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| 0 | If I had a girl purchase plan B, should I send her half the bill?Just considering the financial provider floodgates possibly opening, people already ask me for money enough | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?"False. You're not having sex, I am" | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that if you’re wondering whether they’re really interested then the answer is no?Definitely fair. Assume anything other than a yes is a no. Some girls might even say no when they do find you attractive - those are time wasters playing games with you. Don't worry about those who say no and find the yes girls. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Did I misinterpret my co-worker's behavior?Didn't need to do anything after. She came to me and said she'll be meeting me | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Did I misinterpret my co-worker's behavior?Im just going to go the place I told her to be at if she wanted to hang and see what happens My mentality is that, though, suck on it or be discarded. I won't out right say it but I know how to convey my intents | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Did I misinterpret my co-worker's behavior?That's what I thought when she texted me after saying "I'm texting you so you can have my number too" | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Did I misinterpret my co-worker's behavior?You make a valid point but what I don't see reason for is getting my number for attention for no reason, where does the attention come into play | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Did I misinterpret my co-worker's behavior?Ok, Topher | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenThat goes beyond the initial attraction, which is where the body and genetics play a crucial role in attraction. A girl isn't going to look at some random guy and just start feeling things for him without some kind of positive stimuli (i.e. an attractive body) If anything men are far more inclined to fuck someone they arent initially attracted to. That comes down to what is a scarcity mind-set. Most girls don't have that problem. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | She keeps checking me out but avoids when i try to approachThat is definitely not the right way to play that game. Approach, be honest with your intentions, and then talk to other girls. Even if she reciprocates and especially if she rejects. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Lol had this happen once too. At my gym is a single row of treadmills spread out a good couple feet from eachother, side by side. This girl was giving me eyes, got up and came right over to the treadmill next to mine and started walking. I knew it too and didn't do shit. I mightve even sped my treadmill up as some kind of reaction to the tension. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 12:55 AM |
| 8 | How can I get better at making conversation funny and interesting ?When it comes to asking questions, how do you stop the conversation from turning autonomous or like an interview? | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesI feel like I'm not terrible socially, but I know there's levels I have to experience to get better. Something that worries me about that is essentially the Trials of Fire by trying to allow myself vulnerability and facing and approaching people - not talking about just dating here. I'm not very open honestly so I know that the second I throw myself at the world I'll be starting at level 1 and suffering through the things I have yet to experience, one-by-one. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a low effort person?Go no contact for a week and then ping her for a date | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 01:46 AM |
| 8 | more successful online than in person?Are girls actually intimidated by muscular men? I can see why men would be, but I always heard muscles werent that interesting to girls | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Let's chat about being creepy.What exactly is it that makes someone being quiet "unusually quiet?" Is that covered in the study? | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | drug abuse gets you laid. Has anyone noticed this?To be fair, the saying "Don't do drugs" is propaganda in a way. The full saying would honestly go like "Don't do drugs off the street, see a doctor." Because doctors are the prime hook-up if you can convince them that you need a narcotic. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Should I say something?Lmao why do you keep calling, she's going to find you desperate | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?What if I don't have an urge for either of those things? It's not as if I'm holding back, I'm just more often still | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?? | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?What's goofy in action? I get told I'm too serious sometimes ( lacking expression, minimal body movement ). Not joking. I can be intimidating without trying at all I was trying to get her to like me (like my bad joke or die situation) thanks for putting that in perspective, I'll now never speak to her again | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?I lI ll l_ | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How bad are making "cringe" jokes for fun?I knew it was lame, it's part of why I said it. A lot of my jokes are like that and I enjoy it, for some reason | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 12:38 AM |
| 5 | How does my Friend get all the girlsNo, but it's valued differently between men and women. Women see resources, men see pride. Men can reflect on themselves what they see in a man who works hard. Women don't often do that. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadCould've been social paralysis from getting approached so unexpectedly. Most guys, including myself, never approach in the gym. Mad respect | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.Yeah, I guess I could wait for sex. Much prefer to have it sooner rather than later so I can keep up with the other's in rotation | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?We all need things. Sex, food, shelter, the list of things every person needs goes on. We need sex, and we want companionship. Everyone does. Cold approaching isn't needy so long as we don't act as if we desperately need that one conversational partner's attention. We aren't narrowing our scope onto one person so heavily that they dislike us. Rejection isn't a deadly blow. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Had a night out with a girl and things were perfect but..Happens bro. Had a nice first date myself a while back, had sex, did some cool weird things together, we set up another date and after she left she texted me to say she didn't like something I said and didn't want to continue. Girls are fickle as hell | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Girls I’m dating are calling me cuteI might be the only one who understands where you're coming from, being cute sounds unmasculine. Like, oh she thinks I'm just cute compared to other men who are hot and manly I guess. That one who said you're cute for wanting to face time sounds like she couldve been deflecting you? Or maybe I'm wrong. Did she face time you? It's not a big deal to be called cute unless you make it one, though. I'd kill to be called cute more often. I think I'm cute sometimes myself. Ask her playfully "what're ya… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:15 AM |
| 8 | Why do girls always ask why am I `quiet’?Tell her "Sssshh, I'm a secret agent here on official business to tell you that you're in danger of having a good time with me" | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 11:41 AM |
| 44 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Go out and talk to many girls. Get a rejected a lot, but get a few hits too. Set up a date. Don't tell them your intentions but show that you're looking for something intimate. Touch, tease, push and pull. Cards are close to your chest, your implying desire, but you're not fully disclosing. Change venue. Get them alone - sounds creepy but it isn't if the date is going great. Kiss them. Be cute, be a little coy, be fun. Invite them over. Always have a good reasons. Drinks and music are a good rea… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 26 | How the hell do people do thisNo, this is the truth. Some guys like yourself might get approached more often and that's great but that's your experience. The demographic is also accounted for. Not to mention that letting girls come to you is making you complacent, imagine one day the girls just stop coming up to you. What's your move? Suddenly you're needy for attention because it was withdrawn and now you're out trying to get that piece back into place and you don't know how to approach because it wasn't your realm. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Got her number, what should I text her?Easy open "Hey this is that cute guy from time and place" She'll respond, and then youll say something like "I'm doing activity at time&date , meet me there and let's get to know each other" If she's into you then it's a yes. If she's not that into you, it's a maybe. It's always a hard yes with girls who like you. If she cant make that time and offers a different day, it's still a yes FYI. Be very light on the periods and exclamations, dont even use em at all. There's a different vibe in "See yo… | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 10:30 AM |
| 11 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?That's not even necessary if you sit across from her. Always greet the date with a hug and light smile. Instant touch barrier break. Make a game of it and thumb wrestle her to see who drinks the hot sauce packet, buys a round of drinks, anything. Just find ways to incorporate light touch. Change venues if necessary. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:09 PM |
| 26 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.Not to forget guys who are overtly nice to get laid, then act out when they get rejected. Its the "I'm a nice guy" line they say before they unleash their inner desperate beta. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 05:29 PM |
| 0 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadBro is downvoted to oblivion for spitting facts. Typical. Girls with mental health problems are trouble, same with men but you know the mantra: a woman can't love a man the way he loves her Recipe for disaster if I've ever seen it And that's true for those without those issues, but nuerotypical folks are more inclined to not "play you before you play them" so to speak. There's many examples I could use, but that one always seems prominent as a lot of people with mental problems (bpd etc) have ab… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:52 AM |
| 67 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Posts like this are gonna have men doubting their every approach lol Don't over think this, boys, just approach. One approach might go great, one might go wrong, whatever. If you didn't stab/kill/shout/molest the person you were talking to then the impact you had on them is extremely minimal. Nothing will be perfect so don't try to land perfect. Time and place is right, though. Never approach a woman who's taking a dump, she might fall in love with you. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?Usually it's a rebound. Just happened to me the other day. They hit your line being friendly. The moment you show interest in return tells them that theyre still desirable, and that you also lack options. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever dated two girls at the same time? how did it go?It do be like that sometimes | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated two girls at the same time? how did it go?Depends, two girls same date or dating multiple people with no labels yet? Or polygamy? I've ran dates with a few girls in a short period, some longer term, some ONS, it's all about putting yourself out there. Its not a big deal thing. Dont make commitments to a girl or a few all at once that imply relationship status and you should be fine. And don't be afraid to lose one or two. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Hell naw mafucka | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Questions on abundance mentalityWants abundance mentality but has oneitis. These two things can only contradict each other, they don't meet. Abundance mentality comes from success of actively dating and having access to multiple girls. That is present-tense. Without going out and gaining the success of having multiple options readily available, then you will not have that mentality. The power of these options almost completely annihilates the need of any one girl in particular. Have options, no worries. Next. Anyone who tells … | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.I never did when I was in therapy simply because I want to keep two personal life things separate. If she's not my girlfriend then the knowledge isn't important at all, and can easily create negative tension and disinterest. If a girl does find out, or I say something, I would simply refuse to explain the details. "Yeah I'm in therapy, I watched the chicken cross the road and get absolutely crushed by a semi. I haven't stopped crying every night since!" | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:34 AM |
| -4 | is your goal one woman or multiple?A woman who basically worships me, absorbs my personality, falls into my frame, is submissive but isn't without a personality. Sounds like a lot to ask but there's lots of women who fit this description and can do this for me. I'm just not ready for the end goal yet I want to enjoy life before settling, and potentially having kids | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | I found this post in r/socialskills saying that women don't want to be cold approached, it doesn't work and guys should stop. What does r/seduction think about this?The best dating strategy is unethical. Ignore it unless you want to become incelibate | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl reaches out after ghosting?What you put in the recycling bin should stay in the bin until someone else finds a use of it. Don't reply to her and move on, she didn't value you then and she's not going to magically value you now. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | A quick rant about Reddit’s views on cold approaches, and a word of encouragementWhat makes this situation far worse is the girls that jump into the conversation saying how inappropriate and weird it is to get approached, when the reality is so much different. They know they want to be approached, just not by neckbeard bill who calls them queen. Girls will go around saying this negative shit about men but go back and get upset that men don't take initiative and talk to them. Like look bitch... You and a million like you asked for this by putting shame on the game. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Female friend is touchy with other male friends but not meIgnore everything she does, keep conversation friendly, even call her "one of the bros" at least once. Not worth giving a fuck about | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | If you never approach, then you might be the greatest lady’s man of all time.Im making myself admit here that this does sometimes resonate with me. There are social situations in which I am terrified of where I end of feeling that other people are superior to me and thinking like that makes me anxious and quiet and I hate it. My ego hates it. And when it comes to woman, I am scared of a harsh rejection. I know it'll hurt me deeply. But that's something I need to embrace and stop fighting. Thanks for this post, OP | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?What did you text her after you left? I personally like the "this is that cute guy Dante" | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:41 PM |
| 3 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Prepare for a shit-test raid. I wouldn't go. I've had a similar invite before, and I said "I'm good have fun tonight though" and invited her out to somewhere public the following week, alone. Another girl invited me to drink with her gay male friend. I also said "Oh you're hanging with a friend? Do that then we can hang another time." And she immediately left that friend and met me at a park, where we proceeded to walk about a cemetery and then have sex later on. She was all "No wait, let's hang… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:50 PM |
| 2 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?Nope it's a basic one-door and several years old | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:29 PM |
