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This is an awesome idea. Gives me the benefits of doing something similar with the gems too, hide them in some rocks and let them "mine" for diamonds
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:48 PM
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Cut off all contact. This would be a great way to also alienate myself from my 2 kids. You're her beta orbiter. Not sure how you got this impression.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:46 PM
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I never thought of this, and seeing as how my parents are divorced, if my dad had offered me the ring he gave my mom, I doubt I would've felt comfortable using it. And since I don't plan on making this expensive mistake again, selling them seems like the logical course.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:45 PM
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Damage sounds just, wrong. I'm in the military so they paid for everything, but told me since it's an elective surgery that it would be around there to have it reversed. However a quick Google shows me about the same, with around 5k being the average. I don't plan on having more kids, but even if I did in 10 years, paying 5 for the peace of mind is more then worth it. 2nd best decision after my divorce.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 04:13 PM
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Already had 2 kids and a shaky marriage. Didn't need more problems.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:50 PM
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So I had a vasectomy at 22. Canadian, so mine was paid for. Told it would cost upwards of 35k to have it reversed. It felt like you got kicked in the balls the morning after. That's the worst of it. Scar is tiny and unnoticeable.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 12:34 PM
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She messaged me on POF. Not the other way around. I haven't talked to her there at all. I understand reading can be hard, just take it slowly.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:15 PM
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I... Stalking? Who do you think is stalking here exactly?
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:00 PM
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Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP05/08/15 02:07 PM
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She would be pretty elaborate to go through both Tinder and POF. Especially since my picture are different in both.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:47 PM
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Slept about 6 hours (Aug 3rd)
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:04 PM
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Slept almost 7 hours, broken into 3.5 hour periods
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:13 PM
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Slept about 5.5 hours, broken into 3 stages. About an hour and a half each, middle was about 2.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 06:25 PM
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Stickyfingazwhitey will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 05:04 PM
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She texted me a few dirty pics, and my dick grabbed my phone and told her "I'm coming over in 30. Be ready, I'm doing whatever I want to you. " However, she responded with the loaded question "what happened to your plans"? My fucking frame broke, that's what.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 02:33 AM
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I believe that where women do the same things as men they should be rewarded in the same way. But in society they aren't because of complicated sociological reasons. Are you referring to something like The wage gap myth? And more importantly, why not let women in on your secrets if you're so happy to broadcast them? r/redpillwomen
/r/askTRP27/12/14 05:49 PM
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Well, I failed number one. At least I can fix 2-8.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:06 PM
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Second, the fedora has become a meme In his defense, it is the trilby that has become a meme. A Fedora is actually what Indiana Jones wore, so he could look good in it without the stigma. Trilby's have the narrow, slanted, douche look.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 05:12 AM
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LOVE the things you study because they're USEFUL (and switch studies if you actually find out that shit's not useful). I'm on a military course, I've been out of school for about 5 years, but this next 6 months is heavy physics /math / electronics work. Need to pass if I want to go anywhere in my career, so I am just looking for backup options, in case I'm rusty. I suggest extremely strong doses of "I don't give a fuck" administered by doing things where you do give a fuck, admit you shouldn't, …
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:30 PM
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Cool to hear from someone who uses it. Have you tried stopping for any extended amount of time and had side effects? I'm in the military, so I'm not sure if I can even legally consume it.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 10:38 PM
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It depends on how you look at drugs. As a necessity to be able to party? You should probably avoid them. But if you can use them like a tool, to enhance your experience when desired, then I don't see a problem with them. Like the difference between an alcoholic and a social / casual drinker, it's all about moderation. Helps of the people you use it around can also control themselves.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 10:31 PM
