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Talk to people. Talk to everyone. Yes, it is Harding during Covid. Socialize like your life depended on it.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:46 PM
2

CrossFit- chiropractors best friend
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:43 PM
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A man must stand on his own. Not be kept erect by others. -Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:40 PM
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Same situation, but higher than 10% for me. I watch Wes while I work out. https://youtu.be/naAsOey5Dno
/r/askTRP10/01/21 12:15 AM
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I've spent time in Japan. Your last point is correct. After my experience I was told to read Shogun which illustrates this point.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 11:15 PM
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OP, I genuinely understand you. I'm staying the course in hopes of getting what you are looking for. Optimism, keeping a positive mental attitude, belief in Jesus keep me going. DM anytime.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:31 PM
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I'm surprised no one has mentioned dating girls not from USA and not from Europe. I've seen the comments before, and personally know 1 guy (under 60) who is happily married. He's married to an Asian. Another friend is in an LTR with a Hispanic woman. They are also fairly happy. Though a big part of that is his excellent dread game.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:25 PM
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22? So much of life and opportunity. I wish I had TRP at your age. Lift. Check out Intermittent Fasting. Good luck in 2021.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:21 PM
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You guys aren't alone.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 04:16 PM
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My best friend introduced me to TRP. A year later an acquaintance dropped an indirect reference to TRP on me. He and I became very good friends. These are the only two TRP friends I have. All three of us have tried to Red Pill other guys--it just doesn't work. Dropping a few nuggets when they ask is as much as you can get away with.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 07:11 PM
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The laws are good when condensed to their essence without the stories. 5 years ago /u/pjewa posted each law every day with [48 Days of Power] in the title. Those posts, and their comments, are better than the book.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:27 PM
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I'm not going to down vote you because I had the same experience reading TWSM. However, when an uninitiated guy needs TRP I give him a copy of TRM. What would be a better choice?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:20 PM
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sounds like your friend has mad interpersonal skills which aren't being used to your benefit You'll never get definitive proof of their treachery. You might recognize some of your friend's tricks in The Prince and 48 Laws of Power which won't help you much Once your reputation has been diminished any visible effort to demonstrate value will reinforce the lie your friend has spread
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:32 PM
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Read an earlier post here today on approaching and talking to everyone. Start there then gage interest.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:28 PM
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We have to give life meaning because it so obviously doesn’t have any
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:56 PM
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There’s more than one kind of partnership
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:31 PM
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TL;DR Back when I was a cuck this RP guy didn't talk about shit that was none of his business. Should I hold a grudge against him?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 02:27 PM
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sometimes I think these women need to be accountable for their actions by some system that hasnt been built yet. RP teaches that females are the way they are because of biology. So just maybe there was a system created thousands of years ago for keeping biological impulses in check so that families aren't destroyed by one parent zeroing out the other.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:21 AM
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53% of all marriages end in divorce 41% of first-time marriages end in divorce. A slightly different, but no less important statistic for young men who want a family.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:16 AM
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Boomers are the "me first" generation. It's hard to have a society when the largest population in it is focused on their own happiness first and foremost. Selflessness builds families, communities, and nations.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:14 AM
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Teach him about AWALT. Not ready to red pill him? Then mind your own business.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:36 PM
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Am I just being used as her orbiter for validation and attention? Yes
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:40 PM
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Whether she's shit testing, still hung up on her ex, or trying to qualify herself to you doesn't matter. Your reaction is the same: amused mastery.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:48 AM
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That females want sex as much as, or more than, you do. So many opportunities and years wasted believing in the gyno-centric world view. :-(
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:31 PM
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You’re putting too much thought into a plate. Is this your only plate? That would explain why it makes you feel bad.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 03:26 PM
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The stoic philosopher and workout guru, Wes Watson, has a good video on this called gratitude.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 02:51 PM
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Great post. Not too wordy. All the deets and right to the point. TL;DR Abundance mentality is real. Start spinning plates, start chatting with girls even if you don’t wanna fuck them. Having a bunch of girls in your phone will make you carry yourself with a different level of swagger.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 04:14 PM
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This primer on spaced repetition was helpful to me https://quantifiedself.com/blog/spaced-repetition-and-learning/
/r/RedPillBooks25/04/20 12:29 PM
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The advice to enjoy the attention, but go no further reminds of the line look but don't touch. Touch, but don't taste. Taste, don't swallow. Which will get you absolutely nothing good. Do you have a mission at work? If she's not in your office fulfilling that mission (i.e. some admin assistant shit), then she needs to go because you've got work to do.
/r/askMRP25/02/20 09:22 PM
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Can you get in front of the CEO?
/r/askMRP17/02/20 11:09 PM
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You sound fairly far down in the pecking order. The only person above any of them is the CEO. OP is high up enough to get noticed by the CEO.
/r/askMRP17/02/20 11:07 PM
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OP, this is the answer. Just let loose. You have nothing to lose by saying the wrong thing versus saying nothing at all. Same outcome. Also, frame. It's your world your commenting on--not anyone else's.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:35 PM
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OP, the votes are in. What are you going to do?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 10:36 AM
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Remember with woman "it just happens" so of course they'll say they were not expecting it. This should have more upvotes.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:42 PM
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Read cool shit Julius Evola, was an Italian philosopher, painter, poet, esotericist, and occultist. He has been described as a "fascist intellectual", and as having been "the leading philosopher of Europe's neofascist movement." Sounds like a fun guy.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:41 PM
