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DiscussionSpydive/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:20 PM
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Question For MenSpydive/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:05 PM
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DiscussionSpydive/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:01 AM
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Yess it’s really interesting and your example was perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:38 AM
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No agreeing or disagreeing just copy pasting info for anyone curious: In the United States, there are approximately 10.9 million one-parent family groups with a child under the age of 18. Within these, 80% are maintained by a mother, while 20% are maintained by a father. (My personal opinion notes: I’m surprised single fathers are that high, usually they get remarried decently fast if possible! This was really cool to know! Much higher than I would have guessed) “In 2010, 40.7% of births in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:28 AM
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Do you think most animals feel good mating? Don’t quote me but I think we’ve only proved that in few view animals like monkeys and their many types, us, dogs, cats, dolphins, and I’m sure there are more. Just like fish don’t even touch each other most times just one drops eggs to the ground/surface and the other releases sperm into the water. You got me thinking there does seem to be a pattern between pure instinct and less intelligence(talking about animal species), and that ones with higher in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:02 AM
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As an animal nerd animals only care about offspring and hence the reason they hit! You were seen some smart animal females who let everyone hit because they know all the males they come across will assume it’s their kids and hence not kill them(so it puts the female back into heat bc they don’t have supply milk or care for them). And for example a male holds a female group and has order over them he doesn’t hurt his kids - or messes with their mothers!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:06 AM
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You are definitely correct, BUT we don’t drive based on instinct anymore(instinct would be have as many kids as possible no matter what). But both men and women wouldn’t want to have kids with everyone and anyone(well it makes sense for women - but the breeding strat for male animals is impregnate everyone, it’s not sex driven (with the desire of no kids) like it is in humans). This is actually a super interesting topic, thank you for bringing that up!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:07 PM
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Don’t take this the wrong way but why are men so much desperate for women than vice versa? I’d understand if women were 30% or less of the population(like a limited association item😂) but the population is pretty similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:51 AM
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I haven’t heard anything about that - I personally signed up for the male and female app hahaha. My weight on my ID photo is 110, which is much skinner than The average Asian woman in the U.S. (again you don’t even know my height). I can only go based on data and yes you are absolutely correct well (east) Asians are the skinniest in the U.S. They also keep alive Host clubs in their countries. (You can see women crash out because they ran out of money to pay the hot guys(I can send them it’s sad …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:19 AM
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I mean it didn’t get to spread to other countries yet so what is your point? If you are curious about Teaborn(the male version that wasn’t even able to stay up 48 hours because men started posting not only nudes but nudes of CHILDREN!) The men were mostly Arabs who did that(of course other colors too!) (to such a bad extent(being dominated by Arabs) that again they are exposing women of their own religion(double no-no) but such a large number that other dudes(fellow Arabs) are publically apologi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:12 AM
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I’m not agreeing or disagreeing because I didn’t read the content of this post(it’s very late rn, don’t beat me up over it!😂) all I’m trying to say is esoically rn I can give you an unfiltered woman’s opinion about whatever you want. (I crave screen time rn but idk how long that will last). (Might update this and address(if needed) stuff he’s talking about. Idk yet)) (sorry everyone but rough honest truth moment from a woman!! (The world starts flashing red lights and the bunker noises start hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:56 AM
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In my own opinion it’s not either(a decent amount of ppl disagree with me and I’d love to know their povs too!)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 08:11 AM
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I mean I’m sure you know the reason why places hire men bouncers over women, it doesn’t really need to be said out loud because both you and I know why(men are stronger on average). They can’t flat out say that though because it is discrimination so while we “know why” we just have to keep it a “theory”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:21 AM
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How is the immigration in your area? Sorry I might have brought up a touchy subject to you idk but hey while most are overwhelming male moving in you still get more new women too!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:19 AM
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I addressed that in my comment, did you read it? I said no one can flat out say “this is why” because it falls under discrimination. So the best we can do is collect theories. Just like my bouncer example, overwhelming male but to say you don’t hire women would be discrimination(technically by law) so saying women are weaker on average is just a theory since no one can confirm 100% without being sued
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 05:18 AM
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Where do you live at?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:55 AM
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https://www.wikihow.com/Why-Do-Morgues-Prefer-Woman Here’s some theories/reasons, it isn’t 100% because if morgues flat out said they prefer women that would be discrimination. But considering 92% of necrophiles are men that is something morgue owners keep in mind(also there’s some other reasons listed if you are curious!). I’m not saying it’s right or wrong but it’s kinda “unspoken”, just like when being hired for a role of a bouncer it’s “unspoken” that they prefer men. They can’t just flat ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:46 AM
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I think it might seem that way because of how often preferences are mentioned, which I don’t blame you. Going off topic: The creation of fire and hence villages/tribes towns kept a lot of men alive who would otherwise have been out competed by other men. We don’t have that natural selection anymore - well actually those who stay close to their roots they do have boys in order to become men compete(they live). Check out some African tribe documentaries! I remember one where the boys aged from may…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:12 AM
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You do realize just because someone is tall doesn’t make them attractive right? If he was average looking then I’d take your side but like I said receding hair line, overweight, double chin, etc would not beat a guy who has the rest but is 5’9. Not in a million years. You mistake preference as requirements. If a man said he’d love a woman like Megan Fox that doesn’t mean he wouldn’t date other ppl who aren’t like her, it’s his preference - he gets to dream and make up whatever he wants. It’s jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:51 AM
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I mean do u want a picture of them? He get posted all over bar pages, clubs, etc and every single time with lots of men and women. I know it doesn’t fit into your idea of what you want to hear but it is very much true and real. Being a social butterfly is hugely beneficial. Up to you dm me, I’d be happy to screenshot the countless posts about him and you can see who he is with and how many friends he has. Granted he is tall like 6’1-2 so if you wanna be salty and blame it on something you can sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:39 AM
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I fully agree! They are friends with many women and that’s how they get access to many more. I’m agreeing with you that being a social butterfly and being friends with women creates a win for those men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:52 AM
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Yep same experience as me!! They are always around many single women(and succeed) yet they are over weight, receding hairline, no car, renting a room, etc BUT they are so fun to be around they are always with people and meeting others! Well loved and very much a social butterfly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:37 AM
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So you mean like a camp to help people find their worth outside of sex? Or do you mean like a camp to help people find partners amongst others who signed up? Or did I misunderstand and you mean something else completely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:24 PM
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I gotcha, I’m really curious about laws though because the number of ppl that mention it. I guess my journey continues to find an answer Thank you anyways for your time! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:33 PM
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You have a very good head on your shoulders and that is something to be very proud of!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:31 PM
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I’m curious what ideas for laws you’d have. Imagine you get granted in charge of “human connection department” of a country, what laws would you want passed? I’ve always wondered what people would try to pass when I seen them say that!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:28 PM
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I’m curious what ideas do you have?! Insert you are now hired as the team leader(along with me), how will you direct everyone to do their part? Also we are government funded and are trying to encourage matches to save birth rates or insert what ever reasoning why. So don’t worry about the profit stuff, we have lots of funding! Curious what u think of these ideas and what you would add/change/execute Facial scanning maybe so that people are pushed others in their league? What about if that person…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:26 PM
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What percentage of incels do you think is what race? I was thinking it’s like 45-50% Asian(mostly being Indian but also East Asians) then 30-40% white and the rest being other races(black being the next biggest then the smallest percentage being indigenous). Of course this is entirely is formed by my own experiences and asking ppl so I’m curious what yours is!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:57 AM
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But what is a man doesn’t want to be alone you just recommend he stays lonely anyways just so a woman doesn’t get attention? If it was the other way around would you feel the same way?(if you reversed the sexes and women approached men) I’m not disagreeing with you btw just want to know what you’d say to a man who wants to date, get married, and not be lonely. It seems kinda sad to recommend he stay lonely just to prove some kinda point don’t you think? (I’m talking about a guy who wants to be o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:26 AM
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What if they really like the woman? Or they never get approached? Just wait forever or would you recommend something else? Do you feel the same about online dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:16 AM
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Out of curiosity what would you tell men to do that want to meet and date women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:49 AM
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I have dated many people that didn’t fit the “6-6-6” narrative going around. If someone doesn’t believe me they can dm me and I will blur out details or anything telling about a person and show absolutely none of them were anything perfect. And of course to make it fair I will show myself(but not blurred and censored!) so anyone who wants to assess the situation entirely can see me and make their judgments from there. But who knows OP maybe you and me aren’t as shallow as everyone else..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:24 PM
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I personally disagree though if course I’m open to hearing and sharing! Conservative relationships very much support gender roles with a slight modern twist(no one is getting abused for example). But idk really any liberal men who don’t think women aren’t as capable and strong enough to be able to pay their way through a dinner. That women can carry themselves just as far as a man(yet at the same time acknowledge the glass ceiling but never actually accommodating/acknowledging that). Perhaps you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:41 PM
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You’re the first person who has the same frustrations as me!!(I don’t hate anything but the closet thing to it - hypocrites! They make me more bothered than I care to feel) That same thing bothers me sooo much! Like you’re a boss B liberal feminist but you don’t want to go on a date with a man who doesn’t pay? Make it make sense!! You want a man to do all this and you won’t be quiet and be his peace? Huh! I meant obviously goes the other way “I will go to clubs and watch women who are in sex wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:36 PM
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As someone who’s been around here a lot most definitely aren’t married. I’ve seen a few blue pills and no listed pill men who are married though. And of course if they don’t have a pill listed they can be red pill and I wouldn’t know, but outta the ones who openly identify as it, well you are the first I’ve seen whose married actually! I’ve been here for a long time too. Congrats how old are you? How did you meet your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:41 PM
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Or rather women are X and men is Y - see what I did there? Chromosomes? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:34 PM
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I 100% agree! I think it’s really important to know what demographic of women you are talking to. I would look up the votes and who voted by age, gender, and race! While it’s far from perfect it can help you identify what demographic may tend to believe in what. For example Gen Z is the most conservative generation since I think it was Boomers(?) don’t quote me but look it up it’s interesting! Millennial women yeah that’s pretty much a wrap(feminist liberal).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:26 PM
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Well considering how hostile everyone here is(sometimes) I did feel the need to add that sub name haha. But what’s wrong with being in purple pill debate? I’m not here because I’m struggling, I’m here because I don’t want it to turn into a echo chamber of hate without any real world people here(lots of men and women even those who are married are apart of the sub! I’m only 21 so too young to be married(for the statistical best chance at a marriage) but if you don’t have people who are actively i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:59 PM
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Asking someone to buy them a drink would land someone in a hospital? That’s crazy. Maybe it’s a Southern thing, we are nice to each other(we’re rated in the top 5 most nice states I believe - I’ll have to double check that later).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:46 AM
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Love it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:01 AM
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Oo give me a run down of what you do! I’m also curious to learn more methods :))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:29 PM
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Unfortunately I don’t have advice on what to change, I think it’s the best method in a stranger x stranger situation in a club/bar. Oh also try to catch them while alone(if it’s just you alone also, don’t go after it while they are in their group- it’ll be less likely to work out) (obviously not when she’s dancing but I said that before). I don’t know about this method but I’ve heard it a lot from guys in another sub, is that they go in with a group and of course approach girl groups. They send …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:22 PM
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It really is! Sometimes(if it’s not packed) I see them sitting down and talking with another girl later that night at the bar sharing a drink together and it makes me happy :))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:00 PM
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For me personally talked to, just walk up and say hi. No grabbing, pulling, dancing behind(humping), just a smile “hi, want me to buy you a drink?” Has always been the best. It sets the purpose of the interaction to be clear (I want to get to know you not just be friends with you) and its so fast that times where I’ve been with someone else I am able to politely say “I’m sorry I’m here with someone!” And no one got their time wasted or were misunderstood!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:25 PM
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For me personally talked to, just walk up and say hi. No grabbing, pulling, dancing behind(humping), just a smile “hi, want me to buy you a drink?” Has always been the best. It sets the purpose of the interaction to be clear (I want to get to know you not just be friends with you) and its so fast that times where I’ve been with someone else I am able to politely say “I’m sorry I’m here with someone!” And no one got their time wasted or were misunderstood!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:25 PM
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So it has to do with being hot, not being a jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:49 PM
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If anyone is curious about apps from East Asia it will make you appreciate the ones we have, like it sucks but can’t hold a candle to how bad it is over there. A literal ranking system for your area(everyone thinks America is obsessed with looks but East Asians are by far the most obsessed. It’s also very normal to give your kids plastic surgery for graduating high school. They also have the most plastic surgery done than any other country! Also you have 7 seconds to swipe before the profile dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:04 AM
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Hopefully they are able to help you out more, if they don’t or you get more questions and want to ask lmk! I know you’re getting a bunch of answers right now and I don’t want to add in more and overwhelm you haha! So lmk :))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:47 PM
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Well it’s very rare for them to keep up the sub and Dom situation outside of the bedroom, most just leave it to sex related stuff. But yes a small minority like OP like to take it outside the bedroom and yes like you described whoever is the Dom is basically “in charge”, protects, and takes the lead/ initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:38 PM
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It sounds like you like to be more dominant in the bedroom! Absolutely nothing wrong with that and most men are, so you definitely aren’t alone! Some guys just like watching stuff happen to them and being able to star fish and feel good from it(and that’s what gets and keeps them hard)! Different tastes!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:31 PM
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Well any position could be what they use! I suppose riding and reverse cowgirl and things like that are the most “dominant feeling ones” but you can turn any position into a sub/Dom situation And no has to be tortured!! The people in the BDSM community that are into that are like 0.1% - unless by torture you mean teasing?(like edging or not putting it in but just keep playing with it(dick)/sucking on it etc) (Btw the BDSM community is HUGE on consent - there MUST be a safe word, and everything i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:28 PM
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Ah I see - and I agree! When we are saying mates are we talking about modern day like “relationship”(situationship, hook up, boyfriend, etc) Or do we mean mates like reproducing (that’s what I was thinking) Because in our money brains I could totally see the benefit of having your offspring come out more aggressive - especially if it’s a man! We can’t fully get rid of our natural instincts so perhaps that’s what it was and has now transfered to what we both suspect(birth control being the thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:20 PM
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I will try my best to answer as someone who likes to read into the BDSM sub and what I’ve gathered, hopefully she can answer later and clarify: How- riding, or a decent bit of other positions can be turned into submissive feeling. Especially if you tease a lot (I don’t want to really get into that but using words like “I’ll sit on it if you…” Can’t answer that for her but it would be no different than asking a man woman relationship whose sub and dom are switched - just depends on how caring for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:13 PM
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I loved reading this thank you so much! I do want to point out that they themselves admit that the dark triad is mimicking attractive traits - the people who like that kind of person think that those traits are real and not a lie. They like the person they thought they knew not the rest of it. “Researchers have also considered how the DT may be conceptualised within existing personality frameworks - specifically, the Big Five (Lee & Ashton, 2005). It may be that the DT’s attractiveness to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:01 PM
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Because you were proven wrong and sarcastic, “tell me one!!” And then I proceeded to name a bunch(and added more if you wanna scroll up to see even more subs). Go onto divorce_men they say much worse stuff than the things you just used as an example. You tried to lie and say that there isn’t any men only spaces and got called out, now you’re resulting to name calling because again you were caught in a lie. It’s okay to not just know something but trying to change subjects after the first subject…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:04 AM
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Wrong sub, it’s 30k lmao. Nice try though, again with the lack of research to support a false claim! Seriously a downvote because I proved you wrong? How about have some dignity and say you had no idea what you were talking about. There’s more subs too, that’s just the first that came into my head. Just don’t have misogynistic hate speech places and the subs are left untouched. Why are you trying to act like a victim? It’s so easy to keep a sub stop promoting violence and hate speech. By your re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:32 AM
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I see you downvoted but never checked my sources, responded, or even backed up your own claim. I think that says a lot. Do you think lesbians just don’t have sex? I’m sure you’re aware of the large sex toy market, I mean go read reviews of the products it has many people talking about how quickly they finish. I mean by all means ask this questions in r/nostupidquestions I am truly shocked people still think like what they did in the 1600s+ matter a fact if you don’t respond I’ll open a discussio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:03 AM
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Link that to me. There is no reputable source that says women CAN’T orgasm it’s by far the most silliest thing I’ve heard- do they have a harder time? Yes but we definitely can(as piv (penis in vagina) isn’t usually enough but with clitoral stimulation an overwhelming amount can(or combo, yk what I mean to their taste). Think about it - humans would have went long extinct if that was true. The horny feeling women felt(if you believe they can) would never be remedied! There would be no point in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:45 AM
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Divorced men is one of the many ones, women aren’t allowed to post and if they sneak in before the mods can catch them they get downvoted to hell even if what they are saying is agreeing with everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:32 AM
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Wait the first part is a joke right?? Right?? ;-;
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:31 AM
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Idk them, I haven’t seen any of those comments but I wanted to clarify for everyone that this is a real but mislabeled and twisted video. Absolutely nothing that you have said “oh girl super into you just meeting you” would apply to this reality. All of it is mislabeled and you fell for their many skits. What the ppl who go to specifically Japan and SK won’t tell you is how different they view cheating. Prostitution(yes both sexes, along with host and hostess clubs) are very much legal and isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:40 AM
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Apparently, they’re both streamers(or at least he is, I’ve found his channel with her and them faking stuff like this) and she’s not actually a waitress(as many people have changed to say so, they both know each other way before this) and they’d fake stuff like this for the camera(some guy posted their names if you scroll through the comments) to get engagement and views Edit: Said Jakenbake and Kana is their names
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:31 PM
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Agreed 100% my mom came here from (Russia and Ukraine (back when I could go back and forth easily she’s both ethnicities) and she use to LOVE wrestling so much, 100% believed it(because new countries TVs and that wasn’t really a thing back then). Then one day my dad asked if she knew it was fake - and she never watched it again because it was destroyed for her the betrayal she must have felt. She was such a loyal fan and loved it so much(I wasn’t even planned yet but both of their stories are th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:28 PM
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Yep just checked out tiktok they have a bunch of clips like this where they are playing up situations to viewer bait and such ;-;
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:23 PM
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I don’t know either(I believed this was real too for the longest time until like 5 min ago and looked it up)😭 that commentor said they had tension from knowing each other more and would play up stuff like this for the cameras and that’s all. He didn’t say anything else (not actually sure if she’s pretending to the waitress just that she’s dressed like one and ppl assumed and retitled it and it spread around. She obviously stays seated with him. I’m trying to find this specific interaction of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:21 PM
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Apparently, they’re both streamers and she’s not actually a waitress and they’d fake stuff like this for the camera(some guy posted their names if you scroll through the comments) Edit: Said Jakenbake and Kana is their names
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:15 PM
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Apparently, they’re both streamers and she’s not actually a waitress and they’d fake stuff like this for the camera(some guy posted their names if you scroll through the comments) Edit: Said Jakenbake and Kana is their names
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:13 PM
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100% I had to end things with a boyfriend because he couldn’t stop with this. Then he’d try to say I was special and different and that I was exactly what those guys want and tell men to go after, but kept talking misogynistic things and tearing down other women. I really did try to comfort and help them change their views for serval months but it got to a point where it was damaging myself and they never tried to improve. Second time was going on dates with a guy, we really clicked and everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:59 AM
