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Spore2012/r/seduction04/05/16 06:47 AM
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Field ReportSpore2012/r/seduction21/02/14 01:37 AM
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Red Pill TheorySpore2012/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 05:15 AM
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Do whatever you want but tread lightly. Young people are impulsive and fleeting. When i was 32-33 I was dating a 20 yo against my better judgement, but we just got along so well. I was taking it slow and everything was fine until one day she just ghosted me. ¯⁠\⁠(⁠°⁠_⁠o⁠)⁠/⁠¯
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:31 PM
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Its not the plan or idea itself, but the type of person that buys this is either dumb or an asshole. Or both.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:04 PM
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Its always about status. #1 thing to women.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:59 PM
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Theres women who dont shit test, theres women who do it constantly after a year. Im dating one.
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:44 PM
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Women hate initiating 90%+ of the time.
/r/seduction21/10/20 09:18 PM
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TL;DR Bitch. Cunt. Whore. Ugly. Fat.
/r/seduction10/11/18 10:34 PM
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Im 34, make sure you are clear that its a date or that you are intimately interested in her. As for confidence boost, i dunno just hype yourself up like you would of you were gonna fight someone. Get a good workout in so you feel good and clear. Lifting always boosts my mood.
/r/seduction30/10/18 07:22 PM
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2 weeks is too long . Gotta get in and make your intentions clear before you friendzone yourself or another guy takes her out on a date.
/r/seduction30/10/18 06:55 PM
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There was this girl at the bar one time who asked me and some other people at a table if we had ig and sc after talking and getting along before she left. I added her and it was basically just so she could get more followers for her psuedo business and modeling bs. If shes a regular girl and not trying to market herself, i would agree with you though.
/r/seduction30/10/18 06:52 PM
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Nike. Just do it.
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:43 AM
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People say random shit on the internet for shits and gigglea, maybe he was serious, maybe it was a poor taste joke. Just ignore those types of comments. Mods cant be everywhere.
/r/seduction08/10/18 05:44 AM
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Maybe 3-4 times its gotten me free drinks and afterbar hanging around. I didnt discriminate on looks and tried with fat, ugly, beautiful, etc. It prob works around 50% of the time. Its no big deal, pretend like the table is just a bar island where anyone can sit.
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:38 PM
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I do this thing where I just sit at an open seat with a 2-5 set of people. Preferably more girls. Sometimes I;ll be like "What are you guys doing at my table?" if they get the joke its good. If they get confused or butthurt I find a quit exit and move on to the next. Win:win.
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:21 AM
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Seems like most of this is sloppy, stumbling, on the fly versions of stoic philosophy. Read seneca or something
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:59 PM
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Monk mode .
/r/seduction05/08/18 01:03 PM
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TL;DR ; its always about status. Doesn't matter what your job is, how much money you make, how attractive you are, what you drive, how you dress etc. All of that is secondary or adds up to your overall SMV aka Status. Your status is that you aren't a dumb dumb and have a decent job and are funny enough. I mean just look at the OKC/Tinder graph about how men and women perceive each other on dating sites. https://blogs.sas.com/content/sastraining/files/2014/10/okc_rating_curve1.png LOL https://blo…
/r/seduction11/07/18 06:46 AM
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I call it a shit test because its easier to explain. And what im doing is morally superior or neutral if anything.
/r/seduction02/06/18 10:06 PM
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Like i said, if im in the mood ill do some shit test to see if they are easily offended. If so i know its a waste of my time and theirs. Win:win. Besides, people know within yhe first 10 sec if they are interested in someone. Moving on.
/r/seduction01/06/18 08:43 PM
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Here's my above average looking tall dark handsome white 20s/30s guy with average pua skill and above average wit version: Opinion opener/Shit test opener: "Hey. What do you think you're doing sitting at my table?" and then sit at the open seat. Or just some random eavesdropped comment/question that is mildly funny/offensive. eg; "I wish Trump would grab everyone by the pussy equally." (I just made this up, but based it on the idea that some set would be talking about trump or something.) This i…
/r/seduction31/05/18 09:03 AM
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I've never really been one for one night stands, although I am not opposed. I understand you have to plow through garbage to find gems. so yea, looking for relationship.
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:25 AM
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Yea, I was checking for like a soup line or something, but I see nothing like that.
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:15 AM
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You just got a new subscriber. Ive seen and read a lot of shit about PUA and the like, you got concise videos and solid basic tips.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:28 PM
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Step 1. Go anywhere. Step 2. Flirt with a guy you are attracted to.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:27 PM
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This shit is a goldmine. Fuck a dating site. This is the real deal.
/r/seduction23/02/18 12:26 PM
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Its like when a group of hetero go into homo clubs, they dont want you there.
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:37 AM
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What/Where is this?
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:35 AM
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!reddit silver
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:35 AM
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Top notch. Got any other less impactful options? I work nights 6 days a week and my only day off is tuesday. Where do I find local listings for volunteer shit, dance/classes, co ed sports, or improv classes. And how much does this type of stuff cost? Also, what kind of volunteer work is ideal here? I was just checking google and there seems to be everything from cleaning beaches, doing tours, chaperoning disable kids dances, senior services, planting, doing paperwork and fundraising for art/hist…
/r/seduction23/02/18 10:29 AM
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Id say the only legit thing in this video is the pursed lips and covering of the mouth. Or redirection with gesticulation. Def applies to bluffers at a poker table at least. Its also kinda silly to blanket about head shaking. People in all cultures do headshakes for many different reasons. Ps when bill walks away at the end, hes not sad. Hes trying to hold back a smile/smirk. He feels like he just pulled off a heist. Watch it closely.
/r/seduction07/10/17 07:46 PM
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When i was 16 i hooked up with my friends mom who was like 36 or something. It was horrible on every level.
/r/seduction15/07/17 06:45 AM
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Tldw?
/r/seduction07/07/17 06:55 PM
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I'm 33, maybe I'm odschool. But text doesn't convey much in the way of tone and hinders my ability to read people and make judgements. Calling is more confident.
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:57 PM
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A man can be a 2 and fat. If he has high status, it trumps it. Its like a checks and balances with women.
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:54 PM
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The bad boys, they had status. What do bad boys do or have? Street cred, can get illegal stuff, can do whatever they want, have crazy fun, etc. by proxy it is popularity, booze, weed, whatever. Its all part of that status. Generally the band guys are one in the same with this. I dunno what your band was, but you have to actually be good, and you actually have to book gigs and play music that is mostly popular. Here's the point that you are missing or not understanding. Yes, looks are important t…
/r/seduction12/06/17 11:46 PM
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the timing doesnt matter. as long as its not like 5 min before or something useless. texting for confirmatiin is weak anyway. call her before the date, start the date there 4 hours, 1 hour, it doesnt matter. easier to gauge her interest and flakiness.
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:51 PM
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its a good joke actually, depending on the chick and your rapport.
/r/seduction12/06/17 07:49 PM
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Trust, everyone always likes to victimize themselves because they are too short, or not buff, or not cool enough, or not rich enough. You just go out there like you are the man and project confidence off your status as a man and you can pull almost any chick you want. Think about it. In highschool who were the guys with the chicks? No one has money or cars or good jobs. Its the dudes in the bands or on the sportsball team. They have that status. With those status, comes money or buff or fame- wh…
/r/seduction11/06/17 05:41 AM
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wrong. status trumps money and looks.
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:34 PM
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its not about money or looks. its about status. status is #1 on female attraction list. you get status and other stuff comes along with it.
/r/seduction10/06/17 09:33 PM
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tldw: 4 needs women have;, to be relaxed, to feel wanted, to feel listened to, and to laugh. pretty basic common sense shit here.
/r/seduction10/06/17 10:50 AM
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there is a girl doing this that i used to fuck, and im still not even sure if shes being serious or just joking in a dark way.
/r/seduction25/05/17 10:10 PM
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you can tell because the audio is clear on the randoms. they have mics
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 09:51 PM
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Well, they do need it. Or else they go into withdrawals and in the case of some chemicals you will actually die.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 09:46 PM
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homeless are often addicts and they need the money for booze or drugs.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 08:28 PM
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its almost as if its true that she had a disability. i think she has mental disability.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 08:26 PM
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anyone post this in subredditdrama or outoftheloop yet?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 08:21 PM
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its censoring before they need to. guilty before innocence. keeping their echochamber safe.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 08:18 PM
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i was posting in /r/askwomenover30, and it was mildy controversial. wasnt shunned or banned. then a day later i was banned from /r/askmenover30 for the posting on the other sub, which are not related not same mods or anything, just similar opposite content. i tried to reason with the mod but he was having a temper tantrum, i honestly think he made a mistake and stuck by it instead of undoing it because he was power trippin. so sad
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 08:14 PM
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ah, that explains it. i was trying to ask the mod about why i was banned as i didnt post there but they gave me the shittiest reply. and just said, sorry we didnt tell you when you were banned.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/17 08:11 PM
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You are missing the point. The point is that whatever the opinion of the mods is, is the only thing allowed to be posted in that sub. I dont give a shit about being banned. Its just as bad as /r/askwomen or any of the other ridiculously biased terrible subreddits. "If you don't assimilate into our doctrine, we silence you." Any modality like that is immediately suspect for starters. Because like you said, they don't allow the free flow of knowledge and ideas for power, as you said. Which is fals…
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:48 AM
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yea i know all about trp, i been lurking there ever since i was banned aka censored, for not conforming to their circlejerk. like i said, its not the healthiest way to live and the basic level human behavior psychology understanding is pretty obvious.
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:06 AM
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For the kinda reasons the other big reply in this thread stated. TRP is similar to seduction, only that the dudes there are certain kinds of dudes and dating certain kinds of women. And they believe that all women and all dudes are always black and white. While it is true, you can apply generalizations and be accurate most of the time, its not always the case and a lot of what is preached in TRP is not healthy long term and not going to lead to a satisfactory life.
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:44 PM
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did you modify it to post here?
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:38 PM
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This is a repost from TRP.
/r/seduction13/04/17 11:29 AM
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Its kinda crazy to me how people go through life giving fucks about what people think, especially strangers. Everyone is so afraid of judgement. One of my ex-gf was really shitty in this regard. I remember when we were at the cash register at a 99 cent store and she was slow digging through her purse to pay, and I was just there fucking around with some halloween skeleton props. His arm was stiff and hand stretched so I made him do the sieg heil and was joking about it my gf was shooting me dagg…
/r/seduction11/04/17 10:23 AM
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although wink is a weapon thqt is shorter range than a smile.
/r/seduction04/04/17 09:04 PM
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you strawmanned my argument and missed my point
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:10 PM
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hes right, just being abrasive and black and white with generalizations. sure there can be a few women who know game and can give good advice, but mostly if tou ask all your friend girls about dating advice its going to be pure garbage fantasy shit that sounda good in theory but has no application in practice.
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:39 PM
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I'll PM you my knee, you little shit.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:09 AM
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I can do that on yer mum
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:52 PM
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I can do planks
/r/seduction09/03/17 11:57 AM
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If you bang her here and now, does her vaginal entaglement particles on the moon receive pleasure?
/r/seduction09/03/17 11:56 AM
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Man, I advocated using binary years ago. Pretty sure Ive posted about it on here before. Anyway, my point to using it was simply for yourself. Where you are clearly into a girl or not for whatever reason. The 1-10 scale is actually more for others, or comparing women to other women.
/r/seduction09/03/17 12:21 AM
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DSM-5 criteria for narcissistic personality disorder include these features: Having an exaggerated sense of self-importance Expecting to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it Exaggerating your achievements and talents Being preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate Believing that you are superior and can only be understood by or associate with equally special people Requiring constant admiration Having a sense of entitle…
/r/seduction01/03/17 02:03 PM
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Meh, you could argue that there are lots of things in life that you dont particularly enjoy but you should do anyways because they are better for you. If you are awkward at parties or whatever its because you are inexperienced at them. How do you get better at it? Go to parties. I dont have experience with anxiety, but if he genuinely has a disorder then meds and therapy are going to help. However, overall they are going to be telling you to just do shit and not shut yourself out.
/r/seduction01/03/17 10:13 AM
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That's pretty much the definition of a narcissist.
/r/seduction01/03/17 10:09 AM
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Yea, of course. You can probably make that case for a lot of these points.
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:23 AM
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No, more people do not. There are already enough fake profiles, troll accounts, and spammers on there. Why do you think people just fire off copy pasta over and over. The ROI on msgs is too damn low.
/r/seduction28/02/17 05:15 AM
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As a bit of a counter argument, I recently started drafting this. I haven't completed the profile section but I think I pretty well covered the pictures section. These are just rough cuts, and I was planning to make a better post with more comical vibe and less angry with more explanations etc. In regards to pictures: Too many pics with friends, not enough of just themselves. None, or not enough pics of just their face. None, or not enough pics of their body. Too many pics of them doing random s…
/r/seduction28/02/17 05:08 AM
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Nothing wrong with using dating sites and that method though.
/r/seduction20/01/17 10:41 AM
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this is the goal. thing is, most dudes cant achieve such status quickly or easily, nor should they. guys are looking for a shortcut or easy tips in the meantime. its so much easier for women. they dont have to work to seduce, they just have to be ready and willing.
/r/seduction03/12/16 03:10 PM
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100% i saw something like this years ago, so i went and tried it. asking chicks about their favorite autumn leaves color, how they got there, or other aspergers questions in a regular tone and interested body lang. did not matter.
/r/seduction20/10/16 09:03 PM
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the main article is very poorly informed or written. they are exaggerating quite a bit. also if you look atound the site, its clear they have an agenda to sell seminars and merch, and their yt channel. their brand.
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:40 PM
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also all these crazy religious zealots committing murders, they cant fap. testosterone is arguably the most dangerous drug.
/r/seduction07/09/16 05:37 PM
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got news pal, most women in that age category or any really, do not have (useful) degrees or careers. besides , it literally doesnt matter except when shes super ambitious and then she cant date up.
/r/seduction03/09/16 09:49 PM
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this guy cant even talk to a person, tips on sets is practically useless right now.
/r/seduction03/09/16 09:46 PM
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eh its fine, just laugh her off and dont hold your breath. if she ever comes around put the game on if you wanna tap.
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:44 PM
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kinda like what you did.
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:36 PM
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thats risky behavior
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:34 PM
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yea i know. she would think its funny and didnt know who louis ck was o_o
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:33 PM
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def on point. i might show her this.
/r/seduction30/08/16 09:46 PM
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it wasnt really a loss in confidence, more like a slow and articulated escalation over the course of a few days. she genuinely seemed to have mixed emotions about it and i decided maybe its worth it to take it really slow sometimes. and i knew that we both wanted it, so i figured this would build her up somethin fierce. I typically never have gone slow or tried some other method in the past so i did. and ive had standard LMR where the methods you read about online were apt. this was different.
/r/seduction30/08/16 09:38 PM
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nah, this was definitely not your typical agree and amplify moment.
/r/seduction30/08/16 09:31 PM
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I recently had a really curveball LMR. Been working with this girl for over a year. She constantly flirts with me at work even though we both had SOs. We recently both broke up about a month ago, and the flirts were even stronger. So I invite her out. We end up at my place. She starts to snuggle into me with her head on the couch. I put my arm around her, she holds my hand etc etc. Invite her to my bed to watch movie. More snuggling. making out. I start to go for her bra and its one of those fro…
/r/seduction30/08/16 01:38 PM
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disregarding op situation, thats not true. sometimes you just have a bad day. ots a numbers game, high variance, so some days you get all the numbers, some days none. and maybe the dude is just practicong different approaches? like those simple pickup guys are a prime example.
/r/seduction26/07/16 07:44 PM
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tldw?
/r/seduction24/06/16 04:58 AM
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TL;DR Alpha in humans is just status. The dudes in HS and and shit were just getting laid because they were on a team that was popular or in a band. As you get older, the alpha status is now more realistic because people aren't mooching off their families anymore. Money is just a byproduct of status. So are a number of other things (like health, mental health, ethics, communication, etc) Chicks can still be out of your league because your status is not high enough. Easy example of this is the su…
/r/seduction22/06/16 11:27 PM
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i do this, one thing i will warn of is dont use it as a crutch to not talk to the girl you really want to. or dont get caught up with the excersize when the competition is at hand.
/r/seduction10/06/16 09:29 PM
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The way I look at it as well, is that these guys are expecting a response, and by not giving them what they want or expect, it pisses them off and leaves you with the upper hand, sort of.
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:39 AM
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The only problem with this, is dumb cunts have stupid brutes and white knights around them often. Which can escalate into physical confrontations. I'm pretty good at not giving a fuck, so that I'm ready for this scenario. If someone turns it into a confrontation I just walk away and/or apologize. I never let them get under my skin. As you walk away they might say something like "Yea walk away, pussy", but most of the time that's it. I don't engage with shitty people, if it doesn't make me happy …
/r/seduction02/06/16 10:54 AM
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A lot of people say confidence, and yea technically it's sort of correct but I think it's more about DGAF. When you DGAF, it is perceived as blind confidence. Regardless if you think this person is dumb or not, they are standing out, and being more memorable. That's why whenever I talk to peers, i treat them all the same. The shit talk and blunt or questionably offensive conversations I would ask my close buddies, I will say to women as well. Not only is this endearing, but it weeds out the easi…
/r/seduction01/06/16 10:10 PM
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Eh, mediocre at best. Probably has more to do with your profile pics and status.
/r/seduction07/05/16 01:23 PM
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She pulls away- "Why did you try and kiss me?"
/r/seduction05/05/16 11:14 AM
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Or the Nike method. Just do it.
/r/seduction05/05/16 07:08 AM
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read it now
/r/seduction05/05/16 06:44 AM
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PS- This is a really overanalzying breakdown of the whole thing, generally I'm not thinking about this shit. I just know it, and it pops into my head when situations arise that compare to previous experiences. Aka, just being myself. It's not really all this complicated, the TL;DR is just to go for the kiss, if rejected, shrug it off. If she didn't bail out, try again later.
/r/seduction04/05/16 07:02 AM
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Tbh, I'm more interested in the details between "let's go home" and insertion.
/r/seduction19/04/16 05:26 PM
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op http://thinkprogress.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/40-Year-Old-Virgin.gif
/r/seduction19/04/16 05:24 PM
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She's either not into you and stupid, or she is shit testing because she's not that into you yet. Agree and escalate. Or just drop her. My plan of action would be to plan a date, wait til last moment and cancel because you don't think it's working out. Do it over the phone, not text. You'll see if she cares, if she doesnt, if she was just testing your resolve, etc etc. Either way you move on.
/r/seduction13/04/16 11:02 PM
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So did you tell these girls that you were a virgin before dating? Did you tell them after? How'd that go?
/r/seduction24/03/16 06:42 PM
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Yea, I had some DA calling me over and over trying to get me to come in an testify for some bullshit even though charges were dropped. Same thing with Judge Judy, called me so many times to come in and testify and even offered me more money.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/16 03:24 PM
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That wouldn't matter, DA would pick up charges. Bank or starbucks or ralphs is also still entitled to follow through.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/03/16 11:55 AM
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If you come out the gates as a touch Feely guy it also makes things easier. Fake it until you make it. Greet new people with hugs, poke and play hit people during convo, throw arms around shoulders, grab people from behind like you know them, etc.
/r/seduction20/03/16 11:07 AM
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Yep. It's not wrong to think this way. Obiously something is up when someone isn't normal. Also telling them you haven't signals desperation and lack of experience and confidence. All of which are poison to women.
/r/seduction17/03/16 08:11 AM
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Omitting isn't lying. If she presses after the joke, just say talking about passed relationships isn't healthy to do with current relationships or ones to be. Plant that seed. After you are comitted to each other and comfortable you might talk about it.
/r/seduction17/03/16 08:08 AM
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I'm not sure if your point in both posts was that PUA is bad or what? I didn't watch the whole video, but in general the venusian arts are taught to socially inept people or younger clueless teens/early 20s that simply were never taught how to talk to women romantically let alone have a relationship with them. In a society raised by single moms, video games, and feminist placating, you have a whole generations of timid boys who simply don't know how to interact. Opinions aside, even the most gre…
/r/seduction24/02/16 11:59 PM
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Don't do this online tho. Always start with a question, and not a generic one.
/r/seduction15/02/16 12:27 AM
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What is your point op? Your title doesn't even match your paragraph.
/r/seduction10/02/16 07:47 AM
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Having yer own car place job etc is all part of raising your status which also builds confidence. Just stop using it as a crutch and work on yourself. That being said, I bedded most of the chick's I dated/ hooked up with at their place or my families. It's not that big a deal.
/r/seduction30/01/16 05:22 AM
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The responses are satire but the shit test explanations are legit on that site.
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:30 AM
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Yea it's essentially figuring out your patterns of relationships/women and avoiding the bad ones. Some times they are subconscious and when we are really attracted to a girl, it's like BEWARE MOFUKKA. Since he's newly single, he should try dating some boring chicks or ones that he's not hugely attracted to. EG; looks great on paper but maybe no initial shock in physical. I believe psychologists call this butterflies vs lightning bolts. We be needing the butterflies but wanting the lightning bolt…
/r/seduction06/01/16 01:25 PM
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This is how to be more assertive, not more alpha. Also it's a lifehacker article.
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:05 AM
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According to this, except for the always direct eye contact and straight posture, I am alpha. I have a feeling many of these are higher weight than others. Also the 'clear expressive emotions' is pretty vague. I'm usually neutral.
/r/seduction31/12/15 12:02 AM
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TL;DR your brain makes you bad, get some grit, work hard, gain some status, and shit starts falling at you. This is why the age old "When you aren't looking for a good relationship is when you find one." is correct, people (especially women) are attracted to success/passion, and status. Generally that comes from working on yourself when you are focused on that and nothing else.
/r/seduction25/12/15 05:53 AM
3

