority in the family has always come as massively exaggerated. This is not to say that some men have never domineered over their wives. Of course, some men have. And yes, names do often get assigned to the husband in the marriage. However, we would do best to take care to note that such a role obscures…
/r/MensRights05/08/15 01:11 PM
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Indeed, Sarkeesian would be infuriated with top article. I don't know about Sarkessian, but the Feminism 101 blog categorically denies the existence of sexism against men as possible. "If you go by the feminist definition, sexism is predicated on having institutional power over a group, and since women do not have that power, they cannot be sexists, reverse or otherwise." https://archive.is/GJNLn Since sexual harassment is a form of discrimination, that ends up entailing that sexual harassment o…
/r/MensRights04/08/15 03:22 PM
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"We will not act on complaints regarding: ‘Reverse’ -isms, including ‘reverse racism,’ ‘reverse sexism,’ and ‘cisphobia’" Sexual harassment is a form of sex discrimination. Thus, it is a form of sexism. Consequently, the above implies that, if they are consistent, that if a woman sexually harasses a man, they won't act on it, because that would acknowledge the existence of sexism against men.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 11:00 PM
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At the very least, GitHub should get abandoned because of this. Possibly more.
/r/MensRights03/08/15 08:12 PM
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Well I got put up there for posting this article about what a German hospital is doing with respect to male genital cutting: https://www.reddit.com/r/mensrights/comments/3e9gri/german_hospital_has_interesting_approach_to/ But, I can't say anything about who made this list and what purposes they had in mind. So, there isn't much to see here... at least... so far.
/r/MensRights30/07/15 01:31 AM
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Plenty of males in industrialized countries have had their foreskins forcibly extracted from them. Now here's the important point. Those foreskins got used to grow vaccines. They got used to aid burn victims. They've gotten used for women's face cream. Consequently, men in general have made a contribution to society by being men. Especially in America. So, no, women should pay men for being their friend. They've earned it.
/r/MensRights23/07/15 09:07 PM
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He didn't say anything about which gender was doing the drugging. He used gender neutral terms.
/r/MensRights16/07/15 12:56 PM
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Are you referring to that incident that happened on the street at Ohio University? He didn't get charged. Yes, the local "women's" center tried to say that she had gotten raped.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 11:53 AM
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I use to think that saying these people wanted a written contract was a bit of an exaggeration. I guess it's not an exaggeration at all. That's what they actually want.
/r/MensRights09/07/15 12:36 PM
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Here's what the ACLU says: http://www.scribd.com/doc/60121784/Aclu-Circumcision Enough of their arguments could apply equally to certain forms of non-therapeutic FGM (at least in certain contexts), since it is often is in certain places, and has been in other places also, a medical procedure, and one which also can get said to "foment religious divisiveness". If they support worldwide bans on FGM, such as the WHO's effort, their inconsistency and gynocentrism then seems clear enough.
/r/MensRights06/07/15 10:14 AM
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They should get sued for such discrimination.
/r/MensRights05/07/15 09:37 PM
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I suggest contacting this group: http://nationalcenterformen.org/ Note they were involved in this case: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matt_Dubay_child_support_case
/r/MensRights29/06/15 02:54 AM
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I don't know what the data said then, but I'm not sure that is correct. Currently the Innocence Project site has under the profile section 297 sex crimes, 112 homicide related, and 17 other crimes. Not all sex crimes are rape. Child sexual molestation, for example, though the category includes rape is not limited to rape. Thus, a case of child sexual molestation might not be a rape case, but will still end up as a sex crime. That said, as it stands right now about 69.7% of the Innocence Project'…
/r/MensRights22/06/15 07:34 PM
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C. A. F. E. is not a men's rights group. Not only do they not focus on men's rights (due process of law, lack of legal protection with respect to genital integrity, etc.), their mission statement indicates that their interest in gender inequality in under-represented areas has lead to a current focus on men and boys. http://equalitycanada.com/about2/mandate/ They have even found it appropriate to put this on their YouTube page: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7usIbnvU4U
/r/MensRights20/06/15 05:35 PM
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The newscast uses the title "Barred from their Rights" and basically refers to the woman the newscaster speaks to as a "human rights activist". That might not make the woman here a "feminist" in the way that Michael Kimmel might define a feminist. However, it appears that some writers use the term "feminist" to mean pretty much the same thing as a "gynocentrist". I don't agree with that definition, but it remains that the woman the reporter spoke to here rather clearly seems like a gynocentrist.…
/r/MensRights17/06/15 06:47 PM