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It was more for the potential increased focus for studying, and the approach anxiety elimination.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 10:22 PM
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Well, there goes that idea. Guess the opposite of what I was expecting was true.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 07:59 PM
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3 messages over a span of minutes and about 60 words. She is interested. I think I mistook interest for anger, and let it get to me. Definitely need to be more aloof. So in contrast to her words her actions say that she is interested. Hell between the lines she even says "I'm down with anal alright, just allow my hamster to think it just happened". I never even saw that she didn't refuse, or even mention it. Just kind of brushed it off. She came out this morning and told me that she enjoys it, g…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 02:40 PM
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It's about 750ml. Give or take a bit.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:51 PM
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For starters /r/gainit There's plenty of diets there that will help you eat what you need everyday. Download myfitnesspal, and track everything you eat. Its a lot easier to hit your goals that way, an you'll know if you are 500 calories or so short for the night. It's also easy to setup and to scan food in. Eat clean. 3000 Calories of Chicken, bread, and whole fat milk is a lot better then 3000 calories of Snickers and Coke. In addition to not making you feel like crap, it's a lot more nutrient …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 06:34 PM
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/r/nonzeroday
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:44 PM
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I thought having friends would help, but after swallowing the pill, I discovered almost all of my friends are pretty Blue Pill, so that helped. You don't need to do 100 things a day, just do one. I think a lot of people go with the non-zero day mentality. Good luck, I know I just started too, but I'd rather start my changes today then tomorrow. Also, holy hell you read fast.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:17 PM
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Hey man, I'm not going to try and give better advice then a lot of the RP veterans here, but I'll chime in with my 2 cents. I've been lurking around TRP for the better part of a year now. I've read everything on the sidebar many times Good, but have you used any of it? Reading it once a day and then not using any of it is useless. It would be like going to med school, but then working at McDonald's. You wouldn't do that, would you? I'm sidelined from cardio because of a serious lower body injury…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:07 PM
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I am very wary of her saying it, and me believing it. I'll post a picture of her signing it if it happens. Also, I have 2 sons, no daughters. So I can at least know I will be their father figure. Hard to corrupt that bond, especially with 50/50 custody.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 01:39 AM
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Haha that's awesome. I'm not worried about motivating myself, military has given me enough self - confidence. It was more about the form, diet and lifts. I get that a lot of people need exterior motivating. Just means one less fit dude for us when we are out being RP.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 01:37 AM
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Heh. Pulled something in my lower back today, but that was me landing funny, nothing to do with weight. spots in front of your eyes I'm definitely not getting anywhere near that. I remember when I used to run that hard, and almost throw-up/pass out, but I haven't come close with these weights yet. He will ask how 1-10 how hard it is, and almost always I say 6, because it's easy. I guess he's used to people pretending they can do more, and so doesn't want to be liable for them injuring themselves…
/r/askTRP13/09/14 01:15 AM
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It seems most "pro" builders like that term, whereas forum run sites basically say what you have said. Probably should have done more research before asking for help.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:01 PM
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Can't believe I haven't seen that sub before. I hate how focused our society is on losing weight, the looks I get when I say I want to gain weight is borderline contempt on most people. I'll definitely be checking out that sub and all of its offerings. My plan was to go to something similar to stronglifts 5x5 when it is just me, but I think I can make a much more beneficial workout on my own.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 09:13 PM
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I will prioritize sleep over anything else from now on. 10+ hours is more or less impossible with an 11mo in the house, but I can at least start the habit now. My trainer didn't really give me any good dieting advice, which I feel is almost as important as lifting. He told me to start eating clean, and to try not to eat carbs before 5, but then maximize carbs over vegetables. He also has me carb-load every few days; 5 or so potatoes, lots of rice, a box of oreos. It looks like I am probably not …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 09:11 PM
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Started going to the gym with him 2 weeks ago. Before that, I haven't gone in half a year. I'm not new to a gym, just new to building mass. Also, those weren't all the exercises that he does, just what I can remember. He has kept most of the core exercises the same, but I learn a new routine or 2 every time I go. I am not sure if he is giving me the best bang for my buck, and so I do not intend to find a new trainer when I am done with him in Oct.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:22 PM
