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LOL! This made my morning
/r/ExRedPill20/05/21 12:28 PM
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Dude that biological clock nonsense is nonsense. My Uncle in law met his wife in their mid forties they had two beautiful girls IN THE FIRST YEAR OF TRYING. I personally don't like the woman he married but what I'm getting at is many women are willingly having children later in life with no problems. We don't dry up and turn into old crones after thirty jesus christ. What is wrong with humans bruh? Also did it occur to you that maybe she may not even want kids? I'm married myself but if I were s…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 02:42 PM
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As a fellow black person don't you think that is so damn insulting that somehow you have to prove all of this through your pain even though some other human being gave it to you Well, no because I do not see it as me "proving" things to others. I don't care for proving my worth to people I don't know or care for. I see it as: The people inflicting the pain have their issues, yes I was unlucky to have been raised by such evil, but I am here I did the work and continue to do that work. I am not ow…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 02:22 PM
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Hey friend, if I may can I share some words with you? I been through a great deal trauma growing up. My mother is a severe sadistic narcissist who saw me as competition instead of her daughter. She did everything she could to lower my self esteem and for the longest time she achieved this. She later married a man who not only hated women(specifically black women, yes I am black and a woman) but dragged us into a religious cult that blamed black women for all of the black community's failures. Ev…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/21 08:30 PM
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I'm doing much better these days. I don't have any avoidant anxious types in my life anymore and man has my life improved. It's amazing how much inner peace you find after coming out of the fog.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/21 05:29 PM
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YES I said the same I will never stop recommending this book to people
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 11:27 PM
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Heya... So here's the deal I know I'm a woman and my experience may differ but allow me these words... ​ Dude according to the whole world I don't have any market value lol. I'm not skinny, I have dark skin, my hair isn't straight and silky, I'm not dainty in any sense of the word, my personality is often perceived as masculine though I think there's a difference between being womanly and being girlish. And our collective assumptions on what is feminine is to behave in a girlish manner not woman…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 05:34 PM
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Yes I am in the same boat as you. I try to warn people about these things because I lived it. And I know what it can do to people. I don't want what happened to me to happen to others and it genuinely scares me that I see popularization of these problematic behaviors. I don't know why it bothers me so deeply.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 12:07 AM
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Oh yeah most definitely.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 12:03 AM
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Cluster B disordered people do this religiously. They love seeing people jump through hoops made of fire just to get that brief moment of attention from their loved one. It's so insidious and scary how these communities reinforce the same mental abuse that nearly destroy my fucking life growing up.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/21 09:00 PM
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I experience it everywhere. It's hard to make friends because of it. Cause I just don't understand any of it. But that's okay I'm happy with my small group of multicultural friends lol.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 09:09 PM
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How do you get through it? Like yeah I'm married but just seeing it I'm every day life makes me depressed. How do you escape it?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 07:37 PM
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Lmfao at bowel movement. 🤣😭
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 07:11 PM
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It depresses me. One of my biggest fears is ending up single and having to date again cause I get drained by empty soulless people very quickly. The constant performance the lack of depth it's like being baptized is filth with no hope of ever getting clean. Something about the empty void inside them makes me physically ill. My mother and her husband was like that and they abused the fuck out of me. So when I see people like that it makes me depressed disgusted and angry. And it seems like more a…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 07:09 PM
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Thanks, man! I try. ☺️
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 06:30 PM
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Hi! So here's my two cents... How can I date now knowing my dark past of misogyny and disrespectful actions? Same way some women I know who use to hate men and got over that did... They just, did it. I had a moment in my late teens where I couldn't stand the opposite sex though I prefer their company at times. I felt rejected because they kept choosing "Damsels" or "birdies with broken wings" who would weren't emotionally available. I went a long time thinking men/guys were stupid. But then I qu…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 01:43 PM
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I really don't understand humans sometimes... To the woods!