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=NSA
/r/seduction02/12/15 11:08 AM
6

True story. Cute 23yo skinny philipina/mexican receptionist girl from work always used to flirt with me and invite me to things. I knew there was a possiblity if I put the game on but I resisted because I didn't wanna make it weird at work if it was just a ONS or whatever (not mix business with pleasure, in hindsight I would say just do it though). Anyway, one night she randomly texts me "DTF?" after the last weekend where we were hammered and I crashed on her couch next to her after she made me…
/r/seduction02/12/15 10:22 AM
1

Saw a dudes face get stomped after KO from fist, and floor in front of bomb burger. Cops saw it too though, lol. Large prison sentence if I had to guess.
/r/seduction02/12/15 10:18 AM
1

It's always funny when you get that rare chance walking past a group of girls talking, or accidentally eavesdropping a convo at a party and hear stuff like "I'd never do anal, unless he was my husband, on my wedding night." or "I don't give BJs to guys, unless he's my bf and it's a special day." type of shit. Sometimes I don't even know if they are just playing face to be anti slut in their social casque or if they actually think that shit and then can't control their urges in the moment. Maybe …
/r/seduction02/12/15 10:14 AM
3

Simple pickup did a funny video on this (I dont think they even set out to get this kind of result, just sorta fell onto them). Sex On The First Date? - Simple Question Basically it boils down to this, women can't NSA. As much as they think they can, or say they can, sex isn't the same wiring in their brain as men. Now before all the feminist knee-jerk-'not all..' idiots start chiming in, of course there are probably a few women who are wired differently/wrong but that is like maybe 5% or less i…
/r/seduction02/12/15 09:53 AM
-1

just send her a joke every morning or a pic of some flowers on uour break.
/r/seduction07/11/15 08:14 PM
1

ez. nurse is probably a co dependent with addict father or parents . yhats what shr atttacted to. not sayig all areghis why but its higher probabilty.
/r/seduction01/11/15 03:12 AM
2

the league is real its just not equal for men and women. for men its status for womem its beauty. hence why fat/ugly trolls who have their shit together can have trophy wives and the reverse is not true for women.
/r/seduction31/10/15 07:51 PM
1

go to /r/badjokes and sendnher one.
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:05 AM
1

look up lmr and defeating its various heads. its a plausible deniability shit test thing.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:05 PM
2

volunyeer work
/r/seduction28/09/15 07:39 PM
7

pointing,facial expresssions, holding hands/kino for directing around, etc.
/r/seduction11/09/15 10:44 PM
1

gotta have more rapport to dig harder.
/r/seduction10/09/15 03:03 PM
1

i already have ones made up ffrom them for art stuff. maybe ill get a stamp and just stamp the codes on the back. gotta sign up for lyft.
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:58 PM
1

op is being negged. women dont even realize it probably. women also do it by callin you 'kid'. its basically a shit test. are you cute or a kid? no so either shut down or neg her back.
/r/seduction09/09/15 08:44 PM
0

the moment you get a cute . shut down. act uninterested and a bit offended butlike more disappointed and not care. or come up with verbal neg backhanded compliment "you could be cute too if you had a little less eye shadow" or whatever the case may be.
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:50 PM
1

they are just following your social status. in case you become more atttactive to other women ,they have that thread of hope. ive banged a few exes its worth it sometims. experience it find oit for yetself
/r/seduction04/09/15 05:12 PM
2

When ever you see articles like this. Any topic even, where its almost verbatim techniques on a similar well known methodolgy. Like trp or pua or sales or social engineering or acing interviews etc. I always assume writer is already studied in it and writing it neutrally or feigning unawareness in order to spread the knowledge in a more consumable way that doesn't threaten status quo and feminist ideals.
/r/seduction28/08/15 08:12 AM
1

Yes pics if u doing things with people are imperative.
/r/seduction25/07/15 08:53 PM
2

So /u/delarig was on point
/r/seduction12/06/15 11:10 PM
8

You should see this video lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGtzD7qs-3o
/r/seduction12/06/15 10:16 AM
-9