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What you need a trainer for? I probably honestly don't. But I have always trained endurance over muscle, and so far his advice to me has been very helpful. I have used him for 2 weeks, and have him for another 3 before I go solo. Exercises Deadlift Various Squats (With Bar, deepseat with plate, box jumps) Farmers walk, barbell row, front plank, side plan. Movement Prep (never done before, but I feel much more stretching doing this) Hard fast biking intervals (1 min slow, 20 sec 90%) That's most …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:36 PM
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You need to get harder, colder to her. This I was planning on doing after I have her sign the separation agreement that I will have my lawyer draft up. Right now she doesn't want alimony or child support, so I'll be a BB to her for a few weeks, to save myself financial issues for a few decades. You are all about your kids, career, lifts, and chicks. Nothing else. Be a self-centered ass beyond your kids. Time to get your head right, and that is a crucial first step. Excellent advice, thank you. I…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:30 PM
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23 Years old, training 3x a week with a trainer I think points 2 and 3 are probably the most relevant to me. Diet is the hardest thing for me to work on, and I am also used to functioning off 6 or less hours of sleep.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 07:18 PM
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New friends are on the list. Benefits of still doing military training, I get to meet a bunch of new guys every year or so. Also have a few AF guys I will probably talk to, that I feel like might not know about TRP. I didn't think of the age appropriate. I'll have to refine my strategy. Only 17 years left!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:49 AM
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Myself and another friends are coaching another young guy on women. After I made the final decision in my head to get a divorce, I went through all my friends that I thought could do something like this. I couldn't come up with a single name. Sure I know guys that are AF. But they would only know me as a BB, and we definitely didn't hang out much. According to him , he's finding it harder to pull 18-21 than me. He actually thinks he's too young to do it with ease. I was thinking this might be th…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:01 AM
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It's hard for us younger guys to envision getting laid by the same quality of woman we experience now, in 20+ years. I'm 23, been sexually active for 9 years, and in an LTR for 7. I can't fathom another 27, TWENTY SEVEN years of young plates. I keep thinking I have to accomplish so much in my next 5-7 years before it's all over.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:05 AM
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2 years too late for that.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 11:11 AM
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She came back. The "never apologize" was the first thing I started with. I still find myself justifying them anyways though, which is a lot harder for me to stop.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:32 AM
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She came back after 30 minutes. Guess I didn't piss her off enough. Would've been nice to turn the tables though.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:30 AM
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♂ If I didn't have a different book lined up this would be next on my list. Your insight/review made me prioritize this book over a lot of others though.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:14 PM
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Being new to TRP, it's hard to always remember that women only use logic guided by feelings or emotion, and can't look at a situation from an uninvolved point of view. Following her tingles is definitely what she is doing. I am sure she is also more confused, since she expected me to just roll over and say "sure we can stay married, you sleep with who you want". BB me would've too. Too bad I opened my eyes and decided that I was important for once, and not her needs.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 02:54 PM
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Drafting the separation agreement. Includes no alimony, no child support, split profits on the house, and 50/50 custody. She said it looked good to her. Gotta find a notary after I finalize this. I do realize that the court can overthrow the no child support/alimony section, however, it would probably cost her more then it would be worth, with us not having been married for long.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:58 PM
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Showed her the draft I created, she runs to her bedroom, starts balling. Telling me how I am rushing her, she wants to wait, she isn't sure anymore. Good god. I walk away. 5 minutes later she comes to see me, says we should talk. All I said was "we can have this annulled if we want to get back together". Thank god for RP. BB me would've tried to comfort her, told her it was ok, we didn't need this blah blah. Rule #3, 4, 12, 29. (Of the 48 Laws of Power)
/r/askTRP26/08/14 04:35 PM
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Was she a CC Rider prior to your relationship? We met in Highschool on our last year. (both 16). She wasn't a virgin, but I don't know how much she had actually done. From what I do know, I can say with fair certainty that if she wasn't riding the CC, she would have been within a few years of graduating. Pretty obvious to me now, but back then BB me figured "oooh look shes adventurous... what a catch!"