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What's your point? That every chick who has ridden the cock carousel yet not in an LTR is miserable and selfish? Yeah. We know that. We've all read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 02:26 PM
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If humor were about tribal unity more than getting laid, women would be better at it then men. They aren’t.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 05:55 PM
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Watch male and female comics. Remove the jokes about sex, and the amount of material women have goes down by 70%. That’s all Amy Schumer had. Most female comedians lean heavily on sex for humor. Notable exceptions include Ellen Degeneres, and Rita Rudner,
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 12:06 PM
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I’ve known some comedy groupies, you know, chuckle fuckers.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 11:59 AM
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There is also a video done by Vanity Fair where he explains it. Even better (not related to humor) is him on a panel with 4 women talking about Lorena Bobbit. He has these feminists eating out of his hand in minutes. Even when one of them shit tests him with her incredulity over his comments he pulls them all into his frame. He was a true master.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 11:57 AM
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I see a new job for you in 3 months. Up to you whether it is on your terms or theirs.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:10 AM
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If men perceive you moving up, they'll give you shit to knock you down a peg. Once you're established you'll only get shit from those at your level or higher. Except by men below you who want to climb to your level. Women shit test continuously.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:08 AM
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Females shit test EVERY man--not just the ones they're attracted to. Like the others said...this is your chance to practice holding frame.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:03 AM
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Sounds like you already own your shit. Now you have to do the hardest thing. You have to become the man you want your son to be. You have to live everyday whether you are around him or not as the man you want him to see and be. It's the first rule of red pill...work on yourself.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:45 PM
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What you see in the screen has nothing to do with who they are in real life. Unfortunate. Needed. Reminder.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:21 PM
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"you should be self-centered with a stringent criteria for who you allow into your life. If you want to make a quality person out of yourself, naturally you want to associate with other quality people too. Avoid low quality individuals who add very little distinctiveness to your life, when interacting with the rabble keep your interactions brief and succinct." From Mental Models by Illimitable Men
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:51 PM
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AA should be go to. Pressure flip for irate feminists.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:49 PM
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I know three people who have lost weight, and kept it off. Each of them over two years now, and one for more than 30 years. They are the only three dieters I know that have kept the weight off. What they have in common is some version of carb restriction/elimination. It appears to be the only thing that works long term.
/r/askMRP29/09/19 02:56 PM
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Zero new perspective for starters. Then there is the need to continue therapy. There compensation is tied to repeat business, and there is always something else to talk about.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:13 AM
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No dozens who have gone to therapy, including yours truly. One person was helped. The odds of paid stranger telling you something that makes you better are slim.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:43 PM
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Why is this being ANALyzed? Let them blow you. Slap her a bit. Cum in her mouth and face.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 01:24 PM
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Because P&G is a massive consumer products company that can easily absorb an $8bn write down.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 12:39 AM
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What do u mean exactly Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:23 PM
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Wrong! Read the sidebar. Women naturally plate. Men have to learn how to do it.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:34 PM
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MBTI is complete bullshit
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:54 PM
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Malcolm Gladwell explains why in season 4 The Queen of Cuba episode of Revisionist History podcast. In it he explains Truth-default theory (TDT), a communication theory which predicts and explains the use of veracity and deception detection in humans. It will answer your question.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 02:16 PM
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LOL
/r/askTRP05/09/19 03:02 PM
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You make a valid point. If OP can explain it that way unemotionally, then that's good. The female frame is to try to hold onto what she's got while she branch swings. OP runs the risk of staying in her orbit by not cutting off all communication. Ghosting has the added benefit of kicking her hamster into high gear.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:02 PM
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It will be relevant when she starts the story of her innocence. If not to the judge, there is a wider community of friends and family.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:54 PM
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Just tell her you don't do breaks, that it's over and start with your own journey. And since you broke up with her, she will probably come back much later and you will use her as a plate. Why tell her anything? Just ghost.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:12 PM
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I know a number of alpha males--mostly only, or oldest, children. They have this remarkable ability to absolutely NOT remember their mistakes. More frustrating, they remember other's successes, good ideas, and accomplishments as their own.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:35 PM
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Great start Keep going in the direction you talked about.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:51 PM
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More on your sources of RP entertainment
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:50 PM
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Best his ass into tomorrow. Then tell him you forgive him for the abuse when his 4 year age advantage mattered.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:43 PM
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That's really good.
/r/askMRP17/08/19 12:14 AM
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Praising alone isn't Pavlonian. Pavlovian is conditioning by associating unrelated behavior with the reward. An example would be to praise her and simultaneously touch her in the same reassuring manner every time. Eventually the touch alone will yield the same positive results.
/r/askMRP11/08/19 03:30 PM
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So you are also against Deida's praise her endlessly method?
/r/askMRP11/08/19 03:25 PM
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It's not a shit test.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:47 PM
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Yes. People overcome it every day. Do you have a more specific question?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 02:42 PM
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I thought the book was gyno-centric. She's not happy? Praise her. Don't talk to her. Don't tell her anything. Just praise her. Everywhere else in TRP the advice is withdraw your attention from misbehaving women. Deida suggests heaping more attention and praise. It conflicts with the idea behind basic behavior modification--you don't reward the behaviors you don't like. I am going to check out /u/hornsofapathy posts because his comment was interesting.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 01:28 AM
