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I noticed lately how the use of any question marks (unless there is a real reason of concern) can really be a flake magnet
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:45 PM
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Assume! Assume! I don't see why you should be testing... Try and escalate and evaluate the results... or better let the escalation happen on its own.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:09 PM
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Let me think: the moment you walk up to a woman she knows what you are up to (and that's why the "How much gay do I look?" Tends to work)... I would probably get more situational and make some remark about them so that it doesn't fall into average conversation (that is quite boring... they have them all the time)... the question about the Lion and the Gorilla could work in this sense, but I am failing to see how to transition it to something more sexual. some random things I tried: To a girl who…
/r/seduction07/10/16 10:57 PM
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First canned line I am going to give you: Hi, I am yourname... How are you? If you don't have the confidence to use this you won't have the confidence to use anything else... I mean... would you ever use a line like "Hi girls! How much gay do I look tonight?"... I use it all the time. The best advice that comes to my mind is this: Before attempting any approach on women be social during your day and early night... Strike little conversations with people you meet and normally don't talk with: sho…
/r/seduction07/10/16 08:37 PM
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I do look quite above average for my age group: when properly groomed I can easily look 5-8 years younger than my actual age... Not an adonis, but, given the right demographics, quite lucky. But it is not that... that helps, but it wouldn't explain the YEARS I wasn't getting laid and I could only get into LTRs with girls I had to acquire a taste for (and, FYI... in some cases I am really glad I did). When looking at your situation I think this is key: This only seems to happen with the girls I p…
/r/seduction05/10/16 09:14 AM
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Be social... Man on man interactions are interactions exactly like man on woman... A pussy doesn't make convo more interesting.
/r/seduction29/09/16 06:18 PM
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I am fighting with that lately (and with some lack of money that was caused by some unforeseeable expenses too)... I noticed that having a fun night out with friends and forgetting all the approaching etc can work wonders... You should always remember that being social, especially at the beginning, WILL make you tired... I remember my first time: It was a thursday... I went to sleep around 4 am and slept tight to 2 pm. You can become emotionally tired as much as you can become phisically tired.
/r/seduction26/09/16 08:10 PM
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Given she didn't feel good I would have at least texted her on saturday (or probably made her a short call) to check on her and know if she was feeling better (I don't think it is needy... it is just kind) pretty commonplace, I know, but a way to set up a second date too in case she felt fine... I would expect it if I felt sick on a date and if she didn't bother to ask I would probably next.
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:55 PM
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My idea is you should try and get more social without putting yourself under pressure: it is useless to approach 100 women a week if you can't bring the interaction further and, to bring it further, you need social skill and the right vibe. Both social skill and vibe, I think, come from being able to handle a social situation and THIS IS NOT JUST WITH WOMEN. You talk to people, go around, meet, chat, dance, have fun... Women are a byproduct. I just came home from a date with some girl I met... A…
/r/seduction25/09/16 05:36 PM
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I think this is really important, counterintuitively, during dryspells: When you are havind a dryspell you will develop a tryhard attitude that is a major turnoff (you become needy)... If you find yourself having a hard time it would be better not to work on approaches and stuff: just be social, enjoy your nights and days, meet new people (not necessarily women... make friends). I think the main focus of this is feeling good so if you are not feeling good you better do something else (that will …
/r/seduction25/09/16 10:12 AM
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If a girl asks for your number that is quite a big IOI... They are rarely this forward (if she is not asking for some mundane reason like asking you the recipe of the wonderful pie your granny baked and you took somewhere). Texting is really difficult tough and I think it should be kept to a minimum and used mainly for logistics (ok... a couple of texts in the beginning, but then ask for a date). If it is not possible to set a date then you should next and blame, for once, bad luck... I am not s…
/r/seduction07/09/16 01:19 AM
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The city I live in is famous thorough my country for how flakey the girls are... I can confirm to some extent so it could be possible that some locations can lead to a higher rate of flakes. This said it could be possible that, because of the dry spell, you developed some neediness that is showing up and skyrocketing your flake rate. To be true your eagerness to blame someone better coming along leads me to believe this neediness theory more than the geographic location increased flakiness rate.
