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yeah. Sexual selection exists exactly to make winners and losers. Not everyone can win when the game was specifically created to filter out less desirable men/their genes You still play with what you can, theres no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:07 AM
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that agrees with what I said if you wanna girls to purpose A, see what kind of guy gets choosen to purpose A and reverse engineer how to enbody the traits of this guy each woman has a type and each woman IS a type. This is basically the principle of subjective value. The buyer is the one who says whats valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:56 AM
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I disagree value and trade live in one dimension, feelings and experiences live in other dimension dimensions are completely independent your way of thinking is like that false dichotomy that says that money and spirituality are opposites
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:52 AM
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trade is a very human activity too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:42 AM
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I should have been clearer Why a girl being sexually open disqualifies LTR I hope my LTR is sexually open with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:26 PM
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consider to LTR =/= respect the whole point of the post is this I treasure girls that I had short term with even when we both agree that we wouldnt work for long term
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:34 PM
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Maybe. hahahhahahahaa
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:58 PM
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Hmmm, insightful. Now you know what you are looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:57 PM
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Will they? how is this possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:53 PM
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wow! Another point to be made is that woman weaponize "real man" in their favor hahahaha If being free makes me not a real man, them im not a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:52 PM
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yeah, can I change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:48 PM
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aaaaa okay, now it clicked! Its about investing emotionally in someone that changes boyfriend more than changes clothes (you will probably be replaced soon too) Thank you bro. I think that my rule about more sexual intimacy than other man resolves this for me. Makes complete sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:48 PM
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No, im talking about WHY trace the standards specifically this way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:45 PM
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okay, reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:44 PM
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commum sense. You dont take strangers to spend hundreds of dollars on them First dates have to be low stakes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:38 PM
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help me understand the "not girlfriend material" phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:23 PM
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to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:21 PM
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you got a point. it can be defined that way, but i think its a bad word choice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:20 PM
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are you used by a consensual, fun and healthy activity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:19 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:16 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:16 AM
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Missing the sex with the person is missing the person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:14 AM
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Thanks! I will tell them they good dudes But the "normal" doesnt make any sense! Why would you not be grateful to get what you wanned?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:33 AM
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Do you, by any chance, are avoidant attached?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:17 AM
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Okay (😰😰😰)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:14 AM
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pay in the economist sense of the word. You pay at least with your time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:01 AM
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Guys, we found him, the problem! hahahahaha I particularlly dont get any positive reinforcement from non connected sex. So lying about my intensions would leave me with a flaccid dick I love casual sex when you really get to know the girl in the process. My thing is FWB. One night stands dont work for me I agree that having sex early is the optimal strategy to any sexual relationship thou
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:00 AM
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yeah, okay, fair point I still get kinda heartbroken when a girl will give the ultimatum of "serious relationship or you used me" I think the version of being used for man is: did she liked me sexually or did she just wanned a boyfriend to emotional support? Kinda dumb but it activates my insecurities hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:46 AM
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post nut clarity isnt real what happens is: you paid a absurd high cost for the sexual experience and it wasnt worth You only can emotionally calculate if it was worth it afterwards it just happens to men instead of women cause the men who "pays first" to get sex Just accept that not everybody will be compatible with you sexually. Not everyone is worth your time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:40 AM
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This got my attention. I made another post about this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:34 AM
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I particularly dont buy that slut shamming is frequent. To me its a small religious minority that slut shames. If you ask me, everyone should be 500% more slutty Why would most men be sex starved and slut shamming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:18 AM
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not with one each other hahaha some of them. some are dating/married and some are forever putting themselves in the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:14 AM
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Fair point. But I still think its unfair to get a "so you just used me!?" when I dont want to go exclusive Its super frequent. Even if I explicitly say im not looking for something serious before It kinda hurts me to be misunderstood as a bad guy so frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:12 AM
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I searched for a sub for pilled relationship debate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:08 AM
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Getting casual sex is already SO hard as a average man. Why would he pump and dump? Friends with benefits is so much cooler and relax. Plus, all my girlfriends started with FWB. Its super cool to see if you have compatibility first Would only make sense to pump and dump if you are kinda fucked in the head. Im not saying that doesnt happen. But for a men to do a suboptimal strategy to get sex just to "hurt" womens feelings is improbable that it is more than a very small segment of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:07 AM
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Am I in a toxic sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:01 AM
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In my experience, guys in real life are grateful for their relationships and dont think like this. Sometimes the algorithm sends me toxic pilled content and its like you are telling, but ordinary people arent the toxic pilled community At least in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:00 AM
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Maybe my experiences are different/skewed. All my friends and men I talked to about their sex life got this attitude of "yeah, she was super cool and fucked good. I miss those times" about their casual sex relationships Im didnt read a lot on this sub but maybe resentful/misigynistic men tend to post more here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:55 AM
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you ask her about menopause and such
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:39 PM
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dating apps (age range) ask in the subreddit of your town where the bar/club to get cougars is
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:26 PM
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tinder + nightclubs
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:22 PM
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you get a new meaning from the feeling: fear becomes excitement kinda like people who love getting like scares watching horror movies. Approaching is fun!