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 12:07 AM
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Married woman here! And I guess I'm older, is 29 considered older? Man I do not know anymore lol. I like to think I treat everyone the same. But I am weary of men depending on the neighborhood sadly. If I'm in my old neighborhood which is the epitome of ghetto I do not make conversation with random men. At all. I have my guard up hardcore. When you fail to do that, that could be a death sentence for a woman... Hell for a man too. It's like prison dude, don't look anybody in the eye. But when I a…
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 11:06 PM
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Dude I had men get mad cause my husband married me. And I have no kids, lost my virginity to the man I married(wasn't an active choice it just so happens the first man I slept with was the man for me shrug also helps that I fucking hate dating), put myself through school and basically did "everything right" and dudes still acted bitter and projected their failed marriages on me/us. They'd circle around me and ask me dumb ass questions like "Why you females don't let your man hang with his boys!?…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 06:52 PM
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but I feel overwhelmed by people (mainly here on Reddit) saying silencing my pain and confusion is necessary and good praxis. I think the reason I can relate to this so hard is because culturally the roles are reversed somewhat in my community. I have to silence my pain as well due to the whole strong black woman trope. To add insult to injury I experience all of the headaches of sexism but none of the so called "perks" that RP or MGTOW men swear all women have. And I'm sure many other women can…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 04:28 PM
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That's not at all what I'm saying. And based on how you were able to come to that conclusion I can't help but think it's best not to further this conversation with you. Thanks for reading anyhow.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 03:51 PM
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Media representation aside I have been in feminists spaces and groups where men were welcomed and we had days set aside for discussing feminist issues that involved men who are victims of sexual assault, having a safe space to express their emotions and so on. The liberation of women is a first and second wave feminism movement. The more modern waves of feminism recognized at one point that it's not just women who are at risk of discriminatory behavior, but those of us who exude feminine traits.…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 02:31 AM
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Yeah I take what he says with a grain of salt. Unlike the narcissist I grew up with(Mother, Step-father[an extreme misogynistic/racist narcissists] etc) Mr. Vaknin seems pretty self aware. But I can he gets off on the attention and recognition he gets. So I proceed channel with caution. But you're right his stuff is insightful and he does know what he's talking about. I guess it's one of those cases of it takes one to know one? lol
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 10:22 PM
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I miss the days when feminism was for everyone. The whole premise of feminism back when I was heavily into it was that it's not just about biologically born women, but the way femininity is systemically discriminated against. This is not limited to women's issues but also concerns such as men having the space to be emotional/emotionally supported, men who were victims of sexual assault and so on because these things are seen as inherently 'feminine' and is not respected regardless of who is affl…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 10:15 PM
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He's very interesting. I am weary of Sam Vaknin though because he's a diagnosed sadistic narcissist but I often tune into his videos because they're insightful and he's one of the few to break down cluster b behavior in extreme feminist and Rp/mgtow etc groups. All in all thank you for sharing
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 05:48 PM
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Yup that's it. My husband has insecurities. Despite him having physical traits many men covet(tall, broad shoulders, booming deep voice) he's bothered by the extra weight he's carrying. But he's not self loathing. Generally he's alright with himself. And it doesn't impede on the existing relationship. I'm insecure as well but I don't accused my husband or overwhelm him with my self deprecating self talk because they becomes a tremendous weight on him. Yes be vulnerable but you have to be mindful…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/21 02:04 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing with me. Reading this just validates a lot of what I've been saying and talking about with my husband and in my support group. After years of abuse, therapy and attending support groups I realized there's a pattern. Many of the men who's mothers had cluster b disorders date and fall for women who are equally sick. And they tend to have an aversion to women who are the total opposite of these sick women. Same case for the women with narcissistic fathers. And everythi…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 04:01 PM
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I forgot which discussion it was, but I left a comment that sort of relates to this. Where the OP discussed that many RP men actually been in relationships with women with cluster b personality disorders. And as a woman whose parental figures/guardian all had cluster b disorders I knew how damaging these people can be. I discussed how the reason why some of these men attract these cluster b women is because they have unresolved Codependent traits most likely caused by an enmeshed mother figure o…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 05:31 PM
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No harm no foul. I just feel like people like us who are quick to help and make helpful suggestions, we need to understand that not everyone is receptive of that help. For example, she would complain about her weight(something we both struggled with at the time) and I would tell her hit the gym cause that's what I do. She'd then give me a million excuses as to why she can't or was anxious to join. Many of those excuses were assumptions that revolved around this self absorbed notion that she, tho…