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You did your thing. When challenged on it by wife you invited her to join you. That's the essence of TRP. It's your life; they join in. Sounds like you kept your frame that night. That's all you have to do--every day. In a year you might look back and think, "I could have handled that better." In the meantime, ignore those who criticize as if just 6 weeks after discovering MRP you're supposed to be Super Chad.
/r/askMRP01/08/19 10:28 PM
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I'm a decade older than you and experienced similar problems a few years younger than you are now. Conclusion: Getting older ain't for sissies. I lift some, but don't do anything like I did in my youth: deadlifts, bench press, anything that compresses the spine. I focus on form and reps. On some exercises (like leg extensions) I could lift substantially more weight, but my knees are shot from running so I stay with the lower weight. I'm past the point of caring what the guys (and gals) half my a…
/r/askMRP27/07/19 02:40 PM
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Congratulations on not being the guy she’s marrying. NEXT
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:52 PM
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Check out Peter Hurley's video It's all about the Jaw on YouTube.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:20 PM
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It's a great idea. I've done it three times. They're generally cleaner, never borrow your stuff, and have girlfriends. Just don't ever game them.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:10 PM
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Try it. Once you have removed the mystery let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction30/06/19 02:25 PM
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This is easy. Since you are the same age as the guy start showing interest in her friends. She will be disgusted. Might not stop her, but it will give her something to think about.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:15 PM
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Later that night I had to leave for my hometown and couldn't get tickets cuz of some family drama. She helped me through it and got really expensive tickets for me and we stayed together during the night at her place. Is paying for your "really expensive tickets" normal behavior for her? If not, she got fucked. Did you two fuck that night at her place? If not, well...
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:11 AM
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My friend, you have existed under some next level control bull shit. What you've described is hard core manipulation by at least two, maybe three, family members. You have to separate yourself from them. Distinctly though, not necessarily, permanently. Live your own life in NY. Maintain contact with your family, but control the dynamics of calls so that you can end them when this kind of behavior is exhibited by them again. Lastly, get comfortable with being abandoned by them. They sound like th…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 12:07 PM
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This guy’s dad was a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 12:11 PM
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the goal of my posting was to point out that even women publically say you shouldn't be nice, If you ever read the sidebar, you'd know that what they say is irrelevant no need for all of the people here to get so upset with dislikes At best, your wasting everyone's time. At worst, it is BP reinforcement of the gynocentric world view we come here to escape from. The down votes are to help guide you.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 02:09 PM
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One of the Chads advised against it because it shows too much interest in the girl. They recommend opening with "excuse me" then ask a question or make a statement about something. You start with small talk that isn't about her and how attracted to her you are. Then escalate to getting name and number. I think it was Roosh V in his book Day Game.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 12:11 AM
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I said Hey, excuse me, what's your name? You cold opened with that?
/r/askTRP29/05/19 12:31 PM
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You handled that perfectly. You'll be teaching a master class soon. Be prepared for the insane amount of pussy coming your way from all the old high school girlfriends of hers that will want your RP dick.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:42 AM
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He's hardcore.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 11:41 AM
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It is a positive that she has told you what was happening. At best it is a shit test. Nothing good for OP comes from her communicating with an ex. The fact she even tried this shit is an indicator he has lost frame.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 12:02 PM
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His April Kingmaker podcast featured prominent Catholic author and advocate E. Michael Jones, and his God pill post seems serious: Many comments from men said how the black pill was a gateway to the God pill. There seems to be a progression: Blue pill: Ignorance, denial of nature Red pill: Truth through materialism (muscles, women, money, status) Black pill: Acceptance of one's powerlessness, withdrawal from materialist society God pill: Submission to God's will I believe that remaining black pi…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:23 PM
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The comments from other women in response to Milano's tweet are on point.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 01:05 AM
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Anal-yze her actions for a few more weeks then come back and ask why she doesn't seem to have any interest, and why are girls so flaky. OR Act now.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:24 AM
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If you are at giving second thought to a comment from someone who has never met you, you definitely to work on dgaf.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:49 PM
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We will always care about what some others think. You win dgaf by actively choosing who those people will be. This is where wives and other LTRs that are sane benefit a man, though a female isn't necessary. My Morpheus is still very important to me even though we aren't close. My boss and two of my colleagues are men who's opinions I value. If they criticize I take it to heart. If others criticize, I'm generally oblivious... Unless, it strikes close to home like in your case being called out for…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:29 AM
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The advice here is it's over. Do you have the frame to end it? If you did, you already would have. Cut the cord, if you can. If you can't verbalize it to her, then at least do it to yourself on that 2-hour train ride. The guy who arrives in the new city is single. Get that frame.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 11:12 AM
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This happened to me and the girl was mortified. I laugh about it, but she won't do anal any more.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:20 PM
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What is a good way to screen for true friends in the faith (of which I have none.. my closest, 'ride-or-die' individual friends are not Christians)? Where I failed at your age was keeping "Christian" friends who were not walking in faith. Men who professed Christian values, but were actually chameleons. Looking back, I can see the signs clearly, but in college I excused their sinful behavior as the acts of good men who just slipped. By their fruits ye shall know them.
/r/RPChristians12/03/19 11:21 AM
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I have a career I wanna build, a horror novel i need to promote, stuff that makes me feel productive. Congratulations, you have a mission. Now go live it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 11:50 AM
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Take the $1,000, look for a new job, and... Build the on call schedule for the others. Be on call for THEM when they can't solve the problem. Use their calls to you to make a recommendation to Ben's boss* for further training opportunities for the team thus showing value and concern for the company. ​ *He goes around you to your subordinates, you go around him to his superiors. There is obviously no chain of command in your organization.