It's just super confident. Bitches are attracted to that. Plus it takes all the pressure and guessing off if/when you are on a date and the attraction is there. Both of you know and accept the fate.
/r/seduction12/06/15 10:15 AM
-18

It's just super confident. Bitches are attracted to that.
/r/seduction12/06/15 10:15 AM
35

This the problem with a lot of the TRP stuff, most of their plate spinning and dread game stuff is all based around the type of women that respond to it (implying AWALT), but in reality there are genuinely intelligent women who have healthy minds and don't put up with this shit just as much as you wouldn't put up with a girl who is always flirting with every dude or causing drama or being a social beta vampire or whatever. That being said, there are A LOT of women who will respond to it though. …
/r/seduction05/06/15 04:10 AM
2

Above average, but then again, that's relative to what, and by what measure? I know a lot of things about a lot of different things, I know how to critically think, I have some skills and am capable of learning things on my own, I generally learn quickly, am creative/inventive, I'm an INTJ, if that means anything to you, I think I know what my flaws are, I know how to recognize when there is a smarter and wiser person I shut the fuck up and listen/do what they say, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 11:18 AM
7

It's not a superiority thing, it's a statistical thing. I even saw a graph the other day comparing the ranges of male and female intelligence. Generally speaking, most people are in the average range (obvious), and women are even more lumped here. Men have a wider range (from idiots to genius). Personally, I used to be more like you assumed, when I was younger and less wise etc. I forced myself to talk to people and hang out with people I didn't like (and still don't really like) just to learn t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 11:02 AM
1

I mean, you could argue that it wasn't really dread game in the first place, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:54 AM
4

I've never heard anyone use giney.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:39 AM
1

I think I recall a TRP post that specifically said something like this. It was like "LPT if you are here reading this or asking questions, you aren't actually TRP, because a true TRP wouldn't waste his time and doesn't need help."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:38 AM
4

The problem with this methodoloy as a man, is that we don't really have a drive to talk to women. No offense, but most people are stupid or just plain average, and we don't want to talk to them, that includes a lot of women. It takes a while to have conversations and try to connect. So if all the sudden all men just were somehow able to shut off their brain wiring and testosterone drive, then most guys wouldn't even be pursuing relationships at all. Because trying to find someone who connects in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:35 AM
2

You act as if PUA or promiscuity automatically means X. When in reality, you've got it sort of backwards. As an analogy, you can ask pretty much any hardcore drug addict if they have trauma in their past, namely their childhood. And probably 100% of them would have some. However, people who have trauma in their past doesn't always mean they become hardcore drug addicts. And the same would apply for sex addicts or whatever. Most men are simply wired up to want sex and want it all the time, and te…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/15 10:29 AM
1

If you stare at a girl she will look at you.
/r/seduction18/05/15 12:36 PM
2

Wise man once said, you gotta play the field before you know how to master it. Just lower your standards and don't lead them on.
/r/seduction15/05/15 08:57 PM
3

Body language is far more important than what you say. You can say nonsense, or you can even say nothing. If a person is walking for example, you have to sort of match their pace and walk backwards until they slow down. If you catch them at a weird angle and they stop, you have to be like over your shoulder on a back foot kind of thing. (plenty of videos of this on YT)
/r/seduction15/05/15 08:55 PM
1

Say whatever the fuck you want, with this attitude.
/r/seduction06/05/15 01:38 AM
4

Wait what? How can you say after party and not really have an afterparty planned? It doesn't have to be hookah though, could be anything mildly interesting. It's just an excuse to come back, girls know it too. It's only for plausible deniability. Other things you can easily use: My kitty/dog. More booze. A new movie/cd. Your hobby/passion. Some weird/rare possession. etc.
/r/seduction30/04/15 07:43 AM
2

https://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/be-cool-get-girls-in-college
/r/seduction26/04/15 06:21 AM
1

http://www.simplepickup.com/how-to/getting-her-number-without-saying-word
/r/seduction26/04/15 06:11 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VoBLbtfRjwc
/r/seduction26/04/15 06:08 AM
1

https://youtu.be/33aMfi50VpI
/r/seduction26/04/15 06:07 AM
1

Yea, its from here: Funny stuff http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ If I had any advice for this guy it would simply be to not blindside a woman like this ever. She automatically puts up the guards, fake bf defense is pretty easy and common. What he should have been doing is making eye contact and smiling at her from across the gym a few times, then waited for a good moment to talk to her. Props to swallowing the bitch butterflies and learning from the experience tho…
/r/seduction21/04/15 03:33 AM
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Next time here is the retort to “I have a boyfriend!” – Translation: I have Schrödinger’s boyfriend, demonstrate to me you’re high value and I’ll fuck you regardless. It is hilarious when they say this. “What boyfriend, your imaginary one?” – Then laugh in her face. – “Sounds like you’re shit out of luck, I’m going to have to fuck your friend instead, feel free to watch.” Always be prepared to get slapped when you’re running this kind of obnoxious asshole game. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. Consi…
/r/seduction21/04/15 02:37 AM
2

I once accidentally stared at a girl at a bar while she stared at me. It was a missed opportunity by me, but definitely did something. We both went to the same middle school 17 years ago. I remember her as a the gangly girl with ugly permed hair. She got some ass and was pretty as hell now. Anyway, I had briefly ran into her at the bar the week before or something and I stopped her and said I remember her from somewhere. We talked a bit and I left with friends or something. The next time I was a…
/r/seduction16/04/15 08:16 AM
1

As someone who has been using (on and off) POF and OKC, I'll have to disagree with some points. Or at least make the distinction that some of these things will work for you/your personality, and not for others. The first thing I did with Online dating is read a bunch of shit on how to create a profile. Lot of the stuff said to keep it concise and funny and how to put pics etc. Since I'm more of a DIY kinda (learn by experience) guy, I decided to make an extremely elaborate profile with as much i…
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:46 AM
1

See explanation to the other guy's post below.
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:30 AM
1

It's probably a subconscious psychological familiarity thing. Even if the person is new to you, going many different places, especially in a short amount of time, makes you think you've known them longer or experienced more together. I mean we all know how bad (a large minority/majority) women are with gauging time. So they probably think it's even longer time spent together as well. As a side note, more and constant changing surroundings aka stimuli also give more things to naturally talk about…
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:13 AM
4

It's pretty easy to do and works amazingly well. Sometimes when I'm just walking downtown on a saturday night or something. I'll be walking behind some chicks or something, have a quick casual conversation about what's going on or whatever. I tell em that X bar is usually pretty cool if there isn't a huge line. Later I see them inside and tell them to stop following me. Later I see them on the patio and start talking to them again. In this case I wasn't really interested in either of them, but t…
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:06 AM
1

Were you aware that the location switching was ramping up your PUA game?
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:01 AM
1

Were you aware that the location switching was ramping up your PUA game?
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:00 AM
1

The other day I did this on accident and here is why. I saw a girl on the street as I was driving slowly towards her. She looked familiar. I thought she was my ex. Although she had sunglasses on and something didn't seem accurate. It made me stare harder. Then I smiled and non chalantly waved. She blushed and smiled at me. PS- I also listened to an NPR episode (IIRC titled 'Falling') and one section was about this guy who has this odd condition where he can't see or recognize faces. And he would…
/r/seduction31/03/15 02:50 AM
0

Op you're wrong though. If there was only 1 criteria, it would be status or implied status. Because with that, comes all the other things required to have a high status. Money, success, intelligence, network of people, etc.
/r/seduction27/03/15 11:45 PM
1

You already know what you are doing, you already realize your mistakes. Now you just have to improve each time you go on a date. If you are ever having trouble with silence, check out the question game from Simple Pickup, or even more deep is the 35(?) questions from psychology to make you fall in love. Bookmark those to your phone or whatever, and have them on deck for the time when conversation fails and you can't think of anything to say. Beyond that, a good thing to do is just observe the su…
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:28 AM
1

It's all humans, not just women. Allow this NPR article to explain it in the simplest terms http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=124119468 And if you are more interested in the specifics, here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prefrontal_cortex Human beings are one of (maybe only?) mammals who are born very underdeveloped, and this is because of the size of our heads and the size of our pelvis. (Women couldn't give birth/that's why our skulls are 3 bones that fuse after birth and wh…
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:07 AM
1

Around the age of 25 or so (when the frontal cortex is finished being developed, the part of the brain that controls impulse, risk, and rational decisions) lots of girls get over their 'bad boy' phase. The ones who stick around dating abusive assholes, are simply recreating trauma in their lives based on their abusive fathers.
/r/seduction24/03/15 10:20 PM
0

There's a little of what op is saying, but that's usually just a phase in a healthy girl's life. The girl's who stick with that are just dating their asshole dads. Although those chicks tend to be hot, you don't really want to date them. It's like having a classic porche when you can't afford the upkeep. Looks pretty, but too much work.
/r/seduction24/03/15 12:00 PM
3

The author of that book/website is Gary Wilson, he's not a Doctor or scientist http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/51034.Gary_Wilson it's this man who did a ted talk https://youtu.be/wSF82AwSDiU Haven't watched it in a long time, but iirc a lot of the stuff they suggest or hypothesize about is all just speculation and we actually don't know if it's good or bad, or if it;s just some people or not. Imho, it's the same as anything. Yea some things are bad for some but they can be fine for others (…
/r/seduction13/03/15 07:52 AM
5

Which video?
/r/seduction13/03/15 07:49 AM
3

So build a bridge to her heart. It's always about status anyway.
/r/seduction20/01/15 10:31 PM
2

Ford sucks, the first 2 points are boring generic bullshit. The 3rd point is also somewhat generic but can lead to opportunites. Have a look at the recent post about the study of making strangers fall in love. The questions there are sick good. Ps- There is also the question game.
/r/seduction16/01/15 01:29 AM
1

Shit he deleted the post, can we see it again?
/r/seduction13/01/15 11:49 AM
2

Why are there 2 sets of questions?
/r/seduction11/01/15 03:31 AM
12

Firstly, stay the fuck away from drugs an alcohol with past trauma like that. 2nd, sounds like you could use some therapy. Not really sure what the details of the trauma are, but it doesn't seem like it would be a problem as far as intimacy. In fact that is the reason you avoid the intimacy, you're afraid to get burned if you get close to someone again. I'd guess most chicks, or the ones attracted to you might be the co dependent type and try and fix you or whatever. So opening up would be fine.…
/r/seduction11/01/15 03:20 AM
2

Boring, Boring, ok, interesting.
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:52 AM
2

indeed. Mindfullness.
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:37 AM
1

What's ford?
/r/seduction11/01/15 01:36 AM
22

So this is essentially the expedited science version of 'the question game' you play with first dates. For those who don't know it goes like this: 1) Ask each other questions back and forth 2) Answer the questions truthfully. No matter how difficult or awful the question 3) If you don't want to answer the question you can pass (this is just BS to ease her mind) 4) Can't ask the same question First you start out with generic questions, then you get a little more philosophical or interesting/creat…
/r/seduction10/01/15 10:21 AM
129

Set I Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest? Would you like to be famous? In what way? Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why? What would constitute a “perfect” day for you? When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else? If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want? Do you have a secret hunch about ho…
/r/seduction10/01/15 10:09 AM
1

Yea, huge, buddy.
/r/seduction09/01/15 06:10 PM
1

Healthy people are less often at bars. Healthy people are more often found doing random healthy living. Common sense you can't argue.
/r/seduction09/01/15 09:35 AM
1

You don't like results you are getting, throw it all out the window. Trial and error it.
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:32 AM
1

check out some /r/loveline or /r/drdrew if you wanna read or listen to more like this.
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:18 AM
1

bad odds
/r/seduction08/01/15 11:27 PM
10

Duh, you went to a bar and expected quality? That is your first problem. Go to the grocery store, or the beach, the gym, or something where lots of healthy minded people would be.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:13 AM
-3

SSDD
/r/seduction05/01/15 07:09 AM
-6

The logic being, it's not something manly to say, and not because some cultural persuasion, but because I don't speak that way. It's the same reason I don't wear gay haircuts just because chicks dig it, or dress metrosexual because chicks dig it. I do my own shit, and everyone else can fuck off.
/r/seduction05/01/15 07:09 AM
-6

The logic being, it's not something manly to say, and not because some cultural persuasion, but because I don't speak that way. It's the same reason I don't wear gay haircuts just because chicks dig it, or dress metrosexual because chicks dig it. I do my own shit, and everyone else can fuck off.
/r/seduction05/01/15 07:09 AM
-9

I would never say this because it's fucking weird and it's something that honestly sounds gay coming out of my mouth. Could I say something else less generic?
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:08 AM
0

I think he just meant that you are trying to keep your ego facade when you are latent gay or maybe something else? Like the more literal sense of the word http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Id,_ego_and_super-ego#Ego The way I noticed and interpreted those sort of out of place, or nonchalantly thrown in bits of information, was just a way of describing yourself and telling a better story. Probably something you've learned through comedy no doubt. It puts a better context.
/r/seduction03/01/15 12:25 AM
2