| 8 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?Idk honestly all the girls I've brought home must've been easy or really liked me because my offering of deniabilities have been stupid i.e "I got a new fridge come check it out" | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:00 AM |
| 2 | What do you say when your friends call you out for flirting with their friend?That's perfect, thanks. I'll let them know when they bring it up again | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 17 | What does it mean to vibe with someone?I'll give my idea about vibes and my opinion on what she meant, to balance out these comments. Vibes, vibe, vibing - to me - mean a few different things and depends on context. Vibes - The energy of a place, or a venue. Good vibes would be in a place that is relaxing and pleasing to the eyes, or a place where people are having a good time together and there's no negativity i.e. fighting, yelling, gun shots etc. Vibe - vibe as a verb, to vibe with someone, is to kind of let loose with and hang ou… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?Makes a lot more sense when I read your comment as a joke, instead of the serious accusation I assumed it to be. I have seen similar things happen on tv, maybe not sitcoms but the protags in a lot of films/series have definitely gone above and beyond for a girl. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?Not once have I seen a situation play out like I described on a sitcom. I don't watch many though, which is probably why I don't attempt to compare their fallacies to reality | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?And what exactly was your basis | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?Interesting, but I'm wondering if jumping that far to this wild conclusion was difficult? | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 8 | Why do some girls just stare at me when I smile at them ?Approach and find out | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 05:35 PM |
| 48 | You're talking to a girl you approached and her boyfriend appears. What do you do?Group him into the conversation and introduce yourself. Don't apologize for approaching his girl. If he gets angry, keep cool and walk away. If he's not angry, tell him that you respect their relationship and don't plan on pursuing further. Most guys don't handle other guys talking to their girl well. If you find your own girl being talked up, remember that it's on her to make clear she's in a relationship and the other guy is at no fault unless he continues to try. (Do you want a girl nobody fl… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Should I break up with my girlfriend?Pick up artist, think of it as being a theater student | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Should I break up with my girlfriend?I just read this scenario in the book "Models" lol. Can't build a relationship off the PUA style, it doesn't last. If she wanted you like that she'd have sex with you. I agree it's time to split | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:01 PM |
| 31 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?Assuming you're male, most guys you know probably won't pull out the charisma around you because of that fact. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Girl asked if another guy can join the date i asked her on.Invite for coffee or ice cream at a public place next time. Less chance of the girl bringing a body guard. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?Yessir. Her loss. This ice cream bussin'. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?No show unfortunately | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?Thanks. She didn't show | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | When a woman you meet on a dating app ends up canceling a date/hookup whatever. It could usually mean because she found someone else more interesting than you but….Actions speak louder over words. Whatever the reason is, it doesn't matter, did she act out of interest and reschedule or just give an excuse - signalling low interest. In this case, if she's not at all desperate to date you it's safe to assume there is someone she likes more than you. On to the next | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?I'm having her meet me in a city center park area, and have it mapped out from there. I'll tell her tomorrow "I've found a great place for some ice cream and coffee. See you at ___" What do you think about that? No neediness? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 3 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?What about confirming the date via text, would that be necessary or should I ping her when I get to the place? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:31 PM |
| 5 | “Having constant motivation is the best thing in life. Whether it’s getting a high paying job, getting into a prestigious school, getting a date with a fashion model, or getting signed to a record label, having motivation is key to succeed in life.”On the contrary, motivation alone should never be depended on to get shit done. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?I cuddle for like 2 minutes max and then I have to pound again | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?Plausible deniability - "We're going to play Uno and I'll show you around my awesome pad.. before I make you mow my lawn ;)" I once got a girl to come over by telling her I wanted her to see how cool my fridge was. My basic, stupid fridge. She was DTF from the jump tho. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Things I can't tell my fwbHow long have you guys been fucking? Has she popped the what are we question? Let her ask first, if she wants that she will ask. I'm guessing she's your only fwb rn but that doesn't mean she's only fucking you | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How can I make sure I’m the best option she has?Repeat the mantra "I am enough" and belief that shit hard ASF. You can be the best you can be for her, but you'll never be her only option. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Cold Approach is Not For EveryoneIts really not beyond ridiculous to be expected to initiate contact with a woman. Sorry you feel that way, but you just need to embrace it. It gets easier. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?Oh then I don't know. You may have to live with some fat on your body then.. Work on game and maxing your looks out, and don't underestimate the power of having friends to go out with. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?Well that is true, yet losing weight actually requires that your energy dips a bit. It can't happen without eating less. Or is it that you have a condition? In that case I would listen to the doctor. Keep in mind that not every thing a doc tells you is entirely truth. If 2000 cals is your daily requirement then I imagine your lifestyle is pretty sedentary. I bet if you get into the gym and eat 2000 calories you could get more fit - it will just not be fast. In that regard I would recommend doing… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:18 PM |
| 0 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?What does eating healthy look like for you? Use an online TDEE calculator to find your estimated daily calorie burn. If you want to shred a bit of weight fast-ish then you want to eat 500 calories less than the number the calc gives you. Eat less for faster weight loss If you want defined or larger muscles, get ready to lift weights for at least 2 years. You can do that in a deficit if you have enough fat on you. If you don't then you should eat in a surplus and cut later. I went from 250 w/ no … | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 02:02 PM |
| -2 | How to get fit fast if you can't do any sport?I wholeheartedly disagree. Being fit is beneficial to seduction by a great margin. Man wants to look good for the ladies. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helpIronically he puts girls on a pedestal by saying this lol | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 09:54 PM |
| 3 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helpOk buddy sure they do | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | plan on sliding to a girl's dms on Insta, pls helpMillions 🤣 | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | First cold approach at 36Based on most older men that I see out and about daily, most of them. Also, looks max. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Should i wait?Hell to- the- motherfuckin' no Never wait around like that, that's simp shit | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | What do guys mean by : I never had trouble getting women ?Did you ever have a dry spell like that man? | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I get better at cold approaching/build more confidence?The only way is to just do it | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | When wanting to get some from a dude, do y’all think they think about what their kids will look like or they jus wanna get railed by an attractive dudeOn a subconscious level if she thinks you're attractive then that's human biology at work saying "Ideal genetics for offspring located" So, yeah. We see people as attractive for a lot of reasons. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid ?Yessir. Believe it or not, I had sex on a first date in which the first thing I did after greeting her on a busy street was jump into a tree. I broke my phone though and she begged to let her buy me another one haha. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Not feeling how I wantI read the first part of the book "Subtle Art of NGAF" and got to this bit where it said "Acceptance of a negative experience is a positive experience" So, now when I feel a negative feeling I respond by identifying it ("I feel anxious..") and accepting it (".. but I don't give a fuck.") I pair this with grounding techniques to stay present. You can probably guess why I haven't bothered finishing the book | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:59 AM |
| 33 | How to get laid ?My step by step has worked for me. Formulated based on advice from men who get laid often. Greet with a hug or "intimate" hand shakes - breaking the touch barrier right away is crucial otherwise you'll be fumbling. (What's an "intimate handshake?" Offer your hand, hold eye contact with a slight smirk/side smile and gently hold her hand longer a tiny bit longer. Say "it's great to meet you ;)" and maybe rub your thumb a bit. Take it slow and cool. Least effective and doesn't always work out, stil… | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 42 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?I go alone occasionally so I can get use to it. I talk to a few people here and there but mostly im chilling drinking whiskey neat trying to break myself off from needing a friend to visit bars. Small steps out of the comfort zond | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?Happens in these subs. The state of asktrp before it's quarantine was rough too | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:14 PM |
| 3 | How to get drunk/high without substances?To add to that, try this subtle grounding trick - Tap your fingers against your thumb in order from index to pinky and count the taps | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Looking strangers in the eye while out in publicDamn, all those times I exchanged glances with those beautiful girls and didn't do shit.. 😅 | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Be careful out here it’s a concrete jungle.One good way to set yourself apart from suckers is to never pay shit on the first date | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Shower thought: would you approach a girl you found really attractive but was giving you some serious bitch vibes?As a man with a mean resting face I try not to assume people with the same condition are that way. I can be pretty friendly, but I'm a man with an unapproachable face so my time is much harder than a girl with RBF.. rip | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend slept with my friendWell now you know not to take the trash out of the bin you put it in. Why even go back to that girl? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Wow that opened my eyes. I now understand why you're were so pressed about a girls sexual past. Birds of a feather huh | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Funny guy 😂 that's a plus for ya, girls love funny guys. I just hope you don't read too much into what they say too and go off on misconstrued tangents! Yikes | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...If your hamster keeps spinning like that it's gonna pull something | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Bro.. 🤣 Pressed asf | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...When the hell did I bring up her past lmfao I clearly wouldn't be one to gaf about that, and waiting for her to stop fucking with her ex to have sex with you is a present- tense situation no one should be a part of | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:16 PM |
| -3 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Not sure why you're pressed about those logistics, I never said that shit | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...No, I'm saying don't sit around waiting for a girl to stop fucking with her ex to have sex. If she wants a shoulder to cry she can get a dick to ride on! | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...And no one should be waiting on a girl like that Edit: F in the chat for those putting girls on that pedestal 🤣 find another and stop waiting for crumbs | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Keep striking out on first datesAre dates with you fun? What things do you talk about? Do you break the touch barrier quickly, and get them talking about themselves? Do you do anything that goes against the grain, i.e. jumping into a tree and showing off your tree climbing skills? Or be the one telling the waitress to split the bill (Totally throws them off) It's all about the tingles | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I got fit, work, have my place and working on goals in the last couple years. Thought I'd feel better, but my anxieties are actually worse. My dating life has crashed horrendously after all the improvements | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 11:50 PM |
| 6 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Lift, eat red meat, drink whiskey neat, play warzone and yell at it, take trt | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Hotter girls are easierI feel like this is true as well. Over-average girls seem more willing, while average or less always seem to play more games. I think it's that average girls want commitment to feel good and have consistent sex | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Girl watches my stories but left me on readNo | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:21 PM |
| 4 | Girl watches my stories but left me on readProbably just going through stories and went across yours without a second thought | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | I got a girl by ignoring herYeah but the context of that would just be "Average girl's POV of a successful first date" not "I got laid as a man for very little wow" | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 20 | I got a girl by ignoring herGot laid for nothing so that's a win tbh | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Hit the bars alone -I plan on going out tomorrow again, even tho it's Sunday I live in the city and there's always something. With some positive reinforcement on how going lone wolf isnt bad and that I faced a fear I've had for the last few months I'll try to push right through and talk to someone, even if I get rejected | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:13 AM |
| 14 | Hit the bars alone -That was something I noticed. There was a large group near me and all the dudes grouped up to talk and left the girls alone. I know I'd be sitting and talking with then because ending up in groups puts me in that zone but... Social anxiety is still fuckin me over these days for some reason. Rip | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Hit the bars alone -That sounds kind of tight-ass no offense. The bar I started at had a couch (speak easy spot) that I snugged myself into and chilled. I would've said something along the lines of "I like the drinks" | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 6 | Hit the bars alone -Yeah probably was but I'm moving slowly into taking more risks. I usually have a friend | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Hit the bars alone -I had some buddies show up out of nowhere and say hi a minute ago, don't know how they knew I was here. Just glad to feel numb rn. Fuck society :P | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Bars vs Clubs?Well, think of what a tourist would do in a new place. Meet the locals, check out some places, buy cheap coke, ask questions, etc | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 29 | Bars vs Clubs?To piggy back on another comment, I read a post a while back that helps a bit. Go around to different places and act as if you're a tourist travelling in another country with the intent on learning about the people and culture. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 12:18 PM |