/r/askMRP01/03/19 12:33 PM
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Watch his failed talk show. He's a Marxist.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 01:12 PM
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Similar problem here. Surgeon wants to surgery it, but I've been under the knife before (successfully for something unrelated), and decided not to this time. Went to physical therapy and learned how to do exercises to strengthen. The exercises work, but there are exercises I can no longer do. Price of getting older.
/r/askMRP27/02/19 11:24 AM
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since his gf got his balls I really have to struggle to get him to hang out with just the bros Next
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:14 PM
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It is slander. Start documenting your loss: reputation, being socially ostracized, and anything that might be connected.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:47 PM
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One of my favorite quotes is from a 20th century poet whose name I can't remember. He said, "we have to give life meaning because it so obviously doesn't have any." My motivations have changed over the years, but at the core has always been a belief that as a man I have responsibilities to others including family, friends, and country. So I continue to train my body in the gym, and my mind at home. The dark times pass. Good luck,
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:53 PM
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It can take men into their early 30s to establish their professional career and feel a sense of financial stability. In other words, he ain't got no cash before then.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:38 AM
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Google it. Washington Post, December 2012 has a good article.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:48 AM
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It is complete crap invented by a mother and daughter. It is used in business because there is a business behind it, promoting it, and selling it.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:43 PM
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🧜‍♂️
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:37 AM
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You are in college and don't have enough to do? When you aren't studying, you should be approaching females.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:25 AM
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Work on amused mastery.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:21 AM
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You handled it fine.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 12:33 PM
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This is it! Publicly and in person. Forget texting. That's female behavior. Besides, he can then show everybody what you wrote and frame it anyway he wants. You don't even have to seek him out IRL. Just be ready for when your paths do cross.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:42 AM
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This is SoFuGood.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:33 PM
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Be like Even Steven. That is the ultimate how to get dumped video.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 01:06 PM
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Stop watching this shit.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:09 AM
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I often feel the same way, but I wouldn't take the blue pill again. TRP has given me the eyes to see harsh truths of difficult situations. I wouldn't go back for anything, though I now feel alone.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:09 PM
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Her hamster is working hard filling in the gaps between who you are and who she wants. When the canvas is blank she paints it with what she wants. When you explain something you are most likely telling her something about yourself that is contrary with her fantasy. So keep quiet, and let her hamster work for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 12:21 PM
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I strongly suggest anyone with this mindset to watch RSD Tyler's most recent videos dealing with "Product Quality" vs "Product Marketing." His most recent video, Dec 28, is How To Pick Up Girls SO EASY - STOP Creating A "Difficult" Prison In Your Own Mind (ESCAPE!!). Is that it?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 10:24 PM
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I would just grin and bear it, wait the year out, get completely clear of the system, and THEN break up with her. One year to go sounds better than going back to prison.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:45 PM
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Check out Chris Rock Commitment v. New Pussy
/r/askTRP26/12/18 01:51 AM
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I would like to have kids later in life. This is the key to determining what you should do. Find the best possible mother that you can. If it goes well, you'll be happy. If it doesn't, well...what does it matter.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 01:43 AM
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You’ll find very quickly that the women/ girls who were ushered through for nothing other than diversity numbers sink very quickly Not true. They are held up by corrupt organizations that promoted in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 10:57 PM
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Have a conversation. Talk about things. It's not about her. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 12:40 PM
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Read the sidebar. You NEVER comment on a woman's appearance.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:45 AM
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Then, once we get more comfortable with each other we can go without In this situation more comfortable means: I want children I want children with THIS SPECIFIC woman I want children with THIS SPECIFIC woman NOW
/r/askTRP14/12/18 01:03 PM
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Scene where Robert DeNiro is talking to Jean Reno in the car when on a stake out.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 11:26 PM
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“Women are sex objects to men & men are success objects to women.”- This is good!
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:07 PM
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(Illimitable Man, The Red Pill Constitution) Made me go read this. Thanks
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:03 PM
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When there is doubt, there is no doubt. Ronin reference?
/r/askTRP12/12/18 03:59 PM
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Getting your dad to go to the gym with you is a great start. Next thing to do is alter his frame in the moment. When you see him ramping up toward the weed smoking, like when he starts talking about stress, change the subject. Fast. There are different methods to do this, and you'll have to keep trying until you find one that works: Agree and Amplify - he blows up because mom won't give him attention you could say, "yeah! Let's get out of here--we're going to the gym." Ask a question - anything …
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:26 PM
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The guy who shat on OP. I was one of the 22 or so.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:56 AM
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Also, delete this Reddit account so this doesn’t catch up with in 20 years.
/r/askMRP09/12/18 08:22 PM
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I up voted and now I’m ashamed. I did it because OP said he posted here a lot. Even invited others to read his previous posts. If OP has been here a while, he should have been reading and learning. His post isn’t anything more than, “hey, I’m sad, make me feel better.” Not much can be done beyond a reminder to read the sidebar, and checkout /askmrp.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:59 PM
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You are on your way. Congratulations. "I'm constantly in a state of anxiety of being exposed." Sounds like you haven't achieved outcome independence. Try reading Mental Models: Abundance vs. Scarcity by Illimitable Men. Good luck ​
/r/askTRP05/12/18 11:14 AM
3