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You might want to read what the National Review says here: http://www.nationalreview.com/article/419716/posts-new-poll-campus-sexual-assault-bogus-david-french?utm_campaign=trueAnthem:+Trending+Content&utm_content=557c5b5004d3014a91000001&utm_medium=trueAnthem&utm_source=twitter Also, see the discussion on this subreddit: np://www.reddit.com/r/FeMRADebates/comments/39piae/poll_shows_that_20_percent_of_women_are_sexually/ People bumping into each other on a dance floor (with clothes on in a publi…
/r/MensRights14/06/15 09:21 PM
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So that article got published on June 11th. 17 days before that this link appeared here on MensRights reddit about that charity's funding getting slashed: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/377l44/ah_the_signs_of_an_egalitarian_society/ You can find that it also got posted on OneY and FeMRADebates. I believe A Voice for Men had a link to that article in their "hotlinks" on the right of their page around that time. I suppose the author didn't notice any of this.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 09:11 PM
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The post entitled "Such perfect irony: MRAs blame "hetero feminists" for backlash to inclusion in Toronto Pride, link to Toronto Star story. Story's main voice? A dude calling out the misogyny in MRM." now has a total score of 23 upvotes with 85% upvoted.
/r/MensRights09/06/15 07:17 PM
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Even without that, this isn't hard. First I found this: "After Daily Xtra broke the news May 27 that the Canadian Association for Equality (CAFE) is included on the list of groups marching this year, several calls were immediately sent out on social media asking people to write to Pride Toronto to remove the group from the parade." http://www.dailyxtra.com/toronto/news-and-ideas/news/pride-toronto-reviewing-complaints-cafe-107351 The relevant link leads to here: https://archive.is/L6Vne The Anti…
/r/MensRights09/06/15 06:48 PM
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Nick Reading has a copy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7HCtG2eX8Q
/r/MensRights09/06/15 08:45 AM
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9 years. It took 9 years from the time that the first safe haven law got passed in Texas until it got passed in all 50 states. That seems pretty fast to me.
/r/MensRights09/06/15 05:26 AM
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I don't know of any feminists who are national socialists. Do you? There do exist feminists who are socialists or communists. Thus, you might want to start using terms like 'femicommie' or 'femisocialist'.
/r/MensRights07/06/15 03:38 AM
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I agree that classifying them as radical feminists seems a bit problematic... however consider the following: A group that protested the Warren Farrell event in Toronto in 2012 was a socialist group: http://whitehouseboysmen.org/blog/protesting-warren-farrell-at-university-of-toronto The group that successfully shut down Janice Fiamengo's talk in 2014 such that she had to move it to another room, and then could only partially give it still, was also the Revolutionary Students Movement: http://th…
/r/MensRights06/06/15 10:02 PM
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Here's a statement from the group that "protested" http://imgur.com/M20WyH6
/r/MensRights06/06/15 05:06 AM
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Much of what she talks about in the article reminds me of parts of Daphne Patai's Heterophobia. I highly recommend it if you are interested in this topic: http://www.amazon.com/Heterophobia-Harassment-Feminism-American-Intellectual/dp/0847689883
/r/MensRights01/06/15 01:50 AM
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None of those were rape charges.
/r/MensRights21/05/15 03:42 PM
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She called Nungesser a serial rapist. See p. 17 and further on: http://online.wsj.com/public/resources/documents/2015_0424_columbia.pdf Sulkowicz is the only person so far as I know who has made a rape accusation against Nungesser.
/r/MensRights21/05/15 05:43 AM
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No, the blogger is not an MRA. See elsewhere in this thread.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 04:53 PM
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Neither Clarey nor Oelke are MRAs. Both have said they aren't.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 04:52 PM
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"The chant celebrated rape, murder, and necrophilia against “whores.” No, it did the exact opposite. At least the text of the chant does the exact opposite. The tone of the chant as it got recited might be otherwise, but that seems unlikely. You simply can't encourage sexual violence when you're discouraging sex. The chant ends with an injunction to "never fuck a whore", which is a way of discouraging sex with whores. The guy's penis is red and sore also. No one wants their penis and sore. Conse…
/r/MensRights19/05/15 06:35 AM
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Internet MRAs have gotten shut down before. Read some of Warren Farrell's later books and Legalizing Misandry for evidence of this. They just end up going somewhere else.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 03:49 AM
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Just another piece of evidence of "The Matriarchy". One has to wonder if feminists used/use the term "patriarchy" to try and cover things like this up.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 09:56 PM
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I am not a meninist. I would call myself a suffragent (I first heard this term used by Peter Lloyd), and you can see here to figure out what I mean: http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/364uq6/some_figures_on_the_loss_of_voting_rights_by_sex/ What would I say about a man who shaves his legs in general? He is a man. That is all.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 07:42 AM
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And threatened with the loss of voting rights, since failing to register can get charged as a felony.
