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FDS HUMORSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:59 PM
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NAH, SISSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:08 PM
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PICKME CULTURESreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:34 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMESreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 08:32 PM
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LVM LOGICSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:50 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTESreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:43 PM
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#KickHimOut2020Sreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:47 PM
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RANTSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:51 AM
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PICKME CULTURESreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:59 PM
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PICKME CULTURESreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:54 PM
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FDS MOVIES & TVSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:18 AM
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NAH, SISSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:58 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSSreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:41 PM
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Story time ☕Sreshme/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:54 PM
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Lolllll she isn’t telling us. She is telling it to herself. Whole post screams justifying his behavior to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:45 PM
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One time, my ex-boyfriend showered, ironed a shirt, put on perfume while going to his part time job. We were full time grad students at that time. He used to work at a motel reception and never had shifts in the mornings and definitely never dressed up like going to a date. I suspected something is fishy and I asked him about that. He denied saying I am thinking too much etc. i was a pickme at that time and didn’t want to anger my boyfriend 🤡. We broke up for different reasons after an year. Fas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:24 PM
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“It’s not that we don’t want you to feel these good feelings, it’s the fact that talking on these phone calls, brings you closer to that person and faster than in real life, it also creates less mystery, and helps you feel like you’ve known this person, when in reality, it was all talk, and you really don’t. “ Wow This part!!! Screenshot and saved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 07:19 AM
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Did we have same ex sis 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:50 PM
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Omg I got major flashbacks reading this 😭 I was this girl with a narcissistic boyfriend who wouldn’t let me go. He contacted my sisters through facebook and tell them I am not in a right mind. Thankfully I told them about him and they are on my side. It feels like yesterday. My heart recoils every time I recall those times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:05 PM
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Gosh why wasn’t I a gay man!! - me after seeing the men in that SR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:28 AM
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True. I guess that is why he didn’t wanna say it. Wow he is honest though /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:05 AM
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We need an extra 0 after 300 for the audacity 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:00 AM
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I am gonna use this now 🤣🤣🤣 Lotta money from my dm’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:59 AM
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Wow this reminds me of my ex who took my gold chain and gold ring as a compensation for the (imaginary) money he spent on me while breaking up. He said he will take a look at those. Kept in his pocket and left one day. Said he forgot to bring but will give back every time we met after that. And finally we broke up. At that time he used this jewelry on me. They both would have cost like $3000 current times. I am a 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:14 PM
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If I had penny for every time I read “cuff” “cuffing” in the article , I’d be having $10000 in my pocket to cuff this winter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:18 AM
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Yes. I wait for their posts in insta everyday. Little reminder everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:49 PM
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Thinking that I’d read those words before. R. H. Sin and Samantha are love 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:45 PM
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Wow just happened this with a guy friend. He commented something about my behavior. I told him I don’t like it and never liked it. And not going to tolerate anymore. He threw tantrums and complained how he cannot talk with me freely and gave ultimatum that he will never bring any personal topic with me. I am like that works for me dude 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:43 PM
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I almost puked when she said she called everyone she had sex tension with. Puked again when she had sex with “friends”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:17 PM
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Ahhhh needed this. Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:17 AM
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Girls who can raise plants can raise me too 🤡 Because I am a man child and I need my mommy The audacity of this NVM 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 08:54 PM
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Amen sis! I was a fool and believed men twice. Not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:51 PM
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Took me so long to understand that. Thanks to FDS. Girls don’t be a pickme in the “hope” that he will like for you and your considerate thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:04 PM
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Lol this reminds me. I used to talk with a guy( mostly sexting for him) and he has fetish with Bisexuals for me being one. He found himself lucky and started going on with his fantasies involving me and one more bi-girl. I initially pretended to like it to not hurt his ego and later I kind of wanted to try it. That soon turned sour as every time we had sext, it ultimately turned into threesome. One day he asked me to share my fantasies. I said Im not a fan of FFM. I like MMF. He said he is not c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:47 PM
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My friends drop and pick me🙄 Sis, if he ain’t do that, is he worth your effort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:19 AM