Negs don't really work well online. There is no tone, cadence, etc. Need non verbals for that kind of stuff to work. Otherwise it just comes off as however the person is reading it feels, or interprets the text based on their current mood or whatever. This is probably why the joke doesn't work. Might be better if I said something like "I wasn't planning a wedding, do you want to make a register or should I?"
/r/seduction01/01/15 10:50 AM
1

While it's up to you to do whatever you feel is the right thing, it honestly wouldn't have been your fault or whatever for ruining their relationship. She's already on her way out and she probably in the process of sabotaging that relationship she is in and looking for that trade up. People treat each other like shit in their early twenties because our frontal cortex is not done forming. (the part that regulates impulse, risk taking, etc) It's all situational, for me I guess if I was super into …
/r/seduction28/12/14 05:36 AM
2

/thread http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDT2IS_G5qg
/r/seduction22/12/14 10:46 AM
1

What? nah. If you both have mobster type flair that is similar but not identical it's fine. Like maybe similar hats with different colors or brim styles. Scarves that are dif colors, etc.
/r/seduction11/12/14 07:36 PM
1

Something that will help him wing better, or help his own PU imho. I dunno if you guys use peacocking shit, but something like a silly/fancy scarf or hat or whatever could work. Of course you gotta get one too, or else it's not gonna work.
/r/seduction11/12/14 02:48 PM
2

I just reposted this in that 'what do you have saved' thread http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2a5wfh/if_a_date_with_a_girl_is_not_for_another_week/cis88en
/r/seduction26/11/14 02:03 AM
3

just this one http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2a5wfh/if_a_date_with_a_girl_is_not_for_another_week/cis88en
/r/seduction25/11/14 06:25 AM
6

A girl's 25th bday in May or whatever was at the beach. My friend and I were throwing a football pretty long range, he was by the crowd I was more towards the ocean. I kept telling him to get closer and closer to people so I could whizz it by their heads. So as I'm doing this, the girl starts walking directly into the line of fire and I yell out her name "AMANDA NO!" and she looks up at me and walks even more directly into the line. Tagged her clean in the eyesocket and knocked her down. I could…
/r/seduction24/11/14 07:50 AM
2

I don't settle for shit relationships anymore, that's why I'm alone and I bang a few chicks here and there. It's completely unsatisfying.
/r/seduction21/11/14 06:42 PM
6

Already knew what the article was going to say. It's depressing because obviously it has nothing to do with the superficial attractiveness and relies entirely on your worth and status as usual. And women think it's shallow to base attraction solely upon looks. This shit is probably the worst double standard in the world.
/r/seduction18/11/14 10:34 PM
1

You don't outright ask a stranger that, you have to already be building a rapport with them. And not only that but escalating to find IOIs and shit to give you the opportunity to ask it without sounding like a creep. God, fucking so complicated to talk to fucking women. I wonder what the world would be like if they weren't so specific with opening them up and all that bullshit song and dance.
/r/seduction15/11/14 04:49 AM
2

Location switching. You can meet up at the library and flirt but then imply that you will be doing other things, such as going for a walk, grabbing some drinks, going back to your place to do something, etc. Even if you are at one location and can't/won't leave. Hanging out in different rooms, doing different activities is important.
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:52 AM
1

/r/loveline
/r/seduction24/10/14 10:43 AM
10

I normally give pretty in depth good advice, but in this situation. Just yolo it.
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:57 AM
4

I just make mental notes of topics that have intrigued me over the last couple of days/weeks. And then I will ask friends/family about the topics. Then ask girls/dates the same stuff. Easy topics are just day to day stuff that people might not realize or that vary greatly that everyone has an opinion on. Stupid example that I asked everyone last spring; everyone makes PB&Js differently. Some use spoon, knife, some butter the bread and jelly same side, some take crust off, some toast, some cut it…
/r/seduction22/10/14 02:06 AM
1

I'm 30 and I'll just say that this sorta fades away slowly as you get older and your brain finishes developing around 25~ or so. That being said, I don't have much advice for you beyond the generic shit you probably already know. What you can do is watch some pickup videos for fun and to learn a few things/build some confidence about it and not take it so serious. Just have fun with it. ie; Just be aloof about talking with girls like you aren't even trying to pick them up (can help to talk to mu…
/r/seduction20/10/14 05:16 AM
1

i wonder whaT /r/theredpill would say
/r/seduction17/10/14 11:47 AM
1

I heard a similar phenomenon takes place in Thailand? where if you are a white guy the women (not just the hookers and trannies) will literally chase you around town trying to get you to go on a date with them and shit.
/r/seduction17/10/14 11:45 AM
7

Yea
/r/seduction08/10/14 09:27 PM
28

As a sidenote, use mnemonics in this kind of situation since you will be meeting a lot of new people. EG; You open a 3 set, Stacy, Jeff, and Molly. Stacy has stilletto heals, Jeff is scruffy like mcgruff the crime dog, Molly is the target of the group; mainline molly. I am in the habit of doing this with randoms at the bar, once I was talking with a couple about 10 minutes and they had forgotten my name, and joked that I probably did too. I said no, said their names, and even their friend's name…
/r/seduction08/10/14 06:45 PM
2

Dude's been doing it with dogs for centuries.
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:13 AM
1

I have the opposite issue, just can't bust a nut. I think it's due to either anxiety, lack of real intimacy before becoming physically intimate, or it just randomly happened once and now you're up in your head about it every time (self fulfilling prophecy).
/r/seduction06/10/14 10:43 PM
-5

If she only likes high status rich guys, then you've got no chance with or without pickup if you don't fit in that demographic. FTFY lol@asian guys Sorry bros :(
/r/seduction04/10/14 11:49 PM
2

It's called a shit test, doesn't matter what you answer with verbally, it just matters how you respond nonverbally. If you're confident about the answer you win.
/r/seduction04/10/14 11:48 PM
1

Next time keep a super soaker loaded up near the bed. Use that shit.
/r/seduction04/10/14 04:31 AM
2

It's a case of self fulfilling prohpecy where the one creates the other cyclically. Another way to put it, is that you aren't confident in the response (because you are actually creepy and weird) and are afraid of rejection so you either don't talk or you sabotage it with your fail tactics. Arguably though, being confident isn't the be all end all problem solver to this. Sometimes our intuition of others is on point, we know what the answer will be regardless of what we say or how we act.
/r/seduction29/09/14 06:04 PM
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One thing that always interests me is how women/people always ask "have you done this before." "Do you do this to all the ladies" etc. What kind of answer are they willing and unwilling to accept, does it even matter (rhetorical)? Imagine if you had said "yea, I basically just stand out here all day waiting for opportunities to meet cute girls like you." Would that backfire? Probably not. Because it's still confident and honest and you are complimenting her and telling her she is special. I thin…
/r/seduction29/09/14 07:30 AM
1

same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 12:16 AM
-1

Yea but you wouldn't want to meet the entire population, only the ones in your age and characteristics grouping. You could easily chop out like 2-3 billion based on age alone.
/r/seduction18/09/14 08:50 AM
1

Yea but you wouldn't want to meet the entire population, only the ones in your age and characteristics grouping. You could easily chop out like 2-3 billion based on age alone.
/r/seduction18/09/14 08:50 AM
0

Throwing novels at people doesn't make you right. I didn't and don't want to respond to you because it wastes too much time and you are still misunderstanding things so I'd have to reexplain myself again.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 11:03 PM
1

Let her ask her questions and write her book. Streisand effect, aka bad publicity is still good publicity.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:37 AM
1

You completely misunderstood my post. No problem. However this is kind of reaffirming my point, as a 30 year old male, I would never want to be seriously involved with someone as naive and immature (no offense, just referring to biological maturity). And part of that reasoning is because girls go through phases and typically aren't capable of retaining a very long term relationship in the teens/ early twenties. That's not to say you can't be in a relationship with people, and even for up to like…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:15 AM
0

So you biological father has been around your whole childhood/life, not a workoholic/addict, is emotionally/physically available any time you need?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 09:19 AM
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What's your relationship like with your biological father?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 09:14 PM
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I'm not saying I wouldn't bang them, but I wouldn't want a relationship with them. #1 they are not done developing their frontal cortex, they could and will be entirely different people in a couple of years. And plus I wouldn't want to burden/rob them of their freedom to sleep around in their 20s before they settle down in their late 20s and early 30s. Relationships at that age are not meant to last, I would just be setting myself up for a disaster. To answer your question, probably like 25-26 a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 12:45 AM
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I lol'd at the chart. In reality though, it specifically just says 'looks best' which doesn't imply best relationship material or healthy. For example, I see chicks in that age group as hottest, but I wouldn't want to date one seriously being 30,
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 07:24 PM
2

More often than not when a girl isn't pleased, guys will double down and try even harder. They don't just give up and feel defeated. This applies to anything, if a girl isn't reciprocating feelings, if she's not pleased in bed, if she's pulling away in a relationship, etc. On the other hand, an informed/evolved male might know that these moves don't work and just come off as desperate and clingy to women, which is going to push her even further. So in that case, you could call it 'defeated and g…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 07:18 AM
1

I disagree with that, it depends on the situation and the girl.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 11:21 AM
1

Suppose we didn't use kinesthetic/kino then OP would have to say something like : Find ways to initiate touching <2 min in and this is confusing because people don't know what you mean by touching, it's not as specific as kino. Google kino, then you know.
/r/seduction07/09/14 08:11 PM
98

Wut teh fak 3rd paragraph could have been left off the table
/r/seduction06/09/14 02:35 AM
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If you are already asking a girl in that wishwashy way, you are already friendzoned and know that the answer to a real date will be no. That's why you aren't being direct.
/r/seduction06/09/14 02:34 AM
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Just new ones. I read something a long time ago how baby powder makes women think of babies and subconsciously sex, not sure how true that is. But it can't hurt to throw some baby powder all over your bed just before if you have a chance. (the original use was to put it on your neck so that when they hug you they smell it.) I also heard simple pickup's Jesse just say that he rubs fabric softener on himself and makes him smell fresh which works just as well as any cologne. To be honest, I'd say i…
/r/seduction29/08/14 02:27 AM
2

Why does all this shit have to do with college?
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:06 PM
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Moral of the story, you sound like every loner desperate guy with oneitis. Don't fucking do that. Nothing more unattractive to women than a desperate, clingy guy who begs for things. Get a life, don't make her your life. You were the childish one here. PS- Texting is bullshit, make phone calls like a man.
/r/seduction21/08/14 07:09 PM
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If you do decide to flirt with other guys just know that it can backfire. I personally lose interest even to the most attractive girls. Probably best to do a little push pull thing and then dump the flirts off entirely after a short while whilst turning all your attention to him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 05:28 PM
0

Been trying to date girls I'm not that attracted to for science. Also on the basis that it can be just as shallow as basing off looks alone if you are basing on specific traits about them. Anyway, I've dated some who had little in common at all and I assume it wasn't lost after the first date because I was patient, confident, open and interesting. And some other deep issues they had on their part. Ultimately I break it off before it gets serious and that's hard and hurts my soul.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 05:07 PM
2

Opposites attract. If you look at mbti relationship matches intjs usually favor E partners. I'm intj, usually most compatible with enfp type girls.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 04:58 PM
1

Unless you are cooking like an hour a day every day and giving away foodstuffs all the time. And unless you are some sort of film/tv student/whatever and you try to educate yourself on all actors and trivia and facts. Aside from that, one of the funniest things I noticed about my friendgirls and exgirlfriends was that none of them had any hobbies at all, whilst I had like a dozen. Almost all of them had to think hard when I asked them what their hobbies were, and almost all of them tried to clai…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 04:48 PM
2

There are plenty of good sane women, many of the women on this sr for example. I know a lot of girls IRL that don't give a shit about feminism and some are against it. In fact I don't think I really know any that are the opposite. Even my older sister who will argue for women's rights understands that a lot of feminism stuff is just angry trauma survivors who hate their dads for abandoning, neglecting, abusing them. That's all the movement is about these days. It's not about equality. These femi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 10:14 PM
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I don't really think feminism is to blame for marriage's decline. I think it more has to do with the laws and legal system being a profit/corruption industry and it's easier to screw the man than the woman. And the woman is easier to take advantage of because she gets more emotionally invested and manipulated to screw the man (screwing them both really though). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZTOT6DKfZ8 parts of this movie go into how divorce is handled in some european countries and USA has it …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 09:48 PM
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made a thread explaining this here: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2cmv7s/why_no_one_is_getting_married_anymore/
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 09:44 PM
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Doubt it, the feminists aren't winning anything lately. They just bitch about stuff. In fact they are losing on some fronts http://www.reddit.com/r/Loveline/comments/2c4d7t/interesting_docu_series_that_led_to_cutting/ Every single one of those gender studies people he interviews are such pieces of shit. I can tell immediately that they have childhood issues (with parents/dad) and that's what causes them to be such narcissist idiots rejecting all that logic and science because they are angry at d…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 09:40 PM
1