No, and I've become a better friend to the ones I have. Look at the bright side. You've got more time available to lift.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:40 AM
1

You are thinking logically "She responds with "oh are you? Lol. Let me check my agenda" I read it as she would get back to me with her availability. <--maybe, but it is your turn to respond. Communication with a man is about the exchange of useful information. Communication with a woman is just about communicating. You could have responded with nearly anything: Her: "oh are you?" You: "Yeah, and if you play your cards right maybe dessert." Or Her: "Let me check my agenda" You: "Thursday at 7 it …
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:17 PM
5

Do all the successful LTR stories start when she was a teenager/in college/inexperienced?
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:35 PM
5

Rollo has one
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:33 PM
1

Low partner count is a 100% must. More than five is a complete rule out. Ideal is probably 0-3. If she talks all the time about feminism, next her. If she's super into LGBTQA, next her. If she ever talks bad about you in public in front of a lot of others, next her. All very solid.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:32 PM
7

A lot of the bad stuff I see surrounding LTRs is usually attributed to the girlfriend or wife being too involved with social media, alcohol and her single friends. Those are all influences that will bring about shit tests and hypergamy. 100% true
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:26 PM
5

I find this to be true even if they've suffered. The core personality is the same.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 12:15 PM
8

It used to be how long are you going to date before you fuck. Now, it's how long are you going to fuck before you LTR. Isn't this the truth.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:31 AM
27

LOL That's really good.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/18 11:28 AM
1

Want to truly watch red pill theory in work? Befriend a bunch of females and go drinking with them for a night and listen to their guy stories and complaints. You could rewrite the first sentence to, "Want to truly become MGTOW?" Nothing is scarier than when they pull back the curtain.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 11:57 AM
-4

You need a mantra. Try this one. Slowly and calmly say aloud: "I am wasting my life...right now." "I will never get this time back." "While meditating I am not a threat to the establishment." "They have nothing to fear from me." "I am obedient." You can even increase the tempo and volume as you near completion of your meditative moment. "I AM WASTING MY LIFE...NOW!!!"
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 11:42 AM
1

