Stephanieninn87 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
164	Eye contact during sex	Conversation	Stephanieninn87	/r/seduction	03/01/22 12:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? I respond best when a guy says hello, introduces himself, asks how my day/evening is going, maybe chat about the place we are in, the drink or food I ordered. Let the conversation go from there. At a point ask I would be interested in going out sometime. I love being asked out in person and typically say yes if they are polite, well groomed, good hygiene and carry’s themselves well. If you smell, bad breathe, wearing dirty clothes and aggressive- I would kindly decline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 02:00 AM
–	Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively dating What does a women need to do to be romantically pursued?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 08:53 PM
1	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? Ideally, an average height, heathy body, healthy complexion, appropriately dressed (fitted and correct for the occasion) excellent hygiene and has manners. Basically cares about their health body and mind and carries themselves well. Hair or no hair, straight teeth or crooked teeth, brown black or white, all are welcomed if they are kind and positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 08:28 PM
3	Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it. I’m confused by how everyone is to know their number via attractive scale? What defines a five or 6? How will you know in order to act accordingly? I think this is silly. Doesn’t chemistry need to be involved over a scale?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 01:51 PM
1	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on ?? Sounds bitter	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 07:57 AM
1	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on A confident jovial person IS attractive!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:56 AM
2	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on Funny enough, I was approached by someone when I was 19 years old. Even though it didn’t workout romantically we are still in touch. Good friends and chat to keep in touch. Great person. I also was approached by someone during my 21st birthday. We went to a couple dinners and he took me skydiving for my birthday. I have other tales of amazing people and experiences from the old fashion approach. Give people a chance or at least a conversation. Show respect and kindness and it will be reciprocate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 12:54 AM
1	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on I love being approached. I think it is odd that women do not. Or maybe it is a generational thing. I’m 34, in my early 20’s, before dating apps, approaching was the only way. A simple hello, my name is… then discuss your day the weather, what you do for a living.. all valid. A polite, May I have your number, may I take you to dinner, Would you like to get a drink… all work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 02:48 PM
2	How sucessful and "normal" are relationships when the woman has higher sex drive than the man? I personally couldn’t do it. I tried. I was patient and understanding but it killed my self-esteem. I love that human connection, desire, passion and pleasure. Masturbating and toys can only do so much. I became depressed. I broke things off and we are still friends. I am having the most incredible sex of my life and I am elated. I am only going to be young and sexy for a little while longer. I don’t want to be old with the wish I explored and wasn’t satisfied. I have years of not having sex ahe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 04:01 AM
22	Q4Bluepill: In your opinion why do you think more Women iniate divorce than men? Men are more reluctant to end things. I feel like women try until they cannot try any longer and men don’t realize what to do to make things better until it’s too late.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 02:32 PM
2	Would you rather be in a relationship with someone hot but poor, “below average” but ambitious and financially secure, or be celibate for the rest of your life? Great sex is a must.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 04:07 AM
1	How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life? If someone cannot receive kindest with kindness, do you really want to pursue them?	/r/seduction	19/03/22 10:46 PM
1	How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life? Sorry for generalizing. I personally love a compliment. It shows me you like me. “You look great.” Or complimenting an item is nice. I like positive feedback and attention. Some girls may not. If we are discussing having game- flirting and flattering helps.	/r/seduction	19/03/22 08:38 PM
7	How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life? Perfect approach. Also, listen and complimentary. Women work hard on themselves… let her know you see her and appreciate her. We eat the charm up.	/r/seduction	19/03/22 03:22 PM
4	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives Hahaha!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 04:08 AM
8	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives 44 to be exact. I lived in Denver mainly and recently moved to Seattle. So not from a small town.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 02:00 AM
9	This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives I’m a total hoe! 34f with 40+ and counting. I know only a couple women who have a count of 10 or less… I know countless women who have a count of 20/30 and over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 01:23 AM
-13	A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected? Pretty rude but kinda hot. Maybe it could be a turn on if people find her attractive and flirt. You are the one with her and taking her home.	/r/seduction	09/03/22 08:05 AM
