Eye contact during sex

cl1p5 · 2022-01-03T01:05:04+00:00

I would find staring distracting.

Closing your eyes is fine make eye contact smile and say some thing dirty.

Jrummps · 2022-01-03T08:47:54+00:00

I’m a guy, and I think eye contact during sex is hot as shit… when you do it at the right times. Oftentimes with my face real close to theirs, I’ll look deep in their eyes right as I’m about to be deep in other places… or when I’m about to be a little more aggressive. When done right, it exudes power and confidence. This drives them fucking crazy and that alone makes it hot. It’s a win-win because when a girl is turned on and actually engaged in sex, it will make it so much better for the both of you.

minosandmedusa · 2022-01-03T04:08:01+00:00

My favorite is eye contact that turns into a thousand yards stare as they reach orgasm.

Dpaige411 · 2022-01-03T06:38:46+00:00

Ummmm important if ur rly into the person the hottest sex I’ve had has been all eye contact. But very unimportant if u wanna be bent over and fucked like a whore !

Moikepdx · 2022-01-03T02:18:46+00:00

It depends on the girl… and on your technique… and on your eyes.

I have nice blue eyes and find that most girls love staring into my eyes during sex - especially in missionary position.

If girls are eye fucking you before sex, you can safely assume they want strong eye contact during sex. Giving good eye contact can make a girl feel like you’re seeing her soul, and connecting with her on a deeper level.

If you’re uncomfortable with eye contact or orgasm better without it, feel free to mix it up. Hell, I sometimes flex my chest muscles and hold my breath to help myself cum faster if I’m not quite getting there. Apparently oxygen deprivation heightens pleasure, which is why some people like being choked. You do you.

Nolasayshi · 2022-01-03T13:14:51+00:00

Eye contact is important, but don't maintain it the whole time. As a woman, my advice is:

When you're on top of her, but not yet in her. Tease her lips with your lips, then look her in the eyes while you slid it in. It's such a sexy and intense moment since you both get to see each other gasp when you make that move. It's hot.

Captain_brownbeard · 2022-01-03T06:54:18+00:00

It should be a combination of both. Glances of intensity followed by closed. Because eyes communicate a lot and sex is all about communication. Why deny that and be handicapped.

Moeistaken · 2022-01-03T04:21:07+00:00

Depends on a lot of factors. Whoever said they like my eyes used to stare into my eyes. End of story!

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-01-03T08:05:14+00:00

If you don't look them in the eye at all they will think you're thinking of someone else. Obviously don't stare either.

honeynut_beerios · 2022-01-03T09:08:08+00:00

I make eye contact most of the time. I like watching what I'm doing to her. Even in doggystyle, I like them to turn around and look at me. ( not all of the time obvi, but I like it )

If I'm going down on my lady, I periodically make eye contact with her because she likes to look down and watch me eating her out. I usually start making strong eye contact with her when I know she's getting close to cumming and I can't really explain the look I give and I feel like that'd be kinda douchy, but think like a sexual-dominant type look

then when she cums, I get to see everything. I watched my girl cum the last few times, and I love watching the faces she makes.

You just kinda have to be comfortable with yourself and how you look to make good eye contact. Women usually love eye contact unless they're highly insecure.

grifter_cash · 2022-01-03T12:50:19+00:00

When a woman performs a bj is very important

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2022-01-03T03:57:02+00:00

Lol these fucking questions.

myrunawaysac · 2022-01-03T01:24:04+00:00

Don't stare. Staring is creepy. If you're eyes meet, linger for a bit, but stay in the moment. If you feel like it's time to look elsewhere, close your eyes like your really feeling good, and then let your eyes find somewhere else to look.

brit_dom_chicago · 2022-01-03T10:20:03+00:00

My favorite is holding my girls jaw if she tries to look away and telling her to “look into my eyes while I fuck you”… Always makes them cum faster.

hardthumbs · 2022-01-03T12:56:03+00:00

You have intimacy problems lol

llanojen · 2022-01-03T14:54:29+00:00

With someone you love, it's next level erotic

caesarfecit · 2022-01-03T18:50:34+00:00

I would say it really depends on the vibe with her. What she wants, what you want, and what is hot in that moment.

Eye contact is one of those things that can go either way. In the right context, it's hot as hell, for her and you. And in the wrong context, it's off-putting.

If it's a girl you met that night and the sex is just about having some hot dirty fun, I'd stay away from eye contact and emotional intimacy because that's not what that particular encounter is about.

If it's your girlfriend and you're starting to get serious, then sex which is heavy on the emotional intimacy will be good for both of you and bring you closer together.

I'll put it this way. One of the smartest pieces of literature I've ever read on sex itself is the Sex God Method. Which argues that there are four sorta vibes you can have with sex - Dominance, Immersion, Emotion, and Intrigue.