| 17 | Why can’t I even look women in the eyes?I'm the opposite, I can look anyone in the eye and hold it. What doesn't seem to work all the time is my mouth and ability to move from my current course to talk to someone. It all happens so fast and I'm walk off thinking "I should turn around... I should turn around.. ah nevermind she's already too far itd be kind of weird" One thing I noticed from this is that not a lot of girls look at me or even up in general, and the use of air buds is so typical that they wouldn't hear me right away if I … | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Feminism taught me that women like men more than men like women (in general) and that women are more attracted to men in a more well rounded way, across the world and throughout history.Okay? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it beta to remain friends with a woman who has no sexual attraction to you?I get that. But hey, there is strength in numbers - socially - so the more friends of any sex the better it can be for your status. Just don't be in her orbit, always hanging around giving her compliments and gifts hoping she'll fuck you. Treat her like a mate, give her a stupid nick name and call her "dude" or "bruh" and dap her up with the occasional high five or fist bump. invite her to hang with you and the boys for drinks or something etc | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta to remain friends with a woman who has no sexual attraction to you?If you aren't deeply wounded and can maintain a healthy friendship, I can see that working in your favor. She probably has some cute friends. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Do girls like when a guy fights someone for annoying them or being disrespectful to themPhysical/verbal violence for the right reasons might come across attractive to a bystander women, if you win for the cause. Otherwise don't try to be her hero in shining armor. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Number closing but, not able to progress it further...So far what worked for me is opening with "Hey this is that cute guy you met at xyz" | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop outcasting myselfThat's what I always believed too. Then the suicidal ideations creeped in, so I seeked it out myself. Not bad so far, surprisingly. Less dysphoric lately with some better days here and there. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop outcasting myselfThe zoloft is for depression | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 6 | how does sex just happen??I just tease, flirt, playfully touch and then eventually kiss. Usually leads right to sex. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Why is "validating" someone considered "bad"?Basically, validation is giving positive affirmations to another person, could be their appearance or personality, etc etc. It feeds them confidence. Imagine a girl is a chicken and you feed them their meal bits from your hand. Now say, that chicken never lays you an egg. What's even the point of keeping the damn thing? I wouldn't say that excitement is validating, but I personally would not be so forward about my enthusiasm to spend time with them. I would say something like "Looking forward to… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:59 AM |
| 5 | Especially for a beginner its detrimental worrying about maybe girlsLift, hair cut, snapchat/text. The rest depends on how big your balls are | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Why is "validating" someone considered "bad"?It's not great when you're giving more than you receive. For example, you give a girl consistent validation hoping she'll like you - but she never comes around and strings you along. I think it's fine to hand out compliments once in a while, even without reciprocation. It all depends on how you react to the lack thereof and the possible rejection. Make your moves with outcome independence. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I not be boring?Could be tone and word choice, too much talking, or not enough teasing and escalating. Some ideas to start | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:35 PM |
| 8 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?Only ever had this experience. Most people I talk to ask me nothing, so I have to know - Does anyone at all give a fuck? I once called a girl out on this because she kept saying she "doesn't know me" after I drill her. I told her "You know why? Because you never ask" I could see the bulb over her head light up. And then she never followed through with it lol | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls, especially ones who are more chubby, tell me to go find another girl, or that XYZ girl looks better than her, especially during the first date or first phase of getting to know each other?Are you fit and talk about being it, or your routine/progresses? I mentioned my lifestyle choices to a few people I see often (work mostly, some friends) and they sometimes tell me - unwarranted - that they want to start losing weight or eating better, or just straight up make self deprecating jokes about their appearance. All at random times. I don't talk about it often because I know some people will get uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Don't sleep on TinderNice. I know you aren't trying to catch feelings, but be warned - those feelings we don't want can creep up when they leave | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:13 PM |
| 0 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?Take the shot anyway and hope she finds you attractive lol | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | What is needy behaviour?Demanding too much time from her. Becoming emotional over the lack of time they can share with you. Giving too much attention unwarranted. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:55 AM |
| 2 | What is needy behaviour?The problem a lot of us have is acting non-needy and busy. In reality, the goal is to actually be that. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateIgnore it and act like she didn't say it, change subject l, take her out like you still plan on closing the deal. A friend she see's is a friend indeed, so don't act a friend. If she doesn't fall into your view then don't plan for a second date (unless you want her to be your friend.) Or, find another girl who doesn't say things like that. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with girls sending hella Mixed symbols? She seems so excited to talk and eager, then texts me one word replies like she’s annoyed 10 mins later?I hate when I receive mixed symbols. Makes playing them hard | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 11 | How to act after a rejection?Personally find it best to expose yourself to rejection consistently, as if being rejected is your intention. The blows will soften and you'll expect it - but you still take your shots anyway. Also, lift. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 44 | How to act after a rejection?Gain some outcome independence. When your whole vibe relies on the validation of one person, your ego gets crushed very easily. When you don't care for the outcome, taking rejection in stride becomes natural. If you make your move, and get rejected, that's when you say whatever 😁 and you simply move on to spend your time elsewhere | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 12:08 AM |
| 6 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?Keep in mind that girls get in relationships for many different reasons. A lot of them.. shallow. I.e. emotional support, money, loneliness, etc. One of my friends just got dumped. Girl was a single parent, 3 kids, and left him for her ex after a couple weeks. She had him spending a good amount of time with the kids, watching them and all that. If you asked me, she was using him as a resource for fatherly duty but obviously didn't love him at all. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 10:13 PM |
| 13 | As a man, success in dating is directly tied to how well you handle rejectionI take rejection very well and shrug it right off. I don't approach much because sometimes I'm just bad at socializing | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?All my wins happened in off-app, never met anyone off tinder before. The tactics require too much effort for an average guy IMO | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 02:19 PM |
| 9 | “Your Brother Is Very Different And Handsome…”I disagree , definitely seems like she's into OPs bro. Or knows OP is into her and rejecting him in a roundabout way | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you go about flirting on a first date?Greet her with a hug to break touch barrier instantly. Be natural, don't try to force some PUA stuff you saw online. Lots of eye contact and ask her about herself. Smile as well. Sit close to her for most of the date. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Gaming at places you frequentI didn't realize just how common AFCs were until I hit a local bar and some dude kept stepping between me and girls I was talking to. Met one of the workers who was female, and she acted like a bitch about it too. Best thing was to just continue having fun and talking to people. If it gets bad I hear it's best to faux-praise him and make his stupid actions look awesome in front of the girls. Like, "Wow, this guy coming up to protect everyone. That's so awesome of you, man. I definitely think you… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:45 AM |
| 1 | From My Experience Game Doesn't Matter.Seems like you didn't land your point too great, but what it sounds like to me is that being told you're good at sex gives you a stronger frame and that you show greater confidence with the assumption that you fuck good. I can see how that would help, but that doesn't mean you don't need to play the game to get women to fuck you. When you're in the set that leads to sex, you're still gaming. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Need help with a 0 interest situationHere is one of my favorite lines for those hopeless feelings... If 99 percent of the human population thought you were unattractive, there is still 78,000,000 people who would have sex with you. Maybe even date you. There's no good excuse to be a fiend over a girl with no interest you. No excuse. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:01 AM |
| 3 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?I had this problem a few years back and realized I was too focused on performance instead of just doing and thinking less. Changing that worked wonders | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 7 | I got her in bed with me but my dick couldn't get up. She's still down, what do I do?Pop a viagra, if all else fails But you could try not thinking so much and focus on the foreplay | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Trying to seduce someone feels like manipulationEverything we interact with we manipulate in one way or another. Nothing moves without a nudge and direction. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 11:31 AM |
| 16 | This sub is delusional.Don't care, had sex | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:10 PM |
| 4 | This sub is delusional.Not necessarily true. I've ran PUA shit and got lucky for it. Not necessarily attractive myself. How much experience do you have? | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:56 PM |
| 29 | This sub is delusional.If 99% of the worlds population thought you were unattractive, that 1% contains over 75,000,000 who would fuck you. Approach. Girls. No matter what. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:39 PM |
| 189 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"A relationship is a mutual agreement, and this is a condition of a relationship. Always assume she can find someone else she likes more, or that she'll lose her interest, and always focus on yourself first and foremost. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?One thing to always have in mind is that girls involve themselves with men for many different reasons, and those reasons may never be told to their partners. Money, validation, sex, revenge, etc. When it comes to ugly dudes with no confidence, what they have is usually money or validation. They'll literally worship their "Queens" hoping they never leave them. Girls eat that shit up because they need it, but they'll likely leave or cheat somewhere down the road. Edit: There's also attractive men … | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?I learned this game in elementary, I'll call it "Sun, Moon, or Star." The game is basically asmr for the fingers. In the right circumstance, I feel like it can be a little arousing. Take her hand with her palm facing you. Tell her to close her eyes and then tap the top of each finger consecutively, starting with the thumb. Ask her which felt the most pressure. Do it again, except gently caress the tips of each finger in a short motion, starting at the thumb. Ask her which tingled the most. Have … | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:08 PM |
| 4 | I think I know why *some* women ghost randomly even if it seems like you’re both enjoying yourselves.Haha, yeah girls loved being chased.. by men of they don't desire. Good ol' validation. Don't fuck with girls who play the pull-card too intensely that you have to seek them out. Some aren't even playing a game. They just lost interest. Either way, let them go and be completely indifferent. The truth is that girls act upon what they feel, and what they feel comes and goes. When they lose the tingles over you, it's game over. When you make em feel a lil crazy then they're yours... For now (She's … | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 0 | What do I say now?I will now never mention a museum to a girl thanks OP lmao | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 05:45 PM |
| 4 | I've never seen any "Chads" or cool guys irl do the Pua TeasingWhen a woman is interested and attracted you can basically say anything. Upon meeting a date for the first time I said "hol up" and jumped into a tree. Then, had a short lunch where she had a salad and I had a beer. We sat in mostly silence until we went and laid under a tree making moves on eachother. And then sex at my place after a game of TorD Shit don't really have steady formula | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Biggest confidence boost?A few things help me. Intense cardio, like bike riding, boosts me in an electric way and I feel strong and fast. A good hair cut and beard trim. A good pump from lifting. Using tinder with the intent to focus on likes instead of the total matches. I don't see their faces cus I'm not paying for it, but I got triple the swipes I use to get years ago when I was fat and lazy. It tells me "hey, if I can get some swipes here then I got chances in real life" | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?I think it's best to let yourself do what you want to do with genuine intentions. If you're interested then be interested with no regrets and take your shot. Don't take a person too seriously that you make a sacrifice right out the gate for them. Just tell them what you want. It's the rejection that gets people to show wether their truly desperate. If one cannot quickly accept and move on, then the person from who the rejection comes might just be their only perceived dating option. Going back f… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Looks, money or social status?If I had to choose, I'd go with looks. It's longer term and simply being attractive can get you laid if the other two aren't going well. Being attractive also crosses over to social status because people perceive you better and respect you more. Social status can tie into money if the cards are played right. Among all is Attitude. (And this is coming from a lower class guy with average looks and basic income and a soured attitude from stress) | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itDon't care, had sex Losing it to a hottie is a great start. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 10:17 PM |