/r/MensRights16/05/15 06:00 PM
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N.C.F.M. has an ongoing lawsuit against the Selective Service System: http://ncfm.org/2014/06/action/ncfm-files-opening-appellate-brief-in-ncfm-v-selective-service-system/ I encourage you to write a letter to your senator. You could also write a letter to your student newspaper.
/r/MensRights16/05/15 05:59 PM
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I found this one also which has some breakdowns by states: http://www.southernstudies.org/2014/11/americans-disenfranchised-for-crimes-would-be-able.html
/r/MensRights16/05/15 05:18 AM
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"According to the Sentencing Project, as of 2010 an estimated 5.9 million Americans are denied the right to vote because of a felony conviction, a number equivalent to 2.5% of the U.S. voting-age population and a sharp increase from the 1.2 million people affected by felony disenfranchisement in 1976." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voting_rights_in_the_United_States#cite_note-Pilkington.2C_Ed-44 Wikipedia estimates about 151.4 million men in the United States (2009) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/D…
/r/MensRights16/05/15 03:48 AM
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The following proposed amendment, so far as I can tell would make it so that laws which prevent these prisoners from voting would get stricken from the books (felony disenfranchisement laws). Prisoners are citizens. The text just says: "Every citizen of the United States, who is of legal voting age, shall have the fundamental right to vote in any public election held in the jurisdiction in which the citizen resides." You can sign a version of the petition here: http://www.protectyourvotingrights…
/r/MensRights16/05/15 03:23 AM
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You said this before: "There is no assumption; I'm not suggesting ALL women would exploit their legal advantage. Indeed, I'm not saying anything about women at all beyond the fact that they are legally advantaged over men. It's that advantage which concerns me. The risk. No one thinking rational would accept that risk." The advantage that women have over men gets magnified, because in addition to women making up more of the population, women get even more voting power proportional to their sex t…
/r/MensRights15/05/15 06:07 PM
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In many states, men falsely convicted of felonies such as rape or domestic violence lose their right to vote.
/r/MensRights15/05/15 05:38 PM
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The proposed constitutional amendment doesn't say anything about photo ID laws. I believe that's just a way that this site tries to use to persuade people to sign it. In many states, men falsely convicted of felonies such as rape or domestic violence lose their right to vote.
/r/MensRights15/05/15 05:37 PM
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I wasn't talking about why the prison population was mostly male. I was talking about voting rights. It's not just a statistical difference here. The catch lies in that men get harsher sentences for the same crimes: http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2144002 http://ftp.iza.org/dp2870.pdf Given that the length of the sentences that entail temporary disenfranchisement also are greater for men (and this seems likely), it follows that the length of time for which male prisoners don't…
/r/MensRights14/05/15 04:23 PM
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Men getting vasectomies wouldn't resolve population control. People could just take the sperm from sperm banks, or from males before they had the vasectomy and impregnate females that way. Where did I get that twisted idea? Factory farmers use ideas like that all the time.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 12:21 AM
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I mean it would have been like: Look, first woman CEO of a fortune 500/100/50 company with Hewlett Packard, who also served served on the board of directors of the computer security company Cybertrust, and also served on the board of directors of the Taiwan Semiconductor Manufacturing Company... Look, woman who focused on her career while her husband focused on raising children... She supports men's rights. But no, that didn't happen. I blame the "not my taxes! not my taxes!" crowd which I think…
/r/MensRights13/05/15 08:58 PM
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This piece: http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/jan/09/not-a-feminist-move-on-men-women
/r/MensRights13/05/15 08:45 PM
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Regardless of where she was right about Hillary Clinton or not, I wish Carly Fiorina had answered the question about setting up a council on Men and Boys.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 11:22 PM
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You can find it in modeling. "Vickery – who has the unenviable task of organising the lives and careers of a bunch of teenage boys – is sanguine. "The day rate for a catalogue model is around £3,500 for a guy, but it's £8,000 for a girl," she says." http://www.theguardian.com/fashion/2014/mar/07/day-in-the-life-male-model-tommy-marr If I recall correctly Warren Farrell's Why Men Earn More also has some figures for America. I don't think schools work. Emergency medical technicians is at parity in…
