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i get you i get you, like tease them then joke around sorta thing. i understand what you mean, thanks for the help :)
/r/seduction18/04/18 03:26 PM
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so when i hear stooooop or the you're so meeaaaaannnnn thing, you reckon come back with something charming? like make her laugh or something. My close has been bad in the past but that's cause i had a lot of fear around intimacy due to bad experience with previous partner ( long story, better now) and will look to move into closing and learning that side of things, that'll be experience. It comes down to wanting to know how i'm doing open wise and if that's affecting me
/r/seduction18/04/18 02:12 PM
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thanks man :)
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:20 AM
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never done day game personally. when i open it's usually just hey how are you or hey nmy names bah blah blah, unless i have something in the environment i can talk about, then i'll talk to her about that. however i start it, itll usually progress into the conversation asking about what she's like or putting the focus more on her. That's where teasing or being a bit of a dick comes in if i notice anything funny or odd about her, just wondering if i'm shooting myself in the foot cause i get told t…
/r/seduction18/04/18 02:14 AM
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it's basically just making fun of stuff, like i'd never walk up to a girl and be like you're like an obese whale, that's just not ok. What i do is like if she says a certain word funny or if she like messes something up i'll tease her, like if she says a certain word differently from others ill impersonate the word in a teasing way if that makes sense? that's basically my go to and was wondering if i'm being like way too rude or if that's ok
/r/seduction18/04/18 02:12 AM
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I have had points where I have felt that I was trying to push too much or a girl has said in a more serious then not way, stoooooop, and it makes me feel like I'm getting defensive and I didn't realise it. Not sure if I actually am getting defensive or what or if I'm just building tension and mistaking it but it feels bad when I get that kind of reaction from them
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:33 PM
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so even if it works out in the end, but may not be the best to start, you reckon just do it anyway
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:01 PM
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feels wrong though, like i'm adding a barrier for myself for no reaosn
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:01 PM
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ok so i've heard this argument before, disagree. I say logic says it makes no sense because we are naturally attracted to people that like us, so why would acting like a dick, aka acting like we dont like them, work. Like i know i do it but i've never done it thinking i was being a dick, its just what i naturally did but it feels stupid and like i'm shooting myself in the foot, any idea why it disobeys that basic rule
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:27 PM
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but why, like logic says it makes no sense, so why would it work?
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:22 PM
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you know what i think, i'm just gunna do what i want that i'm comfortable with and see who bites.
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:55 PM
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what would too strongly look like? i mean i've asked for numbers after like, say 10 messages total. Is that too fast, maybe i'm jumping the gun
/r/seduction13/04/18 01:09 PM
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thank youj that makes sense :)
/r/seduction13/04/18 02:57 AM
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ok question was probably worded bad. So basically i always put up with way too much crap and was always too scared to be flirty or sexual. Recently i've become stronger about what i'll put up with and what i wont. I have also become more open with my flirting and sexual side and dont push it down. My problem is that since this has happened, feels like i've been having less instead of more success. wanting to try understand why
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:53 PM
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o trust me, my pics suck. I've always been really bad at taking pictures but i'm travelling soon and i'm planning on taking good pictures then. Thing isn't matches persay, it's a lack of connection between people, like it feels like if i'm not trying then i'm not getting
/r/seduction12/04/18 12:34 PM
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yep, bang on that's me, also i've noticed that i feel safer and more comfortable weith emotionally baggage chicks, basically i grew up with it so it's what i know. Which sucks cause the only way to get healthier interactions is start interacting with people that scare me shitless, but it's the only way to do it.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:03 AM
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i've got a lot of issues from having an emotionally abusive childhood but that's a pretty recent revelation and itll take some time. I'm starting to recognise more and more how these issues are being shown in my day to day life. i probably look for clingyness in women so i can feel important, probably look for crazyness so i can feel safe. And that's understandable, thing is i dont like being hurt from the consequences of that. I also have a fucking drive like god knows what so that gets in the …
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:01 AM
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i have struggled being myself for a long time and often used to being criticised heavily for being that person that i am. Pretty sure i'm projecting my problems onto these girls like you said. I'm not trying to trick anyone, i just get horny and wanna fuck a girl that i find good looking and dont hate to talk to, is that so wrong. I dont think it is
/r/seduction11/03/18 02:59 AM
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so are you saying that every girl has issues, well everyone has issues, and instead of feeling guilty that i recognise their actions may be linked to their issues, i should consider if i am ok hanging around the issue in the first place. and then if i am just taking everything that comes. And if that means trying to pick up some girl in a bar and realising she might be anxious or whatever or clingy, going ok i know what this girl is like, am i ok with accepting this.
/r/seduction10/03/18 03:22 PM
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relationship life i want someone that is dependable, smart, sense of humour and a great talk and good hearted. I dont think that's unreasonable. with sex, well i have a high libido so it would be great to find a way that isnt masturbation to clear it up. also there is a part of me that wants to do it for the social trophy of 'bagging a girl' also i think it would help me boost my self esteem if i'm honest. But i'm working on my self esteem atm. honestly i just want to be comfortable with sex and…
/r/seduction10/03/18 02:17 PM
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i have an issue where if i bang them and they are the type of girl to assume a guy is for them and only them if they have sex but never said anything and just assumed, then i feel that's all my fault. But it's not, it's just for fun. It's not relationship sex it's just like sex for fun. thank you for that, honestly i just want to try it to see if i like it, if i like it ill do it if i dont like it then ofc i wont but i just wanna give it a go. have the experience. I think screening may be a big …
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:44 PM
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maybe i have a thing where i assume responsibility if they get hurt from the interaction. Like if i hook up with a girl i assume she'll think it meant something which means i'll feel bad if it didn't mean anything and was just for fun and basically fuck. i assume responsibility cause i'm used to women telling me the, feeling bad is all my fault. But it's not, in fact if they think that then obviously there's something wrong with them cause it was their choice
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:40 PM
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100% on number 1, i like the aspects but something is telling me it isn't good for me. i think you're right, just see the interactions that i know i'm gunna be nervous and do it anyway! if they dont like me what is actually the worst thing that can happen, maybe i feel shitty from it but that will go once i let it happen, nothing permanent occurs
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:39 PM
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well i've never had a one night stand and i wanna try get one, as for looking for emotional crazy girls, ye i definetly have a problem with wanting to go after them because it's what i know how to handle from childhood, blah blah blah, problem is girls i dont get that vibe from, i totally fall apart with. Like completely. i lose all my confidence for some reason and it fucking sucks. i lose my charm, my humour, everything, But with girls that have issues. Im totally calm. It's probably me huh. M…
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:08 PM
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but they're not prey they're a person, it's like a lion going after a gazelle, clawing it so it bleeds and is in pain and takes a bite and leaves, gazelle somehow lives but is in pain and hurt for the rest of its life. I may be over shooting this
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:05 PM
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so i figured out a couple of the thing si'm attracted to, anxious girls are usually shy, which makes me feel comfortable so feel more myself and i get turned on and excited by being totally comfortable. Other then that they're usually pretty good talkers, which i love, they're usually a good laugh, which i love. Somehow i always manage to attract these girls and be attracted to them, and it fucking sucks. Like i feel so guilty about trying to hook up with a girl that has issues cause i feel like…
/r/seduction10/03/18 01:04 PM
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