| 53 | Am beta bucks in relationship do I just cut my lossesSomeone wanna tell OP that wallets shouldn't try to date human girls? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Tips on approaching women at barsApproach the girls who haven't noticed you, too. You may be missing out because you need signals, when in reality that isn't the case | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:22 PM |
| 42 | Anyone else using professional sex workers occasionally?The closest I got to a sex for cash situation was when a gay man offered me $60 for him to blow me. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 10:11 PM |
| 3 | What to do when a girl flakes on me that I’ve already hooked up withNext | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Effects of Porn and Masturbation on Approaching Girls. Thoughts?Most problems caused by porn depend on the individual, but I believe it causes the general problem of complacency. Porn is cheap thrills and easier than getting sex. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?Not often. At all. I actually just shaved down there for the first time in a while. I've been cutting weight after a small Christmas bulk, so naturally I was pleased to find half an extra inch hiding under the tree. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Just went for a little daygame session and saw another guy sargingThe conversation they had https://youtu.be/04uN57jOg-Q | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to approach a girl at the gym 🙏🏻Do you have treadmills at yours? This girl I made ton of eye contact with at my gym used the treadmill right next to mine, when the other 40 were free to use. I'm pretty sure she was interested. Maybe try that, and spark a conversation if she joins you? | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had?20ish and ok w that | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveObligatory read "Models" | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | If having sex is supposed to be an evolutionary and biological need, why is it so damn hard to get laid?!If that's how it worked, you'd see a lot more animals fuckin on a daily basis. Consensually. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidSometimes, it may even lack effectiveness. I got fit from fat and my average level of confidence shot up to a 6/10 from a 4/10. Granted, I'm not huge and crazy strong, but 6/10 in confidence isn't enough for getting mad plates. Good enough to be shirtless every chance I get though | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Why “Don’t ask for her number”?Yup. Moving on from uninterested girls. Creepy | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Why “Don’t ask for her number”?If you speak well and give a good vibe, I think I statements are a straight shot short cut to what you want | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why “Don’t ask for her number”?I statements with clear intent. "I'd like your number." Her answer is "No"? Just say "Have it your way, see ya" and move on to the next Make sure to build rapport | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 4 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?Weed but that's my personal experience. It gives me anxiety and makes me feel shitty. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 12:56 AM |
| 49 | How introverts flirt?Introvert to introvert, here's my advice: Introverts keep thoughts to themselves primarily, but will often share those thoughts and ideas with people they trust. Therefore, when it comes to strangers the best practice an introvert can get for socializing (and flirting) is by directing their focus on the people they interact with. See, it's actually charming to take interest in people and ask questions about them (You know how to verbalize, don't ya?) But - introverts might not be so keen to actu… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?Definitely. But nothing outstanding. Don't think I get noticed a lot | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How to flirt? What to say?Edit; Best advice ever: A charming person asks a lot of questions. Talk about them. People - especially girls - always have something to share about themselves. Flirting - its a paradoxical problem. Thinking about how to flirt will stop you from flirting. Fumble your words, compliment something they had to put effort into. Feel what you feel about them. Smile, make eye contact, wink. If it feels good, ride with it. If it feels like you have to force a vibe then you're simply missing the part you… | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you?Nah man you gotta cling on a bit. Call her 3 times a day, ask her "are you okay" 10 times a day, buy her gifts all the time, tell her she's beautiful and a goddess as many times as possible. Girls want a guy who worships them, because it gives them the validation and confidence they need to break things off with Chad's they fuck on the low. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | It is better to ask for number or InstagramNumber. Keep the mystery alive | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]No. Edlt: Do better | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 20 | Gotta attract her back.She went cold. She probably fucked other men, and left you on the back burner. You really want that back? She's likely not coming back because she feels love for you. She might not even like you as you are. There's many reasons girls want guys. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I would keep validation in your back pocket until it's earned. You don't actually need to tell a woman she's beautiful to get a date with her. Plus, they have heard it a thousand times. What they don't see often is a man they have to impress. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | What, exactly, is a double texting?I can apply a simple explain for both. Basically, a second text is often deployed to bring attention to oneself. It is a needy behavior and shows desperation. You: Hey what's up Her: Nm just chilln wbu?? You: Same I'm just chilling Her -no reply for two hours- You: Hello/ok rude/wtf?/maybe you fell asleep haha a ha cries/insertmeaninglesstexthere Edit: The only acceptable time to send a text after another is if trying to set logistics for a date, and the text is completely indifferent to the fac… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:08 PM |
| 3 | What, exactly, is a double texting?The worst form of double texting is texting for a response to a previous message. The second to the worst is when you text her after she ignores the first original message(s) | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | As a male, you MUST move out23 | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | As a male, you MUST move outMoved out at 17 by force. Felt like shit but that was probably just the homelessness. Got my first apartment last year and felt great for a while. Felt the same you do but now feel indifferent, unsatisfied even. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:15 PM |
| 10 | All The Reasons Women Have SexSimple fix: Don't think about it* Many reasons women do things make many reasons why I don't get in relationships. Full time IDGAF | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | how to be good in bedEnthusiasm and making their pleasure your own. Suck, bite, hump hump hump. have a feast with it and lose yourself to a primitive desire. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Are you catatonic? | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob?The quality of a blow job is subjective | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah bro that's what I think too. It wasn't like that until recently, either. She was all over my me before | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How to keep a girl interested in sex without getting into relationshipYou don't. She'll eventually branch swing if there's no commitment. Just happened to me for the 10th time. Thought shed ask for commitment after acting like she wanted it, but just didn't and removed herself instead after a couple shit testy texts | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | "We should only invest our time in women whose actions show that she has a genuine, burning desire for you." - but how can you get that desire while meeting them on social media?Text for logistics. Keep it real. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact during sexUse it right I guess I like what I did when I went to put my dick in her. I placed it right before her pussy, cuffed her wrist and said "Look at me" - she quickly locked eyes with me, a submissive look on her face, and I thrusted into her. Hottest moment of my life. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Just makes me curious. She texted me "Hey Queen" the other day. The repeated attitude towards my sexuality seems odd | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:53 AM |
| 5 | How do you guys act around your friends GF?It depends on the type of person she is. I keep a fair distance from my good friends GF but I consider them friends. My friends only approach with her is pretty strong so she doesn't take anything I do as flirting. And if I think she does something that goes against my grain then I just ignore it or spark a conversation with my buddy or both of them. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 11 | That feel when you ask her out and get rejected!I do that too. It takes guts to just go right for it so good job | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 01:31 AM |
| 10 | That feel when you ask her out and get rejected!That's pretty vague though. Try coming up with an activity and invite her to it on a specific day | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. RollercoasterYou're not her top option | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you get sick of having to be “on” all the time?It's fun if you are authentically all those things that make you great, and if you aren't making a relationship a primary objective. I prefer to hangout with girls without labelling things. Just can't fully disclose that, though. They eventually piss off but theres more out there. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:32 PM |
| 18 | Wtf is banter?!? [Week 3]I watched this guy at the gym today try chatting up one of the girls who was squatting. He says "Wow they better watch out for you huh?" And she took off her ear bud and said audibly, "Dude wtf are you talking about" Hearing him say "Oh.. you.. got earbuds in.." in a tone of defeat was fuckin hysterical | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 07:18 PM |
| 90 | Men of Reddit, what body language you notice when you make eye contact with a woman?Naturally I will stand a bit taller and keep my chin up more. More eye contact and smirks. Idk my body just does it and I use to make myself shake by trying to fight the urge, but it's better to do it imo since my self confidence is greater now. | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I could do that but I don't know if I want her now. To be honest I was sort of hoping her frame would just cave and she would spin her hamster into coming back to apologize with some sloppy. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Alright that's a good point. I was too passive and there's no going back from that. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The food was important to me, dammit! It was my post workout! Lol. I'll try out that idea with the next one to flake. I definitely shouldve been more direct like "I'm not tolerating this shit". Which I did in a way, she said "Im here" and I said "Oh you were still coming? I already started my plans" | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm just breaking things off and moving on. I believe her place is implied/has been implied since I met. She says "I'm worth more than you think lol". That was her last text and I didn't respond. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I definitely see your point. But I think it's better to give no fuck's and slide it off your shoulder (as well as ghosting, which I am doing) rather than be mad. I'm not that emotional. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well no, I bought the dinner hours prior. Some rice, dumplings, easy shit for my air fryer. When it reached 45 minutes beyond my expectations I put them away. An hour later I ate them for myself. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So true. This girl in my post found a hair in my bed and talked herself into believing it was some other girls. I just smirked. Its probably why she was acting out, according to her she "Is worth more than I think" and I'm a narcissist. Now I never set a value on her to her face, but I never let her know I was vetting her for relationship material either. What a.. fun game | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 11:58 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Abundance is about having available dating opportunities. Think of it as a safety net for when plans inevitably fall through with someone | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?No. Those nudes been around. Nudes be magikarp pokemon cards. Fresh nudes for just you are better, but IRL is the way | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Hot Cold MethodIn a sense. I don't use platforms like tinder so my general advice is always establish attraction irl and then text for logistics | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Hot Cold MethodDepends. If you haven't met her IRL its probably counterproductive | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 07:30 PM |
| 8 | Hot Cold MethodIME it should be a standard approach for dating. Too much comfort and validation and you get two things: A girl hungry for a relationship with you to the point of anger at negligence, or they ghost because the excitement is dead. Let's be real, they want to miss you. All those emotions we make them bottle up just explode with passion at the right time. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Fuck the gameDef agree with you. On the flip side, that approach is such a stressor. I'll happily take sprinkles and find content-ness in not having to shuffle so many chicks and dates at once. That's me though, I'm pretty into being in my own business on my own | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 26 | The best thing to say to a woman when you approachThank you. Straight to the point with clear intention. Mfers overthink too much | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 01:52 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]How's that? I know her at a sexual level, and that means Im now obligated to treat her differently in some way? | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nice | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:13 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]Well shit, Did I really need to? This question was for sake of calibrating I didn't need everyone digging too deep | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:11 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Damn so she was just being nice when she was giving me back shots all the times we already hooked up :( | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:08 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]Text for logistics only Sun Tzu | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:59 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Damn, Im a third or fourth. I should've flexed my air fryer harder. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]So, leave the text unopen, feel out for a shit test, and see if she rebounds. Gotcha I joke, sort of. If this was dating_advice I'd probably be crying | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:13 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]That does sound passive aggro. When it comes to actions, wouldn't a flag of a greener shade blow if she offers an alternative schedule? I think it sounds a bit desperate to ask for another day especially when we don't know what their cancelling for (i.e. another guy) | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine?Excited is fine but don't have high expectations from her. Be excited that you're an awesome person doing something awesome with a cute girl. | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 04:36 PM |
| 10 | I like to think when you're ready it happensIME, waiting around for something either yields no results, or a girl comes along who sees youre insecure and takes advantage of you | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 5 | I have high confidence but still have issues with womenWell what exactly are you expecting by "not approaching because it's beneath you"? There's women with lower standards than your own that wouldn't date you because you choose to be a recluse - that isn't very revealing of all that confidence you have pent up. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 01:21 AM |