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I liked her style as well. What I didn’t like is the way she dealt with it in the video You don’t have to put some one down to say what you prefer. You don’t have to shame someone to popularize your styling video She could have just done a video without any before after. Just showing actual styling tips. I am not a influencer to talk about her video content and stuff. But hey I can share what it made me feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:55 PM
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I felt it was shaming to women who like to show skin. “You can be sexy without showing skin.” Is said by Someone who believes being sexy is only possible physically and by showing skin only. I also mentioned it could be only me who felt that. I am someone who is both types based on my mood and level of happiness. Sometimes I wear deep necks. Sometimes i wear turtlenecks. I feel sexy in both. I feel sexy in my PJs as well. I feel being sexy comes from within.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:51 PM
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Both are not offensive. Comparing both and saying one is better is offensive. Somehow this video feels like it. She talks about herself but we all know that is how people talk about people by belittling themselves. It felt the video was shaming. Could be just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:22 PM
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Thank you for this!!!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:37 PM
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We need more men like this!! HVM’s where you at? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:57 PM
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I follow her for past 4 years. She is great!!! Love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:13 PM
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So who does he want when he have problems with both sexes ?? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:11 PM
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My old self would have thought “ I can change him and prove I am not like other girls / girls that cheated him” and clicked right swipe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:01 AM
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Same sis! You have to fight me though. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:59 AM
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Guy looks average ish. I didn’t want to include picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:58 AM
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I saved your words. I wanna see them over and over whenever I catch feeling for NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:37 PM
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I hear you sis! Same. Sometimes we are so into other person, we value them over ourselves. We give importance to their emotions over ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:31 PM
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Yes. It works. I am still scared I will fall back into my old ways. Reading FDS posts and FDSers encouraging comments makes me to remind myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:55 AM
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Yes. I wanna do better. Sometimes it seems easy but it is these little steps that can build my self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:30 PM
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Yes. I am not lowering bar anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:28 PM
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I am saying he did get back to me the same night saying he was busy. It is not about him. It is about me. I never received a reply like that in my life ever. It is always me who used to text them asking if they are busy or why they didn’t reply me. When I didn’t ask , no one ever sent me an explanation. They used to start where they left like nothing happened the next day. They never used to acknowledge they left me hanging. Never took any accountability. My pick me self would have never receive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:57 PM
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For most of us, he was never our type and level to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:27 PM
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I know 😂😂 I downvoted my post too when I came to comment , forgetting I posted it. Imagine the 🤮 level in the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:17 PM
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It is ewww max 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:14 PM
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Please tell the same to Danya sis 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:14 PM
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She chose 🤡 life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:02 AM
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Dick pics 😅😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:56 AM
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Ewwww I can’t eat them as well. The thought of men eating those in their undies and no bath since a week and scratching their balls 🤮🤮🤮🤮. But hey Danya loves it. Let her take all these men 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:55 AM
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Me toooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:32 AM
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The original comments were : Where she at? Is she single? Why not more women like this? Where can I find someone like her? I was like ewwwww reading those. These pickmes lowering the bar even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:31 AM
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Yaass sis!! Same! I was coerced forced to do it. I was gaslit manipulated and blackmailed to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:30 AM
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Honestly why is this so hard for men to understand? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:36 AM
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I think she meant a word that rhymes with duck!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:35 AM
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She got me in the first 4 lines until I read last 2. I could taste puke in my mouth instantly after reading the last lines 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:32 AM
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It is exactly what I felt when I read that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:30 AM
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🥺🥺❤️❤️Thank you for taking your time and typing it all in. Will be getting all ingredients this weekend to try it at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:29 AM
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Help out a sis with recipe please!! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:20 PM
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Saving the post. So much truth!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:40 PM
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LVMs - Hmmm definitely lots of red 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:28 AM