/r/seduction05/09/16 06:55 AM
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Lines are good, but they are not the best... Like food... Lasagne: you can buy them, they can be fine, but they have nothing in common with homemade (mine are good... I can teach). I used to be a situational opener and I was never able to use lines as I couldn't get out of them without feeling awkward. A night, card reading in a pub, I realized something: people are craving someone who will talk to them. Really craving. So... if they are craving why should I struggle for telling something I am n…
/r/seduction02/09/16 08:31 PM
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Increasing self confidence? Well... Did you read Models? I think it outlines pretty well how to do it. It is really important tough that you don't try to increase it by approaching... that must be a prize that your new self confidence gives you... It will become natural. About people that you already know it is really important that you understand how, as they already have got some idea about you, it isn't always possible to have them change it in a short time if at all...
/r/seduction31/08/16 11:53 PM
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Sure, man... No problem or worries or stuff... You know what? Sure it is jealousy, but I'm pretty sure Blocker was feeling altruistic... A nice veil to hide bad feelings.
/r/seduction30/08/16 03:23 PM
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Word was left. Blocker insisted that target took her as they lived far away from the others. About the number... Sometimes I forget... I am an old guy. I really need to work on focus tough.
/r/seduction30/08/16 03:18 PM
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About her being jealous... Absolutely! I was being sarcastic.
/r/seduction30/08/16 03:10 PM
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I can't help but notice how you even remember an approach from 8 months ago... Options! You need more options! ASAP.
/r/seduction30/08/16 01:06 PM
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I swear if I remembered about the number option I would have done that... Sometimes, when I am having real fun (and this is my priority normally), I get a bit carried away. About the blocker: I think they had an agreement for the drive home frome the beginning, but the other girls were already offering solutions for her to get home safe and sound... She just didn't want to accept any that wasn't blocking me. I live near the venue so my target could have left her car where it was.
/r/seduction30/08/16 12:17 PM
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I don't know: it felt like the blocker would have blocked in any case and that was her emergency plan. Like if she thought "No matter what... I already have a lift home, but I need to stop my friend from making a mistake."
/r/seduction30/08/16 12:08 PM
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Self esteem, confidence... all of those... I think they should be a work in progress: Talking to and approaching women won't make you better, won't give you self esteem... It won't be a cure for anything. The fact that you can't approach women (and probably other people too) isn't the reason for low self esteem... Probably you can't approach people BECAUSE you have low self esteem. Let me explain: if you love yourself you do not care if someone rejects you... it happens, has happened, will happe…
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:42 AM
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Way to go man. That's one small step for mankind, one giant leap for yourself.
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:21 AM
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My 2 cents: when you are approaching a stranger you can blame anything if it doesn't go as intended... Maybe she had a bad day or she just isn't in the mood or deers ate her cat or the last shipment from Colombia turned out to be chalk powder. So it could be anything and everything and you won't feel judged. When you are with a person you know things are a bit different... Couldn't it be that you are self-conscious and afraid to make a fool of yourself?
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:18 AM
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Thx Bro
/r/seduction30/08/16 10:55 AM
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Her friends WANTED to take home their cockblocker friend and were pushing us together... She just didn't want to go with them, I know I should win her first, but there's a reason if I say HB1 and Juggernaut of Cockblock (and it isn't she is ugly... sometimes that too, but mainly it is something about behaviour)... My fault, I know... I will try to look more deeply in this.
/r/seduction30/08/16 10:48 AM
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Is it the moment to tell that we do not know how to get THAT girl? The facts you describe her as your crush clearly means you do not have other options... Talk to other women... Have fun, man!
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:44 PM
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What?