| 6 | I have high confidence but still have issues with womenAh, so you're self limiting. I understand | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 01:16 AM |
| 7 | I have high confidence but still have issues with womenDo you know your worth? Do you really? Then how are you not approaching women with impeccable frame, and exuding absolute outcome independence - completely unphasable by rejection since you know it doesn't effect the value you truly believe you have? Turn that "Im not getting action" into "I'm not acting" and then you'll understand why you are kissless. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Need somebody to tell me to not text this girl who has left me on read multiple times…You right. Not sure why you're downvoted | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Need help with dirty talkTry adding a tone of positive reinforcement into the dirty talk. Girl is sucking and choking on me "Oh yeah baby you're a good little slut. Keep going" Not "TAKE THAT, SLUT!" Unless prompted for rougher play | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 06:59 PM |
| 35 | Escalation with honestyI can't explain why it's so difficult for me to be honest sometimes. I'm sick of feeling like I need to play a "Game" of deflection in order to keep someone interested | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 08:30 PM |
| 3 | How do you know her feelings are real?Her actions will tell more than her words will | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 07:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]So, basically, you aren't good at first impressions "lol". Texts aren't for building anything because there is no tone in it. Assuming you also have options: If she flakes, then NEXT. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 12:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It is true more than it is not. "Pinging" - a brief text reminder - is usually good but if she doesn't make the event a priority of a sort, regardless, then she wasn't that interested to begin with. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 12:02 PM |
| 3 | How to can a man Stop hiding his intentions and be upfront or show his sexual intentions?Offer comfortable vibes first, don't push for anything. Take rejection easy and move on. Get her number and have a date. On a date there should be some sexual tension. If you don't feel it at all at any point, then it's not going to go anywhere. If you two dig eachother it should come naturally. Touch her hand, offer a hug when you greet her, strong eye contact and smile, sit close, keep body language open. That's all you can do really. | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | I think my girlfriend was subdley flirting with someone in front of meKeep in mind that people saying what it could be are things that come to women subconsciously. When trying to flirt with a girl with a man you can tell - subtle signs - wether or not she's making herself available. It all depends on how much she invests emotionally in the male in her life Sounds like she's distanced herself from you emotionally and is open to new things | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 03:41 AM |
| 26 | Okay so handshake or hug when meeting dateHug. Or, if you miss that chance, offer her an arm to hold on to as you lead her. Breaks the touch barrier and sets up the gender dynamic on the fly | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Truth. I cringe every time I see a dude get mad at a woman for the shit they can't help but do. Big soyboy energy | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Just a quick questionTwo words: Outcome Independence. https://www.google.com/search?q=outcome+independence&oq=outcome+in&aqs=chrome.2.69i57j0i512l4.2947j1j9&client=ms-android-mpcs-us-revc&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Just a quick questionThey definitely can. Sorry, but you said it. Gotta change that mind set, homie. edit: stop rejecting yourself | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Way of the simpFor the dummies: Do the opposite of what OP said | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:18 AM |
| 8 | Just a quick questionI don't like girls with a lot of options at all Well, prepare to be completely lonely for the entirety of your life then. Nearly every girl has options. Change your POV. Men who do interesting things catch the interest of women. If you're desperate, or boring, why would they be interested? | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:56 AM |
| 2 | How does one become confident?Achievements and options. Think about it, being able to fill spaces in your life with what you want whenever you want would make you feel unstoppable. That's why people say "get an abundance." In a sense, the abundance mentality is one form of natural confidence. If a woman rejects you, why would you gaf if you have an abundance of other options? Unfortunately, these things aren't easy to get. You cant simply "fake it". You need to go out and actually fucking get it. Reason "fake it until you ma… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I can offer a simple protocol. Greet her with a hug as soon as you see her. Breaks the touch barrier. Be chill about it and keep it brief and give a "how are you femanon" Eye contact and proximity. Stay close but let her get closer. Closer she is, the more open she is to you. Touch her briefly when appropriate. Get her home and go for a kiss | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sleeps for gains. Gains > booty call | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Getting shit testedIt's not a shit test. She's being self deprecating. It's either a red flag or a comfort test. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Proximity is a good sign. Take note of how close she gets to you when you're around her. Touching. She may try and touch you more so than most. People don't necessarily touch other people over nothing - but we love to touch people we like. Eye contact, smiles, laughter. If she gets out of her shell a little then she's comfortable with you. On the contrary, if she's red and nervous around you then that is also a good sign. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Help for talking to women to attract themSocial media for logistics, woo them in person. Get together IRL asap and try to have fun. Dance, drink, climb trees, whatever. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I disagree greatly. Even shy girls will be receptive to advances if they're interested and there will be signs of that interest. Shy girls turn extrovert through texts over a guy they like. Edit: Shy girls are harder to read into so you do need to be confident enough to keep your doubts based on facts rather than anxiety with those types of girls. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 09:00 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Precisely. Acts Non Verba - the actions speak louder than her words do Even then most men don't realize what love-bombing is, which is typically done with actions of affection, and often negative in results | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:55 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Not sure what you're talking about now. If it's clear she's interested then that's all you need to work with. If it isn't clear, then it's important to pull back your efforts. Edit: it honestly sounds like something external is troubling you in your life. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:41 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Right and now to say that you are unsure is a matter of wether or not you want to waste you're time on her back burner. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]So - what I'm getting is you just met someone and she's making you have doubts already? You realize that getting to know each other in preparation requires an initial attraction, right?... Woof | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Example of having doubts is if a man has to wonder "does she like me?" The answer is no. She might like you a little, because maybe you are at least respectable. But that doesn't lead to much especially not sex - unless she's desperate to find a body to lay. A woman's interest is usually pretty obvious. If there's no doubts, then it's great. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 84 | [deleted by user]When there are doubts, the answer is no. A simple philosophy. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do I care about my partner’s sexual past?One of many reasons it's important to vet. Get into an LTR with more focus on your self interest. Having someone to allow you to feel endorphins, oxytocin, dopamine, and have sex with long term with easier access. Also consider the financial benefits. Do they have a job, healthy habits, good family, dependence/independence, etc. Weigh the pros and cons of someone who you want to involve in your life before you open yourself up to them. If you focus too much on the past then you'll not move forwa… | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Having a whimsical, self-amused attitude is key to attraction. The overly-polite, serious guy rarely winsThis is something Im working on because I do take myself a little too serious. Not in a romancing way to impress girls, but in a disciplinary sense. Thanks, life, for making it hard to allow myself the pleasure of relaxing a little without worrying that Im not doing enough! | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 01:58 AM |
| 7 | These days, soul mates seem to be a luxury, a nesting place to find a soul mate to warm in the autumn.Soul mates don't exist. Just find yourself a dude you like enough and try to make it go long term. Or get wild and ride the carousel | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Be outcome independent, find abundance, and try to fully digest the true nature of things. That's all you can do. Being angry is counter productive | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Overcoming Neediness With Women IS EASY!This is quite similar to meditation, at least the meditation I learned. Identifying thoughts and emotions and letting them flow is what it's all about. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 12 | What’s your biggest piece of sex advice?This tip I picked up worked great. It's very simple but the understanding from it is life altering. Rub your index finger gently and in a steady (not hastily) motion on your palm. Give it a little rhythm if you can. If it tickles then that indicates to you how a clit should be touched. if it doesn't then ease up on the pressure. | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 11:30 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m too comfortable with my girlfriendApply the tiniest amount of dread. Dread creates illusions in her head about you leaving her behind. It'll make things a little more tense but if you keep cool she'll be fighting for your undivided attention. Try this: Go out with your gf but let her see you talking to someone else who is attractive. Smile and hold eye contact with the person. Don't touch or ask for information, just be a bit of flirt. Only thing that can go wrong naturally is if your gf knows the game and ignores you. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Be cool with it and back off. Texting for the sake of getting that response is needy and needy is unattractive. She'll come around on her own. If not just move on to the next | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:08 AM |
| 7 | If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive?Because they're more inclined to be nervous and masculinity has the means to be naturally intimidating | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Do you talk to women in general?Sure. I get the chance to interact with a lot of attractive girls at my job. It gives me the chance to practice subtle flirting, frame, eye contact, and general conversation skills. It's also been good for my anxiety towards approach as well. | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 10:54 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]I see. My honest opinion is that sexting is cringe and my general advice would be to focus on setting up a date instead but if you enjoy it you could always hit her up with some corny pick up line like "How many licks does it take to get to the center of Julie pop?" Idfk | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Just show interest. Touching, eye contact, laughing, etc. And get a reason to kiss them. Why do you need to say something sexually suggestive? | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Where do I meet women?Every where. Chat em up. Everyone wants to dive into flirting with the cutest they can get, but you should talk to more with no expectations. Don't rEsPaCt WaHmeN but treat others the way you'd like to be treated. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Touched a girl from work today!Eh. Caution friend. It seems innocent and you think everything is fine until youre suddenly told by HR that you made so-and-so uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Online texting seems to just kill my chances every time. I’m sick of it.Text for logistics only | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 3 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beAm I the only one reading this same advice every day on this sub? TBH, it's counter productive when it's always worded like this. Do this, do that! Easy! Then comes those with experience and their (bias) opinions to chirp to the same tune in their own flock. Seduction here sells like a product. "it's great! Super fun and easy! Buy now!!" This leaves the less fortunate to being downvoted in the comments for their confusion and misunderstanding. No one is telling "new" people where to look, or tel… | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 6 | girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attractedDon't fall into that "now-a-days" boomer bs. Women have always brutally selective - men just have it easier when the economy is broadly beneficial | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.OP may correct me if I'm wrong, but I think he's implying that when you focus on yourself, hit your goals, and obtain the confidence by your personal successes, you will appear that way. Ever had a situation make you feel so well that your stride was different, your arms were swaying free, and a smirk was stuck above your chin? That sends a signal like "Yeah im the shit" and girls will notice that. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 4 | How do you feel around beautiful women?If I'm walking on the sidewalk and about to pass an attractive woman I end up shifting my focus internally, just low-key panic. Once I realized I was doing that I made it a point to stop getting in my head in those scenarios | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isbruh | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 12:08 PM |