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It shows not accessible in my country. I live in US. Can I have the channel name? I can try looking youtube.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:14 AM
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I have no words! I feel like her parents are doing right thing. Why does she wanna be a Pick me and say My money is his money. And the suggestions are not any better except for 1-2 here and there. So foolish to think they will last forever in a loving healthy relationship. I wish that for her but I don’t want her to be thinking like a fool when in love. I don’t understand her reasoning saying SIL didn’t sign this. Who cares? You do you first 🤷‍♀️. She was so caught up in me vs my brother, sexism…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:55 PM
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All of us sis!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:10 PM
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Ahhh I know sis!! I had same convo with one of the guys I was talking. He asked me what are his red flags. I did tell him 1 or 2 while I know there are like 100 I didn’t want to “hurt” his “fragile” ego. And then I had to ask him same in courtesy. And he gave me a big laundry list. 🙄 Even then my pick me self didn’t learn. Hope I don’t revert back to my old ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:10 PM
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Ouch!! Double shot espresso 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:06 PM
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You are angel in my life I was immediately attracted to that. You know “ I ain’t like other girls” I created so much impact on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:09 AM
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Yaas. That is what exactly I thought. In the same style as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:10 AM
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I observed that I have high Libido when I am being a ultimate Pick me in a relationship or dating. Offering sex and doing sex and having high libido is my way of being pick me to lock him down. Showing him” I am not like other girls” “ I love sex” “ I am sex positive” bullshit. Ladies he will lock himself down if he want you You don’t have to do anything to lock him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:02 AM
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Yasss!! I did this with a guy I am interested in. He is a friend. We are not “talking” or “dating” . I wanted to see if he is interested in me. I stopped texting. I used to text first because I was bored of Quarantine and almost no social life. We had little discussion/ argument that day about some feminism topics. And He was on the sorry side since he hurt me out of topic. Usually I am the one to text when I have fights with any of my friends. That is just me keeping my ego aside. I decided not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:48 AM
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I hope we don’t charge ahead the next time we see redflag! 😅😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:39 AM
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This was all of us Sis!! We all are doing better 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:35 AM
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Hahahaha same sis!!! When I look back all I see are red flags 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:13 AM
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Now, I clearly know you have average brain. When I told you to read my first message- I meant you should have fucked off first if you didn’t agree with my comment of you being desperate instead of attacking me a week after. Hmmm you clearly have no life. Go get a life bitch. Fuck off or whatever that is you say🤷‍♀️ Did I succeed in my imitation of you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:05 PM
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Lmfao. No idea who told you that calling others bitch will make your point valid. It only invalidates it further. Awww cute max. I can imagine you biting your nails off and throwing slurs at me on the other side of this message unable to do anything except calling me a bitch and to fuck off. So cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:01 PM
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Awww cute. I laugh at your immaturity and the possibility of you never growing up 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:59 PM
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She is throwing all her anger on something going on in her personal life on us. She sent me an angry message as well. After 5 days. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:13 AM
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And you call me bully? Wow. Everyone who reads this will know who is a bully. You can literally fuck off if you don’t agree, weirdo bully — You should re- read this message , digest it and go read my first message to your post. You should have done that. So why don’t you project some BS onto someone else today. — You come at after 5 days to project your BS on me and you have the audacity to tell me to not project mine? How awful of a person you must be to have so much hate in you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:11 AM
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Still attacking me huh 😂😂 After 5 days? Lolmax. It shows who you are as a person. I don’t care if you follow FDS or not but you are shit of a human being and you can never become a HVW with this bullshit attitude. I never called you bitch in any of my messages. I was direct and honest. You on other hand was just using bitch because you don’t have any arguments. You deleted your comments. That says who you are. I don’t have to prove anything. Anyone who reads this comments will understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:07 AM
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Omg!! True. This is a new perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:49 AM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:38 PM
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Its in “their” freaking handbook. Lol. I tried to be polite in my first message. But here is the truth: Sis, you were butt hurt that he unmatched you before you did it. You are unable to calm your ego. And you are showing all that frustration on us. “How dare he unmatch me before I did? I mean I thought to unmatch him when he suggested walk date. But “ freaking” handbook suggested to accept if he changes the plans. And I did what the “freaking” handbook said. And I even followed the advices. But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:44 PM
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I don’t know who gave that advice. But any FDS pros wouldn’t advise you to agree if he changed the date plans after you said no. Their advice is to see if he is on your level or drop him. You were desperate hoping he’d change his mind and take you out on a date- so that you don’t have to feel you are not following FDS. You were desperate in posting it twice here - to validate you were not wrong. You wanted assurance that you were right. You are not ready to see your mistakes. One who cannot see …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:14 PM