That's not controlling at all. And for reference I was speaking in terms of being the woman in this case, call in and say I'll do the dishes and laundry, if you make dinner and vacuum. That's not controlling at all and serves as a dialogue, say I didn't wanna vacuum or it was done already the previous day etc.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 05:58 PM
4

Bob's burgers. Meet the parents.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:14 AM
2

I've actually seen stats that say it's not flawed like that. In fact the movie divorce corp shows these different percentages. And I'm pretty sure first marriages were like 45% or something to fail. It's even worse when the marriages were younger people.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:11 AM
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That's all very reasonable, however I am of the opinion if you have kids it's best to have a real stable home for them by being married etc. I mean technically, it doesn't matter either way as long as you guys are committed to each other and share stuff, but it's kind of leading by example and proving to your impressionable kids that you guys are solid and it's also not weird for them to have to explain it to peers or their parents. They end up ridiculed like the kid wearing good will clothes on…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:10 AM
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Sub LBC 16 hours ago (edited) Because marriage is a scam and men are finally realizing it. Marriage is basically a form of rape and nobody wants to get raped. Also, marriage offers absolutely no benefits to men and the institution now exists as a form of pussy pension for women. Men are finally waking up to the fact that entering into legal contracts with women is pretty much a losing proposition. It also doesn't help that women in the west are turning into fat, obnoxious and disgusting parodies…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 10:55 PM
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Nah, you guys gotta compromise on that shit. I'd say fuck making a list because no one sticks to them anyway. Probably better to just make daily agreements, like text/call and say I'll do XYZ if you do ABC. And that way less fights would ever occur as a result of someone not doing their list today because everyone is communicating better. And as a man, I'd be much more likely to follow through on my deal if I verbally agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 09:17 PM
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The OP was just a proclamation that RP is great and it changed her life for the better even though she was a feminist and hated it previously or something along those lines. Since it was nothing more than like a journal entry type of post (where not much discussion could spawn from it) it seems rather useless, unless your agenda is to persuade people into your ideal. Kind of like a sneaky, subtle, propaganda, persuasive argument, disguised as a harmless opinion/anecdote. Like I said, I didn't ne…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 02:23 PM
1

'She 'specifically stated that it was a throwaway etc. makes no sense, kind of reinforces my point/hunch earlier.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 01:58 PM
1

Why do people drop these posts and then delete everything?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 07:13 AM
1

Cheers!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 09:46 PM
1

Sometimes I read these posts and I feel like it's someone just trying to play the role of the person who came to clarity after a while in a ploy to socially engineer others to actually do it (too). Not trying to shit on your post, but I'm not really sure what discussion could come of a post like this, or what you wanted to do other than share. And I'm a huge skeptic because everything on the internet is true. Anyway- I guess to try and respond to your post I could say that a lot of the RP philos…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/14 09:24 PM
1

If you got back and watch the 2nd(?) season of the pick up artist from VH1, there is a specific episode on openers for day game. One in particular is on a bridge where women are walking and they break it all down. Go watch that.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:24 AM
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I've never walked up to a set or a single girl and said 'excuse me', it's better to always use a more natural approach. For example, I'm in the grocery store I just see what shes looking at or something in her bag and make a witty comment about it and proceed from there. "nice. Those are good. Do you eat the whole box in 1 day or 2?" Or at a bar I just sit down at a table and exclaim "Do you guys like my table?" I've never been like: "Excuse me ma'am, I noticed you have chosen entemaan's donuts'…
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:52 AM
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You can just say "Hey, I got a question: X" or "Hi, I came over to talk to you because X" Hell you can even just say crazy/stupid shit, it usually doesn't really matter, as long as it's interesting to her. You gotta stand out. Excuse me is formal and boring.
/r/seduction26/07/14 04:56 AM
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Why not just skip the excuse me bs and say what you wanted to say?
/r/seduction24/07/14 10:29 PM
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Your going pretty existential and philosophical on this. Which ironically doesn't have an agreed definition http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Existentialism Even the shittiest of terrible people need love, they may not know it or want it, but they need it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 08:51 AM
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Maybe semantics here, but don't really agree with the 'nobody deserves love.' 'Everyone deserves love, but it's not free' would be a better way to put it. PS- Love is one of those words that can't be defined and has different meanings for everyone. Similar to words like beauty, dating, morals etc.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 03:22 AM
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I thought the 'excuse me' shit was the wrong way to open anyone because it turns it into formal bullshit where you DLV yourself?
/r/seduction23/07/14 05:20 AM
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So basically what you are quoting from Strauss is exactly what I just said?
/r/seduction22/07/14 06:25 AM
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This video is bullshit. Hipster/trendy bullshit on top of that. I wouldn't be caught dead with any of these tips, and I don't have problems with women or women complaining about how I dress. LPT: Dress however the fuck you want. And own that shit. PS- Ban anything to do with buzzfeed in this SR and the rest of reddit and the internet while we're at it.
/r/seduction22/07/14 02:59 AM
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Does he have any ED problems or anything he wouldn't be comfortable discussing with you? Check out this post, do ctrl+f and type: sex . Arrow around and Listen to the timestamps that apply. I'd start with this one: Loveline - 2004-11-18 ~55:18 guys are like pets-not want food or sex something wrong with them Most of it is free to listen to via links on the sidebar, or to download as mp3. PS- Guys generally will double down when they are cheating, not fall off. So I'd say don't even think about t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 12:31 AM
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Nah, men aren't even that complicated here is a real list. All we want is women to show 3 things: Enthusiasm Desire Excitement Loveline August 31st, 2004: http://www.lovelinetapes.com/shows/?id=1439&h=NDgzZWNkZTY Bunch of other related stuff here: http://www.reddit.com/r/DrDrew/comments/20xqe8/i_timestamp_all_profound_things_from_drews/ Highly recommend listening to this as well: Dr.DrewPodcast009 ~Entire episode on the difference between men and women.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 10:50 AM
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LPT: text is a utilty tool on your communication belt. It's not a crutch, and it's not a pocket knife that does everything. What it's useful for: Loud areas. Quiet areas. If you can't talk, or If you can't hear. Directions or notes that are easier written/saved than voice/memory. Sending pics and other media. Now granted, there will always be some sort of back and forth conversation via text, but this should not be the main correspondence and you should restrain yourself and keep it limited. You…
/r/seduction09/07/14 03:03 AM
1

That's a reasonable theory. I am curious if there is an opportunity or strategy in that key moment though where you could flip it and make moves that she would accept. Ie; friend zone is already known to be gone to both parties. Only she is showing him attention, and then he finally reciprocates and escalates hard.
/r/seduction08/07/14 12:29 PM
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Interested to see how this plays out if she really wanted you around as just a friend but not as a mate and you hold firm about that. If she calls you up or you guys run into each other again please update.
/r/seduction08/07/14 09:20 AM
1

this. Also check out something like WAKA kickball league. Cheap, fun, only as serious as you want it to be, and people are there to meet people and drink beer if they want to as well.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:46 AM
1

Rule of thumbs: Guys seek novelty and variety. And they like to keep it all. Women seek stability and validation. And they like to keep it. Generally if a man is cheating it's not as big of a deal as far as the relationship surviving, because when a woman cheats, she's over the relationship.
/r/seduction03/07/14 08:05 AM
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Firstly, what is your height and weight? And what was it when you were at your largest? 2ndly, is your husband and ass or tits man? The ass can be rebuilt by getting into heavy lifting. You can simply only do squats and deadlifts and get amazing ass and look like a sir mixalot video. NSFW: porn stars with skinny little waists and round things in your face; lifting hard = http://youtu.be/ZYHI2BDZTNU?t=1m15s If it's the tits, well that is primarily adipose tissue and mammary glands which tend to a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 07:50 AM
1

How on earth did you infer that? Primary reason that girls sabotage relationships is because they are trying to either end it, or test/gauge the response of the man they are currently dating (which is obviously going to be negative and then the relationship ends). And girls typically will cheat/sabotage because their emotional needs are not being met, or they can't handle intimacy (I don't mean physical intimacy). So for example, say OP ended up hooking up with this girl, she would eventually hi…
/r/seduction02/07/14 02:20 AM
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And this is why democracy is pretty shitty.
/r/seduction02/07/14 01:34 AM
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That is the primary reason girls cheat just fyi.
/r/seduction01/07/14 11:34 PM
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So why do I have all the downvotes still?
/r/seduction01/07/14 11:33 PM
1

Because she likes you enough to keep you around under other less stigmatized less slut-like circumstances. Plausible deniability, in the same way girls will take you home or go home with you under the condition of 'just watching a movie/listening to an album' and then 'one thing led to another'. When in reality, as men we aren't going in just to do that. Definitely pursue her friend if you are interested, but don't be surprised with what I said. It's pretty common.
/r/seduction01/07/14 11:28 PM
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She's definitely interested in you and ready to sabotage her current relationship because her emotional needs aren't being met. And she's probably attracted to you for the same reasons she was attracted to the other military guy. (it's not a coincidence) I'd bet her dad was some sort of authoritative figure or was some kind of abandoning/neglecting hard ass type. Don't take this the wrong way, it's just human nature.
/r/seduction01/07/14 03:57 PM
1

Can I get my RP man flair. I love this SR. The only place on the internet with sane women.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 03:07 AM
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The lyrics: I was posting the lyrics and my browser crashed. Let me try this again: I had a problem that made me very sad it was worse than 80's shoulder pads You flew in Just like a blue jay Now my days are no longer grey You're the Fix It Man The fix It Man You fixed what noone else can You're the Fix It Man The Fix It Man You're the guy with the magical hands The Fix It Man The Fix It Man I am your Biggest Fan! Like I said, short, incredibly corny, and horribly cheesy. But that is what makes …
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 03:06 AM
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To be fair to /r/askmen (even though it's generally pretty 'grain of salt') Not that many people participated in the original thread and only like a couple dozen people agreed with the no gorilla comment. Now /r/askwomen on the other hand,.. smh. Side note: is there a word to use that means 'to be taken with a grain of salt' when describing someone/something?
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 03:04 AM
1

Pretty sure there was that long Dane Cook joke on this.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 03:01 AM
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It's almost like a prank. Some people live off pranking each other all the time, and they are into it. While others think it immature or embarrassing or whatever. As a guy, I'm not really into it, but I wouldn't mind it either. I would appreciate any efforts to anything though. I think the key points in any situation is just enthusiasm, being present, and reciprocation. I think I posted this the other day in some other thread but check this thread and just ctrl+F for 'guy' or 'male' etc. and lis…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 02:55 AM
2

As a general rule of thumb this is true. People can change through therapy and healthy relationships though. For example, it is shown that kids who grow up in traumatic or rough childhoods can benefit greatly by a healthy outside adult role model. A good example of this is LeBron James (pro baller). He had a poor shitty life with no dad etc. but he had great coach(es) to guide him. There is a really awesome docu I suggest you watch, even if you don't care about bball or lebron. It's pretty well …
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:28 PM
1

Thanks, I'll check that out. There is actually another thead in /r/drdrew with a list of books
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 03:18 PM
1

I tried to google the average blood fill on an erect penis but I came up short. Seems like a bad place for her to suck though.
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:01 PM
1

If you read 'The Game' I believe that ultimately he eventually finds a really good match whom he stayed with for a long time. I don't know if they are still together but afaik it was his perfect 10 rather than a perfect 10. I've sort of got oneitis for a particular girl, but I don't really hold onto it until she comes around to show attention and what not and it lasts for about a week or so. She's a little bit of trouble, so I just keep her around to see what happens. Almost like a social experi…
/r/seduction27/06/14 02:50 PM
1

FUCK. She's a vampiress OP. RUN!!!
/r/seduction27/06/14 09:32 AM
1

Yea, this is not oneitis. Oneitis is where you fall in love with a girl, maybe one who friend zoned you, or an ex and you never move on and hope and fantasize about being together and try and try and try like an AFC forever with this girl. This is definitely not a oneitis thing.
/r/seduction27/06/14 09:31 AM
1

LOL "I chanted the ancient mantra once again, “Fuck it yolo swag, fuck it yolo swag
/r/seduction27/06/14 09:28 AM
2

I'm of the caveat he mentions about the mom thing. While she is a sweet person, she is dumb as rocks, and she has bipolar disorder and does crazy things from time to time and people take advantage of her. So while she's mom my and I love her, I didn't ever respect her. Even as a teenager. So naturally, the women I am attracted to, or are attracted to me are the crazy/stupid ones. It's a bit of a problem, and why I haven't been in a relationship for over a year now. I'm very weary of the patterns…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 07:51 AM
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Joking about things is healthy and the way to unstigmatize them. People who take offense to jokes are complaining losers. Get some therapy for YOUR issue, don't blame everyone else for talking about it when you can't. This is on par with the bullshit Chinese people were on about the kid who said some stupid shit on Jimmy Kimmel Live. Comedians make jokes for a living, they push the envelope on purpose, they may not even believe what they are saying, they are just trying to be exciting/arousing. …
/r/MensRights25/06/14 11:27 PM
4