| 122 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?If it's not an excited yes, it's a no. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from womenI've been faced these last few months for a potentially life threatening condition, and I like to tell myself " Man just live, stop stressing out, you may not even have 10 years left here" Wish my brain wasn't so solid on it's beliefs.. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting?She hit you up after ghosting, today? Let us know how it goes if she comes through. GL | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting?Could've gone out for it any time, but you only went when she called you up. Who you trying to lie to other than you right now, big playa? | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting?What I think is that you wreaked of desperation and completely blew it | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting?Just move on. You asked one girl, ask another. But dial it back a few. Steps Ive taken that worked: Get number, send text hour or two later "Hey its me that handsome young stud Bob" , reply after a few hours to whatever asking if shed like to offer company while you do cool thing, invite to yours for a movie after (plausible deniability) and then keep her phone dry of your presence for a few days. Edit: added a word | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How to make girls fall in love and chase you?No, I know you were asking. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Advice on feeling out of place/ not goodNo | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | My first approachGotta be thinking 2 steps ahead there. A funeral for one person is one and done. A consistent routine location can be shitting where you eat. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | My first approachHave you been back to the gym since? A piece of advice circulating round is that approaching in the gym is not a great idea. Hopefully it goes beyond pleasantries for you two and don't fall back into just eye balling each other ;) | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Woman’s perspective: how can men have an abundance mentality when online dating puts so much abundance and power in a woman’s hands?Men with the abundance mentality have it because they've got themselves some choices, and have complete control over their availability to their options, without complication. That's few, compared to most men who invest too much in one girl and lose their power. They won't say no. Tinder profiles are just business cards of men readily available at the first taking. At least, that goes for most. Best not to use tinder | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | These days I feel like I'm barely alive. What should I do?I've been on that train for a year. It's been put into the "Use to be rewarding but now feels like a chore" category. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 0 | Why are men so persistent?Meh. Got to hand it to the ones that see what they want and take a go at it. That's how it should be done. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I think I know what I need to do but I'm not sure...You reached the end when you got rejected. She doesn't have a reason to reach out to you. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 04:11 PM |
| 6 | When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her?My general advice is get her back to her place, where she is most comfortable. Last time I had a girl over we just sat on my couch talking when I initiated a game of truth or dare. TorD creates sexual tension ime | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 23 | Signs when she is not interestedTruth, if shes interested then it will be easy. Not entirely applicable with sexual situations, however. Depends on the woman, but most require some kind of basis for sex. Some examples being 1. You're irresistible and have the charms, 2. You've successfully created plausible deniability in which she can deny ever having sex with you, and 3. She won't feel like a slut following the act. Like I said, it depends on the girl, but most sexual situations don't go as well as they do in porn. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I couldn't agree with you more, OP. When you lift, you achieve. When you achieve, you feel confident. I was addicted to it for months but the dopamine spikes lessened for me and I feel very burnt out in general (seriously considering getting an appointment its so bad). I still go I just hope I gain the energy and drive back one day. | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 14 | Today was an epic failure(Look at this number: 12 (Now look at this number: 52,456 (Analyze this side by side comparison of both numbers: 12 / 52, 455 You know what's thrilling is that a number close to 52,456 would be the number of girls that would sleep with you. Hell, its probably higher and that's being realistic. Keep shooting off your influence like a shotgun in all directions and you're bound to start dropping pantie wielders. God speed | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 01:18 AM |
| 11 | I did my first cold approach!Why must you shit where you eat? | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 12 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusNot sure if already mentioned but Cologne tip: Spray at or around the tip of your neck artery, once on each side. This is a pulse point and will help your cologne get some range. If you want, spray once at chest level on your shirt (its what I do) | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Bro one of my coworkers came to me and said I was really cute...Lol I get it. Happened to me a week or so back too. Girl said to me loudly in a store "Wow you could be a model! Very cute" and I was taken back and just said " who me? Oh uh thanks!" and walked away in a daze lmao | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Bro one of my coworkers came to me and said I was really cute...Were they not attractive to you or? | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 28 | Sometimes you’re not that shy to approach girls, you just don’t set a clear intentionOr, its that a lot of people feel shy over their intentions. You want to get laid, so play the part. Approach, ask to give or receive a number, and move along. If rejected, move on to the next. Don't beat around the bush and try to be clever. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do you guys hate Game so much?My 2 cents is the " mystery method" is not as easy as it sounds. From my own experiences it is about being vague as possible about your going-ons. Her: I bet you're going to see your other 10 girlfriends You: It's only a matter of time smirk ... Her: where are you going? You: Anywhere I want The more they think about you, the more they think about you. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 12:33 PM |
| 5 | I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step?Best chance at reconsideration/display of valuable self confidence is this example: "Hey meet at x for drinks at 7" "Maybe" "Ok another time then" puts phone down/texts another girl/goes out alone and owns it without thinking about girls and intent to have fun I pulled this when a girl tried changing the plans I made. She pulled up at the assigned destination immediately and have been screwing her since. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidenceTIL people on r/seduction need some serious guidance with women | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | What is this weird behavior?Reflect on that. ask yourself why you think that. Get an abundance and you'll know what I mean Shame on you | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What is this weird behavior?I'll make sure to wear a helmet for my handicap that is not risking prison. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | What is this weird behavior?She was 2 bottles of wine deep. I was under-exaggerating the circumstance. It also doesn't matter. Any alcohol is a no-go. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What is this weird behavior?I asked about body language and you're trying to make this into some weird challenge. | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 06:01 PM |
| 0 | What is this weird behavior?Good tip. I didn't want to hold the bitch. ETA: Why are you trying to convince me Im beta for not touching a drunk chick, Cosby? | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What is this weird behavior?She was drunk on the second date, if she retracts because I didnt make a move then it's her loss | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | I will assert, and I will set a date, a time, and place. It never goes right.Yeah, being with the flow is often my vibe in general. I do try the planned approach with that exact set up. Always meet in a public place, then activity, then my place. I can't hold that down. I hope to get better in time. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to ask a woman for her info if she initiates a conversation?I want to ask if you're joking but I get the feeling you aren't Thank god for intuition | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 01:39 AM |
| 0 | My mom told me to be a step dadMom's just trying to swing branches in her own yard | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Responding, and reason, to "I want a relationship before I have sex with you"Then she's got an empty box full of delusion. I've tried to provide nothing but dick | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Responding, and reason, to "I want a relationship before I have sex with you"Same age roughly, 22 yo. I believe I introduced myself to her at a small function. She had a boyfriend and she hmu after they split. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | How often is too often to see a new plate and why?I thought it was so we didn't give girls the wrong idea. I must be a sociopath lmao | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Girl who's bf wouldn't let her talk to me just texted me out of the blue. Want to bang, how should I initiate from here?I do know she isn't rich. But not sure about the bf. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Girl who's bf wouldn't let her talk to me just texted me out of the blue. Want to bang, how should I initiate from here?Has it occured to you that Im a sped kid with a wheel chair and ugly face and this could be my only chance at pussy? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I have dated has cheated on me. How to get over the insecurities that came from this?There's some details I'm curious about. Were you overbearing? Did you give the most fucks or did they? (Always give less fucks.) Did you lose your frame too many times? Have you read the sidebar? Best advice is to trust your gut when it comes to having a relationship. Like another commenter said, just fuck without getting all serious. Enjoy being single. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | guys who are on the bachelorette are betas?The Alphas are there for every benefit beside pussy lmao. Influential broadcast | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Gay coworker lost it at me before he left. Did I handle this well?Right. This guy wrote a covert contract in which he gets the utmost respect without giving anyone a reason to give him that | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Gay coworker lost it at me before he left. Did I handle this well?Nah his ignorance has an impact. He will follow you around if you try to walk away | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 09:26 AM |
| 5 | Gay coworker lost it at me before he left. Did I handle this well?They weren't around tonight. He must've been told not to bring them in anymore. Just touched base with an AM 5 minutes ago and told them about it. Apparently he's been told many times not to have people here and to do exactly what I reminded him of many times already. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Gay coworker lost it at me before he left. Did I handle this well?We're the same level. Here's a defining trait for this person - his license plate is his fucking name, if that tells you anything about him | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 08:28 AM |
| 10 | Gay coworker lost it at me before he left. Did I handle this well?I reminded him yesterday to do a specific task that he was lazy on, because it is unsafe to ignore. His reaction to my statement was "Are you giving me attitude right now?" I said yup because he keeps making that mistake which affects me too. Today He started with "So yesterday you said some pretty disrespectful things to me.." As if to confront me as if I disrespected someone in management, over that first situation I mentioned. It then went on to the fact that I talked to an actual manager abo… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Having frame has been hard as hell at work. What should I do?I am not equipped with strong wit or the ability to snap with clever speech. I can't really speak clearly half the time, not sure why. Brain to mouth sucks for me. I barely know my own voice, if you know what I mean. Otherwise, I think thats good advice. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Having frame has been hard as hell at work. What should I do?He's a 40 year old gay man and others have told me about his "bossy" nature. I havent heard praise, but he does seem like the boss's yes-man. I get job offers often, I could always find something else. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Sudden loss of control talking to girl. How do I avoid this?I do take these things hard sometimes. I'm working on becoming stoic for that reason. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Men that grinded, played a field, worked hard and yet no fruits? How do you do?I use to go hard on creating illustrations straight from my imagination. I was good at it too. It was my natural skill from a young age I somehow got convinced to quit by one thing someone said nearly a decade ago about how artists dont have the means to make money. I often wonder if there are fruits to be plucked from that tree | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 0 | I think I dived into lifting too fast, and not sure what I should do nowDerp | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 0 | I think I dived into lifting too fast, and not sure what I should do nowIs it true that bulking when still fat around abs will cause extra fat gain? I'm hesitant to start bulking for that reason. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I think I dived into lifting too fast, and not sure what I should do nowIt doesn't? I thought the bulk period increased mass and strength at a higher pace+percentage than lifting on a cut. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Just wanna share a quick Red Pill moment I witnessedIf you look closely you'll see the truth everywhere. It comes with the territory | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Pook Lesson Eight question - What does it mean for a man to have sexual appeal?Ah, now I see. Masculinity, hygiene, and high value are the elements to a man's sex appeal. I was thinking we needed to be extra about it to get noticed but it's in our DNA to attract women. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 0 | Tips for improving personality, self image, and conversation skills?Commenter refuses giving advice OP says ok Commenter poops pants | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Tips for improving personality, self image, and conversation skills?My current position exposes me to a lot of interactions. I haven't had success in making social improvements however it is where I talk to most women and receive the most IOIs | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Tips for improving personality, self image, and conversation skills?Yes I have my issues that do interfere with success. I won't ask for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Tips for improving personality, self image, and conversation skills?Good point. I wasn't correlating my issues with Game but listing them as reasons as to why I refuse to try | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | I feel like complete shit and disgusted of myself, not sure how to handle thatIt's only gay if balls touch | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Can't get over LTR's past.Honestly, most girls have a high n count. If she checks boxes for LTR material then just enjoy what she adds to your life. She may leave one day, and it'll make you realize that dwelling on the past was pointless. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Plate wants me to stop hooking up with other girlsHit her with the "Do what you want" liner | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Does this make me pussy? (Confronted by angry idiot)I'm interested in hearing what you would've done, put aside that most of what I'm gathering here is that escalation would've been the wrong move | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Does this make me pussy? (Confronted by angry idiot)That's not the part we're talking about here, dinghole | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Does this make me pussy? (Confronted by angry idiot)I tried that as I was talking to someone briefly in the moment, thats where he said "do you hear me bitch" | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Does this make me pussy? (Confronted by angry idiot)I can say with confidence that, while I may jump too, I've had people I know do similar to me and I haven't once reacted in this fashion. It's not bullying. But I tend to forget that the typical male has too much subconscious uncertainty and lack of awareness, so I may project my own reality on to others | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Does this make me pussy? (Confronted by angry idiot)Nah, I meant to do it. It was a light tap. I just smiled and nodded when he looked back before he got huffy The dude and I have a few months of rapport and decent positive interactions. Apparently messing with "da bros" isn't his taste. I think hes feeling this way because I'm friends with his gf. She confided in me recently 1-1 about his beta 'I'll kill myself over you" shit, a conversation that ended abruptly when he came up to us. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl mimic-ing some of my behaviorCall me sexist, but that's a line of code I can't see being programmed into a woman's DNA. That's some sun tzu shit | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | I feel like the whole world is against meSounds like some personal issue with yourself is accompanying side effects of RP. Everything is out for themselves, and you can be a victim to this sin if you can't fend them off. People aren't actively plotting against you. The realization that everyone around you is focused on their own gain can be very beneficial to your life. It can be an advantage, giving you the option to play off their interests. It's also good for recalibrating your social/sex game. Edit: I meant "everyone" but even tree… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel OK with spending longer than an hour with girls to build attraction before sex, when it's too likely she woke up next to another guy earlier that day?Ok that's fair. Assuming she did wake up with someone else on the day you try to smash, he had to give a little too. She's the ball and we keep it rolling. I'm not gonna think of it further | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | "Im sorry, thats not who I am" - The apology some time after sending me nudesI splerg hard with compliments. I did actually reply lightly, not totally ignore them. I just told her I prefer IRL to pics. Also "They arent so bad though ;)" | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | "Im sorry, thats not who I am" - The apology some time after sending me nudesI'd be shocked considering her OF and racey insta | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | "Ive curved you because I have feelings for you" What in God's name is that line of bullsh*t?Well, I know better. I ignored her and she full forced tried checking my emotions. "Why are you mad?" "Do you hate me?" Etc. After some A&A she became sexually open to me | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | "Ive curved you because I have feelings for you" What in God's name is that line of bullsh*t?Right, I don't get what the point of her saying that is | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 3 | "Ive curved you because I have feelings for you" What in God's name is that line of bullsh*t?It's another word for reject, I believe | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How should I get rid of this anger phaseHaven't had an anger phase so, not sure. But the other answers seem good | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Please make yourself aware of NPDThere's too many people who don't know how or about testing their product. Clean LSD is incredible, and easier to handle compared to psilocybin. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 12:32 PM |
| 22 | The more I improve the more hate from menI noticed this too for myself, and I've heard before that people will dislike you because you'll end up making them feel insecure. No one on TRP seems to believe that. I've deduced it to three reasons: 1. They're jealous 2. You're doing something subconsciously 3. They're just assholes | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 08:00 PM |
| 15 | The more I improve the more hate from menI don't see your understanding OP's too neutral, so he should go off his balance and.. Do what exactly? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with an aggressor?That's something I'll look into. Not sure if there's any classes going on over here with the pandemic though | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 5 | What's your experience with women who were raised by single moms? (no dad in picture)Ime, there's a lot of on and off in their relationships with the one parent. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 0 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meMy question is, did your girlfriend hand out her number to this person? Why does he have it? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:10 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with the guy friends?Think about how hard it is to change yourself. Think you can change other people? | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else lose interest in a woman after learning she has children?Sexually? Not always. There are some fine single mothers. Just few and far between. There's no room for romance. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)What's done is done, why tread on the past? Most women have done slutty and scandalous shit. It's counterproductive to give it any importantance. Might as well never get into an LTR again. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm autistic, right?I have her information. I don't believe I'll use it much | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | I'm autistic, right?I pulled a phone call when she tried getting me to carry a drink so she could look at shit. The bags were the limit. I dont want to be present when a girl is shopping again. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm autistic, right?Good point. I thought leaving would be better than staying. She didnt know why I left though. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm autistic, right?Yeah I can still be boyish sometimes | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 7 | I'm autistic, right?I'm 22, she is 20. I agree though, pretty immature. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | I'm autistic, right?Why's that? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?Sounds like a beneficial plate. Just keep it that way for the pussy, or let her go so you can allow an LTR with someone that's suitable. Honestly, girls cheat a lot more than we realize, and can do it while acting totally in love with you. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?I believe two things about eye contact - confidence, attraction, or both. My EC game is strong, but I dont always use it for displaying interest | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?Ive always thought of it as a grey area | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?I hit that "boyfriend" wall a lot, at least I did before. I took it as a sign to slow down instead of fact, considering I've fucked several girls with boyfriends | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the basic IOIs?True, I always feel it in my portobello. Thoughts are dangerous, Ive always doubted myself before I got fit. Cant wait to escape from that. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What are the basic IOIs?That's a good way to look at it. I'm jotting that quote down as a reminder | /r/askTRP | 26/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lose interest in easy girls?I lose interest fast because my sexual drive is falling below average lately. Low s-count too. RIP balls | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I can’t accept the fact that girls think I’m BetaThe deeper I go the similar realizations I've made. This is what I ask myself: How would you compare the you that is to the you that was? What would the you that is do different compared to what you've done in the past? What have you done recently to support the claim that you're a better man? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Injecting drama into an LTRDread game, the drama will be created in her head. And you'll probably get some sloppy. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Is this the clear IOI I believe it to be?A gym sesh is the move I'll make. I'm just going to wing the invitation and gain some new experience | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Shit test or straight up rejection? Is my common response resulting in loss?Accurate | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Shit test or straight up rejection? Is my common response resulting in loss?Rip | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 02:02 AM |
| -4 | Shit test or straight up rejection? Is my common response resulting in loss?Some of those seem borderline creepy as hell, to be honest. But I see you're point. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:26 PM |
| -1 | Shit test or straight up rejection? Is my common response resulting in loss?See, that's what I thought I was doing. I'll try that approach next time around. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Disturbing information has me feeling off. Can I get some thoughts?Right, but I couldn't. I just brushed it off, and there is something wrong with that | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Yo do you boys send pics to girls?I know your secret, porn ad | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Is this worth a soft next?Next time say "bye then" but mean it | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Plate just sent me a text out of nowhere, wrote me "I want to stop, i don't see myself with you in the long run", should i bother replying at all?Some plates get broken, and that's okay. Let it fall off the spinner. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do outsiders associate the red pill with alt-right politics?One of many reasons to keep the red-pill under the radar | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | When is a girl “TOO drunk” to smash?Depends on the first drink. Is it potent? Whats the quantity? If it is strong and worth a few jiggers, wait for the second drink. Was it just as strong as the first? If yes, don't smash. At that point, it becomes a question of her character. And you never really know if she'll claim she was too drunk to consent after the fact. It's best not to fuck girls after drinks. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Need help processing this. Why would she show me these videos? Was this some sort of tactic to win me over with sick humor?Calls for a&a | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 01:00 PM |
| 30 | TRP is real, 80/20 rule is realPhysically attractive people get laid more for having genetic advantage, not because sex is a "physical" activity | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How to attract people?I have some knowledge in the pharmacology. Both alcohol and phenibut work on gaba receptors and will potentiate eachother. Keep it low and you're golden. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How to attract people?I would use 1-2.5g with an energy drink | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How to attract people?Social god twice a week, autistic for the rest. It's a great deal. /s (I might start using phenibut again tbh) | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are most girls I attract have divorced parents?I use to attract single moms for a reason I can't pinpoint. They're usually pretty damaged too. Fuck them once or twice and suddenly they talk a lot about ahem shit I don't care about. I always assume they want some thing from me, like provisions. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Say you are strong and dominant. If someone gets one on you psychology, i.e. to "establish dominance", how do you take it?True. I am more interested in what the social side effects are as opposed to personal - but I will "Ahhh ya got me ;) finger guns" people to death now | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Say you are strong and dominant. If someone gets one on you psychology, i.e. to "establish dominance", how do you take it?Haha it's funny that you bring that up. I find myself often staring into someones set of monocles and end up making myself uncomfortable. Something to do with inciting conflict, which isn't my taste. Or just isnt appropriate depending on circumstances | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Say you are strong and dominant. If someone gets one on you psychology, i.e. to "establish dominance", how do you take it?It's easy to say that we are on top of the game. But I am unconvinced that it's realistic any of us here actually can be 100%. The one thing I retained from something like 48 was to let your enemy play their cards recklessly. Something like that. Something about "fools talk too much" resulting in their demise. I just stay aware as much as possible of how others convey a message. I utilize A&A a fucking lot like I just cant gaf. 90% of the time its when dealing with women since I have it down tha… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 03:54 AM |
| -3 | Say you are strong and dominant. If someone gets one on you psychology, i.e. to "establish dominance", how do you take it?TLDR | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Say you are strong and dominant. If someone gets one on you psychology, i.e. to "establish dominance", how do you take it?Right on | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Where to find wife material?Hey that's alright, bro. It was years ago. Thanks though And good luck finding your Mrs | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Where to find wife material?This reminds me of the time when my ex left me to fuck with someone else on the fly, then that same dude pulled her nudes up and showed me the collection. Had to keep it looking like I wasn't bothered and fuck that bitch, like I wasn't looking at the most disgracing (albeit humiliating) act against all I thought I knew about a bitch. Last girl I ever let myself love that damn hard so foolishly. Jk Im ranting right now, don't get married | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 05:30 AM |
| 28 | The minimum ban is now 30 days.Preaching about being banned for questions and words? Banned | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringI, too, need to hear this. But often dont know where to begin with my dreams. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of 3+ years, DM'ing some dude. Told her to stop. Immediately kept doing it ..on a week long trip right now."I'm not tolerating this behavior. I'm heading back, by myself, come grab anything you left with me when you can." Don't tell her to stop and then not do anything. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 3 | What’s one adjustment you’ve made to the way you carry yourself that completely enhanced your charisma/confidence?I never thought of it that way. How does one command it without coming off as an unfavorable ass? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 4 | How to teach a girl to suck dick?Lay back and guide her head. Moan for good, or tell her to do something such like "Go a little faster, baby", "Lick that fucking dick", "Tell me how those nuts taste", Idk bro. I dated a virgin girl once and transformed her into a cock slide. Used to just blow loads on her face and glasses after school and walk her to work after. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | why can I pull girls but can‘t get a gf?I don't think "better" is the right adjective. "Different", perhaps. Sluts are great. Not being taken for what you have is also great. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 11 | What’s one adjustment you’ve made to the way you carry yourself that completely enhanced your charisma/confidence?How does one do this without getting interrupted? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Buddy becoming an orbiter for my plateDon't refer to your "plate" as such if this is your only one and this is your take on the situation. If you cant get more and get over that jealousy (over a fucking plate.) then just consider yourself lucky to have one at all right now. Shes going to fuck who she wants. Why don't you just wife her up already? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 9 | How to get women in a small town? Or should I just stay in monk mode?It would make sense that you try to game those girls you already know like you said regardless. If they reject you 9/10, you can get better at handling rejection. Chances are they dont see you as "beta". I bet you can charm a few if you try. Dont let that ego get in the way. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 123 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksThat aint your girl, that's his plate | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 02:43 AM |
| 9 | Can men and women be friends? Hooked up with a good friend..And for abundance It's also a lesson. OP fell in love on a ONS. Don't be OP. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 02:38 AM |
| -2 | What to do after blue ballsThe time you took to type that could've been spent spelling out 3 simple words | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 10:24 PM |
