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OFF TOPICSraSB/r/RedPillWomen25/12/18 12:42 PM
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PARENTINGSraSB/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 02:02 PM
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PARENTINGSraSB/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 01:42 PM
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ADVICESraSB/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 11:30 AM
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I'm concerted about you. You are a 14 year old prepared to send nude pics to anyone, for money. (Ive checked profile)That's child pornography and a very slippery slope that is not going to bring anything good. Please talk with a trustworthy adult in your live about what you are going through. Praying for you
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 11:13 AM
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A boyfriend is not a husband
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/20 07:11 PM
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O.p. I might be wrong here, but by your replies , it seems that you are looking for approval on something you know it's wrong, as you keep finding ways (cropped face , fulfilling fantasies in a save way ....) to justify doing it. Also sounds like you are sexting already. Sexting people is a slippery slope to intimacy with them. Sorry if I was harsh, I do hope my comment helps
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 06:31 AM
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I didn't realise there were different styles of cleaning. Thank you for the tip , I wil check them out
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 05:54 AM
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I haven't. I will check them both. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 06:49 PM
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Good evening ladies. I seriously need to declutter our house. Any good books or blogs you all could recommend. Thank you all in advance
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 06:02 PM
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Try new things that might be a bit outside your comfort zone or that you always wanted to do but never made the time to learn I met my husband in a BSL(British Sign Language) course, very random place for us both to meet as he's a computer animator and I'm a pharmacist. That was 12 years ago. Just try new things. All the best
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 06:07 AM
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O.p. your menu sounds amazing This is ours For our Christmas holiday will be 3 kids (8, 7 and 4 years old) and 7 adults *Christmas eve -Starter Bisque -Main Oven cooked whole seabass on a bed of roasted potatoes Steamed greens -Dessert Nicecream *Christmas day -Started Christmas soup (traditional from north east of spain) -Main Nut Roast Roast farm chicken Roast root veg Steamed green -Dessert Lemon drizzle Turron (spanish tradition Christmas dessert) *Boxing day -Leftovers from the previous 2 d…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 07:39 PM
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My husband grew up in a horrible household. He always says it was helpful as it taught him HOW NOT to be a dad or a husband .
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 01:53 PM
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I'm sorry to hear. I hope things improve for you
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 07:24 PM
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I'm pretty new and not as knowledgeable as other ladies here but I accept that I will stumble and fall back into old habits. I try my best everyday and acknowledge my mistakes to my husband. We learn, talk about it and move on. Being submissive is a conces effort and as such it takes work. All the best on your journey
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:49 PM
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Your are welcome . I pray it all works out for the best.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:25 PM
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He also told me that, “He wouldn’t be talking to me if he was planning on getting rid of me. That doesn't mean he sees a future with you. Just that he is ok with seeing you now.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 06:09 PM
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I'm thankful for my husband and my son. For after all the hurdles from life we are better than ever. For having such a caring hard working man who makes me so proud to call him my husband. Ladies, don't forget to tell your husband/SO how proud they make you and how greatful you are. Even more important when they having a rough day. Also thankful for my lord Jesus Christ and my salvation
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 04:45 PM
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All relationship go through ups and downs. It's easier to make them work on the up period, but the down period requires more work and will to make it succeed. Even harder with long distance. You need to decide if this relationship is worth your efforts to make it work or if it's time for you to move on Wish you all the best
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 09:17 AM
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Thank you to all the ladies for posting. All the recipes sound yummy and I can wait to try them. 😘
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 05:51 AM
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remove the coffee and throw in your veg while the chicken rests I think you mean remove the chicken not coffee here😊 Sounds yummy
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 05:50 AM
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Short. I had it cut pixie short when we had our boy to make it easy to manage and he truly hated it. That was nearly 8 years ago , since then I've been growing it (It's all the way down my back) and he loves it. I can style it in lots of different ways and it's so much easier to manage. Extra bonus my boy loves mummy's princess hair❤