PCH, Post Cum Hate, is normal.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:28 AM
6

jelq TIL
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:11 AM
2

Are you a Trotskyist like Hitchens?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:55 PM
3

Any ideology that tells people to work hard for their own benefit and quit bitching about the fact that other people appear to have it easier (e.g., are lucky or "privileged") is going to trend conservative. Correctamundo
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:50 PM
8

They are just echo chambers on loops that affirm themselves. Yep!
/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:48 PM
2

Could you exapnd upon how exactly is sugar bad? Everything you need to know https://youtu.be/dBnniua6-oM ​
/r/askTRP24/10/18 11:18 PM
1

From the one post I read he's in business with the FoE.
/r/askMRP23/10/18 11:52 PM
2

That account has been deleted. Is it this guy https://thefamilyalpha.com/?
/r/askMRP23/10/18 11:40 PM
7

An all time great post. Also, from that: Women with high interest level (IL) wont confuse you. When a woman wants to fuck you she’ll find a way to fuck you. If she’s fluctuating between being into you and then not, put her away for a while and spin other plates. If she sorts it out for herself and pursues you, then you are still playing in your frame and you maintain the value of your attention to her.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 07:40 PM
1

Worked for Barney, and really he was gay.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 09:34 PM
4

URL?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:13 AM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP17/10/18 12:23 PM
2

I like this^, but I also use time limitation where I say things, "I've just got a minute," "I have to go soon," "I was just on my way out, but..." It creates scarcity mentality in females and makes them appreciative of whatever extra time I give them.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 12:07 PM
1

Presume she's not interested in you when you drop the "it's stupid to date coworkers." It will let her save face thereby avoiding any uncomfortable situations at work.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:23 PM
3

5 years old and it is spot on https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:48 PM
5

That is a massively long article justifying trying to catch a disease.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 12:44 PM
3

This is exactly right. Rollo wrote about men who adopt TRP only to drop it when they get the LTR they want. Problem? The woman wants the TRP guy she married, not the beta cuck she got. Ref: Children w/ Dynamite
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:32 PM
1

I know people who have married for the first time at 70 (and the woman in her 60's). It's not a road to happiness.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:29 PM
2

TRP has been a godsend for me in dealing with my mother. Who I have a very good relationship with. Once I understood AWALT, and got past rage, I just accepted that ALL women (even the ones we love) communicate differently. They communicate through subtext (see Rollo on overt and covert communication by women). Your seemingly (to you) innocent question got interpreted as a challenge or indictment (by her) so she responded accordingly.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:47 PM
1

Go read The Medium is the Message at the Rationale Male.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:34 PM
1

There are no shortcuts. There are distractions though. Use what's available in /r/TheRedPill while you still can, and you will avoid the pitfalls.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:32 PM
1

There are no shortcuts. There are distractions though. Use what's available in /r/TheRedPill while you still can to avoid the pitfalls.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:22 PM
2

And face the same problems all over? Just go to trp.red.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:18 PM
1

Myers-Briggs is complete nonsense.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 07:17 PM
7

Someone hasn't ingested AWALT.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:55 AM
3

You are an orbiter. She is going to couch surf at your place--when she's not staying with whatever guy she picks up on holiday. Next.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:29 PM
3

she would have no reason to lie smh
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:14 PM
0

Next
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:05 PM
1

Focus https://jamesclear.com/buffett-slots
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:04 PM
2

Thanks! Did not know that.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:27 PM
2

Listen to Michael Douglas. What did Liberace say?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:32 PM
5

It’s all about social media, Sunday fun day, avocado toast in making sure the world knows every second about it So true. smh
/r/askTRP11/09/18 11:08 AM
6

> I told some of my friends about her Are you looking for validation?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:59 PM
3

> Is Entrepreneurship the only way to pass the 6 digits counter? No, it isn't. There are lots of ways to get rich. The Law (here in the US) is extremely lucrative. As with anything there are rich and poor in the field. You can learn great skills toward that end in college, and also in the military. Which (here in the US again) is a great way to earn that college degree without any debt. Most of the guys I know that have made the money you're talking about, impressed somebody who then lifted them…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:50 PM
1

Accounting is the only non-worthless business degree. Yep.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:39 PM
10

above all make connections with other future business owners that will give you their money. ^this!
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:38 PM
5

Just enjoy it.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 03:49 PM
2

Matthew 13:12
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:24 PM
2

The joke is being shared because it works. It has an impact on you so everyone can bring it up over and over, and laugh and laugh. Learn to deal with shit tests and you will develop a thicker skin. Check out Illimitable Man's post on dealing with shit tests.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 11:33 AM
147

Her response is a request to join your orbit. Let her. Others will notice this girl approaching you at gym. Reward her for that every time and you'll create a mystique about yourself. Females are more motivated by what other females do than anything else. It will create a success spiral of an increasing number of females being interested in you because other females are interested in you. Who knows, she might get caught up in it herself in a few months. Good luck!
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:52 AM
2