/r/ExRedPill26/02/21 03:29 PM
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I understand her pathology a little bit but it doesn't excuse her behavior, her entitlement to people putting up with said behavior whilst she does next to nothing to improve her mental state other than false claims of "owning" her flaws. Especially considering her mental state causes problems for people around her. I understand childhood wounds, trust me, I myself have plenty. But it's no one's responsibility but my own. It may not be my fault but it is my responsibility. With that said yes I a…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 09:49 PM
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I don't know these men but I once met a guy who was like a local guru in my old neighborhood. This was before the internet and I grew up in "the hood" so yeah. He had a club for men where he taught men how to "be a man" and "unlock women's true nature". I once pulled him aside and asked him did he believe what taught these men. To that he said, "I believe in anything that helps me make money off a chump..." I never felt so conflicted in my life.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 07:47 PM
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I will say the only difference between your friend and my former best friend is that he seems to have outburst. Hers was harder to see because she appeared more wounded and less aggressive. And she'd often had moments of clarity so it was enough to fly under my radar for years. But even that approach didn't hide the fact that her words and her actions were no where near in alignment with each other. And those few times she had "clarity" it only matter in that moment because she'd be getting reas…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 06:49 PM
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Word, no offense to OP but I would not subject anyone of any gender to that energy. I had a female friend (I'm a woman) who had RP mentality but towards men(I don't know how else to put it because she didn't strike me as a feminist really). She often would tell me she hate guys and at first I just ignored it but then I started realizing she hated men over stupid shit. At first I figured she was just being emotional. She would hate them for certain "masculine" hobbies she felt were stupid. She on…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 03:32 PM
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That sums up everything I was trying to say in one short sweet comment. Thank you for your service! 👍🏿
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 01:45 PM
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To sum that up they were answers like "Because they're scared that a black man will be better!" Or something like that. Or having a discussion on who has it worse and so on. Does that make sense?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 08:10 PM
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That said, knowing that the rich like that fact, doesn't really change the fact that a lot of chuds are willingly fighting for the rich. That's the greatest tragedy. They really did a number on us. It's like caged bird syndrome. You're in a prison but you fight to maintained imprisoned. You know?
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 07:36 PM
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Interesting perspective but I still believe economics are involved. I'll elaborate when I get the chance! Thank you for replying and I do see that what you're saying is valid.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 07:35 PM
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Jesus christ dude I'm sorry you had to go through that.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/21 05:26 PM
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> RP philosophy: if no one can relieve my suffering, then I might as well cause all the suffering I can ​ And the tragedy of this is that they end up sabotaging a relationship they may have worked. Or they end up hurting someone which further perpetuates the cycle, Something like this kinda happened to me. I met a dude before I met my husband who did exactly what you described. Thinking it would work and somehow persuade me to be with him. I ended up being disgusted by his behavior and we never …
/r/ExRedPill30/01/21 08:32 PM
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I think the difficulty behind these kinds of platforms is they use truth to push forward a lie. Or even half truths. I do see and agree with a lot of what red pill points out. However, I am also put in a strange position because a lot of the "privileges" RP men claim women have, I do not benefit from because of the way society is socialized. Even though I am a woman. But that's not important... I also believe that even if the truths were 100% true with no exceptions to the rule they may still mi…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 04:49 PM
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I hope I do not offend anyone but I also think it depends on the race/culture sometimes? There were times I was upset and when it was visible I got the "omg angry scary black woman!!!" Reaction. Some people have reacted in violence or anger. In my group of female friends if the black women cry or show emotion people get uncomfortable or even mock them cause they're failing at performing the strong black woman trope. My husband and I talk about red pill and whether some of their talking points ar…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 04:06 PM
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This is so sad. The first time I seen my husband cry it was because I wanted to join the military. We were young. My family was abusing me. I needed a way out. I told him I needed to do this to save my own life. He cried because he was afraid of losing me. I cried because we'll I hated to see him hurt and I felt like it was my fault. I never looked at him differently. He's a person with feelings. I still see him as my big ole viking bear. Regardless of how masculine he is, how strong he is I fee…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 09:11 PM
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This!! So very true. I understand why but too lazy to write it out lol but you're very right.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/21 04:13 PM
