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| 1 | Reluctance by Feminists to accept trans women exposes Feminism for what it is. Nothing more than a private club for select members.You're denying the validity of their gender expression, which is by definition transphobic. Also "man in a dress" is a crossdresser, not a transgender human - a huge difference. I am comfortable enough with my gender to allow someone else who is exploring theirs in a respectful, serious, and genuine manner into the same bathroom I use. A transgender human is literally becoming the other gender, not just dressing it. Their levels of circulating estrogen as a transgender human are probably equal t… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyI'm not assuming economic status. I am saying they have less access to financial wellbeing due to systemic racism and its aftershocks.That is a fact. A well documented statistic. Census data proves it. It's in thousands of papers and reports. And you know what? Statistically black people make up a much greater majority of people in poverty than white people. No assumptions, check the facts. There are way more things to consider than just economic status. A white poor person has an easier time ge… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 08:02 AM |
| 0 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyYou chose a quote from the article that makes it sound like all trans people qualify for free money. The reality is, a small group (55) of low income people will be selected to recieve a monthly allotment thats about half of what they'd need to pay rent in San Francisco. No it doesn't count as discrimination against men. And reparations to a group that's been discriminated against doesn't count as discrimination either. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyRead the article, it's a small selection of low income people for a short period of time. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 07:29 AM |
| 1 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people only"You don't have to assume their economic status based on the color of their skin." Please tell me where I did this.. I also literally said that the people in the study are low income, and that low income people are the target for the program. You clearly didn't read what I wrote | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 07:26 AM |
| 0 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyThese are people in need - they are low income | /r/MensRights | 19/11/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyIf we know that black people have less access to money and housing despite their best merits because of the world that white people created, is it actually discrimination to offer them resources that help them survive the racist system we created? It's more like reparations for stacking the cards against them. They aren't even breaking even with the 'reparations', nowhere close. Its about offering repair for something we broke. Also, this is a short study with a few dozen low income people, and … | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 11:33 PM |
| -4 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyThere are many programs for homeless people in the community for food, shelter, and job resources. I have lived there. The people that want help get it, they get set up with what they need to turn their life around. There are so many people who want the homeless life and don't care to address their substance abuse and don't want to get a job. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 11:06 PM |
| -5 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyNo. I think the objective of that is to a stepping stone / immediate resource to those suffering from a transphobic society in the interim before transphobia is... reduced. Edit: Its a small pilot with 55 low-income people from a lottery that runs for 18 months. Its not even enough to cover rent in that city. Its designed to study if universal basic income can help lift people out of poverty within 18 months. If it goes well, they'll probably run a program like that for everyone The city has mad… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 10:34 PM |
| -8 | San Francisco mayor launches Guaranteed Income Program for transgender people onlyIs this sexism? I think its extremely tough for trans people to get a job, and more difficult to obtain equal pay as cis-men and cis-women | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Anybody with a human brain can. Anybody with trauma can. Anybody with diverse skillsets can. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Absolutely agree on that last part, so we must be less judgmental and understand that if malice were truly there, it would show up differently. Those same men who might struggle with cooking are also the same ones who save their households thousand of hours and dollars on home repair, car repairs, excruciating yardwork, fixing all the small things, and showing up with an impressive repository of know-how for so many other things. If thats the case, leave the cooking to me hun and thank you for e… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Then its about damn time we get some better mental health resources because this is hurting all of us | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Or adults whose trauma keeps parts of themself frozen in same state from childhood | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Yes, and that coercion in early life led them to exhibit their own manipulative behavior down the road. It doesn't make them a bad person, it makes them a real human who was treated poorly. They need safe spaces to unpack their trauma and create new patterns | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.I actually have a psychology degree. But I also agree with the touching grass and meeting people part | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.There absolutely needs to be more of that. Women have so many more safe containers to unpack and heal their trauma then men do. As an unfortunate result, men's unresolved traumas end up impacting us more frequently (ours definitely also affect them) because they aren't getting the societal care and safety they need to actually heal these things and show up with new behaviors that aren't sculpted by trauma. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Well said. Manipulative tactics have their roots in trauma too. Someone whose needs went unmet or was subject to coercion in their youth is likely to manipulate others to get what they want later in life. My goal with that post was to detach gender from the behavior and explain that this is a behavior of a traumatized human. Male, female, non-binary, trans, etc. anyone who has a functioning brain can experience this. Trauma responses are actually indicative that the brain is trying to survive an… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Guys chill, she's not trolling. I agree with Resident Arugela, my comment was addressing the rare instances of this specific behavior. | /r/MensRights | 17/11/22 09:56 AM |