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 05:34 PM
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It goes back to expectations of the relationship. He probably only sees you as a friend and you want more. Or you talk with him about or you move on. Unfortunately, I don't have a better answer for you
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 08:28 AM
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You clearly more invested than him. Maybe try to see it more as a get to know eachother period. It's hard though when you are developing feeling for someone at a different pace. Are you seeing him any time soon?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 08:19 AM
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Maybe your expectations from the level of commitment in this relationship doesn't match his. Only you two know what they are. You could try to talk with him about it but be careful not to come across pushy. You've mentioned that he does reply to you but not soon enough for your liking. At this moment the of your relationship you are not a priority to him but he still courteous enough to reply. If you want something deferent you should look for someone that wants the same as you Good look
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 08:13 AM
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Expectations bring disappointment. In my opinion, if you've only been on a couple of dates, you should not expect him to pay. He is not your husband or provider, you are on the stage of getting to know each other and see where it goes. Your expectation of him to footing the bill are unrealistic. Also,comparing present and past relationships is a formula for disaster.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 08:17 AM
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You are the only one that can answer that. Do you feel like you are when you are intimate with your husband? Feminist struggle to understand that is a joy to do things for our husband's even if we don't feel like it. Sometimes I might not feel like being intimate but pleasing him pleases me. Feminist can't not understand the joy of serving our husband's/so and children. As their needs must always come first. I don't get their approach in life but obviously they don't get mine.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 06:38 AM
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Do you think you might be testing the water to see if he would be open to you having multiple partners/open marriage? I'm asking as you mention you've been involve with multiple partners in the past. I don't know you or your husband but I doubt any alpha male would be happy with this set up. Maybe some counselling for yourself and couples counselling would help you. I will pray for you. God bless
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 06:00 AM
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Great advice from the previous posters. I just would add that's not only how you look but your demeanour around others that will make you feel and look feminine even I'm sweatpants. Also if I'm just in my comfies around dthe house I put my hair in a plait or an easy up do I hope my comment helps you 😊
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 05:53 AM
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Any suggestions of how to clean the oven with out chemicals? Thank you ladies😊
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:30 PM
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Keep eating healthy. Even over the holidays Walk/Hike Every weekend. Even if weather is bad Read my bible every day Have a date with hubby every week Surprise hubby at least once a week
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 04:26 PM
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Old habits come back sometimes. I was really rude and bossy to my husband about the stupidest of things. I apologise to him and he was so gracious and said he understood I'm just over tired,(he's working away Monday to Friday and we have a 6 year old and I work 3 days a week.)
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 06:57 AM
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Congratulations. Praying for you and your little one🙇‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 06:34 AM
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Everything you mention sounds spot on. The only thing I can suggest is a food journal. See if there is any particular foods that send him wild. I'm not talking only sugars, ( knowing you I'm sure you are aware of the effect in kids ), but other food that might unsettle him. Maybe food intolerance. My boy was a terrible sleeper until we figures out he was lactose intolerance I hope it helps. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 07:38 AM
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For most of the people I know this is the reality. Not everyone, but most. When both work same amount of hours or even the husband works less. The wife will still be in charge of groceries, housekeeping, doctors appointments for the kids, school events, etc. Before I get a bashing IM TALKING OF TGE PEOPLE I KNOW. There will be exceptions, like with everything. But it's definitely the norm In your case op, you will need to get organised and create a schedule so you can be on top of things.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 06:55 AM
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Best thing to do is to talk about it with him or to bring it up playfully when you are having forplay. Just make sure you are clear about enjoying sex with him but there's a few things you would like to try. Be very careful of mentioning anything on the lines that you don't climax with him. That could hit him real hard. I hope this helps. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 06:45 AM
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Maybe you would benefit from some counselling
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:11 PM
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There is your answer.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:03 PM
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What ia stronger your desire to submit or your will?