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I was reading all comments and OP replies. OP, if you are reading this- You were desperate. Please stop trying to justify yourself and defending yourself. If you stopped that and looked at yourself from FDS eyes as a third person, you would understand why everyone is saying that you were desperate. If you still defend , sorry to say you are pickmeisha who isn’t willing to agree that you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:06 PM
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Same sis 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:57 PM
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Lol 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:57 PM
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My girl == My imaginary girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:51 PM
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This is a popular troupe used by men to keep us hanging and have all the benefits of a relationship served on a paper plate aka no commitment . Cuz duh He is not ready to buy an actual reusable plate aka commitment. Us ladies will be trying to keep him hooked on us in a hope that he will like us but he ain’t gonna until you serve the food. Serve your dishes for only who can afford to buy a plate! I did this mistake not once but 4 times(#facepalm) Ladies learn from me. Don’t be like me. I will ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:50 PM
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There was this guy I met through OLD. I was new to my current place and was looking for friends from my country ( they are who I am most comfortable with). We were talking and I mentioned i was looking only for friends and he was fine with it. We both were recovering from breakups so none of us were ready for relationship. Fast forward few months we became good friends hanging out each week and having fun. One day he kissed me and said he thought I was making moves with him as I was being close …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:13 PM
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I really love the edit she made. Yes sweety, that is a toxic relationship you are in and he is gaslighting you hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:08 PM
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Amen sis! Learning hard way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:33 AM
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Its is almost 100% true for every men that told they’d teach me. I am far more intelligent than them. That is the way they backhandedly manipulate our subconscious that we are less than them. With men faking more confidence than what they have And women unable to show bare minimum of confidence, they always get their way when they say I’d teach you things. And us women always believe that is true and start undermining our intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:30 AM
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I highly doubt he does sex even. Sex is being mushy in private 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:27 AM
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I taught her about universe! 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:36 AM
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We cannot be surprised by how many of these ones are real and possible. For a fact, I was like her. I was groomed since I was age of 16 by my then boyfriend who was 18. I stayed with him until I was 22. Because I didn’t knew better. He groomed me into his ideal type. I was acting according to his whims but he was never satisfied with me. Always found faults with me and told if I was having this X behavior/ personality I would be damn. Only regret I have is, I wasted my precious adolescence on th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:35 AM
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Sex is equal to being mushy in private! I already told ya I don’t like mushy relationships 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:30 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love it!!!!! I’m gonna use it for everyone who supports patriarchy. Ok groomer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:29 AM
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Ikr. Women are shamed for doing everything. If I like picnics and mushy things - judged. If I don’t like them - judged. Probably, he conditioned her into thinking, doing such things is unrealistic so she kept them to herself. I hope she realizes she can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:23 PM
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I hope she remembers what he taught and use it for her own good! Like leaving him for example 😂 I am assuming he taught her self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:21 PM
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Yes. I can see myself in that woman. I was in a similar relationship 6 years ago. Glad I made it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:08 PM
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What the actual hell? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:03 PM
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Amen to this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:58 PM
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Ah! Probably I missed that part from your post! True. The more I feel needy, the more they drift apart. I am learning to be HVM as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:33 AM
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Ahh thanks love ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:31 AM
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Can you please post the list? I would love to watch them all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:47 AM
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No disrespect to OP. But you sound like a pickmeisha who doesn’t acknowledge her pick me ways to me. Irrespective of that guy being LVM HVM, you ought to be High value woman. Also, all emotionally unavailable men act like he is ready for commitment and shows vulnerable sides. I made that mistake enough times. I am learning, healing from my pickmeisha ways. It’s a bumpy ride. Hope you realize and get stronger with high standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:26 PM
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I am trying to understand. Why do women birth children without ring/marriage? I see that a lot in US. Can someone help me what goes in the brains? I am an Indian . So it is ingrained in our brains to not birth without marriage. That’s the only useful thing I learned from Indian patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:17 PM
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I say these are posts made by men mocking women in general. But women share them as well! I am desi as well 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:11 PM
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I read lake tahoe as TakeaHoe Omg my eyes 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:00 PM
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Yep. Through IVF. Only boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:06 AM
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Yep. It was hard but moved on. Thanks to FDS! Yeah he did that Idk game when I asked him again at that time after a month. That is when I decided F him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:56 AM
