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| 1 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlLet's say I see this cute girl and I approach her and stike up a conversation at the end I should leave without trying to ask her number, I disagree with you but alright. You're basically telling me to not take my shot lol | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlYeah but the purpose of approaching her is to ask her out, if that's the plan you need to obviously ask her out and get the number, if not what's the point of approaching her. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlIf you read the other replies one of the guys suggests me to go straight for the number. Also like I said I do try to make a conversation and then go for the number, obviously I'm trying to get the number otherwise I won't see that person ever again. I can handle a conversation and all, my issue is what to say when approaching them, introduce myself, compliment something she's wearing, ask her about something that's currently happening, or what, that's the issue. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlTrue man, appreciate all your time. But I think the approach method you're saying makes me sound a bit desperate doesn't it, like shouldn't I talk to a girl about something for a bit first like hey my name is, what are you studying or a small talk then ask her if she wants to hang out. That's how I did it the first weeks of school but with an excuse to start a conversation and that's how I got the number after. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlIt's stupid how a girl would go out out you based on your ig posts and all that shit, like see how your life is, etc. I didn't have an ig, I used to but deleted it years ago. I decided to make a new one, since in college is very important because of clubs and all dat, keeping up with that stuff, also my friends tell me to make one all the time so I was like sure. Now I barely got followers because I just made it. So that could also freak some girls out lol. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlOne of the things I need to overcome is fear of rejection. Like this happened a couple days ago. Saw a cute girl, made an excuse to start a conversation, we talked for quiet a bit and she was laughing and I felt she enjoyed speaking with me. I asked for her number but she told me to give it to her, I was like, sounds like a way to ditch me. She eventually texted me hours later, I was like okay cool, we texted all night and she kept sending hearts to my texts. Next day we trade pics as irl we did… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlWhy you think that? | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlI don't ask for their ig, I ask for their number, the thing is that since their number is connected to their ig, I get them as suggestions and can find their ig easily. But overall what's your advice on approaching girls, like what's your excuse, you just say hi and say your name or what. I see beautiful girls all the time, I'm getting over my approach anxiety and is getting easier, but again the problem is I don't know what to say as an excuse to talk to them. If I had a strategy on what to say… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:49 PM |
| 0 | My attempt to approach a girl at a bar gone wrongI know but that's not the issue, it was just that is it just better to approach girls that are alone, which are hard to find in clubs and bars? Like I said this girl was giving me signals, looking at me constantly, dancing close to me, then her friend told me to not flirt with her because she has a bf. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 06:08 PM |
| 13 | 100 approaches and still nothingYou forgot it can also be his looks. If OP only approached girls that are out of his league could also be a reason, if you say looks dont matter to women you're lying to yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 6 | 100 approaches and still nothingYou need to also realize OP may not be good looking. All that you mentioned is true, but keep in mind if OP actually is actually lets say, unattractive, could also be a reason. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?Oh yea | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?She said that we need to follow instructions and not go outside. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?Well, she recently told me this "hey can I tell you something, but don't take it the wrong way", I said sure, she then says "I miss you, I don't know, I just felt it", I ask her why would I take it the wrong way and she says "I don't want you to think something wrong or that I'm being too forward", I told her I miss her too and she said "OWWWW". Sometimes if I don't text her first the next day she texts me stuff like good morning or what am I doing and she tends to keep conversations going. I do… | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?Yeah I call her beautiful and stuff. We talk in the phone for hours sometimes. I just don't want her to lose interest and we can't meet up because of quarantine, so all that's left is texting. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?I got confused feelings but I think I could be overthinking. Like I text her and she replies 1 hour later all the time, I do the same and the reason I do it is because I don't want to be texting none stop so I can do other stuff. But there's times she's online and she doesn't reply and gets off. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Do women become more or less interested if you text them more/less?Can't set dates with quarantine. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Can a girl like you but not want to have a relationship with you?How am I suppose to bang her in a fking mall moron. I kissed her but am I suppose to undress her there, plus it was late we did a bunch of things at the place we hang out at then she had to go. Dont be an idiot lmfao. Not everyone fucks at the first date and I'm sure you have never. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Can a girl like you but not want to have a relationship with you?I understand she might only want sex. But at the same time if that's the her point then, why we should take forever to reply for us to see each other again if that's her goal. Disagree with you saying to forget her when I just went on a date with her and shes still down to go out again. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | She said she wants to go out but I’m not sure anymoreI need to go that store anyways that day so I might see her. I’m just gonna ask her directly if she wants to or not. I should get my answer. If she does the same shit again then I’ll move on. So I won’t keep asking her out, it will be the last time. Sounds good? If she says yes, but does the same thing of not answering and hooking me, then yeah, I’ll move on. But I don’t see how if I ask her again sound like super needy, I’m obviously confused and should be no surprised for me to go and ask her … | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | She said she wants to go out but I’m not sure anymoreI mean I want to hear an answer from her, that’s what I want. I don’t understand why would she say yes or come up next to me and look at me when she recognizes me if she didn’t wanna talk or anything. You can’t really blame me for wanting to look for an answer. If she said no I would of moved on and shrug it off. Like I said I see men get rejected bunch of times before in front of me. Don’t see why would she lie. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | She said she wants to go out but I’m not sure anymoreI mean someone else told me I could take my shot again but make it definite this time. I mean she has to give me an actual answer this time obviously. Obviously go shopping and not go like I’m looking for her but still try. It’s just so obvious if you tell someone yes you’re hyping them up and expect an honest answer again. Ghosting online is a thing but ghosting someone in real life is not like that. I rather she tell me she’s not interested and I’ll understand it’s cool, but you can’t just tel… | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | She said she wants to go out but I’m not sure anymoreBut you still think I should go and talk to her again and hopefully she can give me a definite answer correct? Because I mean she can’t be surprised if I ask her out again after she said yes. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Is confidence the key to everything?Nothing. Absolutely. Nothing. The girl is just beautiful, gorgeous, and she is amazing. I wanna ask her out and will crush me if I get rejected. Hopefully all goes well. I’ll make sure to go positive and happy and most importantly confident. She liked some pics she saw of me and she found me attractive. So if I get rejected not sure why would it be. | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Is confidence the key to everything?You’re saying that I’m eventually going to get rejected at some point by a girl right? | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is confidence the key to everything?I’m just scared of rejection man. I feel that if I’m rejected is because she thinks I’m ugly. But I have heard that good looking guys get rejected too. I will ask a girl I like out this week for sure, first time I ever ask a girl out and see what happens. I’m aware I need to take risk and will do it. I wanna change. | /r/seduction | 14/08/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateThe reason is because I just can’t move on just because she didn’t answer a call one day. If I called her multiple days and she does not answer that’s one 100% she’s ghosting me. She could just be busy on Wednesday. Appreciate your response, I do agree with the you want part, but I disagree when you said seeking approval is beta, there’s a difference between are you available as knowing if she can actually go because she’s not busy and are you available in saying it in a un confident way because… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:14 PM |
| -1 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateHere’s the problem. I actually didn’t say if you’re still interested in hang out give me your number. I don’t know why I said that I went back to see what I told her and I said “I’m still hoping you would like to go out some time so give me your number”, now other redditors in another post told me that sounds too confident, and like an order, which they said is too much. So if I say something soft people say I’m beta but if I say something that comes as strong they say is rude. So what the fuck … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateI didn’t ask for her permission to call her, I just did, didn’t even give her a heads up. I said I’m gonna call her one more time, and leave a voicemail if she doesn’t answer back, that’s it. Don’t lose anything on trying. Just because she didn’t answer a day doesn’t mean shit. Like I said there’s been times I have called a family member, mom, dad, cousin, friend, and couldn’t answer after multiple calls in one day because they were just busy. If I called her multiple days and she didn’t answer … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateI will I’m still waiting for you to explain me the desperate part, cus I don’t see it. Call once Sunday, she answers (first call ever) Call her Wednesday she doesn’t answer Sooooo desperate o my gawd. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateAt first I wasn’t interested. It was until I got her number, which was a week ago, I texted her but she took forever to reply. Last Sunday is when we talked and agreed to meet this coming Sunday, but she hasn’t answered. I don’t see the desperate as fuck part, YOURE an idiot if you think that’s desperate. I’m not calling her nor texting her every day. All I did was call her last Sunday, call her yesterday, which she didn’t answer. That’s it, WHERES the desperate part? All I’m thinking is for opi… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 05:11 AM |
| -1 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateI mean that’s the reason I’m trying to call her to set up the date. If she answers we got the date set, but she is not answering. The reason I took long is because I didn’t take tinder that serious. She gave me her number, I called her, last Sunday (4 days ago) and called her yesterday to set it up. But she didn’t answer. I’m gonna call her again tomorrow. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:57 AM |
| -4 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateWhy go radio silence? We agreed to the date, but I told her we could talk about it during the week. Just because she didn’t answer one day her phone doesn’t mean much. There’s time I have called family members and they couldn’t answer that day because of stuff going on. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:53 AM |
| -10 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateShe needs to give me an answer dude. Like she already said yes, she can’t be that dumb. Honestly, like this is what I’m gonna do. I’m gonna call her, and leave her a voicemail. If she doesn’t call me or get back to me after that I’ll move on. But I will try. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:44 AM |
| -7 | Girl not answering my calls after we set a dateI mean, we didn’t text every single day. Some times we went for 2 weeks without texting each other on tinder, but from the day we matched to the day I got her number it was a month. I didn’t say it on a rude tone either. I said it exactly like this. “Hey, I’m still hoping you still want to go out sometime, so if you still would like to go out give me your number”. Just like that. She didn’t answer both of my phone calls yesterday. I’m planning on calling her tomorrow or Saturday and see what hap… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Calling tinder girl a good or idea or not?Called her, we talked for a bit. Made her laugh and stuff, we got a date for next weekend. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Calling tinder girl a good or idea or not?Funny. Called her like an hour ago. Talked for like 15 mins, we chatted, I made some jokes she laughed, we set a date for next weekend. Call was a success. Good I didn’t listen to the advice of those that said to not call her. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Calling tinder girl a good or idea or not?Yea man, I see no issue doing it. I wanna do it ASAP too because she’s super hot and no doubt dudes hitting on her like crazy. | /r/seduction | 07/07/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Do girls that you meet online take long to reply after you get their number?Makes no sense, why wouldn’t she just ghost me. Why would she give me her number. | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever slide into a girls DM in instagram and how did it go?I was thinking that too. I literally made an IG about 1 month ago but never posted anything and have like 40 followers. I’m gonna get some followers before dm her. She will freak out and probably won’t respond if I don’t have at least 400 followers and some pics. | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever slide into a girls DM in instagram and how did it go?That’s what I’m saying. Other redditors told me not to do it. What do I have to miss, nothing. Worth trying, if she finds it creepy and rejects me cool, at least I tried but there’s a chance she might be interested too. | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever slide into a girls DM in instagram and how did it go?I don’t know her. But would love to meet her. Could just chat with her and get comfortable and get her number? | /r/seduction | 25/06/19 09:22 PM |
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