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Oh noooooooo! I shouldn't have laughed at this.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/21 03:17 AM
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Thank you friend. I think about this and talk to my husband about this a lot.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/21 02:58 AM
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Yeah you're right. I suppose my example isn't 100% accurate for the subject but when I look at the lifestyle and see how mutually satisfying it can be and then I look at this, I can't help but compare the two? Smh I dunno
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 11:46 PM
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The messed up part is these dudes don't even know what submission means. They think it means they get to run everything and someone just follows. I play into the submissive role to a degree with my husband but if he screws up he's going to hear it. And I say it very sternly. Submission is earned and many strong women have no problems with this role when done correctly. These guys just want a door mat that will do what ever they want because they haven't learn to understand true sacrifice for the…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 11:03 PM
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My husband once said to me, "The day a weak woman wants me is the day I realize I have failed as a man." That shit hit me hard. The way he explained it is the people who choose you often reflects who you are inside. If someone weak chooses you then that speaks to your character. I thought about this for a long time. And I must agree with him. This holds true in friendships, relationships etc. My husband is a badass man, and I see how people look at me when they see he chose me. I also am badass(…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 10:53 PM
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I'm glad you could take away something from what I wrote! You mentioned idealisation (love bombing)—I also think it plays to these men’s egos, and thus they want to give back to these women who finally view them as they themselves always wanted to be viewed. This part is very true, however I'd like to add a little more to that. Not every man is the same. There's some who are more narcissistic and enjoy the idealization because it feeds the ego. However, in my humble opinion the men who exhibit m…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 04:47 PM
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Can I pm you to talk about it further? Absolutely! Feel free to hit me up whenever. With that said I truly am sorry that you and your family had to endure that. I'm not sure if my grandmother was a cluster b of any sort but I know she manufactured my mother's condition due to her abandoning my mother for drugs. I understand the generational curse. I intend to break them. Unfortunately that means going no contact and going through hell to fix myself. It's hard. I am glad your mother had someone t…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 04:08 PM
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This will be long and it's okay if you don't want to read it. I get it lol. Please understand this is just my opinion! So I'm a woman who's mother has a severe cluster B personality disorder. My mother mental and physical abuse, though horrible, has given me the sight that many lack. I have a fair share of male friends and I noticed many of them exude codependent traits. However, codependency in men tend to be overlooked or appears in different ways(ie protective instinct, savior complex etc). I…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/21 05:34 AM
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My husband enjoys strap on play. Which I'm sure is considered "beta" in most RP communities. And you know what? I love him. I love playing into his fantasies. I do not see him as less than a man. If anything he's more masculine than most men I know. And I understand the need to sometimes let your guard down and enjoy a softer form of existence from time to time. I had a rough childhood and was always forced to be strong and emotionless else I get my ass kicked. So in my relationship I need to be…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 12:28 AM
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Hmm... It's going to be hard for me to give you advice on how to avoid that because I cannot empathize, I'll be honest. But here goes... Perhaps befriend women you're not physically attracted to first. I'm sure there's plenty you don't find attractive. If you are only interested in friendship you shouldn't be bothered by how they may or may not look. Then maybe you can graduate to befriending women who are attractive. That way you would have learned some key differences between being compatible …
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 12:08 AM
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Dude my advice as a woman make friends with women. I mean chill women. With no expectations of a relationship. When you see that women are just human like you. That we're just trying to make it in this fucked up life like everybody else. That we're confused, weird, flawed may have the same stuff in common with you? It kinda puts things into perspective. I use to have a bias against a particular group until I went to college and met cool people within that group. I stopped being bitter. It really…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 12:59 AM
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Holy shit I'm sorry that happened. I hate seeing people abused and used. But I'm glad you didn't end up in a financial advisor situation cause it's hard to get away when you don't have resources to do so. I know my husband is a good man though. He's seen me through so much shit and head had my back through it all. My mental health spiral, the abuse I went through from childhood, my military training (9 months we spent apart that was so hard), my grandmother and aunt passing away... He was there …
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 05:57 PM