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 08:01 PM
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As always, you are right on the money on your comment. My husband likes me being feisty.That doesn't mean I'm disrespectful or that I don't follow his lead. He wants a woman that challenges him. I'm good being that woman😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 06:44 PM
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My husband always says that my cooking is the smell of home❤ I could not have a bigger praise from him. To create a chill ambience I like to have incense, he's favourite is sandalwood and have chilled jazz music on. Lights dimmed down. And a gin for him after tea when our boy is in bed😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 05:24 PM
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Great advice already. I would just add that your skin gets it's nutrients from you. Topical care it's great but also look at what you eat and drink. Low sugar diet, no sodas and lots of water can radically change your skin. Also food intolerance can affect your skin . For example, if I have wheat I get blemishes. Only my 2 cents😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 07:35 AM
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As advice in the book , i have not told my husband I'm reading a book yo improve myself. But I ask him what would he consider is " childlikeness" . His take on it is a women who is a bit daft and silly and enjoys having a joke, without being rude , disrespectful or embarrassing him. I will write down my assignment a bit later. I'm loving the book already and I'm seeing changes already. Thank you😊
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 06:38 AM
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Maybe I'm over thinking it. I just want him to be a good man. I take all your advice 100% on-board. Thank you for taking the time to reply to me Congratulations on your little one😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 02:39 PM
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We do use time out and confiscated his toys. And it works with him. My concert is my husband is going to be working away Monday to Friday for the next 6 months, so I will be doing all the disciplining through the week. I don't want our boy to develop a submissive attitudes towards women but at the same time I need him to listen to me. My husband has been talking with him and told him that through the week he will be the man in the house and he must act accordingly. How can you discipline a boy b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 02:28 PM
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Your knowledge in RP is incredible. Thank you so much. I will start with "Hold on to your kids"😊
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 02:06 PM
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You are right. I wish her all the best
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 07:29 AM
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DO NOT TEXT HIM AT ALL. BLOCK HIM
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 06:20 AM
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People here are telling you but you are not hearing us. DO NOT TEXT HIM BLOCK HIM AND CUT ALL CONTACT. Don't sent a different message. It's good to write things down to get it of your chest, any contact with him will only keep you hooked. All the best
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 05:51 AM
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Goodness can exist outside of ideal execution & perfect is the enemy of good. I really struggle to let go off something when I feel/think my way is more efficient. Even if I verbally agree with my husband, I still in conflict inside. This quote will bring me inner peace. Thank you😊
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/19 05:48 AM
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It's wonderful that something as simple as reading a book has made such and impact on your husband's and your life. It's fantastic to see u/JanuaryArya is running a book club and this is the first book we are reading. I thought you might want to join 😊 It's the first time I'm reading it and so far it's fantastic. The best thing for me is how much inner peace and perspective is giving me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/19 05:24 PM
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This is a great idea. 1. Go to the gym minimum of 3 times a week 2. Lose 5lb 3. Learn a new knitting nod ( I only started knitting in november)
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/19 04:19 PM
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Thank you for putting such a wonderful list of books together and running the book club. I'm hopefully getting my copy delivered today. Have you read "100 ways to love your husband" by Lisa Jacobson? I like to read a page a day as a reminder and inspirational quote. Helps keeping focus on days that I'm a bit off😊
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:34 AM
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Have you met his parents? What kind of relationship are you building up with them? When/If you get married they will be your family too. One way to make it less stressful for him is you traveling together You could share the drive and use the time as quality time together. I hope my suggestion helps😊
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:13 AM
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And introverted vs. extroverted also makes a difference. This is key . It's paramount to know how a husband/partner/boyfriend communicates his affection. Everyone is different and they will show it in different way. That doesn't make their love us less . It's our job to appreciated it and learn to see it😊
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 08:11 PM
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He has always been the same. Two things that have help me are: 1) putting him first 2) understanding how he shows me his feelings towards me. I don't need constant verbal reassurance of his love. If you do, you will struggle with your boyfriend. I wish you the best with him or any future partners😊
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 09:27 AM
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All by hand with a whisk 😊
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 09:12 AM
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You are very welcome. Let me know how they went😊
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 06:08 AM