| -2 | What to do after blue ballsWhat is LMR? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 20 | Ltr texting other guyNo. Imo a man cheating in an LTR that he decided to initiate is just going against himself. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | do women like being asked out or does it offend them?Not surprised lol | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Shit test, comfort test, subtext within, or ignore?Yeah I admit I did over think her motive. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How dangerous is sending my own nudes?Not to my understanding. I would send them after I already received their nudes. ETA: it's better to keep mystery around your package | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How dangerous is sending my own nudes?This comment is funny to me because I use to take dick pics like a pro photographer, and utilize them when the timing felt right. I don't anymore though. Dont send dick pics | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | FrameI find this comment helpful. I too struggle with understanding frame. I'm still trying to categorize the differences between frame-loss and change of mind. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | I may be pushing too hard with girls. Advice?Perhaps my issue is Im at some unregistered RP stage where I lack empathy for girls. I should try what you say. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:25 PM |
| 4 | I may be pushing too hard with girls. Advice?When I hear "friend", I automatically assume "girlfriend". And to clarify thats relative to woman-man friendships | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 08:04 PM |
| -1 | I may be pushing too hard with girls. Advice?They never dip. Things just dont often go beyond talking. Covid, probably. I'm shifting my way out from monk mode. Shit feels new. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as a mentally stable, non-impulsive crazy woman. So what is the solutionI would argue that they do exist. Just AWALT. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle this?What can I say, I like to hang with my DUFFs lol. Him and his gf are okay people in my book. But if his issues escalate I may have to ignore them | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Did I just do a shitty thing?I understand that there is always more to learn. So in that regard I am unsure. I feel a little guilty because I lied. Just really want this chick to get it into her head that Idgaf. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:57 AM |
| 0 | What is it with black women?Damn you okay | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 0 | What is it with black women?Wtf is wrong-think | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What is it with black women?Not for my agenda. I support BLM, LGBT, etc. I trust that specific environments have this effect on these people I mentioned | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What is it with black women?Eh. Come see it for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Question for the rich men of asktrp: has money helped you with attracting women?I'm not rich. But yes, valuable resources attract women. Men who provides a woman with money can have her. Her loyalty to that man depends on the man he is. Ugly beta provider with cash may find his wife fucking broke-ass Brad in his yacht. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What is it with black women?Surely I should specify for you. They are always african foreign women who live in the area. They walk slow and disregard their surroundings. It's something I can kid about, really. It's more like docile zombies that speak french. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 0 | What is it with black women?o nO mAh FrAmE | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 0 | What is it with black women?"One encounter" shut up and read the post | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | I don't think I'm capable of loving anymore, after swallowing the pillBaby don't hurt me | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Have any of you guys tried Oxytocin nasal spray? It’s amazing for sexIn the US? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you guys tried Oxytocin nasal spray? It’s amazing for sexWhere did you get it Edit: puncuation | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | First time using A&A"Get her number for me" She never said it was a man. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 0 | First time using A&AThat's needy | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Wanting a strong womenPenis+penis = homo Penis+pussy = not homo | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else get a drive rush after being Red Pilled?When I learned of the Red Pill I wasn't lifting. It was upsetting to realize Im lacking. When I committed and started seeing improvement my drive increased. Every small win obtained pushes me further. Beat my depression, and nulled a bloated and abusive ego. I quit drinking/smoking when I realized all I needed to cope with problems was to better myself. I've not met all my goals by any means but the journey there has a lot to offer. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | I need some rp opinions. Is this considered cheating?Yikes | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Can someone who's read the manipulated male tell me what she's saying here?Are trying to reflect speech impediment in your writing? Wtf are you on about | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Isn't it interesting how the relationship subreddit holds more on how relationships are problematic, rather than about relationships being great?Can't see comments for some reason | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Did you notice a substantial increase in female attention as you passed your mid 20's?Cant really speak on that. But Im 22 and work out everyday and I've noticed the slightest increase in female attention. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I’m dating someone and I want to make sure she’s not dating/talking to someone else. What should I do?Damn you just obliged like that? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 12:40 PM |
| 39 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?Horse | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Am I the only person who is in severe scarcity/drought in these lockdown days?I've had sex with three people this year | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Anyone here who mastered social skills but were socially awkward before? How did you do it?I have a hard time with that first thing. Attempting to "emulate" others gives me the sense of being an imposter, or as if they are better than me because I copy them. Then comes the self belittlement for having done that. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | If a woman asks me "Why should I go out with you and not someone else?", how do I answer?"Go for it", grin, walk away, take someone else out | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | "Self-improvement" is unattractive to girls. Prove me wrong.Anyone can work on themselves. Even the 'experienced beta' can self improve everyday. Hows your game | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatHe'll get a fuck load for free chinese food duh | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 6 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatHe doesnt even want her either my dude. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 8 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatCall your local aquarium. Get her home king | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Fight with girlOn top of breaking frame, you made a joke of her. What's the benefit there? Was it an attempt at mate-guarding? Learn to say less | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Subtle art of not giving a fuckI havent read the book but it's recognized by most. Isnt "not giving a fuck" an important part in the realm of RP experience? Please elaborate on how the book is BP | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend texted me good morning, have fun staring at Xs ass today! Is this a shit test?Little bit of dread present, thats a good thing. Don't fuck with it. Ignore. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Did you lose interest in long-term relationships after discovering the red pill?I am basically at a point where I have less interest in girls or dating. Im way more interested in casual sex as I always have been, but not desperately seeking it out ever. If it happens, it happens. However Im also less cocky funny and more strong, more silent, kind of narcissistic, kind of horribly manipulative. I don't mind it but I wonder how it affects my game and possibly my rep. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are tattoos/drinking red flags?"Why are tats and drinking considered a red flag?" An alcoholic walking red flag with tats | /r/askTRP | 24/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Is it normal to have days where you feel amazing, then days where you feel like a complete loser?I feel it right now. I couldn't relax enough to fall asleep last night. Got about 3 hours and woke up in a shit state of being. I've been visibly set off at work. Just two nights ago I was full of life at work. But right now, not so much. Pissed. I would love to stop being so pissed. But if I suddenly change up my mood now, I'd feel even worse. Idk how to explain it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Caught up with a chad friend i hadn't seen for a couple of years and made me feel like a loser and got depressedAre physically able to hit the gym? Can you grow a beard? maintain a beard? Get a beard and go bald. Work for the confidence. Girls throw a attention at him but you too can get a girls attention. Woman =/= men, meaning that we are so different in terms of what were looking for. Dont put women on a pedestal, never pre-determine that they dont want to fuck you | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm struggling with some sort of multiple personality disorder and madonna-whore complex.Dating a virgin and no sex? what happens if you hate it when it happens? | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 05:39 PM |
| 0 | Are Red Pill YouTube channels full of bullshit no one should listen to?It's rhetorical, dude. I'm telling you that these RP channels are misguided. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Guy is pursuing same girlStop pursuing | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with being aware but want a relationship?Thanks, Doc! It's more of a general thing than this one person but I either fuck more hoes or get caught up | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with being aware but want a relationship?Could be the cuddling. Not sure why | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Why they sabotage me?Your only choice is to fuck her brains out, OP. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Was this cold exit a good idea?I honestly that would've been a bad idea since I dont want to be a womans safe place, without the idea of sex. Maybe I have the wrong idea. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Am I overthinking sex?You're foreskin is too tight too retract? Dude you should get it looked at. Your gland is gonna be a cheese factory if you dont clean it. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 2 | My father wants me blue-pilled really badly.Ya know he is right about one thing, which he probably doesn't realize. It's fine to date a girl with a "past". Most people especially woman have that same past. You wont be the first, and you wont be the last. A big step for RP aware men is to realize that sex shouldn't always be romanticized in anyway. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 19 | Single mothers onlineI am confused. Did you come here to bash men who chase single moms or to know how to get a single mom ? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 33 | Destroyed after GF of 4 months broke up with meNaw. This is the right sub. We need to bring this man back to the truth. The truth is here. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:25 AM |
| 2 | I really need to know somethingReality is intense and I guess I feel child like. Fuck. I just want to be normal | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 6 | How to respond to a flakeIf she cant follow through with the plans you set, she doesn't respect you the way she should be. Do not go. Soft next is applicable I suppose but wait for her to message you. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I really need to know somethingI see a therapist every week. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 03:19 AM |
| 15 | How to respond to a flakeDon't go. I've done this and from experience they will tease you. Besides, they don't respect you. That's clear. Don't reply and don't message them "2 weeks from now." Seriously. Forget them. Hard next entirely. Don't associate with them again. Fuck other chicks. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Should i just give 0 fucks and shoot my shot- Wayne Gretzky Edit: - Michael Scott | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | In the end, what's the point of relationships ?A relationship is seriously a special thing. Two (or more) people find each other and fall in love. It's so beautiful. Love doesn't need a reason. Jk | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Good shows that show examples of real social realityI've always liked "Full Metal Alchemist" since I was because I found that it wasn't chasing the character's fantasies. I mean, the main character's mom dies,they use alchemy to bring her back and face a major red pill. Its always had its way of impressing me since I was young. Some anime is really, really good. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Good shows that show examples of real social realityThat is completely true. The only show I've seen that gets credit for realistic situations is Narcos. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Good shows that show examples of real social realityYes , any good comedies that you know of? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 0 | Good shows that show examples of real social realityAh. Spending every second at a bar is a great idea. Please, I have a tv I like to use. Think realistically. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | What’s your take on a man with a low libido?All I gotta say is beware ot the Red pill. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s your take on a man with a low libido?I see. Would you consider these distractions to be good for long term investment, as opposed to seeking out a relationship that would better suit your needs? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What’s your take on a man with a low libido?How do you cope? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my uncle to mind his fuckin business?I decided to text him myself, I said "I need to be completely honest with you. My boundaries are being overstepped and it's really stressing me out." Turned off notifications because suspense of incoming shit | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my uncle to mind his fuckin business?Been trying but it's getting to the point of fuck all honestly. Pretty sure he's a narcissist as earlier today he tried getting me to finished his sentence by telling me a common phrase and egging me to finish. I looked at him right in the eyes and said "Okay? Finish" I'm always doing shit like that because he wants some weird form of compliance from me | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Gf dims down phone screen when I was looking at it, then turns away completelyHold your ground on that decision to leave. You're not the type to sit a chick down and get fed her bullshit, so own it. That's pretty good on you as far as I'm concerned. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 06:39 PM |
| 22 | New girlfriend (22) is incredibly private about our relationship. Has no social media.He thinks the legitimacy of a relationship requires being made "official" on social media. That's my downvote | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Can an alpha male be in a serious loving relationship?A true Alpha does as he wishes. It's all about frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 8 | Is it cheaper to keep my wife or is it cheaper to leave her? (Kid in common)Am I the only one that chuckled at the title of this post? | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Can an alpha male be in a serious loving relationship?99% is a far shoot. Most men should have their options of woman out side of a relationship, but what you want out of an LTR is what you should put into it as well in terms ot principles. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 04:23 PM |
| 12 | Can an alpha male be in a serious loving relationship?A good LTR is possible so long as you can remain Alpha 80%/Beta 20%. A big problem in relationships is that things get stagnant after a while. If she's not getting off on you, she'll probably find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 01:38 AM |
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