/r/MensRights11/05/15 10:13 PM
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Immigrant fathers in the U. S. have fewer rights than immigrant mothers: http://ncfm.org/2011/06/news/courts-news/cases/u-s-supreme-court-rules-fathers-are-inferior/ http://amptoons.com/blog/2011/06/19/supreme-court-in-a-4-4-vote-affirms-sexist-discrimination-against-fathers/ http://www.msmagazine.com/news/uswirestory.asp?id=6177 http://www.msmagazine.com/summer2004/globalwomenlaw.asp
/r/MensRights11/05/15 06:02 PM
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Immigrant fathers in the U. S. have fewer rights than immigrant mothers: http://ncfm.org/2011/06/news/courts-news/cases/u-s-supreme-court-rules-fathers-are-inferior/ http://amptoons.com/blog/2011/06/19/supreme-court-in-a-4-4-vote-affirms-sexist-discrimination-against-fathers/ http://www.msmagazine.com/news/uswirestory.asp?id=6177 http://www.msmagazine.com/summer2004/globalwomenlaw.asp
/r/MensRights11/05/15 02:41 PM
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So, since she's responsible she's the one who has power with respect to decisions regarding the children. I'm pretty sure that a correct term here is "Matriarchy".
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:58 PM
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But this shows the existence of Matriarchy under Canadian law.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:56 PM
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Yes, that's old, but no, that's not what that page currently looks like. That's an FAQ page. Here's what it looks like currently: http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/bnfts/cctb/fq_qlfyng-eng.html This has gotten archived in another thread here and on FeMRADebates.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:54 PM
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She makes that one comment in the context of several comments about the disadvantages of boys. She also ends the article: "Love all my kids and give them equal attention." You could still be right. At the very least that is part of her motivation, but it's by no means clear that such is her only motivation.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 09:30 PM
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I don't live in Canada. I'll suggest contacting the Canadian Association for Equality for advice. http://equalitycanada.com/
/r/MensRights10/05/15 07:12 PM
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His taking money isn't a joke. He is asking for people to write that they are donating explicitly to spite others, that is not a joke. Even if everything else is a joke, instead of a ploy to get money just to spite people, don't these people often say something about how humor indicates someone's emotional state?
/r/MensRights10/05/15 08:00 AM
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Well at the very least I'll point out that if someone starts using We Hunted the Mammoth as a credible source you can point them to this.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 06:55 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 05:50 AM
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Thanks.
/r/MensRights10/05/15 05:32 AM
1

I don't know how to archive things. Can someone please archive this?
/r/MensRights10/05/15 04:31 AM
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No, no, no... see Lamarck did actually believe in evolution. You can make rat's tails get shorter by cutting them off. Cutting tails affects their genome. The Patriarchy just wouldn't let anyone do those experiments right... dammit!!!! /sarcasm/
/r/MensRights10/05/15 04:28 AM
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"Announcing the We Hunted the Mammoth Legal Fund to Spite the Honey Badger Brigade" Futrelle doesn't claim that it's a joke anywhere in the request and is taking real money. He also wants his donors to say: "Please specify that your donation is intended “to spite the Honey Badgers.” [his emphasis!] The definition of spite as defined by Merriam Webster's Dictionary is http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/spite: "petty ill will or hatred with the disposition to irritate, annoy, or thwart"
/r/MensRights10/05/15 04:17 AM
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What parts of the FAQ have you read or you had trouble with? Have you read any relevant books like David Benatar's The Second Sexism, Warren Farrell's The Myth of Male Power, or Katherine Young and Paul Nathanson's Legalizing Misandry? You say that you're for equality of the sexes, but you emphasize women and girls with your terminology. It turns out that in many countries women and girls have more rights than men and boys. Women are often protected by law from having their genitals cut for non-…
/r/MensRights05/05/15 06:31 PM
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No, she's not voting with her vagina. That's just her cover... "Of course—of course—there are wonderful male gynecologists and awful female ones out there. I would absolutely not prefer the Sarah Palin of gynecologists over the Barack Obama of gynecologists, for perfectly obvious reasons, so let’s just leave that silly argument alone." It should also get pointed out that, at this point in time, other women might run.
