What are the basic IOIs?

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2021-03-26T19:25:21+00:00

The chub is an underrated indicator in my opinion.

Ben_Eszes · 2021-03-26T19:15:59+00:00

It's even worse if you've been getting IOIs your whole life so it never stands out to you (i.e. it seems normal and nothing out of the ordinary, so you don't interpret them as IOIs).

You're in a good spot because you had a time in your life when you weren't getting these signals, so NOW you can see the difference.

Don't overthink. Instead, experiment and find out for yourself. If you get what you think might be an IOI from a girl, go for it. Find out for yourself what those indicators are. They're different for everyone.

I'm happy for you that you're improving! Now is the time to live and learn. I always think, "A girl can forgive you for being too bold, but she'll never forgive you for being too passive."

Edit: for example (referring to my first paragraph), girls always adjust their hair around me or when they see me. I don't know if this is an IOI because it's always been my experience. So, I simply don't consider it important. Sure, it might technically be an IOI but I've never known differently. Instead, I rely on other IOIs, or I just take the more common approach of mine which is not giving a fuck about their IOIs and just going for what I want. I'm the leader. They either respond well to my advances or they don't. That's my true IOI.

crew6dawg0 · 2021-03-26T19:23:18+00:00

Basic IOIs are playing with her hair a lot, looking you up and down, making a lot of eye contact, smiling a lot and laughing at all your stupid ass jokes, finding a reason to touch you, etc.

I think you're coming at this wrong though, my take is that if the conversation goes decent she is interested to some degree, or else she would "have a boyfriend." This is why it's preached to assume her attraction. So the most basic IOI would be willing to talk to you for a bit. Then you shoot your shot and ask for her number, and if she says no then big whoop, next.

Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-03-26T19:22:27+00:00

I don’t understand the lack of just being alive abilities people have. When a girl gives you the vibe you just know 100%. When a bitch is into you you’ll know it

redhawkes · 2021-03-26T19:49:43+00:00

Don't look for IOIs, assume attraction. You'll know if she's attracted, they make it obvious.

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kclanton80 · 2021-03-26T22:12:02+00:00

Eye contact is king.

Da_SnowLeopard · 2021-03-27T02:13:43+00:00

If you have your cock in her mouth you know for sure she is interested

Title	What are the basic IOIs?
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Date	March 26, 2021 7:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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