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| 6 | The power of noNo, not even close! There, I am actually asking myself, will I like her? Will I like her enough to sleep with her? Here, you are outright declaring something manipulative to try to trick her. It's not the same thing my man, there is a world of difference. Being authentic vs being manipulative. Ask yourself this -- after declaring that you wouldn't have sex with her till date 10, will you wait till date 10 even if she starts pushing(hard!) towards sex? If not, you're just being incredibly manipul… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | The power of noThis is such a dumb and manipulative advice. Don't bring up sex, just let it happen. Just be yourself and don't play such stupid games. Have the mindset of "Do I like this woman", (which is authentic and not manipulative) on dates and just let her try to prove herself to you. You will see that she will start doing all the work for you and many times even push towards physical intimacy. Outright declaring that you won't have sex for 10 dates, while you want to fuck her then and there? That's unau… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetNoted | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetIf both like each other, its a win-win! | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI've started dating the girl who took my virginity. You can go whichever direction you want with this stuff | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetHinge | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindset👍🏼 to each their own | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetWhat is? | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetAre you a woman? Why do you act so butt-hurt with what I am saying? What I've written is literally against any sort of manipulation(negging, mystery method, acting cold etc). I'm telling the following: "Be yourself", "See if you like the person", "Don't try to impress her". And that is manipulative how? And this puts you in level field than putting the women on a pedestal, which most men(including me in the past) do and which is a huge turnoff for women Edit - As I said in one of the other repli… | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetOne younger(23), two older(26 both). And no, I go on dates expecting nothing. I've previously rejected a girl who literally forced herself to come back to my place, just because she was boring, could barely hold a conversation and even failed to give any hint non-verbally that she wanted action. She stuttered something along those lines and it was a HUGE turnoff, and I told her that I am feeling sleepy and that I had a nice time. And this was before I lost my virginity. There is absolutely nothi… | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetDisrespect? What disrespect? Being yourself and wanting to see if you like the other person is disrespectful? | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetAny way to ask mods to do that? | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI definitely just got lucky! But I'm more interested in sharing how it could even become a possibility! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 3 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindset14? WTF, dude, I didn't even know what sex was when I was 14! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 4 | My girlfriend wants to be rougher in bed but...He certainly has some holes in his communication | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 06:03 AM |
| 2 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetSimple: 1. Will I let her have sex with me? Will I enjoy having sex with her? It sounds a little selfish but it'll subconsciously make you more relaxed and not as anxious | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 05:57 AM |
| 9 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetHopefully one day! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 05:20 AM |
| 7 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI completely agree with you! I'm literally done chasing and am kinda seeing the girl who took my virginity. It's the initial thrill of the chase. Causal sex feels shallow and I've realized it much sooner than most | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 5 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI could have gotten lucky with pulling 3 women in two weeks. It's not A LOT. I'm pretty sure more experienced dudes pull a lot more | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindset3 women haha, not 5. Two of them were on the same day! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:46 AM |
| 9 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetYou nailed it! I didn't put pussy on a pedestal, was relaxed on dates and got laid! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 5 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI've failed multiple times before I could internalize this! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 03:15 AM |
| 63 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI somewhat agree with this. I use Hinge and I've literally had women ask me out, but I was just a retard who had no idea how to behave on dates. You maybe the hottest person on earth but if you act needy and try to impress, it's an immediate turnoff | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 02:30 AM |
| 8 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindset"Not anymore" is the key | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 14 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetDoes the timeline work for earning a million dollars? Probably not Does the timeline work for getting laid? Hell yeah! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 3 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetWouldn't lie, it sounds like that, but I'm just a graduate student trying to get my masters degree :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 01:15 AM |
| 13 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetI wouldn't say I am a natural. I was a naturally good looking social retard who had a mindset change | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 12:43 AM |
| 3 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetSouth Asia in general is sex-conservative. And I live in North America now Edit - You are entitled to your opinion. Not gonna respond anymore. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 12:16 AM |