That's the joke.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 12:17 PM
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It's a joke. Calm down, you sound like the shitty feminists that everyone talks about. PS- it's unfunny.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 12:14 PM
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her response http://youtu.be/l8ukak8P2vY?t=6s
/r/MensRights23/06/14 03:24 PM
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Why deal with the treatment of something when you can deal in prevention? Reduces the risks, ie, if it wasn't prevalent then there would be far more cases of these STDs. Yes, many people have sex without condoms. Not everyone can get to a condom every time, not everyone is faithful, etc. etc. By way of proxy from above, HPV, cervical cancer, etc. STDs are much more dangerous to the receiver, often times the carrier isn't even aware and has no symptoms until it's too late. This last part is just …
/r/MensRights19/06/14 09:11 PM
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There was a good debate possible there which was shut down by the shitty host. Fuck that bitch.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 10:21 AM
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http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Circumcision/Pages/Advantages-and-disadvantages.aspx
/r/MensRights19/06/14 10:20 AM
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Just wanted to point out that on a long enough time scale, all men will get prostate cancer. It's 100% Most of us just die of other shit before we get to it.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 05:44 PM
1

Just the fact that there are 2 camps for feminism is hilariously ironic. Thanks for the info. Very insightful post
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 12:06 AM
2

I've never heard any feminist say the focus is to be able to sleep around. This is the first time I've heard of that. I thought their focus was just 'men/culture/society/poltics oppress us, woe is me. Blame blame. do nothing but bitch.'
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 11:02 AM
2

Depends on age of consent laws which vary from place to place. Although I agree with you.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 11:53 AM
1

Still confused
/r/MensRights05/06/14 09:20 AM
0

All the time for male, some girl in my city got riddled with bullets from a bunch of cops for arguably no reason. (it was that mob mentality thing, where one anxious guy shot and the rest started unloading). It's more rare just because women are less aggressive usually. It's not like they are more evolved and think it out better or restrain themselves better. It's simply the effect of testosterone and physical ability.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 07:58 PM
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Also bullshit. Be you. At feminist riot. get attacked. defend yourself. somehow end up arrested while others are not. easily released from jail after any other typical assault/defense case. Have trial. Explain, with witnesses most likely. Carry on. PS- She had a weapon and was charging at me (cops will shoot to kill in this scenario). A weapon can be , megaphone, picket sign, airhorn, cellphone, bag, or whatever other shit feminists would carry at a rally.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:24 PM
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Bullshit. You can fight back and defend yourself from anyone. Worry about the mental aspect of it later. Also, why would you even be around still talking to paradmedics. The first rule of a fight/flight situation is to get the fuck out of there. Then fight. Then get the fuck out of there.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 12:18 PM
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Of a bunch of bitchy women? That is the worst they can do.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:35 AM
0

tl;dr men wouldn't bitch and complain as much so it would turn into mostly feminist group.
/r/MensRights04/06/14 10:27 AM
0

She's on gear, like 95% of the male models, fitness celebs, and pro athletes you see.
/r/MensRights31/05/14 06:17 PM
6

His mind was warped, you can't take anything seriously what he said. What if he said he hated aliens and monsters too? I really hate how the discussion is about specific things he said, it doesn't matter at all. He was mentally unstable and his beliefs and ideals are irrelevant. They are not the reasons why he did what he did. They are just his warped mind's perception, trying to make sense of the world, that lead him to do these bad things. If he grew up differently, it would be the same outcom…
/r/MensRights31/05/14 03:24 AM
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They do this shit all the time on purpose because there goal as news media isn't to provide facts and do good research and, god forbid, actual news. There goal is to increase ratings, stir controversy, and bullshit everyone.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 02:01 PM
2

I live in Orange county CA, There are a number of erotic massage places around here. I have always heard that the asian gangster element in Westminster imports FOB slave girls to work there, but they basically trick them into being the prostitutes and they are the pimps. Since their home life is usually pretty 3rd world, coming to america and get their small % cut is like winning the lottery. I doubt most of them even realize they have become slaves and wouldn't even want to stop if they did. Ar…
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:24 PM
6

I don't like people talking shit on people with mental disorders. This guy clearly had problems and needed better care. That is probably the biggest issue at hand and people don't even mention it. The reason why we have these massacres all the time is because of the way we treat people with unstable brains. Like it's their fault. They were either born that way or abused into it. We need better programs and people need to stop getting so angry/emtional, and taking shit personal. Think of it like …
/r/MensRights27/05/14 10:19 PM
0

Yea, I think people just like to blame shit on people being jealous so they can be socially/situationally superior. "Oh she's just jealous of you girl!" type of shit.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 07:01 PM
1

Yea but that's not jealousy. That's just being smart and having boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 05:27 PM
3

Yea that's not jealousy. He is just a smart man. Men know how men think, and 9 out of 10 guys hanging around with a girl want to be in her. Men know that other men use tricks and tech to achieve that goal even if she isn't the one trying to sabotage. That's just healthy relationship boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 05:13 PM
2

I wouldn't even consider myself alpha really. Most RPers or people would probably consider me beta with some of the beliefs and morals that I subscribe to. I just think jealousy is silly.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 05:05 PM
3

As a man who isn't genetically predisposed to jealousy, and who dgaf about much. I think of it as weak and somewhat subhuman trait. I understand protecting your belongings or mates, but getting upset when someone flirts or looks at your woman is just immature/weak to me. logic being, that if you are comfortable enough and know your woman well enough that she wouldn't dare fuck around, then who cares, she's coming home with you tonight and every other night anyway. And if she is going to flirt ba…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 04:52 PM
0

Wait how is jealousy a good thing? This doesn't sound very RP at all.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 04:13 PM
1

join a club, a sport meet, or volunteer for some shit. People bond better over physical activities. WAKA kickball is nationwide check that out.
/r/seduction23/05/14 10:48 PM
1

I don't live where you do so I have no idea what you are talking about. However I see your point.
/r/seduction23/05/14 10:35 PM
2

regardless of your guys debate that spawned here, if I had left out freud's name do you have a counter explanation or argument to the meat of what I said? If not then who cares, it's just ad hominem and you have nothing to bring here.
/r/seduction23/05/14 10:34 PM
4

Regardless of who discovered it or said it first, do you disagree with the statement? Is it even relevant? Imagine I hadn't mentioned his name. Anyway, even if a lot of Freud's stuff is bad or whatever, he can still have some credible things, everyone isn't perfect, but even the shittiest of retards can still get some things right, right? Can you argue for something else instead of what I said though? Right now you're argument is just ad hominem towards frued.
/r/seduction23/05/14 10:23 PM
12

Yea, when you start to realize that everything in life is sort of a web and little bits touch here and there, and most of it is directly connected in some way, it makes understanding/accepting things a whole lot easier. That's often why though people may view me as closed minded, because when something goes against the webbing, or doesn't fit in the web, it is either new or wrong comparatively and then people get upset. I'm really open minded about things, finding new lines in the web, but there…
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:32 AM
1

I got a question. I don't like coffee nor do I believe in buying stangers (especially women) gifts or drinks to create a baseline for a conversation or whatever. What is a good alternative, say this very same interaction of op, only he offers --- ? And what if you are at a bar already?
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:09 AM
34

And psychologically speaking it's one of freud's findings. Something about when something is limited, everyone wants it, when something is plentiful no one cares about it. You can see this in practice everywhere, take public vs private parks for example or toll roads etc. When people actually feel like they own a part of something they take better care of it.
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:05 AM
1

life. heh
/r/MensRights22/05/14 10:04 PM
-1

Yea but what is causing her to post that? Does she have a lot of crazy friends or something? That could be a problem. Rarely do I ever see anyone on facebook write more than a paragraph or two. What's her motive for this?
/r/MensRights22/05/14 05:00 AM
2

It was a joke, but there were facts behind it.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 03:57 AM
1

What about juicing and overtraining? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8xWju2rZ78
/r/MensRights22/05/14 02:29 AM
0

see edit
/r/MensRights22/05/14 02:17 AM
-3

My bad posture is genetic. People have mentioned stuff in the past, assuming I am unconfident or whatever, and that's not the case at all. Sucks.
/r/seduction22/05/14 12:39 AM
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That probably extended his life for more than 5 years though. So it negates. edit- Thanks for all the downvotes, now for some science: http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/health/2013/01/29/nfl-players-union-and-harvard-team-landmark-study-football-injuries-and-illness/aCGnf96h7ptWX2Lnp5MIiP/story.html The result is a dramatically shortened life span: While white men in the United States on average live to age 78 and African-American men to about 70, “it appears that professional football players in …
/r/MensRights22/05/14 12:32 AM
19

You need a partner to go sarging with. And you both have to motivate each other by creating incentives. Either positive or negative. Like little bets, "if you don't go talk to her, I'm going to punch you in the chest." "if you go talk to her, I'll buy your lunch." kind of thing. After a while, you don't really need the motivation as much. This is kinda like the project GO thing that simplepickup guys do, only they think of something and then say it and their friend has to do it. Like "go hump th…
/r/seduction21/05/14 02:05 AM
1

I don't even understand the title. What?
/r/MensRights20/05/14 09:56 AM
1

Confidence doesn't do shit when you don't have FORD or FORM to talk about though.
/r/seduction20/05/14 09:32 AM
6

Op is sort of on the right track. Male brain seeks novelty and variety. It's hard wired. That's why we have 30 tabs of porn open, why we rarely watch the same porn scene more than a few times. Why many of us don't have a specific type, but more of a checklist for a few traits that are game on and a few that are game off.
/r/seduction18/05/14 10:42 PM
-2

This is a common issue that guys (and some girls too) call in about on loveline. I can't for the life of me remember the advice given (it's never been a thing for me so I just gleamed over it every time they call). IIRC, it mainly just has to do with age/testosterone levels, get it out of your system so then you won't have it flair up 10-20 years later when you are married with kids. Alternatively, it could be self sabotaging. You can't handle (non sexual) intimacy and/or commitment. PS- Ran int…
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:49 AM
1

I am confused by this thread. Do you have a point?
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:52 AM
1

There actually is a subforum if you were unaware. /r/bigdickproblems And yes there are lots of people complaining about it. Like I said, listen to some loveline calls, I've probably heard at least 10 a year about BF's dick being too large. And maybe like 1-3 about a small dick and only one of them wasn't a bogus call. Just take a look at a girl's average anatomy. There usually isn't much more accommodation from vaginal opening to cervix, if you are hitting that during sex it shakes the ovaries a…
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:47 AM
1

What? PS- I edited that post a bit more.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:41 AM
1

Coincidentally, I listen to a lot of loveline, Adam & Drew podcast etc. And often times people would call in with penis enlargement or sort of penis centric issues. In most cases it ultimately didn't boil down to the penis size, but the man's actual self worth and success. Or like self esteem/depression issues. Ironically as well, many women would call in about a penis being too large and sex being painful or impossible and because of that issue the relationship just ultimately fails. Very rarel…
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:37 AM
1

So what do you think is going on here? This guy is advertising bullshit for some ulterior motive or agenda?
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:27 AM
2

Not online for 3 months because he was failing most of the time and this was the 1 lucky lottery ticket.
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:51 AM
1

Not sure if joking. How big are you?
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:50 AM
2

Thanks. Bicep Charles trained me well.
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:29 AM
3

Wait, her milk? During the sex?
/r/seduction13/05/14 01:32 AM
5

I don't think it's about efficiency, I think it's simply about being starved for protein and vitamins and wanting to replenish that asap so as to not cannibalize the muscles that weren't trained that day. If your glycogen levels are down, your body goes to muscle to steal it first.
/r/seduction12/05/14 08:23 PM
2

Is that the only study? I don't really understand fully what they are saying (what are ESs?) in this abstract how exactly, when and how much per size individual did they use?
/r/seduction12/05/14 08:08 PM
8

I stopped her and said hello. She seemed surprised and happy that I stopped her. I'm a big fan of the direct approach during the day, so I said... This was not a daytime approach. Most daytime approaches I have experienced are "cold approaches" where as this was definitely "warm." She was clearly interested from the beginning wat?
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:06 PM
12

Well technically you are not wrong, because you can't have interest from someone who hasn't met/seen you yet.
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:04 PM
398

Dude, you just finished at the gym and didn't get some protein/calories in? What about your gainz? Fucking casual.
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:03 PM
1

This is what the simple pickup guys started their Project Go based on. They would play a similar game where if someone made a comment they would say 'Go' and you had to do it. The difference though, was that it didn't have to be your comment or idea that set it off. Someone would just say 'go air hump that chair' you had to do it. They have a few videos on it iirc.
/r/seduction11/05/14 08:49 AM
1

TRUST? NO. Just like respect, it has to be earned, and then upkeeped.
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:00 AM
1

That's because of the DREAM act.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 11:34 PM
10

That's more of a group drinking game though.
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:48 AM
3

IIRC, in CA you can't do certain things if you don't register.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:51 AM
-33

"I need feminism because an individual woman can't think for herself and is ridiculed by other women because we can't unite even if we tried because we are so fucking competitive and slut shaming even though we all wanna be raped 'ravished'."
/r/MensRights08/05/14 11:50 AM
1