/r/askTRP26/08/14 02:11 PM
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It's either she pays and I take over the newly renovated area, or I move out, and she pays so a renter will live there and she can afford to keep up the mortgages. Either way, I'm not worried about it. I can find a 3 bedroom place for me and mine fairly quickly, bonus to being in the military.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 02:09 PM
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Goal is to potentially get this all signed and done in the next 3 days.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:54 PM
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Thanks! It's good to hear about other stories like this. I have a few people up here I know of that do it as well, but not people I know on a daily basis. I don't plan on living with her forever, just long enough to not dig a financial hole before moving out. 2-3 years tops. My job pays decently enough, with amazing job security, so I am not worried about being on the street, but I would prefer to keep the same standard of living is possible. Both my and my wife's parents were divorced, so that …
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:53 PM
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I started a long rant paragraph but just deleted it because it's not worth it. I posted this not because I think I am right, but because I know there will be many different opinions on how I handled things. Unless the paragraph is literally useless, I am sure someone, if not me will pick up something useful from it.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:43 AM
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Better then getting divorced with kids at age 40. Or 50, when she would get half my pension, and not a pittance of it, if that. I'm glad I made this mistake now, and won't make it again later in life. Having kids at 20 was one of my best decisions. I'll be 40 when they are in University. I'll be retired when they start their careers. Sure I miss my 19-25 phase, but isn't the male prime at 25-40?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:26 AM
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Great to hear mate, thanks for the follow up. I always enjoyed reading pt. 2's hopefully someone finds it helpful. You have probably already realised this but she is going to hit on you and make moves more than ever now. It's like night and day. One week I don't exist, now I look good, I seem happy, she wants to smile when she sees me. try to get that custody and child support stuff in writing. When she realises she actually has no chance with you, things are going to get very sour and angry in …
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:34 AM
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She agreed to put in the agreement that it would be solely her responsibility. Since I am not waiting until next year to sign, I will have to have it changed, but better that then not having anything from now until then.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:24 AM
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I should probably clarify; I don't regret having the surgery, I regret not telling her to do it as well. I grew up with 2 step siblings, and while they aren't quite the same, it caused a lot of problems. Our family vs yours, etc. I know I can make it better by being a good father, but avoiding any of that mess would have been nice.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:23 AM
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You have kids. You're both going to date other people. Are you going to bring your date home and watch your son/daughter ask the mother who that lady is? This is something we talk about a lot. So far I have told her that my kids have the only father they will ever need. There is no reason for anyone to be brought around the house right now, and by the time either if us should be contemplating introducing someone to our kids, I plan to be moved out. If you think the marriage can be saved, work on…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 04:01 AM
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I know my wife will try to teach my sons how to be 'the nice guy'. However, I know I can give them the red pill at an early age, and enough freedom to think for themselves, so they can sort the Bullshit from the truth. Hopefully you can teach your daughter to also think for herself. This world needs more Red Pill females as badly as red pill males.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 11:21 PM
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Separate as soon as possible. Live separately. This seems like such a mixed bag as far as TRP is concerned. On one hand, I can't move forward and improve myself if I stay and move to a lesser station. On the other hand, moving out means I basically forfeit the house. Best scenario would be to kick her out I suppose. The fact that you're in the military will work against you. It's so right, and I hate it so much. Good luck. Thank you, I am feeling better and more prepared about the scenario every…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 09:56 PM
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radio shack has "var" voice activated recorders No Radio Shacks in Canada, only The Source. Coincidentally, that's where she works >:|
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:15 PM
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I don't think you really need to trust her on anything, anyway. Type up an agreement on child custody, and division of assets and debts... find a notary, sign it... then take it to your local municipality and file it. There's red tape to cut through, having the proper forms, having everything in the right order... but I thought it was relatively painless. This was what I was hoping I could do. Simple, painless, efficient. And if we are civil now, but not in 2 months or so, it won't matter. Saved…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:37 PM
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Did you have any kids / assets you had to split? Or did you just agree to everything and then write it down on paper? This is the route I am hoping to take. I know a lot of TRPer's find it hard to trust women with anything, but if something like this is possible, it seems my best bet.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:15 PM
