Spriteandfries Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Is surrendering reserved for marriage?	LTR/MARRIAGE	Spriteandfries	/r/RedPillWomen	28/02/24 03:31 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Dressing at home when it’s cold Skims (or skims-esque) loungewear!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/24 08:45 AM
3	unsure whether multiple wives lifestyle is for me It’s the norm in the UK to have monogamous relationships, and polygamy is illegal. So why do you feel bad for following the law and what is normal where you live? It doesn’t sound like your family is pressuring you either	/r/RedPillWives	29/03/24 09:12 AM
1	My husband can't follow instructions I second this book recommendation. Currently halfway through on audible	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/24 07:31 AM
1	Our libidos are incompatible. My eyes are wandering. Is it doomed or do I try a little more? Yup! The hardest times can be the biggest source of character development though, could be a big turning point for you	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/24 06:39 AM
1	Our libidos are incompatible. My eyes are wandering. Is it doomed or do I try a little more? Oh whoops wasn't sure since you said you're unsure about red pill stuff! And with the insecurity stuff, I know because I've been there, I think it's the only reason good people are ever unfaithful. If you were completely secure in yourself, you probably wouldn't be thinking about this co-worker at all, because you have good morals and it's not like you and this co-worker have some Insane beautiful connection, it's most likely just validation seeking. And it makes even more sense because you prob…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/03/24 12:46 AM
10	Our libidos are incompatible. My eyes are wandering. Is it doomed or do I try a little more? If you want the truth and aren’t just looking for people to tell you it’s not your fault, you are being shitty, you’re being disloyal because you’re insecure. Yeah it sucks you and your boyfriends sex drives don’t align, no that doesn’t excuse the mild form of emotional cheating you’re participating in. You have a few options: 1. If you feel you’re sexually incompatible and it’s not something that can be fixed, or if you still intend on giving any sort of energy towards this coworker or any othe…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/03/24 07:26 AM
2	Unsure About My Relationship If you’re wanting to stay in this relationship and improve it, and if you believe that he is a good man that truly loves and cares about you but is just not the romantic type and just simply doesn’t think of these things, I’d suggest the book “The Empowered Wife” by Lauren Doyle. I’m currently listening to it on audible (and yes it applies to serious relationships as well not just marriages). And it’s helped me a lot. The lessons in it apply to your situation so well. If you want to get a feel f…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/03/24 06:33 AM
1	Is surrendering reserved for marriage? Makes sense!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/02/24 08:29 AM
2	Is surrendering reserved for marriage? Totally agree with this.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/02/24 08:29 AM
5	Is surrendering reserved for marriage? That’s really the only place I get a little worried too is finances! Also specific things like if he wanted to move away, I don’t know that I’d be comfortable leaving my job and the family I have here without that commitment of marriage. But hopefully nothing like that comes up before then.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/02/24 08:27 AM
1	Will my boyfriend break up with me if he knew I used to do OF? I think it also matters what kind of guy he is. If you know he would be really hurt by you not telling him, maybe you should. But a lot of people, me included, would just rather not talk about my past or know details of my partners pasts. So I don’t tell what’s not asked, and I don’t ask them those questions either. It’s pretty situational	/r/RedPillWomen	28/02/24 04:56 AM
2	Will my boyfriend break up with me if he knew I used to do OF? He may break up with you, or he may not but hold it over your head, and every time you get in a fight he resorts to shaming you for that. Personally I’d keep it to myself. I’m typically the type to tell my partners everything, but I’m of the opinion that revealing your sexual past is none of anyone’s business except yourself. Not everyone feels that way though and to some it’s really important. So, if you want to disclose it do, but with the intention that you won’t let him look down on you or h…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/02/24 04:54 AM
10	Dating Without Attraction: Can it work? What if the Pros outweigh the Cons? Often the issues you had in the beginning end up being the reason for breaking up, even years later of “making it work” and you end up wasting so much of both of your lives. I knew I wasn’t super attracted to my ex from day 1, but he had qualities I liked, and was handsome in an objective way. I stayed for 3.5 years, and in a way the attraction did grow because loving someone makes them more beautiful. But, the sexual attraction never grew, and I completely lost my libido. Sex was a chore I had …	/r/RedPillWomen	27/02/24 07:13 AM
3	Balancing career and a traditional man. I think you’ll just have to decide whether you want to be a stay at home mom or not. Up until then you can continue working, and still have a traditional relationship by letting your man lead and trusting him to make a lot of the decisions in the relationship, and tapping into your feminine side. You can try to figure it out now but I feel you probably won’t know for sure when you’ll want to go back to work until you have your first child and can assess what you feel will be best for yourself an…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/24 04:13 PM