Everything you felt is valid. You are one step closer to fulfillment. There are many steps, and TRP can help you avoid the pitfalls.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 10:29 AM
1

It sounds like you've reached the point where you realize there is more to life than slaying hoes. Congrats! Read Rollo; especially Men in Love.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 11:22 AM
0

An American of much less renown. Maybe a poet.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:00 AM
3

Oneitis here? Re-read abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:14 AM
7

We have to give life meaning because it so obviously doesn't have one. -20th century philosopher. Can't remember his name
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:19 AM
1

Art is immensely subjective which is why it is loaded with bullshit stories about the artist's background, or some fantasy about being a rejection of post-modern authoritarian poverty inducing capitalistic idealism...blah, blah, blah. She's going to get exposure and commercial success in great part because of her attractiveness. She's using her sexuality because "he's been really helpful with her work." This isn't a surprise. The question is, "why did she tell you about him?" It's most likely a …
/r/askMRP06/08/18 04:04 PM
1

Rollo Tomassi Frame. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:28 PM
1

You are being shit tested. Because you fail the shit tests, you get shit tested again. There is a lot on the side bar about shit tests. I recommend Illimitable Man's The Shit Test Encyclopedia. Work on your social skills by approaching...everybody. Men, women, the young, and the old. Just cold approach. Day Game is a good primer on this. You only learn social skills by practicing.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 03:26 PM
3

First, read the TRP sidebar on texting. In short, it's only for setting up in person encounters. You do NOT have discussions and arguments via text. Next, and absolutely before you see her, establish your frame. She is wrecking it by pulling you into her crazy frame. If you don't have your own frame, you won't benefit from any of the advice you get here.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:48 PM
6

^This!
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:44 PM
1

Get into an activity where there are other people around. Then approach, approach, approach everyone. Not just chicks. People out in public want to be talked to.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:41 PM
14

If you haven't texted in a couple of weeks try, "Who is this?"
/r/askTRP20/07/18 07:37 PM
-5

Make her a child and marry. Don't do this.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:20 AM
2

I've dedicated my energy to trying to fix our faulty goddamn government. Hi, Sisyphus
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:58 AM
1

Thank you, all! This has been a tremendous help.
/r/askMRP15/07/18 11:03 PM
1

Yeah a hard or soft next works here, but I can’t help but think there was probably a better option. Next
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:32 AM
3

If you like the book and decide to apply the laws IRL, the posts have good discussion on actualizing them.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:46 PM
5

9 - Win through your Actions, Never through Argument 10 - Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky 38 - Think as you like but Behave like others
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:54 PM
2

Search r/TRP. u/pjewa posted all 48 of them 3 years ago.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 12:46 PM
1

I've had 3 female roommates. They do provide social validation and are fun to hang out with. So it probably is possible to have female friends.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:56 PM
1

be the fun guy at first with no direct intentions, and look for subtle cues of interest. Yes!
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:52 PM
1

Guys seem to be much more transactional Not disagreeing with anything else you posted. Just this line. Women have a ledger and are constantly checking the balance.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:45 PM
2

Redpill applies to everyone with a dick Exactly! My Morpheus is RPing his sons so that they don't lose their shit over some girl some day. The oldest boy is a few years away from puberty still so the lessons are about building himself and frame.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:43 PM
3

How many of them did you fuck, just because of Instagram? If you met them IRL, did you really need Instagram?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:37 PM
3

Just delete Instagram Exactly! It's only purpose is for giving and seeking validation.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:34 PM
1

Physical support/control. To see it action watch any old movie with James Garner or the 1970's show The Rockford Files. When Garner opens the door for the female with him, he puts his other hand on her lower back or elbow. Almost like he's pushing her through the opening. He's not actually pushing her. He's just guiding and supporting. Demonstrating it's ok.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:31 PM
1

You lead the direction of the conversation ...deliberately. Choose a direction for the convo and see if you can direct her there just by your questions.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 06:25 PM
2

Look, as a matter of lifestyle: LEAD WOMEN, do not try and gauge their interest levels first. Stop trying to avoid rejection - women detect this a mile off and it makes them feel vulnerable and you look scared and unattractive. This is why Senior Endorsed.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 12:49 PM
-1

In life if you're explaining, you're losing. I've seen firsthand how that applies to daughters as well, but you'll have to decide for yourself.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:35 PM
1

Chad doesn't explain. But hey, I'm doing the LTR.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:05 PM
7

Confront head on. Like overtly? That is verboten. Rollo wrote in Dread Game, "often all it takes is a nuanced shift in a predictable routine to trigger that imagination (in the female). The idea isn’t to instill terror from fear of loss, but rather to demonstrate higher value; particularly when a woman’s attention is straying into comfortable, routine familiarity..."
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:30 AM
1

mark manson also calls this "turtles all the way down" That's pretty good. https://markmanson.net/self-awareness
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 11:44 AM
2