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Ah what country are you from? Me being an American and assuming everyone else is American haha. Yes depending on your country there’s different cultural aspects and could explain the bad behavior you’re experiencing. Yes please do tell me, maybe getting away from that country would help as well if it’s so common! Also throughout the years you will become better! I don’t see why you can’t become a teacher or master later on! Skills take time !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:28 AM
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Yes that’s why I think the of commentor was on a good train of thought! Teaching everyone how to behave, but also teaching those of us(idk if you fall into autism spectrum as well, but for those like me who do, teaching us how to care for ourselves better and behave in a way that won’t make us more noticeable(yes it’s sad we have to do this, but normalizing everyone’s uniqueness is gonna be a long process and that’s a quicker step they could do as we work towards that long term one)). Also how n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:18 AM
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School? Are you in high school or do you mean college? If you are 100% confident that they are laughing at you, what part of you are they laughing at? Something that they are making fun of. And if it is true I’m sorry you’re going through that. Your message to the other commentator threw me off because it made it seemed like you wanted contact with women and wanted them to change for you. But anyone who’s a bully you don’t want around anyways! Wanting to live alone and just with other men is goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:05 AM
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How do you know they are laughing at you? I remember when I went through extreme anxiety especially social, I would think everyone who laughs or whispers was about me. And it was really convincing because they’d be looking in my direction and to me at the same it had to be that. Thankfully I’ve mostly outcome that. Do these people walk up to you and say something? Or are they just laughing and you feel self conscious it could be about you? His point is actually really good because teaching young…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:32 AM
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Weren’t you the one saying that men don’t want girls who have a body count? Yet you’re saying you wouldn’t wait on a girl who didn’t have a body count or a low one. How does that make sense to you? So you want a virgin to spawn in and let only you hit it from the start? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:50 AM
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Before what? And thank you! So your goal is to date a girl for a few years or until marriage then have sex and a normal relationship? The leave before that I don’t understand, leave before having sex?(I’m sure that’s not what you mean) sorry hahaha I’m so curious now :))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:54 PM
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Can you link the study? I’d love to read it and see what the other percentages are about too! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:49 PM
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As long as when you date women you don’t complain about them making you wait till marriage or a years + and making her feel like she’s making the wrong choice (via watching porn, looking at Insta models/OF, sex texting, etc.) and stop trying to speak for all men, then I don’t have a problem at all! Not every guy wants to wait years to get something sexual, and most women who are virgins till marriage or super long term relationships are very shy and against porn(plus it will destroy their confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:30 AM
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Just on a sidenote: polygamy and polyamory are too very different things! Polyamory is the word you’re looking for, because polygamy is usually against someone’s will due to certain like religions they must obey. They all share on person but not each other. Polyamory is when ppl usually but not always share each other and there is a thruple +. And most importantly everyone is fully consenting! Sorry ever since I learned the difference I want to save ppl from having an embarrassing misunderstandi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:03 PM
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When will that happen?(and what is it) Maybe I’m missing out on some knowledge but I don’t see that happening in at least my lifetime(probably yours too)(women letting go of any sort of standard I mean - forcing them to adapt to accept anyone) But yea once again I’m not sure update rn! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:51 AM
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Yep just a bunch of kids giving out advice on things they don’t know about but still at that age they think they know everything. 😭 I hope you have a healing journey and always remember you’re not alone in how you experience things 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:41 AM
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Sounds like you might be demi-sexual perhaps? (Or just normal yet wasn’t ready in the moment)(Demi-sexual is the inability(it’s a spectrum**) to be attracted to someone without getting to know them. I am also strongly that way but I fortunately or not always knew other ppl weren’t like that so I didn’t have a mental twist like you did) I’m sorry to both of y’all that peer pressure happened 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:54 AM
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Agreed, that goes for everyone. The whole point another person was saying you have crushes on ppl and desire to look at people who are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:46 PM
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(Also yes without saying it does go both ways, like you said! Sorry if I made it seem one sided!) Also I think you’re using crush in the way it was intended to be used but unfortunately due to misuse it’s been mischaracterized into basically meaning lusting after. However the dictionary definition disagrees with both of us saying it means: a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate. So who knows what that means anymore😭 And yea the ppl with cele…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:18 AM
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If you look into how big the adult business world is, it reflects how much the average man only cares about looks. Some spending thousands of dollars just to have the girl say a couple words to them. Let’s say “oh that’s just to get off” then I point out they aren’t actually attracted to personalities as much as they claim but also mention celebrity crushes! Women that men have never met yet they all like Megan fox, Sydney Sweeney, Sofia Vergara, Adriana Lima, Emma Watson, Scarlett Johansson, An…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:03 AM
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If it was standardized, there wouldn’t be any problems! Kinda like how it would be hurtful for someone to take a DNA swab of their SO’s genitals to see if they have been seeing anyone before moving onto other steps of the relationship. Like the idea itself isn’t bad, it’s just hurtful because it implies you might have done something wrong and the fact that they are going through with it means that even just the smallest part of them worries it might be true(that you did something bad). Which I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:18 PM
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They definitely would answer you honestly. I’m just really hoping you haven’t had convos with off the way insane people(who can be in any group) and based off of what those crazy individuals said or did that you’re judging everyone of that group. That would be extremely disingenuous and you would be holding your own knowledge back by that. Please just ask them an answer and explain where you’re coming from and why you think it’s unfair. They will not be mean or attack you, their whole thing is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:04 AM
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Of course you’ll have to account for that, and ask your questions in more sneaky ways. You’re smart you’ll figure it out. Like ask them if they think women should just get jobs because they are women and not because they are more qualified for jobs. That’s a great question that will help show true colors. Or talk about one of the policies you heard that they support “my body my choice” when it comes to the life of the child and ask how that’s fair under X circumstances and let them answer you li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:35 AM
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Nooo, neither group believes in female supremacy(that’s another group I can’t think of the name rn, yea it’s confusing haha). I would highly encourage you to go onto their sub reddits and actually ask questions(they welcome men to ask questions!) and actually bear it directly from them. It sounds like someone else has told you what they are like instead of asking the people directly - which is disingenuous. No one should be able to say all people are like this and speak for that group. But yes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:15 AM
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Liberals and feminists will always have the stance of “this is empowering to women, women can do whatever they want with their bodies”. If a woman wants to have serval partners at once that’s fine. Total sexual freedom and total freedom of bodily autonomy. A woman can be anything a man can be and do. Radfems are more like red pill women, they value self respect morals, practicing dating to marry, not being provocative, etc. They don’t like porn as that goes against their core values of women sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:17 PM
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I can’t tell you, but maybe because the job has an expiration date and with no other life skills finding other work with your reputation will be difficult. But I’m just making a guess, you would have to ask someone else unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:09 PM
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I just wanted to say radfem and feminists are two very different groups. Radfem are against porn and do not switch their opinion when it becomes “woman empowering” that would make them a leftist or feminist, as supporting porn goes against the core ideals required to be a radfem. And yes those three groups fight often. Just wanted to clear that up haha so you can edit it if needed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:32 AM
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Aweee you sound great! Thanks for being nice and also for answering my questions! I hope you have a great day/night! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:53 AM
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Ooo do tell the truth part hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:37 AM
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Respect it all! Since waiting is usually something amongst the religious community would be okay to date someone who is religious? I feel as though it might be hard to find someone who isn’t religious and who is waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:37 AM
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May I ask if you’re religious? Or what are your reasons for waiting? And what ideals are you looking for? :))
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:24 AM
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Oooh! Sorry for the misunderstanding! Thanks for clearing that up in a respectful manner. Perhaps older gen use to do it and it became a know thing from that just thankfully is dying off? Either way good to know people get creeped out my strangers talking about kinda stuff(as they should, that’s so weird that it’s a stranger!). How old are you may I ask? Also what’s up with your username/thingi under it? Is it a joke or are you actually a cuck?(no hate I’m just nosey and wanna learn more hahaha)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 12:29 AM
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Valid points, thanks for sharing! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:06 PM
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When did I say any of that??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:53 PM
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There’s two main branches of ideas on here that I see: sex work is needed work and they don’t mind more people getting into it(and don’t hold sex work against someone). The other is they don’t like sex workers, don’t want kids to grow up to be sex workers. Won’t date a sex worker. Sex work is a booming industry that GROWS every year, and by a lot. It’s a billion dollar industry and people age out + the fact it’s growing so it’s definitely impactful. It would be dishonest to say sex work doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:50 PM
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Wait so first you say it’s a myth then in your second paragraph defend it and say it’s normal and heavily imply it is a thing. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:45 PM
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Huh I’m repeating what other people have said on here. There’s two main branches: sex work is needed work and they don’t mind more people getting into it(and don’t hold sex work against someone). The other is they don’t like sex workers, don’t want kids to grow up to be sex workers. Won’t date a sex worker. Both of those make perfect sense. It’s when people start mixing the two “we need sex work” while in the same breathe hating on women who are doing stuff that sex work normalizes. That’s the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:44 PM
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What does that have to do with anything I said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:41 PM
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So want a good girl while also supporting women who encourage other women to do porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:39 PM
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I’m saying if you don’t want something why promote it. It encourages other people to do that line of work(because they see how popular it is).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:38 PM
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Oh thank you very much! Have a wonderful day too! And thank you for being one of the ones on here who isn’t a hypocrite 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:58 AM
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I feel like you might have been misunderstanding me. I see that you’ve been downvoting every time I respond too. I’m REPEATING what I’ve seen said here. I haven’t really expressed by personal opinion on the matter much except that I don’t like hypocrisy. I can get behind anyone’s logic as long as it’s not hypocritical. Being sex positive and being willing to date a sex worker is valid - no hypocrisy. Not supporting sex workers and not wanting to date one - no hypocrisy. I’m simply saying I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:39 AM
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Porn was a major thing way before the male loneliness epidemic became a thing. It’s been around for so long. It becoming easily accessible is the timeframe that the epidemic started getting much bigger. Chicken or egg type stuff hahaha, not super important. What’s important is that they go hand in hand! And in order to have more girls who are interested in relationships, we need to cut the porn because porn stars don’t really like that kind of stuff and don’t forget they’re the example for the y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:57 AM
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See you’re not a hypocrite which is why I like and can’t argue with your logic. I solely care about hypocrites. A lot of guys on here don’t want the spot but also give attention to the slut(this sadly starts from a young age, to no fault of their own but parents). As long as the guy who supports/engages with/ helps promote that line of work has no issue with dating those women; I see no issue at all. What happens after marriage is for the sub r/deadbedrooms (I love that sub check it out!) which …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:51 AM
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I replied :D ! The only thing I care about is hypocrisy. The summary of what I said to him: If you want to support and encourage women to continuously be promiscuous, I don’t think you can turn around and question where the good girls at. If you have no issue with promiscuous women, then it makes total sense. Why you would continuously promote an industry that creates more promiscuous women though if you want there to be more good girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:46 AM
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Lettme but it this way. Do you want little girls growing up and seeing “hey these girls get rich doing this! I want to be a OF model too!” Because just watching it and having it in common access creates the next generation of people who are more normalized to it and want to have an easy way to get money. And then I see complaints that women are too promiscuous(and it’s the girls who don’t even have a porn page!!) yet the same guys want to keep porn around? It’s hypocrisy to want a “good girl” bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:44 AM
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Porn is the root problem for the male loneliness epidemic, women being mistreated, most relationship problems, divorce rates, etc. I fully stand by that statement and many more things that are affected. Especially children, no matter how hard a parent tries to stop hem their child will be imprinted on by the porn industry(this wasn’t an issues a while back) causing porn addiction and never feeling happiness(because porn damages your dopamine receptors). And so many parents are like “it can’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:40 AM
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Edit: I originally said: I love you! Honest and truthful! Omg THANK YOU! Then I seen not intended to be disrespectfully, but I guess you’re kind of right. They’ll just call a girl names all over the Internet, into her face which will become a joke in their friend group too. Leak her private videos, ai her face, etc. Will they go into as much detail though as a woman tells her friends in private? no. So yea women give more detailed descriptions of what happens(and of course there is natural bias …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:19 AM
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A myth but how old are you? Aging right.. you don’t know what gen alpha and gen z be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:18 AM
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We’ve been supposed to write a novel about our love lives?? Oh no the women cult is gonna take away a leg of my X chromosome. I didn’t know😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:17 AM
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I feel like the only factor that’s really being hyper focused on is height, which is true that the standards have gotten more extreme. I’m just saying back then instead of height there would instead be more pressure on looks and wealth. People will always be picky but what they choose to be most picky about will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:22 PM
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I totally agree! It seems like we’re in agreement but I do want to say this. We can’t stop change and putting ppl because of race, wealth, sex, etc to have lesser rights wouldn’t be great(and would cause chaos to try in America). However the good news is that there are lots of communities that do value that still without making you “lesser of a man” because you don’t own 20 acres and 20 cattle to give to Mr. Future Father in Law(more if you’re not a rich white guy, or he’ll just flat out say no …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:32 AM
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I mean there was still more attractive people than others, wealthier ppl, physically better, etc. and yes height while not as extreme in variation right now still existed back then. And yes I do agree about the internet but let’s say just outta towns, ppl were a lot more community based. Towns would be a lot more in bred since the moment they settled down. I absolutely do agree things have changed but “being the best 1-5%” would have existed then too just different criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:13 AM
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?? Who are these women?? Like ya low income ppl be flopping around but anyone middle class above they have their own housing. Plus I mean rn I’m sitting in my own house(legit will give mini house tour haha). I just selectively saved and worked, I’m young too so it’s not crazy big but it’s mine. :))
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:07 AM
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Huh? It’s not like I was getting free living from someone. I mean we’d go back and forth between houses doing normal couple stuff. It’s not like I was getting free housing or he was haha So if a guy spends the night at a girls house he’s now exchanging sex for a roof over his head too? When they are in a relationship and both have homes they can just leave back to if they want. Lmao😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:57 AM
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Wait I could have been getting money from dating?? Damn I need to make some phone calls! I did it because I wanted an honest relationship that would eventually lead to marriage(I make that very clear before even accepting to into a relationship so there’s no confusion). Damn I mean how much was I supposed to be making?😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:26 AM
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Then everyone settles. I mean no one has the single most attractive person ever to exist who also is the perfect match personality wise. There will always be someone better, just not better for you though(maybe). Simply put love starts to happen and that person who wasn’t the most attractive in the world starts looking that way in your eyes(doesn’t happen for all ppl, but ppl who end up in good marriages both parties feel that way), that’s why there are so many couples and how the human populati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:08 AM
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There would be like 0 humans or everyone would be inbred by this time if women only went for the 1-5% of men who fit that very specific criteria. I mean there’s babies being born who aren’t gonna grow to be taller than 5’6 because their dad is short. The dude still got kids. I think where a misunderstanding is coming from is that guys(and girls) want a specific kind of partner. Like yes if I want someone super attractive and only consider ppl who are attractive to a certain point and above then …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:46 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said? I said it’s simply a fact that poor people have the most kids. So reproductive success is actually showing being poor is better. Now if you want a certain kind of woman and life style that’s perfectly fine but that actually lowers your reproduce success, however it improves your marriage success though! “In 2019, the birth rate in the United States was highest in families that had under 10,000 U.S. dollars in income per year, at 63.14 births per 1,000 …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:35 AM
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You are aware that lower income people have more kids right? So actually you have better reproductive success having less money. You just want a very specific kind of girl and life(that’s not a problem and I respect that), but it’s disingenuous to say that it has more success when it is quite actually the polar opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:08 AM
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I just think we should make the idea of extra help public info
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:39 PM
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Nonetheless, idk why we are so hush hush about that there’s extra things that can help
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:31 PM
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? None of that has to do with making this public information. My whole point is that if I didn’t have the connections I did - then I wouldn’t know any better. And I strongly feel that we should make it public knowledge that if someone wants something(which idk why they didn’t even bother to look it up) but that there is always extra help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:29 PM
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agreed- 13 is a lil young but let’s just say they grew up in a country with on the most part reliable surgeons - so 16ish(and they had the money). I just don’t know why we don’t talk about things that can help other ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:23 PM
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I mean would you tell a male or female who is 5’0 and 300 pounds to not take chances? Like the risk is worth the reward(as long as you aren’t stupid - but genuinely if you are so stupid to take weight lifters amount rather than height grower amount, that has to be natural selection at that point. Who doesn’t do at least 20 min research 😭)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:45 AM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about. I have grown IN A MONTH TO SIX WEEKS a half inch(after not growing for growing for two years). So I was growth stopped then grew half an inch because I was like “let’s get extra help” and played the game
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:34 AM
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Everything you’ve said has been correct! We’re just talking about different things! I’m talking about Hgh(this is naturally produced from the body when in puberty especially). It makes you grow taller(as long as your still young enough to grow), (if your an adult whose bone plates have been done growing, you have no business on it and it will only cause weird things because your body don’t need that anymore).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:02 AM
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I do agree about the average person part, but also natural selection? I mean letting them shoot up elementary schools seems worse than letting them take 30x the dose because in their own brains it will make them grow faster(obvs you and I know that’s not how it works)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:58 AM
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Oh don’t even get my started on steroid deniers. I find that to be the most weirdest thing alive - it’s like me denying I do skin care?? Or that I don’t diet?? It’s all the same(in my eyes - it’s all extra help from what would happen naturally). Sounds like that guy is taking the wrong stuff or too much. Same things happen when ppl take mental health meds, anxiety meds, depression, etc. just sounds like it’s not right. Like even when ppl say “why are you so happy” I say “because medical help”. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:57 AM
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I think you’re misunderstanding my whole point - I understand what you are saying though. My whole entire point is why do we gate keep this info and sites? Why don’t we publicly acknowledge and help out others?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:51 AM
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Fair response, same thing I would have told that person. Start lifting too, but ik you meant that too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:48 AM
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Oh you meant through public doctors. See my dad is a body builder so I have good connections plus old Reddit webs are still up. Sooo my methods have always worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:47 AM
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Can be prescribed*^ I have a body builder dad so when I post that info and I get up for info I have the resources to help others. Which even if someone doesn’t have the resources to help just at least making it public knowledge would really help ppl. Like they can go into old Reddit threads and see what sites were publicly supported. But also pretend I was that guy I made up, what would you tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:42 AM
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What does NA mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:35 AM