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Had this happened recently. Told I was exactly like how he imagined his partner would be. Told he liked me. Didn’t stop talking to me. When I asked what are we( Ladies I learnt from FDS if they are serious they’ll make that move) he said he is not ready for commitment. A grown ass man of 27 years said he isn’t ready for commitment and he has commitment issues 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:18 AM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:00 PM
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Ladies, if we are having any one of these mentioned, please please realize we have unresolved traumas and work on it. We get attracted to toxic men because we find similarities in that from past. I realized that and working now to heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:45 PM
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This reminds of sad pathetic expectations women are being held to. If she breaks up with him, she will be called a bitch with no compassion and no empathy. And will say she was never there for her poor bf in his down days. Which is why lot of women chose to be in those relationships where there is no value provided to them. And people call it “ loving unconditionally”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:07 AM
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Same sis. Can we all make a plan to settle like this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:21 PM
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I actually expected she will say something like they don’t give a fuck. I was shocked by her explanation. Like whatttttt??? I am disgusted. I have seen worse advices like Why don’t you take it out yourself? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:35 PM
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It grosses me out to think I was sweet mommy gf once. Thanks FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:56 PM
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Exactly. So she won’t ask him to do next time. Basic LVM 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:10 PM
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Or He picked up wrong kid. He doesn’t even know how our kid looks. Awwww I bagged a great husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:08 PM
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I hate how married pickmeisha’s show that their husband is a manchild proudly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:48 PM
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I read that. It helped me in unshaming myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:10 AM
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Girl, I recently came across a guy exactly like you described 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:07 AM
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I would like to share my story with my ex. My ex was a bad looking guy(ZVM and if you rate his looks he is -10/10 ) . He always wanted a good looking and fair girl. I am from Southern India where color is one of the criteria. He was attracted to me by seeing my picture somewhere. What I observed when I was with him was he was feeling good about himself by having me as a prize. “ I don’t look good. At least i got a girl that looks beautiful” used to boost his ego. I would suggest you to introspec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:17 PM
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I came across this subreddit when one of a group member in a Facebook group suggested it. Initially, I was lurking and reading posts. Frankly , I wasn’t a fan of lot of things. Due to pandemic, staying at home and bored, I started reading posts from past as well. And I realized why I was uncomfortable- Because I was pickmeisha before. And I am still unlearning my pickmeisha ways. Once I acknowledged that, I started looking this SR with a different set of eyes and evetytime I find something that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:24 PM
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Women will be blamed if they didn’t give a chance. If she had been a little understanding probably he would have changed. Or he wouldn’t have gone and killed few people if she had given a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:33 PM
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Ah yes yes yes for everything. I am healing from my pickmeisha stages. I can relate this so much 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:31 PM
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Yes yes. Unfortunately I had both in a same guy 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:39 PM
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How do you ask them? Give us some tips please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:50 AM
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Same girl. I stopped messaging first with a guy I am talking. I am slowly learning FDS. He called me today “casually” wondering what I was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:48 PM
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This reminds me of a pickmeisha thing I did recently before finding FDS. There was this guy I was talking to. I like to google each and every person. That reveals a lot about themselves and their online prints. I saw a lot of interesting things about him and actually liked him more. And i did the same thing like you did and mentioned them the next time we spoke. After a couple of times, I could clearly tell he is taking me for granted. He used to look me like “easy” win. Learned lesson!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:42 PM
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Sure. Will share it once I am done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:26 PM
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Yep I totally agree. But those qualities are HVM is what I meant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:16 PM
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I was rewatching and actually writing all FDS quotes. This show shows many good things. Like how both Dean and Luke listen to Rory and Lorelai feeling tensed and anxious during Formal dance and Hospital drive but doesn’t suggest anything. HVM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:39 PM
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Loved bang-babe. Gonna use it now on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:53 AM
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On point !! I once had a relationship with a guy who looks very ugly that I puked first time I saw him. He gaslighted me into thinking that if I don’t accept him at ugly I am a bitch. Me being a people pleaser at that time said yes. He tortured me everyday that I’d leave him. All because of his insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:18 PM
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The two times I made first move, I was friend zoned and fuck zoned. I didn’t learn the third time as well. I was friend zoned. Guys cannot take assertive women. I stopped being that because of this group. Some advices and suggestions are on spot. Thanks everyone . Now i am gonna wait for guys to pursue me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:24 AM
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Omg. A guy I am dating asks me the same. He always talks about threesomes with a girl we both like. Like dude let’s get to know each other first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:29 PM
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