What I took from the talk: Just understanding and applying these techniques in everything you do in order to be inauthentic (fake it until you make it) applies in all facets of life. Sales, serving, meeting girls, job interviews, etc. etc. The hard part is doing them against your natural inclination and thoughts. In regards to PUA, all the shit you think you know or learned is extraneous. Which is why many people say it doesn't matter what you say, just be confident , or whatever. Because we all…
/r/seduction07/05/14 12:29 PM
1

I can't remember where I read it, or saw it, but I do remember learning better options instead of saying excuse me and apologizing for interrupting. The logic behind why is because excuse me is standard fare for strangers and not the least bit engaging or interesting as well as not very confident or assertive. IIRC, the way to do it is to just say hi or sit down or even put your arm on her shoulder and start talking to her group. edit- here is a a thread on the debate http://www.pick-up-artist-f…
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:12 AM
1

lol is this even serious?
/r/MensRights07/05/14 04:10 AM
-2

Not perfect, you should never say 'excuse me' or apologize right of the bat.
/r/seduction06/05/14 11:38 PM
12

Actually puss/pussy is a bastardized/slang version of a really old word, pusillanimous. adjective: pusillanimous showing a lack of courage or determination; timid. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pusillanimous Which is related to cats behavior; hence pussy cat. similar to wuss/wussy. If anything, the female correlation to the body part or whatever came later, I'm not sure how it relates. Possibly because women often behave in similar ways to cats or something? Originally a term of endearm…
/r/MensRights02/05/14 12:29 AM
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Or more realistically, some other cherry picked stats that have women as the worse of the sexes. Something like more rapes/sexual abuse, more domestic violence, less pay, less jobs, etc. The reality, is that men and women have different roles, and they are better and worse at different things. Nothing wrong with that. I kinda hate diagrams like this. All it's goal is to complain and stoop to the retarded feminist level that men are worse than women. Everyone needs to man up and just deal with th…
/r/MensRights02/05/14 12:18 AM
-11

First of all, men without foreskin have a very reduced chance of HPV (which is the virus for genital warts) which leads to transfer into woman and is the primary cause (something like over 80% of cases) of cervical cancer. You can argue; "just use condoms then", but the reality is that some people don't and obviously HPV still spreads.[PS-HPV isn't centric to the head and shaft, like herpes, so condoms are not super effective] Literally can fight cancer buy circumcising your boys, and at the sam…
/r/MensRights01/05/14 11:45 AM
4

rape culture. laugh. as if there was some sort of movement where rape was accepted and thought of as a good thing.
/r/MensRights30/04/14 02:23 AM
-9

Also the last line about circumcision, I assume, is ignorant and over zealous.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 04:15 AM
1

No I understood all that before I posted, my point is as a generalization it's true.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 04:07 AM
-3

Technically that's true, because while the man is dead and obviously a victim he doesn't have to deal with the aftermath of it for XX years.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 03:07 AM
7

someone post in /r/feminism and see what happens.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 01:36 AM
1

Well there are other things too, but usually it's visible and then of course there are parasites like pubic lice.
/r/seduction28/04/14 12:54 AM
1

Nah, there are plenty of men in the docu being screwed. Some of the worst ones in there are the men's.
/r/MensRights27/04/14 10:32 PM
1

I read an article about if you write a long essay on how you are going to do something and people validate you like you did it, then you already feel like you did it and then the feeling washes away. So, more doing, less talking.
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:36 AM
1

Not a 100% true, but a good rule of thumb.
/r/seduction24/04/14 12:39 AM
-6

preface. On halloween I somewhat met this girl, but not really all that seriously (more like hi, introduction, some joking, and see ya later imma grab a beer), and we were wearing costumes and face paint. Later on I wakeup on the long couch and she is trying to sleep on the other side or whatever and dudes are awake and I think on coke or something. One was sorta creepin on her but I think she just went to sleep. When I left I put a blanket on her and then I added her on fb and told her I did. W…
/r/seduction23/04/14 10:41 AM
1

First of all, never heard any of this stuff about only texting or not calling. And I've never heard anyone say to do that, I've almost always read to call instead. And I myself have always said call as well. Texting is bullshit. It's just a tool for getting information saved, if you are in a loud place, quiet place, if you are trading pics, etc. Rule #1 if it's not important enough to warrant a call, don't text either. Save up all the stupid text msg ideas for a longer phone call.
/r/seduction21/04/14 05:34 AM
1

While it was somewhat interesting to read, it was long winded and I don't think it really applies to seduction. I mean I guess if you need motivation to go sarging and fail all night, but I think this is overrated.
/r/seduction20/04/14 12:46 AM
1

How much money would you need to save up to do what you did? How much did you spend and how much time? What was the process like for getting a passport and all the correct papers and stuff? Any other logistics issues you came across?
/r/seduction18/04/14 09:34 AM
2

get a hobby where you do things in a team environment with females. Local kickball team ( like WAKA) volunteer for stuff (church, homeless, old peoples, etc [even if you're not religious or dgaf]), pool leagues, bowling, whatever. Find stuff where you can befriend people. Even if there aren't any immediate connections with those people you bond with over something, they may invite you to events and parties where you can get a chance to meet more people. You may have Social anxiety disorder or so…
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:41 PM
6

Ok, fuck. New goal. Get a Doge. Very sex appeal. Much attention.
/r/seduction16/04/14 01:00 AM
0

I think most of this is common sense to the veterans of the PUA/seduction communities already, but it's a decent video for newbs.
/r/seduction15/04/14 11:29 AM
6

Yea, almost like she started out an angry manhating lesbian or something and felt bad about it and shit afterwords (might be part of the reason for the mental breakdown too).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 04:57 AM
4

I think it would be much harder to pull off if it wasn't already someone who was transgendered or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 04:56 AM
1

links?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 04:15 AM
-3

I'm callin bullshit on this. link to studies please.
/r/seduction11/04/14 04:49 PM
20

Make sure if you text her, to treat it as a tool and not a main communication method. Like "hey I was thinking of doing X, I'll call you later (@ Y time) about it." Always call her, don't rely on texting. It's weak. Leaving a bit of mystery and anticipation is always gonna work. And that way she will be prepared for your call as well. If she texts back some question or whatever, just ignore it until you are ready to make the call. If it's something that needs urgent attention, just make the call…
/r/seduction11/04/14 06:03 AM
0

You can change it. Where shoes with bigger soles. Rocky wore platforms when he was in the ring.
/r/seduction30/03/14 09:43 AM
2

Yea, go fuck around at a bar or go to events where drunk people are.
/r/seduction28/03/14 08:14 AM
-1

She's grabbing the bouncer. He may have to go call another bouncer from being touched by her. Or maybe she is really just looking for the alpha to protect her in the first place. Only he can touch her. She probably fucking him already.
/r/seduction26/03/14 10:12 AM
4

Youre putting the pussy on the pedestal.
/r/seduction23/03/14 11:23 PM
1

That is my point. But for example if she and you are texting jokes and stuff throughout the day at work or something.
/r/seduction23/03/14 12:37 AM
13

This. Women need plausible deniability. In other words, they have internal slut avoidance program running, either from their own insecurity or from friends slut shaming, or just other women. Women are terrible towards each other. They have some irrational agreed etiquitte, algorithm, methodology (whatever you wanna call it), where certain things need to be in place before it's ok. If you are straight forward in going back to my place, this assumes more making out, and sex. And only that. If you …
/r/seduction22/03/14 12:11 AM
0

TL;DR Texting is a tool to be used mainly only for specific reasons. A- If it's too loud for either of you to talk or hear. B- If it's too quiet for either of you to talk. C- If you can't talk and just leave a note/message to talk later. D- If you are sending pics or jokes or random stuff at each other all day (like a facebook, AIM convo or something) Texting is for the weak. Everytime you think about texting, all you have to do is ask yourself this question: "Would I call her to talk about this…
/r/seduction21/03/14 10:33 PM
1

The sad thing about this, is that I've always known it as sort of a 2nd nature thing. And I am poor and constantly held down so it's rather depressing and disheartening to keep doing the same thing over and over with no results.
/r/seduction20/03/14 11:30 PM
2

Well yea, but that's why I put it in quotes, for lack of a better term.
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:32 AM
6

I often wonder if perfect stories like this would have played out much different without all the PUA 'tricks'. Like maybe the girl was just into you and it would have escalated in one way or another anyway.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:41 AM
-1

Gender issues are mostly nonsense that is only perpetuated by media and angry abused victims who seek out more victim roles and further victimization by recreating their traumas/chaos as an adult. There is really nothing to debate. And besides, even if culture or whatever was to blame for gender inequalities and everyone agreed it was true. Then what? There is no one in particular to blame punish or change. It's just a fantasy scape goat. The reality is that men and women are not equal and there…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 08:29 PM
0

Thanks, unsubbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 08:18 PM
1

Can someone please explain briefly what the purpose and philosophy of this SR is? Everytime I see a post here it's just a bunch of meta commentary type stuff with no real substance (from what I've seen).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/14 07:54 PM
1

I been using this without knowing since forever.
/r/seduction17/03/14 10:51 PM
3

Bitches just like to complain.
/r/seduction15/03/14 06:10 PM
2

Everyone does. Flip through a site like hotornot.com , internally you are really thinking 'would bang' 'wouldn't bang'. That's 0-1
/r/seduction15/03/14 05:54 PM
25

The 1-10 scale is more for sharing stories and offering descriptions. Everyone knows internally they only operate on a 0-1 scale.
/r/seduction15/03/14 01:11 AM
1

I always feel like doing a canned opener like this all over the same bar all night would backfire on me. Someone else would overhear it and call me out, or someone in the group would mention it or ask it later and people would put 2 and 2 together or something. I mean I really wouldn't give a fuck but it's a huge DLV in the moment. Do you have a plan in case something like that happens? PS- I normally just think of random shit or do random things that I think of on the spot to open groups or wha…
/r/seduction15/03/14 12:30 AM
1

Don't sabotage yourself man. If you were having so much success, that is the time when you stop sipping the liquor and order waters. Then you have the ability to take her home and treat her to what she wanted.
/r/seduction15/03/14 12:27 AM
1

My biceps are like 15" flexed and I'm pretty sure my muscles have never gotten me laid. I have gotten random compliments from dudes and friendgirls (mostly dudes actually). And the compliments were usually never specific, just like "You gettin big" etc. The study is a correlation, not a causation. It probably has more to do with height begetting muscle or something like that. I get more notice from that regardless of my muscle because im 6'2".
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:05 PM
0

Wait you basically just reiterated what I said in less words and you get all the points and I get the downvotes?
/r/seduction14/03/14 09:51 PM
-5

This is the only caveat I have with his list really. Just like the sex bit about them liking it too (but for different reasons). It applies to this as well. Women's brains aren't visually aroused/primed as men's are (proven with studies. And then proved more with homosexual vs heterosexual. look here Don't even need the studies to prove this though, just look on any dating site: Chicks constantly complain about guys trying to look hard/cool/tough and they hate mirror shirtless selfies or ab/musc…
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:03 AM
0

So you think a random neckbeard could pull this off? no way.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:02 PM
-1

Just fyi, this only works for your personality and the trauma survivor women that are attracted to it. If you are normally not this type of guy, it's not gonna work for you no matter how much you 'fake it til u make it'.
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:34 PM
4

420blazeitfagit
/r/seduction13/03/14 04:26 AM
26

'Fucked the living shit out of her' is now code in any story for bogus tale.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:30 PM
2

Yea, true.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:13 PM
2

Not how the scale works. The scale is somewhat arbitrary. 1 simply being ugly and 10 being as hot as can be. You can have a random 10 women and have them all be 3's or a spread of 4-8
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:13 PM
24

Interesting. Because I read this guy's story (without knowing him at all) thinking to myself that he's one of those 'thinks he's smooth player/baller cool guys' when he's really a somewhat squirrelly insecure compulsive liar wanna-be a douche-bro types. I've known lots of these guys. I really always wanted to ask them if they really thought people believed all their bullshit, or if they genuinely thought that had everyone fooled, but I never had the heart to put them on blast since they probably…
/r/seduction12/03/14 01:43 PM
1

push comes to shove* But I think you meant '[to make a] long story short'
/r/seduction12/03/14 01:38 PM
2

John said you were doing shots and looking to score so we bought him mcdonalds.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:49 AM
1

If that's the case, most people use it wrong on reddit then. As in this context.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:45 AM
1

Where were you on the night of December 31st 2013?
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:39 AM
2

state?
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:58 PM
4

Where are you from? I always see this 'good on you' instead of 'good for you' and it sounds funny to me.
/r/seduction11/03/14 09:12 PM
0

Yea, along with that since he's new to the area, you could go into more questions about where else is good to go, and if they plan to stay there all night, and ask if you can tag along/show me where the good spots are or whatever.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:31 PM
12