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(Pretend I’m male) how can I get my harem? I’m 5’7 and 200 pounds(these are made up). Also 16(again made up). Is it over for me? Or do I get a harem? Like why not tell this dude “hey hgh can still fix your height, for weightloss(literally endless things), acne here’s xyz”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:34 AM
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My statements are genderless. You can’t tell me with a straight face that a man who is 5’5 and a man who is 5’10 who look identical and have the same stats and percentages - that they will have the same results in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:31 AM
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Agreed, all I’m saying is that I don’t understand why we keep things a secret. I feel like in areas of this community it should be wide spread knowledge that if your unhappy with your looks, weight, height, etc there is always a fix(some might require restrictions but overall in most cases there is a fix)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:26 AM
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I’m a little confused by your response(I don’t think I’m understanding it fully). I’m saying if someone is like “men/women will never love me because I’m “obese/short, and it’s all the other genders fault” and they become kinda crazy - why not avoid it all by making it commonly talking about that there is other ways to fix those issues. If they have two brain cells they will do research and decide if it’s worth it. All I’m saying is that I don’t get why it’s so “hush hush”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:25 AM
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Oh the way I get them and have helped others is through the back route, American meds crazy priced. Get it from Europe or Candia
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:23 AM
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Right those are who know about it - I’m just saying why don’t we talk about it more so those who are still able to be helped (height and weight) at a younger age know about it? Why do we gate keep? Like it’s not illegal to say “this exists and will fix your problem”. I’m just the first person I’ve seen actually talk about that kinda stuff publicly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:19 AM
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Ah I don’t think I made my message clear I tend to see online(public not the hush-hush pages your on) that if someone doesn’t like you for your weight/height then we must start blah blah blah(it’s all the other person’s fault). The few times I’ve posted about like “hey everyone x,y,z exists” I’ve had like 5 ppl message me each time(this wasn’t Reddit). My point is that I think it should be talked about more and I don’t understand why it’s a hush-hush topic. I’m not even talking about body buildi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:13 AM
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Yes it doesn’t do any good for me personally, and it’s a boundary in my relationships(I have a high sex drive so they’re never denied).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:45 AM
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Most clubs actually try to make it more girls than boys and keep mental count of the number of each(at least in my downtown area, but most successful clubs do the same to keep everyone happier)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 11:58 PM
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I like this out look on it. Using the other half of the statistic to make it seem more positive :)) Sad for both the 20% and 3.5% nonetheless but making it written that way is reassuring :))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:18 PM
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That’s the spirit! Don’t knock it until you try it :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:09 PM
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That’s such a tiny minority that it’s basically unheard of. Now the opposite hot girl + rich guy is a semi-common trope. Though either way it doesn’t matter as long as both agree and know what’s up(it’s usually obvious). Either way while those two aren’t anywhere close to the average couple(most ppl are around the same income and history). So it’s wouldn’t worry about that, but then again if you’re young maybe you can get a sugar mama! Haha But also fr, go to somewhere low income and they flood …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:57 PM
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And they father kids with low income and/or criminal mothers. If that’s the kinda woman you want you can skip the prison part and just hang around bars or places like that. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:41 PM
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Someone has never been to history classes. I’m not even trying to make it offensive(I will legit dm you) but it use to be a PRIDE zero have another man “below you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:44 AM
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Who made it Neanderthal? Women didn’t have the right to even speak back then. It’s okay to address your brothers like how we address our sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:22 AM
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You must like trashy girls with start with. I’m assuming ghetto with 1-2 kids and baby daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:52 PM
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It was created by men to hate on other men. To call them insecure, and if let’s say they were doing bettter than the other guy they’d come up with the saying “they are making up for something”. It was made by men and caught on to the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:51 PM
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99.9% no Unless he was very very rich and perfect otherwise. We play perfect family to the rest of the world. He’s honest about his/our secret(meaning I didn’t find out what he was doing on my own, that would be betrayal and fall outside of a perfect guy). I could be the only one having kids too, and I’d want only the best for them(he would too or else he wouldn’t be the otherwise perfect guy). There would be sharp rules too, but if everything was indeed perfect and I knew from the start and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:41 PM
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Honestly that’s something that someone would say with a straight face and not think twice about on here. My apologizes haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:07 PM
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You do realize how impossible that is right? Like not even colony animals like ants just read each other’s mind. We don’t even have technology that can do that either. If you’re gonna say something to try to offend ppl because you blame them for your lack of success instead of yourself, at least make it more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 11:01 PM
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Yes, at least for me I’m more submissive and shy. So when someone approaches me, it tells me that they are a leader and aren’t submissive which works really well for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:43 AM
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Sorry I don’t know what that is. When I looked it up it only brings up Unidirectional or bidirectional. Are those what you meant? But let’s forget about that a moment, even if there was 1 crime(once again haven’t checked), that women do more of, that’s nothing compared to the thousands of other crimes men out rank women. Like this: An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. 1 This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:41 AM
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The percentage difference is like comparing a baby to a 7’8 man. I can share statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:18 AM
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They are trying to get rid of competition by doing that. It’s a smart play. Teach ppl the wrong things, they keep getting rejected and it’s a cycle . They get them brainwashed either way the wrong stuff and it takes another man out of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:17 AM
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Do you think every women, including this sub has their own private chat? Which we even voted ppl to the top? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:14 AM
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They get downvoted and shushed. Look towards the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:13 AM
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I don’t like OF. I think it’s stupid. I wouldn’t want a partner who does that. I’m jealous and possessive. People are all different despite gender. Find someone who thinks the same as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:05 AM
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We are “okay” which is under “fine”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:53 AM
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No thank you! For being aware of the world and not thinking in the mental frame you(and all of us) have. Thank you!! You gave me sm hope. You have a lucky wife(from what limited information I was given, but if you have that spirit then I’m sure the rest is amazing too)!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:51 AM
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You said this in a way that seems dramatic to ppl without kids(I also don’t have kid/s, but I’ve done my research). That them thinking this is over dramatic is showing their ignorance. Imagine a screaming machine mehh, maybe every 20 minutes. FOR YEARS. AND I MEAN HALF AT DECADE AT THE LEAST. And that’s if you’re SUPER lucky. Kiss your tools, make up, house walls, doors, cabinets, pans, truck/car, flooring, etc etc etc GOOD BYE. Kids are legit monsters. Edit: the screaming for every 20-30 min la…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:32 AM
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You are the exception!! Hold your head up high and tell other men that!! Let them learn from you! Edit: (more positive rants about you) you should be the standard. You must have been raised right or had a moment of realization- but I can tell rn- you’re marriage is gonna last(on your end, idk who you chose). But keep telling other men to be like you! Because you are correct!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:26 AM
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This so perfectly explained in such simple terms. I love you for that, genuinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:25 AM
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Wow, that’s a really mature thing to say!(seriously). If you’re able to quickly - not only recognize and PROPERLY apologize for your mistakes - I have full faith that you will(given the right direction) become a perfect husband/spouse, lover, true man, and be an amazing human. I love the fact that you didn’t double down on nonsense. That’s an attractive trait! Edit: wanted to not proper punctuation but at least some
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:20 AM
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Children are awful for marriage. That’s why - despite what anyone says - I always believe in putting in my parented first(and future vice versa). Of course use common sense with that statement. But we will never undermine each other, we will never disrespect each other, we will never argue about things. Ever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:16 AM
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I mean I wouldn’t consider not being a push over “off the reigns”. But if that’s what that is to you, to each their own! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:30 AM
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Yea it a guy is feminist or even just extremely knowledgeable about women’s struggles or anything or the sort I’m immediately attracted. They don’t even gotta look that good, just actually being aware and understanding- immediately dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:24 PM
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It’s an agreement between the “sugar daddy”(or sugar mommy) and their “sugar baby”. They spend time together, talk, go on dates, sleep together, etc whatever the sugar parent wants. And the sugar parent will give their sugar babies a monthly allowance, buy them jewelry, bags, cars, pay their rent, etc. it’s a mutual understanding of this is an exchange but we are going to be basically dating but not. So they get to have one person a lot of the time and have it be consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:45 AM
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Check my reply! I actually broke it down to birth ratio so it’s super even :D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:01 AM
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Have you ever taken a drive into the poorer parts of towns? You’ll find 1,000 even to your standards girls(I’m sure you can even find virgins if you’re into that weird double standard - but if it’s not then, all to you!) They are just as beautiful just in different financial situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:59 AM
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To add this is birth ratio. So this is males versus females BORN each year. There are less women being born today than there are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:57 AM
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👀👀I need your energy in a man. A man who ain’t scared of other men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:47 AM
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If a man put another man in their place - imma approach(and I’m a more shy girl). It’s to me, how crack is to a crackhead. I’m drawn in. I need and want that energy. There’s nothing more muah 🤌🏻 then men standing up to men. So tell us what went down!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:12 AM
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Women are afraid of men. Men are afraid of men. That right there says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:26 AM
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Yes when you bring up that women live longer it makes the portion of women even smaller since we’re also counting older people! I will say people date up and down so it shouldn’t really matter. But nonetheless yes, the % of younger women who are on the dating market is even smaller than we think because the numbers are inflated by older women because they live longer. Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:42 AM
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Oh it’s okay! I just wanted to update you, because it’s interesting to know! However, I guess it was in vain because you’re at such a high percent it wouldn’t matter. But nonetheless I hope you had you an interesting read! :D Edit: spelling stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:13 AM
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Perfectly said, and thanks for the laugh😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:53 PM
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Not correct, unless you were rounding hugely and only talking about America. One site say 101 men to every 100 women(Wiki, which isn’t the best site for facts but worth mentioning). While (ined.fr) says that it’s 102 men to 100 women. Another one that shows that men are more is (knoema) which says women are 49.7% of the population. The same site goes into more depth to show that the % is actually dropping. Referring that in 1973 it was 49.9% and in 2022 it is 49.7%. The site (cia.gov) says that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:48 PM
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I just wanted to say 36 isn’t too late to have kids. Unless it’s something medical or other reasons, at 36 you’re still extremely fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:53 PM
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I am so so so sorry to ask but can you please remind me I’m literally an hour?(I really want to watch this and learn) but I’m at dinner and I can’t rn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:00 PM
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Could you help explain “valley girl” to the youth? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:30 PM
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How old are you now and how old back then? Also for the sake of learning what did they do that was annoying in the morning?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:06 PM
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Ooo I’ve never heard the answer hairdresser actually may I ask why?(just cause you’re the first person to ever say that). Also tell me more, like start listing them(if you want but I’m very nosey)😂 Edit: grammar - nvm I had it right the first time😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:17 PM
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If every man made realistic shots and stopped supporting p*rnstars and thirst traps(hence giving the illusion that being like that is beneficial to women - which it is because men support it.). If they stopped that and stuck to only making realistic shots then all of this would be solved for everyone. Everything would be evened out if men(and women in this case) didn’t shoot higher than they know they can get. Because the inflation would resolve itself out with less demand. You can make as many …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:08 PM
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Which careers make your sirens go off?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:54 PM
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Yes much better source! I agree with your conclusion, I just wanted to point it out before someone of the opposite opinion did and use it against you. Nice recovery 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:34 PM
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You haven’t even entered college - don’t stress a bit. High school is a big old popularity test and you could be good looking but be a dork, and still be treated like a dork. College no one cares as much and will be your time to shine. Keep going with your dreams though! I’m just saying put the height surgery at the bottom on a list, for your height I think it’s a waste of money but if you do all the other surgeries and don’t notice a significant improvement(you will, along with the atmosphere c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:31 PM
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Forget height surgery at 5’10 - a few extra inches height wise isn’t going to make as much of a difference as you think. If you were 5’8 or shorter I’d agree but not 5’10. Jaw surgery though - depending on if you need it, is a great idea though. After that focus on teeth and nose instead of height surgery. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:57 PM
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That’s like making up their perfect person, like it’s fair to say men want “a slim thicc girl with hair to her butt and boobs that touch the wall before any other part of her body does”. This is just describing their dream people - the people they give priority to or have a preference for. But when it comes to presences it doesn’t mean it’s a requirement so take it with some pride that you have a step up on literally 50% of men! Someone being 6’2 is pretty rare - and you know what’s even more va…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:47 PM
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Actually 5’9 is average! So you’re not shorter than average, just average!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:43 PM
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That’s above average height I believe. 5’9 is average. https://www.medicinenet.com/height_men/article.htm#:~:text=Average%20Height%20for%20Men%20in,roughly%205%20feet%2C%208%20inches So you have a step up on 50% of men that aren’t your same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:43 PM
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For everyone it’s different, but in this case it feels like he gets the kind he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:41 PM
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Most ppl meet their affair partners at work to be fair. But yes if someone wants to cheat they will, just they’ll be less likely to find someone as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:49 PM
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To be fair most people meet their affair partner at work - just adding that in. I’m of no opinion on this other that most ppl meet their affair partner/s at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:49 PM
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You sound like the type that gets/keeps the good quality girls :))
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:47 PM
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I agree with this statistic but you might want to use a different one because your site says this: Researchers at the National Center for Health Statistics estimate that 78% of college-educated women who married for the first time between 2006 and 2010 could expect their marriages to last at least 20 years. Key words between 2006 and 2010. Like I said, I like this statistic just maybe use a different site who looks at all the years not just 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:46 PM
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This story is about me, not the average or everyone experiences because I’m not everyone. No, they usually took care of everything money wise because they WANTED TO. Which made me WANT TO take care of them - annoyingly so maybe but I would always be like “Lettme give me a massage, a head scratch, need something from the kitchen? Can’t find something I know where it is. Compliments(of course they do the same and they are all true both ways), but any little feminine thing I would do. Cause they ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:44 AM
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We just gotta keeping loving and snatch up all the good, kind, and sane ones💖
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:13 PM
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I’m not saying I have psychic power lmao, I don’t believe anything like that. I do believe we have many senses like the sense of temperature, sense of direction, balance, etc. and that some people have certain senses better. This would fall under the ability to read people. To be fair that’s also job related to what I’m studying(homocide detective), I’ve just always been able to read people really well. Some can’t and some can. It’s just how they were born or raised. It’s not really that deep, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:41 PM
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I mean I also vet people very well, I’ve had people who five off warning signs and just chose not to enter a relationship with them. Sorry if it’s confusing as if it seems like I’ve only met good potential partners. No I’ve had some that I could tell were secretly bad or obviously bad and just chose to not engage politely. Waited until I found someone who was good :)) I always preach to look for red flags and don’t entertain the red flag people!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:04 PM
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Thank you :))
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:01 PM
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Walk outside and sit at a park, look at the average and below average girls and who they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:01 PM
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Definitely a pet would be cool but one that can do chores and stuff. I would never be able to love it as much as my real life pets though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:46 AM
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They can’t feel emotions or mimic and hence fake them based on what they programmed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:45 AM
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That sounds so romantically worded !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:41 AM
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I said the same exact thing but didn’t add that last about Detroit Becomes Human - So I might not be your mystery person but we’ll find them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:34 AM
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This^ None if my exs were ever my type on paper, but they always tried to make me smile. We’d just stop mid discussion to start cracking - even in more stressful situations. Laughter, kindness, and playful teasing ended up winning me over. The better they treated me, the more I listened to them until and the more comfortable we got. You really nailed the secrets!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:21 AM
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Hobby clubs/classes(yes they have that stuff for adults, and depending on your hobby even classes you can take like: painting, cooking, writing, video games, drama theater, etc etc), music festivals/live music being played in a restaurant with ppl dancing(but it’s not a bar, as there’s kids too. That kinda vibe), speed dating(?, I mean to say you e at least done it), group activities(for example we were seated with other ppl randomly and we all had to work together to find the killer. It was a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:06 AM
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Absolutely focus on the positive in life - I was just adding that in there as a “if anyone is a mole rat who has the personality of a raccoon with rabies there is only one last hope”. But the fact that you want to be happy and stuff means you aren’t so don’t worry 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:37 AM
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Maybe it is - but placebos have been shown to actually help people when they themselves think it will help. I have yet to meet someone with more than 2-3 exs who doesn’t have bad blood/something negative to say about them. Whatever it is, I wanna keep convincing myself I have this “spider sense” so I can continue to conformation bias and placebo myself into it working forever. Which at that point wouldn’t that just make it true? At a certain point it fails, not yet though. Though the big test wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:36 AM
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This^
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:49 AM
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I would not feel like I defeated all the ex-wives. I would ask if he truly loves me beyond every other person, why he isn’t treating me at least the same. Why does he want to make big events to show them off and do things to make them feel special but not me. 100% feel settled for. I’d be out at bad in bed, cheap, not wanting to treat me as good as he publicly treated others(of course idk what went on their private life). It just would never get as fair as marriage. But I’m reality we would neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:48 AM
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Or unless you’re like super rich - then that’s an exception again. But at the same time the relationship only lasts as long as your money does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:29 AM
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But he wouldn’t be even a consideration if the girl had a model boy as an option. Gotta look at the positives, if he’s still in the running there’s a solid chance, otherwise she would have eliminated him. You had me with the dating app part until you said social media is a dating app - and just noooo. Like yea I’ve had some ppl slide in my dms but it’s rare now a days compared to before. But people kids use social media, elders, taken ppl, married ppl, asexual ppl, aromantic ppl, etc etc. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:30 PM
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Could I pretty please see before and before after pictures?? Also great taste! You said colorful suits and I went “oh no” then you said “sage green” and I was like “score!!). Do you know how many guys here you just made jealous by saying you’ve been approached first!! As fair as conversation goes I’m no expert because I have social anxiety(however I’ve managed it well enough to never have an awkward conversation with someone I’m interested in), but one of the best things for me to ask someone is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:22 AM
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I definitely agree with that! I often say that! Maybe we should start making words to differentiate when we mean different parts of attractiveness. Also congratulations on your make over!! And good job focusing on a key important part people often overlook, first impressions! How many point/points do you think you went up? What style of clothes did you opt for? And what hair cut?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:23 AM
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How do you know he isn’t the above average guy? Or if he’s average how do you know the other guys aren’t also or worse? I mean statistically someone has to be hotter, what if it’s him? Dating apps are horrible - women don’t sign up for it on purpose that’s why the numbers are so uneven. I mean just look at the % of female and male users. Anyways that’s not important. None of that is important^ Why do you have to come and tear this guy down? Why can’t you just come and say something nice like I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:01 AM