/r/MensRights04/05/15 05:00 PM
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If you check all of the accusations (including all of those that Jezebel has mentioned) the only rape accusation seems to be that of Sulkowicz. All of the other accusations are not rape accusations. The suit has evidence that Sulkowicz called him a serial rapist.
/r/MensRights26/04/15 07:28 AM
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What councils would those be?
/r/MensRights23/04/15 10:26 PM
1

What is the evidence that the Calgary Expo has called the police? Note that neither Paul Elam, nor Nick Reading has made any claim about the Calgary Expo calling the police. At least not so far as I know.
/r/MensRights21/04/15 04:31 AM
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The findings seem consistent with what Janice Fiamengo has said about the departments she has worked in: "Next came the creation of a shortlist of three or four candidates for interview; some members of the department were keen to stack the list with members of the diversity groups. To this end, there was much sophistry about why a (white) male candidate’s book with a prestigious university press was really no better than — was actually perhaps a bit inferior to — a female candidate’s single art…
/r/MensRights14/04/15 06:31 AM
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Well HeforShe is about men being for women. It doesn't have a campaign of SheforHe, that is for women being for men. So, it's not about gender equality.
/r/MensRights07/04/15 04:00 PM
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It seems to me that you're defining "gender equality" as focusing on women's issues. It is simply not the case that women suffer the brunt of gender inequality. Male genital mutilation in the form of circumcision is legal, while all forms of female genital mutilation are legal. Women can opt out of the responsibility for parenthood unilaterally at some point in time after sex via abortion or adoption. Men can't do this legally. There exist other areas such as military service, custody after a di…
/r/MensRights07/04/15 03:25 AM
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First and foremost I think its unfair to criticize a feminist movement for not speaking on the issues of men. Not if they're speaking about equality as feminists often do. HeforShe is about bringing male awareness to the issues that women suffer which i subscribe to cuz as i have said before i believe gender equality relies on both male and females working together instead of each gender opposing each other. As you've now admitted HeforShe is about women's issues. It's not about men's issues. Yo…
/r/MensRights07/04/15 02:29 AM
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"Emma Watson spoke on international womens day about how gender equality affects men too. She stated that gender equality affects men by creating this idea of masculinity that causes misconceptions about what it is or isn’t to be a man. This is exactly what MRA’s seem to be reaching for, a change in the idea of masculinity so that issues such as sexual violence on males can become a recognized issues by those same victims reporting what happened to them." No, MRAs are NOT seeking a HeforShe type…
/r/MensRights06/04/15 06:40 PM
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" There are problems in today’s society with sexual assault among both genders, there is a pay gap where women get the short end of the stick..." No, look up the CONSAD report and Warren Farrell's "Why Men Earn More." Also, don't look at average wages first. First look at the work that men and women do. Then try and assess whether or not men and women are getting paid for doing the same work. Oh, and also note that once you look at doing the same jobs, there exist exceptions like male models mak…
/r/MensRights06/04/15 06:33 PM
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Reuters says one is in the works: http://news.yahoo.com/rolling-stone-rebuked-independent-report-campus-rape-story-001216264.html;_ylt=A0LEV73SziJVVy4ALIIPxQt.
/r/MensRights06/04/15 06:22 PM
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Where is the apology from the President of the University of Virginia Teresa Sullivan for suspending all fraternity and sorority activities?
/r/MensRights06/04/15 06:21 PM
1

So, circumcision of minors in the U. S. is (almost always) NOT vegan.
/r/MensRights09/03/15 03:05 PM
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The author of that comment favors inequality under the law (I know, you might have guessed that). Specifically, he doesn't like the idea of legal paternal surrender.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 09:27 PM
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I'd suggest contacting the people at DAHMW: http://www.dahmw.org/?page_id=18 This site run by a counselor of men in abusive relationships might also help http://shrink4men.com/
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:41 PM
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They're going to explore the myths around sexual assault. So are they going to explore the myth that if you hear about a rape that the rapist will be male and the victim will be female? Yeah, probably not.
/r/MensRights04/02/15 09:20 PM
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Shame on the Daily Show for this.