Dominance is important because it's the root of good steamy sex and it gets her inner freak out. Like railing her doggystyle with her ponytail in your hand.

Immersion is that sleepy early morning spooning sex.

Emotion is the super raw and real missionary sex.

And Intrigue is where you mix things up and push limits. Roleplay, D/s, butt stuff etc.

When you look at sex from that perspective, it's easier to understand when eye contact is a turn-on and when it's a turn-off.

loaxming · 2022-01-03T04:30:06+00:00

it really just depends on the person and the mood. whatever makes your most comfortable is the right way!

excentrik-art · 2022-01-03T07:30:40+00:00

Looking on the eyes of the partner can feel nice for a girl, it is a sign of domination.

Never looking in her eyes, or even avoiding her eyes might be sign of fear or being unsure.

Also, there is no shame in asking her. Not while in the heat, but for next time after its done

insane__knight · 2022-01-03T10:47:58+00:00

Do people not like doing this? It's the best.

cronasminate · 2022-01-03T12:53:05+00:00

Yes it's very important otherwise they'll think you are geh.

GlitterSnatchCyTex · 2022-01-03T13:21:49+00:00

I agree with this. I’ve never been into eye contact until I got with my current partner.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2022-01-03T14:51:04+00:00

It’s really powerful if you want to bond emotionally with her. You don’t need to stare at her constantly, but eye contact at certain points is key.

If you maintain eye contact with her as you reach the mountain top, extra points.

ins0mniaa · 2022-01-03T14:51:53+00:00

It depends on your level of intimacy with your partner. I think for casual sex, since you don’t know this person really well, if you stare too much, it becomes awkward because they or you feel exposed/vulnerable/it’s too intense, let’s say so. But with a long term partner it helps to make everything more intimate. Looking at the eyes of the person you like or love humanizes them. There are people saying if they stare they get distracted. Distracted of what? From your own selfish satisfaction? Sometimes sex is not only about reaching an orgasm, but sharing an intimate bond with you partner. But if you’re referring to casual sex, then whatever.

doggonotdog · 2022-01-03T04:09:22+00:00

My ex would get annoyed at me when I closed my eyes (which I prefer) because he thought I was bored or falling asleep.

Apart_Raccoon_8147 · 2022-01-03T21:25:21+00:00

I feel you my partner well want to go slow sometimes and hold hands and want to look into each other’s eyes and it makes it harder me to get off that way. She thinks it’s not that act of love if we do it any other way which I hate because I tell her love is in the act alone if there is love at all

mchief101 · 2022-01-03T06:02:27+00:00

If im going a second time whether from oral or sex then i close my eyes to focus on the feel and to finish faster

Flaky-Impact-2428 · 2022-01-03T10:07:23+00:00

I personally found myself making lots of eye contact during sex with the person I love/ really like, but rarely so during hookups.

Hot-Construction-811 · 2022-01-03T10:12:11+00:00

i wear glasses so eyesight is pretty bad without it. when having sex i can't really see her face plus the light is off so what do you mean eye contact? lol.

LPaz86 · 2022-01-03T15:31:57+00:00

You’ve got to be careful with eye contact. Too much eye contact and you’re going to establish intimacy. That’s going to ruin the sex.

StereoFood · 2022-01-03T16:08:26+00:00

My gf stares at me and at first it was kinda weird but then I realized she’s looking to me for validation, strength and confidence. I stare at her back knowing im in control and fuck her hard.

froze_gold · 2022-01-03T22:56:33+00:00

Use it right I guess

I like what I did when I went to put my dick in her. I placed it right before her pussy, cuffed her wrist and said "Look at me" - she quickly locked eyes with me, a submissive look on her face, and I thrusted into her. Hottest moment of my life.

determinator94 · 2022-01-03T22:59:53+00:00

Eye contact heightens the intimacy and vulnerability of sex with your partner (casual or otherwise), who BTW should be the only thing on your mind while you guys are doing it. It’ll even make you more receptive to what she’s feeling, ie: doing a certain position, whether or not she likes it

Mistresslourdes · 2022-01-03T23:13:56+00:00

That’s the best part watching the reaction and pleasure in your partners eyes. All those emotions conveyed in their eyes. To me sex is love is connection to another’s soul.. the eyes are everything

potspansbananacans · 2022-01-03T23:32:40+00:00

Is it just me or does anyone else’s eyes roll to the back of their head during the act? I obviously make eye contact when necessary but everyone always mentions how hot it is lol

Alonso81687 · 2022-01-04T00:01:46+00:00

Me and my FWB do it. It's actually pretty fucking hot. But it really depends on the person.

creativeoutlaw44 · 2022-01-04T04:27:01+00:00

Staring is odd, but eye contact + dirty talk is hot as fuck.

Title	Eye contact during sex
Author	Stephanieninn87
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Date	January 3, 2022 12:53 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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