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It’s a common statement I’m using to lift him up and make him feel better, what’s wrong with that? You want to drag him and make him feel worse? Confirm he can’t do it? Then that’s you, not me. I will always encourage people to keep working towards what they want and there’s nothing wrong with being a good person. Leave this guy alone unless you have something uplifting to say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:52 AM
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🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:22 AM
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You stole my next joke😂😭 I was gonna say what if I am an ai girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:53 AM
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I am! Are we bonding in a purple pill sub on the topic of ai girlfriends of all things 😂 yes we are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:45 AM
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I was just expressing my own opinion on if I had to choose between the two. :))
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:42 AM
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Giving something to someone for free will never be as valued as something they had to earn. Win her heart!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:41 AM
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I like to be able to cuddle and do intimate things with my partner. A little program behind a phone will never be able to surprise you with birthday presents, cook, hug, kiss, etc. I’m so tired of this discussion too, can we move past the ai already. We will all be dead by the time they make them not glitchy and weird looking(and have any intelligence) while also being able to not have choppy movements, not be freezing cold/weird textured, etc. The robots they already have rn suck - this is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:40 AM
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This is so true^ the podcast language I literally gag and ghost. It’s the biggest sign of every red flag rolled into a nice and easy way for me to detect. Tbh it’s kinda good because at least we can sort through them easier and faster, before we’d have to give them a shot and find out down the road there’s something mentally wrong with them. Now they isolate themselves for us via watching that stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:14 AM
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Don’t have any yourself or have smaller and meaningful tattoos not is visible places(the professional standard area: like no where you can see with a button down).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:08 AM
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I mean look when people start dating - sit in a park and just watch who is with who. Or a dinner place, all couples are more or less evenly matched. Not every girl is a super model - and a lot of girls know it, so they have to pair up. Go to a baby yoga class or a kindergarten - you’ll see couples who are in theirs 20s and who they are with. If you don’t wanna look at married couples, then yea just a park or dinner. See who sits with who.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:15 AM
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A cheaper alternative to surgery could be fillers! I highly recommended looking up before and after pictures for jawline, chin, etc fillers. You wouldn’t have to be put under or anything! The results in my own opinion look the same and it gives you more control over how you want it to look(more or less in certain areas). However I don’t think it is permanent, so it could add up to being eventually more than surgery would be, but that would be over the course of a long time. But for experimental …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:14 PM
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Men out number women in the world 101 men to very 100 women. Women could physically not be loyal and dating every man out there - they literally HAVE to choose. Not everyone can partner off because there are less women than men. Take that as you will unless you want some women to start harems - but otherwise you gotta out compete the competition for limited stock! There’s just not enough to go around % wise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:29 PM
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Wait if you didn’t want to self improve the why comment under another comment that is for helping self improvement physically? You’re perfectly fine to keep doing what you’re doing I’m just saying my post is help people who want to have the edge and confidence on their competition. It’s perfectly okay to be fine with your situation and looks, though this isn’t the comment thread for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:41 PM
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I’m confused now, you want to look better but don’t want to go through with it or do anything about it? I thought you’d be happy to know your worries are fixable, did you not want them to be? It doesn’t matter my gender, the things I’m talking about are for anyone who wants to self improve and give themselves a boost. Not everyone will do it but for those who do they reap the rewards. You came for help and I told you ways, be excited these are attainable! No need to hate! :)) Also no clue what M…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:33 PM
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I need to know the condition about your intestines, that shouldn’t be any major problem, just adjust as needed. Plus working out to get tighter skin is so valuable and having a toned body even if you don’t get as big as you want - it will attract many more people than just not doing it. Hair transplants don’t look fake. They literally insert the hair follicle into your own head where your natural follicles are so they become basically your natural hair follicles, but they actually work and produ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:02 PM
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I was seeing the numbers were much higher from both the websites I got the above numbers from^ while they had very different answers it was still much greater than. They mentioned Brazil actually has a lot more rich(as in the super) people than you might think - it’s more a lot of “mainstream” countries which surprised me!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:55 PM
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Which part of your face are most focused on/worried about? Depending on the area there are more than not, ways to improve it(most of them without surgery, but you’ll still get poked most likely all depending). I just need to know what main part first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:50 PM
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40k USD?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:48 PM
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Which ones have you tried and for how long? Improvement takes time and if it was true improvement it wouldn’t be a “did” but rather I am “doing”. You’re gonna need to rewrite your social status which takes time. People got to start recognizing you are the always on top of guy who takes care of himself rather than the old imagine and it’s not gonna happen overnight. Along with the fact that any kind of improvement takes at least serval months. Basically anything you start doing, just roughly coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:43 PM
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With patterned baldness they have SOOO many treatments from hair transplants, hair tattoos, toupees(and they stay suctioned on, you can pull as hard as you want and it’ll stay). Also just doing treatments like daily scalp massages, hair growth oils, scratching the areas to promote blood flow, they also have like a tiny wheel thing that had spikes on it(doesn’t deep) and it promotes like really good grown. It’s going to take consistency and a while for the hair to grow, but of course you can skip…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:37 PM
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So that’s like 1.5 million euros a year roughly right? Edit: Another site says the starting amount for the top 1% in Brazil is 540,000$ USD At this point I’m just curious to know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:58 AM
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To compete with the girls you most likely want to date(I’m assuming you don’t want ugly), make sure to have basic hygiene: clean nails, trimmed and plucked eyebrows, brushing teeth 3 times a day/flossing/mouth wash, when’s the last time you wore some nice cologne out? It’s amazing what cologne can do to a woman’s mind - I like to pick out colognes for guys or sometimes I’ll get a smell of a really good one and immediately I want to squish my face into a strangers chest. It’s so weird, very much …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:50 AM
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Idk why that guy posted it, he’s literally a guy bringing down other guys. Maybe to get rid of some competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:25 PM
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I mean if he was unattractive before to where he couldn’t get any girls, he definitely isn’t going to become attractive when his body is falling apart. I wanna make this more clear that someone in their 30s dating someone in their 20s is still within the range of normal. But there’s no way once a guy is 50-60-70-80-90+ a girl in her 20s who could get a young guy in their 20s or 30s or even someone a touch older in their 40s(for more money) would want someone older and who is less attractive(don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:56 PM
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Older men who are with younger women have a mutual standing of this is about money. If that’s what you want then by all means, but don’t look to them as having healthy or normal relationships. No young hot girl who can get young hot guys is going to pick the overweight, wrinkled, balding man unless they have money that they are willing to spend to keep her around. It’s going to have to be a lot of money too, and most importantly a lot to spend. What you manage to save by age 45 working a job mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:33 PM
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Pan sexual female - I would wanna be a bi or pan man. Best of all worlds and I’m safe to do things alone and will be treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:42 AM
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This is too true tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:44 AM
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Ahh good point! One does sound more impressive in words but in reality isn’t fun. Living alone in a huge mansion vs living alone in a medium sized house. I think girth is needs so much more credit - no one ever talks about it!! I’m happy we agree - we’re on the same exact opinion hahaha Though the last part…… you didn’t know we came from the planet Uterinus?Oh shoot I think I blew our mission saying that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:57 PM
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It was horrible - anything over 8 I think enters the range of horrible(other factors matter). But in my own opinion the sweet spot is 6-7 inches. 5 inches is basically in the sweet spot so I honestly feel like the OP mentioning dick sizes is bias or wrong but at the same time I haven’t read their research(feel free to link it to me OP!). So take this with a grain of salt. I don’t know any girl who wants anything bigger than 8 - and that’s their cut off limit is 8. So 8 isn’t their preference it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:49 PM
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So it might have been bigger?? 😭 never seen anything ever even close to that again - nothing ever above 6 inches after that. The most funny part? HE WAS SHORTER THAN ME (I’m only 5’4.5) so he was about 5’4 lmao. We’re in agree-ance about it being super rare I was just sharing something shocking - cause I didn’t know they got that big at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:42 PM
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You were so close to on the money with your %! Damn! Here is the answer from (granted) one website: For some perspective, an erect penis of 6.3 inches falls into the 95 percentileTrusted Source, according to 2014 research, meaning that only 5 out of 100 people would have a penis longer than 6.3 inches. Likewise, an erect penis of 3.94 inches is in the 5 percentileTrusted Source, meaning that only 5 out of 100 would have a penis shorter than 3.94 inches. Around 95 percentTrusted Source of penises…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:38 PM
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The biggest I seen in person was 12 inches - no joke. And I was a virgin…. Yea I bled for 2 weeks straight(obvious not my period). Surprised no one’s claimed it, I do agree it’s extremely rare though. For some reason I thought at the very least 6 inch dicks were more common - Lettme look it up I’m curious now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:34 PM
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I’m actually surprised about the penis one. I feel like most women have a limit - and that limit is like 8-9 becomes painful and anything more in very painful. I’d argue “bigger is better” only goes up to 6-7 inches as the sweet spot. Sometimes dicks can 100% be too big
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:20 PM
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Idk it’s messed with all the kids that get involved and kidnapped for it but that’s a different subject(which are used to later or right away become sex workers. It’s all filed by the same industry). I just called him a cuck because he is the perfect definition of one. They just got mad that I pointed out that they were cucks cause I mean the definition is literally what they are. I just said a fact. I point out things indiscriminately if it’s true. And in this case - he is indeed a cuck because…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:21 PM
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That’s why I’m saying - instead of trying the misogyny bad mentality route that you’ve been doing - try a different way. I don’t say this as a fact im just making a guess - that you’ve grown bitter from resentment and there’s been many opportunities but you unconsciously shut them down because you’ve managed to convince yourself your not worthy of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:52 PM
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Well clearly you’re a misogynist badboy and yet you aren’t getting women, so pointing out two - but let’s say even a few doesn’t compare to the billions of nice people who get partners. You gotta change your mentality bro it’s the only way - but if your contempt with what you have then there’s no reason to push you - just wanted to add my two cents. Look within
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:48 PM
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With that mindset I see why women don’t want to touch you and never will - outta their own desire that is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:44 PM
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Men’s beards are better than make up. You ever seen the videos of the dads own kids screaming and crying and not even knowing him because he shaved his face? It’s all fair game - do what you want but let’s be for real- it’s like the perfect make up omg BECAUSE ITS 24/7! And form fitting clothes just like women do omg!! Wear that sl*tty tight black turtle neck PLEASEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:36 PM
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Watch the next reasoning for wanting women being babies is because “women are born with the most eggs they will have in their life time when they are born”. Eww This is coming from someone not quite 21 also^
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:11 AM
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Add in a “luxury” item once every 2 months and you got a deal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:10 AM
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Granny be busting it down 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:09 AM
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I like your mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:08 AM
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I mean they won’t be 21 and broke forever👀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:07 AM
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Oh my - I don’t wanna even read all this stil I either have more drinks or less. I can’t tell yet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:22 AM
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He must have deleted it because unfortunately I can’t see it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:21 AM
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Who ever they were(can’t scroll up to see) they’re dead beat material if even you gave up tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:13 AM
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NOT THE MUFFIN MAN!!!!!! 😯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:12 AM
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? He asked about the muffin man 0-0
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:31 AM
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That’s the problem with introverts(arm raises up who raised their arm?! Nope not meeeeee). But fr yea it’s the same for us - and when you see us overwhelmed with guys who wanna go to the beach 24-7 we’re dying. The only problem is that there is no anonymous sites that are souly local biased to where that if you made a genuine connection you can actually not be long distance(which long distance kills a lot of relationships or never makes them happen). Did we just come up with a billion dollar ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:05 AM
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I just seen your happy spirit part!! And thank you sm!! 💖🥹 Your comment is now funny to me - idk how I missed 75-80% of it 😂🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:01 AM
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Then you’ll have to take my word, I offered that as proof(if you have a lil bit trust issues like me lmao). So feel free to ask or restate what you said before I’d be happy to give you reassurance. Y’all put too much pressure on yourselves and I feel like with an explanation y’all can take a breath. Edit: WAIT I JUST SEEN THE HAPPY SPIRIT PART
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:56 PM
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The Muffin man??😮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:50 PM
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I wish there was a guy that would go this hard over protecting and helping to explain women to guys - id eat him upppppp💖. But unfortunately those kinda guys are all taken so no unfortunately not. I mean I can put a spoon on my head and idk wink or some weird thing😂. Of course reserve photo search exists and is free on manyyy websites, and I have a billion of me - blah blah blah. Anyways yes, ask away or Dm me either way works for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:49 PM
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Well you can’t make everyone happy. I mean you bring up valid points about some women liking X and some like Z, but at the end of the day you can’t control them just yourself. Also I think you’re thinking about it from a man’s perspective. They put a lot more focus into body counts and relationships than women do. Women really just don’t care. Now if there looking to “use you then throw you out”(one night stand type of girl) then yea. But you just fluffed a piece of trash so does it even count o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:46 PM
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Yes! :)) There was a lot of points you brought up prior that I wanted to break down and explain but if I did to your long message then all my replies would become a book. So if you ask a few questions at a time I’d be happy to explain anything you want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:12 PM
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Ask me as a women who is also attractive(I will legit send a pic in Dm if needed). Each question you have and I promise I will help you understand anything you want to :))
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:08 PM
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As someone who is a woman, I never once thought beyond the point of has he slept with someone before or not? The number really doesn’t matter, if anything showing that he’s mostly slept with people he’s been a relationship with is a good sign. I mean think about - trying weird crazy sex moves for the first time with a stranger isn’t going to turn out well. Most people who are good at sex are going to be the ones who had someone teaching them what the other gender likes. So just showing a strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:06 PM
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That’s not the scale means. The scale is 1 Keats attractive, 10 most attractive(when you see ppl answer with rating themselves or others). I didn’t know you were using a different scale to measure from what I understand self obsession? So them being 8s isn’t too far from self obsessed but not in the danger zone either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:10 PM
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Ik lots of 10s who are not only smart, but have amazing education, good hearts(charities and a passion for it), and successful. I mean beauty pageants are mostly filled with some of the best girls in the city, state, country, world, etc. I’m not sure what his beef is with 10s? Maybe bad experiences but every person - is a person with their own goals, dreams, passions, and morals. I’m not saying you or he did anything wrong, I just found that him saying 10s(whom are perfectly capable of having th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:49 AM
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^
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 12:32 AM
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That is funny to share at that point with 8😂 one or two is disappointing but at this point 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 is funny😂 It think you asked about after school, where to meet ppl(unless I misread) work definitely is the top pick! It’s the second post common place(though very closely followed by school or basically tied- practically the same depending on year) to meet an SO. The most common way(which also supports out theory, and actually is the top example possible of our theory) is through friends and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:41 AM
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I love your attitude dude! Great points also! You didn’t disagree - you just gave an example outside of my hypothetical situation! So we’re both in agreement about the idea overall! So since this hypothetical situation of trapping people together to get to know each other isn’t real - we then look for the closeted things to it(which actually line up as places the most ppl meet their spouse! Because they’re forced to get to know others and not just an initial look). Work, school, college, study g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:09 AM
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That’s a very fair point you raised! And that is absolutely a possibility! Friends can and do catch feelings for each other(though don’t become someone’s friend just for that reason - that’s messed up). But directed to my example, the qualities I painted for the guy, weren’t friend qualities they were boyfriend/husband qualities. Those certain qualities would be that spark of attraction once the girls noticed them. So yes in a way you’re right, but it came from an outside source than physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:38 AM
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I might agree depending on more specific things and how you define lust. If you mean how turned on they are after the few weeks/a month when they picked the 5/10, versus how they felt nearly right away for the 10/10 - then yea I agree. There’s more sexual attraction they had for the 10/10. But if you gave it even more time with the 5/10 - let alone dating and all the private wonderful moments that brings(because remember the 5/10’s personality is more compatible) - our brains literally do this w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:37 AM
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Maybe in your experiences, but after getting to know ppl and that person has an attractive personality- you see them more attractively for women. It’s so hard to explain - like the things you didn’t like about them physically become some of the most attractive things ever. It’s really weird. As far as explaining friendzone goes, I seen a guy post give an example. A friendzone to a girl is like a guys hookup zone. Those girls won’t cross into the marriage zone, and it feels weird when those peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:02 PM
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Women emotionally bond and men while they do too, it’s not the same degree. You also can’t blame anyone for when they walk into a room of strangers and don’t knowing anything about anyone - being attracted to the most good looking person there. They have nothing else to pick by. However if you left that group of strangers together for a few weeks of months, the woman’s top pick will change to the guy despite his looks who beat fulfills and shares her goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:34 PM
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Sooo as long as I don’t go exclusive with anyone I can have a harem of men, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:24 PM
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That’s cool, you’re definitely in the minority but we all need cougars 😂 go get ‘em girly!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:25 AM
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They are just frowned upon because it’s people’s opinions and based on who wants to answer. Like I said it would be a whole other thing and much better if they went around to college campus or something along those lines and surveyed the same # of ppl of both gender. Please realize I’m literally going against the most pleasant idea: Believing I can have a whole harem if I want! Just because of the data collection style, trust me it’s a much more appealing idea to believe that I can have a whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:10 AM
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Through non biased ways. Looking at marriage records is another good way. Going to manyyy(over a large geographical area and making sure to survey the same # of ppl for each gender) college campuses would be better than this(at least surveys are still slightly more respected than cold calling). Surveys and cold calling are notoriously, frowned upon in the scientific community for having huge bias and skewed results. I was on board till I learned about that, and as someone who values the scientif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:46 AM
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Where’s the thing, as another commenter pointed out. They collected this “data” through cold calling(look up that method of research), so this whole thing is trash. That’s like the most biased way to collect data and they know women are more likely to answer and sit through a survey. Just all of it has been tainted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:36 AM
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They also go for older men, so you’d have to check the next age group(because they’re aging with the same years apart).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:30 AM
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Yes the data was collected via COLD CALLING, also most women date older guys. Look up cold calling(you’ll laugh at how horrible that is of a “scientific study”) and there’s some other comments that point out all the flaws too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:21 AM
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Not cold calling 🤣 People who don’t know about methods of data collecting and how scientific studies work should not be able to post studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:19 AM
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Yes^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:17 AM
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Most women in their 20s are in relationships with older men(30s). Women prefer older men, that’s why it looks so drastic. The difference gets smaller and smaller as you go up age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:14 AM
