First: Even if it doesn't seem so, this is a serious topic. Second: Yes, confidence, I know. I'm working on it.

But I'm going to a party tonight and, even though my main goal is to have fun with friends, I'd like to meet some women. Problem is, I'm not an extroverted or easygoing person... except when I'm drunk. Then, I become someone completely different, with no filter and much trustful around strangers. I become braver, bolder and likable.

Problem is (apart from general lack of confidence and need from reassurance) that I don't want to get drunk anymore. It doesn't fit my fitness goals, and I have decided to drink two pints maximum per month. I've already drank those in June, and I'm not going to break a year and a half strike because I want to get laid.

Now, now, I know I have to keep working on myself, look for therapy if necessary, do some internal research... and I'm doing it, but those take time. I'd like to know if there is a method that has worked for you to get that sensation of invincibility in an immediate way, without resorting to drugs.

Thank you very much.