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:21 PM
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depression or unhealthy habits. I got something like this at 23. It was depression, as I learned later Your dick health is a indicator of the healthyness of your soul. Let go of anything blocking your energy and you will wanna fuck every cashier/waitress you talk to again and be happier than ever
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:19 PM
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Im really into milfs Once I had a fuck buddy in her 50s Best sex ever Strats: * be handsome * know how to talk to girls * talk to her exactly how you talk to your friends/ younger girlfriends * sometimes joke about the age difference * be more interested than interesting * make her feel horny like a teenager again. The fact that the age difference is polarizing is a huge advantage is this already Why milfs work so well * they are much more okay with being fuck buddys forever instead of girlfrien…
/r/seduction06/11/25 02:08 PM
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Yes, completely agree
/r/seduction05/11/25 04:27 PM
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I talk to groups in the smokers area. the dance floor i basically just body language
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:55 PM
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cool; tell us a little about how you do it too
/r/seduction01/11/25 09:17 PM
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my method (not that its meta, it works for me at least) required reading: Models from mark manson Beginning of the night: * walk around and start conversations with everyone. * Drink a little if you need it. Forget you ever been shy. * Everyone here is your friend * dont try to get any girls now After the introduction, let us begin: My secret is to know body langage (the basic) I simply dont insist on girls that are not attracted to me. If they dont demonstrate attraction back with body language…
/r/seduction01/11/25 07:52 PM
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in my country smoking areas are cool open sky areas where you can talk without loud music. Most people there dont smoke I dont smoke or drink
/r/seduction01/11/25 05:12 AM
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or starting conversations in the smoker areas or in the dance floor
/r/seduction01/11/25 05:09 AM
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wow incredible bro
/r/seduction01/11/25 05:08 AM
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how the fuck you get dates from reddit (isnt everyone on internet a man?)
/r/seduction01/11/25 04:58 AM
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Bro, I cant dance too. I just forget my shyness and move my body around like nobody is watching. Always works. Do this and tell me hahahahah
/r/seduction01/11/25 04:40 AM
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hashahshahsh maybe... I love them anyways
/r/seduction01/11/25 04:19 AM
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bro. you maybe got a bit traumatized from this nightclub experience hahaha Hmmm you are in a really special category of guy who broke free from aproach anxiety I would say that maybe you could try approaching through body langage alone/majorly the club is the perfect place to just dance and get closer to a girl. Than kiss them without even saying a word. Just attentively conversing through body langage Its a HUGE ego boost to do it. You realize that flirting was never about talking or pickupline…
/r/seduction01/11/25 04:12 AM
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My friend is like that bro! I find it super cool how he completely ignores women and just get hyped in the dance floor
/r/seduction01/11/25 04:00 AM
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wow, super insightful. Thanks for the comment
/r/seduction01/11/25 03:58 AM
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Yeah bro, keep it up what do you think is your limiting factor? Are you confortable approaching in real life?
/r/seduction01/11/25 03:52 AM
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Im kinda handsome. Wont get into details. But what are you getting into? Im probably not filtered out due to height and race. Im kinda tall and the majority race of my country
/r/seduction01/11/25 03:43 AM
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yeah!
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:44 PM
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you should not be going for hard to get girls in the first place. This is the wrong mentality in dating
/r/seduction13/10/25 09:50 PM
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when the juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:53 AM
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goated 🫰 if the conversation is good I will keep in touch with anyone bro
/r/seduction15/05/25 02:55 AM
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ahhahahahahaha incredible
/r/seduction14/04/25 05:19 PM
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my boy, you should be teaching us, not asking!
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:53 AM
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bro,you got her to your house. Just take off your clothes already. You already won
/r/seduction29/03/25 02:06 AM
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beat the meat before OR... just enjoy your sexual energy bro. Why are you dating if not to enjoy sex?
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:29 AM
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siper easy
/r/seduction21/03/25 02:50 PM
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gym, learn to flert, being social. As a mam: climb social hierarchys so they become more powerful and independent. Be non needy (this kills attraction in women) all this things take time and consistency. As a man your early game is nightmare mode
/r/seduction05/03/25 03:14 AM
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Become more attractive and they will appear
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:23 PM
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