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They also don’t consider that women prefer to date older guys, so a good portion of the difference is due to women being in a relationship with older guys. If you look at older age groups the difference becomes smaller and smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:11 AM
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Thank you!! So many people are completely missing that women prefer to date older so of course there’s more women in their 20s taken. If you take out all the women who are dating older guys it would be extremely close % wise! Idk why ppl aren’t realizing that. Even me in my very early 20s were dating guys in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:07 AM
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Yep that’s the mindset!! Also working out and having a lower body fat % changes your face to be more attractive and slimmer! So you might not even have an ugly face after! So many perks! You should reply to him too with what you said so he knows there’s lots of people encouraging him!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:29 AM
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Well going to the gym will still make them less ugly than if they never did go. If done really well and achieve a great physique make them attractive or average overall
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:06 PM
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Thank you for saying this! Some people can’t get that through their heads! Dm me if you’d like, I like meeting other sane ppl on here :))
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:04 PM
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That’s just one person though - and tbh if you want a coke head you’re low value imo. You know what they say girls date up - so she’s worse than a coke head apparently 🤧 she’s low value imo and isn’t a loss
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:57 PM
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12ish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:43 AM
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How did they react? If it’s not too personal what’s your BC(body count)?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:33 AM
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About the first part of what you said, did anyone ask if you were a virgin after s*x? If not then I definitely think they believed you, so this strategy works! Hmm that’s a good question. I’m sure there’s some that do kinda at first, then there’s some that say it when things are getting serious, then there’s some that get kinda figured out(like if she asked when your last relationship was and you don’t have one. Or asks how many ppl you dated and it’s 0.) That doesn’t always indicate that they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:25 AM
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I think it would work! They mighttttt maybeee figure it out after the deed but by then it’s too late - also you can say you were nervous/haven’t had sex in a long time(that one is a good one). Though if you know she’s a virgin tell her you’re one too! Otherwise don’t say anything - My friend was “tricked” like that once actually😂 She didn’t mind it or anything, was just surprised. He didn’t say he was a virgin before the deed and then after she asked because he was stiff as a board and was wide …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:18 AM
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I would say what you said in the second part is most likely correct^ and of course the older you get(and the older your selection gets) it gets much less likely to find someone who is also a virgin. Like at 14 versus 30 it’s a very big difference % wise of virgins and will just keep getting harder. So yea definitely the second thing you said!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:12 AM
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I’m not saying women don’t, but men do it to each other so much more. Go under any post of a guy being soft seeming and all the top comments will be the rugged looking men calling him names(which those names are female parts, so it doesn’t really make sense for women to use them as much as you make it seem, because it’s a double edged sword). This mostly comes fathers, brothers, friends, uncles, etc. I mean what girl would tell a guy “you throw like a girl” coming from a girl it makes zero sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:57 AM
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If you do t read and don’t acknowledge what people say then get off the DEBATE sub. Go into a rant sub if you just want to talk and never listen and have things explained. The fact that you so conveniently started to stop listening only when I literally broke it down for you - in a way a toddler can grasp, really shows your maturity. We spend more money on things that are more deadly for each demographic - ITS COMMON SENSE. There are much more deadly cancers for men that we put even more money i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:59 PM
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Why would you want them spending more money on a less deadly cancer that mostly effects men, rather than put more money into the cancers that mostly effect men and have a much higher death rate(the others listed that weren’t on the women’s most deadly cancers) If I had a set budget for each demographic I’d be putting money into the most deadly things for each demographic. Prostate cancer versus pancreas cancer are extremely different deadly wise. Pancrease cancer is something more men deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:51 PM
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What no I’m saying men’s sports are doing better because more people are buying tickets. I think a lot of how much improvement they are able to make is based around donations(charities wise), and purchases(sports wise) - and that’s okay! But yea knowing you’re talking about federal funding that doesn’t apply anymore^ so ignore that. Also read what I added to the edit as I explained why it might feel like a big difference but the total is similar just how it’s split up(as y’all have like 2 other …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:47 PM
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And there’s funding differences between sports as well. Isn’t your links literally pulled from online?? Plus I showed you above where I got that information that, it was for women the second most deadly. So it pretty serious for women. That’s why it matters so much because for women it’s highly dangerous. With that being the second highest killing for that demographic it does make sense they put more money into it. Men have a lot more cancers they are prone to, so the funds are more spread out I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:34 PM
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When I checked online is showed it was second 🤷🏼‍♀️ Nonetheless doesn’t change the fact that it’s more deadly. If you have a problem with the donations then start a campaign or start donating yourself. People donate out of charity and what they feel passionate about, they have a right to donate to wherever they want. Just like people have the right to go to sporting events of certain genders simply because they like it more, they want to put their money there. It’s not sexist, it’s literally jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:29 PM
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To be fair breast cancer is the second highest killing cancer, following only to lung cancer. So it makes sense it needs more funding as it is literally the second most deadly cancer to kill you. Both genders get it, though yes mostly women. But once again it requires a lot more money and treatment because of how aggressive and deadly it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:41 PM
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Virgin girls prefer virgin boys, or at least those with a very low body count(you can check the female answers on the “your dream partner” post I made. I asked to see who was virgins or not(men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:37 PM
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The age has nothing to do with it though. There’s lots of cougars too but that’s irrelevant if you’re rejected your rejected. The person’s age who rejected you doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:35 PM
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You should just be in an open-relationship. That way no one gets hurt or mad. Cheating destroys lives, instead just be in an open relationship or a polygamous relationship! Perfect compromise, since most people who want to be in a relationship are there for monogamy, and they will leave you if you lied/cheated on them. So open or poly relationships for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:32 PM
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While overall I agree, and I think you wrote your post out really well! I just wanted to point these out: Men are the ones who name call other guys for crying or other sad emotions(p*ssy, “you (insert) like a girl”, toughen up, sissy). Men were the ones hating on body positivity the most, now they want to be apart of it? They made it clear it was dumb and shouldn’t exist and didn’t want that stuff around them, so the body post it ivory movement stayed and catered to those who wanted it. If y’all…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:25 PM
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When did I say I was or wasn’t one?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:11 PM
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Yes^ I maybe misunderstood what you’re original comment was. I thought you were saying “there are no baddies at all on this sub”. Now I realize you were just saying OP isn’t a baddie. Hopefully you get where I got confused - irrelevant to OP just saying baddies are here too! Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:51 AM
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Maybe just say her, cause there’s definitely some baddies in here! I was just advocating for the baddies, nothing to do with if she’s right or wrong. Just that baddies exist in all corners of the internet hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:47 AM
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He was saying that “real bad bitches that can get their ideal man” wouldn’t be on this sub. I was saying I disagree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:42 AM
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I gotta disagree^ I come here to enjoy the debating part. I don’t see any reason why someone’s attractiveness level controls their interests or curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:32 AM
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Dating** sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:17 PM
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See I thought that too but after looking at the replies from women who are virgins who commented on this post, they seem to want a guy who is a virgin too! Naturally experienced girls want experienced guys usually, but virgins seem to want virgins!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:17 PM
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Okay it can look like a top hat only if we get to cut it with a long sword - a non-negotiable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:16 PM
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While I do think that’s true^ and really accurately spoken. I will say for ME, I just end up saying everyone I start sleeping with haha. Every single one! But yea definitely looking at exs can give you an idea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:11 PM
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It was Kevin ally for guys but then I opened it up to women also, but unfortunately I can’t change the flair anymore!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:09 PM
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This is solely based on looks, since this is DREAM person of course you’d have perfectly matching personalities that only get along - which isn’t reality so we also can be out of reality by choosing perfect looks for our tastes as well. Als btw that’s so sad it ended up that way with you and her! Can you tell me more about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:08 PM
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You get to be picky af rn! Give us more!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:06 PM
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“Sky daddy” was a hilarious way to write that btw😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:06 PM
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Well there’s lots of girls like that(lots ≠ majority), but they are usually swiped up real fast is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:05 PM
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Interesting! Thanks for responding :))
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:04 PM
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I will say based on the replies this seems to very! Picking someone who you find to be most attractive tube doesn’t mean you don’t find other variations, not attractive. Just simply that with all these features it’s like “woah mega hot!”. So come and join us with your answer!! :p
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:03 PM
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You should get super hot and start going to places where rich women frequent, and as long as you’re comfortable going older in age, being a house husband might be more achievable than you think!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:02 PM
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I’ve been asking everyone this who put down virgin, are you also a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:58 PM
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Wow! Careful saying that around here or else you might get swarmed by a bunch of jealous men hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:52 AM
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What race are you though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:51 AM
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I’m loving the new trend of saying “me-sexual” that need to be our new thing in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:50 AM
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Are you a virgin? I’ve been asking everyone who chooses to pick virgin this question:))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:47 AM
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Seems like I fit really close to what you’re looking for!~
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:46 AM
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Are you also a virgin?(I’ve been asking everyone this question who put down virgin)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:12 AM
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That’s achievable! Don’t stress it’ll happen as long as you put yourself in situations where it can! Say art classes, museums, art shows, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:43 AM
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Just once - But at the same time don’t we all start off as strangers? How long before they know someone does it make them not strangers and then acceptable for you? Btw I’m not hating or about to counter reply against your opinion, I’m just curious and trying to know what you mean is all :))
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:42 AM
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Just once or does it have to be a few times?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:38 AM
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I hear dark triad a lot, is that a combination of facial features? Can you link that look? Or any studies/information about that? Edit: And yes makes sense! Having someone to let you into more social situations where you can meet more people is super important and awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:31 AM
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Those are all fair points and good ones! Thanks for explaining it as much as you could!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:19 AM
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I mean in that case fair enough, as long as you aren’t holding back on us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:16 AM
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Are you in the 6 figure range?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:08 AM
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The question isn’t about standards! It’s about DREAM person, so give us all more detail than that! You get to be as picky as you want! That’s what we’ve all been doing(most of us). It’s encouraged to be picky because it’s finally the correct time to be!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:03 AM
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Hey I mean I’ve made a streak about asking every single person who said they wanted a virgin if they are one(so far every single one said yes). Outside of that part of curiosity(not judgement just being nosey), everything else is dream person so it can be as outlandish as you want judgment free ✨ Are you a guy or girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:42 AM
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Oh my. While that totally makes sense, just remember that they are poopy people who can dye their hair or shave their heads and they will still be poppy people. Their choice of hair color in the moment has no play or power over your life! Take that power back!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:36 AM
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Thank you for not taking my questions in a offensive way! Could you send me some random person online who you would consider a 4 or 5 so I can grasp what we both consider 4 or 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:35 AM
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Booo you suck(😂💖) also your dreams suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:02 AM
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While it’s a good thing you’re so easy going, how do you not end up with someone that can provide those things but also looks gross? Like with how little standards you have, how do you find your wife attractive?(that’s kinda phrased wrong, it sounds more harsh than I mean. Just know it’s a genuine question and not anything harsh or mean)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:01 AM
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The average male height I mean is 5’9(in the US) the average female height(in the US) is 5’4! Outta curiosity how does having “Chad”(I still don’t really know what that means tbh) friends help the guy who is struggling? D wouldn’t the good looking person kinda attract all the girls and leave none for everyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:57 AM
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100%^ we’re on the same page just made a circle in the start heading in different directions but once again it’s a circle and we met back up being like “oh yes that’s what I think, I just explained this part of it while you explained that part of it” haha. So yes our shared opinion is superior hehehehehe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:55 AM
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Definitely^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:53 AM
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Well it’s more like a lot of your answers were like “I’ll take what I can get”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:52 AM
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Your height is very average so don’t call yourself small! Think of what all the dudes who are shorter than you will feel! You are almost average!(5’9)!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:50 AM
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That makes sense and I can 100% see where you’re coming from so I won’t knock it or counter it. Tbh I would want that as the female too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:48 AM
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I’m just surprised is all! And of course this is dream woman so you get to put down whatever you want! May I ask you what attracts you to taller women? It’s just such a bit off the norm(no hate though!) reply that I’m really curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:46 AM
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I did spill mine about women in another reply! If you can’t find it in a few minutes or want me to say what my male one is, lmk!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:44 AM
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Your height range! Idk how tall you are, but most guys pick women who are shorter than them(and you went up to 6’3)! Edit: How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:42 AM
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That’s like cinky hair I wanna say Edit: But I got you! I thought you were hating on all curly hair example 2 3 4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:36 AM
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May I ask your personal situation? Feel free to DM me if you don’t wanna post it. I’m just a very curious and nosey person hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:35 AM
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How tall are you? Curious because your max height for a woman is pretty tall!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:30 AM
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Well yes, I agree. I’m asking this question because everyone would overall say the same things when it comes to what person they wanna marry or date which isn’t any fun. So the reason I’m asking souly looks based question is because I know I will get a very diverse answer group and that’s what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:29 AM
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I gotta disagree because the girl whose only been with 1 man will only know what works for 1 man, if you say “that doesn’t feel good” she wouldn’t know what else to do without having to be taught. But the girl with more experiences with different men already knows if one thing doesn’t work on a guy, then to try the next thing - and so on. She knows serval different ways doing the same task to please someone. This is relating to first few times hooking up with someone ^ Of course if you say she h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:27 AM
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Well since this is dream girl of course she’d be nice to you regardless of her height so you don’t have to go based on past experiences- just what you prefer! Also I’m sorry anyone was ever mean or not welcoming to you! Some people suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:23 AM
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“Tooth paste and orange juice” 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:22 AM
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Ooo I like that quote, did you make that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:21 AM
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I asked this fir everyone who put 0 for question 7 & 8, are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:18 AM
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Boo!! You’re no fun for describing your wife!(unless she stalks/checks your Reddit then perfect answer good sir!) But if not then actually answer and get as creative/picky as you want!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:16 AM
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You gotta give me more brotha!! You get to be picky af rn! Of course your dream girl you’re gonna connect with - so customize her!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:15 AM
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You gotta send me studies on this 😭 Edit: And send a link to what in the world a meaty p*say looks like - or give me sub names
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:12 AM
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I’m not disagreeing with you at all! I just wanted more specifics, because your causal and my causal are probably different(as is everyone’s).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:11 AM
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Does wavy hair = curly hair to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:05 AM
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What’s wrong with blondies? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:04 AM
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How tall are you? And gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:03 AM
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I’ve been asking this of everyone who puts a 0 for 7 & 8, are you also a virgin? Edit: Also what is Volcel(your flair)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:01 AM
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Don’t forget we’re doing DREAM husband/wife, in reality every single one of these comments would accept differences. This post and the comments are all about being as picky as you can be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:00 AM
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Gimme better than that! You’re allowed and actually SUPPOSED to be picky af rn!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:51 AM
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You get to be picky af rn! Come on give me more than that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:46 AM
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Now y’all have to be a couple - I don’t make the rules haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:46 AM
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I mean hopefully no one will know how attractive the guy was. At least I’ve never ever been asked by any male to show my exs. Is that something you’re interested in seeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:45 AM
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I was originally asking men but then decided to ask anyone who wanted to answer :)) Unfortunately I can’t change the flair anymore after it’s been posted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:36 AM
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That’s curvy!! But like healthy weight curvy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:34 AM
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Nonetheless I’ve heard quite a few people say voluptuous, which to me seems like something between overweight and obese. Could you link a photo?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:28 AM
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Could you link me to what a zaftig build is? I’ve never heard of that Edit: also this is your DREAM husband/wife, you gotta be more specific than that! This is the time when it’s encouraged to be as picky as you want!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:25 AM
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Tried it - it does work but it doesn’t let you make a custom one like yours. I gotta chose between set ones :(( Edit: nvm you can edit those preset ones and write what you want! Thank you sm!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:18 AM
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Considering that only 2% of the population has them it’s not surprising that you didn’t know until now!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:17 AM
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I’ve been asking this of everyone who chose 0 for 7 & 8, are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:16 AM
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Ahh, makes sense! Didn’t know! May I ask who you chose to be your wife(asked on the questions above)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:15 AM
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How did you get the thingi under your name? I want one Also love yours😂💖 hopefully I’m not one of the “screw you” people😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:56 PM
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Yess! Look at my posts! It’s a pic of my eye! Central, heterochromia twins!(though mine is very minor) Edit: Also a southern girly! Dad was born and raised down south! Mom is Eastern European and immigrated here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:54 PM
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I know, I know >.< But making some jokes hehehe Thanks for answering my questions and joining my discussion btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:52 PM
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I just didn’t know what those meant! Thank you for telling me! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:42 PM
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Ahh, that one is photoshopped but I definitely got the idea! Thank you! Yes Amber makes a bunch more sense 😂 unless you’ve known a secret cat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:41 PM
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Do you never want to spend your life with someone?(cause the person you want to not let go of is the one I’m asking for a description of. Dream as like if it became real you’d never let go)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:40 PM
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Yay! Thank you! Note to self: peer pressuring works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:38 PM