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One of my biggest fears. I've had men try to convince me to live traditionally (stay at home wife and mother while he works) I say hell no to that. Too much risk. He makes enough to afford the women he really wants? Nah dude I'll break my back at my blue collar job than put that kind of faith in anyone. I've seen that happen too often. The women in my family doing everything they were told they're supposed to in order to be a good wife and that man just destroyed her, the kids... everybody. It h…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/20 12:20 AM
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I'm so sorry your were preyed upon in such a way. I hope you heal pass it
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 06:19 AM
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What's sad about this is that many joined these communities to avoid being financially abused by women or what have you only to be financially abused by men.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 06:15 AM
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I'm not suicidal but the fact there's so many men (and some women) who think this way makes me want to somehow deleted myself from existence sometimes. I don't want to fucking be here sometimes. With that said I'm not a man but I think what might happen is that they will spiral and bury themselves deeper into the abyss.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 06:09 AM
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Woman here... Hi! When I met my husband, I had several options to choose from. One man I met was technically rich. His worth was around the 2-4 million mark. By definition he would have been the shinier option. The second option was a a guy I suppose most would say is better looking than my Husband, though I strongly disagree. He too would be considered a shinier option. But I didn't choose either of them. I chose my husband. At the end of the day it all boiled down to compatibility and preferen…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/20 03:55 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way. And honestly I do not blame you. Despite my literally getting married to my fiancé last Friday. I think it isn't for everyone and every couple cannot make that step. You have to vet and choose well. And that process must be diligent and thorough. My husband and I stayed together for eight years before I realized he was the right man for me and I the right woman for him. I also think culture and how men and women are raised plays a role in the poor choices we see. My …
/r/ExRedPill03/11/20 01:12 AM
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Any relationship that's toxic is not a relationship. It's a prison.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/20 09:52 PM
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That's fine. There's plenty of women who do the same. If my marriage doesn't work out I'll be taking that route(I'm a woman by the way) . There's nothing wrong with making choices that best suits you!
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 03:53 PM
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Thing is regular functioning people cannot understand. Cluster B's operate on emotions and their emotions fluctuate... Constantly. What was funny today maybe offensive tomorrow or depends on who said/did it. If they have a preexisting bias against a particular group, all things being equal, they're still more likely to read hostility in the person they have a bias against. That's why you can never really have a straight conversation with them. And because they cannot accept this flaw they projec…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:52 AM
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Hello, I'm not a man but I wanted to respond to this. I know I can't completely put myself in your shoes and forgive me in advance if I over step but here we go... For starters, you have to forgive yourself first, else you'll spend a great deal of your time seeking validation and forgiveness from someone else because of the choices you are not proud of. I had a moment in life where I despised men of my race. Growing up around a sexist step father who was severely psychological abusive, disrespec…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:46 AM
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Narcissism is prevalent in society. It's not just about being self obsessed. It's about projection, crazy making tactics(accusations of their opponent being too emotional to properly discuss a topic, which would elicit feelings of frustration when you know full well you were being tactful as well as rational in your delivery). This is to bait you into an emotional response to further prove them right. I have lived with cluster b disordered people of all genders and they all operate on this same …
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:20 AM
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I always say, the scariest thing is dealing with someone who is emotionally unstable but projects that instability on to others whilst assuming they're logical. One of the red flags is avoiding people who speak in absolutions and believe they can dictate your own mind, intentions and feelings on to you. This is a pure example of this but on a much grander scale. As a woman I wouldn't point fingers at men and dictate what is going on in their minds. Not all men think the same. They're not a monol…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 01:08 AM
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Hey, not an ex redpill I'm a woman who happened to find this subreddit. I must admit I am petrified of exactly this. Before I met my fiance and before I learned about redpill, MGTOW and so on, I was completely and totally against marriage. The idea of being someone's wife filled me with so much dread. The reason for this is because I grew up seeing how men changed after marriage. Not all but the ones who married into my family. Or I noticed how awful being married was for the women in my family.…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 04:53 PM
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I loved listening to this young man's perspective. It's crazy how different we think we are but we're still the same. We're all trying to find our way. The part about his black and white thinking saddens me because I feel these communities, extreme feminist, MGTOW/RP, Racism etc targets people like this and it's easy to bound them to their will. They're already so vulnerable. To think they can and often do target these young men bothers me
/r/ExRedPill21/10/20 03:47 PM
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