Whenever I'm solo at a bar, I do this stupid move which works most of the time. I just see a table with an open chair and sit down and say "What the hell are you guys doing at my table?" Generally you get a couple of responses: "OMG SORRY!" Laughs Sneering looks or bad attitudes (just get up and walk away without saying a word, its funny) For the first 2 repsonses you can just take it from there. I either say I'm joking and intro, or I tell them "it's ok I'll share" and intro. The last time I us…
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:22 PM
1

The other day I had a headache and was waiting for my dumb sister to take me home from all day party into bar night downtown. I was totally sober and I was marching up the stairs to this bar and (big clumsy foot me) clipped my toe on a step and fell into pushup position. At the same moment girls at the top were leaving and saw it, I smirked at them and said "You didn't see that shit." They laughed. IDGAF attitude is pretty good mentality most of the time.
/r/seduction11/03/14 12:07 PM
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In this context its very likely she is shit testing, to see if you are a pushover or whatever basically. She will only let an alpha take it any further, and to show your alpha you need to put her in her place. Just like daddy did. It's not likely she will try this test more than once, or past the initial courting phase. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shit+test
/r/seduction09/03/14 05:20 AM
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You're just one of her playthings. She doesn't think of you as a shitty toy though, just another one of her toys. If you wanna take it to another level, then you could stop acting like her toy and start calling the shots. Nothing wrong with either scenario though imho if you are satisfied with it.
/r/seduction09/03/14 03:43 AM
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Not really a 'red flag' (hate this stupid term), it's just a shit test. Like how kid's push buttons vs their parents to see how far they can get. She is testing your abilities in: confidence, desperation, wallet size, carelessness, etc. Now there may not be a wrong/right answer to this test (as it is individual female specific), but in most cases if you crack under the pressure or act like it's no big deal and pay then that sets the tone for everything from that point on and she may or may not r…
/r/seduction09/03/14 03:27 AM
8

1 Have a purpose/career in life. 2 Work hard even outside of work. 3 Roll in bitches. They will flock.
/r/seduction08/03/14 06:49 AM
12

Seems odd that a girl wants to meet up with you at her house, then agree to go out in the wilderness with a stranger in his car. What did you do to take away her defense before these points? PS- Deep convo can just be talking about creepers and meta talk about online dating based on psychological understandings. So learn that shit.
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:30 PM
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Just fyi, and I hope your therapist is smart enough to know this, but your ex isn't the reason, or why you are the way you are or feel. It goes back to relationships as a child. Most likely your mother, was she overbearing and strict or something? And the only reason why you subconsciously chose your ex (or she chose you and you allowed it) is because humans tend to recreate traumas in their relationships as adults.
/r/seduction06/03/14 12:55 AM
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This is the 2nd clip of yours I listened to, and you give off a really pressured speech vibe, like a bad salesman. (like you will ask a question and interrupt before anyone even gets to respond or ask another question). Relax a bit more.
/r/seduction04/03/14 08:12 AM
1

Somewhat true, but not entirely.
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:33 AM
1

How big is the PDF , im low on space. edit 1.2 mb
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:23 AM
1

Well generally, co-dependents are attracted to addicts or alcoholics (or people disabled in some way - this includes potheads btw) that they can take care of, because that's what they grew up knowing and recreate in their adult attractions/relationships. So if you aren't, then maybe there is something else you are overlooking that makes her subconsciously attracted to be your caretaker/lover. Or, she has enough insight/has been through therapy to date outside her tendencies and still has more wo…
/r/seduction01/03/14 04:01 AM
1

be very brief at the phone part elaborate ?
/r/seduction28/02/14 10:53 AM
1

heh, well I'm sort of in a shitty situation where I have to live with her right now. Once I'm out on my own again, I will hope to see her maybe once a month at most.
/r/seduction28/02/14 10:51 AM
1

It's not really up for debate to be honest. Male/female brains are quite different. This is a great series of Docu about biological traits vs culture/societal conditioning, essentially the age old nature vs nurture. Too much culture blame and inherent inequality denying in our times imho. It's really a bad idea, men are good at some things and bad at some things, women are good at some things and bad at some things. That's not bad. It's how it is, nothing wrong with it. There are some things tha…
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:45 AM
1

You an alcoholic or take pills? Do you have a family history of it?
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:40 AM
1

I recently was listening to Adam & Drew show and Adam was talking about how people (namely his mom) don't change or do things to help themselves and he would often say like 'well let's get it done, and I'll help you do it' only to be met with resentment and negative feelings instead of listening to helpers and fixing their problem. And then months later same conversation would come up and he just stopped bringing it up. I'm not sure if it's the best thing to do, but I think maybe it saves a lot …
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:12 AM
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Well, male and female brains are quite different but I get what you mean. There are guys out there who do similar shit for differing reasons probably. And there are probably girls like me that subconsciously seek out crazy/stupid guys as well.
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:07 AM
1

Wait, the entire post or something specific?
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:24 AM
1

Of course. The entire time reading responses, all I could think of is they only recognize the bad PUA or misuse of it, and they are probably 'swindled' by it more than they know from guys who actually use it correctly and aren't assholes.
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:21 AM
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Fairly common, I replied to the other comment chain about why we setup for this pattern if you want to read that. In response to you, I think the women we subconsciously choose are inherently damaged (and we are men and primarily choose based off looks) before we even realize or care/realize that they are crazy/stupid. In hindsight, I have discovered these women come from physically abusive relationships with assholes (which I have a mild side of in the past and contained more now), or from addi…
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:18 AM
4

I think you are being facetious here, but if not. What I said is probably fairly common. It usually has to do with how we were developed up through childhood. Ie; an alcoholic mother, an abusive father, a depressed parent, a disabled parent, etc. etc. I think my issue has to do with the fact that my mom has bipolar and I was somewhat parentalized as a kid trying to help my mom understand things and explain them to her. My mom is literally nuts when she is off her meds, and she is pretty religiou…
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:03 AM
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The thing that bothered me the most is they varying definitions (mostly all wrong) about what a neg is. The first neg I learned is simply just pretending to pull some lint off someone's clothes. Or just offering a helping value of yourself to a person by correcting something wrong about them. (Shirt being untucked, crooked, hair needs a little readjust). It's short for negative, but it doesn't have to mean the guy is being negative.
/r/seduction27/02/14 06:08 PM
14

Yea, the girls I tend to date (from patterns I noticed) are crazy/stupid and I'm a bit of a co-dependent/caretaker laid back type who can deal with them in a realistic way and not create the chaos that they are used to/seek. So they tend to sabotage the relationships with cheating, nitpicking, trying to create jealousy or chaos with dramas (aka 'games'). Also, this article left out one really key factor of reasons why guys want their ex back. Sex. Man she had a booty and she knew how to work it.…
/r/seduction27/02/14 04:47 PM
3

I'm witty all the time. Maybe it's just that the new ones are just laughing because they wanna show they like you or whatever. Or maybe your jokes got old to the SO. I'd say I'm probably more witty with people I know better, because I say a lot of offensive shit.
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:47 AM
1

The approach anxiety is the easy part
/r/seduction26/02/14 09:38 AM
2

Doesn't have to be just black guy though. I live in a pretty diverse part of So Cal (orange county) and there are asians, white, mexicans, and black areas within 20 miles or so in any direction. You can have a similar reaction with any angry dude of any color. To be honest, I've probably seen it more times with white and mexican dudes than black guys.
/r/seduction25/02/14 12:46 AM
7

Yea, being confident enough to wear some shit like that and have a IDGAF attitude is enough to alpha the entire bar. You can probably makeout with dude's GFs at this point. I actually went to a local dive bar to offer ride to some friends around 2a one night in slippers, and sloppy sleeping clothes and I was pretty bossmode. I wasn't drinking and I didn't really think about it at the time, I should do it more often and capitalize.
/r/seduction24/02/14 08:25 AM
2

*kino
/r/seduction24/02/14 08:23 AM
3

Women have this insecurity/defense/slutshamed/whatever you wanna call it reflex where they will say the opposite of what they want in situations like this. The reason is because they want the plausible deniability when they tell the story. 'one thing led to another' yea.. right. The other reason is that they don't want to seem like they give it up easily to you (and ultimately every guy in similar situation which is what you would assume). This includes lying to themselves about it. The other re…
/r/seduction22/02/14 10:38 PM
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In a practical application of this in action, I can tell a bit about my FR from the other day. She was telling me that I couldn't have sex with her all the while making out with me in the car. I told her I didn't want to drive and I wanted to crash at her place with no sex and that was cool. She told me to sleep on the futon and just watch a movie. I agreed. When we got inside however, she was still all over me and of course things moved along. It's along the same lines as plausible deniablity.
/r/seduction22/02/14 12:09 PM
3

Anybody wanna play this shit over skype with a group? Sounds like it would be interesting.
/r/seduction22/02/14 07:06 AM
3

The part about how to give good BJ is misinforming as well. I actually think it's weird when a chick is constantly trying to make eye contact while giving head. I'd rather her just be enthusiastic about it , enjoy it, and focus on it otherwise it's going to be a shitty time for everyone.
/r/seduction22/02/14 07:04 AM
3

Sorry if I wasn't that clear, I was the first to bring up the thing earlier about normally not meeting up with people so quick or doing anything like this. She continued to bring it up as a borrowed excuse. In other words, it sorta backfired. I had already mentioned that I didn't want to just fuck and she agreed. I didn't get to dip in but we did enough fooling around, I wasn't feeling like a failure or anything and I was actually kind of tired and satisfied with it.
/r/seduction21/02/14 02:11 AM
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Hmm, but if I were to look at this from my poker knowledge, I would know that it's not necessarily how it was said, but what was said. eg; betting pattern superseding any other indicator to direct my follow up action.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:26 AM
6

I wouldn't even call that a shit test at all. That's just her playfully flirting back and asking you to play along with her.
/r/seduction18/02/14 04:02 AM
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Even the dominant ones or to the extreme of BDSM dominatrixes would appreciate a little forced control. Girls like to be man handled at the very least, where you can just control/throw where their body goes while you put it to them.
/r/seduction15/02/14 05:20 AM
14

All girls like a degree of rough trade, be it verbal commands, firm grips, hair pulls, or slaps. It's just the ones that take it a bit further you gotta worry about.
/r/seduction15/02/14 03:29 AM
7

The only reason why I've ever been single is because poor. lol
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:40 AM
2

This is pretty dumb really. It's like saying only shit twice a week, or piss twice a day only. Everyone is different and has different natural drives and it's especially high in teen years. The average sex life of relationships is about twice a week, however some couples fuck 2+times a day and keep this up a long time, some do once a week, and more unhealthy hetero relationships (and lesbian ones) stop sex or rarely have sex at all. Btw, Mystery is pretty fucking damaged goods so I wouldn't take…
/r/seduction12/02/14 11:26 AM
2

If honestly you did this and bailed maybe it's something else. Maybe you should hire a sex worker of some kind and explain them your situation and you need her to go easy with you or whatever. That way there is less pressure on you. Then you will have more confidence with women you are actually interested in.
/r/seduction12/02/14 01:53 AM
2

Very fail.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:57 AM
3

I can tell you where you went wrong in each situation. I hope it helps. First, these guys sitting down and you making friends with them. It seems pretty obvious from your story that they were sitting down in order to overtake you and steal the girl (they probably were PUAs or at least knew a little game) with their DHVs, location switching, wingman, and confidence. You basically lost it right here. but I'll continue. Second, After you assumed the beta position and tagged along and the guy goes t…
/r/seduction05/02/14 10:29 AM
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Marriage is whatever it means to you. Fuck whatever the media says about it or whoever. The point of marriage is to bond a family together. Obviously it takes some moral/value to see why just a LTR doesn't work for this. Would you want to start a family and not be married? If you did would you want your kids to think their parents weren't secure enough with themselves to be married. You have to man up. And ofc there is the purpose built in to give credits to those who are willing to man/woman up…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:20 AM
15

Men are easy. Just appreciate us and be enthusiastic. That's literally all she has to do in any facet, aside from maybe basic kino stuff.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 04:17 AM
2

What do you mean 'got banned we did it'? You mean anyone who links to TRP gets deleted post?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 04:14 AM
2

I don't think this applies to just chicks, this applies to anything. Kids, co workers, friends, rich people, male or female. So the aim at women is a little, egocentric (or some other word I can't think of right now).
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 11:22 PM
1

So downvote everything.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 12:47 AM
10

Who builds bridges and skyscrapers again?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 09:50 PM
1

Try other self esteem tests and average the results. I understand some questions are a bit ambiguous. Which is a problem with tests like these.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 12:36 AM
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It's been 10 years, her frontal cortex is probably done developing. She has studied psychology. It is possible her faults were recognized and she is attempting to correct them. However, since op seems a little bit of a dickhead, maybe you are right. And she is still chasing the bad guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:46 AM
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It's up to you man. Maybe she has changed, we can't tell and it's up to you to find out.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 10:30 PM
0

I don't think you can group each sex that way. And people can be treated or changed to go against their instinctual responses.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 08:12 PM
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