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Of course they’d have the same hobbies as you as well! Are you a virgin?(If you don’t want to answer you don’t have to, so far Everyone I have asked, has answered). You’re just so accepting I find it hard to believe you’re not one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:36 PM
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I didn’t include any personality questions on here because everyone would overall have the same answers, I wanted to explore questions and answers where people would give diverse answers :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:35 PM
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That’s your dream girl? Like you want that for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:32 PM
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Green is green! . Hazel is Hazel but tbh more like a light brown sometimes with hints of green . But green eyes only have green - they are nature!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:31 PM
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Staaahhppp you’re last sentence wiped me out😂😂 After I finally finished laughing - I wanted to say that you’re supposed to be picky af rn. I mean this is one of those rare af times where you’re allowed to express impossible standards. Imagine if Adriana Lima was into you, or Margot Robbie and she seen that you would take basically anyone?! Noo!! You have to be picky right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:28 PM
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Hai! I’m here to tell you, and encourage you to be picky af rn! Come on! Give us all more than that!! I want you to be hella picky rn! It’s a DREAM partner for a reason! You listed a bunch of personality type things, of course your dream wife/husband would be the perfect personality so right now you just gotta customize their looks! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:22 PM
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Are you male or female? I’m assuming female but just wanna double check!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:20 PM
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To respond to what you said at first^ Yes, you get to be as picky as you want! It’s a dream person! I encourage super specific! How tall are you, outta curiosity Are you a virgin?(I’ve been asking everyone who puts 0 this question)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:17 PM
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What is a TERF and SWERF?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:13 PM
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That kinda goes into personality and I wanted to make a looks based post(+ a couple physical things like jobs and how many ppl they physically dated/slept with). If I was doing a super in detail post I would 100% add in a BUNCHHHH of personality traits and questions. You gotta answer the other physical questions too!(if you want but I’m “peer pressuring you to” ~)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:09 PM
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I originally made the question for straight males, but then after a few replies of other genders I ended up opening it to everyone(but I can’t change the flair anymore unfortunately). So absolutely everyone is welcome! And thank you for responding!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:06 PM
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Translation for US ppl on the heights: 170cm is 5’6.9 - so basically 5’7(you’d say 5’7 if asked). 180cm is 5’10.8(so basically 5’11). Her ideal of 188cm is 6’2 round. Outside of that my genuine reply to you: I’m a she! :)) and I seen you give yourself some hate - no no this is all about DREAM. I’ve gotten replies of the “instagram build”(aka photoshop) so you speak your dreams too! Ooo that’s smart^ 10: The porn thing is so true!! That’s such a big ick - it’s like just have sex with me 24/7. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:04 PM
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I said partner because this question is for men or women :)) Also you didn’t answer any of the questions! The questions are above! :)) For example the first question is what hair color do you want him to have? We’re talking about things only looks wise, because personality traits… well everyone would have almost the same answer so it wouldn’t be any fun or diversity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:54 PM
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So since this is your dream girl she would never ever leave you(unless that’s your dream😂), so rewrite your answers! You get to be as picky as you want - ENCOURAGED TO BE PICKY actually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:51 PM
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You like hazel and you like blue, but not green?! That’s the perfect t mix of the two! Also only 2% of the population has green eyes so it’s rare~
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:49 PM
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What is a tankie?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:47 PM
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Wow! May I DM you for some advice about achieving that wealth status?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:39 PM
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You are a personality attracted person! You like people who make you laugh and smile and share the same thing that women feel towards it. If someone makes them laugh and smile women are all over that - you the same and can relate! Take this as a major win because everyone who is looks attracted, one day they’ll get old with their SO and have issues. But personality attracted people will always feel that love!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:38 PM
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I mean “duh” is a lil mean I didn’t know >.< And overall I 100% agree with what you said but I will say providing for someone and making enough to give them all their needs is pretty expensive. I mean heck kids are expensive- let alone an adult haha. So yea I’m agreeing just saying that they are expensive!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:36 PM
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I did answer in another post reply what my ideal woman is! If you can’t find it after searching for 1-2 minutes respond back to this post and I’ll find it and copy-paste it to you! :)) Edit: I am no/pan. When it comes to males I haven’t thought about it or replied to it yet. I like dark hair though am open to anything. Taller than me(that’s not a lot to ask for considering I’m 5’4 1/2). I can respond to more once you reply back and lmk if you want me answering to make or female version!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:33 PM
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Well you get to make your dream girl surely you’re attracted to some features more than others! You’re allowed to be picky af rn!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:24 PM
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Are you sure you know all the factors of being Muslim? Your expected to provide and gift your wife everything and everything so long as she is respectful/good. Wives are hella pricey in Muslim culture
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:23 PM
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I was almost your dream girl but I’m 5’4 1/2 haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:21 PM
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Are you sure it’s not because of her personality and the fact that she’s funny? I feel like you’re a personality attracted person :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:20 PM
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How old is your wife? What kind of Asian is she? (If you’re comfortable sharing)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:19 PM
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The fact that you added “as I can afford” makes me have so much respect for you. Yessss same :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:18 PM
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For number 4 you have to send me a picture! I can’t imagine that. Also relating to number 4, to know if your son will have a big dick you gotta look at her dad/brothers. It isn’t related to her pussy size. I have always been told I have the smallest/tightest pussy by every man I’ve slept with outta all their sexual partners, but my dad has an 8 inch dick(I’m really close to my family so we share anything and everything). So I will say pussy size does not determine dick size of the next generatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:17 PM
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Oh yes I ended up making an edit that it was open for everyone :)) I couldn’t change the post flair after it was posted so of course you’re welcome to post a reply! Edit: You said orthodox, like Russian orthodox? :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:12 PM
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Makes sense! Just wanted to ask because whenever someone’s says 0 I’m always curious if they are one too :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:05 PM
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I agree!^ But sometimes even if someone has a low body count and wants a virgin - the only thing that irks me is when they expect a virgin to act like a p*rnstar. It doesn’t matter how many times they have sex with you, over the course of how many years - they will never act like that because they don’t have the experience of hundreds of men(like p-stars). A girl whose had 5 partners will know much more how to please a man than someone whose only had 1 let alone 0 to learn from
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:05 PM
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You gotta give me better detail than that! I think X number could be considered a slut at 16, but the same number at 30 would be considered average. So you definitely gotta give more detail
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:02 PM
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How many kids do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:22 PM
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Hahaha no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:20 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:18 PM
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This is dream girl, come on!! Your dream girl can’t be close to everyone! You’re allowed to be as picky as you want right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:18 PM
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I didn’t even know that existed?! Can you link me an online photo please? I’m having a hard time imagining it, and as I’ve never seen it irl I wouldn’t know which are photoshopped or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:18 PM
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Makes sense! I only ask because I’m curious if the person who puts 0 is also one. :))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:17 PM
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Are you also a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:08 PM
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What is a slut to you? And how much younger is younger? Like how many years younger do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:06 PM
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Oop didn’t even notice!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:13 PM
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“Any as long as it’s natural” Natural colored? What if her natural hair color is say brown but she dyes it another natural color say Red/Blonde/black?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:12 PM
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“Me-sexual” imma steal that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:08 PM
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Are you under 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:04 PM
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Are you a virgin also?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:03 PM
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Yea when it comes to personality it gets way too detailed and everyone would be saying the same stuff pretty much so I wanted to explore the different answers on looks and see how wide of a range there is!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:51 PM
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“I am fat phobic” Idk why but that made me laugh at out, like the self awareness is funny😂 it reminds me of when this black guy goes down to the most racist town and interviews people and they all openly say “I am racist”. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:47 PM
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Ahh I see! Thank you for explaining! May I ask what you look like? Race, height, weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:43 PM
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To the last part of what you said - I wanted someone in the normal BMI range so healthy! When it comes to an SO l, I don’t want to feel like I’m having to teach them things. I’d much rather have her teaching me things - I like to be the sweeter and more innocent one and I want them to be attracted to that part of me. Plus I need someone who will encourage me to explore more things and get a little dirty. And yes debates are fun! I just wanted to clarify no legit fighting and to specifically they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:42 PM
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What does BBW mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:37 PM
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Yellow??? You mean hazel? 0-0
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:37 PM
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Hahaha that song was stuck in my head as I was typing this out too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:35 PM
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I’ll do a girl :D Blonde or black hair I love my light colored eye girls so anything light. Green, blue, gray, aqua, etc Doesn’t matter Normal bmi range - so nothing underweight, on the far end of overweight, or obese Doesn’t matter Doesn’t matter Minimum of 2 Minimum of 2 Preferably none but anything can be fine as long as they don’t force it on me or it impacts our life together drastically We’ll since I’m a girl building a girl, anything but straight haha Anything but younger than me, and max…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:34 PM
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Me picking my dream girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:22 PM
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Thanks for your input! Regarding the last question I’m assuming you want someone who leans the same way politically but would it bother you if they didn’t care about politics? Edit: And this is your perfect partner your allowed to be super picky with your answers!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:16 PM
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If only there was a way to communicate this to them to where they’d understand. I know it’ll have to be said softly so they don’t think it’s a personal attack but instead is coming from a genuine place of wanting to help them improve(and/or solve their issue/struggles). I’ve been trying to communicate that of course very softly so they understand, and it’s been very split on how people receive it(of course it’s said nicely). I will say the ones who do end up realizing it or even just have a desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:28 AM
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Adriana Lima is a VS(Victoria Secret) super model!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:22 PM
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Adriana Lima is a Victoria secret super model… the Brazilian model
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:22 PM
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It does the polar opposite and they don’t even realize it is what’s sad 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:21 PM
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Once again you can’t find any and now you’re trying so desperately to make some kind of argument but you’re not able to. Once again SHOW ME. Also listen to your logic the person who is that gender according to you can’t speak about it, but someone who isn’t even that gender can. Unless you say that women know men better than men know men - then it makes zero sense to say that men know women better than women know women. But if I was to say following your own logic that women know men better than…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:20 PM
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Well they are going to attract low quality women. I’m assuming a guy wouldn’t want to date or be involved with a girl who lets herself get used and stomped on by even the lowest of lowest men. Tbh I think that should mean doing the opposite - because I would assume ppl want to attract the best quality they can. Being either of those two kinds of guys will not bring you anyone who is high quality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:23 AM
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With the bad boys 100% But unless they are a low value girl, I can’t imagine any girl who is worth something trying to save an abuser(the bad guy in this case).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:02 AM
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Being here really helped me realize that. I thought this sub would be a real debate group, ya know roughly 50-50 on each side then some middle sitters. But this is like 90% guys and they claim to know women well but are also all alone? And when a woman is trying to help them out with some tips to literally help the guy who is complaint out, they don’t want it. Wanting to be alone is valid, but that takes away your right to complain if you’re not even willing to listen to the people you’re trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:57 AM
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Bad guys are in legit bad guys, not bad boys(fun motorcycle dudes). He meant bad guys like abusive(verbally, physically, financially, any situation that would make anyone feel unsafe). Some people have gotten confused I should have worded this better!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:52 AM
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No the foundation is an exaggeration - which means not reality or the stretching of reality. I said it before twice! :)) I mean unless y’all really think I have a chance Adriana Lima, in that case my pan ass is heading outtttt. If you dare say “but you said you were straight in that message” BECAUSE ITS AN EXAGGERATION - literally things that are not reality. Adriana Lima ain’t coming into my house, I’m not straight, and a person can’t switch their sexuality on and off. That’s literally what mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:49 AM
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Well as someone who is a woman - I can at least speak about my own gender. But if you’re not even the same gender as the one you’re claiming to know more about THEN THE PPL WHO QUALIFY as apart of that group is ridiculous. I’ll challenge you to the same thing - find me a PEER REVIEWED STUDY(that means it’s been fact checked by hundreds of scientists, all the data has been checked and proven to be unbiased) some person who has a degree and writes their opinion does not in any way qualify as peer …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:34 AM
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Yes that qualifies under protective which is what I was saying that women want!(that you also agree with he) He was saying unsafe like to her(emotionally, physically, financially, etc) It was ridiculous that he thought women want to be hurt by their SO. You have the right idea - women want to be protected by their SO!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:26 AM
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Well same about America haha, nonetheless chase that bag and get the girl of your dreams one way or another! You can do it! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:31 AM
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Haha! You made me giggle :)) thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:51 AM
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So we agree! Attractive women like stability(the money thing, and there’s no shame in that), and men like attractive women(there’s no shame in that either). Just different driving factors! So don’t give up, whichever path you think best fits you Mr.Macho or below average dude - take that path. You can’t go wrong with being a masculine provider! The harder you work the more attractive women you’ll have access to also!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:50 AM
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How about this. Show me 1 PEER REVIEWED(if you don’t know what that is, look it up. It is the standard that prevents some random from writing up articles, it allows other professionals to review their work and critique it until it’s perfectly factual.) So it MUST BE PEER REVIEWED(which means it actually has weight), where it says that men know what women want more than women(literally the people who experience desire but whatever). Just 1 peer reviewed since there’s so much data. Peer reviewed m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:47 AM
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That’s why we did the poll! And asked both genders to chose between someone who is more easier on the eyes but doesn’t have the best personality versus a guy who is average maybe below average but does(and the genders were reversed so the guys could answer to). I don’t think you understood my post - but that’s okay other comments might help you clarify(I’ve explained it so many times today that I physically can’t again - no hate towards you). Being 100% honest if a guy is loyal, and has a good e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:29 AM
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Women know what women want when it comes to dating because we are the ones who chose who we want to date! There’s a reason guys can’t figure out why they get rejected or don’t get all the girls - because y’all know know what attracts women as much as the people who are actually feeling the legit attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:05 AM
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It’s an exaggeration to display a point + a touch of humor, come on! :// no one here actually took that seriously or in any kind of way other than as an obvious exaggeration with a touch a humor for the sake of making things more light hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:04 AM
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No no! I don’t know this person at all! He was just some guy on this sub Reddit and we went back and forth until I said “screw it, let’s find out” and started this poll. Edit: oh wait are you asking about the Redditor or the twins scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:02 AM
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Well something had to be different about them in order for someone to pick them. If it’s the one where one guy is photoshopped the complete opposite of what is considered universally attractive, the middle was just a meh normal dude, then the last one they made look all dark and grumpy but did actually move the features into what is considered the ideal placement unlike the other ones did - if it is that one then yea because the other options suck. And I mean the guy who had his features adjuste…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:29 AM
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Right that has to do with looks not personality. I can be into the dead eyes lion doesn’t mean I want someone whose dying. How someone looks and how they act are so so different and don’t relate to each other at all. Those looks make someone more intriguing and makes you curious - but the second that their personality is trash… no self respecting person regardless of gender is going to stick around. I mean sure maybe some low value people will feel the need to suck up, and in that sense yea you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:47 AM
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You seem to be too! Let’s do the spider man meme and point at each other 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:39 AM
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Well a lot of that has to do with baby positioning, placenta stuff, and a whole other little list that does effect baby. I’m not advocating for dead babies either hold on! Haha I will say, my step mom had my sister at 36(first kid), while everything was all good and fine(blah blah doesn’t matter that’s just her experience) - I DO want to tell you about some cool new tech that they have! So when the baby is still super super little(and nothing more than just some cells(like literally nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:36 AM
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Miscarriages are completely unrelated to pregnancy. Pretty much every woman whose ever tried for a baby has had one. I sent you the data to show the risk difference between the years. Like I said 40 and up, there is a significant difference in complications. But under 38 there is almost no difference about health risks(extremely minor different that is negligible). But yes at 40+ there is a big increase in risks. The data does a great job comparing the age groups! And yes you shouldn’t just star…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:28 AM
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I think you’ll find it interesting! chart of age groups and risk This is also coming from someone who use to be the BIGGEST hater - on anyone over 35 who was having their first kid. But yea now I adjusted that age to 39-40 to die on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:05 AM
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I mean is that the standard that we’re calling normal now? Oooof, I’d say anything but normal. If the genders were reversed and I knew a guy tried to “fix” an abusive girl despite all that stuff you said, I would consider him low value because he clearly doesn’t respect himself(and the same if we switched the genders back to normal). They seem low value, maybe attractiveness wise they are normal but definitely not mentally/personality/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:59 AM
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I might have news for you about people with big families… Edit: I did want to say you’re overall point is still correct though- yes I’m not disagreeing with you about if there isn’t or is more risk. Of course there is, but the risk difference in your early 30s to mid 20s isn’t much. Same with 29 versus 36. Of course there is some slight increase but it’s so minor. One last edit: If it’s their FIRST in their 40s and they aren’t taking the egg and freezing it already, or maybe even taking it a ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:49 AM
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I understand what you’re saying but I’m unsure how that answers or explains why this man was telling women what they are attracted to - he clearly wasn’t even doing very well himself. If he knew so much why was here complaining 😂 I just found it funny because he was saying all women are attracted to men who make them feel unsafe(unsafe being verbally abusive, physical, cheater, gambling habit, financial abuse, any situation where a man(or any kind of person rather would make anyone feel unsafe))…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:48 AM
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As a woman, I don’t see anything wrong with it. As long as his past isn’t effecting our future(like there’s no secret love children, and they are sexually healthy), I don’t care what they did before. Assuming that there’s no extra risks involved and he’s just as likely to cheat as someone who wasn’t promiscuous- if that was the case and everything was the same odds just that he had a longer history, I don’t care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:29 AM
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Hold uppppp - do you think 50 shades is about abuse?! That whole thing is consensual - they both want to get kinky. Kinks and being a physical abuser(which I don’t think anyone who is being abused financially, verbally, physically, etc consents to that). 50 shades of grey is hot because the woman felt safe and comfortable enough to let that man have that “power” because she knows that if she wants to leave or stop - he will stop as he respects her. It’s all to do with sex not normal life! Edit: …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:20 AM
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I was just saying that it’s now possible, not that it’s good or bad just that we now have that available! Also someone can get their youngest eggs frozen and put them back in or hire someone younger to carry them. All in all is to say is that we have options, no personal opinions about choices or risks :)) Also 30s isn’t even in that range and is still perfectly healthy 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:16 AM
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That’s a great way of putting it! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:41 PM