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I get it. But you said it. It’s just soo hard to let go. But you might need too.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 06:26 PM
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I’m always thinking maybe if I try xy or z I can change him Boyfriends/partners/husbands are not projects . You are not to change them. Nor they are supposed to change you. If you are right for eachother you will make it work. I don't know of any relationship that has worked when one of the partners have changed someone or for someone.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 04:53 PM
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My husband is like that. After years of being together, I can tell why he is distance, most of the time. Sometimes he is preoccupied, sometimes he needs to go out and do his own thing, sometimes he just need me to cook him a good meal and some special couple time to help him open up. Taking care of his needs always helps him open up, but guys are hunters too. Encouraging him to do some manly activity helps them. This is my 2cents on this😊
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 03:21 PM
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A woman who puts her husband's/partner's needs before herself. A woman who takes pride on her femininity A woman who values tradition and traditional feminine skills such as cooking, housework, sewing, knitting, etc At least that me or whom I try to be 😊
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 12:48 PM
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Loving your name aioli 😄
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 08:45 AM
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PRAWNS RECIPE Ingridients 10-12 prawns with shell 2-3garlic cloves chopped, more if you like it more garlic 1/2cup of flat parsley chopped, a few leaves for garnish 1/2cup white wine Olive oil Kosher salt Black pepper Parmesan cheese (optional) Method - Cook the prawns for 2 to 3 min each side( depending on the size of the prawns ) in a hot pan with oil and a pinch of salt. Salt will reduce oil splashing. - peel the prawns and clean the black line that runs through their back. -using the same pa…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 08:44 AM
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CHEESE CAKE BASE Ingridents 1/2bar of salted butter 1/2-3/4 of a packet of Digestive biscuits or ginger nuts biscuits Honey or maple syrup 1tsp of cinnamon Extra butter for the tray Method -Melt butter in the microwave - crush biscuits in a bowl - add butter, honey or maple syrup and cinnamon mix - butter tray - add mix on tray and spread evenly FILLING Ingridients 2 packets of Philadelphia cheese 1 cup of Greek yoghurt 4eggs 1cup of sugar Juice of 1-2 lemons( depending on your preference) 1/2ts…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 08:43 AM
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I apologise if my comment came across like I was questioning your priorities. It wasn't meant too What I would add to my previous comment is don't have expectations. At the same time , you need to know if you have the same views on life and relationships. Maybe you should talk with him and see what he's point of view is on the matter.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/18 09:45 AM
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I don't think women should expect a proposal, as other comments had mentioned. It's clingy and off putting for men. As a RPW we leave the leadership to our men, that should include when to propose and get married. Also we should not expect a big proposal or big wedding. Marriage is more than a ring and party. It's a life long commitment to love and care for eachother, the husband as a leader and the wife as a helper. In our case, my husband proposed to me without a ring. We had been leaving toge…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/18 07:03 AM
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In spain is tradition to have seafood for Christmas eve, so last night menu for 10 was Table nibbles - razor clams - cockles - mussels -prawns Starter -bisque Main - oven cooked sea bass with roasted potatoes Dessert - lemon cheese cake - turron( these are the only things I didn't make) Today we had a traditional English Christmas dinner, as my husband is English -roast chicken -roast lamb -roast pork with crackling - roast potatoes, parsnips and carrots -pigs in blankets -my own stuffing recipe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/18 05:02 PM
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Thank you. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/18 06:47 AM
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Looking forwards to the book club. Which one is the first book to read to join the club?😊
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 07:22 PM
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I'm sorry you are going through all this. But as people had mention in previous comments, things are not going to change nor get better. If he is bi or gay, he will look for guys. All your love won't change that. My point of view in this situations is, do you want your kids to think that his behaviour is acceptable? Would you advice your daughter to stay in that kind of marriage? Kids learn from their parents how to be and act in relationships. Be a good example. It's hard. But they need you to …
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 06:11 AM
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I agree with you. It's about being there for your husband and not keep tally of what you have done for him and how much he owes you. Blue pill mentality is selfish and childish
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 05:00 PM
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Maybe you over using products on your skin. Just gentle face wash/makeup removal. Also check your diet and how much water you are drinking as they affect your skin.😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:38 AM
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We do. But sometimes he comes from work and he wants to talk straight away about something. I will try to respectfully ask him to wait until our boy is asleep. Thank you for the advice😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:22 AM
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Very nicely put. I will explain this to him. Hopefully he will understand. Thank you😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:21 AM