"Even when a woman has no intention of ever becoming sexual with a “maybe” guy, his attention still has some value to her. It appeals to the long term prospective for security that’s a continuous subroutine running in her hindbrain. This is the rudimentary psychology behind hypergamy." -Rollo, Lady's Game
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 10:13 PM
2

'I love you' means 'walk all over me'. It is a sign of weakness, and frankly disrespectful to ones' own self. That is exactly right. Got with a girl this week who complained that her (ex) b/f wouldn't stop saying, "I love you." She has no respect for him, and is disgusted at the thought that they ever fucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 05:43 PM
5

After work, gym. Then, if still tired, bed. She wants attention? Fuck her. She doesn't want to be fucked? Go to bed. I just don't talk when I'm tired. Holding frame is too important.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 11:19 AM
4

In this case there were also visible wounds to the woman's mother-in-law. Which, to your point, is probably why "she" got arrested.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 11:27 AM
1

You are shitting on OP's post. Maybe it's just not necessary for you to try OP's suggestions because... I seem to get "cold approached" by people quite a bit. Some person at the store, or standing in line for something. Then you are either physically attractive, exude an ease that makes you approachable, or both. Either way, congratulations. For the rest of us the recommendations are much needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 01:00 PM
-1

Don't steal Roosh's book. It's only $10 and worth it. https://www.amazon.com/Day-Bang-Casually-Girls-During/dp/1463765045/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1522582293&sr=1-1&keywords=day+bang+in+books
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 11:32 AM
2

Challenge him first. When he white knights or makes some beta statement take him aside and ask, "does that ever work," or "how many dates have you gotten from all of those compliments?" You'll find out right away whether he's open or not to your suggestions. Let us know how it goes.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 12:02 PM
5

One of my biggest regrets in college was rejecting a friend's younger sister. I was 22 and she was 20, and she was visiting her brother for the weekend. He dumped her off on me--probably because I'm super white knight and therefore harmless, or maybe because he wanted to her hook up with a decent guy for a change. I considered her out of bounds and hands off. Probably did the right thing, but 20 years later I still wonder, what if?" My regret ratio is 100 to 1 things I didn't do to things I did.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:56 AM
32

Good post. I like your simple breakdown and tips on being mindful now--not after months of meditating.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 12:29 PM
7

Rule X - ignore her beauty https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 01:21 PM
1

Lots of good tidbits. I really like, "An aside on the “truth” of Red Pill logic: One of my economics professors at university told me long ago that the value of a theory comes solely in its predictive power; if you can make accurate predictions using the theoretical guidelines, then it is “true” for practical purposes."
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 12:11 PM
2

Second post today calling for meditation. What technique are you following?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 01:54 PM
2

Meditating for an hour a day is impressive. Can you tell more about that? I've tried meditating over the years, but don't see that it has improved anything.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 01:26 PM
5

If you're explaining, you're losing.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:36 PM
1

"love is a mystery" Ooooh. I'm using that one.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 02:46 AM
1

Good bullet points. "certain cultures produce women that are kind, educated, and giving" What are they? Other than Mennonite.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 02:11 PM
1

Agreed; do you think 11-Eleven-11 can practice both TRP and his faith without contradiction?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 01:52 PM
2

You have joint custody of an 8-year old daughter. You have the best wing man you could ever ask for. Since you have no money you have to find things to do with her on the cheap. That's an opportunity to get outside with your little girl. Go to parks, museums, the library even. Just get out of the apartment with her. Take her to workout so that she learns about good health. You'll get noticed by women and the more you dote on your little girl the more they'll want some of that attention. Do the r…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 11:15 PM
13

TRP is Christian. You are a man, you are responsible... for your family, for your own happiness, for your frame. It is the gynocentric culture that tells you to resist that.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 10:55 PM
16

I knew a girl who was cheating on her husband. She asked him, “what would you do, if I cheated?” He said, “I’d forgive you.” She was sickened by his beta attitude, divorced him, and got pregnant by another man she was only casual acquaintances with.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:35 PM
16

Save the message. Screen shot it. You’ll need it if she decides later you’re not a good father.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:30 PM
1

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DMd02u3V4AA3g-4.jpg True whether it is on Social Media or in person.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 09:07 PM
2

Yes, yes, yes, @UEMcGill
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 12:41 PM
3

If a woman is on Fb and living with a guy, everyone she talks to (Brian included) should know it. The only reason they wouldn't is if she posts no pictures of herself with her man. If that is the case, that's all you need to know that you are not in a relationship.
/r/MGTOW19/09/17 02:25 PM
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