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I’ll take a leap of faith and assume that with all those characteristics he perfectly qualifies as a low value man. A low value man is going to attract low value women or women who are extremely emotionally not stable. So to be honest unless you want the kind of girl that wants to “fix” those kinds of guys, I wouldn’t worry about how many women he attracts because I’m sure none of them are to any decent standard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:37 PM
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Genuinely bad guys versus bad boys are two very very different things. The bad boy stereotype wouldn’t hurt you or make you feel unsafe - they usually end up being a little possessive and very protector! The bad guys(like a horrible person is a bad guy) is just a poop for a human who offers nothing to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:27 PM
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Yessss accurate!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:14 PM
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How you treat and respect yourself is setting an example for other people on how they can treat and respect you. Most people when pushing boundaries aren’t obvious about it, it won’t be some dude just cheats. It’s going to be a slow and manipulative thing. He stops helping as much around the house, it doesn’t seem like a big deal and you start making excuses “maybe it’s been a bad day, bad week, bad month…” until it’s all on you. He’ll see that you never said or did anything about it. Next he’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:13 PM
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I wanted to clarify that when we are saying bad guys we mean legit bad guys(gambler, alcoholic, abusive, cheater, flight risk, etc - those who actually make one feel unsafe). Not bad boys(the motorcycle ones). Overall great addition thank you for contributing! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:08 PM
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I thought you were height self conscious and it was only after I researched all that information that I seen the second part of your first message. So you’re perfectly normal - you can date whenever you want! If it helps to put into perspective how normal you are(outside of the ppl who are your same height, 50% of the remaining men are taller than you, and 50% are shorter than you!)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:06 PM
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Was it also that 50 year old guy who refuses to acknowledge anything you say even if you’re explaining it really nicely and directly breaking down each point he says? He’s thankfully the only one I’ve met like that, but knowing his age he isn’t as capable of accepting new information and learning. Thankfully most of the guys here are opinionated but reasonable and actually make for good conversation! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:03 PM
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Not bad boys! We’re talking about bad guys! Not the cool dudes who ride around in motorcycles and have fun! Genuinely bad guys(cheaters, abusers, flight risk, gambler, etc). Sorry for not making it more clear! That’s the type of guy that one dude was trying to say that women wanted - and thankfully through votes I can the evidence to say women don’t want that. But also the guys even agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:01 PM
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I think it’s like every fad that’s ever happened. Remember when Kim K builds were the only ones men talked about and they kept expressing a huge butt? We’ll just like them, and the women you’re talking about - it’s the super loud minority. I’m sure you felt it was a little unfair for me to say “men” in that past sentence, making it seem like all men were responsible(and hence you). It’s just the minority just like with the height thing! No one can control that loud minority trend/fad setters As …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:57 PM
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I think you’re getting close to being able to call yourself Mr. International 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:51 PM
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I think the results will surprise you then! Read through the comments, most of them even explain their reasonings!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:39 PM
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Here I picked some places for you that have very attractive men and women. The heights below are the average heights for men in those countries. So you’re 5’9 Average heights for males per country: US - 5’9 Argentina - 5’8 1/2 Brazil - 5’7 Bulgaria - 5’9 China - 5’8 France - 5’9 India - 5’8 1/2 Italy - 5’9 1/2 Japan - 5’7 1/2 S Korea - 5’8 1/2 Philippines - 5’4 1/2 Russia - 5’9 1/2 Spain - 5’8 1/2 Ukraine - 5’9 UK - 5’9
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:37 PM
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I knew you were a perfectly normal height! Hehehe I called it! I’m about to make you feel better about yourself but first what countries do you find the women to be especially pretty at? Edit: Just now seen that you said you never had any issues with your height oops! Then don’t worry about it! It’s not your responsibility to worry about other people’s problems! Stop thinking about height(or anything) that doesn’t effect you negatively- the more you think about the more you’ll start to get self …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:29 PM
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I understand what you’re saying, I’m saying is that the type of woman that you want and are attracted to? That sounds like a very low value woman to me. You could easily get low value women, but I don’t think that’s what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:23 PM
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Are you sure it wasn’t just men in general? That seems much more accurate 😂 Also don’t listen to those losers. How tall are you(if that’s not weird to ask, I feel like you’re a perfectly normal height for some reason and just think you’re not tall enough)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:20 PM
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I’m assuming you feel lonely and unconsciously look and notice couples more easier. Kind of like how when you get a new car you start to feel like everyone has one, but really you just didn’t notice before. May I know what you consider to be a normal woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:17 PM
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As a female, I think you have a very strong theory that has incredible points! I would like to add just to help boost your point that seeing all your friends get married and have families also brings awareness to one’s own biological clock. Thankfully with modern medicine and science women are able to get pregnant much later in life but nonetheless watching your friends lives change and hit milestones is very lonely. What might be even worse is if she does have a group of friends still but they …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:14 PM
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Perfect answer! Thank you! May I ask how old you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:04 PM
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While I respect your opinion and you’re not the only one whose answered that(from both genders). You’re reasoning makes me very worried that you’re very vulnerable to being manipulated. Please be careful, the guy who isn’t able to make you feel safe - wont stop at mean comments. They’ll keep pushing to where it leads to cheating and maybe even physical abuse, etc! If you let someone step on you, why would they ever stop if they can keep getting away with more? Please be careful and please-please…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:54 PM
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By women who want to be single mothers and involved with criminals. Once again you can go down to low income areas and get a bunch of girls! But I don’t think your type is the kind to have a baby with a criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:46 PM
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You’ve confused me ;-; I’m so tired sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:45 PM
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If you want a high quality woman it’s going to be much different and much more difficult. Though if you’re looking for a at your own risk good time then yea! But I’d like to think you’re a fellow man of culture and want someone who isn’t easy. They definitely ain’t a single mom, or involved with crime, they’re going to be educated, have a good job/have goals/dreams, not “easy”. These are women. Those in that statistics are well hoes..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:43 PM
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Criminals are usually lower class individuals that resort to crime to try to get money(and the women they have access too isn’t going to be good quality). Once again poor, birth control (I’m in the US, if you’re outside the US idk about y’all) but it’s expensive here all the doctor’s appointments and buying it(once again these people are poor), then let’s say a baby does happen(they sure as heck ain’t gonna afford an abortion). I will say this: I see what you’re saying but I think you’re forgett…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:40 PM
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Well you can’t pick both(sorry, but I will note that, that was your first choice), you gotta pick one or neither. In this hypothetical situation your friend is setting you up so you gotta pick one. There’s no shame in any response I’ve gotten them all!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:33 PM
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Because they are sleazy people and clearly aren’t worried about birth control if they are in jail and doing that type of stuff. Correlation doesn’t mean causation. Take away even the jail aspect, lower class families have more kids than upper class families do. It’s just being poor tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:29 PM
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Oh wow I can’t even imagine the back pain from boobs that big - I thought I had it rough haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:26 PM
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This is about who gets to have the girl for the longest. Also this wasn’t about face shape or looks! I used the twins example to explain that - identical twins with different personalities. No one wants the one that’s horrible. I mean would you pick the horrible twin? This is besides looks just on a core personality level is what the guy is saying - that women apparently would chose outta the two twins the genuinely bad one(I mean thankfully we all know that’s wrong, and women have replied also …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:24 PM
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That’s awesome that your new group will blacklist horrible ppl! How old are(if that’s not personal)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:13 PM
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Ooo this is going to be a juicy read, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:10 PM
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Also third option they find someone who is exciting and makes them feel safe! Hahaha can you link me that post or tell me more details about it so I can try to find it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:06 PM
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What kind of people do you hang around?! 0.o No hate - said in a semi joking manner😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:04 PM
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One of my favorite sayings is “Red flags don’t look red when you’re wearing rose colored glasses”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:02 PM
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Well this is my little hypothetical question - don’t worry about those details just pick as if you found out through a friend both of these girls are into you and he’s showing you pictures of them(and telling you about each one).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 09:01 PM
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Interesting! Thank you for your input! I did want to make sure you know what I meant by crazy because you said “like the rest of us” - I don’t mean normal people “crazy”(I also don’t mean schizophrenic) I mean more like very poor emotional regulation abilities(maybe some bipolar disorder). Crazy like you don’t know what you’re coming home to, a happy wife or one who is screaming and going way too far because you forgot to take out the trash. Like crazy that smaller things cause bigger reactions …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:59 PM
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Whose side are you on? Because your study would actually back up my side, I think you might have gotten mixed around. I’m the one saying people and women want someone secure and safe - that guy was the one who said that women DON’T want that(and want someone unsafe and bad(like cheating, abusive, flight risk, anything that makes them actively feel unsafe))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:55 PM
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This!! This was so well said. Also I know David is made up, but I mean the way you described him and how he handles cases like a shark but also cares about his client. Wooooo! David would win me over 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:35 PM
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That’s horrible! It sounds like he already had an abuser’s grip on her by the time anyone noticed what he was doing and could warn her! :(( Hopefully they aren’t still together, if they are she’s still under his grip and doesn’t know how bad it is(an abuser’s grip is so brainwashing and they close off everyone around you and literally break you down till you feel worthless without them - which he was already doing.) That case is once she was already in the relationship - which no matter what gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:33 PM
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Definitely people can get tricked! Though what that guy was saying was that if you asked a female to chose between a bad guy and a nice protective guy, women would WANT and CHOOSE the bad guy. Which is quite ridiculous regardless of gender! No one wants to be in a bad relationship BY CHOICE! So yes I was trying to make since of the nonsense haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:23 PM
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Also welcome to the discussion! If you want to join via adding a vote- please state if your male or female, and choose between the 5/10 or the 9/10. Depending on your gender you are they have different personalities, the (for)female section is in the middle and the (for)male is towards the bottom! Also please include why you chose that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:20 PM
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I think you didn’t read all of my post! This dude(who most of the men here completely disagree with) - was saying that women will always chose the unsafe guy over the nice and safe guy. Which makes no sense. Let’s say there is a pair of twins and only their personality is different- there is no woman on this Earth who is going to chose the bad guy(bad GUY, not bad boy, bad guy he was implying is a cheater, abuser, flight risk, anything that makes women feel truly unsafe). He was implying that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:13 PM
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This isn’t about dating and courting! I actually agree with you on that(but until you acknowledge that the people who are legit those people know themselves better, I can’t give you the compliments and acknowledge the rest yet) That’s why I’m saying WOMEN know WOMEN better because we know what we want and like - I what we mean. As someone who is not a woman you can’t say you know women better than the actual woman. I’m not saying women know men better than themselves(because I don’t believe that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:03 PM
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Sad :((
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:57 PM
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Yes! You understand exactly what I was saying! And I agree 100%! Different people like different things regardless of gender. And no woman would chose to be with a man who makes her feel unsafe over a guy who makes her feel safe and protected. Period! Love it! :)) Also I love your honesty in the replies about picking between the two! How long would you stay with the 9/10 before the crazy became too much or you start to worry that the relationship is getting too serious? How old are you btw?(if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:56 PM
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I just wanted to say, I never said all men(I know you never accused me of saying or implying that but I just wanted to makes sure you know). Not the majority of men, not most men, not half of men, some men - as in few. So I’m no way am I attacking you or guys in general- this post was actually made in response to one ridiculous comment that I decided to make a vote out of it. Actually the majority of guys in this sub are super engaging and are willing to compromise and discuss! Though there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:54 PM
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Just because you don’t need to understand them doesn’t mean you don’t. I don’t need to know how to build houses but because I grew up on a construction site and with parents who always talked about it + exposure to it - I ended up learning how to do it wether I wanted to or not. I don’t need to know how to do a lot of things but from being around people who do or around that thing, I learned sometimes against my will. I just think you have to be fair. You can’t say men know women better without …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:40 PM
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While some points they make are valid - like it is easier for people with certain characteristics to attract attention, I think they forget it also applies to women. Everyone has that same struggle, but at the end of the day someone will like you and it comes down to your personality. What’s sad is that I feel like guys being in this group only make each other feel worse about themselves. Like if there was a group and I complained about my butt not being big enough- but let’s say it’s bigger tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:33 PM
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Could you DM a link or more details so I can check it out? :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:27 PM
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Also welcome to the discussion! If you want to join please state if your male or female, and choose between the 5/10 or the 9/10. Depending on your gender they have different personalities, the female section is towards the middle! Also please include why you chose that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:26 PM
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Ah I noticed you got confused(it’s happened to quite a lot of people, I should have been more clear) We are talking about bad guys(cheating, abuse, financial abuse, flight risk, anything that makes someone feel unsafe). NOT bad boys(the motorcycle riders who have fun and maybe do some “risky things”). That guy was saying women would choose (knowingly) the bad GUY over a nice and protective guy. That’s what lead me to this post. Unless you were some of the things above you definitely aren’t a bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:24 PM
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Also welcome to the discussion! If you want to join please state if your male or female, and choose between the 5/10 or the 9/10. Depending on your gender they have different personalities, the male section is towards the end! Also please include why you chose that one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:17 PM
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Ah, you’re implying that the guy is violent towards OTHER people. What that guy was saying that women would chose the guy who would hurt them(physically, emotionally, financially, whatever the case) OVER the guy that is nice and wants to protect them(assuming that the women knew both of these things about both guys ahead of time).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:16 PM
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What you’re saying is 100% true and usually how bad relationships happen! However this post is about how the guy was saying that women WANT and CHOOSE someone bad over the nice, protective guy. He was saying if women knew about both of them - he’s implying we want to be in bad relationships or situations. Like if there were twins - we’d actively go after the bad guy instead of the protector who makes us feel safe. Which is ridiculous and hence why I created this post! :)) Also welcome to the dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:14 PM
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Right this discussion is about bad guys(cheater, abuser, flight risk, just anything genuinely bad). I was saying “bad boy” to make sure you didn’t think we were talking about the motorcycle type ones - they are not apart of this discussion at all(a decent bit of ppl got confused too, don’t worry)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:11 PM
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A former form? Did I post it? Edit: Also you can go through and see how the women voted when asked this question if you want to see! Most women though would rather be with an uglier guy than one who isn’t loyal, or makes them feel unsafe. Once again don’t take my word, everyone has been stating their gender and choice(some even included why)! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:07 PM
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That doesn’t mean that they are bad men involved with them? Abortions have nothing to do with the quality of men. Some men don’t want their gf to have kids, some women don’t want kids rn, some women have had enough kids with their husband and they agree they don’t need more, some people can’t handle it financially right now, some people don’t want to put a pause on their career to have a family yet. The number of abortions has literally nothing to do with any of this discussion? People get an ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:06 PM
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Wow you went back to yourself a week prior to meeting her(let’s be real if you were a dick(yes you did earn that word😂) to that kinda woman she wouldn’t have dealt with it) - so the chances that you went back to being yourself + that made you also confident that she genuinely likes you + the whole list of your perfect woman(what color are her eyes - if they are green that’s also only 2% of the world, if they are blue that’s 20%) - nonetheless the odds of meeting her become even less likely. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:01 PM
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Just double checking I understand, you’re saying that women will chose a bad guy(not bad boy - that’s different!) over a guy who is nice and a protector?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:52 PM
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I agree a lot of people do safer around a guy like that! But unfortunately that’s not the type of guy he was talking about :(( That’s why I was in so much shock and had to do a poll to ask other women, and I added the same question for men too, for fun! Also welcome to the discussion! If you want to join please state if your male or female, and choose between the 5/10 or the 9/10. Depending on your gender they have different personalities, the male section is towards the bottom! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:50 PM
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It’s very sad when it’s the ladder, and it happens the opposite way too! I feel bad for all abuse victims. Also btw the guy was saying bad guy not bad boys - so he was saying women would rather be with a bad guy than a guy who is nice and protective! Which is ridiculous- regardless of gender! Also welcome to the discussion! If you want to join please state if your male or female, and choose between the 5/10 or the 9/10. Depending on your gender they have different personalities, the male section…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:48 PM
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I agree with this 100%! Hope it didn’t come across that I wasn’t - because that is 100% true. That’s why I decided to make up this super weird hypothetical situation of: A friend showing you pictures of them and telling you ahead of time about each(like their personalities and toxic traits) before you chose which one you want to go on a date with. Then after telling you about both and showing you them both, which would YOU pick to go on a date with? 100% people will be already under certain type…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:47 PM
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Bad guys not bad boys!! This dude was saying girls want a bad guy(risk of cheating, abuse, never feeling secure and safe) OVER a guy who makes them feel secure and safe. That’s why I made a post because that was just ridiculous and wanted other girls to vote to physically show that we would rather down grand looks wise than be with someone who makes us feel unsafe. I can see how the confusion happened - but bad guys is what we’re talking about! Also welcome to the discussion! If you want to join…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:43 PM
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Thanks for adding to the discussion! I did want to correct you that what I meant by bad guy(risk of cheating, abuse, feeling of unsafety) wasn’t bad boy(rides motorcycles). He was saying girls want a bad guy(the unsafe one) over the guy who is protective and feels safe. That’s what lead me down this rabbit hole because that’s just so wrong and opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:39 PM
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Women date more men than men which only have a sample size of one(themselves). So can I say that women know men better than men? Because it’s a two way street. Women also have female group friends who share experiences with each other and women really go into detail about emotions and thought processes with each other. About the unsafe guy towards other ppl relating to a pit bull. That’s not the type of bad guy this dude meant, he meant bad towards the women. The being bad or aggressive towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:28 PM
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You write very well! Welcome to the discussion! If you’d like to join, please state if your male or female and which one of the two partners you’d pick the 5/10 or the 9/10(their personalities are listed in the male or female section depending on which you are) :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:27 PM
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Well then you really don’t have a right to complain. I’m assuming your life reflects your attitude and stubbornness to literally see what WOMEN voted on which man they would pick. Because you tried to say that if a guy was hot and a bad guy they would still pick him. Well according to women they would pick the less attractive guy who made them feel safe. So through collecting data and calculating up the women’s replies and votes. You are just wrong. The men have been answering for themselves and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:25 PM
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Yea and this whole thing was to show that you are wrong about women - via asking the WOMEN what guy they would pick. All the men are actually perfectly sane and logical, I don’t know why you think you’re anything like them? They talk about their male experiences and the choices they would pick between the two. While the women vote which guy they would pick - and the votes are astonishingly overwhelmingly both genders choosing the 5/10. You said all blah blah because of looks they wouldn’t care -…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:22 PM
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While I hear you, what does any of that have to do with my post? This is about some men(not all, not most, not half, some - meaning very few) who I just had a discussion with. I don’t tell men what are attracted to or what they want, because I’m not a man(you aren’t doing that either rn). But this guy, was saying he knew what women wanted more than women and that’s why I started this poll! I wanted to ask the girls which kind of guy they would pick and why(and I ended up for fun asking the guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:20 PM