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I will try to respectfully ask him to wait until our boy is in bed. Thank you for the suggestion😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:19 AM
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Thank you . I will look into these types of meditation😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:18 AM
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You have to respect with practicality. Balancing things is sometimes tricky. Thank you for the advice 😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 07:17 AM
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We are teaching him to wait when adults talk. It's me getting distracted with what he is doing. Code word is a good idea . I will suggest it to him. Good advice😊
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/18 06:58 AM
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Woke up at 5.30am . Make breakfast, omelette or porridge for my kid and myself. With a big coffee by my side Pack lunch for my husband , son and myself. 6.00am i woke up my boy , we will have breakfast at the table and talk about the day a head. 6.30am I wake up my husband with a cup of tea in bed and his breakfast on the table 7am. Quick clean table and kitchen while my kid gets dressed 7.15am I get showered and dressed 7.30am I take my kid to breakfast club and I go work 8.30am till 5pm I work…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 10:56 AM
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All the suggestions above are fantastic. What I would add is start cooking now. Every day or as often as you will be doing when you move in together. It will give you the opportunity to get a good practice and find out what utensils are the ones that you really need to start your life together. I'm Spanish so I started cooking very young helping my nanna and mum. Here if you need any tips or recipes😊
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 05:40 AM
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Thank you so much for you reply. We only have one boy and even though I would have love more I'm greatful for my son 😊 The third thing I would say is my personal goal to show respect to my sons, while also being their mother (having to discipline, etc), especially as they get older. Would appreciate advice on that Me too😊
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 06:23 PM
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Thank you😊 What I meant is that's never a chore to praise him as I am truly proud of him. He's a wonderful father, husband leader and provider. I hope my comment makes more sense now😊
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:15 PM
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Thank you ok for this post. As has been mention in other comments, it's not a new post or concept. However, it's a good reminder of the basics on where the red pill believes are based on. From a person point of view Step one- feed his ego Every morning I tell my husband how proud of him I am. Not because I need to, because I am. He is a great husband and I tell him I am proud of him as much as I say I love you. Step two-sex My husband is not the best to express emotions verbally. So intimacy is …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 06:19 AM
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Congratulations . 😊
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 05:50 AM
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Oh my. Congratulations on the new baby😊
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 05:49 AM
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Wow. That's fantastic. Do you homeschool? What difficulties have you come across with today's society values and our redpill approach? 😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 07:08 PM
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Homeschooling is very difficult in the UK. Thankfully our boy is pretty good. But it's undoing what it's done outside the house what's challenging. I haven't I would check it out. Do you know the author. Thank you for the info😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 04:32 PM
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I've got a 6 year old boy. And we try to bring him up with old fashion values but sometimes it's difficult to when he is exposed to other children's upbringing
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 04:22 PM
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Sorry I misread it. I thought you were. I would be pretty bad
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 04:19 PM
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If I was in your situation, I would be looking for a man with similar values and principals to mine. Therefore parenting wouldn't be an issue as both of us would be on the same page. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 03:38 PM
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Thank you for the link. I've seen it before but for what I've seen it's more man. I was thinking more of how to teach old fashion values to younger kids in today's sociaty😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 03:31 PM
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Anyone else is a mum?😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 03:22 PM
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I'm new to reddit. But if there is enough interest I will. I would need your support though😊
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 03:22 PM
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If a guy gets scare off when a woman wants a relationship, he wasn't the right guy from the start. There is too much pressure for women to be "cool" and casual with romantic relationships. Probably your friends struggle admitting to themselves that they want a steady old fashion man. All you can do it's be there and lovingly tell tgem that they deserve better.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 11:04 AM
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To be in a relationship an expect to receive and not give, it's never going to work in the long run. As has been said already, you won't find what you looking for in a relationship with an alpha guy. You want to be the centre of attention and your man to be at your disposal at all times. You want get that from an alpha. And you will push him away if you try to manipulate him with crying and being demanding If you want that kind of relationship you have to options, 1. You do 180 change putting hi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 06:53 AM
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