| 11 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetGetting dates - Better profile pics Failing on dates - Multitude of reason Getting better at dates - Inner game Actually pulling women after failing for so long - INNER GAME! More specifically, by overcoming my neediness by repeatedly FAILING and learning Why is it so hard to believe? I have people message me. I am not trying to sell anything, instead I offer whatever advice I've learnt over the past few months. I had self esteem issues a few months ago. I've overcome that and want to inspire pe… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 11:45 PM |
| 6 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetIf the girls is ok to fuck, you can do WHATEVER you want! | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:40 PM |
| 50 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetMark Manson says "Assume attraction". Works so well every time | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 71 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetThis is solid advice on body-language! I've caught myself doing that and it just reinforces the fact and women try to prove themselves to you while falling right into your lap without you doing much work | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 08:30 PM |
| 23 | I(25M) was a virgin less than 2 weeks ago. Since then, I’ve had sex with 3 women and have slept with two women on the same day. This is because of a simple but VERY powerful change in mindsetThis is very true, but in each case, the women have involuntarily expressed that they "felt comfortable" with me on the dates and were ok hooking up with me. I can't point to exact instances or reasons why they felt that, but I think non-neediness is the root of everything | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!I do live in one of the most populous cities in North America And definitely! I was needy and desperate around that time. Looking back at how the dates went, I was trying to prove myself and boast to my dates. This is such a mega turnoff to anyone. Right now, I get my dates to do this to me(read: negging, not insulting but playful teasing), and once they do it, its game on. I've never, ever failed to K-close in the last 6 encounters and even rejected a girl who wanted to fuck because she played … | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!I'm from a south asian country. In general, sex is a taboo subject in that region(regardless of the country) and, not that I am ashamed of my origin, but this archaic concept sounds ridiculous in the modern world. At my current mindset, I would never marry someone without having sex with them and making sure we are sexually compatible. Not having pre-marital sex is completely backwards And of course, Viagra helped me F-close for the second time two days ago when I again had a ONS and had a littl… | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!It doesn't matter | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!It doesn't matter what the country I am from. The general mindset is pre-marital sex is bad, and I was misguided into following that. I've realized that its terrible advice. Simple | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 10:31 AM |
| 8 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!Yes! She is hungry to experiment A LOT with me. Which is amazing for me! | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!No, from South Asia | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!I'm from a South asian country and sex is a very taboo subject, though western influence has taken over and people do engage in casual/pre-marital sex. I've moved to North America though and it has made things easier | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 10:27 AM |
| 26 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!I'm really not sure tbh! It's probably just the consequence of using better pics. I used hinge for a couple months in March-April. 50+ matches, 0 dates. Bumble - 3 dates, all failed with LJBF because I was stupid and was planning dinner dates Fast forward to last couple months ago. Better pics, not-very-cheesy bio. 30 matches - 5 dates(2 more in the pipeline), all 5 K-closed, one was just a 2 hour makeout before she ditched me for another guy but took the remaining 4 to the bedroom. 1st girl - v… | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | I have a date in one hour(7.30PM). She is going back to her city tomorrow, yet agreed to go for drinks with me. Is there a fool-proof(or at least most probable) way to convert this into a One-night stand?After an hour at a bar, with a little kino escalation, asked her if she wanted to go back to my place. We grabbed wine and went back to my place, we got tipsy drunk, I escalated and started making out and eventually moved to the bedroom. Here, unfortunately, my body cheated on me and due to lot of alcohol, performance anxiety and no emotional connection since it was a ONS, I couldn't maintain an erection. But we finished each other with oral. All in all, it was good! | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | I have a date in one hour(7.30PM). She is going back to her city tomorrow, yet agreed to go for drinks with me. Is there a fool-proof(or at least most probable) way to convert this into a One-night stand?After an hour at a bar, with a little kino escalation, asked her if she wanted to go back to my place. We grabbed wine and went back to my place, we got tipsy drunk, I escalated and started making out and eventually moved to the bedroom. Here, unfortunately, my body cheated on me and due to lot of alcohol, performance anxiety and no emotional connection since it was a ONS, I couldn't maintain an erection. But we finished each other with oral. All in all, it was good! | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 3 | I have a date in one hour(7.30PM). She is going back to her city tomorrow, yet agreed to go for drinks with me. Is there a fool-proof(or at least most probable) way to convert this into a One-night stand?After an hour at a bar, with a little kino escalation, asked her if she wanted to go back to my place. We grabbed wine and went back to my place, we got tipsy drunk, I escalated and started making out and eventually moved to the bedroom. Here, unfortunately, my body cheated on me and due to lot of alcohol, performance anxiety and no emotional connection since it was a ONS, I couldn't maintain an erection. But we finished each other with oral. All in all, it was good! | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Finally had sex with the 6th girl after a streak of back luck trying to F-close with 5 girls in a span of 4 weeksI did for a LONG time. Now, the struggle wasn't to hookup but to F-close | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 06:17 AM |