/r/MensRights29/01/15 10:25 PM
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I got genitally mutilated by having my foreskin forcibly removed as an infant. I'm upset about it.
/r/MensRights29/01/15 10:08 PM
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Could you link to the study/paper that you've referred to?
/r/MensRights29/01/15 10:07 PM
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There is no "typical reaction" that I know of. And even if there is, it is clear that this guy wasn't just drunk and a party. He was drunk and lying in his own bed.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 07:32 PM
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Riight, because there doesn't exist institutionalized and systematized oppression of men in the form of male genital mutilation being legal while female genital mutilation being illegal, male only selective service registration, a National Council on Women and Girls but none on Men and Boys, and even more tellingly: The institution of Ruby Tuesday discriminating against men in employment hiring http://www.newser.com/story/201784/ruby-tuesday-sued-for-discrimination-against-men.html and Universit…
/r/MensRights27/01/15 07:00 PM
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The circumstances are described here: "At my dorm, two of my friends and the other girl helped me into my bed, they took off my jeans and my shirt and left. As I was laying there in the dark, about 2 minutes later, I heard the door open. I figured it was my roommate, but was surprised when the light turned on and it was the other girl. I wasn’t a very big guy at the time, 5’6 and maybe 120 pounds. She was substantially heavier than I was, and jumped on top of me. I told her “no”, and she ripped …
/r/MensRights27/01/15 06:48 PM
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Wait, wait... they've been at this for a few years now, and they've just NOW responded to the fact that the vast majority of characters in video games are male, and realized that they should talk about masculinity SINCE IT'S ALL OVER THE FUCKING PLACE ACCORDING TO THEM in video games??? They've persistently talked about the under-representation of women in video games, and just now they've decided to talk about the majority of video game characters???? Wow, Anita Sarkeesian really is capable of …
/r/MensRights27/01/15 04:24 AM
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I think it would be a victory to get actual discussion of how the depiction of masculinity in video games huts men too, whether they call it "patriarchy" or not. There's a potential problem here. Saying that such "hurts men too" implies that the damage to men is secondary. There is no way to plausibly maintain that with respect to video games, if such depictions mean anything (they don't, but I'll suppose that they do). Clearly far, far more "men" die, get maimed and are literally disposed in vi…
/r/MensRights27/01/15 04:16 AM
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The attempted cover up later by the high school football coach and other local adults, along with the entire town orchestrating victim blaming after criminal charges were filed against two high school football stars, was also just astounding. But that cover up failed.
/r/MensRights27/01/15 03:06 AM
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You said this: "Watch the actual video of the Steubenville rape case they were discussing. It was filmed on a cell phone while the rapes were occurring. If your only or even first, second or third thought after watching this video is, "Well, she shouldn't have been drinking so much", you have serious issues. That's why she got so mad. This video is just stunning. I agree of course that people should drink responsibly. I also recognize that many people do not. Her drinking was not an excuse for t…
/r/MensRights27/01/15 02:49 AM
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??? Making an issue which concerns male bodies is a mistake for a movement that is focused on males and their condition and rights??? Some feminists really do not understand logic.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 07:45 PM
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This is it. Is he trying to fix her? No. But she feels entitled to the point that she feels the situations needs "fixed". Also, we don't know what he has said or what his position actually is. We only have what she thinks about what he believes. I don't believe it's uncommon that MHRA positions often get misrepresented... I know from my own experience that when I've brought up legal paternal surrender with my mother she told me something like "oh, so abortion should be illegal."
/r/MensRights25/01/15 07:23 PM
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I believe some feminists confuse being an MHRA with being an anti-feminist. Marc Lepine said that he hated feminists when he killed women at a university I think in Montreal back in the 1990s (but Lepine killed women in engineering, not gender studies students). The reasoning here is tortuous and specious, of course, especially since no one condones what Marc Lepine did, but it might be something like that.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 07:20 PM
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The National Coalition for Men I know did sponsor Zen Men's conference this past fall. So, you might want to contact NCFM also.
/r/MensRights21/01/15 04:22 AM
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Legal terms concerning violation of minors vary from state to state. Some use the term "rape" others "sexual assault" and others "sexual abuse": http://www.cga.ct.gov/2003/olrdata/jud/rpt/2003-R-0376.htm The term "rape" is not used in the State of California when talking about violation of minors. The State of California uses the term "unlawful sexual intercourse." Specifically California law says "261.5. (a) Unlawful sexual intercourse is an act of sexual intercourse accomplished with a person …
/r/MensRights20/01/15 05:27 PM
2

Note that they cheer when Dan's sign gets ripped down.