/r/seduction22/08/16 04:41 PM
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I did not have this problem with girls... I had this problem with humans. But not now. What I did is very simple... One day I stopped looking for appreciation in others: You don't like me? Good, enjoy not knowing what you are losing... I got my stuff to do and it is nice that I don't have to free up time to get to meet you again. So now I will tell anything that comes up my mind, mock, tease, run away in the middle of an interaction because something interesting came up... and sometimes they wil…
/r/seduction22/08/16 12:10 PM
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The fact is... in both cases and many more I was not gaming... The first one was a lesbian, the second one I was too busy to even look at her (plus where I work hitting on people is really not a good idea), then there was my cousin's wife, my favourite bartender, my male boss... I never deny it. I was just wondering if I should do something about it and in what direction.
/r/seduction22/08/16 11:53 AM
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“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” ― Frank Herbert, Dune
/r/seduction21/08/16 08:46 PM
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There is no answer to this as no interaction is the same and nobody here can perceive realities where things went different... Probably a neg would have worked better on an attention seeker, but there is no way to know. "hey you look hot in your IG... Do you choose the angles yourself?"
/r/seduction17/08/16 08:35 PM
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If the friend zone is some sort of hell in your mind, you aren't really a friend This! Thanks Mate.
/r/seduction14/08/16 04:19 PM
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I missed it... What movie?
/r/seduction14/08/16 04:00 PM
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Being a nice guy: Nothing wrong. Being a Nice Guy™: Not so sure.
/r/seduction14/08/16 11:07 AM
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Well... I like to answer this comment. You are absolutely right... My observation is partial and probably biased in thousands different ways... Mainly because I have been a Nice Guy too at a not so far away point in my life and I am still struggling for accepting it... I know the feelings involved and I have to admit mine is a simplification... My idea about it is that all those feeling are true, but too many times sex is seen as a measure for validation of the needs you describe. And too many t…
/r/seduction14/08/16 11:06 AM
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That is why no one will remember your name. Not a priority here... I don't need people to remember my name. I have been reading and studying totally different stuff in the meantime.
/r/seduction14/08/16 11:00 AM
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Plain truth: it is exactly like this... We all share the same worries, more or less... AA, fear of rejection, we are afraid of how other people will judge. I remember when I was 17 I knew this guys... once they went out and one of them was rejected like 27 times in a row. The others were making fun of him and calling him "The 2 of spades King" (in my language "to be given a 2 of spades" is slang for being rejected)... He lost his virginity on the 28th the same night... Now I ask myself who's the…
/r/seduction14/08/16 01:22 AM
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I got a question: why is that a problem? I mean... they will watch you so what?
/r/seduction13/08/16 11:07 PM
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I am a shy dude!
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:59 PM
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I was going to start reading Models tonight... I've been procrastinating it for years... It feels like a sacred book sometimes.
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:56 PM
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And those guys don't show that vibe... Nice Guys vs nice guys
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:51 PM
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Not saying it isn't... Just the result of some observation that hit me hard... I had never realized it. So... take it as my way to celebrate I finally realized it.
/r/seduction13/08/16 10:25 PM
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I do not daygame but for holydays (never in my workplace)... Ok... sometimes I do, but it is more of a situational approach. Normally I do select laid back clubs, not meaning quiet places, but I tend to avoid posh venues as I wouldn't fit in without an effort I am not willing to make and I tend to prefer heavier music styles. A tip about this... It is not the kind of music, but the way a place makes you feel... the best places I found were venues where I could spend a whole night without doing a…
/r/seduction25/07/16 10:31 PM
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Yes... I am one. I have never done it properly... I was on and off it for years, but I can tell you my game only got better every time I stepped back in. Sure some women will not be into me any more (I am lucky as, tough I am almost 40, I look way younger... around 10 years... even more if I had enough sleep) as soon as they find out my age, but really the percentage is not a big deal... One less phone number. Sure I try to keep fit, I never pretend to be young, I don't care and I think acting y…
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:38 PM
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For my experience in some shops girls are "discouraged" to have unprofessional interactions with clients so they will avoid them to avoid getting in trouble... So make use of good judgement not to be the cause of problems... We are not here to make their life miserable.
/r/seduction25/07/16 12:14 PM
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