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The first part of your message rings very true! Though I will say women are just as guilty - though maybe just a smudge not as bad. Your second sentence about the possibility that women might not know what they want - I agree! But so does every gender, I think that’s a gender less experience. We all don’t know what we want right away - and yea taking the safe route a lot of people do(regardless of gender). The last sentence - no no! I’m not saying men are trying to say that! Most men have been g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:14 PM
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I get it, and lettme explain a little more. When you’re doing it based on race, gender, wealth, etc - that’s much more specific and it’s directed towards a very specific group of people. In that kinda case, you should definitely clarify that you aren’t making a statement that everyone of that specific sub group is this kinda way. To address you saying the humans and fingers/toes - that’s an example where you aren’t classifying just one group of people - it’s in our DNA that a normal healthy huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:06 PM
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You got me a little confused, I don’t quite understand what you’re saying(or trying to say). Apologies! I’ve been reading and replying for hours
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:52 PM
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“I honestly think these guys don’t see a difference in a girl feeling safe with me on a scary situation vs me making her feel unsafe” This was wonderfully said!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
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I wanted to clarify as this does seem to be misunderstood a couple other times. This post is not about bad boys(rides motorcycles)- it is about bad guys(cheaters, mean ppl, abusers, anyone who makes you feel unsafe)!! That’s why I posted about this because bad guys(or girls) who make you feel unsafe, just because they are cute doesn’t cancel those things out and I found it ridiculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:47 PM
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Wow thanks for such a detailed answer! I think we might have been using different definitions for dick and that’s what threw me off, I consider a dick to be well like how people use it in anger(like when someone is being really mean and kinda horrible). I see you meant less available- which is totallyyy different and is actually super effective in the start of getting to know someone! I love your reasonings for why you’d pick the 5/10(all are really well thought out, and follow perfectly great l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:45 PM
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Considering that currently all college degrees on every single level, including PHDs are being completed by more women than men. At a huge difference! No. Even if the roles were reversed and let’s say women scientists did that to the male brain. My answer would still be no. We know next to nothing about the human brain. That field is so shaky and constantly being changed and new information is coming out. Outside of just the structures and their overall functions and some processes within the br…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:37 PM
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Was he an assh*le to you? Because that’s different than if he was to her. Regardless of gender, some people don’t mind their SO being mean or snappy to others are long as they aren’t the same way to them. We can’t know what goes on behind closed doors that keep anyone of any gender around someone who we might think is mean. I personally know some dudes like that, and if your their gf or become a good friend they become giant teddy bears(same way with some girls!) some people put on acts to seem …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:32 PM
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So you think as a man you know women better? So with that logic I know men better then men know themselves? Cause it’s a two way street, we either know more about the other gender or our own. Addressing what you said, thank you for restating it. I gotcha now!(I’ve been replying to people for hourssss) and you know what? I agree! I agree because yea when you don’t know two people and the only way to judge them is based on looks, regardless of gender - you’re going to go with the one you’re more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:29 PM
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Ah gotcha! Then yes my reply earlier doesn’t relate - ignore it, I misunderstood! Apologies! I agree that we should we able to talk about things that are common - people, gender, race, anything! Just to be very careful to not categorize, as long as someone makes the distinction like “most, some, a decent bit” then follow up with what they want to say - I think that’s perfectly fair game. I agree with you, just with that tiny addition. About the bad boys comment - if that had to do with my post ^…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:20 PM
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I’ve been reading so much that I didn’t really process the first two paragraphs(sorry) - I just wanted to say about the last one yes!! If you want to diet, dress better, work out, no matter what gender you are - do it for yourself! Put your own value and worth into yourself and when you treat yourself good, others will notice! I think the last paragraph had an overall good message for anyone and everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:14 PM
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I love that effect and other proven psychology theories that have been peer reviewed and are made a major real movement of the brain! (I made it very specific so some bum doesn’t think some random website claiming to be a study with their fake theory qualifies as scientific research and the unbelievably high standard a theory needs to be, to be acknowledged.) So yes facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:11 PM
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You are very smart! You give such a detailed and great answer, as well as explained it very well! I love how you answered the first question- and yes very true. However I maybe should have been more specific to say that you would know all these characteristics of the girls ahead of time. It’s more like you have a friend whose telling you about each one and showing you pictures and trying to set you up on a date type of vibe. Though given if they both approached someone in the “wild”(either gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:06 PM
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It sounds very self centered to categorize people. Aren’t y’all the same ones who are saying “not all men” and are actively fighting against not being all put into the same category- yet right now you are actively doing that same behavior? Which one is it? Are we all individuals or are we looking at a certain group of people and claiming everyone is like that one group?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:00 PM
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If you just joined welcome to the discussion! Please state your gender(I’m assuming male but do it again anyways so other people know), and please answer my question about which partner you would pick between the 9/10 or 5/10(with the listed personality for each that was listed for the males). I mean if it worked for you that’s great! But also very interesting! Maybe you sold it off in a way that came across a little flirty and teasing, whatever way you did it, it worked! I just know other guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:59 PM
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I can’t really get behind generalizations, I think it’s really hard to categorize serval billions of people who all grew up with different values and morals into all wanting one thing. I don’t know what to say to those types of answers other than “you can’t generalize everyone like that” 😭 idk - I only know reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:55 PM
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This is sooo sweet! If only I was an undercover agent for your wife and I could show her how sweetly you just spoke about her - she’d feel so amazing knowing that even when her “back is turned” and she’ll never know what you say or do - you still think and talk about her in an amazing way. I genuinely hope I can find a partner who does true same. She’s one blessed lady! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:53 PM
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So doesn’t that support the opposite of what you said before? You’re saying nice attractive guys are usually in relationships, but also said guys who are sweet(that’s another form of nice imo - it’s all the same) don’t get laid as much? I mean maybe if your point was that girls wanna date those guys instead of hook up and leave, then yea I suppose they get into relationships easier because girls don’t wanna stop being around them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:50 PM
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Welcome to the discussion! Thank you for your input! May I ask why/what’s your reasoning? :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:47 PM
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Welcome to the discussion! :)) Please state if your a guy or girl and please answer my 9/10 or 5/10 question(with their personalities listed above depending on gender). To answer your first question(in my opinion) - I get what you’re saying but I would call that a correlation. Lettme explain - tall guys feel good about their height and hence have more confidence. With more confidence they approach more women, the more women you approach the more likely one will eventually like you. So while I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:46 PM
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To be fair I would say the average female is more attractive than the average male(this is coming from a straight girl - so naturally I have a bias attraction wise to men). So let’s say a good bit of the attractive guys are in a relationship(assumingely with the super attractive females) that still leaves loads of attractive females!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:36 PM
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How about this? You’re a complete internet stranger - so I feel comfortable doing this. If I dm you, will you ask any questions you want and I will give you 100% truth - ask any details you want. Anything, it’s not like this is going to effect me, maybe you can share some advice too! This doesn’t have to be a negative experience! All I ask is that you answer some small innocent questions in dms, in return(I’ll go first, don’t worry!) Would that interest you? I have nothing to hide, I just want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:34 PM
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But lots of people are sweet, I actually don’t know anyone whose been mean to me just to be mean? Regardless of attractiveness levels, do you think more attractive people aren’t sweet either? They are just as sweet but also have genetics in their favor. You gotta stand out! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:31 PM
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I think you’ve spent way too much time on the internet. Like way too much time. Get off these forums please, it’s not doing you any favors(I’m saying that kindly and not to belittle you). Why don’t you go out to a bar with some buddies and forget about life for a little bit? :)) Treat yourself! Have a bros night out!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:30 PM
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Yes you were, you literally would not accept a woman telling you about the woman’s experience and what women like. You would not accept anything else other than your own opinion- and when I explained you dipped out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:27 PM
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To be fair that kind of knowledge you can’t pay for😂! If it’s not too personal are you married/ever been? If yes how would you describe your SO/why did you pick them?(if you didn’t get married then pick your favorite ex or current partner)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:26 PM
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Absolutely this goes for both genders though! Everyone can fight me in the comments and I’m straight but if young Adriana Lima came into my house and she’s not as nice as someone else but still great - I’m full lesbian now for her 😂 However it’s once you find out that someone isn’t as good as you thought originally that matters. If she started acting crazy then I’d leave. No gender can tell what another human is hiding and choosing not to show when you’re first getting to know someone Also welco…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:24 PM
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They are saying what they are picking, no guys here have been saying what women want like you have. Who is “we”? Now that you explain yourself more you make a lot more sense, and you really had me acknowledge what you were saying. I will say “unpredictable, fun, exciting, spontaneous” are all good things? Why would you say that it belongs to bad men? Those characteristics I would consider part of a good man! If you mean bad man like how you said in the second half about making someone feel unsaf…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:21 PM
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Welcome to the discussion! Sate if you’re a boy or girl and chose between the two options and tell us why! As far as ex bashing goes, I definitely think that goes both ways - I mean if they are so compatible and well off then they probably wouldn’t be exs. So yes I do agree with you! But that goes both ways! If it brings you any hope at all, both genders talk great about the person they are with. And me personally(I can’t talk for other people) have always said nice things about my exs actually!…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:12 PM
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I will say some of the people here despite not even being around the irl - have succeeded to give me the warning signs of unsafe. I’m super other women know what I’m talking about. Nonetheless besides your point, this is hypothetical! Don’t stress about the details! Welcome to the discussion! State if your make or female, and based on that and the personality for the two choices and their attractiveness(all listed above for each gender!) join us and tell us which you would pick and why! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:09 PM
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Why do you think 9/10s are bad guys? I know plenty of attractive guys who are so much nicer than less attractive guys. How attractive you are irl doesn’t determine your personality. People can be all different attractiveness levels and their personality is completely individual(because we’re all different!). Of course the ones who are awesome girls or guys and also attractive get lots of attention! But this question is about if we took away that great personality but kept the looks and then gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:07 PM
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Not bad boy - bad guy, someone who DOES make you feel unsafe(like cheating, abuse, constantly mean). Bad guy!! If it was about a bad boy or player - yes what you’re saying is all good! But she Redditor was saying a bad guy(who makes you feel unsafe) over the guy who makes you feel safe - is what girls want!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:59 PM
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Welcome to the discussion! :)) Would you like to add which one you’d pick? Also add if your a guy or girl when you answer(if you want!) :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:59 PM
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I just asked the same question to the female who chose the unsafe guy! I was asking what kind of unsafe she meant(cheating risk unsafe, abusive unsafe, etc). So you might be thinking crazy but not actually crazy - I mean crazy like bipolar - but not like super bad bipolar but everyday is a new “is she fine or mad”. Even when you come back from work you might get yelled at or she might have dinner ready - but it never ends not like once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:58 PM
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I’m not arguing just wanting to pick your brain and learn about more about why you answered the 9/10 on the second question!(which to be fair you didn’t want to chose either at first). Looks fade with time, personality while the spark might not be as sparkly they will still be themselves over the course of years! Also that feeling of unsafe could be interpreted in many different ways, how did you interpret unsafe? It could be seen as relationship being unsafe(high risk of cheating), it could mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:56 PM
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It sounds like you’ve had bad experiences! No one is saying those bad experiences aren’t real or aren’t valid. Men also chose crazy girls too. Both sexs make bad partner choices but that’s the individual’s actions - that individual persons. Not everyone of one gender! We can agree to say that you’ve maybe had some not so great women in your life - I think we can agree on that, right? All I’m saying is because those certain few women(let’s say 10 or less) who gave you that impression because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:52 PM
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But that’s your experiences, and no one is going to tell you that your experiences didn’t happen or weren’t valid. But I will say being a butt will not make things any better - only worse. And once again that was your experience - I have no problem accepting and acknowledging that as long as you aren’t like “Mr. I know women so well but can’t get any” and say that women actively want someone who is bad! That was the part that was like “whaa” Also welcome to the discussion! Don’t forget to answer…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:46 PM
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Fair enough! As long as you aren’t picking both then I don’t see a problem with not choosing one of the two! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:43 PM
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Yess!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:42 PM
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And yes, it happens to both genders! I’m happy that you pointed that out. There is definitely some sweet dudes with crazy girls - but do I think guys WANT a crazy girl? Of course not. Same way either gender! So I’m assuming you’re sticking with your not as hot but she’s mine and will always be mine - not crazy girl choice :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:42 PM
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This is a valid point but he was so hell bent on thinking it was a universal fact and something that women actively want! I was like no! But alas he is a expert on women so there was no use /s Are you a guy or girl? And who would you pick the 5/10 or the 9/10(both with the conditions and personality as listed above).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:39 PM
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So I’m assuming you’re picking the 5/10 who is protective and makes you feel safe, despite the 9/10 being more attractive and “women want bad guys “ -according to that Redditor. Welcome to the discussion! :))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:36 PM
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Not what you have picked in the past, but would pick if you had to chose one between the two options:))
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:34 PM
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I definitely know at least 1 or 2 dudes who would pick the 9! But I genuinely don’t think any females would pick a man who makes them feel unsafe. I understand and get where you’re coming from with your top response but he was saying it as if women preferred bad men(unsafe) - and it was so ridiculous that I had to ask the guys and girls because I don’t think anyone would desire the bad unsafe one when there are good people who make you feel safe! It sounded funny! Thanks for your input and the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:32 PM
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Don’t forget to answer my question for the guys too! I’m curious what y’all will pick - as I’m sure women and men value different things(and that’s why no side can speak for the other). Would you chose a crazy girl who makes you feel unsafe but is a 9/10 or the girl who makes you feel safe and is nurturing but a 5/10? Edit: And thank you for your input and saying that!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:27 PM
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He’s saying that women want someone who is bad to them(makes them feel unsafe). I’m saying as a woman no we don’t - but he should know that because he clearly makes women feel unsafe and no one wants him now. He’s never been the guy who does make women feel safe, nor is he a woman so how would he know! He doesn’t because he’s only tried one thing and thinks because he tried it only one kind of way that therefore only his opinion is correct. He’s only done things one way!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:01 PM
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Are you a woman? Because I guarantee you as a woman, and every single woman who may or may not reply. We will all say we are attracted to protectors and those who make us feel safe. If it helps you understand think about cave man days! The dudes who fought off other guys from stealing or harming their girl, were rewarded. The ones who would fight off predators to protect their family. To our minds that’s a really good person to reproduce with or be with because we know they are stable, safe and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:44 PM
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Who are these women?? The average marriage no one is being abused or anything wild is going on - they are choosing husbands(same with wives) who make them feel safe and happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:12 PM
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Who is making me feel safe? Who made the 99% of sexual assault victims feel safe? You’re not making me feel safe - unless by safe you mean not attacking? Look dude I’m trying to help you out, and let you in on some secrets. Literally the secret to attract women - you can either accept it or continue on the path you’ve been trying .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:11 PM
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No one is sleeping with bad men! This post is about how women feel UNSAFE - no one is sleeping with someone who makes them feel unsafe! This is about assault and rape and why women are cautious! If you think being assaulted is choosing to sleep with them - that’s just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:09 PM
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We don’t have sex with them! That’s why it’s called assault and rape - it’s not consensual! What’s even worse is that when we try to pay those dudes no peace of mind groups of incels start to emerge! Whole group dedicated to sending women threats and saying horrible crimes they want to commit against her! They don’t even listen to women, when they try to defend themselves the incels don’t care. Even the worst men will listen to other men, that’s why we need y’all’s help! Once we solve the incel …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:02 PM
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Hahaha I’m sure there’s other lurkers but I don’t mind commenting because it’s not like something positive will ruin their day - and in exchange I get more knowledge to improve my decision making! :))
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 03:15 AM
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Ah I’m female and never even been married - I just like reading drama so I’m on divorce subs, parenting subs, and step - kid subs. Along with the obvious ones like AIT A and relationship advice. I usually just lurk. Or say something nice/ask questions :))
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 03:08 AM
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There’s online programs that will give you a certificate(Harvard for example has it and I think it’s 100-400 to earn a certificate, however the classes themselves are free so if it’s only knowledge your after you could do that!) And no you don’t have to apply to Harvard and go through the selection process- most Ivy schools offer this. Also the “sucking on my tit” comment made me laugh a lot hahaha. Why did she start saying stuff like that? What happened to change her?
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 05:35 PM
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I was just about to say what if your son or daughter asked you what they should do in your situation- but you beat me to it! Also your showing your kids a not toxic relationship is very important, don’t forget we take example/look for partners who are similar to our parents! Edit: Good job! Hope things go smoothly
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 05:31 PM
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Woah woah woah, yes something definitely changed her not only by her words being changed so much but to her also being physical?! Unless she was physical always? Either way, good for you for getting out. How long were you married/do you have any kids(how old)? I hope you learn to trust people again - and absolutely call the police or leave immediately if anyone ever touches you in a violent way again! Good on you for getting out of almost or already domestic violence situation!
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 05:17 PM
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Can you tell me her reaction? Also why’d you decide to do it on your son’s birthday?(no judgement there’s probably a good reason). Off topic: what masters degree are you getting?
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 05:13 PM
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Why didn’t she start the divorce process if she claimed she wanted to be divorced? Or did she just act that way but never say anything? Also congrats on improving your education! I hope you enjoy it. Also how about half or majority instead haha. Enjoy your freedom though!
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 04:59 PM
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May I ask the reason for divorce? I’m surprised someone changed like that, it seems like she was genuine in the start.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/23 04:56 PM
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Having a lawyer who believes you can win is one of the most important things! :)) Happy someone was giving you good energy even when you didn’t believe in yourself!
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 09:33 PM
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I’m assuming you started living together after marriage, which is when the problems started. If you could give general advice would you suggest something along the lines of “After dating for X amount of time, make sure you live together for at least a year before considering marriage.” Or would you think something else?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 04:22 PM
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How long did you two date? And did you get to live together for at least a year? Sorry if it seems like I’m being pushy on knowledge wise but you’re the perfect example/have experience with - exactly what I wanted to ask questions about! :))
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 03:14 PM
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I 100% agree, you literally described what I was trying to say but in more words! Also a side note/question: When in the dating phase of being with the woman you described as changing their mind all the time(you know what I mean) - was it obvious(but over looked) during the dating stage? Or was she hiding that until a few years into marriage? (I want to protect myself, and avoid things if possible is why I’m asking) thank you :))
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 10:36 PM
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I mean that’s okay if you don’t have any value in my word :)) I wrote so someone who will see it can take advice from it and not end up in the situation OP was in - and hopefully not in this sub if it can be helped. I’m looking out for the next and agreeing with OP! :))
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 08:30 PM
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That’s what I’m confused about too.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 08:27 PM
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As a female I agree^ me personally - I get annoyed when men can’t make decisions or function on their own and always need me to tell them what to do. Like jeez- I want a man who is exactly what you described - a man - takes the reigns(and of course always respectful if I disagree example:) “Steak dinner, wear the dress I like” Female: “I’ll definitely wear the dress you like but I don’t know if that steak place in particular has some thing pescatarian, do you have any other choices that you’re c…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 11:26 PM
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