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You seem to be under some delusions. Understand that divorce is war. It is 'all in' or nothing. This woman you describe is screaming to be led and does not want to get divorced I thought so too. Having only swallowed the pill, I feel I am not picking up on most of the signs still. However, she has claimed that she thinks I am still attractive, but no longer has and sexual desires for me. When we tried last night she froze up and withdrew, so I didn't push it. -YOU DON'T LIVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE ANY…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:55 PM
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Make no mistake, I intend to separate myself from her entirely, emotionally, physically and financially. However, regardless of my feelings towards her as a wife, she is a good mother. And if I want my kids to grow up and be able to see me, then the best way (not the easiest), is to be as civil with her as possible. Also, my current situation is a stepping stone towards my end goal; Own my house, kids with me 50% or all the time, only time I need to see her is when she hands them over to me. Bes…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:32 PM
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I understand most of your points, and with a typical divorce I would agree. As much as I would love to just pack up and leave, I have 2 son's that she will always be a part of their life. I would rather have a difficult job co-parenting, then a simple life without them. I don't really care who is in her ass, as it no longer concerns me. We won't be sharing a bedroom, or even the same floor. Other then where my kids eat / sleep / play, we won't have any rooms in common. I have my own bathroom, li…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:22 PM
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Married 3 years this weds. 2 Kids together. House, car, joint Visa. I'm military, so she gets all my benefits as well.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 05:14 PM
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I think it also looks worse in the eyes of a court, if I move out right away. Staying might be easy, or it might not, but until everything is finalized I think it is probably the best choice.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 12:56 PM
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No. After the advice everyone was telling me, we talked and I made sure she knew I was done. Thinking about it from the perspective of it being someone else's marriage, and me offering them advice, made it pretty simple what I should do.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 12:55 PM
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We've only been married for a short time, we were together for a lot longer. I know that if we decide to, divorce will be my biggest priority. I don't see what good could ever come of waiting.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:10 PM
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This makes a lot of sense to me. It helps when I think about it, that by the time they will really remember anything, this phase won't be a part of it. They will grow up with the man I mean to be, not who I am right now.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:07 PM
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beyong tolerable for anybody with self respect You are probably right. I may be biased, because I have two sons involved, and I just want to do what is best for them. The obvious advice everyone is yelling at me is to divorce her. Better myself, and then I can be a good father to them. She obviously doesn't care about me, so this marriage is dead.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 09:03 PM
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Moving is the decision I am having the hardest time with. I guess depending on how tonight goes, and how things work out, it will become evident whether staying in the house or not is even an option. Regardless of how civil the divorce is, I am talking to a lawyer. I know I won't ever regret that.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 08:58 PM
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I think this is what I am having the hardest time with. Leaving her doesn't really do anything to my emotions right now, but not being able to put my kids in bed, or feed them breakfast. Even change them, is fucking with me in ways I didn't think possible.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 07:36 PM
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She does not and will not desire you again It was an eye opener last night when she finally admitted that. I want to think I didn't break frame, but I probably did. That was the biggest slap in the face, and is probably the biggest fact that this won't work out. Except your two sons. Stay active in their life, fight for them This is the only thing I will always do. It really sucks having a military career, since if she wanted to go to court for custody, I wouldn't stand a chance. But I would rat…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:24 PM
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If you had caught this a year ago, maybe you could salvage it. As much as I wish I had caught it back then, the more I think about it, and the more I see her as another woman and not my wife, I realize how much of a Beta I had been, how much better I will do after this. She has her alpha to fuck.... and you're the beta bucks. I mean, damn dude. I remember my hamster when we first decided on the 'open' relationship : "Guilt free sex? Sign me up!". Obviously I was short-sighted and I was only thin…
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:18 PM
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Well fuck. I just swallowed the pill 2 weeks ago. I'm still sorting everything out; building my frame, maintaining boundaries, trying to be a better me. About a week prior to that, my wife and I decided to start an open relationship. We have ground rules, and so far it has been working out for both of us; she has a steady once a week FB, and I've had 2 ONS. At the end of this month I will be in a different city (population 10x) then her during the week, for the next 6 months. The problem is, we …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 12:29 PM
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I couldn't care less if you believe me or not. This is asktrp, not 2x. I don't need useless info here.
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