/r/MensRights19/01/15 08:03 PM
2

The only incident that happened was the accusation. How will the change in policies here make such an accusation less likely in the future? How will it protect the male students from a false or wrongful accusation?
/r/MensRights16/01/15 04:58 PM
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They're being "prudent" by penalizing those who had nothing to do with a purported assault that has now come to have seen to have no basis in fact. Are you serious?
/r/MensRights16/01/15 05:07 AM
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Men can't get federal jobs, or get fired from jobs because of their registration status. Here's a recent case: http://hasbrouck.org/draft/Elgin_v_USTreasury-order.pdf
/r/MensRights13/01/15 09:12 PM
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The survey has these categories: "Someone TRIED to sexually penetrate me ( hover text : someone tried to put a penis or insert fingers or objects into my vagina or anus) even though I didn’t want to" "Someone sexually penetrated me (hover text: someone put a penis or insert fingers or objects into my vagina or anus) even though I didn’t want to" It doesn't appear to have anything about "being made to penetrate" or "getting enveloped". Typical. http://web.mit.edu/surveys/health/MITCommunityAttitu…
/r/MensRights29/10/14 05:04 AM
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Threatening to shoot them. Threatening to skin them with a knife. Threatening to kill oneself if one doesn't have sex with them. Alright, those all qualify as abuse... but this sort of clarification might come as useful.
/r/MensRights19/09/14 06:55 AM
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Sure, but that won't help any other man or boy.
/r/MensRights04/09/14 10:00 PM
1

You can view the phrase "end american football" as a pretext for actually doing something about school football programs.
/r/MensRights04/09/14 10:00 PM
1

"I would argue that an injury in football is not intentional. Again, you are confusing the obvious violence with INTENT TO INJURE." There is an intent to throw men or boys to the ground. There is an intent to try to push men or boys onto to the ground. There is an intent to subject men or boys to physical force against their bodies via the ground. "Its painfully obvious that you were in the marching band and not on the team. If you were on the team you would understand the basic idea of sportsma…
/r/MensRights04/09/14 09:59 PM
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"Yes, you may get hurt. But you know that going in." Give me a break. Hardly any boys know about the risk of concussions, back injuries, or sore muscles going in. Boys are NOT taught what the research says with respect to the risks of playing football before playing football. Do they know they might get hurt? I accept that. But they simply don't have any idea with respect to the probability that they will get hurt. They also have little to no idea of the extent of those injuries and what they do…
/r/MensRights04/09/14 04:35 AM
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You have a point about martial arts. Except martial arts aren't funded by school programs. They aren't funded by taxpayer dollars. So, they aren't culturally sanctioned in the same way. The general public's attitude towards them isn't clear. I do think there may lie some value in trying to protest martial arts programs also though. Honestly though, why wouldn't you think of protesting that as potentially worthwhile? Boys that get put into those programs by their parents definitely don't deserve …
/r/MensRights04/09/14 04:10 AM
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Also the term "nanny state" implies that the government protects people. Ending say a high school football program doesn't entail that no group could start to play football. So honestly, I don't think the term "nanny state" applies here.
/r/MensRights04/09/14 03:00 AM
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Well maybe so (though I don't agree that guns would have to get taken away in order for this to happen). That doesn't mean that one school program or two couldn't get shut down.
/r/MensRights04/09/14 02:58 AM
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That "enjoyment" encourages concussions, back injuries, muscle injuries and more for the boys who play. Why should the "enjoyment" of football ruin boys lives?
/r/MensRights04/09/14 02:55 AM
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That argument might work for adults. But it's very well acknowledged that boys can't consent to sex with adults. Adults also can't legally force children to have sex with other children now, can they? Note that school football programs get lead by adults. So, on what basis can adults make it acceptable for boys to do violence to other boys?
/r/MensRights04/09/14 02:54 AM
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The misandry comes as very apparent by calling these examples "great". Satire them for calling such examples "great". Show better examples of MHRAs sticking up for men's human rights.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 04:11 AM
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Some of the SJWs are "yes means yes" affirmative consent types, or at least the bill up for proposal in California suggests such. If so, then your strategy would imply saying something like "I have not given you my clear, unambiguous verbal consent".