| 7 | Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility.Thank you for actually understanding my message! We support anyone by offering a safe place to bring those things into the light, offer recognition to their experiences, and then ask them 'what does that part of you need to shift the narrative?' / offer support. Maybe they need to grieve, or maybe they need someone to do the thing with them and offer them a positive experience around that task. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsGood question. Any woman who claims they represent "women's experiences" is power grabbing and denying each woman her individuality. Let every woman have her own voice. Some of these experiences in TwoX are common, and the feelings behind them are valid. But saying "I'm American so I'm entitled to speak on this country's behalf" is horseshit. I would say the TwoX attitude is extremely jaded, often misandristic. Many women share this attitude, and many women don't. I can't speak for everyone, jus… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsThere's a core need and then there's the extremists which harm the group trying to get their core need met. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsSeriously? I've never been pro circumcision. I've been always been pro intactivist. Circumcision is male genital mutilation. It's fucked up and wrong. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsI am not trans. What was said here before they deleted it? | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 07:18 PM |
| 21 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsIt doesn't really help to be a woman there, but nobody said you need to state your gender when you post there :) My goal is to gently chip away, fray the edges on that hatred complex. Plant seeds of common sense and other wisdom tibits | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 12:11 PM |
| 47 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsSeriously, every day that comes into question | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 12:04 PM |
| 6 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsNo, this is my only account | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 12:03 PM |
| 107 | Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subsI have to walk a very fine line and by no means am I allowed to voice my true experience as a woman. I have two X chromosomes... I should be able to share my unfiltered experiences there without being ripped to shreds. That's the litmus test that tells me its not a women's group, its a hatred group with a specific agenda to execute. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Reluctance by Feminists to accept trans women exposes Feminism for what it is. Nothing more than a private club for select members.You can smell the transphobia in this comment from a mile away. Indeed - trans folks have not navigated this extremely binary, unaccepting world perfectly, how could they? What would their stories look like if they had more acceptance and place in society? Trans women want to participate in society like the rest of us get to. They're not trying to maraud anything or rob anyone of anything, they are struggling to get by and barely make it through life. Athletics are a whole different can of worms… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | The men here don't get enough credit for keeping it rational. Help is needed on another Sub!Can the subreddit be mentioned without any incitement? e.g. I am active here as well as r/TwoXChromosomes. I support both men's and women's rights, which basically means I want everyone to be taken care of and treated fairly. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 09:31 AM |
| 2 | The men here don't get enough credit for keeping it rational. Help is needed on another Sub!Yes - that remark was mostly for the person you encountered. You've already shown up for debate, they did not. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | The men here don't get enough credit for keeping it rational. Help is needed on another Sub!Thank you for expanding on that - that makes sense. I don't want to irritate admins, you guys keep this place in good shape | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 09:24 AM |
| 1 | The men here don't get enough credit for keeping it rational. Help is needed on another Sub!Sorry, I didn't know this was against the rules. I'll make a post with just content and no incitement. Can you expand on the rule this violates so I know the boundaries / expectations? | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 09:05 AM |
| 2 | The men here don't get enough credit for keeping it rational. Help is needed on another Sub!Rather than hate them, debate them. If her ideas are founded in truth, they will prevail and stand the test of time. Identity hatred is founded in cowardice. Stand up with your ideas, let your opponent hear them and perhaps become influenced by them. Hatred is also unwelcoming to open minded conversation, which is essential for change. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 09:00 AM |
| 2 | The men here don't get enough credit for keeping it rational. Help is needed on another Sub!I'm willing to refrain from using the term "feminist" because its polarizing and a lot of misandry is perpetuated from people who don't identify as a feminist. It diminishes the point being made - at the end of the day, how people treat other people is the top priority, gender completely aside. If a behavior is unethical, call it out without the gender / group attached - then it can't be disputed. It becomes a matter of scrutinizing of what has transpired, and less about the identity of the perp… | /r/MensRights | 16/11/22 08:30 AM |
| 5 | feminists complaining about objectification meanwhile they do the exact same to men*Men are objectified for their paychecks AND looks. Women objectify men for their abs, jawline, hair, arms, chest, butt, "strong hands", penis size and literally everything else on a man's body. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 10:29 AM |
| -3 | My wife abused me and the police acted like I was at faultTaking pictures of her personal journal could wind you up in jail for invasion or privacy. Talk to a lawyer man | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 06:42 AM |
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