| 0 | Finally had sex with the 6th girl after a streak of back luck trying to F-close with 5 girls in a span of 4 weeksThis is not about my self worth but being able to have sex. Simple | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 02:25 AM |
| 10 | Finally had sex with the 6th girl after a streak of back luck trying to F-close with 5 girls in a span of 4 weeksOh it was a combination of being too tired, too much wine, didn't feeling that emotional connection because it was an ONS and more. Just didn't want performance anxiety to take me on a downward spiral | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Finally had sex with the 6th girl after a streak of back luck trying to F-close with 5 girls in a span of 4 weeksLOL | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 14 | I have a date in one hour(7.30PM). She is going back to her city tomorrow, yet agreed to go for drinks with me. Is there a fool-proof(or at least most probable) way to convert this into a One-night stand?Worked like a charm! | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 07:27 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]What bullshit is this? | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Travelling solo is playing on the EASIEST mode. Its SO EASY to approach, you don't need social skills AT ALL. Its especially easy when you meet another girl who is also travelling solo. Stay at a hostel! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?Yeah, I have upto 4 dates lined up this week. I'm good! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?I was fingering her and offered to go down on her when she physically blocked me. I cannot force past that! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?I know I'm inexperienced and VERY wary about wrongly accused of rape as I am an immigrant in the country I'm living in. I don't think I'm ever gonna push through LMR if that's what you're referring to. Or are you referring to repeatedly push through with verbal consent? What did I do wrong here? | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?Mistake being not pushing through the LMR or acting needy? | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?Got it! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?I DO NOT want a rape case against me! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:43 AM |
| -6 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?Umm, she did "sleep" with me | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I convert a LJBF into an FWB if a girl texts she didn't feel a spark even after having a great night(no sex) with her?Why not shoot a shot? | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakeyOP, it almost feels like you are regurgitating my story along the same timeline! If a girl acts cold over text, its time to cut your losses and move on. Stop texting her COMPLETELY! I learnt it the hard way yesterday when she texted me saying she doesn't feel a spark. Exact same story as yours(except we didn't makeout on the second date, but the third date at her place was passionate) It stings, but we need to move on! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Had sex on the 3rd date, she's gone cold and flakeyI was in exact same situation, exact same timeline. 3rd date hookup and connection. Got a message yesterday saying she didn't feel "a spark" while I though we had a great time. Stings but I have lot of other options. Time to move on. You too! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line between showing interest vs exhibiting needy behavior?Huh, guess you were right! I pushed her away as she replied "didn't feel spark" even after an awesome night with her. Anyways, onto the next with lessons learnt | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line between showing interest vs exhibiting needy behavior?Have I fucked this one up? | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?Tried having sex with a hinge date few days ago. Even she was a 23F virgin. For the life of me(us), I couldn't penetrate. It was like the vaginal opening was too small/constricted and she kept telling me "your dick is too big". I have no idea what to do! She was dripping wet, yet, was very nervous I think! I guess I'm still a virgin :/ | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?Well, anyways, i have gotten more female attention in the last month than everything ever combined, but I'm not been able to close any of them! Working on my self, going out more. I've had a girl shove her tongue down my throat the instant she saw me! If you look at a question on my profile, it chronicles my mishaps. There have been a few more but I'm a complete inexperienced mess when it comes to this. I girl literally asked me, on Wednesday, to "get some Wine/Whiskey and ask me to hang out on … | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are virgins?25M "Slept" with a couple of my exes, but never did the deed because of mental barrier. Got invited to a hot Asian's hotel room when on a solo trip, but somehow ended up rejecting that. All this was 2 years ago. Trying to get laid from couple months, little success. Should I even consider myself a virgin? | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | First day game approach was a success!According to Models by Mark Manson, the issue is differentiating between a 6/7 and a stunner. Basically, the issue is the "scale". Treat everyone equally! | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Not interested anymoreDon't waste your time. Move on. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Not interested anymoreDon't waste your time. Move on. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I don’t wanna live like this anymoreJoin a Latin dance class -- best decision I've made. You will be forced to interact with women and hold/touch them. That will get rid of your anxiety. I was like you -- shy, introvert, anxious. Within 10 days of joining a latin dance class, I am so much more confident talking to pretty much anyone! | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 05:24 PM |
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