/r/MensRights31/08/14 11:15 PM
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How did you respond?
/r/MensRights31/08/14 11:04 PM
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There exist many, many more feminists than MRAs. So it actually makes sense that more intactivists are feminists. Also, plenty of MRAs got into the MRM because of what happened in family court, a very different issue than male genital mutilation. On top of that, children have historically come as women's responsibility, and you have to factor in the number of single mothers out there. Since feminists tend to be women, it thus makes sense that feminists might think about the MGM issue to an appre…
/r/MensRights13/08/14 06:24 AM
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Oh I see now... Women are smarter than men... But we only need a National Council on Women and Girls, and no such Council on Men and Boys. Riight.
/r/MensRights06/08/14 10:08 PM
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We have no idea what the crazies would do a priori. Though they did initially protest the recent AVfM event they didn't actually show up to it and protest at it. C.A.F.E. has had events that they didn't protest, or at the very least just sometimes show up to merely express disagreement such as the Karen Straughan event. If the crazies did show up, we surely could get that on tape, put it up on YouTube and make them look even worse. We can't let this keep happening for 50 years.
/r/MensRights28/07/14 04:42 PM
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You have a point about patience. But, we can't just sit around and wait forever. It has been a few years now. Waiting for 50 years here would just make things worse.
/r/MensRights28/07/14 04:37 PM
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Plenty of the people who do such "research" are advocates who want these numbers to come out high. As already pointed out, how rape gets defined can influence the results. A clear example as to how this affects things is sodomy. Sometimes sodomy is automatically rape in a study, sometimes it's not. Language in the surveys often is vague or ambiguous. The person doing the survey will often define rape differently than the people answering the questions. The survey author uses answers to the quest…
/r/MensRights12/05/13 02:52 AM
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A question like "Have you ever gotten a girl drunk to make it easier to have sex with her" probably obscures things. A guy might have bought a girl alcoholic beverages so that she "loosens up" sure, and I agree that the guy is a "douchebag" or "asshole" sure. But, doesn't it usually happen that she drinks the beverages herself as opposed to having them forced down her throat? If she does choose to drink the beverages, then she's the one responsible for getting drunk. So, even if the "douchebag" …
/r/MensRights12/05/13 02:38 AM
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I'll define rape under two equivalent definitions. Rape can either consist of anti-consensual penetration of a body cavity. Or rape can consist of anti-consensual envelopment of a sex organ. I did NOT say non-consensual, because if two people do not verbally agree to have sex, and just have sex without discussing it, there may exist a desire to have sex for both parties. However, if one party says "no" or clearly indicates "no" in any way say by kicking and screaming or some sort of physical res…
/r/MensRights24/04/13 02:36 AM
1

"no matter how much they see themselves as victims of the patriarchy. Most feminists perspectives see everyone as victims of patriarchy in some ways." Since a patriarchy simply doesn't exist in the way that many feminists would have us believe (if a patriarchy that rules the world exists, then women got the right to vote, because of the patriarchy, patriarchy built the bridges, patriarchy made it so that we can have this conversation here online, the patriarchy printed and reproduced feminist te…
/r/MensRights24/04/13 02:20 AM
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"Hey dude, feminism is not some singular ideological block, since you don't really seem aware of that, are you sure your opinion is particularly valid?" I started what I said above by pointing out a feminist trying to register for the draft and failing (and clearly most feminists aren't like that). I suspect that there do exist plenty of feminists that would claim that such a lawsuit opposes patriarchy. I did NOT say all. "Patriarchy does mean men holding a majority of political, economic, socia…
/r/MensRights20/04/13 04:47 AM
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Yes, that's what I'm talking about. I've seen at least one feminist actually try to register for the draft and fail, but actually persist http://womensenews.org/story/military/130227/military-equality-in-her-view-includes-the-draft. One point of my comment lies in that you can find stuff which basically says, or seems to say, that opposing patriarchy and striving for gender equality are necessarily connected... like Lindy West's article on Jezebel about "man-hating". MHRAs do NOT say that they o…
/r/MensRights15/04/13 03:22 PM
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Last I checked, NCFM has sued the U. S. Selective Service System for discrimination, not N.O.W. What's that... MHRAs fighting "patriarchy" too?
/r/MensRights15/04/13 05:08 AM
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