9	The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it? I think having an agreed etiquette about dating would be helpful. Right now, interactions are so random and convoluted with ideals. I.e ghosting, to who pays, to appropriate places to meet, to texting vs meeting, it is all over the place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/22 11:17 PM
–	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Waiting… I truly never thought of my pattern about when I feel comfortable having sex with someone. I think it is fascinating. I kinda went with what felt right at the time. Thinking it through, I react differently to men who were more sexually or less sexually attracted to me. Sexual energy, sexual confidence and chemistry plays a major factor as to when I have sex. Rather than a rule of thumb, because not all connections are created equal. I am sure there are girls who follow a rule but I don’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 02:00 PM
–	If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment. Are guys consistently having the same kind of sex with the same kind of emotions throughout their life? Isn’t sex circumstantial to the partner? Isn’t it a case by case basis? What if you have incredible sex with someone and know the person wouldn’t be a good fit as a partner? Or vise versa. I have had experiences where I have a strong emotional connection with someone and the sex was good or bad or excellent. I also have had experiences where I didn’t have a strong emotional connection with but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/22 07:29 AM
1	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? I agree to an extent. The reason why I am single and didn’t settle is because I didn’t want to be in an emotionally abusive relationship. I’m not asking for Prince Charming but an emotionally mature, kind person. Shouldn’t be too much to ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 08:10 AM
1	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? I would hope they would openly share and vocalize their values, wants and goals before wanting to share their life in a relationship to insure they are also not settling	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 05:09 AM
3	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? I would regret settling for someone I shouldn’t have children with	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 04:32 PM
2	Does a man's looks and/or assets become less and less significant the more a woman likes him? I like to give people a chance longer than 12 seconds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 06:44 AM
1	Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting) I am attracted to guys who pay attention to the details. Manners and consideration go a long way. (From both sides) But opening the door “let me get that for you” to helping me with my jacket “May I help with your jacket?” Asking “Are you comfortable?” Ask about my day… what I’m craving to drink or eat. Listen and engage, act interested. A compliment is always nice. It doesn’t have to be about looks. It can be about something she said or her profile or interests. Verbally acknowledging her point…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 07:33 AM
5	Why are most men never taught how to attract women? I’m a 33 year old woman, who is fit, educated, has a career I’m passionate about, have solid friendships, and takes a lot of pride in self-care. I am only attracted to stable men who are accepting, gentlemanly and who are genuine. I have had a couple wonderful long term relationships. Compatibility is difficult to find. Being vulnerable is hard too. I am looking for a partner who wants a family etc. I won’t give up on taking care of myself because I haven’t found the right match. Are you willing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 05:27 AM
2	Why are most men never taught how to attract women? Agreed. And I would have a lot of sex with them if they were also considerate in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 05:16 AM
2	2 Crucial Things to Remember in Game I have a difficult time thinking that no one should change for a relationship. Everyone has different love languages and different ways of communicating. Does that mean you have to meet someone with the same love language and communication skills? I always thought that you “change”/alter the way you communicate to the person you love or to show them love in the way they need. Have I been wrong all along?	/r/seduction	20/02/21 11:28 PM
1	Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE! I’d like to know if and how Zenterus goes about connecting with a “worthy” woman. After the facade of the sociable “nice guy” has worn off is there depth? In his experiment of having a meaningful social circle, has he met someone special? Has his girlfriends taught him what women really deserve? Or is this all about sex, friendship and socializing?	/r/seduction	01/02/21 08:36 PM
3	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? Yes kissing is about following, matching and leading. If you have expectations or try to control the kids, you’ll be disappointed. Obviously there are bad kissers out there. I have had some but far less than good kisses. I love the first kiss. It is so sexy and exciting. It’s another way to get to know someone	/r/seduction	05/12/20 05:30 PM
2	Is there an "ultimate" reason for a girl to stop being interested in a guy she was really interested in? I promise you. It has nothing to do with you. If it did, she would put more energy into why she doesn’t want to date. It has to do with where she is and what she wants at the moment. Which she is sorting out. Dating is no joke. Everyone has options. Not just women but men too. It’s hard to not take it personally but again, it has nothing to do with you.	/r/seduction	01/10/20 01:03 PM
13	I've seen a lot of posts explaining everything about how to improve yourself in general which also makes you appealing to girls, and I agree with them. What about how to be appealing to guys? Perfect advice! I agree. Narrow down the options by figuring out the kind of guy you want to attract.	/r/seduction	20/09/20 02:18 PM